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Thoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiIts OFFICIAL! SEASON 2: OUT MY MIND! Coming June 1st!Send us a textI FINALLY DID IT! I ADDED A VIDEO TO THE PODCAST! Whew. Took long enough. Not exactly what I wanted, but it couldn't wait. I had to get this out. Wanna see me? Click the link below to the pod and subscribe!!!https://youtu.be/02DZc6p-Mq4Welcome to Season 2 of Thoughts of a Dreamer — Out My Mind.After over 100 episodes and a long-awaited visual relaunch, I’m back with stories that cut deep, insights that heal, and words that push you toward the vers...2025-05-2304 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#112 - Accepting "AS IS" : Series Finale - THE FINAL EPISODE :(Send us a textThank y'all for the fun. Follow me on my NEW podcast - Thoughts of a Creative Its be real. Be yourself. 2024-01-0813 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#111: From Part Time Creator To Full Time Creator - The TransitionSend us a textSurprise surprise... :D Am I back? nah... but I'm here. I am transitioning and still getting used to this new new and I need time to adjust. However, I wanted to get this oldie out!When creating part time, those juices are flowing! No pressure. All passion. When creating full time, you have to wrangle your ever allusive, ambiguous creativity on a deadline. Its completely different... and I didn't know. Creativity ebbs and flows... work with it or you'll be in a world of hurt. Love y'all in real l...2023-10-1814 minYour Selling Podcast with Nikki KirkYour Selling Podcast with Nikki KirkEp 35 | Changing Your Mindset From Hobby to Profitable Business with Terri DearbornHey Crew! This week I sit down with Amazon Seller Terri Dearborn! Terri is an Air Force Veteran who started her Amazon business like many do, with books. She quickly realized that wasn’t for her and when she picked up Amazon again a few years later, she decided to try the Retail Arbitrage model. It’s been a few years and as she sees its potential, is making the change from treating it like a hobby to running a small business.  Find Terri on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/terridearborn/ Try SellerBoard today and get t...2023-10-1142 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#110: how to support a creative... cuz we're different... frfrSend us a textYou have a special creative in your life... they're screaming that you don't support them... what do they mean? They probably don't know either... so... just listen. :) If you're dating an entrepreneur, creative, or dreamer... you need to hear this. We are DIFFERENT... hopefully you'll understand. Much love! T2023-07-1724 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#109: I'm Not Delusional, It's ConfidenceSend us a textConfidence... you gotta have it. I'm sorry. All these low vibration... low confidence decisions??? bad for your health. :D not really, but really... It's time to be delusional. Say it until you believe it. Eff what they say. Delulu. Feed into those delusions... safely. 2023-06-2524 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#108: Skepticism and New OpportunitiesSend us a textI might be afraid of the big rooms... I think I may be skeptical.  Whenever we get new opportunities, most of us look like… 👀 is this for real?? It looks too good to be true… I can’t do that!! I don’t have the experience!!! Etc.. Well, I hate to tell you, if you keep waiting for your emotions to give you the warm and fuzzies, chances are… you’re not gonna move. Take a listen! Oprah & TD Jakes Lifeclass The transition is HAPPENING!!! Let’s get it!! ...2023-06-1118 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#107: when you feel you can'tSend us a textI hate feeling like I can't do something, but it's easy for me to feel better about my decision NOT to do it. Howsoever... are you being HONEST with you? or... are you just following your internal script? Are you used to saying you can't do something so you pull from your "can't" bag?Well, whenever you feel you can't... take a listen! :) 2023-06-0418 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#106: Self Sabotage... Years LaterSend us a textMan... stop. If I had kept goin... I'd be in a different space. thats it. thats the description. 2023-05-2919 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#105: Self Sabotage Shrinks Big DreamsSend us a textDream big, they say... Just do it, they say... PUH-LEEEZE! How do I get these dreams out my head?!? I wanna see them in real life, but their soooo big my head and not so big in reality. What ta dooooo???I'm Afraid To Dream Big - Mel Robbins 2023-05-1818 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#104: self sabotage loves comfort zones.Send us a textI promise this was crazy how this happened.  I can't make this up!! Just listen.  I'm learning about this self sabotage thing... The Mountain is You - Briana Wiest 2023-05-0917 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#103: self sabotage has entered the chat.Send us a textits been months. why leave something you enjoy doing? two words. self sabotage. I've been reading The Mountain is You by Briana Weist and I had to take a hard reset. This book has been everything for me and the kickstart back into this podcast. Y'all had some self sabatoge too? well, come on in... the water is nice. :Dhttps://positivepsychology.com/self-sabotage/https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-everyday-unconscious/202303/the-real-reason-we-self-sabotage-and-how-to-stop2023-05-0220 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#102: creative & emotional afSend us a textOk. I'm emotional. like... SUPER emotional. It gets a little difficult to regulate these emotions, but I HAVE to find a way to funnel these emotions into my creativity. sheesh. Need a great life coach? Business coach? Check out the coach who help kickstart this podcast and all my other business ventures - Mr. Bricesin Scott. Tell him Terri Nikki sent you! :) Journals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There are only a handful, but there are more to come! Check out the link for my amazon shop! 2023-03-1216 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#101 - The 3 Vantage PointsSend us a textOpinions are like... well... you know the rest. Everybody has one. I went on a work trip to Orlando and had 3 people express their opinions and recommendations for my life. Here is what I feel about their vantage point  and what it has done for my life... for my dreams. *side eye* Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamerJournals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There is only a handful, but there are more to come! Check out the link for m...2023-02-2620 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#100: The FIRST step is the HARDEST!Send us a textok. It's here. opportunity. you've thought about it. you've analyzed it. you really wanna do it, but you don't know why you're on pause. take a listen. Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamerJournals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There is only a handful, but there are more to come! Check out the link for my amazon shop! Changes are A'BREWIN! ! :) I know it may be random, but if you need some great recipes FROM SCRATCH... check out my YouTube...2023-02-1622 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#99: VALIDATE ME! I need it.Send us a textI love award shows! ...no, I don't. well, I might hate them... but I love them? :) Idk. But, what I do know is... I feel all the FEELS! Award shows are a way to see others vulnerabilities... you see how they FEEL about their craft. You see how they feel VALID! I think it's time we talk validation for creators... How much validation do you need?? #validation #grammys #socialmedia #mindset #trustyourself #awardshowsWanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamerJournals/notebooks are...2023-02-0918 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#98: Am I CRAZY??!!? Path of Resistance, Perspective & BeliefSend us a textTerri, where have you been? What's been going on? I'm here y'all. I'm still here. it's been a lot. Here's my story. Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamerJournals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There is only a handful, but there are more to come! Check out the link for my amazon shop! Changes are A'BREWIN! ! :) I know it may be random, but if you need some great recipes FROM SCRATCH... check out my YouTube page for my bakery Southern...2023-02-0219 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#97: Don't Talk About It... BE About It! Stop Bumping Gums!Send us a textMan... funemployment taught me a whole lot about myself... I just talk. I'm gonna do this... I'm gonna do that... I just create a whole scenario in my mind of a goal and tell people what I'm gonna do with the whole cocky assumption that I'm ACTUALLY gonna do it. tsk tsk tsk... I've NEVER done this before but I'm gonna do it now. yeah... no. Instead of talking about it, be about it. START the thing you said you'd do and SEE if you even like it... see if it's...2022-12-2814 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#96 - I Bet On Myself... and LOST!Send us a textI quit my job. I decided to take a leap of faith and just go for it! I pushed all my chips in and... "lost." Here's my dream chasing story. Take a listen. Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamerJournals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There is only a handful, but there are more to come! Check out the link for my amazon shop! Changes are A'BREWIN! ! :) I know it may be random, but if you need some...2022-12-2113 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#95: this ego has to go. transparent moment.Send us a textEgo. Identity of self. Perception of self. How do you see yourself? Well, I see myself and I'm like... wait... THIS is what has been stopping me?!?! I have an announcement. Things are changing. Change with me. I'm gonna be TRANSPARENT. Take a listen. Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamerJournals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There is only a handful, but there are more to come! Check out the link for my amazon shop! Changes are A'BREWIN...2022-11-0921 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#94: How To Go VIRAL... Truthfully.Send us a textDo you wanna go viral? Yes! Let's do this thing! ...but first.. a few questions... Take a listen. Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamerJournals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There is only a handful, but there are more to come! Check out the link for my amazon shop! Changes are A'BREWIN! ! :) I know it may be random, but if you need some great recipes FROM SCRATCH... check out my YouTube page for my bakery Southern Drizzle! ...2022-11-0314 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiREWIND: Don't Trust THAT Voice Within!Send us a textI'm down today. :( I need to rest up a bit so I will post this rewind because it's one of my FAVORITES! I'm getting hit with a lot of inner critic voices lately and needed a re-up. If you have "the voices" (and I know you do...) take a listen! :) See y'all next week! FROM EPISODE #63: We all have an inner critic. We all have the voices that tell us we CAN'T and SHOULDN'T do. Those are judgments from our inner critc. If we aren't...2022-10-2617 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#93: Are You Too Busy or Too Distracted?Send us a textImagine a time with no internet... No cell phones... No caller ID... No social media... Yes, it seems like FOREVER ago, but most of us were THERE when it all started. SLOWLY but surely, we've become ZOMBIES and allowed this internet thing deteriorate our brains! (Just in time for halloween...) :D Long story short, you're not being productive. You're not sure why. Well, distractions have become STANDARD, ROUTINE and ENGRAINED in your daily movements. Let's unpack! Listen, I ran up on this article and book that was SUPER interesting! Check it...2022-10-2024 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#92: Using GRIT or Saying Eff ItSend us a textYou've worked. You've been grinding. You hit the wall. You're tired. You now have the option to PUSH thru or say EFF it... What do you choose? We want to dream chase, you gotta have mental toughness, endurance and strength. Lets GO! The Science of Developing Mental Toughness in Health, Work and Life by James Clear Atomic Habits - James Clear 2022-10-1319 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#91: Having A Hard Time Focusing? Me too.Send us a textI love when I'm in the zone! There's nothing like feeling like you are knocking it out and being productive and the SMALLEST thing happens - THEN BOOM! Focus & momentum is GONE. GONE! Lost without a trace. Well, I'm realizing I gotta get this focus ALL the way together! Take a listen.Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamerJournals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There is only a handful, but there are more to come! Check out the link for...2022-10-0515 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#90: You already know what to do... You're just ignoring it.Send us a textYou know what you feel, but you know what you need to do.  Now, you feel like you have to fight between what you feel vs what you HAVE to do. Intuition and necessity goes hand in hand to me. I mean... we ignore our intuition. We ignore the small voice. We focus on what needs to be done now instead of trusting and leaning on what we intuitively feel.  We sacrifice momentary happiness for long-term happiness (in theory)... when honestly, we get used to feeling average with spikes of happiness and feel th...2022-09-2818 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#89: The ABYSS Between Thought & ActionSend us a textWelcome new listeners! :D yay! Little do y'all know, you've struck GOLD! Yes, GOLD! No, you will not get a check from me, but you will (hopefully) change your mind! Think about what you wanna do. Think about a goal. Think about a dream. Now, think of what it takes to do it... what do you FEEL?!?! Probably a lot of stuff. You may throw out an excuse. You may have convinced yourself you can't for WHATEVER reason... but, that's only because that thought has DIED within the ABYSS or grey area between...2022-09-2116 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#88: Fear of the UnknownSend us a text*spooky* I'm so scurred of what's coming up! So... I'm just gonna stop right here. Nope. Can't make me move. Scared. Afraid. I like it where I am. not really, but... what's the alternative? Take a listen! https://www.healthline.com/health/understanding-and-overcoming-fear-of-the-unknownhttps://www.choosingtherapy.com/fear-of-the-unknown/Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamerJournals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There is only a handful, but there are more to come! Check out the link for...2022-09-1416 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#87: Weather the Storm - A Lesson in HindsightSend us a textWhy am I going through this? I didn't expect this? Why is this happening to me? I'm sure you've all asked these questions ESPECIALLY during times of turmoil! It can seem like the sky is falling #hennypenny. I want this vision. I see this new life and THIS is happening?!? WTF, bro?!?! Welp, welcome. Welcome to the level up. Welcome to the new phase and stage in life. In hindsight, you'll see just why you needed to weather this storm. Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com...2022-09-0717 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#86: You Already Have Everything You NeedSend us a textListen... it's been a whole journey. I wish life didn't diminish and shift us from what makes us feel the most alive! Life has a tendency to drown out that small voice that tells us what WE need. Instead, we focus on what everyone else is doing and follow suit.  Eventually, your soul will CRAVE what it needs. You won't be able to ignore it. What will you do then? You don't need ANYTHING to be what you need for success. You already have it in you... it's just not evolved yet. Take a...2022-09-0113 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#85: Purpose, Passions, Gifts & TalentsSend us a textThere are so many questions surrounding purpose, passions, gifts and talents. How to I find my purpose? What is my purpose? Is my passion my purpose? Why can't I find my purpose? Man! There is so much information regarding purpose. SO MUCH! ... nothing makes is less confusing. If you still question purpose, take a listen. ...I can talk about this all damn day. Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamerJournals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There is only a handful, but...2022-08-2421 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#84: The Effects of Maybe LaterSend us a textMaybe later, I'll do [fill in the blank]. Look at you... procrastinating your little heart out. We gotta stop this. Your feelings won't change later. You'll still feel the feels of resistance now or later... why not do it now?  Procrastination has its perks, but not too many... Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamerJournals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There is only a handful, but there are more to come! Check out the link for my amazon shop! STARTING MORE SOON!!! 2022-08-1718 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#83: Procrastination Monkey.Send us a textYou read that right. If you know you’re a procrastinator, have you ever asked the questions as to how or why? Do you know what you can do to kill or minimize procrastination? Well, take a listen! https://youtu.be/arj7oStGLkUTim Urban - Inside the Mind of a Procrastinator - GREAT SPEECH!! :D 2022-08-1020 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#82: Procrastination is the Thief of TimeSend us a textWhew! Pivital moments have shifted me to look at time. Time is fleeting, so why are we so comfortable in thinking we have it? We don't know what kind of time we have. We have dreams and goals, but if we're always putting it off and procrastinating... we'll NEVER accomplish them. Just a discussion. Just something to make you think. https://markooo.com/negative-effects-of-procrastination/https://www.productplan.com/glossary/4-ds-of-time-management/Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamerJournals/notebooks are...2022-08-0320 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#81: The SWEET SPOT Between Vision and Business - Entrepreneurial Mindset #6 - Being FlexibleSend us a textSTRETCH those muscles! Loosen up! We need this business to work, so we have to take this vision that we're SOOOO stubborn with and make it a business. However, you have to be FLEXIBLE enough to allow the vision to change. You have to find the SWEET SPOT! We need our creations to take care of us financially... https://www.notsalmon.com/2019/07/05/reasons-stubborn-good-trait-helpful-business/https://steverosephd.com/how-to-be-more-flexible-in-life/https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/how-to-gracefully-accept-change/Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamer2022-07-2823 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#80: Just MAKE A DECISION! Entreprenurial Mindset #5 - Being DecisiveSend us a textIndecisiveness leads to missed opportunities, loss of income, loss of TIME. You have to make a decision. Well, how do I do that? ... take a listen. https://www.wellandgood.com/how-to-be-more-decisive/amp/ Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamerJournals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There is only a handful, but there are more to come! Check out the link for my amazon shop! STARTING MORE SOON!!! OMG. I'm ALMOST finished with my website! :) I know it may be...2022-07-2217 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#79: Why Can't I Make Decisions? - Entrepreneurial Mindset #4: Being DecisiveSend us a textUgh. Just make a damn decision already. HURRY UP! (insert: Angry face emoji) Don't yall get tired of people asking you to make a decision and you have a SLEW of emotions that you go through? You just CANT make a decision OR you're not too comfortable in your decision. Why is that? Well, let's talk about it. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/counseling-keys/201707/uncovering-hidden-causes-indecisionWanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamerJournals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There is...2022-07-1312 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#78: I Don't Wanna Make A Mistake! Entreprenurial Mindset #3 - Fear of MistakesSend us a textFear. We all have and experience some level of fear or anxiety.  Well, if you're afraid to make mistakes, check out THIS episode. Lets work on this... https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/brainsnacks/201203/the-only-5-fears-we-all-share?amphttps://hbr.org/2020/06/how-to-overcome-your-fear-of-making-mistakesWanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamerJournals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There is only a handful, but there are more to come! Check out the link for my amazon shop! STARTING MORE SOON!!! O...2022-07-0618 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#77: I CAN DO THIS! ...maybe - Entrepreneurial Mindset #2 (Self-Efficacy)Send us a textI wanna be FREEEEEEE! Live off my CRE AY TIV UH TEEEEEE! So, I guess I'm an entrepreneur (in some sense...) but thing is... this mindset is WHEW! I know I can do it. You know you can do it.. until you don't feel you can. Then what? Let's talk about this self-efficacy and the entrepreneurial mindset. We're transitioning to the ENTREPRENEURIAL MINDSET series! We have to change our minds to be successful. Success starts here. Join me! https://positivepsychology.com/self-efficacy/by Courtney E. Ackerman...2022-06-2916 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#76: Discovering the Entrepreneurial MindsetSend us a textYou have it. You have the thing or creation that will financially liberate you. You've researched. You've tested. You've asked the questions. You've started the paper work. You FINALLY take the plunge and then... YOUR MIND IS NOT READY!?!!? Omg. What do I do? WHAT TF DO I DO?!?! I wasn't sure this was a thing... but now I know. We're transitioning to the ENTREPRENURIAL MINDSET series! We have to change our minds to be successful. Success starts here. Join me! Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https...2022-06-2214 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#75: You vs. YouSend us a textWhen you break down the walls of excuses, it's BLARINGLY clear the limitations were because of ME. Now, it's me vs. me. My mind vs my actions. I will win. Living life intentionally. Living life on purpose. No more elephant graveyards. No more electric fences. No more barbed wire. Time to remove those limitations... and I bet it starts with YOU! :)  Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamerJournals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There are only a handful, but there are more t...2022-06-1512 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#74: Weighing Your OptionsSend us a textUgh. Options. The right to choose. I mean... ugh. If you stay in that head with that dream, nothing happens. If you choose not to do anything, nothing FURTHER happens. If you choose to put actions on this dream or business, you're gonna be weighing options until you get where you wanna go! Roadblocks on this journey will TEST your vulnerability. It'll put you in your feels. But hey, gotta love options... right? Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamerJournals/notebooks are for s...2022-06-0813 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#73 - When You're Not MotivatedSend us a textWe all lose motivation. EVERY SINGLE ONE OF US. Just take a listen. Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamerJournals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There are only a handful, but there are more to come! Check out the link for my amazon shop! STARTING MORE SOON!!! I know it may be random, but if you need some great recipes FROM SCRATCH... check out my YouTube page for my bakery Southern Drizzle! Be sure to subscribe! RATE the...2022-06-0112 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#72: You're Not Protecting Yourself, You're REJECTING YOURSELF!!Send us a textLet's think about this thing... how many of us will look at something and say... Nah. Nope. Not gone do it. Not wasting my time... Well, you're ACTUALLY not protecting yourself from rejection, you're self rejecting. Keep on saying no. Keep on! (I'm being sarcastic.) You get in this habit of saying no then you'll NEVER progress. You'll look up and see everyone else "doing better" than you and you have no idea why. Well... YOU KEEP SAYING NO! Stop it. Right now. Betta check yourself before you wreck yourself. :D (Y...2022-05-2517 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#71: Pivotal Moments & Desperate DecisionsSend us a textThis is kind of a two-fer.  I wanted to only talk about one thing but... yeah... that didn't happen. I had a pivotal moment. It caused emotional damage. Things weren't the same. Now I see why I wasn't progressing. I was moving in a space of desperation. Maybe this has happened to you...  take a listen. I'm all over the place. Trying somthing new. Join me on this journeyyyy!!! Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamerJournals/notebooks are for sale on Am...2022-05-1814 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#70: *GASP* The Audacity.Send us a text*clutches pearls* I can't BELIEVE they have the audacity... well, honestly... you need it.  You need an audacious spirit if you want to move forward in your journey. Take the next step. Be bold. You don't need to be ready. You need to give yourself permission. You just HAVE to have audacity.  PERIOD! Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamerJournals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There are only a handful, but there are more to come! Check out the link for my am...2022-05-1212 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#69: Perception - What Do You See?!?Send us a text:) Yes. Back from a break. I explain why. But first... Plato's Allegory of a Cave. Take a listen. Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamerJournals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There are only a handful, but there are more to come! Check out the link for my amazon shop! STARTING MORE SOON!!! I know it may be random, but if you need some great recipes FROM SCRATCH... check out my YouTube page for my bakery Southern Drizzle! Be su...2022-05-0408 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#68: Gray Area Decisions: Reality vs. IntuitionSend us a textWe've all been there... what will you choose? Listen... Need a great life coach? Business coach? Check out the coach who help kickstart this podcast and all my other business ventures - Mr. Bricesin Scott. Tell him Terri Nikki sent you! :) Mindfulness Journal Magazine is such a great resource to understand your mind. They provide great tips to keep you grounded and minimize anxiety and stress by addressing mindfulness practices. See it for yourself! **Also sold in major retailers!** **UPDATE** NEW EPISODES are moving to WEDNESDAY! Hump...2022-03-2413 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#67: I Don't Feel Creative Anymore. I Quit.Send us a text...yeah... that was clickbait. Sorry not sorry. Honestly, a lot of creatives feel their identity, their fortune, their happiness comes from their creativity. So, what happens when you don't feel creative? What happens when you can't focus? How do  you get your mojo back? Should you just give up? Take a listen! Need a great life coach? Business coach? Check out the coach who help kickstart this podcast and all my other business ventures - Mr. Bricesin Scott. Tell him Terri Nikki sent you! :) Mindfulness Journal Magazine is such a...2022-03-1718 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#66: That Kanye Confidence Hits DifferentSend us a textSay what you want about this man. One thing you can't say, he lacks confidence. In watching the Jeen-Yuhs documentary, I am so happy that we get to see the JOURNEY of success. It's one thing to hear it, but another to see it. Kanye's consistency is admirable. Kanye's vulnerablity is respectible. Kayne's consistency is unmatched. These were my 3 keys to finding that success you crave... Regardless of what you think of the person, I still suggest you watch this as a creative, visionary or dreamer... Perspective. Now is your time...2022-03-0310 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#65: Revisiting Old Passions Aint EASY!Send us a textI had to check myself before I wrecked myself. Word. I haven't been 100% honest with you... let alone MYSELF! I pride myself on transparency but honestly, I've been running from an OLD dream myself. This dream is deep seeded. This dream keeps me up. This dream has been through some things. I ran away from it becuase of failure. Now is the time to pick it back up. I wasn't prepared for the ANXIETY that surrounded that old fear. Take a listen. Need a great life coach? Business coach? Check out...2022-02-2414 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiRewind: Intuition and the Second OpinionSend us a textI'm disconnected. In order to RECONNECT, I need time. I need to ground. I need to find my spark again. In the meantime, listen to this rewind of episode 40: Intution and the Second Opinion. I LOVE this episode. Raw. One take. I'll be back. Grounding... Need a great life coach? Business coach? Check out the coach who help kickstart this podcast and all my other business ventures - Mr. Bricesin Scott. Tell him Terri Nikki sent you! :) Mindfulness Journal Magazine is such a great resource to understand...2022-02-1710 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#64. Minimize the POWER of the Inner CriticSend us a textOk... so the voice is a choice. You can listen or not. You have that right. But, what if you have no idea that voice has POWER over you? What if you didn't even know you were under the spell of your inner critic? Well, I found this article that I want to share! How to Diminish the Power Of Your Inner Critic - Karen Dempsey Need a great life coach? Business coach? Check out the coach who help kickstart this podcast and all my other business ventures...2022-02-1014 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#63: Don't Trust THAT Voice WithinSend us a textWe all have an inner critic. We all have the voices that tell us we CAN'T and SHOULDN'T do. Those are judgments from our inner critc. If we aren't careful, those thoughts can keep us PARALYZED. Lets discuss what that inner critc does to a dream... Need a great life coach? Business coach? Check out the coach who help kickstart this podcast and all my other business ventures - Mr. Bricesin Scott. Tell him Terri Nikki sent you! :) Mindfulness Journal Magazine is such a great resource to understand your...2022-02-0315 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#62: How To Set An IntentionSend us a textIt's been a rough month for your girl. I JUST set my 2022 intention. I thought to just take y'all along on the journey! Need a great life coach? Business coach? Check out the coach who help kickstart this podcast and all my other business ventures - Mr. Bricesin Scott. Tell him Terri Nikki sent you! :) Mindfulness Journal Magazine is such a great resource to understand your mind. They provide great tips to keep you grounded and minimize anxiety and stress by addressing mindfulness practices. See it for yourself! **Also...2022-01-2711 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#61: Intentions 101 - Why Do You Need Intentions?Send us a textWelcome to my class - Intentions 101. In this class, I discuss goals and why those bad boys don't stick and the key ingredient... INTENTION! I could talk about this for HOURS... DAYS... MONTHS even, but I'm condensing this as much as I can. If you don't remember anything, remember this... Goals are set in the FUTURE... Intentions are set TUH-DAY! :) Need a great life coach? Business coach? Check out the coach who help kickstart this podcast and all my other business ventures - Mr. Bricesin Scott. Tell him Terri Nikki...2022-01-2014 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#60: Why You Can't Keep Your New Year's ResolutionsSend us a textHappy New Year! Happy 2022! I know I missed the 1st episode of the year! Honestly, Life. LIFE! :) But I'm here now! Now, it's the new year... and it's a new you... with NEW goals, right?!?! Well, I don't want you to be one of those 1 month goal setters that ditch that New Year's Resolution as soon as February 1st hits. Take a listen to this list and let me know what you think! **UPDATE** NEW EPISODES are moving to WEDNESDAY! Hump day episodes! ...2022-01-0912 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#40: Intuition and the Second OpinionSend us a textOne take. No edits. Let’s see how this goes… but, intuitive thoughts FUEL the dreamer only if you LISTEN and MOVE. In order to do so, you need familiarity. You need grounding. Meditation. Prayer. Faith OVER Fear. Has your gut EVER steered you wrong? Doubt it. 2021-08-0411 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#39: Watch What You SaySend us a textI had to learn quickly that what I said had SO much to do with how I moved in my dreamer's journey. I was so negative with my words! I had no idea. I can't blame anyone but myself. Once I realized how negative I was, I had to go on a MIGHTY quest to figure out what I could do to switch that up! I hope this helps you! the dreamer's survey: https://forms.gle/PzBZorQEaRVpwRPq92021-08-0112 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiHELP ME... HELP YOU! I need to know more…Send us a textIt's a quick survey. Let me know more about you. Help me help you. Link to survey. Tell a friend. https://forms.gle/tHvgknjQpGhsDfaJ9--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thoughtsofadreamer/messageSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thoughtsofadreamer/support2021-07-2805 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#38: is there a better choice?Send us a textI have to know. I gotta figure this out.2021-07-2609 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#37: I Don't Have Time! Time. Management. Productivity.Send us a textAin't nobody got time for that! Especially dream chasing... (blows raspberry)... sure. Tell yourself that. Lets keep it HONEST though. You don't have time because you don't want to "waste time" to fail at your dream. Right? As you get older, you have more "obligations" or choices you've collected which take up your time. However, you make time for what you want... so why aren't you making time for this dream?? Hmm... I referenced a few great resources and wanted to share the wealth! Make Time by Jake Knapp & John Zeratsky Three reasons...2021-07-2116 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#36: how to fight being lazySend us a textSimple. Discipline. Yes, it sucks… but it’s the truth. Honestly, it’s the mind over matter moniker we’re all tired of hearing but we have to face the truth. WE can only combat our laziness. I have a few tips but it’s LEGIT up to you… --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thoughtsofadreamer/messageSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thoughtsofadreamer/support2021-07-1914 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#35: You’re Just LAZY*Send us a textDreamers are lazy. We just imagine. We don’t live in the real world. Just lazy*… yes, that asterisk is intentional because there are conditions. Let’s discuss! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thoughtsofadreamer/messageSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thoughtsofadreamer/support2021-07-1413 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#34: I Don’t Feel Like It Today.Send us a textI feel partly cloudy with a chance of rain. I might cry. It’s life. Gotta keep moving tho. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thoughtsofadreamer/messageSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thoughtsofadreamer/support2021-07-1211 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#33: You Don’t Even KNOW Yourself!Send us a textWhat’s the most POWERFUL tool a dreamer can have? SELF-AWARENESS! Seriously… having awareness can help you navigate your OWN emotional responses and can increase your emotional intelligence something SERIOUS! By knowing your OWN moves, you won’t be surprised. You’ll know. You over here freaking ALL THE WAY out and you don’t know why? Nope. Let’s talk self awareness. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thoughtsofadreamer/messageSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tho...2021-07-0713 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#32: Stop! I Ain’t Ready Yet!Send us a textYOU HAVE TO BREAK THE SURFACE! At some point, you gotta put yourself out there. No need of waiting until you’re “ready” because you may NEVER be ready. No need to wait until perfection, because PERFECTION DOESN’T EXIST! We often get stuck at the point when it’s time to share our dreams and we hold ourselves back. This is your sign. Put it out there! Just… put it out there! Get it out the way… 🤷🏾‍♀️😂😎--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message...2021-07-0409 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#31: Facing Failure & Managing ExpectationsSend us a textThe JIG is up! Come out with your hands up! Just accept the fact you have to hold this “L.” It’s hard, I KNOW, but it’s bound to happen. Now, let’s revisit those expectations. 😑 --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thoughtsofadreamer/messageSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thoughtsofadreamer/support2021-06-3013 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#30: Honesty & Vulnerability: Your Answer to OppositionSend us a textI have to be honest. I've given in to the feelings of comfort. Who doesn't want to be comfortable? Who doesn't want to feel like they're in control? So, take the easy route... But every action has a reaction and the reaction to comfort is stagnancy... or archived dreams... unattainable dreams. When faced with opposition, you HAVE to be honest with yourself.... those little white lies called excuses can have HUGE repercussions... so, what is your answer to opposition?--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://a...2021-06-2712 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#29: You’ve Been There Too?! Community and VulnerabilitySend us a textI just got back from vacay. 🥰 I went with new friends. I had a BLAST! They made me feel so SAFE when expressing myself and they all had the responses like, “I feel that too” or “I’ve been there before.” It was then I realized that having a community of like minds is KEY for dream chasing! They made my vulnerability safe and less scary. I felt like I belonged. Thank y’all! Find you a community, family! 🥰--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Se...2021-06-2313 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#28: I cried the day I launched this podcast. My vulnerable moment.Send us a textI cried. This is my vulnerability post. This was my honest reaction to launching the Thoughts of a Dreamer Pod! IT WAS SCARY! It was soooo scary, but I did it. I actually did it. 🙈--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thoughtsofadreamer/messageSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thoughtsofadreamer/support2021-06-2015 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#27: What About Those “What Ifs” and VulnerabilitySend us a textDoncha love all these what if questions?? Burning questions that make you doubt yourself and your good mind? The questions that make you FREEZE in your tracks?!? Yeah, well… what if you DONT? What if this is the moment you look back on and tell your younger self DO IT!! What side are you on?? Follow me on IG: toa_dreamer Email me: Tofadreamer@gmail.comFollow me on Twitter: toa_dreamer FB coming soon! 😍--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voic...2021-06-1614 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#26: The Risk-Reward of VulnerabilitySend us a textI HATE IT HERE! Whew! Who wants to be all vulnerable all the time? Not me! However, I’m finding so much STRENGTH in vulnerability! Man! I decided to take the risk and be vulnerable and I’ve reaped soooo many rewards! I guess I would’ve never known until I tried. 🤷🏾‍♀️ Get comfortable, kids. We’re gonna be in this vulnerable lesson for a minute! 😌 Follow me on IG: toa_dreamer Email me: Tofadreamer@gmail.comFollow me on Twitter: toa_dreamer FB coming soon! 😍--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. htt...2021-06-1309 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#25: KNOW YOUR WHYS! You’re gonna need em…Send us a textI can’t get these old dreams out my head! I had to analyze those bad boys to figure out when my motivation and desire LEFT those TD teams… so to make sure history doesn’t repeat itself, I dug deep and found my why. I see now that the WHY has to be STRONG! The WHY is what will get you through all the hard and ambiguous times when chasing these dreams. Just follow me here… know your WHY!!! Follow me on IG: toa_dreamer Email me: Tofadreamer@gmail.comFollow me on Twitter: toa_drea...2021-06-0913 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#24: Dreams Deferred or Dreams Abandoned?Send us a textI was cleaning and found my dream graveyard. What a DAY! As proud as I was to see what I accomplished in my past life, I was equally disappointed at my decision to defer. …the decision to stop… the decision to push the dream to the back burner. UGH. I thought about why I dropped all these dreams and I just was NOT in the right headspace. Welp, it’s time to pick them back up! …well, some of them… --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anc...2021-06-0612 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#23: Covid Literally Changed EVERYTHING! Paying My Emotional DebtSend us a textI LOVE a good analogy! It just hit me a few days ago that Covid literally changed my life! I was FORCED to feel EVERYTHING I locked away. It just gut punched me. We CANT NEGLECT ourselves because it ALWAYS comes out... whether you want to or not. Have you felt this? Just a mental health rant/check in... Follow me on IG: toa_dreamer Email me: Tofadreamer@gmail.comTwitter and FB coming soon! 😍--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a vo...2021-06-0214 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#22: I’m Trying To Keep Up! A Lesson In EnduranceSend us a textI was schooled by a jogger. I tried to keep up and I couldn’t. It was humbling. I want it all... and want it now BUT not if I’ll be doubled over gasping for air! 😂 slow and steady. My pace. My race. No one else’s. I SWEAR learn lessons everywhere.... 👀I’d love you to message me!! Have anything to say?? Send me a voice message!! ☺️ Follow me on IG: toa_dreamerFollow me on Twitter: toa_dreamerEmail me: tofadreamer@gmail.comFacebook coming soon 🥰--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a...2021-05-3009 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#21: I Don’t KNOW! Facing Ambiguous GapsSend us a textSurprise, shawty!!! 🥳 Bonus episode this week!! We all have gaps where the dots just don’t add up! We honestly don’t know... and that’s OK! Sheeeeesh! Give yourself a break! Good thing is.. ALL OF US have gaps and we just need to take steps toward them to conquer them! Clear as mud?? 😅I’d love you to message me!! Have anything to say?? Send me a voice message!! ☺️ Follow me on IG: toa_dreamerFollow me on Twitter: toa_dreamerEmail me: tofadreamer@gmail.comFacebook coming soon 🥰--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest wa...2021-05-2716 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#20: Dream Growers or Dream Killers: Who’s In Your Inner Circle?Send us a textI think I laughed more at that intro than anything! 😂 Seriously, we dreamers have to stick together! You are the company you keep, so who is your company? Who’s in your circle of trust, Greg? 😂 ok. It’s all out. But, having the right people in your corner an propel your dream or stifle your dream. It’s so important to know and understand who is for your dream. Throw history out the window. Throw loyalty away. It’s your dream. Your journey. You choose. I’d love you to message me!! Have anything to say...2021-05-2613 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#19: Are You Loyal To Your Limitations?Send us a textI’ve been off. Feeling so emotional about where I am in this dream chaser journey. Then, I had this epiphany... IM LOYAL TO MY LIMITS! Whaaaaaaaat?!?! Yeah, it’s a whole thing. So, I’m trying to rewire my mind... and it’s HARD! But, I’m in too deep to turn around now! So, where is your loyalty??? I’d love you to message me!! Have anything to say?? Send me a voice message!! ☺️ Follow me on IG: toa_dreamerFollow me on Twitter: toa_dreamerEmail me: tofadreamer@gmail.comFacebook coming soon 🥰--- This episode is spo...2021-05-2310 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#18: It’s just my imagination... running away with me.Send us a text...or is it? Listen. When did imagination become juvenile? When did dreams equal a fantasy? Idk, but it’s true. But... so many tangible things we use today stemmed from someone’s imagination. From a THOUGHT. Let’s normalize NOT running from our creativity because it’s not “logical” or because it doesn’t fit in a box. Eff the box, son. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thoughtsofadreamer/messageSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thoughtsofad2021-05-1914 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#17: I’m Anxious... and about to panic. 😣Send us a textI’m already emotional... I don’t need this anxiety! Ugh! This anxiety is trash. So, yeah... I’m looking for ANYTHING I can find to alleviate this feeling, but I made the WRONG move this time! 😂 I need control. I feel safer. This dream chasing is filled with ambiguity that I can’t control... cue the anxiety. 🤦🏾‍♀️ However this emotional dumpster fire isn’t gonna take me out! I’m staying the course DESPITE my emotions. EMOTIONS ARE TEMPORARY, why make permanent decisions on temporary emotions?!? Because... we hate the feelings. Sheesh! The hurdles we go through to ch...2021-05-1616 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#16: When Your Mind FINALLY Buys Into Your Dream! 😍🔥🔥Send us a textI did it! I drank the Kool-Aid. My mind FINALLY bought into my dream. It’s been like a sales pitch between my dream and my mind. My mind was like... NAH BRUH. Nope. But, I finally have convinced my mind that I can achieve this dream. WHAT A FEELING! Whew! There’s nothing like it! Follow me on IG: toa_dreamer Email me: Tofadreamer@gmail.comTwitter and FB coming soon! 😍--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message: https...2021-05-1220 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#15: That’s My Cue! Protecting FailureSend us a textWe all have an emotional response or cue when facing our fears or protecting our insecurities. See.. I get defensive. I’ll fight you. Leave me be. Our dreamers journey is FILLED with risk and insecurity that make us face fears. Every new opportunity makes me feel insecure. So, how do you chase dreams and NOT turn down new opportunities? LEARNING YOUR EMOTIONAL RESPONSES! KNOW THYSELF. It’s eye opening to know I have the SAME cues when doing something that makes me uncomfortable. So, I know my cues... do you know yours?!?! Knowing your...2021-05-0916 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#14: Ok. Failure Isn’t Really THAT Bad, Is It?Send us a textListen. I was TESTED today. I have a fear of failure ESPECIALLY when singing. Whew! God tried it! He put me in this situation where I had to FACE the fear. Ugh. The name of the game is vulnerability. I hate it, but that’s the only way to face these fears. In 2020, I was forced to be more vulnerable ...what I found? It’s actually not as bad as I thought it would be. My mind hyped up failure... made it more than it was. I’m in the process of rewording my mind w...2021-05-0524 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#13: Gimme an F! Failure (Pt. 1)Send us a textStill uncovering these roadblocks... Honestly, I’m TERRIFIED to fail. Scared out my mind. I promise you, I’d rather NOT face this fear, but I HAVE to. WE have to!!! As dreamers, we absolutely have to change our relationship with failure. Dammit, man. 😖 scared. Sigh. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thoughtsofadreamer/messageSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thoughtsofadreamer/support2021-05-0215 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#12: Why Won’t You Support Me?!?Send us a text200+ Downloads?!? Omg. 🤯 Thank you sooo much! My heart is filled with gratitude! Thing is, if I LISTENED to other people... if I allowed the need for support to START a podcast, I wouldn’t be here to celebrate. You don’t need the initial support to START dream doing. You don’t need anyone to validate your dream. You don’t need ANYONE pulling you or pushing you toward YOUR dream. That’s not support... that’s a crutch. I’m the BIGGEST cheerleader one can have... until I feel I’m more invested in YOUR dream than...2021-04-2823 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#12: Divine ConnectionsThis was impromptu. I didn’t have this episode scheduled. This JUST happened. I met Quiana. I feel this is a genuine, divine connection. It was a message I needed to hear. I hope you need it, too... --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thoughtsofadreamer/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thoughtsofadreamer/support2021-04-2522 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#11. Take Time to Quiet Your MindSend us a textOur lives move in the direction of our strongest thoughts. If you have too many thoughts, you can’t focus on what you NEED to focus on. Sit down. Take the time to quiet your mind. What is it for you? Don’t know? Find out IMMEDIATELY. You’re gonna need it. You HAVE to quiet your mind. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thoughtsofadreamer/messageSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thoughtsofadreamer/support2021-04-2111 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki#10. I NEVER Wanted to Live for the Weekend... Yet, Here I AmSend us a textI hate Mondays. I get a whole attitude on Sunday thinking about work on Monday. ...and I like my job! Why do I feel this way? Well, I’m not the only one. I see y’all posting on Friday all excited that you’re off work! But why tho? Money? What if you KNEW your dream would financially sustain you? Would you work just as hard on YOUR VISION as you do for your paycheck? Hmm... something to think about right? Let’s figure this thing out! MESSAGE ME! I wanna start this conversa...2021-04-1823 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiS1:E9 - I Hid Behind My Smile. ... and I WAS NOT OK!Send us a textMost of my 20s were a blur. This big smile of mine hid all the dark thoughts that were FEASTING on me and my dreams. It’s rough to talk about. It’s rough to hear, but necessary. I will never minimize anyone’s struggle with depression because that thing is SERIOUS! This is what I went through. This is why I go so hard NOW. I had to fight all the dark thoughts. Don’t give in to the thoughts. I hope this helps someone see the light in darkness. ❤️ There are always options! Ple...2021-04-1421 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiS1:E8 - Appreciating the Humble BeginningsSend us a textMan, listen... sometimes we get so wrapped up in the end goal that we forget to shout out the journey. Being present. Celebrating the beginnings. Celebrating just STARTING. We may not be where we want to be but KUDOS to you for just beginning! There’s no ending without a beginning. You can never achieve a goal if you never start. 🤷🏾‍♀️ I’m proud for just starting... --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thoughtsofadreamer/messageSupport th...2021-04-1113 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiS1:E7 - The Price of PerfectionSend us a textI was an overachiever. I had to be perfect. That was my identity - “The Golden Child.” I was her. She was me. Now, I’m paying the price. 🤷🏾‍♀️ Dreams are often stifled by perfectionism and perfectionist thoughts. Most people rarely get started while others walk away too soon. But, it’s 2021... we need your dreams. We need YOU. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thoughtsofadreamer/messageSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thoughtsofadreamer/support2021-04-0719 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiS1:E6 - frustrated asfSend us a textA conversation from a family member straight FRUSTRATED me. I’m not where I wanna be. I’m frustrated. I’m not getting the likes. I’m frustrated. I should drop this dream, right? Nah. Let’s dig deeper... --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thoughtsofadreamer/messageSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thoughtsofadreamer/support2021-04-0421 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiS1:E5 - You NEED Confidence! Don’t Play Yourself.Send us a textListen... you can NOT be a dream do-er if you don’t have confidence. You NEED it. It’s REQUIRED. It’s a NECESSITY. No cap (or whatever they say now...). 😂 seriously, you’re giving others’ opinion POWER over you and your dream! Not here! Not today. It’s 2021. Turn your swag on... real talk. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thoughtsofadreamer/messageSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thoughtsofadreamer/support2021-03-3116 minThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiThoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri NikkiS1:E4 - Fear is a WHOLE LiarSend us a textI’m scared. There are a million reasons why you shouldn’t, but there is one reason why you should... success. Feel the fear and do it anyway because fear is a whole liar! Most of us dream chasers won’t even start because of fear but there is POWER in that 1st step! DO IT ANYWAY! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thoughtsofadreamer/messageSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thoughtsofadreamer/support2021-03-2815 min