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Finding Love in the Chaos of LifeLife's Purpose - Season FinaleWelcome to the highly anticipated season 1 finale of Finding Love in the Chaos of Life. This episode marks the culmination of our #DaretoBeLove Journey, delving into the final topic: LIFES' PURPOSE.LIFE'S PURPOSE is the final topic within STEP 4: HOW TO CONNECT WITH ALL OTHERS. This is the final step to healing and letting go.In this episode, we discuss the importance of connecting to and with our SPIRIT/SELF, the part of us that only knows Love, allowing us to organically connect with Universal Wisdom/God/Source and live a life of present-moment Joy.
2024-06-0534 minFinding Love in the Chaos of LifeSelf-Love Beyond the Ego’s LimitationsIn this episode of Finding Love in the Chaos of Life, Jacqui and Tanagh unpack the 9th topic of the #DaretoBeLove Journey: SELF-LOVE. SELF-LOVE, a topic that’s gaining increasing popularity, is not just a vanity project. It is a profound process of accessing full connection with our individual Spirit to connect with the Spiritual essence that resides in all others, allowing us to see and feel that we are united as Universal Spirit. SELF-LOVE is the first topic within STEP 4, the final step of the #DaretoBeLove Journey – HOW TO CONNECT WITH ALL OTHERS. In...
2024-04-2932 minFinding Love in the Chaos of LifeDo You Know and Trust Your Intrinsic Value?Jacqui and Tanagh dissect the 8th topic of the #DaretoBeLove Journey: INTRINSIC VALUE.INTRINSIC VALUE is the second topic within STEP 3 of the #DaretoBeLove Journey – HOW TO LOVE YOURSELF. This topic is the final element of self, namely, your Soul. Here, we work on stepping out from the fear of our Shadow as we examine our behaviours and habitual reactions. What is your intrinsic value, what does intrinsic value mean, and how is intrinsic value related to True Will?Jacqui and Tanagh shed light on these questions while sharing their personal stories of fin...
2024-03-2427 minFinding Love in the Chaos of LifeThe Power of AcceptanceGuest: Monika Polefka-ProulxJacqui interviews Author, Publisher, and Coach Monika Polefka-Proulx in this episode of Finding Love in the Chaos of Life.Monika shares her family's personal experiences of helping their daughter, who was struggling with addictive behaviours, depression, self-harm, etc and their valuable lessons about resilience, growth, and the power of unconditional Love.They have discovered not only how to overcome these challenges but also how to build stronger bonds. The family hopes to inspire and uplift others facing similar circumstances by sharing their story.Jacqui and Monika unpack the...
2024-03-0343 minFinding Love in the Chaos of LifeHow True Will Fosters LoveTRUE WILL is the 7th topic of the #DaretoBeLove Journey and the 1st topic of STEP 3: HOW TO LOVE YOURSELF. We will be working on stepping beyond the fear of our Shadows.True Will is a crucial step when trying to foster and open to Being Love, especially when attempting to do this in the face or presence of another. True Will comes from the heart; it is a vulnerable yet courageous space where our individual perspective and truth can be present alongside that of another. For example: When in an altercation with another, at w...
2024-02-1530 minFinding Love in the Chaos of LifeWhat is Your Truth?Jacqui and Tanagh dive into the 6th topic of the #DaretoBeLove Journey: TRUTH. Truth is the 3rd and final topic of Step 2: How to ACCEPT Yourself, where we work on silencing the unhealthy ego by looking at our mind’s thoughts.Accepting and making peace with our individual truth while acknowledging that another’s truth may be different to ours is a practice and patience that requires us to look at our thoughts, words, and behaviours objectively. We all experience life differently from any other person, thus shaping our reality and view of the world throu...
2024-01-3125 minFinding Love in the Chaos of LifeAcceptance Simply Means Not Giving Your Peace AwayJoin Jacqui and Tanagh as they unpack the 5th topic of the #DaretoBeLove Journey: ACCEPTANCE.Acceptance is the 2nd topic in Step 2: How to ACCEPT Yourself, where we work on silencing the unhealthy ego by looking at our mind’s thoughts. Acceptance can be hard, as being willing to accept ‘what is’ while figuring out how much control we have and surrendering to what we can’t control can be challenging. The unhealthy ego does not like the lack of control, while the healthy ego embraces surrender. By fully accepting present moment reality, despite any internal...
2023-12-0725 minFinding Love in the Chaos of LifeYou Are Enough: Embracing Your JourneyGuest: Kenny ArcherWe’ve all heard the saying ‘the only thing holding you back is yourself.’ Jacqui and Tanagh unpack the limiting belief behind this saying with Kenny Archer, founder of Archer Inspirations.Kenny shares his Dare to Be Love story of unpacking and rewriting a limiting belief. From an early age, Kenny was battling to prove his worth in a traditional schooling system and with his family. When nothing seemed good enough for the people around him, Kenny formed the limiting belief that he was ‘not good enough’. This limiting belief silently f...
2023-11-2137 minFinding Love in the Chaos of LifeBeyond MindfulnessWhat is mindfulness, and is mindfulness enough? Jacqui and Tanagh unpack how to use mindfulness in our everyday lives as a tool for self-awareness, and then use this awareness to first infuse our beliefs with Love, thereby being able to bring and Be Love with all that we think, say and do. Mindfulness is a fast-growing practice. We take a look at how to utilise this practice in stepping into a Spirit-led life, and how the ego can sometimes trick us into believing that mindfulness on its own can be enough.
2023-11-0115 minFinding Love in the Chaos of LifeCultivating the Willingness to Learn and Change Your PerspectiveGuest: Francois JacobsNote: We apologize for the poor quality of this recording, but felt due to it's authenticity that it needed to be posted just as it is.Francios Jacobs, from Franschhoek, South Africa, shares how, with humble beginnings, he became a wine host in ‘The Wine Studio’ at the esteemed farm Mullineux & Leeu and found a love for the art of winemaking.Francios grew up on Simonsig Wine Estate, with his grandmother working in the vineyards and his mother in the cellars. While Francios dreamed of becoming a lawyer after leaving scho...
2023-10-1022 minFinding Love in the Chaos of LifeDon’t Just Survive, Thrive!Guest: Marli Du ToitBreast cancer survivor (thriver) and Reach for Recovery SA ambassador Marli Du Toit, from Cape Town, South Africa, shares her #DaretoBeLove story. Shortly after turning 40 and amid the COVID-19 pandemic, Marli faced a magnitude of challenges: divorce, job loss, breast cancer and isolation. In this episode, Marli vulnerably shares her courageous story of Finding Love in the Chaos of her life while undergoing breast cancer treatment during a pandemic, while navigating motherhood and job loss. Now cancer-free, Marli has embarked on a journey of self-evolution and rediscovery, moving from...
2023-09-2641 minFinding Love in the Chaos of LifePain: Why Pushing it Away Only Hurts Us MoreTrigger warnings (TW): Eating Disorders (ED), PTSD and Anxiety. Jacqui and Tanagh dive into the first topic of the second step of the #DaretoBeLove journey: PAIN In step 2 of the #DaretoBeLove journey, we move into the second element of the Four Elements of Self: The Mind. Here, we practice accepting ourselves through silencing our inner critic to process pain by looking deeply into our thoughts.Pain, be it mental, emotional or physical, is an emotion many of us prefer to avoid, sometimes at all costs. However, pain is perfectly natural, something we all fe...
2023-09-1932 minFinding Love in the Chaos of LifeForgive Yourself for Wanting a Different ExperienceJoin Jacqui and Tanagh as they unpack the third step of the #DaretoBeLove Journey: Forgiveness. From an early age, most of us are taught that forgiving others is the ‘right’ thing to do. While we don’t oppose this notion, an even deeper step is necessary to heal from a situation where we feel wrong-done by. This step requires Forgiving Yourself for Wanting a Different Experience. This way, we can own the experience, celebrate the wisdom it affords us, grow and heal.Sometimes, terrible things happen to us at the hands of oth...
2023-09-1137 minFinding Love in the Chaos of LifeThe Art of Resilience and DeterminationGuest: George TaylorGeorge Taylor, from London UK, shares his #DaretoBeLove story of courage, resilience and determination. Ever since he was a teenager, George dreamed of becoming a successful musician and making a name for himself in the musical world after picking up his first guitar in high school. With natural talent and a strong work ethic, George achieved relative success, but then everything fell apart. His association with music moved from love to pain.After laying the guitar down for over 15 years and building a successful career in media and publishing, his...
2023-08-2939 minFinding Love in the Chaos of LifeA Prayer for LoveA Prayer for Love was gifted through Jacqui, from Universal Wisdom, for her to transcribe and share. It is a simple Prayer that easily connects us to the 4 elements of Self, where we can ask for the wisdom, grace and courage for our mind, soul, body and Spirit to be infused with Love for Self and others. Join Jacqui and Tanagh as they share this prayer while unpacking each verse and its meaning. Jacqui shares how this prayer, as well as how her poetry, comes through her from Universal Wisdom, and how Ruth Stone’s story of ‘catc...
2023-08-1629 minFinding Love in the Chaos of LifeDo the Prolonged Effects of PTSD Exacerbate the Saviour Mentality?Guest: Tracey WatkinsTrigger warning: NDAs, Hijacking and Burnout.Tracey Watkins shares her #DaretoBeLove story with us and questions if the prolonged effects of PTSD exacerbate the Saviour Mentality. Tracey faced anger after multiple traumas, a car accident, a near-death experience, and a hijacking with her two young children. Her anger took over when people told her, 'At least you are all ok’. Not knowing how to process these emotions, Tracey struggled with depression, anxiety and PTSD.Devoting herself to her work, students and community, Tracey forgot to fill her cup, le...
2023-08-0239 minFinding Love in the Chaos of LifeSelf-Help Limitations and the Importance of Integration: Q&A with OsasGuest: Osarueme OsazeeIn this week’s episode, Osarueme (Osas) Osazee, from Indiana USA, questions the limitation of self-help practices and the important step before self-help, knowing that we are Spirit alongside body, mind and soul. Osas challenges Jacqui and Tanagh with various #DaretoAsk questions around the topic of self-help:1. How to approach self-help work.2. How to practice self-help methods from an integrated space of Spirit.3. Why integrating your Spirit into your body, mind and soul self -help practices is so important.Jacqui and Tanagh share their experiences and opinions on...
2023-07-2531 minFinding Love in the Chaos of LifeYour Soul VS Your SpiritTHE STEP BEFORE SELF-HELP: Meet Your Spirit beyond your body, mind and soul.As human beings of body, mind, soul and Spirit, we all have the ability to fully access Universal Wisdom. However, without a connection to our Individual Spirit, our inner and outer self-work is merely an ego narrative from the lower levels of self in body, mind and soul. Integrating Your Spirit in body, mind and soul allows you to access the courage and compassion required to question the quality and structure of your beliefs. Working with your Spirit allows you...
2023-07-1832 minFinding Love in the Chaos of LifeLet Your Suffering Be The Catalyst of Your ChangeGuest: Yoda Olinyk from Ontario, Canada.Yoda thought she had it all: Opening a restaurant in Canada, which quickly became successful, each day she come home to the house she owned and loved, a loving partner and their canine children. And then, a series of traumatic events hit her. Life as she knew it vanished in the blink of an eye. In her early 30s’ Yoda found herself sleeping on her father’s couch, in steep financial turmoil, facing addiction and other mental health complications, and running from a partner she thought she knew. Yoda shar...
2023-07-0346 minFinding Love in the Chaos of LifeGive Your Suffering a VoiceGuest: Harmony Kwiker from Colorado, USA.Trigger Warning: Eating Disorders (ED), Suicide Ideation (SI) and Near-Death Experiences (NDEs).Despite having wonderful parents, who worked as healers, Harmony experienced a NDE at the tender age of 5 months, causing her to suffer and influencing the person who she became. After another traumatic experience at age 4, Harmony started to feel unsafe in the world causing her to set aside her own suffering to accommodate the perspective of how others thought she should be in the world. Adopting the role of a shapeshifter, Harmony attracted abusive relationships...
2023-06-2040 minFinding Love in the Chaos of LifeSuffering: Proof that Converting Pain into Love is PossibleGuest: Osarueme OsazeeWe are excited to have Osarueme (Osas) Osazee, from Indiana USA, share his inspiring Be Love Story.His story of opening to compassion and Love left us speechless, moving us to Spirited tears.As an ICU nurse during the 2020 COVID-19 pandemic, Osas was surrounded by immense pain and suffering. Despite doing all he knew to treat and comfort his patients and their families through their suffering, Osas could not resist the feeling of helplessness. Osas started to suffer.With onsetting depression and PTSD, Osas turned to God/Christ...
2023-06-1226 minFinding Love in the Chaos of LifeSuffering: Does it Serve a Purpose?In this episode, Jacqui and Tanagh discuss the second Dare to Be Love Topic: SUFFERING. Witnessing and acknowledging our suffering allows us to SEE ourselves, freeing us from the unhealthy ego.Suffering is a chaotic time for any of us. It triggers the emotions that many of us often want to avoid or sometimes pretend not to exist. If we allow ourselves to open our story of suffering to the perspective of Love, we can then change our perspective and see that it gives us a beautiful opportunity to soften, heal and celebrate the painful experience.
2023-06-0637 minFinding Love in the Chaos of LifeCourage vs Bravery: What is the Difference and Why it MattersJacqui and Tanagh examine the essential differences between courage and bravery in this episode. BRAVERY is the heart of a Spiritual Warrior and sees us pushing through our fears, doubts and concerns, be it for ourselves or others, to complete a task even when the task is not aligned with our authentic selves. In contrast, COURAGE is the heart of a Spiritual Revolutionary where we meet a task from a space of Love and non-resistance, causing no harm to ourselves or others.With the courage of Love, we widen the gap between our trigger and...
2023-05-3028 minFinding Love in the Chaos of LifeChange: Feeling Fear is Natural, Letting it Stop You is a ChoiceGuest: Devina Sewsunker. In this week’s episode, our first guest, Devina Sewsunker, shares her story. From being crippled by her fear and anxiety of driving on highways, Devina shares how she accessed the courage to face her fear, find Love for her chaos and thrive.Being a confident driver for many years, Devina developed a fear of driving on highways after the birth of her two children. Not being able to predict the drivers’ movements around her, Devina fell into states of panic, leaving her stranded on the side of the Kwa-Zulu Natal highways, alone...
2023-05-2237 minFinding Love in the Chaos of LifeChange: How to Navigate the UnpredictableTrigger warning: Substance Abuse and Eating Disorders.Change is constant, making life unpredictable. All too often, change (natural, planned or unplanned) presents the unknown and triggers fear. This fear is natural, as our brain can perceive this unknown as a danger. However, there are tools and techniques we can adopt when faced with the challenges of change to help us move through the chaos to access courage and open our perspective to Love.In this week’s episode of Finding Love in the Chaos of Life, Jacqui and Tanagh dive into the first topic of th...
2023-05-1628 minFinding Love in the Chaos of LifeChange: Coming Out of the Spiritual ClosetHave you ever felt that a belief you grew up with, or the one your family and friends hold dear, no longer or never did, resonate with you? So have we. Change can be hard, but not following your intuition and a true resonance with Love/God can be more challenging. In today’s episode, we share one of our greatest challenges: Our individual journeys of questioning our childhood conservative Christian narratives and the resistance we faced along the way. At times, this left us feeling isolated and even fearful of sharing our questions and thoughts with tho...
2023-05-0930 minFinding Love in the Chaos of LifeThe Dare to Be Love Journey ExplainedWhat does Finding Love in the Chaos of Life mean? How do we open our perspective to Love to find enlightenment around a challenging story? What does it mean to Be a Being of Love with all we believe, think, say and do?In 2010, The Universe gifted Jacqui Burnett the Dare to Be Love Journey: a 4-step process that we can use to work through any situation we face in life, no matter how challenging it appears, to find inner peace. By working through this 4-step process of unpacking our beliefs, thoughts, behaviours and finally, our spoken...
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Finding Love in the Chaos of LifeWelcome to Finding Love in the Chaos of LifeThe path from spiritual awakening to enlightenment comes in many forms and can be overwhelming at first. Internal peace arrives through Finding Love in the Chaos of Life by working with your Individual Spirit, opening your access to Universal Wisdom as a Spiritual Revolutionary. Join hosts Jacqui Burnett and Tanagh-Jane Breytenbach for regular episodes as they unpack how to live a spirit-led life, gifting you the courage to challenge your perspective through the lens of Love. Keep up with gripping conversations on self-healing, relationship dynamics and mental and physical illnesses as together we shine love and light on our...
2023-04-0301 minFinding Love in the Chaos of LifeWhy Finding Love in the Chaos of Life Matters: Meet the HostsLet us introduce ourselves: we’re on a mission to help others lead a spirit-led life. There is no doubt about it, life is chaotic. But how we perceive and move through the chaos is the secret to finding inner peace. By accessing the courage to find Love in all situations, we can cultivate and manifest a joy filled life beyond our wildest dreams. Join us to find out how we do this, and how you too can transform your challenges into the gift of enlightenment and Be the Love that you wish to see in the world.
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