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The Smart Divorce PodcastNavigating divorce with SEND childrenSend us a textThe Smart Divorce Podcast has joined forces with Stowe Talks Podcast for this special collaborative episode! We are delighted to be joined by special guest Rhiannon Gogh, who is a SEND specialist financial planner. This is an area I am asked about more and more. It was great to have Matt Taylor, host of Stowe Talks, with us to answer the legal questions when it comes to ensuring that SEND families have the help they need. Rhiannon Gogh FPFSRhiannon Gogh is an award-winning Chartered Financial Planner, a...2025-07-1142 min
The Smart Divorce PodcastHow to help children by getting therapy yourselfSend us a text"Just because you're going for therapy doesn't mean there's something wrong with you. It means you're trying to do something good for yourself." Tamsin & and our guest Helen Stuart discuss how therapy can transform co-parenting after divorce.Helen StuartHelen has always advocated for good mental health, and vocalised the importance of ease of access to mental health support throughout her career. This has seen her working across community, outreach, counselling and domestic abuse prevention roles. Now Helen brings her wealth of knowledge, managerial experience through TLC...2025-07-0433 min
The Smart Divorce PodcastHow do you coparent (maybe even if the other parent doesn't want to)?Send us a textHow do you work together with someone you may no longer like, trust, or even want to speak to? This question sits at the heart of co-parenting after separation, and our guest Marcy Shaoul brings both personal experience and professional expertise to this challenging terrain.Marcie ShaoulMarcie is a trailblazer in co-parenting. She’s the founder of the award-winning The Co-Parent Way and author of The Co-Parenting Method: Six Steps to Raise Happy Kids After Separation and Divorce (Penguin, 2025). In 2016, she launched the UK’s first dedi...2025-06-2039 min
The Smart Divorce PodcastShould we consider therapy for our children?Send us a textHelen Stewart, Managing Director of Now You're Talking, shares how therapy can support children through parental separation and divorce, drawing from both professional expertise and personal experience.Helen StuartHelen has always advocated for good mental health, and vocalised the importance of ease of access to mental health support throughout her career. This has seen her working across community, outreach, counselling and domestic abuse prevention roles. Now Helen brings her wealth of knowledge, managerial experience through TLC: Talk, Listen, Change, and personal connections to mental health to...2025-06-1329 min
The Smart Divorce PodcastDomestic Abuse - How technology is being used to abuseSend us a textYour ex always seems one step ahead in divorce negotiations? They might be digitally spying on you. From email forwarding to WhatsApp monitoring—learn how abusers exploit technology and what you can do about it. In this episode, Tamsin is joined by Danny Franks, a cyber security expert to discuss the issues and how to protect yourself.Danny FranksDanny Franks, also known as "Danny the I.T. Man," is an experienced executive with the ability for helping people. He kicked off his entrepreneurial journey in 2002 by st...2025-04-0430 min
The Smart Divorce PodcastDomestic Abuse - Using a Divorce TeamSend us a textThis week family solicitor Karen Gray and divorce coach Sarah Steele join Tamsin to share their expertise on supporting domestic abuse survivors through divorce and separation, highlighting the vital importance of emotional support alongside legal guidance.Sarah SteeleSarah is an Accredited Breakup and Divorce Master Practitioner, ICF life Coach and NLP Practitioner. Sarah supports men and women navigate the emotional and practical complexities of their breakup or divorce. She specialises in supporting both men and women in abusive relationships, helping her clients to rebuild their resilience, confidence, effectively...2025-03-2145 min
The Smart Divorce PodcastDomestic Abuse - Survivor Turned AdvocateSend us a textTRIGGER WARNINGAre you aware of the signs of domestic abuse? Join me on a powerful journey as I speak with Samantha Billingham, a survivor turned advocate who shares her harrowing experience with coercive control and emotion-driven manipulation. This episode goes deep into identifying red flags, understanding the psychological impacts of abuse, and the difficult yet courageous process of leaving an abusive relationship.===Samantha BillinghamSamantha Billingham is the founder of Stronger Beginnings and we provide bespoke training for businesses and professionals...2025-03-0749 min
The Smart Divorce PodcastDomestic Abuse - Dealing with the Court ProcessSend us a textFacing a divorce with a partner exhibiting narcissistic traits? Tamsin and Rachel Ward walk through the challenging legal landscape and emphasise the necessity of a competent legal and emotional support team. Rachel and I share insights into the high thresholds required to establish conduct cases and discuss the emotional and financial burdens these impose on victims.This episode is a follow-up to last week's blog "Surviving Divorce from a narcissist"Rachel WardRachel is a solicitor based in Hill Dickinson Solicitors Manchester Office but represents clients globally...2025-02-2148 min
The Smart Divorce PodcastDomestic Abuse - How your local support services can help youSend us a textUnlock the secrets to empowering survivors of domestic abuse as we chat with our guest Sam Fisher, the inspiring CEO of Trafford Domestic Abuse Service (TDAS). Through her personal experiences, we shed light on how TDAS supports not only Trafford residents but also those connected through work or schooling, offering crucial services under the Domestic Abuse Act. Samantha Fisher, CEO, Trafford Domestic Abuse ServiceSamantha is currently the CEO of Trafford Domestic Abuse Services (TDAS) and has dedicated her career to the voluntary sector since 2007. She holds a...2025-02-0739 min
The Smart Divorce PodcastDomestic Abuse - How might mediation workSend us a textJoin us for an insightful exploration of whether mediation can be appropriate for cases where domestic abuse is present as we welcome our guest, family lawyer and accredited mediator Elaine Richardson, who has a wealth of experience as a trauma-informed lawyer. Gain a deeper understanding of how psychological, economic, sexual, and physical abuses manifest, and learn effective strategies to support victim survivors through these challenging circumstances.Elaine RichardsonI am a family law solicitor, collaborative lawyer and accredited child inclusive Hybrid mediator. I supervise other mediators as t...2025-01-2445 min
The Smart Divorce PodcastDomestic Abuse - Post Separation Abuse and How to Find HelpSend us a textOur guest is Lucy Wade, the force behind "You Don't Own Me" and host of "Dip In and Out with Lucy." We uncover the often hidden struggle of post-separation abuse. Lucy's insights equip listeners with strategies to confront the ongoing control and manipulation many face during the divorce process, unveiling the harsh reality of financial and legal tactics used by abusers to maintain their grip.Lucy WadeLucy is the creator of ydom.co.uk and host of the Podcast, DIP in and out with Lucy CIC...2025-01-1044 min
The Smart Divorce PodcastDomestic Abuse - Support from your EmployerSend us a textSusan Bright, CEO of the Employers Initiative on Domestic Abuse (EIDA) joins Tamsin to explore the crucial intersection of domestic abuse and the workplace. Gain valuable insights as Susan discusses her mission to guide and educate employers on this sensitive issue.Susan BrightCEO, Employers’ Initiative on Domestic Abuse (“EIDA”)Susan Bright joined EIDA as CEO in 2022. EIDA is a charity with a member network of over 1,700 employers across the UK that are committed to providing effective support for their employees impacted by domestic abuse. Previously Susan wa...2024-12-1942 min
The Smart Divorce PodcastDomestic Abuse IDVAs - What Are They and How Do They Support SurvivorsSend us a textCaron Kipping, a renowned expert, private IDVA and divorce coach in the field of domestic abuse, joins Tamsin to shed light on a critical issue that affects many lives. Throughout their conversation, Caron shares her invaluable insights on the role of Independent Domestic Violence Advocates (IDVAs) and how they collaborate with various agencies to support high-risk survivors.Caron KippingCaron Kipping is based in South Buckinghamshire – Author of ‘Recognition to Recovery – How to leave your abusive partner behind for good!’ she is a survivor of domestic abuse, has work...2024-12-0651 min
The Smart Divorce PodcastDomestic Abuse - Power Imbalances and How to Manage Them in DivorceSend us a textUnlock the secrets to navigating the often complex and challenging terrain of divorce with insights from our esteemed guest, Ceri Griffiths, a divorce financial planner. Discover how power imbalances, especially when one partner possesses greater financial knowledge or negotiation skills, can create significant disadvantages during divorce. Ceri provides invaluable tips on recognizing these imbalances and offers strategies to equip both parties with the tools needed to make informed decisions. Our discussion underscores the urgent need for legal systems to evolve and address economic abuse and coercive control, with a sneak peek into an...2024-11-2252 min
The Smart Divorce PodcastDomestic Abuse - Divorce and The Legal SystemSend us a textOlivia PiercyOlivia is a solicitor specialising in all aspects of family law and a Partner at Hunters Law LLP. She provides holistic family law advice on both the child and finance aspects of family breakdown for married and cohabiting couples. She has particular expertise in cases with complex children law issues including child abduction and child protection.Olivia’s passion lies in domestic abuse protection and she is an activist and campaigner in that field. She previously worked at domestic abuse charity Rights of Women and ha...2024-11-0147 min
The Smart Divorce PodcastDomestic Abuse - A Victim Survivor's StorySend us a textTRIGGER WARNING. In the first episode, I speak to Rachel, who is currently navigating divorce from a partner who was abusive and continues to be so post separation. This is an incredibly brave conversation. We’re so grateful to be able to share Rachel’s story.Tamsin CaineTamsin is a Chartered Financial Planner with over 20 years experience. She works with couples and individuals who are at the end of a relationship and want agree how to divide their assets FAIRLY without a fight.You can...2024-10-1845 min
The Smart Divorce PodcastPensions on Divorce - Update from an actuarySend us a textUnlock the secrets to fair pension sharing in divorce with expert Richard Nobbs! Learn how to simplify the process with the new PAG 2 report. Don't miss this essential episode! Richard NobbsRichard is an actuary and the owner and a director of Excalibur Actuaries Limited, one of the leading pensions on divorce expert firms, with a team of over 20 including 6 actuaries. He is a member of the Pensions Advisory Group – colloquially known as PAG, comprising judges, barristers, solicitors and pension experts and who have provided extensive guidance on...2024-10-0349 min
The Smart Divorce PodcastDivorce Involving Children or Spouses with SENDSend us a textTamsin Caine is joined by Nicola Bright on our latest podcast episode - they dive into the complexities of divorce involving special needs and disabilities. They discuss child and financial arrangements in these challenging circumstances.Nichola BrightNichola has been practising family law since 2008 and has worked at highly regarded practices in Cheshire and Lancashire. Nichola joined Myerson in 2012 and is now a Partner at the firm.Nichola advises on a wide range of family matters, including divorce and high net-worth financial settlements, separation, co-habitation...2024-09-2039 min
The Smart Divorce PodcastCoparenting - a Real Life ViewSend us a textTamsin is joined by Catherine & Andy Morgan as they discuss how to turn divorce challenges into a supportive co-parenting partnership and how to create a stable, loving environment for their kids.Tamsin CaineTamsin is a Chartered Financial Planner with over 20 years experience. She works with couples and individuals who are at the end of a relationship and want agree how to divide their assets FAIRLY without a fight.You can contact Tamsin at tamsin@smartdivorce.co.uk or arrange a free initial meeting using...2024-09-0645 min
The Smart Divorce PodcastCohabitation and the potential law changesSend us a textGraeme FraserGraeme is Head of Family at William Sturges and has specialised in family law for over 25 years. He has considerable experience in advising on financial settlements involving complex assets and substantial wealth. His practice covers divorce, financial settlements involving complicated assets and substantial wealth, children issues, marital agreements, cohabitation, intervenors, insolvency-related settlements, European Family law, relationship breakdowns, tax rules on divorce, use of experts, corporate and family law strategic advice and multi-ethnic law.Graeme is well-known in the legal community through thought leadership, committee work, training...2024-08-1638 min
The Smart Divorce PodcastA week in the life of a Mediator and SupervisorSend us a textIn this episode, Tamsin is joined by Elaine Richardson, who is a family lawyer and mediator, to talk about her work and what she gets up to when she’s not with clients.Elaine Richardson"I am a family law solicitor, collaborative lawyer and accredited child inclusive Hybrid mediator. I supervise other mediators as their Professional Practice Consultant (PPC) and I supervise family lawyers as their Family Law Supervisor. I am a trainer and presenter specialising in domestic abuse, safeguarding, trauma and high conflict. I run my own b...2024-08-0243 min
The Smart Divorce PodcastA Week in the Life of a Divorce ConsultantSend us a textLaura RosefieldLaura says: "I always try to make sure that my clients can see the glimmer of promise at what the future holds. They know I will be by their side to help them put the building blocks in place to get there and at any time after the legal process is over. I will make sure that they have access to any specialist help they need. From my own experience, clients can see that there is light at the end of the darkness.”Member of Resolution...2024-07-1244 min
The Smart Divorce PodcastA week in the life of a Relationship TherapistSend us a text..In this episode, Tamsin explores the work of relationship therapist Adele Ballatyne. If you are interested in working with a therapist post separation, or even if you are considering separation, this episode is a must listen, as we explore how Adele works both in and out of her client sessions.Adele BallantyneI have experience in helping a wide variety of individuals, couples and families. My consultancy work with organisations includes contracts with hospitals, NHS Trust departments and corporate organisations. During the past eight years, I h...2024-07-0547 min
The Smart Divorce PodcastThe new rules to keep your divorce out of courtSend us a textIn this episode, Tamsin discusses with Karin Walker the new Family Procedure Rules, from 29th April 2024, being implemented to keep more couples out of court and using the wide range of non-court dispute resolution options to agree their financial settlement. Karin is not only a family solicitor but also a mediator, collaborative lawyer and arbitrator.Karin WalkerKarin Walker is a family lawyer, based in Woking, Surrey. She is a solicitor, mediator, collaborative practitioner, neutral evaluator, and arbitrator. Having previously been a partner in a la...2024-06-2141 min
The Smart Divorce PodcastA week in the life of a Financial Planner and Financial NeutralSend us a textSteven Hennessy began his career in financial advice in 1998. He has extensive experience advising individuals and families on all aspects of personal wealth, including pensions, investments, financial lifestyle planning, portfolio construction, retirement strategies, and estate planning.He is one of a small minority of financial advisers in the UK to have achieved both Chartered Financial Planner status, and Certified Financial Plannercm status.He is a Resolution Accredited Specialist Financial Adviser, abiding by the Resolution Code of Practice for families going through divorce, and assesses the knowledge and competence of...2024-06-0745 min