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When Harry Dumped SallyLove HardThis week we watched Love Hard! We discuss people who claim Die Hard is their favorite Christmas movie, airport outfits, and why caroling is WEIRD. Will Natalie and Josh’s relationship that started as a catfishing scenario and ended with a fake engagement last forever?? Listen to find out! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Reality Alert : Love Is Blind / The Ultimatum / Perfect MatchLove Is Blind Italy Episodes 1 & 2 Recap (Patreon Unlocked)Join Max Gieser and special guests Tess Menzies and Natasha Vinik from When Harry Dumped Sally podcast for a special Patreon Unlocked edition of Reality Alert as they recap Episodes 1 & 2 of Love Is Blind: Italy!
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2025-12-041h 16When Harry Dumped SallyThe HolidayThis week we got into THE HOLIDAY spirit and watched The Holiday! We discuss the unrequited love, long-distance relationships, and why swearing on someone’s life isn’t actually that big of a deal. Will Iris and Miles stop falling for walking red flags and live happily ever after? Can Graham and Amanda make long distance work?? Listen to find out! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-12-021h 10When Harry Dumped SallyLez BombThis week we watched Lez Bomb! We discuss regressing around family, eating pie for breakfast, and THANKSGIVING. Will Hailey and Lauren actually move in with each other and stay together forever?? Listen to find out! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-11-2556 minWhen Harry Dumped SallyYou've Got MailIs it possible to forgive the man who destroyed your business and ultimately fall in LOVE?? Apparently in You've Got Mail it IS. We discuss pre-social media internet, decaf coffee drinkers, and emotional infidelity. Will Joe and Kathleen's online romance make up for their real life feud? Will they be together FOREVER?? Listen to find out! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Reality Alert : Love Is Blind / The Ultimatum / Perfect MatchMarried At First Sight Season 19 Episodes 11 & 12 RecapJoin Max Gieser and special guests Tess Menzies and Natasha Vinik from When Harry Dumped Sally podcast as they recap Episodes 11 & 12 of Married At First Sight Season 19 on Peacock!
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2025-11-141h 46When Harry Dumped SallyDear JohnIt’s Veteran’s Day so this week we watched Dear John to SUPPORT THE TROOPS. We discuss intrusive thoughts, kissing in the rain, and how long John and Savnnah will stay together after the credits roll! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-11-1147 minWhen Harry Dumped SallyMy Date with the President's DaughterWhat would you do if you found out your date was actually the president’s daughter (and maybe the worst person ever)!? This week we watched the made-for-tv romcom, My Date with the President’s Daughter! We discuss why people hate California, our very different opinions on magicians, and how long normie Duncan and first daughter Hallie will stay together after the credits roll! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-11-041h 14When Harry Dumped SallyBlink TwiceWe ended October with a psychological thriller that has no rom OR com. It’s Blink Twice! We discuss pretending to be happy to protect yourself around men, how the body LOVES keeping the score, and why you should BELIEVE WOMEN. Will Slater and Frida live (happily????) ever after? Listen to find out! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-10-291h 05When Harry Dumped SallyYou're Killing MeIf a random man stalked you and then told you he was a serial killer would you believe him?? Not if you’re George! This weeks movie is You’re Killing Me! We learn about the difference between jail and prison, discuss why game nights aren’t that fun, and decide whether or not serial killers are HOT. Will George and Joe’s relationship make it through a (probably lifelong) prison sentence?? Listen to find out! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-10-211h 06When Harry Dumped SallyZombieland (Fixed)Can you survive AND find love in a ZOMBIE APOCALYPSE?? Columbus and Wichita are here to prove it’s possible! This week we watched Zombieland and talked about INCELS, GUNS, and CHATGPT (all sure signs of the impending apocalypse). Will Columbus and Wichita spend the rest of their (probably short) lives together?? Listen to find out! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-10-141h 17When Harry Dumped SallyZombielandCan you survive AND find love in a ZOMBIE APOCALYPSE?? Columbus and Wichita are here to prove it’s possible! This week we watched Zombieland and talked about INCELS, GUNS, and CHATGPT (all sure signs of the impending apocalypse). Will Columbus and Wichita spend the rest of their (probably short) lives together?? Listen to find out! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-10-1456 minWhen Harry Dumped SallyHeart EyesIt’s officially SPOOKY SEASON and we’re celebrating all month by watching horror-rom-coms. This week’s terrifying love story is Heart Eyes! We discuss attachment styles, Halloween costumes, and why Valentine’s Day was WAY BETTER as a child. Will Ally and Jay (a couple that is not actually a couple but is being pursued by a killer who murders couples) stay together forever? Listen to find out! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-10-0755 minWhen Harry Dumped SallyHe's Just Not That Into YouThis week’s movie has a HUGE cast of A-list actors playing AWFUL people. It’s He’s Just Not That Into You! Join us as we try to keep character names and plot lines straight, discuss people who are desperate to find love, and debate how important faces are for one night stands. Plus MySpace, landlines, and BUTTS. How long will the many (but actually only two) couples stay together after the credits roll?? Listen to find out! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-09-301h 46When Harry Dumped SallyBetter Than ChocolateThis week we watched Better Than Chocolate! We discuss why chocolate isn’t actually that good, clueless moms, and what to do if you overhear your family members having sex! How long will the ULITMATE U-HAULERS Maggie and Kim stay together after the credits roll? Listen to find out! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-09-231h 31When Harry Dumped SallyThe MummyThis week we watched The Mummy! What happens when a professional CRIMINAL goes on an adventure with a HOT LIBRARIAN and her VERY DUMB brother?? We discuss Egyptian mythology, LinkedIn influencers, and our THIRD bad(ish?) Ben! How long will Nick and Evelyn stay together after the credits roll? Is the real couple in this movie the Mummy and Anck-su-namun?? Listen to find out! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-09-161h 08When Harry Dumped SallySixteen CandlesThis week we watched Sixteen Candles. We were expecting it to be problematic and BOY did it deliver! We discuss 16th birthday parties, passing notes in class, and how long Samantha and Jake will stay together after the credits roll! All that plus racism, the Me Too movement, and cancel culture?? HOW FUN. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-09-091h 02When Harry Dumped SallyAlways Be My MaybeThis week we watched Always Be My Maybe and found out if childhood besties are meant to be together forever! We discuss dirty cars, caring too much about filming locations as you get older, and KEANU REEVES. How long will celebrity chef Sasha and normal guy Marcus stay together after the credits roll?? Listen to find out! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-08-261h 00When Harry Dumped SallyHigh FidelityToday’s movie is a huge win for problematic men! It’s High Fidelity! We discuss “nice guys” who finish last, “nice guys” who are secretly manipulative monsters, and “nice guys” who finally realize that women are people too! How long will “nice guy” Rob stay with Laura?? Listen to find out! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-08-1958 minWhen Harry Dumped SallyLife or Something Like ItWhat would you do if you found out you had one week left to live?? We’re getting into that and MORE in this week’s episode about Life or Something Like It. We discuss PSYCHICS, getting black out DRUNK, and giving up your career for LOVE. How long do we think Lanie and Pete will stay together after the credits roll? Listen to find out! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-08-1254 minWhen Harry Dumped Sally10 Things I Hate About YouThis week we watched 10 Things I Hate About You and discussed TWO classic teen relationships. We talk about high school cliques, men who blame women’s emotions on PMS, and whether or not younger siblings know anything about their older siblings. How long will popular Bianca and nerdy Cameron stay together? Will bad boy Patrick and angry feminist Kat last forever? Listen to find out! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-08-051h 11When Harry Dumped SallyAlong Came Polly - Full EpDo opposites attract? Can people ever change?? These are the important questions raised in Along Came Polly! We discuss SHARTING, men’s bathrooms, AND how long Reuben and Polly will stay together after the credits roll! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-07-291h 00When Harry Dumped SallyAlong Came PollyDo opposites attract? Can people ever change?? These are the important questions raised in Along Came Polly! We discuss SHARTING, men’s bathrooms, AND how long Reuben and Polly will stay together after the credits roll! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-07-2913 minWhen Harry Dumped SallyStep UpThis week we watched Step Up! It’s one of those rare occasions where you wish a movie had LESS plot and MORE dancing. We talk about “phone movies”, Chekhov’s tights, and why having Cornell as your safety school is totally the same as growing up in foster care. Will Tyler and Nora keep dating (and dancing) forever?? Listen to find out! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-07-2247 minWhen Harry Dumped SallyImagine Me & YouDo you believe in love at first sight?? Luce and Rachel do! This week we are watching (and singing) Imagine Me & You. We discuss setting up your friends, the secret meanings of emojis, and how long Luce and Rachel will stay together after the credits roll! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-07-151h 12When Harry Dumped SallyMy Best Friend's WeddingThis week we are celebrating unhinged women with My Best Friend’s Wedding! Can you be “best friends” with an ex you still have feelings for? Was this movie supposed to be a musical? How do we feel about JELL-O??? We discuss all this AND how long we think Kimberly and Michael’s marriage will last after the credits roll! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-07-081h 11When Harry Dumped SallyMaterialistsThis week we went to an ACTUAL THEATER and watched Materialists! We ask important questions like, are relationships just math? Should you date someone for their money? And is plastic surgery worth it or kind of sad? How long will cynical Lucy and poor John stay together after the credits roll? Listen to find out! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-07-011h 18When Harry Dumped SallyD.E.B.S.This week we’re talking about D.E.B.S. aka Discipline, Energy, Beauty, Strength aka Spy Kids but make it hot lesbians. We discuss why spies have to be boring people, if crime is a good hobby, and whether or not Australia should exist. How long will Amy (the world’s BEST SPY) and Lucy (the world’s MOST EVIL VILLAIN) stay together after the credits roll? Listen to find out! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-06-2458 minWhen Harry Dumped SallyBoy Meets GirlWe’re getting caught in a LOVE TRIANGLE this week between Ricky, her bestie Robby, who won’t admit he likes her, and Francesca, a rich girl who is engaged to a transphobic marine that secretly hooked up with Ricky in high school. We discuss 2014 fashion, 2014 homophobia, and why you should always hide videos you want to keep private in folders that aren’t obviously labled on your DESKTOP. Who will end up with who?? And will they they stay together forever?? Listen to find out! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-06-171h 13When Harry Dumped SallyLove Lies BleedingThis week we are stretching the meaning of romcom to it’s breaking point and discussing Love Lies Bleeding. Was this requested? Did we add it to our movie list? Who knows! We talk about gym culture, drinking milk, and BUGS. Will Lou and Jackie stay together after their killing spree? Listen to find out! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-06-101h 00When Harry Dumped SallyRed, White, & Royal BlueCan the first son of the United States and the Prince of Wales set aside their differences and go from enemies… to lovers?? We discuss forbidden love, the royal family, and how nice it would be to live in a timeline where a woman is president. How long will Alex and Henry stay together after the credits roll? Listen to find out! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-06-0355 minWhen Harry Dumped SallyTwisterAnchor yourself to a pole and watch out for flying cows, because we’re discussing Twister (the hot spot)! We talk about TORNADOS (duh), women advocating for themselves (we love), and why men should go to therapy (seriously, do it). Will Jo and Bill stay together once their days of chasing storms are over? Listen to find out! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-05-2752 minWhen Harry Dumped SallyMiss CongenialityPut on some heels and dust off your internalized misogyny, it’s time for Miss Congeniality! We discuss beauty pageants, being a guy's girl, and the power of female friendships. Will Gracie and Eric stay together once she’s no longer in a pageant and adhering to traditional beauty standards? Listen to find out! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-05-2058 minWhen Harry Dumped SallyShe's The ManGet ready for some dramatic irony and hijinks, because we’re watching She’s The Man this week! We discuss important things like SPORTS! HIGH SCHOOL! KISSING BOOTHS! And most importantly, how long Viola and Duke will stay together after the credits roll! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-05-131h 08When Harry Dumped SallyNotting HillCan a famous movie star and a humble bookstore owner fall in love and stay together forever?? We discuss the importance of finding a man who has friends, embracing cringe, and whether or not we would take a bath at a random man’s apartment. How long will Anna and Will stay together after the credits roll? Listen to find out! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-05-061h 06When Harry Dumped SallySerendipityDo you believe in FATE and DESTINY? This week we’re discussing Sara and Jonathan’s 5 hour romance that had such a lasting impact they are still thinking about it an unclear number of years later. Join us as we search for signs form the universe and discuss friends who support you even when you’re being insane, public proposals, and how long these two are destined to be together after the credits roll! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Breast Case ScenarioImpact of Cancer & Mastectomy on Libido, Sensuality and Desire- A Sexologist PerspectiveKris and Cass interview Richelle Menzies, an Australian Sexologist, LGBTIQ Inclusivity Consultant, and breast cancer survivor. Richelle is an absolute leader in her field, and in this episode, no topic is left off the table. They discuss sex, sensuality, menopause, spontaneous and responsive desire, and what you can do with the biggest sex organ in your body—your brain.Kris and Cass walked away feeling inspired and more deeply informed about a topic that isn’t discussed enough, especially when it comes to those undergoing cancer treatment and feeling desirable after a mastectomy. This is a must-listen!
2025-04-2750 minWhen Harry Dumped SallyWhile You Were SleepingIs it ok to lie about being a man in a coma’s fiance? Multiple people in While You Were Sleeping think the answer is YES. We’re celebrating Christmas in April this week and discussing people who are desperate to get married, passport stamps, and whether or not Lucy and Jack will stay together forever! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-04-2258 minWhen Harry Dumped SallyThe GraduateWe are flipping the script this week and supporting WOMEN IN MALE FIELDS (being a creep towards your friends’ barely legal kid). We discuss whether or not it’s weird to date someone who banged your mom, if cinematography is enough to make a movie good, and decide how long Ben and Elaine will stay together after the credits roll! It’s a CLASSIC. It’s WILD. It’s THE GRADUATE. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-04-151h 10When Harry Dumped SallyCrazy, Stupid, LoveWe're tackling TWO relationships in this crazy, stupid, movie! We discuss pickup artists, jumping out of moving vehicles, and the correct way to approach a woman at a bar (spoiler alert: you probably shouldn't). Can Cal and Emily save their marriage? Will Hannah and Jacob make it work?? Listen to find out! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-04-081h 34When Harry Dumped SallyBut I'm a CheerleaderCome with us to True Directions, the gayest conversion camp ever! We discuss straight people apparently existing, how hard it can be to figure out your sexuality in a heteronormative world, and how long Megan and Graham will stay together after the movie ends! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-04-011h 06When Harry Dumped SallyThe ProposalIs a weekend in Alaska with your boss who you once described as "Satan's Mistress" all it takes to fall in love? Join us for our discussion on why first kisses suck, fart positive relationships, and whether or not we think Margaret and Andrew are destined to be together forever! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-03-251h 04When Harry Dumped SallyThe Wedding SingerIn this week's episode we are throwing it back to 1998 throwing it back to 1985! We discuss wedding bands vs DJs, sexual harassment, and what the Hulk looks like naked. Is wanting to get married and not drinking very much the recipe for a lasting relationship? Listen to find how long we think Robbie and Julia will stay together after the credits roll! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-03-181h 17When Harry Dumped SallyCrazy Rich AsiansShould you tell your partner that your family is crazy rich before introducing them? Nick doesn't think so! We discuss whether or not that's a dealbreaker, boy mom culture, and the ideal bachelorette party. How long do Nick and Rachel stay together after this movie ends?? Listen to find out! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-03-111h 17When Harry Dumped SallyHow to Lose A Guy in 10 DaysIs Andie and Ben's ten day relationship based on lies and deceit destined to last forever?? Two COOL GIRLS breakdown this relationship as well as other important topics like "is crab good?" and "should you date a man who kisses his sister on the lips?" How long do we think these two will stay together? Listen to find out! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-03-041h 06When Harry Dumped SallyThe Fall GuyGrab a spicy margarita and get ready to FALL into this action packed discussion of The Fall Guy! We talk about workplace romances, action movies, and most importantly - how long Colt and Jody stay together after the credits roll. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-02-2554 minWhen Harry Dumped SallySleepless in SeattleMeet us at the top of the Empire State Building on Valentine’s Day for our FIRST episode! We dive into Annie and Sam’s relationship and discuss important topics like “who eats granny smith apples in the middle of the night?” and “is this kid a serial killer?” How long do we think this couple will stay together after the credits roll?? Listen and find out! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-02-1459 min
How Did This Touch You?Mean Girls with Tess MenziesThe high school bullies and the bullied meet up to talk about comedian Tess Menzies's (@tessmenzies) film that touched her Mean Girls. We're talking early 2000s fashion, Lohan-culture, the musical movie, and Victoria's Secret push-up bras in an all-new episode.
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Fight CourtBonus: The Naming of the Solo Superpower Bracket Finale: A Nudge in the Fudge Direction (ft. Several Guests)The end of the Bracket is but a week away! Join us as we name that end, and listen along as some of our favorite guests talk about which power they think is best!
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2023-01-271h 47Fight CourtBonus: Warm Up Fights XV (w/ Several Guests)It’s the last batch of warm up fights for the year! Gather round for stories of guns, dragonriders, and Arby’s!
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2022-12-162h 02Fight Court142. Grosso Mode (w/ Tess Menzies)We’re finally back, and we brought Tess Menzies! She’s as amazing and powerful as the aliens from Toy Story, and together we discuss rich people, which animals make the best dogs, and crop dusting!
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Fight CourtBonus: Warm Up Fights XII (w/ Several Guests)This one’s chocablock full of guests! And if you think all the fights are bland? You’re a fool.
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2022-04-011h 10Fight Court124. All Power, No Responsibility (w/ Tess Menzies)This week we are joined for the first time by the fantastic Tess Menzies! We discuss a lot of stuff including characters forgetting characters, villains moving universes, but mostly velociraptors devouring Argus Filch.
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2022-03-251h 17
Witness if You Will...The Homecoming Queen
Three teenage girls take refuge inside a bathroom as an alien invasion disrupts their high school’s Homecoming dance, only to find they have to deal with an even greater threat: each other.
Written and Directed by Andy FeldmanStarringChloe Kiester as Zelda (Twitter)Tess Menzies as Maureen (Insta - Tik Tok - Twitter)Natasha Vinik as Gwen (Insta - Tik Tok - Twitter)Theme Music: “Be Bold Like Elijah” by Irontom (Website)Art by Sean Marney (Website)Background Music from zapsplat.comSound Effect...
2021-01-2540 min
thepodestrians.comEp 26 - Taco Monster
Wherein Hector and Krish talk with Chloe Kiester, Natasha Vinik, and Tess Menzies of Taco Monster about pecking orders, favorite books, microbiology, and dietary preferences.
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