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How We're Doing It529 College Savings Plan Made Easy To UnderstandPlanning for college? In this episode of How We're Doing It, first-gen parents Tijani and Yazmin break down 529 plans, explaining tax benefits, savings options, and strategies for maximizing education funds. Get clear, practical advice to secure your child’s future!
Previous Question: Can U.S territories set up a 529 Plan?
Answer: Yes. All 50 States and U.S territories are eligible.
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(00:00) Yasmin: Conversations about 529 plans are important now
(01:24) Today's conversation is about 529 plans. Like the college saving plans
(07:35) Every state has a d...2024-11-1442 minHow We're Doing ItThe Realities of the Second TrimesterJoin Tijani and Yazmin as they share candid insights and experiences from Yazmin's second trimester. From mood swings and cravings to the joys and challenges of pregnancy, this episode offers an honest look into the emotional and physical journey of expecting a second child.
Whether you're an expecting parent or simply curious, this episode provides a relatable perspective on the ups and downs of the second trimester. Listen now for a heartfelt discussion on the evolving journey of parenthood.
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Listen now to this candid co...2024-10-171h 10How We're Doing ItTherapy Saved My Life - A Soldier's Story with Sgt. Yeni DzibIn this powerful episode, Tijani and Yazmin discuss the importance of therapy and mental health, inviting Yazmin's sister, Sergeant Yeni Dzib, to share her courageous journey.
From the challenges of military life to personal struggles, Dzib opens up about her experiences with therapy, the obstacles she faced, and the support she received that helped her heal. This episode discusses the stigmas surrounding mental health, the necessity of seeking help, and the impact therapy can have on one's life.
Join us for an honest conversation that highlights the strength in vulnerability and the importance of breaking...2024-10-1056 minHow We're Doing ItWhat To Know About The Second Trimester Of PregnancyIn this episode, Tijani and Yazmin share their candid second trimester updates, diving into the emotional and physical changes experienced during this unique phase of pregnancy. Whether you're an expecting parent or simply curious about the ups and downs of pregnancy, this episode provides an authentic and relatable perspective on navigating the second trimester. Join Tijani and Yazmin as they prepare for their growing family, sharing insights and advice for others embarking on a similar journey.
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(00:00) With this second trimester, I am still emotional, but I felt more
(00:51) This podcast focuses on...2024-10-0335 minHow We're Doing ItSingle Mom's Guide to Crushing Debt With Army Sgt. Yeni DzibIn this episode, Tijani and Yazmin sit down with a special guest, Yazmin's sister, Yeni, to discuss her journey towards financial freedom. Yeni, a single mom and army sergeant, shares her candid experiences of living a carefree financial life, accumulating debt, and the pivotal moment that made her decide to take control of her finances.
Whether you're struggling with debt, looking for ways to budget effectively, or seeking inspiration to start your own financial journey, this episode offers practical advice and heartfelt encouragement.
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(00:00) Two first generation immigrants share their experiences with fun...2024-09-2632 minHow We're Doing ItHow Premarital Counseling Could Change Your MarriageWhether you're considering premarital counseling, are newly married, or simply curious about how to strengthen your relationship, this episode offers valuable insights and practical advice. Yazmin and Tijani's honest and heartfelt discussion underscores the benefits of investing in your relationship early on to build a solid foundation for the future.
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(00:00) Look at my wife using the I statements. She all of a sudden, the stuff she learned in counseling kicks...2024-09-1942 minHow We're Doing ItMoney Dates: Strengthen Your Relationship Through BudgetingIn this episode, Tijani and Yazmin invite listeners into their home for an in-depth "money date," a candid conversation about their finances. They break down their budgeting process, sharing insights on how they manage their income, spending, and financial goals. From the importance of having money conversations within relationships to practical tips on budgeting apps and tracking expenses, this episode is packed with valuable advice for anyone looking to improve their financial health.
Yazmin and Tijani discuss the significance of maintaining a healthy relationship with money, whether you're single or in a partnership. They emphasize the importance...2024-09-1243 minHow We're Doing ItWhen Prayers Aren't Answered the Way We ExpectIn this episode, Tijani and Yazmin explore the profound topic of trusting in God's plan, even when things don't go as expected. They share personal stories of how they prayed for specific outcomes and faced unexpected challenges, only to realize later that God's plan was indeed the best plan for them. From Tijani's heartbreaking experience with a scholarship rejection to Yazmin's job search struggles, they delve into how faith and patience played crucial roles in their journeys.
The couple discusses the importance of praying for guidance, accepting God's will, and understanding that sometimes, the answers to prayers...2024-09-0536 minHow We're Doing ItSaliva, Carpal Tunnel, and Puffy Gums: Pregnancy's Hidden SymptomsIn this episode, Tijani and Yazmin dive into the lesser-known and unexpected symptoms of pregnancy. From the discomfort of carpal tunnel syndrome to the surprising issue of excess saliva, they share personal experiences and practical advice for managing these unexpected challenges.
Yazmin opens up about her own struggles with these symptoms, providing valuable insights and tips for other expectant mothers. They also discuss the importance of advocating for yourself when dealing with pregnancy-related health issues and the significance of support from partners. Whether you're expecting or just curious about the realities of pregnancy, this episode offers a...2024-08-2923 minHow We're Doing ItOld Wives Tales: Fact or Fiction?In this episode, Tijani and Yazmin went into the fascinating world of old wives' tales, particularly those predicting the gender of an unborn baby. They share their personal experiences and cultural insights, discussing various symptoms and methods said to indicate whether you're having a boy or a girl. From cravings and heartburn to morning sickness and the shape of the baby bump, they explore the accuracy and fun behind these age-old predictions. Yazmin also recounts a charming family tradition from Mexico involving a fork and spoon to predict the baby's gender. Whether you're expecting or just curious, this episode...2024-08-2232 minHow We're Doing ItSour Patch Toddlers TantrumsIn this episode, Tijani and Yazmin discuss the perplexing world of toddler behavior, especially when a new sibling is on the way. They explore whether their daughter's sudden tantrums and aggressive outbursts are a result of her age or a reaction to Yazmin's pregnancy. Sharing personal anecdotes and practical strategies, they discuss the challenges of navigating toddlerhood while expecting a new baby. From dealing with bedtime battles to managing public meltdowns, they offer insights into maintaining a balanced and loving environment for their growing family.
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(00:00) Introduction: Is it toddlerhood or the pregnancy?
...2024-08-1535 minHow We're Doing ItProm, FAFSA, and Graduation: A First Gen Immigrant Student's GuideTijani and Yazmin traveled back in time to reveal essential tips and survival etiquettes for first-generation kids navigating through different stages of life. From high school challenges like prom and graduation to college life and beyond, they share invaluable advice to help first-gen students and adults thrive. They discuss the critical role of school counselors, the importance of attending college orientation, and the necessity of office hours. They also touch on adulting topics such as salary negotiations and the cultural nuances of tipping. Whether you're a high schooler, a college student, or a young professional, this episode is packed...2024-08-0845 minHow We're Doing ItTraveling With A Baby? Here's What You Need To KnowIn this episode, Tijani and Yazmin share their personal experiences and practical tips on traveling with a baby. From planning the first flight to dealing with unexpected challenges, they cover everything you need to know to make your journey smoother. Whether it's packing essentials, understanding airline policies, or managing sleep routines, this episode is packed with valuable insights for parents on the go.
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(00:00) Tijani Musa: It really depends on your situation. Where are you going? Do you really think you're going to need the pack
(01:26) Today we're talking about...2024-08-0144 minHow We're Doing ItFirst Trimester Challenges And What To ExpectTijani and Yazmin discusses the challenges and experiences of the first trimester of their second pregnancy. They discuss the emotional and physical hurdles, including persistent nausea, unexpected bleeding, and the importance of having a support system. They also touch on the differences between their first and current pregnancy, sharing personal anecdotes and practical advice. From the significance of waiting to announce a pregnancy to the impact of physical activity on their journey, this episode offers a candid look into the realities of early pregnancy.
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TiKToK2024-07-2533 minHow We're Doing ItHow You Set Boundaries With Family With Guest Army Sgt. Yeni DzibIn this engaging episode of 'How We're Doing It,' Tijani and Yazmin dive into the crucial topic of setting boundaries with family. They share personal anecdotes, including a memorable instance where they had to refuse a request to buy alcohol due to their religious beliefs. With their special guest, Yeni, they explore the importance of communication and mutual respect in maintaining healthy family dynamics. From handling cultural differences to establishing rules within the household, this episode offers valuable insights for anyone navigating family relationships.
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TiKToK2024-07-1830 minHow We're Doing ItEssential Questions for a Serious RelationshipTijani and Yazmin introduce their first product: an ebook designed to help couples navigate essential conversations. They discuss the importance of premarital counseling and share their journey of compiling questions that have strengthened their relationship over five years of marriage. These questions cover various topics, including family, personal values, sex, spirituality, and finances, aiming to deepen connections and prepare couples for long-term commitment. Whether you're dating, engaged, or already married, this episode offers valuable insights and practical advice for fostering a stronger relationship.
Key Takeaways:
The significance of discussing deep, meaningful questions in a relationship
Examples...2024-07-1815 minHow We're Doing ItWays That Having Children Can Change Your MarriageIn this heartfelt episode of 'How We're Doing It,' Tijani and Yazmin discuss how having children has transformed their marriage. They share candid experiences of navigating parenthood's challenges, including stress, exhaustion, and sleep deprivation, and emphasize the importance of mutual support and communication. Tune in for an authentic conversation about maintaining intimacy, mental health, and building a strong family foundation.Key Takeaways:
The importance of setting a strong foundation before having children
How sleep deprivation and stress affect communication and partnership
Strategies for supporting each other through the challenges of parenthood
Dealing with postpartum depression and...2024-07-1148 minHow We're Doing ItJoint vs. Separate Bank Accounts: Finding What Works for YouIn this episode of 'How We're Doing It,' Tijani and Yazmin delve into the pros and cons of joint versus separate bank accounts. They share their journey, discussing how different financial strategies impact relationships, from fostering transparency to maintaining autonomy. Tune in for valuable insights and practical advice on managing finances as a couple.
Key Takeaways:
Benefits and challenges of joint vs. separate accounts
Fostering transparency and unity
Maintaining autonomy and avoiding conflicts
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TiKToK 2024-06-2737 minHow We're Doing ItFirst-Time Homebuyer Tips: Lessons We Learned the Hard WayIn this insightful episode of 'How We're Doing It,' Tijani and Yazmin reflect on their first year of homeownership as first-generation immigrants, sharing lessons learned from maintaining a new build home to navigating homeowners insurance and HOA regulations. They offer practical advice on balancing indoor and outdoor tasks, utilizing smart appliances, managing home-related expenses, and tackling DIY projects. With tips on interior decoration, landscaping, and budgeting, this episode is a treasure trove of insights for new homeowners or anyone planning to buy a house, especially first-generation immigrants. Tune in for valuable knowledge and personal anecdotes to help you...2024-06-2043 minHow We're Doing ItAvoid Forcing Your Kids on Unloving RelativesTijani and Yazmin dive into the emotional journey of navigating genuine care for their daughter, from friends and family. They discuss setting boundaries, showing empathy, and teaching independence while highlighting the importance of genuine connections. And how they avoid forcing their child on unloving friends and family members. Learn how simple acts like a text or FaceTime call can impact relationships and get practical advice on building strong support systems for your child. Whether you're a parent or soon-to-be, this episode offers valuable insights and heartfelt advice on protecting your child's innocence and fostering meaningful relationships. Tune in for...2024-06-1331 minHow We're Doing ItA Big Surprise Announcement: Leo’s PredictionsIn this heartfelt and joyous episode of 'How We're Doing It,' Tijani and Yazmin share the exciting news that they are expecting their second child! The Musas take us through the emotional journey of discovering their pregnancy, from the early symptoms to the creative way Yazmin revealed the news to Tijani. They also discuss the challenges and differences between this pregnancy and their first with their daughter, including dealing with early symptoms, spotting, and the importance of having a strong support system.
Join them as they navigate the chaos of pregnancy while balancing family life, work...2024-06-0635 minHow We're Doing ItBudgeting and Debt Management While Supporting FamilyIn this eye-opening episode of 'How We're Doing It,' Tijani and Yazmin discuss the significant money lessons they've learned through personal experiences and the challenges they've faced as first-generation immigrants. From navigating hefty medical bills to the pitfalls of co-signing loans, the Musas share candid stories and practical advice on managing finances while supporting their families.
Listen as they recount the journey of paying off nearly $35,000 in debt, dealing with unexpected financial emergencies, and setting clear boundaries with family members. This episode is packed with valuable insights on how to maintain financial health without compromising family...2024-05-3050 minHow We're Doing ItTiny Toilets, Big Steps: Conquering Potty Training ToddlerAre you ready to tackle the potty training challenge? Join Tijani and Yazmin in this relatable and insightful episode of 'How We're Doing It' as they share their experience transitioning their two-year-old daughter from diapers to potty independence. Discover the signs that your toddler might be ready, the importance of mindset, and why kids sense fear in the potty training process. The Musas dive into the practical steps they took, from going cold turkey to understanding their daughter's cues, and how they made the training a fun and rewarding experience for everyone involved.
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Money NoticiasHow to Become Debt-Free and Build Wealth as a First-Generation Couple with Yazmin and Tijani | How We Are Doing ItIn this episode of Money Noticias podcast, Sunem and Israel interview Yasmin and Tijani Musa, hosts of the How We're Doing It podcast. Yazmin and Tijani share their journey of becoming debt-free and achieving financial milestones. They discuss the impact of their immigrant backgrounds on their money journey and the importance of counseling and communication in their relationship. They emphasize the need to be intentional with money and create a strong why. The couple also shares their dreams and goals, including paying off their house, investing, and providing a comfortable life for their family. They highlight the i...2024-05-2038 minHow We're Doing ItOnesies and Outfits: Packing Your Hospital Bag ChecklistEmbarking on the journey of parenthood? Dive into today’s episode of ‘How We’re Doing It’ where hosts Tijani and Yazmin share their personal experiences and practical tips for packing the essential hospital bag. From choosing the right onesie size for your newborn to ensuring mom and dad have everything they need, this episode is packed with advice to prepare you for the big day. Whether it's comfy PJs or a playlist to ease labor, tune in for an authentic and educational guide to getting your hospital bag ready—because when baby decides to arrive, you'll want to be prepare...2024-05-1624 minHow We're Doing ItA Journey of Resilience From War-Torn Sierra LeoneTijani shares his harrowing journey from Sierra Leone to the United States, highlighting survival, resilience, and triumph. Despite facing homelessness and financial struggles, Tijani overcame obstacles with determination and mentorship, achieving academic and financial success. His story inspires gratitude and celebrates life's victories, showcasing the human spirit's capacity to endure.
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TiKToK 2024-05-0956 minHow We're Doing ItFrom Veracruz to Virginia: Yazmin's Immigrant Story of Courage and Cultural PrideIn a candid conversation, Yazmin recounts her childhood in Veracruz, Mexico, her family's humble beginnings, and the poignant moment of crossing the border to reunite with her father in pursuit of the American Dream. She shares the challenges of assimilating into a new culture, the struggle with language barriers, and the eventual embrace of her Mexican heritage. Yazmin's journey is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the power of education.
But this episode is more than just an immigration story; it's a reflection on identity, family, and the sacrifices parents make for their...2024-05-0250 minHow We're Doing ItFirst-gen Immigrants & Life InsuranceDiscover the importance of life insurance with Tijani and Yazmin Musa as they explore this critical safety net for families. In this episode, they discuss the cultural taboos, financial implications, and the peace of mind that comes with being insured. Their conversation is a mix of valuable information, personal experiences, and a guide for first-generation immigrants on how to navigate life insurance. Tune in to learn why life insurance isn't just about death—it's about life and living without financial fear.
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...2024-04-2529 minHow We're Doing ItHow To Come Up With Your Core Family ValuesIn this engaging episode, we shared tips on how you can create your own family's core values. We do so by offering insights into navigating life as first-generation college graduates and parents. We discussed the importance of service and community engagement, the role of faith in our daily lives, and the transformative power of education. Listen in to gain valuable parenting tips and be inspired to foster a home environment centered on love, trust, and responsibility. Tune in for a heartfelt discussion that serves as a blueprint for nurturing a family culture rooted in intentionality and shared values.
2024-04-1841 minHow We're Doing ItValuing Time with Loved Ones at Every StageIn this enlightening episode of How We're Doing It, hosts Tijani and Yazmin got into the ever-changing dynamics of our relationships throughout life. They explored a series of thought-provoking data points that reveal how the time we spend with family, friends, coworkers, partners, children, and even ourselves evolves as we age. From the peak of childhood friendships to the steady companionship of a life partner, the Musas unpack the emotional and practical implications of these shifts.
They touched on the importance of celebrating life's varied milestones, whether it's a job promotion, a move, or simply surviving a tough day.
...2024-04-1129 minHow We're Doing ItFrom Donor Milk to Pumping QueenIn this heartfelt and empowering episode of How We're Doing It, Tijani and Yazmin Musa share their intimate journey through the challenges and triumphs of exclusive pumping. Yazmin opens up about her unexpected path to becoming the "thick, mean milk making machine," a title she wore with pride as she navigated the complexities of breastfeeding with flat nipples. The couple discusses the early days of syringe feeding their daughter with donor milk and transitioning to formula while waiting for Yazmin's milk supply to establish.
The episode is rich with practical advice, from finding the right pump to...2024-04-0446 min