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Tea Bags & JoystiXXXEp. 63: TB&J Dungeon Master DraftThis week Chris and Si are playing the TB&J Dungeon Master Draft – Video Game Characters Edition. A game inspired by drafts in American sports, Chris and Si pick video game characters to complete their fantasy
dungeon. Who would be the perfect urinal? Which character is the ultimate pain pig? And who on the fantasy lands would be able and willing to host such a cast
of kinksters? Find out what we have come up with in this TB&J episode.
In Joysticks this week, Si plays Paper Mario: The Thousand-Year Door, a remake of the 2004 title wh...2024-10-0342 minTea Bags & JoystiXXXEp. 62: Tea BACK and Joystixxx [New Season/Catch-up]TB&J Podcast is back with a new format and Schedule!
We're now running shorter but more frequent episodes alternating between “Tea episodes” (where we talk about what’s been happening in the world) and “Bag episodes” (where we talk about the kink scene or play kink-related games). Each week the boys will also take it in turns to play with their Joysticks!
So in Tea today, why we were off for so long and Si’s recovery, . New UK and US Government leadership, the internet being demure and mindful, and the Olympics dra...2024-09-1434 minTea Bags & JoystiXXXEp. 61: If Video Games Brands Made Adult ToysThis week were delving into the realms of what if and asking, what if our favourite (mostly) video game brands made adult toys or other such equipment?
We work out what style of toys different borderlands brands might make, what each console platform might be related to and even some game studios and how they would definitely monetise things.
Meanwhile in Tea Chris quizzes us on the most common DnD character name and Si is having fun and games with 3D printer deliveries.
Finally...2024-05-1358 minTea Bags & JoystiXXXEp. 60: Corporal Punishmenta.k.a. Fun Hurty Stuff
This week Si and Chris talk about corporal punishment, or maybe it's canes and paddles. But there's definitely nothing corporate about it (listen to the episode to find out what on earth I'm talking about here). So what's so fun about pain?
In tea, Chris has a gripe about the German football team's new kit now, and Si shouts out to Mercury and Jory's Tiktok-a-thon for Trans Health (link here).
And for joysticks, Chris completes the Phoenix Wright Trilogy, while Si plays Super Smash Bros and Mario...2024-04-2154 minTea Bags & JoystiXXXEp. 59: Porn v RealityThis week Chris and Si are talking about some ... Movies. Videos. Ok we're definitely not turning into a movie podcast. But we are talking about the consumption of porn and maybe some unrealistic aspects of it. What do we think could be the best way out? Some disagreements? Maybe!
For tea, Si covers the England football shirt "flag" controversy, while Chris reports on scientists removing HIV from cells.
And in joysticks, Chris and Si get themselves addicted to playing Balatro, the rogue-like poker game (if you haven't already seen it / heard it).
–Ed...2024-03-291h 02Tea Bags & JoystiXXXEp. 58: More Animals of The Scene (Part 2)This week Chris has got his voice back so we're able to continue with the animals of the scene where we look at if The Advocates definitions of the types of people you might encounter on the LGBTQ+ scene are still accurate
For the 5 minute Marvel this week we're discussing Echo the latest Marvel TV series on Disney Plus
For Tea this week Si gets really frustrated with Tinder Chris talks about encountering theme tunes in the wild and both are excited for the new Wicked trailer.
Meanwhile in joysticks this week Chris...2024-02-251h 09Tea Bags & JoystiXXXEp. 57: Media Round UpNo kink this week, Chris and Si catch up on the Marvel stuff they've missed talking about in the last half a year and also on the Doctor Who specials. It's geekery all around!
For tea, Si wants you to have a look at his side-project "For Whom It May Concern".
And for joysticks, Chris is on his road to Baldur's Gate and Si plays Mario Kart: Double Dash on an old console.2024-01-301h 14Tea Bags & JoystiXXXEp. 56: The Animals of the Scene (Part 1)This week Chris and Si take a look at the "Origin of Bears" (as claimed by The Advocate) and some of the other so-called "animals" found within the LGBT scene. Are they really a thing? How outdated are they?
There's still no Five Minute Marvel this week because at time of recording Marvel titles were still struck works, we plan to have a catch up session at the start of the new year!
For tea, Si is disappointed his holiday plans were thwarted by a volcano, while Chris had an unusual experience at the Sexual Health Clinic.
For Joysticks, Chris...2023-12-2358 minTea Bags & JoystiXXXEp. 55: Post-Locktober Run Downa.k.a. What About No Nut November?
This week Si and Chris are chatting about the past month, which they spent locked up in chastity. The highs and lows, the benefits and disadvantages, some things they have observed, and what they discovered about themselves.
For tea, Chris celebrates Cyril Leroy, the founder and captain of the first gay French rugby team, who was honoured by World Rugby and Land Rover during the recent Rugby World Cup, while Si managed to have found another group of (mostly) non-kinky people who also celebrated some sort of "Locktober".
For joysticks, Chris pursues...2023-11-081h 04Tea Bags & JoystiXXXEp. 54: Of Locks and Keyholders (TB&J List: Chastity Special)This week Si and Chris are joined by Craig for The TB&J List: Chastity Special! Where we generate two random* pop culture characters and decide between them who is going to be locked for Locktober and who gets to keep the key!
*(random-ish)
For tea this week, Chris wonders why the British media has suddenly picked up on the term "situationship", and Si joins the chorus of complains when subs are told "Locktober is coming".
In joysticks, Chris hasn't quite get round to exploring space in Starfield, and Si goes carting without...2023-10-0646 minTea Bags & JoystiXXXEp. 53: Kink ProtocolsThis week Si and Chris sit down and talk about protocols within kink, why they find them important, what they get out of them, some examples of how they can be used both in private and in subtle ways day to day for a kinky couple.
In Tea this week Si talks about FOMO around the women's world cup whilst Chris discusses the Somerset Gimp.
In Joysticks, Chris dives down the Giant Blue Hole as Dave the Diver, while Si messes about in the world of The Legend of Zelda: Tears of the Kingdom.
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Tea Bags & JoystiXXXEp. 52: Watersportsa.k.a. Britain's Number 9 Favourite Fetish
This week Si and Chris talk about piss, golden showers, watersports, whatever you want to call it (or urolagnia if you want to be really medical). We talk about the degredation and objectivication aspects of it, the health risks, the gear and set up and any prep work! And then we go to the story books and talk about our own embarrasing experiences.
In tea, Chris celebrates Quinn on becoming the first transgender non-binary player to play in a football World Cup, and Si complains about the current...2023-07-281h 04
Tea Bags & JoystiXXXEp. 51: Pride Culture & Counter-culturesa.k.a. The History of Pride, Part II
This week Chris and Si do another whistle stop tour in honour of LGBTQ+ Pride Month (and we came late). We look at the umbrella acronym itself; various forms of self-expression including clothing, norms and codes, as well as more explicit forms like badges and patches; before finally discussing the history of the AIDS Quilt.
For tea, Chris gets confounded by a stupid saying and Si gets angry over a protest hijack. And for joysticks, Chris attempts to save his spaceship crew in Jumplight Odyssey.
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Tea Bags & JoystiXXXEp. 50: Disability and Neurodiversity Inclusive KinkSi sits down with Craig from Kinky Boys Podcast share stories and anecdotes from their own experiences being Autistic, ADHD and more to explore how it is possible to take advantage of the curb cut effect to make Kink and BDSM scenes inclusive of people with Neurodiversity and Disabilities.
Before that however they kick of the show discussion the Apple Vision Pro and work out exactly who it is aimed at (hint: a particular group of kinksters)
Then in Joysticks there is a more in depth look at Legend...2023-06-1655 min
Tea Bags & JoystiXXXEp. 49: Community Spotlight: Switched AppThis week we sit down with the 2 man team behind the new "Switched" app that the kink community has been talking about to see who they are, what their plans are and what they're bringing to the table that's different to other offerings out there. We discuss everything from how they got started, their first couple of weeks live, community questions around why certain choices got included when others didn't and an exclusive look at what's coming in the future versions of the app.
Tea this week couldn't really be anything but Eurovision Campness...2023-05-191h 46
Tea Bags & JoystiXXXEp. 48: Dating Apps (Feat. Louise)a.k.a. APP-solutely Fabulous
This week we have Louise to talk with us about dating apps. The three of us tend to use these apps looking for different things (surprisingly) and we talk about our experiences with these apps. Some of out histories with different platforms over the years and some golden rules for using them.
In tea, Chris brings up some dubious reports on Coke and Pepsi's effect on testicles and Si takes issue with the UK's handling of inviting citizens pre-written pledge of allegiance to the King.
And for joysticks...2023-05-061h 30
Tea Bags & JoystiXXXEp. 47: Penis Size Fetisha.k.a. Can't Take My Size Off You
This week Chris and Si are talking about cocks. When do they not talk about cocks, I hear you ask. Nah it’s a bit more specific than that. Penis size fetishes are all over the scene. Small, big, long, short, thick, thin, you name it, someone has made a fetish of it. This week we have a look at what people get off on about dick sizes.
For tea, Chris gets Si confused about religion, and Si is disappointed with Manchester Pride.
And in...2023-03-251h 06
Tea Bags & JoystiXXXEp. 46: Transformation Kink ft Mutt Banjoa.k.a. Banjo the Bluie?
Si finally moved house and we're back! and man do we have a lot to catch up on. This week friend of the show Mutt Banjo talks to us about Transformation as a kink concept and how that is played out both in the real world and online.
Before that we spill Tea on hypocrisy around the Homophobic Chanting by Football Fans and share our opinions on the dragons dung that was the Dungeons and Dragons OGL v2 debacle. Finally for Joysticks we get stuck in to...2023-03-041h 18
Tea Bags & JoystiXXXEp. 45: Checking on the Naughty ListThis week we're joining Santa in checking our Nighty List, otherwise known as the TBnJ List and seeing which Pop Culture Character/Kink combinations we prefer. In Tea we talk the how England crashed out of the FIFA World Cup in Qatar and how some teams tried to make their objections to Censorship of Human Rights and LGBT issues during the tournament known as well as the end of the Pokémon Franchise as we know it with the retirement of Ash Ketchum and Pikachu. Meanwhile for Joysticks Chris takes a dive into Marvel Snap and Both Si and Chris l...2022-12-2456 min
Tea Bags & JoystiXXXEp. 44.5: The Catch-Up Episodea.k.a. Tag, You're It
Since we had been off air for a while, Si and Chris decided it was time to play a game of tiggy so we can catch up with our listeners about what has been happening. So it was mostly just tea this week.
Chris starts off with a sportsball corner piece about Pride flags at the MLS Cup final. Then we talk about UK politics, the Queen's passing, the sauna, the Mario movie, Google Stadia, Twitter, Doctor Who and a whole bunch of stuff about the MCU.
(T...2022-11-251h 17
Tea Bags & JoystiXXXEp. 44: Rubber / Latex (Gear 102)a.k.a. Shiny Shiny Latex
We're starting Season 3 of Tea Bags & Joystixxx with a bang, no sorry, squeak! The topic today is latex, the most popular (no official data) kind of rubber play. Si and Chris talk about their experiences with rubber / latex, the various outfits we and other people have come up with and how kinksters should be treated while wearing gear.
Tea this week, we discuss how the Australian football team, the Socceroos, have addressed the Men's Football World Cup in Qatar (Chris refuses to use its official name) in a video st...2022-11-051h 15
Tea Bags & JoystiXXXEp. 43: The Sex We Don't Talk Abouta.k.a. What Else We Do in the Shadows
It's our last show of the season as we take our (delayed) summer break of about a month, but that doesn't mean we don't have plenty to talk about before we go... This week we're talking all about the bits of Sex that don't usually get discussed. We touch on a little bit of everything from cuddling to douching, condom fit to losing your erection, and finding the prostate through to finding, or even not finding that final orgasm.
In tea this week Chris brings u...2022-08-261h 10
Tea Bags & JoystiXXXEp. 42: Mr Superhero Europe 2022 Garetha.k.a. Spider: It's Coming Home
This week Si and Chris chat with Mr Superhero Europe 2022 Gareth (Instagram)! We talk about his challenges (plural) to the title, his plans of being a title holder, his very special Spider suit and the growth of the superhero fetish. We also discuss incorporating superhero cosplay into a kink scene, and the fun and challenges of roleplaying a superhero (whether it's an established character or a character you made up yourself).
(Was going to type 'a made-up superhero', which is ridiculous, because obviously all superheroes are made up.)2022-08-121h 12
Tea Bags & JoystiXXXEp. 41: The List Strikes Backa.k.a. We Are Getting Our Star Wars References Back to Front (Since We Have Already Done Return of the List)
This week Chris and Si are doing another game with the TB&J List. Take a random pop / geek culture character, add three kinky activities, and choose which one is the most fun (or just most "safe") to do. Would you get fisted by Wolverine? Get kidnapped by Bowser? Yes? No? Let us know what you think!
For tea this week, we bring up the Marvel Studios presentation at San Diego Comic Con...2022-07-2956 min
Tea Bags & JoystiXXXEp. 40: Events, A Survival Guidea.k.a. How to Go to Events and not Die
This episode is dedicated to Tim Davidson, a friend of ours and a former member of Manchester Rubbermen team, who passed away suddenly recently.
This week Si and Chris talk about all the mistakes they have made going to kinky/pride events, and some friendly advice on how not to do the same as they did! Everything from booking, getting your gear ready, overexaustion, all the way to event drop, Si and Chris have learnt the hard way until they figured out their preferred way...2022-07-151h 07
Tea Bags & JoystiXXXEp. 39: Handler EU '22 Quincya.k.a. The Bumper Show with Leads
This week's show features Handler EU Quincy (they/them)! We talk about their journey through to being a title holder and their next steps, what it is about being a handler, various different forms of pet play, and every kinkster's favourite topic during pride month: kink at pride.
Tea this week we talk about a mischievous mod for Microsoft Flight Simulator. And for Joysticks, we round up our thoughts on the non-E3 showcases for gaming in the last few days.
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Tea Bags & JoystiXXXEp. 38: Pride Washinga.k.a. When Pride Become Hubris
a.k.a. A Sense of Pride (and Accomplishment?)
It's Pride Month 2022 and with pride month comes the rainbow tidal wave. With that in mind we dive in and look at some of the ridiculous pride washed merchandise they try and trick us into buying.
For Tea this week, we discuss the UK's only openly gay footballer Jake Daniels coming out and the sadness that is the impending closure of the leather bar Backstreet in London. Meanwhile in Joysticks, Si recounts his difficulties the balances of power in...2022-06-031h 10
Tea Bags & JoystiXXXEp. 37: Militaria / Military Fetisha.k.a. Sir, Yes Sir
This week we broadcast a long overdue conversation with Adam about the military fetish. We talk about the origins of such a fetish, the dos and don'ts when exploring, what to be aware of when acquiring more specialist militaria gear and the ethical considerations when playing with military gear.
Tea this week we talk about a gay dog adopted by a gay couple, and the casting of the new Doctor in Doctor Who.
In Joysticks we pit Transport Fever 2 against Satisfactory.
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Kinkyboys PodcastHead Shaving and HaircutsThis episode, Chris from the teabags and joystixxx podcast to talk to us about head shaving scenes and enforced hairstyles.
We talk the scene, the aftercare, and the idea of doing forms of play that lasts weeks.
Thanks to our good boy patrons:
Philip P.
Gareth
Ergo
Bullpup
Juha N.
JMW
Duy V.
Luke S.
Off
Knotty Texan
Paul F.
Kurt A.
Patric M.
Buster
2022-05-1854 minKinkyboys PodcastHead Shaving and HaircutsThis episode, Chris from the teabags and joystixxx podcast to talk to us about head shaving scenes and enforced hairstyles.
We talk the scene, the aftercare, and the idea of doing forms of play that lasts weeks.
Thanks to our good boy patrons:
Philip P.
Gareth
Ergo
Bullpup
Juha N.
JMW
Duy V.
Luke S.
Off
Knotty Texan
Paul F.
Kurt A.
Patric M.
Buster
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Tea Bags & JoystiXXXEp. 36: Community Spotlight: South West Fetish Mena.k.a. Tangent Queen
This episode we are joined by Jonathan from South West Fetish Men, where we had a hilarious conversation about the social side of kink and gear, organising events and the upcoming South West Fetish Weekend 2022 in Bristol, England. Contains lots of tangents.
Tea this week includes Elon Musk's takeover of Twitter and user authentication for vulnerable groups, and how Jon made his mechanic scream.
Joysticks this week we revisit Dorfromantik, recall the Age of Empires series, and dive into Tiny Tina's Wonderlands.
Visit South West Fetish M...2022-05-061h 12
Tea Bags & JoystiXXXEp. 35: Cuckoldinga.k.a. A Cuck in His Hand, Two in the Bed
Content warning: At the start of this episode we are discussing the UK Governments U-Turn on Trans Conversion Therapy Ban. Listeners who are sensitive to this may wish to skip the episode to the 17:30 mark.
This week we talk about cuckolding, how we define it and how many people may find themselves into it without realising that might be the case.
For Tea this week we discuss the UK governments U-Turn on Conversion Therapy for Trans people whilst in Tea we di...2022-04-221h 07
Tea Bags & JoystiXXXEp. 34 Pt. 2: Puppy Play! Ft Pup Titan & Pup Trakkena.k.a. Ruff ruff ruff awoooo!
We continue our conversation with Pups Titan and Trakken about pups! We talk about how to not get yourself injured when pupping out, and some seriously bad faith arguments against pup play. We also talk about expectations about the Moon Knight series. Joysticks this week we have Kirby and the Forgotten Land, the Rim Effect mod for RimWorld and some chats about Dungeons & Dragons.
-- Edited by TBnJ Chris
Music: Quarter Conundrum by Dio A.K. – www.soundcloud.com/matt-doak
Find us on socials @TBnJPodcast
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Tea Bags & JoystiXXXEp. 34 Pt. 1: Puppy Play! Ft Pup Titan & Pup Trakkena.k.a. Ruff ruff ruff awoooo!
We're joined by Pup Titan and Trakken this week as we let the pups off their leashes to talk about Puppy Play. Unusually were splitting this episode into two parts because we talked for a VERY long time. In this part you'll find Discussion on; What is it, why our guests love it, what Pup Headspace is, and discussion on degredation Vs praise in the kink.
Tea this week comes in the form of the Hawkeye Soundtrack Song Titles, Batman & that Will Smith Academy Awards moment.
Pa...2022-04-021h 01
Tea Bags & JoystiXXXEp. 33: Kinksters talk Self Expressiona.k.a. Self-Express Yourself!
This week we tackle the subject of how kink and self expression can overlap. Discussing "kinksters" as a subculture akin to bears or twinks within the LGBTQ+ spaces. How we personally approach our self expression with our kinkster culture in mind, and some of the considerations that we take in account both in LGBTQ+ spaces and in day to day life.
For tea this week we talk about Early Reveals of pride month covers from Marvel and DC comics and how narratives are being twisted on twitter to perpetuate vile h...2022-03-181h 12
Tea Bags & JoystiXXXEp. 32: Lost in Translationa.k.a. Google Translate Does Kink
Warning: This episode contains brief discussions around the conflict in Ukraine and breathing difficulties due to a host’s ongoing health issues, listener discretion is advised.
This week we throw out the show we had planned for something to lighten the mood and dive into some light-hearted Google translating as Chris challenges Si to figure out what words, phrases and kink related topics he's run through Google translate.
Tea this week includes the attempt at renaming an Airport Short code because it's. Well... "GAY" while Si intr...2022-03-041h 04
Tea Bags & JoystiXXXEp. 31: Kinky Bucket Listsa.k.a. Kinking the Bucket
Warning: This epsiodes contains discussions of acts in a fantasy setting that should not be attempted. Do not try these things at home.
This episode we discuss some of our more out there fantasies and items on our Kinky Bucket Lists and set our kinky new year resolutions.
For Tea this week we discuss inclusion of pronouns and neo pronouns in The sims and that Microsoft/Activision takeover. Meanwhile in joystick we discuss Diablo 3 and Gaurdians of the Galaxy.
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Tea Bags & JoystiXXXEp. 30: Game of the Rear Awards 2021TBnJ is back for 2022 and, as per tradition, we bring back the TBnJ Game of the Rear awards for 2022. This week were joined by Mr Ian and Dio A.K. as we determine the winner of this years awards finding what we feel the best and worst of gaming in 2021 was for us.
(Note: This is a video game heavy episode that doesn't have a kink topic. We will return next week to our usual kinky selves)
Edited by TBnJ Chris
Music: Quarter Conundrum by Dio A.K. – soundcloud.com/matt-doak
Find us on so...2022-02-041h 36
Tea Bags & JoystiXXXMore-than-Five Minute Marvel: Spider-Man: No Way HomeBecause we can't wait till the new year to talk about Spider-Man: No Way Home. Obvious spoilers. Involves us completely ignoring the five minute countdown clock.2021-12-3109 min
Tea Bags & JoystiXXXEp. 29: Full of Christmas QueerHo ho ho! It's Christmas and Si and Chris engage in a silly game involving the infamous "TB&J List", where we try to argue why a randomly selected kink with a randomly selected character should be considered Christmassy. None of this makes any sense, and that's the fun!
Tea this week we congratulate France on banning LGBTQ+ "conversion therapy" and Keanu Reeves's take on NFTs. And for Joysticks, we talk about the indie title Unpacking and the AAA blockbuster Halo Infinite.
PSA: We will be taking a mid-season break. Expect the next episode around t...2021-12-241h 06
Tea Bags & JoystiXXXEp 28. Leather is Forever (Gear 102: Leather & Bootblacking/Leather Care)This week we're joined by Criag from Kinkyboys Podcast as we delve into the wonderfull world of leather. We talk about why we like it, the customisation available in leather, how to care for your leather and more.
Tea this week includes Inclusivity on the set of Hawkeye and how Crusing is causing problems for wildlife in Gran Canaria whilst on our Joysticks this week we talk about Forza Horizon 5 and Islanders.
Edited by TBnJ Si, Music: Quarter Conundrum by Dio A.K. – https://soundcloud.com/matt-doak, Soundboard: A combination of Royalty free audio. Special thanks to Criag from Kinky Boys...2021-12-101h 00
Tea Bags & JoystiXXXEp.27: Earning A CollarWeather it's for a session or more permenant feature collars are a staple of the kink scene is the collar and this week we discuss our relationship with collars in our relationship and more broadly. What does it mean for a sub to earn their collar? What are the different types of collars? Why might a sub have more than one? What might cause a sub to loose their collar? We get into all this and more. In Tea this week we talk about Lewis Hamilton's LGBT+ representation in Qatar and how Gear ≠ Consent. Meanwhile on out Joysticks this week is...2021-11-261h 25
Tea Bags & JoystiXXXEp. 26: The Legend of Quora*TRIGGER WARNING: This episode contains the sound of fireworks throughout due to UK Bonfire Night Celebrations we apologise in advance for any distress this may cause*
This episode marks the 1 year anniversary of TBnJ and so we thought we would have a bit of fun by diving into the internets treasure trove of questions otherwise known as quora for this bumper episode. We talk about everything from why the Triskellion is on the Kink pride flag to T-Posing for dominance in KFC.
For Tea this week we return to sportsball corner and discuss the coming out of Josh Cavallo and...2021-11-121h 28
Tea Bags & JoystiXXXEp. 25: The Lion, the SWITCH and the WardrobeThis show we are in for a spooktacular chat about witches. Oh, no! Switches? Not light switches, not Nintendo Switches, but BDSM switches. Both Si and Chris identify as switches to some degree, and some people on the scene find it weird. Why? How do we make a role-reversal scene work? And is playing with a switch that different to someone that only goes one way?
In Tea we talked about Marvel's Eternals and Ready Player Two. And for Joysticks, we revisit Robin Morningwood Adventure and explore Metroid Dread.
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Tea Bags & JoystiXXXEp. 24: Feeling the Heat in Saunas (Bathhouses)Si and Chris engage in a HEATed debate (not really) about bathhouses, or saunas as we call them in Blighty. We talk about what attract Si to saunas, what the basic etiquettes are and what sort of kinky fun you can get involved with.
Tea this week is the UK Conservative Party conference and Chris taking the mickey of Si’s locktober task. For Joysticks we have Hades (yet again) and Halo: Master Chief Collection Crossplay.
Edited by TBnJ Chris
Music: Quarter Conundrum by Dio A.K. – https://soundcloud.com/matt-doak
Find us on socials @TBnJPodcast
Send in a voice messa...2021-10-151h 00
Tea Bags & JoystiXXXEp. 23: Locktober? I hard-ley know 'er!This week Si and Chris discuss the growing annual festival that is Locktober. We talk about how we got into it, and what it entails for kinksters with different levels of experience in chastity play.
Tea this week is about Si's cameo over at Kinkyboys Podcast and about over-doing yourself at the gym. In joystixxx, we have Forza Horizon 4, Microsoft Flight Simulator and the Halo Infinite tech preview.
Edited by TBnJ Si
Music: Quarter Conundrum by Dio A.K. - https://soundcloud.com/matt-doak
Find us on socials @TBnJPodcast
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Kinkyboys PodcastKinky and AutisticSi from the teabags and joystixxx podcast comes over to talk about a very big, and very personal topic for the both of us. We go through how being on the autistic spectrum intersects with our kink lives and fetishes. We give an explanation of what living with ASD can be like and do a dive into how it informs who we are as kinky people.
To contact the show, we can be found at:
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One time donation: paypal.me/esquilax
2021-09-191h 22Kinkyboys PodcastKinky and AutisticSi from the teabags and joystixxx podcast comes over to talk about a very big, and very personal topic for the both of us. We go through how being on the autistic spectrum intersects with our kink lives and fetishes. We give an explanation of what living with ASD can be like and do a dive into how it informs who we are as kinky people.
To contact the show, we can be found at:
Contact Us
One time donation: paypal.me/esquilax
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Tea Bags & JoystiXXXEp. 22: Return of the ListThis week sees the first return of the TBnJ List as we generate a few rounds of a kink mix and match as your favourite pop culture characters and kinks come together to find which we think would be involved with each.
Tea this week involves being Gay on Time and that unusual ways podcasting crosses into real life whilst our joysticks this week consists of Hades, Lumines and Metal Gear Acid as well as the experamentalist period of videogames.
Edited by TBnJ Si
Music: Quarter Conundrum by Dio A.K. - https://soundcloud.com/matt-doak
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Tea Bags & JoystiXXXEp. 21: Best Lain Only FansThis week were all about the TEA as we're joined by Only Fans content creator W.A.S.P Hunter to talk about the Only Fans Porn Ban 180, what affect it had on content creators and how content creators feel about the platform going forward. We also Spill Tea on an Si's recent health scare and Chris brings us an unfortuante article for discussion. Meanwhile the 5 Minute Marvel Returns and on Joysticks this week we talk Gamecube Nostalgia with Hunter, Boyfriend Dungeon with Si and more.
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Tea Bags & JoystiXXXEpisode 20: All Bois Are Degraded Equally (Degradation/Humiliation 101)Tea Bags and Joystixxx is back for Season 2! This week we delve into the topic of degradation and humiliation. What does it involve? Why are people into them? How do we not get hurt while engaging with these kinks?
For tea this week we talk about Manchester Pride's ongoing controversy. While for Joysticks, we cover Microsoft Flight Simulator and Minecraft.
Edited by TBnJ Chris
Music: Quarter Conundrum by Dio A.K. - https://soundcloud.com/matt-doak
Sound bite (14:35) from Becky Want show, BBC Radio Manchester on 11 Aug 2021 - https://www.bbc.co.uk...2021-08-201h 17Tea Bags & JoystiXXXEpisode 19: The one where we explain whats going on...Si and Chris sit down this week and explain what happened that took us off air for a short while and mark the official "end" of season 1 of Tea Bags and Joystixx. Theres no Kink topic this week but we do have breif Tea about tech woes, The Olympics and local allyship, we also talk about Mini Motoroways and have a 5 Minute Marvel to cover some of what we missed.
We will be back with Season 2 of the TBnJPodcast in a few weeks time (before the end of august) and we look forward to bringing you more...2021-07-3125 minTea Bags & JoystiXXXPSA: Technical DifficultiesJust a PSA from Chris this week. Si is having technical difficulties that means we can't record this week. Hopefully we will be back on track and have an episode out next week!2021-07-2301 min
Tea Bags & JoystiXXXEpisode 18 - What If... Kink Were a Video Game?This week Chris and Si "create" a role playing video game based on kink! From fighting the Vanilla Witch Karen, bondage skill trees, and dominant/submissive level ups, we let our imaginations run wild and write a pitch for our "game"! For tea this episode we talk about Pride flags-inspired sofas and the UEFA Euro 2020 kerfuffle (also about Pride flags). In joysticks, we have GolfTopia and A Pirate's Life expansion for Sea of Thieves.
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Tea Bags & JoystiXXXEpisode 17 - Taking Pride in our History (Pride Month 2021)This week we look at the history of pride. From what was happening before the legend of Stonewall, to the passing of Marriage Equality in the UK we take you on a whistlestop tour of pride in the second of our pride month specials. But not before spilling Tea why Ebay's Adult Content Ban spells trouble for LGBT+ Archival work and Youtube's take down of Australian comedy channel Ding Dong I'm Gay. We also get some time on our Joysticks on Carto and Mech Warrior 5: Mercenaries.2021-06-251h 22
Tea Bags & JoystiXXXBonus: E3 or not E3 (E3 2021)If Pride is "Gay Christmas", then E3 is probably the Gamers' Christmas. In this bonus episode we talk about what we each got excited about during the E3 season. No teas or joysticks, just a near unedited conversation between us with our random thoughts on the game companies' presentations.2021-06-2048 min
Tea Bags & JoystiXXXEpisode 16: Pride effects may include.... (Pride Month 2021)It's pride month and we'd be missing a beat as LGBT Kinksters not to talk about pride this month so this week we're talking about what pride means to us. From our first prides to some of our fun experainces from pride! We also have some community members talk about what pride means to them including guests from other podcasts (Kinky Boys Podcast, Shut the WOOF up, & Master Slave Lifestyle podcast).
Tea this week takes the form of Racing Prides partnership with Aston Martin and TV's edging of us with on again off again show cancellations/finales.
Meanwhile, on our...2021-06-111h 24
Tea Bags & JoystiXXXEpisode 15 - Post Pandemic PandemoniumWith the UK opening form lockdown, we discuss our attitudes towards hooking up, going to bars and being cautious about moving forward after the pandemic lockdowns and also we talk about how its ok to not be ok with everything right away. We also spill Tea as we talk about the concept of "Smart" device sex toys and that UK Eurovision entry whilst over on our JoystiXXX we have Mass Effect and Dorfromantik.
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*Disclaimer: In this episode, Si and Chris discuss the ongoing pandemic and our conversations are based on our understanding at time of recording. While care has be...2021-05-281h 22
Tea Bags & JoystiXXXEpisode 14 - All you can Feet!This week were getting to the sole of the issue as we delve into the intricacies of foot play. We talk about how we perceive the fetish as someone who is into it (Chris) and someone who isn't (Si) and what it is that turns people on about it. Tea this week comes in the form of LGBT+ Sports History in Cricket as the Birmingham Unicorns takes on the London Graces from Chris and Performative Corporate Activism from Si while in Joystixxx this week we talk about New Pokémon Snap.2021-05-141h 14
Tea Bags & JoystiXXXEpisode 13: 50 Shades of NegotiationWe like tea, but we don’t like it when someone forces it down our throats. Same when it comes to sex and kink. We talk about why consent is so important, what you should do as both dom and sub, and what we find useful when it comes to scene negotiation. We spill tea this week on the Oscars (and the award season in general). And on our joysticks, we talk about Dungeons and Dragons as well as video game streaming. -- Find us on Twitter at http://www.twitter.com/TBnJPodcast - or - leave us a message at...2021-04-301h 24
Tea Bags & JoystiXXXEpisode 12: Horn, Porn or ScornWould you do Watersports with Pac-Man? How about Cuckolding with Agent-47? Or maybe SPH with Iron Man? This week we put a kinky twist on a party game and see which ones we would and wouldn't do. In Tea this week we talk lockdown fatigue, the passing of HRH The Duke of Edinburgh & a potential HIV Vaccine Candidate. Meanwhile our JoystiXXX this week are Sentinels of Freedom and The Touryst. -- Find us on Twitter at http://www.twitter.com/TBnJPodcast - or - leave us a message at http://www.Anchor.FM/TBnJPodcast. -- Audio Credits: Editing: TBnJPodcast Si Mu...2021-04-161h 00
Tea Bags & JoystiXXXEpisode 11 - Tie me up & Tie me down (Bondage 101)This week we get all tied up as we discuss bondage for the first time. What it is? What we like about it? What are some of the safety aspects to consider? What different types of bondage are there? and more in this "Bondage 101" type session.
We also spill tea this week on getting STD tested during the pandemic. On our Joysticks this week we discuss our thoughts on Pokemon Cafe (Moible/Ninteno Switch) and revisit Sea of Theives (Xbox One/ Series X/S).
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Tea Bags & JoystiXXXEpisode 10 - Gear Eye for the Queer Guy (Gear 101)Rubber, Leather, Suits, Sportswear, Pups, Scally. Kink Gear comes in many forms and this week, we take a look at what gear means to us in what were calling a "Gear 101" episode. What it is, Why we wear it, whats some of the do's and don'ts and why you should get to know boot blacks. We look at some of the misconceptions of wearing gear and how much colours really mean in the scene from a UK perspective. In Tea this week we talk about leaving the house properly for the first time in a year and some childish...2021-03-191h 16
Tea Bags & JoystiXXXEpisode 9 - The Gaming Sex Toy BundleDo you ever look at videogame franchise merchandise and wonder how it came to be? Well, so do we, but we decided to put a twist on it as we work out what sex toys and related goodies different videogame franchises might produce. Tea this week includes a look back into the world of Rugby inclusivity and some updates to HIV and coronavirus related healthcare in the UK and Joysticks this week sees us talking about the Xbox series X and the Mario 35th anniversary. -- Find us on Twitter at http://www.twitter.com/TBnJPodcast or leave us a...2021-03-051h 11
Tea Bags & JoystiXXXEpisode 8 - Going the (Long) DistanceThis week we find our way as we discuss long distance relationships, what's worked for us, some of the pitfalls and positives and some of the things you can do to keep the spark alive. Were also serving our Tea extra hot this week as we tackle a few divisive moves in the media and fashion industries and our Joystixxx include Shapes and Beats, Gears of War and Tetris Effect. Find us on Twitter at http://www.twitter.com/TBnJPodcast or leave us a message at http://www.Anchor.FM/TBnJPodcast. Audio Credits: Editing: TBnJPodcast Si Music: Dio A.K...2021-02-191h 15
Tea Bags & JoystiXXXEpisode 7 - Bullet (Vibrator) for My ValentineThis week, we're looking into Valentine's Day presents, in particular the reviews! Where we read some descriptive and suggestive reviews of sex toys and have to guess what the toy is. In other news, we remember the mother of gay rugby Alice Hoagland, discuss the tea on Disney Plus Marvel Studio releases, as well as discussing the curious games of “Robin Morningwood Adventures” and “Monster Train”. Audio Credits: Editing: TBnJPodcast Si Music: Dio A.K - https://soundcloud.com/matt-doak2021-02-051h 19
Tea Bags & JoystiXXXEpisode 6 - The Power Dynamic Skill TreeThis week we answer a question left on our answer machine by a listener about the power dynamics of kink and in our relationship. We talk about how chastity fits into polyamory, if we have a TPE relationship, how we view titles such as Sir & Master, and what protocols are how we employ them in our relationship. We also spill the tea on Uncle Roger & how 2021 has started and discuss our experiences with Zelda: Breath of the Wild, Fallout 76 and F1: 2020.2021-01-221h 09
Tea Bags & JoystiXXXEpisode 5 - 2020 Game Of The Rear AwardsIt's the turn of Year so it's time to reflect on the Videogames that we played in 2020 and hand out some awards. But it wouldn't be the TBnJ Podcast if the catagory names didn't have a kinky twist. We welcome our first ever guest Ian who shares some insights into game development as we decide on our awards and throws some interesting suggestions of his own into the mix. Audio Credits: Editing: TBnJPodcast Si Music: Dio A.K - https://soundcloud.com/matt-doak2021-01-092h 12
Tea Bags & JoystiXXXBonus: The Twelve Days of KinkmasA present to our listeners, from our poly family to yours. Tea Bags and Podcast Presents: The Twelve Days of C̶h̶r̶i̶s̶t̶m̶a̶s̶ Kinkmas.
Audio Credits:
Adjusted Lyrics: TBnJPodcast
Vocals: TBnJPodcast Si
Piano Arrangment and Accompanyment: TBnJPodcast Chris
Lyrics:
On the 1st Day of Kinkmas my cuckold gave to me 1 a bull in his rear entry
On the 2nd Day of Kinkmas my bottom gave to me 2 but plugs...
On the 3rd Day of Kinkmas my lover gave to me 3 hickies...2020-12-2305 min
Tea Bags & JoystiXXXEpisode 4 - A Cyberpunk KinkmasTwas the night before Kinkmas and all through the house. Not a Submissive was stirring, not even a pup. This week we get festive talking about how you can kink up your Christmas fun and adlib some kinky Christmas carols. We also discuss the big gaming and geekery news as part of our regular Tea and Joystixx sections touching on the now Infamous Cyberpunk 2077 launch, the Marvel MCU news and the change in blood donation rules for gay men!
Audio Credits:
Editing: TBnJPodcast Si
Music: Dio A.K - https://soundcloud.com/matt-doak
Passionate...2020-12-221h 26
Tea Bags & JoystiXXXEpisode 3 - Along Came PolyamoryThis week we talk about Polyamory and how that works for us. We address some common questions and have some deep talks about what it meant to us to realise we were Poly and how that affected us. We also discuss Xbox Series S|X & PS5 console scalping, talk about what we've been playing this week (Animal Crossing and Paper Mario) and revisit our videogame character kink theories.
Si's Animal Crossing Dream Address = DA-6626-6965-3769.
Audio Credits: Editing: TBnJPodcast Si Music: Dio A.K - https://soundcloud.com/matt-doak2020-12-111h 09
Tea Bags & JoystiXXXEpisode 2 - Achievement (un)Locked: ChastityWe have a bumper show for you this week. We talk about; the problem with Sia's new movie project; The Destiny 2 Beyond Light DLC; Watch Dogs Legion's LGBT+ Representation (as well as the Curious case of the male dominatrix); and our main topic of the week is Chastity including our thoughts on the CB-6000, Holy trainer, Steelworxx Crossfire and the kink3d Cobra. (oh and we talk about why porn plumbers now have competition from Mario!).
Audio Credits: Editing: TBnJPodcast Si Music: Dio A.K - https://soundcloud.com/matt-doak2020-11-271h 15
Tea Bags & JoystiXXXEpisode 1 - Darth Vader is A Leather DaddyOur first episode and it's all on the table: Awkward introductions, America's world record edging session, Ninja Assassin Grandma's, Greek Gods, Master Chief's Blue Balls and revelations about Darth Vader... Join us for our debut episode. Audio Credits: Editing: TBnJPodcast Si,
Music credit:
Severe Tire Damage by Kevin MacLeod
Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5004-severe-tire-damage
License: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/2020-11-1341 min