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Girl Stop TalkingWhat Would Tatum Do?! Birthday Recap116- This week’s episode is giving chaos, honesty, and birthday energy!I’m answering What Would Tatum Do? — ten hilarious (and slightly unhinged) scenarios my friends came up with to see if they could guess how I’d really react. I’m reading them for the first time on the podcast, so you’re getting my unfiltered, real-time reactions.You’ll also get clips from my birthday weekend — the hibachi dinner, confessional moments, and even a few bloopers at the end. So stick around, because it’s giving party meets podcast.And of course, I had t...
2025-10-2749 min
Girl Stop TalkingMy Summer Fling Is Giving Me The Ick109- This week’s episode of Girl Stop Talking is serving up chaos, honesty, and a whole lot of laughs. Tatum dives into the icks — those little turn-offs that can turn a summer fling from hot to not real quick. She shares her own list of “icks,” reads hilarious (and sometimes cringe-worthy) listener stories about summer flings gone wrong, and breaks down the most common red flag moments we’ve all ignored. From flip-flops on a first date to that infamous hot-and-cold energy, nothing is off-limits.On top of that, Tatum recaps her latest viral IG video...
2025-09-0853 minGirl Stop TalkingKeep Stimulating Yourself108- They dive into a jam-packed lineup of interviews, from sexologists to surgical professors, and everything in between — because, honestly, this one’s longer than usual! Here’s your minute-by-minute breakdown of the unfiltered magic:04:00-11:48: Michelle, Sexual Health Alliance(SHA) – leader in sexuality education, offering AASECT-approved training & certification programs in sex therapy, coaching, & counseling.11:49–15:08: Kerry from Tanga – Spill on intuitive sex toys and how they’re shaking things up.15:09–19:19: Jenna, Women’s Health & Gender Nurse Practitioner – Essential care insights and why she’s redefining the conversation. https://www.instagram.com/nursejennarae/19:20–25:38: Saundra Pelletier, champion of Phexxi (hormone-free, on-demand birth control) – Real...
2025-08-251h 22Girl Stop TalkingStimulate: Your Weekend Recap106- On this week’s episode, Chance and I are recapping our weekend in Nashville — from day one all the way through multiple nights out, including hanging at the bar with my dad, his curious questions about Chance’s life, and his thoughts on makeup, tiktok and going out with full glam.We also dive into the handful of people we met at the Stimulate event, plus all the details: the people, the afters, the setup, the breakdown, and everything that went down each day. From our hilarious run-ins with the Bach Bar cowboys to some very questi...
2025-08-121h 07Girl Stop TalkingA Girl, A Gay & Her Dad105- This week’s episode gives listeners a behind-the-scenes look at Tatum and Chance’s first 24 hours in Nashville — and trust us, it’s a wild ride.Tatum kicks things off with a fun and flirty intro on “Myths We Believed About Sex for Way Too Long,” setting the tone for a slightly different episode format. This one starts vlog-style before diving into all the juicy gossip — including how they almost missed their flight... twice.Tatum also shares what it was like bringing her dad along to the Stimulate sexual health and wellness event — yes, her actual dad j...
2025-08-0632 minGirl Stop TalkingProgressive Parenting & Co-Parenting Chaos103- This week’s episode is all about parenting — but make it progressive!Tatum dives into what progressive parenting means to her and how she’s used open, honest conversations to navigate those tricky early childhood years — including the uncomfortable (but necessary) talks about sex as her son has grown up.She also opens up about what it’s really like to be in a co-parenting relationship — how it shapes the dynamic, the child’s life, and, of course, the funny, chaotic moments that come with it. Throughout the episode, Tatum shares hilarious and heartfelt stories from l...
2025-07-2256 min
Girl Stop TalkingProgressive Parenting & Co-Parenting Chaos103- This week’s episode is all about parenting — but make it progressive!Tatum dives into what progressive parenting means to her and how she’s used open, honest conversations to navigate those tricky early childhood years — including the uncomfortable (but necessary) talks about sex as her son has grown up.She also opens up about what it’s really like to be in a co-parenting relationship — how it shapes the dynamic, the child’s life, and, of course, the funny, chaotic moments that come with it. Throughout the episode, Tatum shares hilarious and heartfelt stories from l...
2025-07-2256 minGirl Stop TalkingUnhinged Story Time102- Waiters, Fedex, and Bedroom Fears — Oh My!We’re back with an UNHINGED (and hilarious) catch-up 7 it's exactly what you needed! Tatum recaps Chance’s birthday dinner, including how their waiter fully committed to the bit, the unexpected gift that was opened at the table, and all the vibes of the night, pun intended.Then we dive into what we’ve been up to these past few months — and let’s just say, the stories do NOT disappoint. Chance spills about an exciting parking lot encounter with a FedEx driver who wanted a little… mid-day action...
2025-07-1448 minGirl Stop TalkingWho’s The “Crazy” Ex Now: A Guide to Accountability98- TRIGGER WARNING! THIS EPISODE CONTAINS DOMESTIC ABUSE. Hey, girl—welcome to my story!This week, I’m getting extra vulnerable and spilling all the tea on how I used these exact steps to break free from my most toxic relationship. And trust me... everything you’re about to hear? 100% facts. I seriously could not make this sh*t up if I tried!I'm opening up because I want you to know: you are allowed to change your story. If you’re not changing it, you’re choosing it—and girl, we are not choosing chaos anymor...
2025-04-2939 minGirl Stop TalkingAre We Dating The Same Guy?90- Girlfriends, we’re back! After three weeks of absolute chaos, Tatum and Chance are finally kicking back on the couch for some much-needed girl talk. We’re catching up on everything— dishing out the details on our exciting new ideas for the show, dropping some sneaky hints about our upcoming reality series on YouTube (yes, it’s happening!), and, of course, diving into our fashion, or much needed fashion. Plus, you know we're chatting about our love for the new season of Love Is Blind—debrief coming soon, because there’s a lot to unpack.And let’s talk a...
2025-02-1739 minGirl Stop Talking88- Pulling All Nighters & Adult SleepoversWe’re BACK, baby! It’s our second episode, but officially our first real yapping session—so buckle up!
Today, Chance and I are spilling all the tea on our wild nights out together… and trust me, we’ve got stories for days! From staying up till sunrise to, um… trying to hook up with guys in the bathroom—WAIT, WHAAAAT?! Yeah, you heard that right.
But it’s not just about the chaos (although, let’s be real, there’s a lot of that). We’re also diving into surface-level friendships and how they evolve as we grow, the...
2025-02-031h 00Girl Stop Talking87- BIG SURPRISE GIIRLLLLIt’s Monday, girl! And ooooh, do I have a surprise for you! On this week’s episode, the one and only Chance is BACK—yes, a fan favorite, if you will—and trust me, we have so much to talk about.
But don’t worry, we’re keeping it fun as always! We’re spicing things up with some juicy ‘Would You Rather’ questions and a wild round of ‘Never Have I Ever.’
And of course, we’re getting to know Chance on a whole new level... Why, you ask? Well, babe, you’ll just have to listen to fin...
2025-01-271h 04Girl Stop Talking86- The Change Starts With YOU! Ft. Coach ZoeAnother Monday, another dose of motivation giirlll!
This week, I’ve got an amazing guest joining me—Coach Zoe from Team OPTMZE—and we’re diving deep into our goals. That’s right, we’re not giving up just yet! And listen, if you haven’t exactly stuck to those New Year’s resolutions… it’s okay! We’ve got you covered with tips on how to set attainable goals that actually stick.
Let’s be real—we all struggle with keeping commitments to ourselves, but procrastination only drags things out and leaves us feeling like shit. That’s where Co...
2025-01-2043 minGirl Stop Talking85- What I Wish I Knew About S*xCongrats, you made it to the second Monday of the year! This week, we’re diving into the juicy world of New Year’s resolutions with a little twist. Ever heard of the “quitting day” theory? Don’t worry, we’re breaking it down and giving you tips on how to set goals that are actually doable.
But wait—this isn’t just your average goals episode. Oh no, we’re spicing things up by mixing in some real talk about sex—because, let’s be honest, it’s what we all wish we learned sooner. I asked you on Instagram t...
2025-01-1341 minGirl Stop Talking84- New Year, New EvolutionNew Year, Same ol' ME! To be so honest we're only 6 days in and I already feel SO behind, like I'm not doing enough... posting, creating content, dropping episodes on time etc. Does anyone else feel like they could be doing more?! Because same! The facts are... today is the FIRST Monday of the year! In my book it's the official first week of January, therefore we are not behind, and we're all going to set ourselves up for success TODAY! Today's episode we're catching up on life + the holidays. Then I'm going to give you 4 ways to set...
2025-01-0744 minGirl Stop TalkingHo's, Bro's & Different Area CodesEpisode 83(Holiday Edition)- Merry Christmas Eve Eve, and welcome to this weeks episode full of holiday tea. Let me tell you it is pipping HOT! We're discussing holiday pet peeves, drama and I sourced yours guys' best or worst holiday experiences, and I'm giving advice on it all. From postponing a break up until after the holidays, to exes reaching out for holiday hookups...while in other relationships. I'm divulging it all! Happy Holidays!
2024-12-2530 minGirl Stop TalkingRelationship Titles & Societal Expectations Ft. Joli HamiltonEP82- This weeks guest is Dr. Joli Hamilton is the relationship coach for couples who color outside the lines & founder of The Year of Opening. She is a research psychologist, TEDx speaker, best-selling author, and AASECT certified sex educator. Joli’s been featured in The New York Times, Vogue, Cosmo, and NPR.
Alright, so our conversation took a turn I totally didn’t see coming—but honestly, it was so good! We got into some juicy stuff, like personal relationships, Joli’s journey of leaving a marriage, and finding her way into a non-monogamous relationship. We even dove into tho...
2024-12-0959 minGirl Stop TalkingPrison Pals & Couch Salesmen(Episode 81)- Solo story time, plus a catch up on what's been going on the last couple of weeks! There's always something worth talking about, this week it's a story about how I became his pen pal with my ex in prison. Not once... but twice! Along with some uncomfortable DM's I've received over the last week or so.
Happy F*cking MONDAYYYYYY!
2024-12-0336 minGirl Stop TalkingListening To Your Intuition Ft. Cat MeyersEP80- In this week's episode, we delve into a conversation with Cat Meyer, the founder of Head South—a sexual wellness brand dedicated to body-safe lubricants. Our discussion transcends products and branding, exploring themes of creativity, intuition, and the pursuit of one's purpose. We also examine the significance of surrounding oneself with like-minded individuals and the origins of inspiration.
Throughout our conversation, Cat shares her experiences of overcoming challenges, such as embracing her identity as a queer Filipina American leader and maintaining the brand's mission and ethics amidst growth. Her story is a testament to the im...
2024-11-2553 minGirl Stop TalkingNGL- Anonymous QuestionsEP79- This week, I’m bringing you a fun, totally random solo episode to ease us back into the groove! I’ve got a stack of anonymous questions I pulled straight from Instagram—some serious, some super random, a few dating questions, and, of course, the juicy personal stuff. So, grab a drink, settle in, and let’s have some fun!
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2024-11-1830 minGirl Stop TalkingThe Cosmetic Gynecologist ft. Dr. Michael ReedDr. Michael Reed aka The Cosmetic Gyn is a leading board-certified cosmetic gynecologist with over 22 years of experience in women's sexual health. Dr. Reed's mission is to destigmatize sexual health services and normalize discussions about both sexual health and pleasure, empowering women in the process. As a board-certified OB/GYN, Dr. Reed understands the anatomical intricacies of genital plastic surgery and has an aesthetic eye for creating beautiful, natural-looking results. He listens to his patients’ needs and designs each procedure based on their unique anatomy and cosmetic desires. Patients choose Dr. Reed because of his exceptional surgical skills, unwavering profess...
2024-11-1143 minGirl Stop TalkingFeeling Lost in Life LatelyEpisode77- Giiirllll, today we're diving into the whirlwind that’s been my life these past few weeks. Picture this: a couple of ‘I'm too cool for you’ encounters with some interesting ladies—IYKYK! I’ve got the stories, and I’m spilling the tea.
Oh, and let’s not forget Halloween! I went full Patrick Star, and let’s just say... things got wild when my edibles kicked in and my social anxiety decided to join the party. It was a night to remember—or maybe one to slightly forget?
And, on a more serious note, I'm...
2024-11-0539 minGirl Stop TalkingCvnty Carnival ConfessionalEP76- GIIIIRLL, this is a MUST WATCH epsiode.
Get ready for the ultimate spill session at the Cvnty Carnival! My friends and I are dishing out all the juicy tea in today’s confessional episode. We basically turned the podcast into a party—so come vibe with us while we relive our totally degenerate (allegedly) teenage years. Think reality TV meets podcast meets rave, and honestly, it’s a whole vibe! Warning: we're serving up nonstop jokes, so don’t take us too seriously. Stick around as my friends roast my red flags, share sweet moments about our friendsh...
2024-10-2136 minGirl Stop TalkingBirthday Recap Ft. Amanda MaeEpisode 75- I'm BAAACCKKK from my two week hiatus and I'm giving you a recap on life lately. This episode is all about my c*nty carnival birthday weekend, and let me tell you—it’s a wild one! My bestie Amanda is in town, spilling all the tea about her journey with sobriety and how things have definitely changed in the bedroom. I also drop a little sneak peek into next week’s confessional episode and turn the heat up by putting Amanda right in the hot seat!
2024-10-1456 minGirl Stop TalkingIt's Giving Confidence Ft. Hayden Merryn Van HulzenEpisode 74- We had to break you down before building you back up.. This episode will better help you understand where confidence comes from and how being in the wrong relationship can dull your shine. Hayden and I go from shitty relationship to the difference between loving, supportive partners. We chat about how to stick up for your needs within a relationship and why it's important to be honest with yourself on whether or not you're truly being fulfilled and happy in your current situation. Confidence comes from happiness within, and your partner is only a reflection of yourself...
2024-09-2358 minGirl Stop TalkingNavigating HealingEpisode 73- We had to break it down, call you out, and reminisce on our most unhealthy relationship so we truly understand what happiness feels like. This weeks episode is a continued conversation except we're HEALING baby. It's not all green juice and spa days baby.. Healing is ugly crying in your closet at 2am on the phone with your best friend. It's realizing that being vulnerable is your super power, it's holding yourself accountable for continuously picking the men partner. It sucks, and we understand, because we've been there too.
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2024-09-1633 minGirl Stop TalkingDetaching From Toxicity Ft. Alex Scot
Episode 72 - Welcome to the beginning of the rest of your LIFE! This episode is bittersweet because sometimes we have to get knocked down.. HARD, to recognize our greatest potential. I have Alex Scot on and we're discussing all things unhealthy & toxic. This is the first of a 2 part episode where we chat about whether or not we're in an unhealthy relationship, how to leave and completely detach from the toxicity. Girl, it's hard, we get it. Whether you've been there, are current in there, or freshly out of there this episode was meant for you! Next, week Alex...
2024-09-0952 minGirl Stop TalkingS*x Therapy Ft. Elle FultzEpisode 71- This week we're talking S*X! Buckle up because this months episodes we're holding ourselves accountable in the bedroom. Joined today with Sex Therapist, Elle Fultz, and we discuss how to have better communication within your relationship, and how therapy doesn't always have to be problematic. We're talking about how being vulnerable shows strength, and how being curious allows you to be open minded. this is the first week into growing, learning and better loving ourselves in our personal/intimate relationships.
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2024-09-0338 minGirl Stop TalkingNashville VlogHey Girlfriend, head over to YouTube to see the whole Nashville experience! This shorty intro will give you all of the updates on this weeks episode: I discuss the giveaway to come and how to enter, and what to expect for the month of September!
Nashville Vlog: https://www.youtube.com/@girlstoptalkingpodcast
2024-08-2606 minGirl Stop TalkingNashville Mini Series
Surprise! It's a mini bonus episode straight from Nashville at the Stimulate trade show! This episode I pulled aside a couple providers in the industry and they answered some rapid fire questions. Join me and Cosmetic Gyno Dr. Michael Reed, along with 3 Sex Therapists! I'm ending this episode with a tarot card reading from Frank, The Vibrating Tarot Reader.
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2024-08-2019 minGirl Stop TalkingAnal Has Bad PREpisode 69- Get your booty ready, it's EP69 and we're geting dirty. Raise your hand if you have a bad back door experience! I think it's safe to say we've had bad experiences, fears, and quite literal shitty situations. Join me while I over share all my stories. It's not all bad though, I'm going to help you out by sharing what HAS worked for me. I'll give you the tips, before he gives you his! Hold on, take a deep breath and go get f*cked!
2024-08-1747 minGirl Stop TalkingWhich Asshole Are You?Do you have the perfect ass for anal? Apparently there are 3 different types of assholes?! Yeh you heard me!
Today Dr. Evan Goldstein is on the pod today hitting us with all the facts. He is the leading anal health expert in the United States, founder of Future Method, and one of the few surgeons in the world whose practice, Bespoke Surgical, is dedicated to treating and restoring the human butt. And he's here today spewing knowledge about everything he's learned along the way! If you're interested in trying anal, learning more about your body, and understanding what...
2024-08-051h 00Girl Stop TalkingBirth Chart Readings Ft. BritneyToday I have on Britney, she is a soul purpose coach and relationship astrologer. Come hang out us while we talk about the moons and the stars! Brit takes a deeper dive into astrology and explains how we're connected to the stars. We chat about compatible signs, the different energies taking place in July/August, and She also reads my birth chart. If you've been feeling an unexplainable shift in your life, Britney is here to tell you why.
Are you looking for guidance?
Interested in having your Birth Chart Explained?
2024-07-2949 minGirl Stop TalkingChoking on MotherhoodEpisode 66- On today's sh*t-show of an episode I'm giving you the most honest deep dive of being a mom. One of my favorite things to talk sh*it about... my child. I'm kidding.. but seriously I have a new found respect for working at home parents. Join me this week as I chat about my daily frustrations of being a mom, how I deal with my 10yr old withdrawing from Fortnite, and a story time on how I had to give the Heimlich Maneuver in the middle of a restaurant.
Don't get it twisted I'm...
2024-07-2239 minGirl Stop TalkingYour 20's Are For LearningEpisode 5 (Throwback) - There are 4 types of girls in your 20's, which one are you? This one may ruffle some feathers, but if the shoe fits.. would you wear it?
This week's episode is a throwback to one of my FAVORITES! If you haven't started this journey with me from the beginning here's a flash back to a very fun, relatable episode on Life, and dating in your early 20's. Let me know what you think in the comments.
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2024-07-1542 minGirl Stop TalkingSober-ish Ft. Dylan HornofEpisode 65- This weeks episode we're getting an inside scoop from the health and wellness girly herself, Dylan Hornof, Owner of OPTMZE! Being sober seems like it's trending right now in our fitness social media culture, and we're talking about it. Dylan and I share our personal experiences with alcohol, and what it means to be "Semi-sober." We chat about setting intentions around drinking, and better understanding our relationship with alcohol. The girls have entered the chat and we're changing the narrative around drinking.
Find Dylan here: www.instagram.com/dylanjfit
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2024-07-0849 minGirl Stop TalkingSex & Dating at EDCThe time as come Girl Stop Talking Podcast meets EDC! Todays episode is all about the differences in what people except around sex and dating. I took it upon myself to run around EDC with a big sign to interviews people to give their opinions on these rapid fire questions. Strangers became friends and we all got to laugh and share our real life dating experiences.
What does dating mean to you? What to you want more of in the bedroom? This episode is one you're going to want to WATCH! Join me and my co-hosts this...
2024-07-0122 minGirl Stop TalkingSex Bucketlist Ft. My Naked MindsetEpisode 63 - Welcome Jenay the host of the My Naked Mindset Podcast! This weeks episode we're talking about spicing up your SEX by getting creative. We all have fantasies and things we want to try.. well why not make a date out of it. Get your partner and listen to today's' episode. We're giving so many fun ideas to creating your very own sex bucklist! Talk about a fun way to spicy it up in the bedroom!
You can find Jenay and her podcast on Instagram www.instagram.com/mynakedmindset
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2024-06-2444 minGirl Stop TalkingLake Tales: I Didn't F*ck Your GirlEpisode 62 - I'm back after a 10 day lake trip and a week long sickness BUT I'm coming in hot with a story time this week. Join me in a new series I like to call "Lake Tales." This week I'm sharing how my boyfriend and I got accused for lying and hiding someone's girlfriend in our RV. The Lake is a wild place and a breeding ground for great content. Like a scene form a movie.. I really can't make this shit up..
2024-06-1738 minGirl Stop TalkingRambling about Life, Lame Dates & the LakeEpisode 61- Catch up on life with me as a ramble on for 30mins sharing some life experiences, and passed dating dramas. I'm flying by the seat of my pants in this weeks episode!
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2024-06-0334 minGirl Stop TalkingMutual MasturbationEpisode 60- We're ending off May strong talking about coupled Masturbation! Woohoo! Don't worry if you're nervous I've got some tips to make you feel a little more comfortable. What is Mutual Masturbation? What are some different ways to mutually masturbate? How do we explore talking to our partner about sex? Today I answer all of those questions plus share stories on some of our listeners sex life's and give advice on how to talk to your partner about your needs.
2024-05-2835 minGirl Stop TalkingLube & ToysEP.59- We're heading into week TWO of Masturbation May, and this week we're talking about Lubrication and Toys! Join me in this video episode where all of the Masturbation.. I mean magic happens! I discuss different lubes, how to use them, and go over some of my favorite toys for self-pleasure. My intention is that you take away some knowledge from this episode and that it inspires you to go f*ck yourself! You deserve it.
2024-05-1538 minGirl Stop TalkingMindful MasturbationWelcome to Masturbation May! Today we're talking about creating routines for our OWN self-pleasure. In this episode, you'll get a better understanding of how to seduce yourself and create intentions around masturbation. Of course, I share my masturbation journey and the shame I felt around learning self-pleasure. Thank you to everyone who wrote into the show this week! I will also be sharing stories and answering questions from our listeners.
2024-05-0647 minGirl Stop TalkingDating With Dustin Ft. Sexparty.fmEp.57 - Ugh dating, are we still talking about it? Hell yeh we are! Bringing you a males perspective on the topic. Dustin came prepared giving profound tips for the ladies. We chat about the solo bar scene, confidence in yourself, how to approach strangers for a conversation, plus so much more. It wouldn’t be an episode without sex talk, come hang out with us to see what exactly we get into!
2024-04-291h 05Girl Stop TalkingAm I The Asshole?Trend Alert- I reached out to the people on Instagram and the people have spoken! Today’s episode I’m reading off questions you asked.. and I didn’t come to play. Don’t you worry I added a couple of my own stories so you can decide whether or not IM the Asshole?!
2024-04-1649 minGirl Stop TalkingAwkward Encounters: Season 3Episode 55 - It’s been a couple weeks since we’ve touched base on life… let me fill you in on the real life emotional roller coaster I’ve been on. Sharing my details on my current mental health, work dilemmas & the path towards healing! Of course I can’t leave out my AWK encounters with people I did not want to run I to. From ex-friends boyfriends to returning f*ckboys… please leave me alone. Enjoy!
2024-04-1139 minGirl Stop TalkingFor All My Hooded Kings Ft. ChanceEp.54- Happy Monday! I’m back with a personal favorite, my cousin.. the make up queen and TikTok star Chance, and we’re gossiping about sex, and dating in the gay community. Get ready because we are givinggggg foreskin & blowjobs tips!
2024-03-2552 minGirl Stop TalkingHow I Broke My CalvicleEpisode 53 - One week before my epic vacation I end up launching myself off of my electric skateboard onto the asphalt. Pop in to hear all of the details.. also can we talk about the Love Is Blind Reunion & why they jumped over SO many wanted questions?!
2024-03-1833 minGirl Stop TalkingGrowth, Parenting & Love Is BlindEpisode 52 - It’s Monday, and I’m back with another episode. This week we’re chatting about personal growth, living in survival mode, and daily parenting conversations explaining uncomfortable topics to my 10 year old. Also I’m LOVING all of this Love Is Blind gossip, the tea is piping hot and we’re talking about it! New predictions this week, come hang out and let’s get I to it.
2024-03-0450 minGirl Stop TalkingLife Updates and Love is BlindEpisode 51 - Video - Come hang out with me for some girl chat! This week’s episode is a deeper dive into my fitness journey and my relationship with alcohol. SPOILER ALERT were obviously discussing Love Is Blind in detail Ep 1-6. Don’t worry I give you a heads up in case you’re not caught up yet.
2024-02-2645 minGirl Stop TalkingValentines Day DramaHappy Vday b*tchessss! This episode is all about our listeners and their horrible Valentine’s Day experiences. Sit back, relax and enjoy the chaos.
2024-02-1334 minGirl Stop TalkingSeduce Yourself Ft. Jordan D’NelleThis Monday we’re back with Jordan, Host of Vaginas, Vulvas & Vibrators! This episode is all about self love and self pleasure. We talk about our night out at the bar when Jordan was in town and how we debunked this guys conversation starter. Along with some tips on how to get a girls attention in a non-creepy way! It’s all fun and games in this episode, while hitting you with some facts of course. How do you separate the romance from a hookup? … You f*ck & you leave …. IYKYK. We talk about how to edge your orgasm. How sex is p...
2024-01-2940 min
Girl Stop Talking*Bonus* Listener QuestionsBack to back weeks, who is she?! We’re continuing the conversation this week on friendship breakups. On today’s bonus episode I’m reading listener questions and giving you some advice! Please share your favorite episodes to a friend and subscribe! Thank you for supporting this show, love you b*tchessss!
2024-01-2229 minGirl Stop TalkingFriendship Break Ups
Get ready to embark on a journey through the highs and lows of friendship dynamics! This week, we're diving deep into the world of friendship breakups, because let's face it, we've all been there and it's time to tackle it head-on. I'm here to sprinkle some wisdom on how to not just survive, but thrive after those inevitable bumps in the friendship road. Join me as we navigate the art of resolving conflicts with our girlfriends, embracing our authentic selves, acknowledging that there can be two sides to every story, and carefully curating the values we hold dear in...
2024-01-1540 min
Girl Stop TalkingHoliday HOEin'(Solo Episode)
Merry F*cking Christmas Bitchesssss and welcome to the mini Christmas special. On this year's episode, I sing you a beautiful Christmas number, Girl Stop Talking style. I hope you like it.
It wouldn't be an episode if I didn't fill you in on my latest awkward gym encounter. I give you tips on denying a stranger hitting on you and some VERY last-minute Christmas gifts for whoever you're sleeping with at the end of the night. I hope you enjoy the day and this episode.
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2023-12-2523 minGirl Stop TalkingNamaste Out The Club Ft. Noey GnomeA women of many talents, Noey Gnome! This weeks episode I’m joined by a fellow podcaster, friend & sex forward lady. We talk all about her life in the strip club, why she started dancing and how controlling the room is empowering in more than one way. It’s not all A** & T*tties Noey shares her journey out of the club and into using her feminine energy to help heal and relax others. Of course, I’ve had my fair share of moments in the club, listen along or watch on Spotify to hear how I got carried out in a h...
2023-12-111h 03Girl Stop TalkingDating Older vs YoungerHappy Mondayy!
Today I'm coming in HOT with the life updates, lasering my Brazilian, ladies if you know you know.
In this week's episode, I'm discussing dating, specifically, someone younger vs older than your current age. Of course, I'm sharing my personal thoughts from my own experiences. So, take it for laughs or as the facts, that's up to you! I share stories on what I cannot deal with about dating a younger man. And how a mature man(whatever the age) can understand boundaries and living a life outside of your relationship.
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2023-11-2743 minGirl Stop TalkingInsta-Insecurities Ft. Jordan D’NelleIt’s Monday & we have a returning guest to the show! Jordan is on again, giving us the advice on friendship WE NEED! Selfishly, what I NEEDED. In this conversation we talk about having sex out here in these streets without being on birth control. Spooky! Jordan gives amazing advice on healing & believing what others see in you from her own experiences. Along with toxic relationships, and couples getting mad about what their significant others post online. And most importantly we have a very open conversation about miscommunications in friendships. How to understand them, acknowledging it’s not about being righ...
2023-11-2052 minGirl Stop TalkingStop Sex Shaming & Life UpdatesAhhh sex.. We talk about it, we love it, we don’t always get enough of it, and when we do… we get shamed for it?! This week’s episode consists of more self inflicted embarrassing stories all revolving around sex. I’m opening up on a hand full of times I have personally been shamed around sex. By friends, boyfriends, one night stands and even from myself. Enjoy, while I update you on my life, insecurities, my ozempic journey, & my first SEX CLUB experience!
2023-11-0848 minGirl Stop TalkingBirthday Roast ft. My BestiesHappy Mondayyyyy, WATCH me and my 3 besties while we roast my past, present and future… oof the self awareness is real for this one, yikes! We keep the true podcast fashion of “How We Met” along with embarrassing stories, truth or drink, and we finish with a group game of “Who Knows Me Best.” Feel free to listen, WATCH & play along. Libra season at its finest!
2023-10-161h 05Girl Stop TalkingTSA(Tatum Service Announcement): An Audio BlogHiiii, it’s MONDAY & I have a *BONUS* Episode for youuuu! Another shortie since I didn’t fully provide last week. This week I’m ranting about all of the dumb sh*t on my mind, plus real experiences from my personal perspective. Random thoughts meet TSA. I’m LOVING this, but I want to hear from you, answer my polls below and leave me a review on Apple or Google! This Episode features Jordan D’Nelle from Vaginas, Vulvas & Vibrators, and our Lyft driver.
2023-09-1930 minGirl Stop TalkingAlone at Beyoncé 2023Hi girlfriends! Happy Monday, this episode is a little different! Come with me while I venture alone to the Beyoncé concert audio “Vlog” style! It’s a shorty, but I hope you enjoy! Please answer the poll and leave a review when you’re finished! HAPPY MONDAY!
2023-09-1127 minGirl Stop TalkingA Spicy Therapist aka Dominatrix Ft.Domina RezaAe you a Dom or Sub? Learn what it means to be a Dom in life and in the bedroom! Domina Reza came to play, and she doesn't hold back on all of the crazy details. From personal stories, wild kinks and a room full of electricity (pun intended).
If you're looking for a dom here's your girl! Go book a session and let your wildest dreams come true!
IG & Twitter: @domina_reza
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2023-08-2855 minGirl Stop TalkingNot Gonna LieHappy Monday! This weeks episode I'm answering questions that you guys' left me on the NGL app! I answered these unseen and honest. This episode is all over the place from threesome stories to couple counseling advice. Buckle up it's gonna be a fun ride!
Lmk if you liked this episode style. Answer the poll on the EP or leave me a review anywhere you listen.
2023-08-141h 00Girl Stop TalkingAre You Gay, or Just Into Butt StuffIt's Mondayyy! I have my brothers, moms, sisters, son who goes by Chance, our fellow TikTok make up QUEEN on the show today! Wow, that was confusing, well yeh, it was for us too. Apparently we were friends in a younger life, and somehow related but not really? Idk.
The amount of conversation on this episode is insane. Think of this it as a girls night gossiping with your gay-bestie. We give make up advice, Chances coming out story, an anal horror story, Pro-Anal Tips, and we also discuss being a 3rd in a another couples open...
2023-07-311h 13Girl Stop TalkingThe Red Light DistrictI'm going to keep it simple this week.. I'm BACK!
- TSA(Tatum Service Announcement): Don't Eat Edibles Before A Flight
- My Altercation with A Sex Worker (aka legal Prostitution)
- Amsterdam Live Sex Show
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Big S/O to the couple who stopped me in the airport to say hiii thank you to the motivation to keep going! Everyone else I see & hear you too, love you all!
2023-07-1137 minGirl Stop TalkingLick It Before You Stick It Ft. Jordan D’NelleJust two podcasters that met over Instagram, meeting in real life.. Jordan is a sexual health educator helping women dive deeper into their sexual selves, and the host of a very informative podcast Vaginas, Vulvas & Vibrators! Let me tell you, this was no regular interview.. This was a straight up conversation between two girlfriends with very open minds, and plenty of hilarious sexual experiences! From our first orgasms, to sex shaming, masturbation tips, and anal play we uncovered some real life truths about being sexually free women. The girl talk is here this week, come hang with us & check it...
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Girl Stop TalkingDegenerates & Growth Ft. RhiThis weeks Episode I sit down with my sister from another mister, Rhi & we're empowering you to be THE BEST version of yourself!
From living in the ghetto, to how we met, our high school life, & "first loves" you name it. This Episode has a little bit of everything. We also get pretty deep about how traumas & how our toxic relationships have effected our growth as young adults. From one bestie to another Rhi and I openly talk about our own friendship breakup, healing and coming together stronger than ever while being able to resolve future conflicts in a healthy...
2023-02-2053 minGirl Stop TalkingValentine's Day Hoein'Heyy Girlfriend!! It's been a HOT minute. I'm making a slow comeback after an overwhelming Birthday/Holiday Season!
The lack of creativity has been rough. Todays Episode is a fun one, you know I had to comeback with something worth listen too. We have a little catching up to do.. I'm thinking about a new-ish direction for the podcast something with a little more meaning, but don't worry we're always going to get to the good stuff!
Valentine's Day is around the corner and I'm giving you some insight about whether or not to give your "man" or "men" a gi...
2023-02-0839 minGirl Stop TalkingLife Update: I'm a Cranky B*tchIt's Monday & I'm f*ckin' tired.
It's a shorty Episode today, catching you up on how my last week has gone. I'm basically just venting the whole 30 minutes so I apologize for the lack of comedic timing. WE HAVE A LISTENER QUESTION talking about opening their relationship to adding a 3rd! Side Note: It's almost my BIRTHDAYYYYY, and I'm going to Vlog my whole trip to post on YouTube! No, Episode next week, see you on 10/10 with birthday trip updates.
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2022-09-2630 minGirl Stop TalkingSphincter101Raise your hand if you know what a sphincter is?! Whether you know or you don't know, Rachel & I are breaking it down! Yes, we're talking about Anal.. Woohooo! This time we're starting from the beginning, we talk about the human body, how your butthole works, prepping, and what to do Vs. what NOT to do when taking it in the back end.
Rachel has been on the show before & is our first repeat guest! She works in her persona life as a Sex Coach/Therapist who helps women(&men) with creating and finding their confidence as s...
2022-09-1237 minGirl Stop TalkingSpice Up Your SEXIt's MONDAAAAYYY! I'm back with some life updates! Tune in and find out the full story of what's been living in my house. Beside that, were finally talking SEX! Are you in a relationship? Bored? Just trying it "get it over with?" ..Ew NOT today! I'm giving you couples some new ideas on how exactly too start the conversation around sex with your partner! Whether your in a relationship or single, being able to open the conversation around sex with benefit your next nasty adventure.
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2022-09-0542 minGirl Stop TalkingBlock Him Like It's HotAre you unhappy in your relationship? Feel like you're always walking on eggshells? Questioning your emotions? Constantly making excuses for your partners' behavior?
We've all heard the terms Gas lighting, Love Bombing, & Narcissist. How do you know if you're dealing with one? Why is it SO hard to leave these abusive relationships even though we know we're in one?
Today I'm joined by Alex Scot, she is a certified trauma informed dating & relationship coach. Her mission is to help her clients to heal from their narcissistic & toxic relationships so that they can finally move on, d...
2022-08-0851 minGirl Stop TalkingMy Break Up & The Man In My AtticLife Updates, I know what you're thinking ..boring; YOUR WRONG! Oh do I have a story for you. On this weeks episode I'm sharing a story of just how anxious I am, especially being a woman who lives alone. I swear on my life I have someone living in my attic, send in the troops! I also share my own personal experience about body shaming HOT moms. Yeah I said it, it's a hard life out here being this attractive. Lastly, my relationship, depression, couples therapy & my break up? Stay tuned.
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Girl Stop TalkingHook Me Up w/Your Friend Ft. Geo aka HOTSAUCEWe're back bicthessss with our second male guest! HOTSAUCE in the house.
Who is that? My friend Geo is coming on today episode and honestly we're talking all things growth! From toxic relationships to personal growth. We get into how we met of course, hook-ups between friends, and some real great dating topics from the male and female perspective. I'm happy to say I'd GLADLY set him up with one of my friends. Ladies, if you're interested lmk!
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2022-07-1150 minGirl Stop TalkingDating Red Flags Ft. Eric BernalComedian in the house... not to mention the first male to ever come on the show!
Listen, if you're trying to f*ck... JUST SAY THAT. In this weeks Ep. we talk about dating from a mans perspective.
How to get a guys attention, and show interested in being MORE than friends.
What does "dating" mean to you? Keeping your options open? Exclusive? Getting free meals? All of the above!
You can find Eric on Instagram @ericbernalcomdey
2022-06-2752 minGirl Stop TalkingConfidence is KeyOn this weeks solo episode we talk about what it means to have confidence in yourself. How to be confident in social situations, and how placing boundaries with men over and OVER again is ANNOYING yet important to your wellbeing as a woman. Join me on this rollercoaster ride of feminism and wine as we talk about boundaries with the defensive cave man species we call the male.
2022-06-1341 minGirl Stop TalkingBorderline Personality Disorder Ft. Stef SlaughterTRIGGER WARNING: We are covering topics that may be sensitive to you or those who are struggling with BPD, anxiety or depression. If you are trigged by this content please contact a mental health professional. We are not doctors, and the information being brought to you on todays episode is from personal experiences.
To end Mental Health May I want to touch base on this specific disorder and a story from a close friend of mine. Her story sheds light on BPD and the struggles not only she deals with, but also the people in her life. We talk about...
2022-05-3052 minGirl Stop TalkingMental Health & MasturbationThis weeks episode is seriously funny... emphasis on serious... and funny.
We're talking about real mental health issues AND hilarious masturbation stories. No seriously Happy Mental Health and Masturbation May!
We're going to bring awareness to issues that are normal and okay, but also keep it light with some fun masturbation tips, and stories to easy to trauma. I'm diving into my deep struggles with my own personal anxiety, and past shitty relationships but moving forward in a way that overcomes to dark-side.
Leaving you guys with some self reflecting on how to op...
2022-05-1648 minGirl Stop TalkingVagina Chronicles Ft. Dr.DiazEither you have one, you're dating one, or at least hopefully having sex with one.
On this weeks episode I'm interviewing Dr.Diaz, she is a certified Nurse Midwife in Obstetrics and Gynecology. We talk about her new fame on TikTok, and crazy stories she experienced through her line of work. Of course I over share some of my most embarrassing vagina related stories, and we break down some Myths & Facts about Vaginal health.
You can follow her on TikTok & Instagram @crisdiazmomdoc
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2022-05-0248 minGirl Stop TalkingThe PMS made me do itIt's been a LONG 3 weeks so lets get into it. This weeks shorty episode is really taking a stand on speaking your mind. I'm keeping it real with this weeks TSA, and taking a dive into what's it's like to feel personally victimized by your vagina. Yeah you aren't the only one, it's okay to be crazy... but which one are you?
2022-04-2524 minGirl Stop TalkingTikTok, Mental Health & Money Ft. JordsheaDiving into Jordyn's journey as a TikTok Influencer! We talk a lot about the behind the scenes and how growing up in this influential culture can have an effect on your well being. Of course we get into SEX, and creating content for Only Fans! Tune in and listen to hear one of your favorite TikTok-ers explain the ins and outs of what it's like to have a public platform.
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2022-03-2850 minGirl Stop TalkingHard Tips & Wet AdviceI'm back bitchesss and we're talking SEX in this episode. Specifically how to keep your relationship fun and freaky! No more stale boring "How is your day" and "I'll talk to you later" texts. In today's episode, I talk all about how to keep things fun in your relationship. I go over some important how-tos like my favorite hot nude poses, sexting, and taking your role-playing to the next level. Time to step up your game and surprise your man with something new, it's okay to step out of your comfort zone. I hope you enjoy it!
2022-03-2153 minGirl Stop Talking6 Friends & ConflictWe're getting real bitches.. On todays episode we navigate through our friendships.
What does it take to have a healthy friendship?
Does pushing confrontation under the rug actually make things better?
What kind of friend are you? Well, you're about to find out.. I'm giving you 6 different friend types we can ALL relate to!
2022-02-2845 minGirl Stop TalkingA Valentine's DisasterGet to know my V-day disaster history.. I basically cursed myself from the start, which led to adult V-day trauma. In today's Episode we dig deeper into my personal life. I OVER-share details about how I lost my virginity, and why I've always had horrible V-day experiences. I also share the story on how I met my current boyfriend, then tried pushing him away because he was TOO good to me. Ahhh lets all laugh at my trauma together.
3:30- First High school Boyfriend
8:10- I Broke up with my boyfriend on Valentines Day
2022-02-1530 minGirl Stop TalkingMom ShitOn todays episode I have on my long time best friend Felix, I mean Feliz!
Are you a mom? Do you want the inside scoop on what its like to be a mom? Or just want a good laugh?
We talk about to realness of what's its like dealing with these f*ckin' kids. We get into what's its' like dealing with at home and in school situations.. No one talks about what its like dealing with your child once they turn into real ass people ...
Should we make a playbook guide?
2022-01-3159 minGirl Stop TalkingThe Anal DietWe're f*cking back with A BANGER bitches! You read the title right... This week we're talking about ANAL.
Yes, I obviously share my most personal experiences, along with some tips and tricks to get you turned on and in the mood you get your ass railed. HA HA HA, stop me now... or don't!
Also, I'm sharing some big news in this episode on what's to come... another more explicit platform in the works. Make sure you head over to "Owning Your Sexual Self" Podcast to get the inside scoop on my new adventure!
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2022-01-1734 minGirl Stop TalkingFuck Him! Fuck His Friend..That's right all health and wellness over here this week.. It's healthy girl summer!
I'm checking in on how your boundaries are going.. Did you leave that toxic relationship yet?
All jokes aside, I answer an important dating question, and over share my invisalign blowjob experience.
Been missing you guys, there's more to come next week!
WE'RE BACK BABY!
2021-08-0130 minGirl Stop TalkingToxic Relationship AnthemIn this weeks Solo episode I cover what it's like to feel trapped in a toxic relationship AND how it's even harder to stay AWAY from one.
Of course I share my personal experience with my 18 year old boyfriend who I fell in "love" with at 14, which led me to having a pen pal in prison... Tatum what?! Yeh, unfortunately I'm being serious...
Lastly, Co-host announcements AND a podcast intermission. I can't wait for what's to come!
2021-07-0542 minGirl Stop TalkingOnce Upon A Thrupple"What's a Thrupple?"
"Do they all sleep in the same bed?"
"How does a woman share HER man with another women?"
"I bet it was all his idea..."
Well.. you should be asking, "what does it take to have a successful relationship involving three people?"
We answer all of that and MORE in this weeks episode!
2021-06-2853 minGirl Stop TalkingMasturbate, Squirt, Orgasm, RepeatLets talk about womens' pleasure...
Today I have a Sex therapist, turned sex Coach, Rachel Maine on and what aren't we talking about?!
Advice on better understanding your partners' needs, and we go over the "warm-up" to multiple orgasms.
We discuss everything from feeling comfortable exploring your body through masturbation to tips to achieve that squirt!
If you weren't already soaking that bed.. you will be after listening to this!
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2021-06-1452 minGirl Stop TalkingMy Neck, My Back, My Anxiety AttackTo be honest I didn’t think I was going to be able to record anything for you guys this week. I’ve been in my head and feelings a lot recently so I just hit play & started recording. I apologize in advance for the sound in the first 12 minutes.. I didn’t realize I had my AirPods in and the quality is rough. This episode was too real and raw to try and re-record how I was feeling. DM me your feedback or click the link in my bio to share your own experience! You can also write in ANY qu...
2021-06-0722 minGirl Stop TalkingDating As A Senior CitizenThis weeks episode is a little different.
I have my father on, and he's sharing his experience on what its like to date over 50+.
We also go over his Bumble profile, and give some goods advice to young women on how to cope with raising teenagers.
I share some of my own personal experiences on what my childhood was like and the trouble I got myself into.
If you listen through to the end, my dad leaves a sweet message talking about me as a child.
Shorty episode this we...
2021-05-3135 minGirl Stop TalkingGame Consulting & Online DatingTeaching you what to do and not to do when it comes to online dating..
You wonder why she's not into you.. it's because you're doing it wrong!
In our 2nd Co-host audition Hannah aka @hanzbananez tells us all about how she's able to get paid for telling men they have NO GAME.
She calls herself a Game Consultant, and she's here bringing tips for both men and women on how to properly set up your dating profile.
2021-05-2456 minGirl Stop Talking1 Whorinthians 7:77"You f*ck & you leave. No cuddles, because cuddles lead to feels."
What makes a guy a f*ckboy?
And who said being a f*ck girl was a bad thing?
Big shout out to @aburstynski for wanting to audition to be my co-host. Leave a review and tell us what you think!
IG: @tatumzoeee
2021-05-1856 minGirl Stop TalkingYour 20s are for LearningThere are 4 types of girls in your 20s, which one are you?
This one may ruffle some feathers, but I mean if the shoe fits... would you wear it?
2021-05-0342 minGirl Stop TalkingLash Talk: Seeking An ArrangementI'm in the Lash Salon today with one of my favorites, and she's spilling the tea on her sex life with strange men. Continuing to dive into the sex industry, while providing you with hilarious stories. In this episode we talk about having a real life 'daddy' and the interesting kinks that come with the money. "We're not here seeking to fly coach, I don't want a $30,000 millionaire."
2021-04-2646 minGirl Stop TalkingEscort Services & The CartelWould you believe me if I told you that you can find escorting ads on Craigslist?! Jade is here with me on the show this week, and we're talking about how she got into the quick life of SEX, money, and drugs. If you're interested in how many men she's slept with... well you'll just have to listen to find out.
If you'd like to be featured on the podcast, follow me on IG: @tatumzoeee and DM me your questions or comment in my stories!
2021-04-1943 minGirl Stop TalkingStep by Step Guide: How To Date A Single MomIn this episode I'm joined by my best friend and fellow single mom to discuss what it's like dating and raising a child. Today we're giving you a 6 step guide on how to effectively date that hot milf you're going after. We also talk about why moms are always horny, and share some horror stories on dating. So, guys if you're listening put your d*ck away and take out a pen and paper. Single Moms, did we miss anything? Please write in any questions/stories to @tatumzoeee on Instagram.
2021-04-1258 minGirl Stop TalkingWine & Sex Q&AMeet Tatum. The loud, and inappropriate friend who decided to share, in detail, her personal life experiences to the randoms' of the world. In this surprise mini episode Tatum dives into why she decided to start a podcast. Although you can hear the nervousness in her voice the episodes do get better, so hang in there. She also openly talks about one of her worst sexual experiences, and how men will judge sex workers yet beat their meat to porn in their free time.
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