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Non-naive Naiveness#08-When ‘Common Wisdom' Isn't Wise: Building Independent ThoughtIn our journey of growth, we often hear familiar Chinese sayings like "Failure is the mother of success" and "The boat will straighten when it reaches the bridge." These age-old proverbs made sense in specific historical contexts, but today, such "social consensus" can sometimes suppress our individuality and limit how we express our views.In this episode, we explore how to break free from these societal constraints when using these traditional Chinese sayings. We'll look at how to respect our own thoughts while also honoring the differences in how others understand the world — connecting more authentically with life...2025-07-2850 minNon-naive Naiveness#07-Facing Life’s Bugs Head-On: How a Strong Mindset Breaks Through and Drives GrowthIn this episode, I dive into the “bugs” — those everyday glitches and challenges — that trip us up in work and life. Drawing from your questions and comments, we explore how to confront these bugs head-on, using a strong mindset to break through obstacles and grow.Here’s what you’ll hear:00:10 — Bugs are just part of life; it’s how you fix them that creates the colorful moments you remember01:22 — Q1: Feeling less fulfilled at work than in school? Here’s how to find real meaning in your job02:39 — Build your sense of purpose from...2025-07-2042 minNon-naive Naiveness#06-See the World, Connect with People, Discover YourselfPeople often ask me, “How do you actually become someone who truly loves themselves?”For me, there are two keys:First, go out and see as much of the world as you can—open yourself up to all kinds of possibilities.Second, surround yourself with high-energy friends—immerse yourself in the kind of environment that lifts you up. “Read thousands of books, travel thousands of miles”—that’s how I’ve nourished myself over the years, and it’s where my core confidence comes from.I’ve always loved to travel...2025-07-1244 minNon-naive Naiveness#05-High EQ, High Energy: Your Blueprint for Win-Win RelationshipsA lot of people tell me, “You’re so emotionally intelligent.” I’ve taken a hard look at why they say that, and in this episode, I want to dive into what emotional intelligence really means. Unlike IQ, EQ is a mindset you can learn and improve. I’ll break down some common “stuck” scenarios, offer high-EQ solutions, and share the value system I’ve developed around EQ and personal energy. I hope these methods help you be your genuine self—and enjoy the episode! 00:52 EQ as a“soft tool”: your ability to read people2025-07-0444 minNon-naive Naiveness#04-Nonviolent Communication – Talk So People Actually ListenYou think you’re just being honest.You’re expressing how you feel.You’re trying to help.But what if… you’re actually being emotionally controlling?In this episode, I share how a four-month trip around the world led me to a Nonviolent Communication course that completely changed how I speak, lead, and relate to others.I talk about the “invisible violence” hidden in well-intentioned words, how we often replace listening with persuasion, and why most people don’t feel heard—no matter how clearly we think we’re talking.This isn’t just a th...2025-06-2546 minNon-naive Naiveness#03- Stuck or Anxious? Real Answers for LifeEver feel like you're just... stuck? I threw open the question box across all my platforms and got hit with almost 500 responses. Turns out, we're all wrestling with the same stuff. So I picked the questions that kept showing up and went deep—no surface-level advice, just honest conversations about the messy parts of being human.What We're Talking About:00:27 – Why you're actually stuck (and it's not what you think) Two things solve most life problems: better information and knowing how to process it. Stop grinding harder—start thinking smarter.02:59 – Q1: "How can you fundame...2025-06-171h 01Non-naive Naiveness#02 - Own Your Power: Becoming Who You Really AreIn the last episode, I got a bit personal and shared stories from my childhood all the way to my first job.I talked about how I became who I am today—through years of learning and figuring myself out along the way.Today I want to dive into my career journey - from working at Fan Bingbing's studio who was the biggest celebrity in China at the time to starting my own company for the past decade.This phase was all about leveling up my skills and learning how to survive in the real working world....2025-06-0935 minNon-naive Naiveness#01 - The First Half of My Life: How to Gain the Underlying ConfidenceFor this episode, I’d like to record solo and see whether a conversation with myself could produce meaningful content. So I chose a topic I’m most familiar with: how I became who I am. In other words, it’s a personal growth story before the age of 22. I revisit some memorable moments and major life events, exploring how my core confidence was built and how my personality and abilities gradually took shape. 00:33 I genuinely like who I am deep down;01:50 One's ability to express themselves depends on two things: vocabulary and logical s...2025-06-0154 min