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Can Girls And Boys Be Friends?2. Love Languages"If we’re in bed together I can’t not put my leg on you. A bit of me has to be touching you. I just love touching."
Pt.2 of our 4 part 'Love Mini-Series', and we are chatting about love languages. Essentially how we love and see love can be slotted into 4 different categories, and we are about to unmask them all!!
Basically, we think this is super important knowledge to have about yourself and the people that you love, it'll help you connect deeper with friends and partners...and just have a LOVEly (...) time!
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2021-06-1015 minCan Girls And Boys Be Friends?WTF Is Love?In the first instalment of our four-part 'Love Mini-Series', we discuss what love ACTUALLY is (and no...we don't mean the film.)
We get into the dictionary definition and whether or not we believe this is authentic, the difference between 'adult' and 'childish' love, and of course our own experiences with love!
Oh and let's not forgot the four letter word that love goes hand in hand with...fear.
We'd love to hear your love stories, so send us some love letters ay @cangirlsandboysbefriends
Lots of LOVE,
Talina & Angus xxx...
2021-06-0336 minCan Girls And Boys Be Friends?Texting Your Ex (and 22 songs)"We’re just friends now...3 months ago we were madly in love, but we’re just friends now."
It's the final episode of this season (we're sad too...but don't worry, we'll be back in a month or so), and we wanted to make life a little difficult for ourselves. Not only are going to be chatting about the disaster that is texting your ex, we are also challenging ourselves to a little game...can we fit 22 song titles (that we've been listening to recently) into the episode...and get it to make sense?! At the bottom you...
2021-03-1922 minCan Girls And Boys Be Friends?The Ick"I just got the Ick...bye."
We've all experienced it, it's totally irrational, comes out of nowhere (we think), and can be utterly inconvenient at times. There's a lot of questions that need answering about the ick, and in this episode we do our best to answer them...
What makes people get the ick?
Is it always something physical?
Can you literally tell someone you have the ick?
Can you get the ick in a non-romantic way?
As per usual we would love to hear from you on our insta @cangirlsandboysbefriends - in particular, we'd be...
2021-03-1627 minCan Girls And Boys Be Friends?Sparkle Like Markle (Meghan Markle Appreciation Episode)"You can’t say someone doesn’t have mental health issues."
A little different from our usual content, but something we felt we really needed and wanted to address...Meghan Markle's interview with Oprah. Like many of you, we have some pretty strong opinions on this, as well as Piers Morgan, and how much of a TWAT he is. So, have a listen if you'd like to hear them.
We strongly support doing a Meghan Markle aka. valuing yourself and mental health enough to up and leave a room/situation/environment in which you authentic self...
2021-03-1223 minCan Girls And Boys Be Friends?Did You Know...?"Men tryna suck themselves off...I thought only Marilyn Manson did that?"
Gendered Secrets aka. things that men and women do, that only men know men do and only women know women do...
Some spoilers include: Girls shaving their toes, sending detailed voice notes about pooing, and getting condoms stuck up their vagina for DAYS. Men sticking lots of things up their bum holes, getting post-wank clarity, and soaping their balls.
P.s. this one is a BIG MILESTONE (kind of), with our very first 'studio audience'...enjoy!
Talina & Angus xo @cangir...
2021-03-0933 minCan Girls And Boys Be Friends?'Chamelionism'"If you’re not different you’re the same and the same is boring."
Bold, but true.
Do you dim yourself down, or alter yourself based on people around you and situations you find yourself in? Probably.
We all do it to some extent; women may dim down their intelligence in order to make a man feel less emasculated, men might pretend to be ignorant of certain things because it's more "cute." We have a lot to say on this...without actually saying a lot.
Have a listen, you'll know what we mean...
2021-03-0519 minCan Girls And Boys Be Friends?Hating (Dating) Apps"5ft2 and addicted to beans...she’d get a swipe"
Alright, so, we've been avoiding it, but here it is...an episode dedicated entirely to dating apps...
We discuss dating app etiquette, as well as why people go on dating apps, and whether or not it's different for men and women?
Now stop swiping and have a listen!
Love,
Angus & Talina x
P.s. We are keen to hear what your experiences have been like with various dating apps as well as what your gener...
2021-03-0222 minCan Girls And Boys Be Friends?Fuck The Kardashians"But anyway, fuck them. Fuck them hard."
TW: this episode contains conversation around eating disorders, which some people may find triggering.
Does what it says on the tin really...we're not into the Kardashians, and we are going to tell you exactly why.
Want some clues? Alright then...they've completely fed into eating disorders, and girls, in particular, having serious body confidence issues! On this episode we really get into this, delving into how bodies and the way society views bodies has changed over time, as well as discussing male insecurities around their bod...
2021-02-2621 minCan Girls And Boys Be Friends?Bus Stops, Bars, and Bikinis
What's the weirdest place you've been chatted up? At work? On the street? What about a graveyard in Essex whilst horses are rampaging round a car park?!
In this episode we discuss being chatted up, how to chat up others, and how to work out if someone is chatting YOU up or just being friendly (which can be really hard to tell sometimes).
As always, we'd love to hear from you - follow our Instagram @cangirlsandboysbefriends and let us know in our DMs.
Love Talina and Angus x
2021-02-1923 minCan Girls And Boys Be Friends?Do You Sleep With Socks On?"Sticky balls are not cute when they’re stuck to your back."
...Do you?
...Is it weird? Probably.
We're getting into the depths of a very underrated topic (according to Talina)... What do you wear to go to sleep, based on who you're sleeping with (and no, we don't always mean in a sexual sense)?
If you've got any 'out of the ordinary' sleeping habits then let us know at @cangirlsandboysbefriends.
P.S. those of you who've got a problem with feet...this one isn't for you.
2021-02-1615 minCan Girls And Boys Be Friends?Walls To BuildRemoving walls and setting boundaries...
In this episode we discuss why we build walls and the effect they have on our mental wellbeing and progress. We delve into the difference between creating walls and setting boundaries, and discuss some of our own.
We would love to hear some different perspectives on this and see what you lot think when it comes to wall building and all that jazz, so if you're up for sharing drop us a message on our Instagram @cangirlsandboysbefriends
Enjoy!
Talina & Angus
2021-02-1228 minCan Girls And Boys Be Friends?Beards vs Make-UpMen vs Women.
Beards vs Make-up.
Turn-ons vs Turn-offs.
Need we say more?
2021-02-0923 minCan Girls And Boys Be Friends?Is Cheating Inevitable?"There's no sex like a 'woman-having-a-one-night-stand-while-cheating-on-her-partner' sex."
Why do people cheat? It's an age old question which no-one really knows the answer to. We discuss the reason why men and women cheat, who cheats more and the likelihood that you yourself have been cheated on.
Follow our Instagram (@cangirlsandboysbefriends) and share your cheating stories with us!
2020-12-2222 minCan Girls And Boys Be Friends?Nudes"We don't want to see your flaps."
There is a certain art when it comes to taking nudes which some people unfortunately have not mastered.
We discuss the best way to take nudes, the right time to send them and what definitely NOT to do.
Follow our Insta (@cangirlsandboysbefriends) and share your nude stories with us!
2020-12-1814 minCan Girls And Boys Be Friends?Should You Set Up Your Mates?Question: Should you set up your friends with each other?
Answer: Fuck no. 10/10 would not recommend to a friend.
2020-12-1519 minCan Girls And Boys Be Friends?How Many Is Too Many (Sexual Partners)?When it comes to promiscuity, everyone has an opinion.
This week, Talina and Angus discuss the differing female and male opinions of those who sleep with a lot of people, as well as asking the following questions:
- Why does society consider men who sleep around to be 'players' but women to be 'sluts'?
- Are booty calls socially acceptable?
- Why do some women seem intent on keeping their 'numbers' low, when men seem to want to do the opposite?
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2020-12-1134 minCan Girls And Boys Be Friends?Cum CultureWhy does sex always seem to be centred around male ejaculation? Expect some DEEP conversation around the speed at which it's considered appropriate to cum, how women can feel more confident about expressing what they want, and the pressures around sexual performance in general.
DISCLAIMER: The word "cum" is mentioned approx 3,000 times in this episode.
2020-12-0325 minCan Girls And Boys Be Friends?So, Can They?We answer the age old question that no-one ever asks - can girls and boys be JUST friends...?
Follow our Insta (@cangirlsandboysbefriends) and let us know what you think.
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