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Let's Talk About Love, Sex & Infidelity#239 | The Hidden Cost of Not Fixing Your Communication PatternsIn this episode Therapist and relationship expert Todd Creager is diving deep into something he's observed over decades of working with couples - the devastating hidden costs of not addressing broken communication patterns in your relationship. Having worked with countless couples, he's seen how unresolved communication issues can slowly erode what was once a sacred connection, leading couples to simply "settle" for a shell of what their relationship could be.In this episode, you'll discover:• Why those "little arguments" are actually symptoms of deeper disconnection, and how to identify what's really cau...
2025-06-2312 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & Infidelity#237 | Why Just Talking About It Isn't Working - Moving From Conflict to ConnectionEver wonder why talking about relationship problems sometimes makes things worse? In this episode, Todd Creager therapist and relationship expert shares why "just talking about it" isn't always the solution – and what you can do instead. He's seen countless couples struggle with communication, only to end up more frustrated than when they started. But there's hope, and he's here to show you a better way.In this episode, you'll discover:- The crucial difference between "venting" and "sharing," and why one builds connection while the other creates distance- H...
2025-06-0913 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & Infidelity#236 | What Your Parents Never Taught You About Healthy Love - The Truth RevealedIn this episode, Therapist and relationship expert Todd Creager dives deep into what our parents (and society) never taught us about healthy love. Just like we take golf lessons to improve our swing or attend medical school to become doctors, shouldn't we learn how to create and maintain healthy relationships? Drawing from my 40+ years of experience as a relationship expert, I share why most of us weren't taught the essential skills for lasting love and what we can do about it.Key takeaways from this episode:- Discover the thr...
2025-06-0213 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & Infidelity#233 | Why Your Partner Doesn't Hear You - It's All About Brain ChemistryEver wonder why your partner seems to be listening but isn't really hearing you? In this eye-opening episode, I reveal the fascinating neurochemical reason behind why your partner tunes out during conversations or gets defensive when you're trying to communicate.As someone who's worked with countless couples (and experienced this in my own marriage!), I'll explain why it's not just about "not caring" - it's actually about what's happening in your partner's brain.In this episode, you'll discover:- The surprising role dopamine plays in why your partner might...
2025-05-1911 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & Infidelity#226 | 7 Signs of Unhealed Relationship TraumaHi! I'm Todd Creager, and in this powerful episode, I dive deep into the seven signs of unhealed relationship trauma. Drawing from my years of experience helping couples heal and transform their relationships, I'll guide you through these crucial indicators that might be affecting your ability to form and maintain healthy connections.In this episode, you'll discover:- How to identify if fear of intimacy, emotional numbness, or overreacting to small triggers are impacting your relationships- Real-life examples from my therapy practice that illustrate how unhealed trauma shows up in...
2025-03-0314 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & Infidelity#225 | 4 Types of Trauma That Causes Relationship ChallengesHi everyone, I'm Todd Creager, and in this powerful episode, I dive deep into the four types of trauma that can significantly impact our ability to form and maintain healthy relationships. Drawing from my years of experience working with couples, I'll help you understand how abandonment, rejection, betrayal, and humiliation traumas shape our current relationships and what we can do to begin healing.In this episode, you'll discover:- How to identify the signs of these four traumas in your relationships and understand why you might be sabotaging your connections or struggling with...
2025-02-2419 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & Infidelity#222 | Managing Triggers After Infidelity: 5 Essential Questions AnsweredHi everyone, Todd Creager here. In today's powerful episode, I dive deep into one of the most challenging aspects of healing after infidelity: managing triggers as a couple.Drawing from my years of experience working with couples, I answer the five most crucial questions about triggers that both betrayed and betraying partners frequently ask.In this episode, you'll discover:- Why triggers aren't necessarily a problem, but rather opportunities to develop emotional muscle and deepen your connection- Practical strategies to support your partner during triggered moments, including my...
2025-01-2014 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & Infidelity#221 | Deepening Emotional Connection after Infidelity: Your Questions Answered!Hi everyone, this is Todd Creager. In today's episode, I dive deep into answering your most pressing questions about rebuilding emotional connection after infidelity. Having worked with countless couples navigating the aftermath of betrayal, I know how challenging this journey can be. I'll share practical insights on developing emotional muscle, mastering attunement, and embracing vulnerability to help heal your relationship.In this episode, you'll discover:How to develop real emotional muscle by exploring tension rather than avoiding it, allowing you to stay present with your partner even during difficult conversationsThe power of true attunement (my favorite...
2025-01-1319 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & Infidelity#220 | How to Take Responsibility Without Shame When You've CheatedHi there! I'm Todd Creager, and in this powerful episode of Let’s Talk About Love, Sex and Infidelity Podcast, I address one of the most challenging aspects of healing from infidelity - how to take responsibility without drowning in shame. If you're someone who has betrayed your partner and is working to rebuild trust and heal your relationship, this episode is especially for you.I dive deep into answering the five most common questions I receive from people who have been unfaithful and are genuinely trying to make things right:Learn the crucial dif...
2025-01-0620 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & Infidelity#219 | Betrayed and Confused? 5 Critical Answers You Need Right NowIn today's powerful episode of Let's Talk about Love, Sex and Infidelity, Expert Todd Creager is diving deep into the heart-wrenching experience of healing after infidelity. If you've ever felt lost, hurt, and overwhelmed after discovering your partner's betrayal, this episode is your lifeline.I'll be answering the top five questions I hear from clients struggling to navigate the complex emotional landscape of healing after betrayal. This isn't just another podcast - it's a compassionate guide to reclaiming your emotional well-being.Key Insights You'll Discover:- Learn how to balance your healing journey...
2024-12-3018 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & Infidelity#215 | Is Cheating Different In The Digital Age?Hey there, it's Todd Creager, and I'm excited to dive into a topic that's more relevant than ever in our modern world: Is cheating different in the digital age? In this episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," we're going to explore how technology has changed the landscape of relationships and fidelity.Here's what you can expect from this eye-opening discussion:• Discover the new concept of "micro-cheating" and how it's blurring the lines of infidelity• Learn how digital communication is creating new challenges for trust and transparency in relationships• Unders...
2024-12-0910 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & Infidelity#216 | Is gratitude the secret sauce for a happier life?Hey there, it's Todd Creager, and I'm excited to share with you our latest episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." As we approach Thanksgiving, I want to dive into a topic that's close to my heart and crucial for our relationships: gratitude.In this episode, we'll explore the power of thankfulness, especially during challenging times. As someone who's dedicated to helping people navigate pain and difficulties in their relationships, I know firsthand how transformative gratitude can be. Here's what you can expect from this heartfelt discussion:• Discover how to cultivate gra...
2024-11-2804 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & Infidelity#212 | Micro Cheating EXPERT Reveals 7 Shocking SignsHey there, it's Todd Creager, and I'm excited to dive into a topic that's been generating a lot of buzz lately: micro-cheating. In this episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," we're exploring the seven signs of micro-cheating that could be affecting your relationship without you even realizing it.As a relationship expert who's worked with thousands of couples, I've seen firsthand how these subtle behaviors can impact intimacy and trust. Here's why you should tune in:• Gain valuable insights into the "gray area" of relationship boundaries and learn to recognize pot...
2024-11-1817 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & Infidelity#210 | Taking Your Relationship to The Next Level After InfidelityWelcome back to "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." I'm your host, Todd Creager, and today we're wrapping up our seven-part series on healing infidelity with an exciting topic: taking your relationship to the next level. In this episode, we'll explore the concept of post-traumatic growth and how couples can not only survive infidelity but emerge stronger and more connected than ever before. Here's what you can expect:• Discover the three healthy mindsets that can transform your relationship after infidelity• Learn practical, actionable habits to support ongoing relationship growth• Hear inspiri...
2024-11-0430 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & Infidelity#209 | Identifying and Overcoming Triggers When Healing From Infidelity Welcome to "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." I'm your host, Todd Creager, and in this episode, we're diving deep into a crucial aspect of healing from infidelity: addressing those inevitable triggers that pop up during the recovery process.After 42 years of helping couples navigate the choppy waters of infidelity, I've seen it all. Today, I'm sharing some powerful insights and strategies to help you and your partner deal with triggers effectively. Here's what you'll learn:• The most common triggers couples face after infidelity and why recognizing them is critical for healing• Pract...
2024-10-2827 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEp #206: Creating A Partnership of Equals in Your RelationshipHey there, it's Todd Creager, and I'm excited to share with you our latest episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." Today, we're diving into a topic that I'm sure many of you can relate to: shifting your relationship from a parent-child dynamic to an adult-adult partnership. In this episode, I'll be sharing some valuable insights on:How to recognize if you're stuck in a parent-child pattern in your relationshipThe importance of vulnerability and expressing your needs as an adultPractical tips for communicating more effectively with your partnerWays to shift your perspective a...
2024-10-0711 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEp #205: Rebuilding Trust: How to Support and Heal The Betrayed PartnerWelcome to "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." I'm your host, Todd Creager, and in this episode, we're diving deep into a crucial aspect of healing from infidelity: supporting and healing the betrayed partner.If you've been hurt by infidelity, or you're trying to help someone who has, this episode is for you. We'll explore:• Why blaming yourself for your partner's infidelity is common, and how to overcome it• The importance of acknowledging and healing both your adult and younger selves• How to build a strong support system when you're feelin...
2024-09-3032 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEp #204: The Hidden Link Between Childhood and Infidelity: Find Out Why!Hey there, it's Todd Creager, and welcome back to "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." In today's episode, we're diving deep into a crucial aspect of healing from infidelity: understanding attachment styles and their connection to childhood experiences.Ever wondered why some people are more prone to infidelity or struggle to heal after being betrayed? The answers often lie in our early childhood experiences and how they shape our adult relationships. Join me as I unpack this fascinating topic and share insights from my years of experience helping couples navigate the treacherous waters of infidelity.
2024-09-2337 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEp #202: How Childhood Experiences Influence Conflict Avoidance in MarriageHey there, it's Todd Creager, and I'm excited to dive into a topic that's close to my heart and crucial for healthy relationships: conflict avoidance in marriage. In this episode, we're going to explore how our childhood experiences shape the way we handle (or avoid) conflict in our adult relationships.Here's what you can expect from this eye-opening discussion:Discover why conflict avoidance is at the root of many relationship issues, from low sexual desire to infidelityUncover how your family's approach to emotions and conflict might be influencing your current relationship dynamicsLearn practical strategies to recognize...
2024-09-0911 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEp #201: Conflict Avoidance: The Unexpected Reason Your Physical Intimacy is SufferingWelcome, dear listeners! Todd Creager here, ready to dive into a topic that's crucial for every relationship but often swept under the rug. In this episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," we're exploring the surprising connection between conflict avoidance and physical intimacy. As a couples therapist, I've seen firsthand how avoiding tough conversations can put a damper on your sex life. But don't worry – I'm here to help you understand why this happens and what you can do about it!Tune in to discover:• The hidden intimacy killer that might be lurking in y...
2024-09-0210 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEp #198: Understanding and Addressing Low Sexual DesireHey there! Welcome to another episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." I'm your host, Todd Creager, and today we're diving into a topic that affects many couples: low sexual desire. Whether you're experiencing this yourself or supporting a partner through it, this episode is for you.In this candid discussion, you'll discover:• The surprising physical factors that can impact your libido, from hormones to medications• How past traumas and stress can affect your sex drive (and what to do about it)• The crucial link between emotional connection and sexual desire in long-t...
2024-08-1215 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEp #197 How Trauma Can Affect Your Intimate RelationshipHey there! Welcome to another episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." I'm your host, Todd Creager. In this episode, we dive deep into how trauma can affect your intimate relationships and what you can do to heal and build stronger connections.Understand Trauma's Impact: Learn how different types of trauma can influence intimacy and trust in your relationship.Healing Techniques: Discover effective methods like EMDR therapy to process and overcome past traumas.Enhance Communication: Get tips on how to communicate openly and honestly with your partner to strengthen your...
2024-08-0515 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEp #193: Beyond Basics: Deepening The Commitment in Your RelationshipHey there! Welcome to another episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." I'm your host, Todd Creager. In this episode, we're exploring the deeper dimensions of commitment in relationships and how you can take your bond to the next level.Understand the True Essence of Commitment: Discover what real commitment means beyond just staying together, and how it involves emotional and personal growth.Stay Connected Under Stress: Learn powerful techniques to maintain a strong connection with your partner, even during the most challenging times.Practical Tips for Daily Life: Find...
2024-07-0813 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEp #191: Revitalize Your Intimacy: Tips for Great Sex As You AgeWelcome to another enlightening episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." I’m your host, Todd Creager. Have you ever wondered if it’s possible to maintain a vibrant and fulfilling sex life as you age? In this episode, we’ll explore the secrets to great sex at any age, debunking common myths and offering practical tips to keep your intimacy alive.What You’ll Learn:Debunking Myths: Discover the truth about aging and sexuality, and why age doesn’t have to be a barrier to a satisfying sex life.Creative Intimacy:
2024-06-2413 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEp #188: Adrenaline Addictions: Secrets You Didn't KnowWelcome back to "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity"! I'm Todd Creager, and today, we're diving deep into a topic that affects many of us: adrenaline addictions. These addictions give us that rush, that temporary escape from our everyday lives, but what are we truly seeking, and how can we find healthier ways to feel alive and fulfilled?In this episode, you’ll discover:The Root Causes of Adrenaline Addictions: Understand how childhood experiences of neglect, judgment, and under-stimulation contribute to the development of these addictive behaviors.Healthy Alternatives to Up...
2024-06-0310 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEp #187: Regulate, Don't Medicate: Powerful Strategies to Conquer AddictionWelcome to another episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." I’m Todd Creager, and today we’re diving deep into the heart of addiction and how it ties into our emotional well-being. Whether you’re battling addiction or supporting someone who is, this episode is packed with insights and practical strategies to help you navigate this challenging journey.In this episode, you’ll discover:The Root Causes of Addiction: Understand how childhood trauma and a lack of emotional regulation can lead to addictive behaviors.Self-Soothing Techniques: Learn powerful...
2024-05-2718 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEp #186: The Relationship Between Addictions and StressWelcome back to "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." I'm your host, Todd Creager, and in today’s episode, we're diving deep into the intricate relationship between stress and addiction. As we explore this vital topic, you'll gain insights into how these two forces interact in ways that can profoundly impact our lives and relationships.Here's what you'll learn in this episode:The Vicious Cycle: Discover how stress not only triggers addictive behaviors but also results from them, creating a challenging cycle that can affect all areas of your life.Im...
2024-05-2017 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEp 185: Gaslighting and Children: Protecting the VulnerableWelcome to another episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," where we delve into the complex dynamics of relationships and the challenges we face within them. I'm your host, Todd Creager, and today we're tackling a tough but crucial topic: gaslighting within families, specifically focusing on how it affects our children and what we can do to shield and empower the most vulnerable among us.Here’s what you’ll learn from this episode:Understanding Gaslighting: Discover the mechanics of gaslighting — how it manifests in home environments, affecting not just partners but childr...
2024-05-1316 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEp #182: Healing from Gaslighting: Steps Towards RecoveryWelcome to another heart-opening episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," where we dive deep into the intricacies of human connections. I'm your host, Todd Creager, and today, we're embarking on a particularly poignant journey—a journey towards healing from gaslighting. Gaslighting, a form of psychological manipulation, can leave scars that are invisible to the eye but deeply felt in the heart. If you've ever found yourself questioning your reality due to the insidious nature of gaslighting, this episode is dedicated to you.Here's what we'll explore together:Recognizing Gas...
2024-04-1522 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEp 180: Overcoming Betrayal: The Science Behind HealingJoin infidelity healing expert Todd Creager as he delves into the depths of trust, betrayal, and the path to healing. Infidelity can shake the very foundation of our relationships, leaving us questioning everything we believed about love and trust. But there's hope, and it lies within the science of healing. Why you should tune in and listen:🟢 Discover the Role of Oxytocin: Learn how the "cuddle hormone" influences trust and how its levels are affected by betrayal, offering insights into the biological underpinnings of our relationships.🟢 Understand Polyvagal Theory: Gain a deeper understanding of how...
2024-04-0114 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEp #179: Debunking 7 Common Myths About InfidelityJoin Todd Creager infidelity healing expert and therapist, as he explores and debunks the 7 common myths about infidelity. With years of experience in helping couples navigate the turbulent waters of betrayal, Todd has an understanding of the misconceptions that often hinder healing and growth. This episode will shed light on the truths behind infidelity and to guide those affected toward a path of recovery and understanding.In this episode, you'll discover:🌟 The Truth Behind the Betrayal: Uncover why ending an affair is just the beginning of healing and what deeper issues need addressing....
2024-03-2517 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEp #179: Navigating Tough Choices with a Disagreeing PartnerWelcome to the latest episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity" with me, your host, Todd Creager. In today’s episode, we're diving deep into the complexities of relationships, especially when it comes to making tough decisions with a partner who disagrees with you.TAKE ACTIONTodd Creager, LCSW, LMFTTodd is a sex expert and therapist in Huntington Beach. He provides relationship counseling to couples virtually and throughout Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach. (714) 848-2288.
2024-03-1117 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEp #176: Transforming Conflicts into Intimacy: A Guide for CouplesWelcome to another enlightening episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," where we peel back the layers of what truly makes relationships tick. I'm your host, Todd Creager, and today, we're venturing into the often misunderstood territory of conflicts in relationships. Far from being mere obstacles, I'll show you how these moments of discord can actually become the most profound opportunities for deepening intimacy between partners.In this episode, you'll discover:The True Nature of Conflict: Uncover why conflict is not only inevitable but necessary for the growth a...
2024-02-1914 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #173: Reevaluating Your Priorities for A More Connected, Alive RelationshipWelcome to "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity" with your host, Todd Creager. In this enlightening episode, we delve into a topic that's vital for the health and longevity of any relationship: Reevaluating Priorities for A More Connected, Alive Relationship. As a marriage therapist and author, I've spent decades helping couples reignite their passion and deepen their connection. Now, I'm here to share these insights with you.In this episode, you'll discover:🌟 The Importance of Prioritizing Your Relationship: I'll explain why putting your relationship first is crucial and how it...
2024-01-2911 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #170: Overcoming Trauma Related Blocks To IntimacyWelcome to "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," hosted by Todd Creager. In this insightful episode, we delve deep into a topic that touches many lives yet often remains shrouded in silence: overcoming trauma-related intimacy blocks. Join me, Todd, as I unravel the complexities of how trauma impacts relationships and share strategies for couples to rediscover closeness and trust.In this episode, you'll discover:The Roots of Intimacy Blocks: Understand how trauma, whether from childhood or past relationships, can create emotional barriers that hinder intimacy in your current relationship.Healing...
2024-01-0821 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #161: From Crisis to Connection Overcoming Challenges After InfidelityWelcome to "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," the podcast hosted by Todd Creager. In this episode, we're diving deep into the complexities of healing and reconnecting after infidelity. Here's what you can expect in this enlightening discussion:🔑 **Rebuilding Trust:** Discover how couples can find their way back to trust and intimacy, even after experiencing the pain of infidelity.🔥 **Effective Communication:** Learn practical tips for better communication that can help you and your partner navigate the challenges of healing together.🌈 **Keeping the Flame Alive:** Explore ways to keep the spark alive in...
2023-10-3017 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode 160: Rebuilding Trust After Infidelity: The Journey of Hope and RedemptionIn this insightful episode, Todd Creager delves deep into the complexities of rebuilding trust and finding hope and redemption in the aftermath of infidelity. Listen to this episode, as infidelity and relationship expert Todd Creager with over 35+ years of healing couple after infidelity with a 90% success rate navigates the tumultuous waters of love, sex, and relationships, offering valuable insights and practical advice.Here's what you can expect in this compelling episode:💔 **Understanding the Devastation:** Explore why infidelity is no light matter. Todd sheds light on the intense pain it causes to both the betr...
2023-10-2313 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #159: Creating an Intimate SanctuaryAre you ready to unlock the secrets to a more passionate and connected relationship? Join us on "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity" as your host, Todd Creager, dives into the art of setting the stage for intimate connection. In this engaging episode, Todd shares his expertise and reveals the keys to a more fulfilling love life.1. Revitalize Your Relationship: Learn how to infuse love, adventure, and pleasure into your partnership, reigniting the spark that may have dimmed over time.2. Create an Intimate Sanctuary: Discover practical tips on enhancing your physical environment, from choosing...
2023-10-1609 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #158 The Art of Sensuality: Rediscovering Pleasure and PassionIn this exciting episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," your host Todd Creager delves into the art of sensuality, rekindling pleasure, and reigniting the flames of passion in your relationship. Todd, a seasoned relationship therapist, shares his wisdom on what makes love and intimacy thrive even after years of togetherness.Rediscover Passion: Learn how to recapture the passion and aliveness that might have faded in your long-term relationship.Enhance Intimacy: Discover the power of self-discovery and self-love as pathways to enhance physical intimacy with your partner.Navigate Infidelity Crisis: Explore how infidelity can become a...
2023-10-0918 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #157: Beyond Intimacy: Cultivating Intimacy in Everyday Moments**Welcome to "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity" with Todd Creager**Episode Title: **"Beyond the Bedroom: Cultivating Intimacy in Everyday Moments"**🔥 **Unlock the Secrets to Intimacy Beyond the Bedroom!** 🔥Join me, Todd Creager, your host and relationship expert, as we dive deep into the world of intimacy in this thought-provoking podcast episode. Discover how to nurture and strengthen the bonds of love in ways you never thought possible, going beyond the bedroom and into the heart of your everyday interactions.**In This Episode, You'll Learn:**🚀 **The True Essence of Forepl...
2023-09-1111 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #153 Beyond Turmoil Embracing Emotional Healing and Rediscovering Joy after infidelityAre you in the midst of experiencing the gut-wrenching pain of infidelity in your relationship? If you are, it can be challenging to find your way back to happiness and emotional wholeness. In this episode, Todd Creager, a renowned relationship expert, guides how to get beyond turmoil and begin embracing emotional healing and rediscovering joy after betrayal.💔 Understanding the Deep Impact of Betrayal 💔Infidelity strikes at the very core of our being, leaving us shattered and confused. Todd Creager shares the secrets of why people make such heart-wrenching choices. By listening to him delve in...
2023-08-1415 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #152 Overcoming Fear of Judgment when Deciding to Stay After InfidelityIn this episode, Todd Creager addresses a common struggle faced by individuals who choose to stay in a relationship after infidelity: the fear of judgment. Todd explores the internal conflicts, societal expectations, and the importance of self-validation in making this complex decision. He provides valuable insights and strategies to help you overcome the fear of judgment and make choices that align with your needs and desires. Watch this video to gain a deeper understanding of the topic and embark on a journey of self-discovery, resilience, and empowerment.Key Points Covered:🔷 Overcoming the fear of...
2023-08-0812 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #150 Overcoming Gaslighting: Effective Techniques to Reduce Anxiety and Rebuild Self-ConfidenceAre you tired of feeling anxious and doubting yourself due to gaslighting? In this empowering episode, Todd Creager shares effective techniques to overcome gaslighting, reduce anxiety, and rebuild self-confidence. Gaslighting, ranging from mild invalidation to toxic manipulation, can leave victims feeling invalidated and unsure of their own reality. Todd explores strategies that apply to various degrees of gaslighting, providing valuable insights for those facing constant gaslighting in toxic relationships.Discover the importance of seeking support from therapists, understanding friends, and select family members who validate your experiences. Tune into the part of yourself that knows...
2023-07-2415 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #149 How To Find Your Self-Trust After Being GaslightedIn this episode, you'll discover a wealth of insights and practical strategies to help you rebuild your self-trust after experiencing gaslighting. Gaslighting is a manipulative tactic used by certain individuals to make you question your own reality and doubt your own perceptions. It can leave you feeling isolated, confused, and lacking in self-confidence. Marriage and family therapist Todd Creager delves into the concept of gaslighting and its detrimental effects on your self-trust. He explains the tactics and motives behind gaslighting, shedding light on why some people resort to such destructive behavior. By understanding the mechanisms at play...
2023-07-1720 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #146: Recognizing Common Tactics Used By Gaslighters and ManipulatorsDiscover the Mind Games of Gaslighters and Manipulators so that you can easily recognize common tactics used by gaslighters! Are you or someone you know experiencing doubts, confusion, and a constant feeling of inadequacy? Relationship expert and therapist Todd Creager shares the truth behind gaslighting and narcissistic abuse, shedding light on the insidious manipulation that can leave you questioning your own reality based on his 35+ years of working with individuals in his private practice.In this thought-provoking video, Todd shares real-life examples and insights gained from helping countless victims reclaim their power. Todd explores the li...
2023-06-2615 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #143: The Power of Love in Healing from InfidelityIn this episode, Todd Creager therapist and infidelity expert talks about the power of love in healing from infidelity.Todd has been working with thousands of individuals and couples dealing with infidelity for many years and says that love is an important word. When working with clients, Todd tries to go deep with them and understand why the infidelity happened, as opposed to being judgmental. The loving response is to look for what's true and try to understand what led someone to sabotage a relationship they value. He emphasizes that secrets are harmful and can b...
2023-06-1211 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #140 : How EMDR can help you heal after infidelityIn this episode of the Let's Talk About Love, Sex and Infidelity podcast, therapist and infidelity expert Todd Creager discusses how EMDR can help you heal after infidelity.Todd is a proponent of using healing modalities in his practice to promote optimal healing for his clients. He's been using EMDR successfully to help his clients heal from Trauma and recently he's branched out in to using it to help his clients who are working with him to heal after infidelity.Wondering how EMDR works? Todd has an indepth video right here where he shares how EM...
2023-05-2216 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #137: EMDR Success Story Healing Attachment WoundsIn this episode, Todd shares a success story where he used EMDR to heal childhood attachment wounds so that this woman was able to create boundaries, become more confident and self loving.As a result she is blossoming personally and has a healthier view of what type of a relationship she wants and needs. She now understands and has the keys to having the love she wants.Tune in and discover:What EMDR and how Todd uses it to help his patients process memories and heal themselves.What attachment wounds are and h...
2023-05-0113 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #136: How EMDR Can Help You Stop Fighting with Your PartnerIn this episode, relationship expert and couples therapist Todd Creager explains how he's discovered the power of using EMDR which stands for Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing Therapy to help couples stop fight or flight and start communicating better with each other.Listen in and hear Todd:Explain what EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing Therapy) is.How couples tend to trigger each other and how that affects their ability to communicate with each other.Why emotional conversations are so difficult and how EMDR can make them easier to have with your partner.How...
2023-04-2407 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #133: Healing Trauma Wounds with EMDRIn this episode, therapist and relationship coach Todd Creager discusses healing trauma, specifically attachment wounds using EMDR. Eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR) therapy is a mental health treatment technique that Todd uses to help his patients to process and heal traumatic memories. You'll want to listen to today's episode and see if you can self-identify with any of the childhood attachment traumas that Todd describes. You might be carrying around some childhood attachment traumas that are impacting your relationship in ways you aren't aware of...Listen in as Todd explains:Wh...
2023-03-2013 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #132: Trusting Yourself When Being GaslightedIn this episode, therapist and relationship expert Todd Creager discusses how to trust yourself when you're being gaslighted. Unfortunately gaslighting happens more often that we'd like to think.You may be having a hard time trusting yourself when you're being gaslit especially if you are working on becoming healthy and setting boundaries for yourself.If you are feeling like it is time to be yourself and break free from being gaslighted by your family and/or partner then you'll want to listen and discoverWhat is gaslighting, so you can identify when a...
2023-03-1309 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #130: How to Fan The Flames of Passion in Your RelationshipIn this episode of the Let's Talk About Love, Sex and Infidelity Podcast Todd Creager shares a simple tip that will help you fan the flames of passion in your relationship.This is so simple and straight forward but so many people often over look it. Todd's personally used this technique himself and with 1,000's of couples in his private practice.Tune in and discover:Why many couple fall into a rut in their relationshipsWhy making this one shift can re-ignite the flames of passion again in your relationshipHow to do it a...
2023-02-2708 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #128: My #2 Tip For RomanceIn this episode of the Let's Talk About Love Sex and Infidelity Podcast I share my #2 tip for romance. I'm continuing my short series on how to have more romance in your relationship and in episode #127 I share my #1 Tip for Romance which is become fascinated with your partner and you can listen to that episode right here: Today's conversation is around making time for romance and when you do this your relationship will thrive. Attention to your partner and your relationship is essential if you want more romance...and remember it only takes ONE person to ma...
2023-02-1308 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #127 My #1 Tip For RomanceIn this episode of the Let's Talk About Love Sex and Infidelity Podcast I share my #1 tip for romance.You might think it involves dates, flowers and gifts...but it's not and this is something so SIMPLE that you can easily do every single day to transform your relationship with your partner!Todd shares:What romance really is and it's not what you think!Gives you reason why this tip works even if you've been married or with your partner for years or maybe decades.Todd shares how he uses this tip...
2023-02-0607 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #124: How Meditation Helps You Heal from InfidelityIn this episode, therapist and infidelity expert Todd Creager shares how meditation helps you heal from infidelity.Infidelity is one of the biggest issues that couples seek out Todd's expertise, he's helped thousands of couples heal from infidelity for the past 35+ years with a 90% success rate.Listen in and find out why Todd recommends meditation to his clients as a healing modality and how meditation helps you heal from infidelity.Listen to this episode where he shares:3 ways meditation helps you deal with the challenges of infidelityHow meditation can give...
2023-01-1605 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #123: What's Wrong With Me? The #1 Question Victims of Infidelity AskIn this episode, relationship and infidelity expert Todd Creager answers the question: What's wrong with me? The #1 question victims most commonly ask.Todd shares the five reasons why victims of infidelity ask what's wrong with me and how to shift these thoughts:→ Why you personalize the infidelity as the betrayed partner→ Understanding why no one is perfect and how to stop the blaming your partner→ Why cheating is never about the betrayed partner→ The most common factor that leads to cheating→ How to use infidelity as an opportunity for own personal growth.
2023-01-0913 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #122: 3 Things to Ask Yourself When You Don't Want to Have Sex With Your PartnerWhat do you do when you don't want to have sex with your partner?In this episode, sex and relationship expert Todd Creager shares the three things to ask yourself when you don't want to have sex with your partner.TAKE ACTION:Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFTTodd is a sex expert and therapist in Huntington Beach. He provides relationship counseling to couples throughout Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach. (714) 848-2288.You can find more tips and resources fr...
2023-01-0212 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #121: How do I know when I can trust my spouse after infidelity?In this episode, infidelity expert and relationship therapist Todd Creager answers the question that almost all betrayed partners ask...How do I know when I can trust my spouse after infidelity?Infidelity causes deep pain for the betrayed partner and building trust again can be very difficult but necessary for the marriage or relationship to heal.Listen in as Todd discusses:What micro trusts are and why they can be an important part of the healing process.8 ways you'll that you can trust your partner/spouse after infidelity Whether all 8 o...
2022-12-2617 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #120: How Meditation Reduces or Removes Sexual Performance AnxietyIn this video, relationship coach and therapist Todd Creager explores how meditation reduces or removes sexual performance anxiety.Listen in and he shares 5 ways that meditation can help you if you or your partner is experiencing sexual performance anxiety:How meditation reduces stress and the impact on sexual performance.How meditation is deep rest and gives you the energy to want to have sex with your partner.How meditation makes you more present and the impact this has on your sexual performance.How meditation can help you get beyond those feelings that may be affecting you...
2022-12-1912 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #118: Success Stories - The Positive Impact of MeditationListen in to Todd share how meditation is positively impacting the lives of people just like you...specifically the people who are participating in Todd's Meditation for Self and Interpersonal Healing programTodd uses meditation as an additional healing modality inside of his therapy practice for individuals and couples. He's seen how meditation has enhanced their healing and this has inspired the creation of his program Meditation for Self and Interpersonal Healing.Join Todd for a sneak peek inside his program and what successes people are having as a result of practicing meditation consistently:...
2022-12-0508 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #117 Trusting the Unknown Relationship FutureIn this episode, relationship expert and therapist Todd Creager discusses you can begin trusting the unknown relationship future.Learning how to do this is beneficial for anyone who is looking to create a satisfying, joyful and loving relationship with their intimate partner...whether you have one right now or not.Listen in and hear Todd explain:Why you mind repeats information it's learned and how that affects your relationships.Why and how you co-create your reality based on what you've have learned.Why you are programmed to stay in the familiar and h...
2022-11-2811 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #116: Post Traumatic Growth After InfidelityOne of the biggest questions when dealing with infidelity is can I recover from this trauma along with can my relationship be repaired?In this episode, Infidelity Expert and Therapist Todd Creager discusses the topic of Post Traumatic Growth After Infidelity.Listen in and you'll discover:❇️ The difference between negative experiences and trauma.❇️ How Post Traumatic Stress Disorder develops after experiencing a traumatic event.❇️ Examples of PTSD.❇️ What is Post Traumatic Growth.❇️ What steps does it take to foster Post Traumatic Growth after experiencing infidelity.❇️ Examples o...
2022-11-2109 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #115: How meditation positively impacts the brain after experiencing traumaIn this episode, Therapist and relationship expert Todd Creager explains how meditation positively impacts the brain after experiencing trauma.Todd uses additional healing modalities in his work with couples and individuals in his practice including EMDR and meditation which he finds highly effective when dealing with trauma. Listen in and hear Todd explain how meditation can help rewire the brain after experiencing trauma. Todd covers the following:How meditation can calm your nervous system.Why accessing the quiet part of our brain during meditation can positively impact the hippocampus.Why Todd ad...
2022-11-1409 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode 114: Breaking Through The Barriers To Deep IntimacyIn this episode of the Let's talk about Love, Sex and Infidelity Podcast Todd Creager and Kristen are having a conversation about breaking through the barriers to deep intimacy.We aren't necessarily destined to recreate our parents relationships and Todd shares how we can break free to create our own relationships regardless what was passed on to us from prior generations. Here's what we're covering:What Todd has observed in his work what they have commonly passed down to us and how that can affect our relationships with ou...
2022-11-0838 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #113: How to Tell The Truth After Cheating - A Success StoryIn this episode, Infidelity expert and therapist Todd Creager shares how to tell the truth after cheating and the story of how this helped a couple heal their relationship. Peter and Sandra came to see Todd in order to save their marriage after multiple infidelities (not just sex) by both parties and with his help they were able to save their marriage.This is a continuation of the story of Peter and Sandra emotional reconciliation an infidelity success story. If you haven’t watched that video you can check it out HERE.This is an impor...
2022-11-0118 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #112: How Your Spouse Really Feels After Cheating On YouIn this episode of the Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity Podcast, relationship coach and expert Todd Creager focuses on how a non-sociopathic cheater feels before and after cheating on you.Here's what Todd covers in this episode:Why he focuses on partners who are non-sociopathic cheaters. Why people cheat on their spouses/partners. What they are experiencing pre and post discovery of their infidelity.Listen in and find out what they are really thinking and feeling...plus Todd will share stories from working with thousands of couples helping them survive and thrive after in...
2022-10-2414 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #109: Healing From Infidelity An Emotional Story of ReconciliationTodd loves to share success stories especially when a couple is able to heal their relationship after infidelity.In this story of healing from infidelity, he share one couple’s emotional story of how they were able to heal and reconcile.Many times when infidelity occurs in a relationship both parties must heal themselves from the effects of the infidelity and from things that happened prior to the relationship.This couple found them in this situation and their story is a very challenging and complex story with a happy ending…...
2022-10-0417 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #108: Do Men and Women Cheat The Same?In this episode, Infidelity expert and therapist Todd Creager answers the question do men and women cheat the same?He dives into this topic and shares what women and men want and how these “wants” cause the cheating.Watch the video and find out what Todd has to say about:✅ Power and infidelity✅ Cheating for Love✅ Cheating for Sex✅ Cheating for validation✅ Cheating for an emotional connectionAnd many other reasons that he’s observed in his work with thousands of couples working...
2022-09-2714 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #107 Opening Your Heart to LoveIn this episode we are going to continue our discussion from episode # where we chatted about Meditation, the benefits and how it gives you the freedom to drop your agenda and to be able to listen from a deeper place. And if you haven’t listened in to that episode, i’ve got the links in the notes for youSpecifically, we’re going to talk about Opening Your Heart to More Love which is great because when we recorded this episode in August, Todd celebrated his 38th wedding anniversary. Todd has lots to share in this ep...
2022-09-2029 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #106: The Anti Inflammatory CoupleIn this episode, Todd Creager explains what is an anti inflammatory couple? Plus…why this is important for your relationship (and health) and how you can become one too!There is a lot of discussion these days in the medical field about how inflammation can damage our health, but did you know that it can also impact your mental health and your personal relationships?Listen in and discover Relationship Todd Creager’s thoughts on why all couples need to take a look a their relationship and see if they fall into the category of bei...
2022-09-1313 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #105: Commitment to Your Relationship JourneyIn this episode, relationship expert and therapist Todd discusses what commitment on your relationship journey looks like and what does it take to have a healthy relationship.Listen in and discover: → What successful couples do to have a healthy long-term relationship.→ What does “working on my relationship” really mean?→ What common problems relationships have what you can do to overcome them.→ What you really need to be paying attention to in your relationship.TAKE ACTIONTodd Creager, LCSW, LMFTTodd is a...
2022-09-0614 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #104: Meditation and Radical Self AcceptanceIn this episode, Todd Creager talks about how meditation helps you become more self accepting and a better partner. This subject is a central theme inside Todd's Meditation for Couples program.Todd shares how learning to become more self accepting helps you tap into this unconditionally loving part of you, it frees you from the false story of inadequacy. It also makes it so much easier to stay present and tuned in to your partner.Todd answers these questions:Why is it that emotionally charged conversations are...
2022-08-2337 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #103: How Meditation Has Positively Impacted My MarriageIn this episode, Todd Creager gives you a behind the scenes update on his marriage. This month he's celebrating 38 years of marriage to his wife Cherie and he's reflecting on how meditation has positively impacted his marriage.Listen in and discover:How often Todd and his wife Cherie meditate.Todd and Cherie's relationship challenges and how meditation helps them.What benefits they get individually and as a couple from meditation.And much more!TAKE ACTION:Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFTTodd is a s...
2022-08-1608 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #102: How Meditation Can Quiet Your Inner CriticIn this episode, Todd Creager discusses how the practice of mediation can quiet your inner critic. Your inner critic is that voice inside your head, a running tape that tells us things that are not always constructive.Sometimes your inner critic can help keep you out of trouble or help us when we make a mistake…but most of the time it’s not constructive.Listen in as Todd shares:How meditation slows you down so that you can start paying attention to your thoughtsHow it helps you not get so caught up b...
2022-08-0909 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #101: Meditation Can Shift Your RelationshipIn this episode of the Let's Talk About Love, Sex and Infidelity Podcast, relationship expert and therapist Todd Creager discusses how meditation can shift your relationship EVEN if your partner does not meditate!Listen in and hear Todd share that the more you meditate, it gives you the ability to find the place inside of yourself that is unconditionally loving. He even shares how his practice impacted his relationship and inspired his wife to begin her own meditation practice.Take aways:It only takes one person to shift a relationshipMeditation give us t...
2022-08-0306 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #100: The Power of StoppingIn this episode, your host and relationship expert Todd Creager discusses the power of stopping…how it improves our health and relationships.Todd covers:1. What is slowing down and stopping?2. Why it is possible and necessary for everyone to find the time in our lives to stop..3. Why stopping makes our entry back into busy lives richer.Make it practice to set aside 30 minutes daily to practice stopping and take notice of the positive things it does for your energy, stress levels and of course your relationships....
2022-07-2612 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #98: How Meditation Gives You The Freedom to Drop Your AgendaIn this episode of Let's Talk About Love Sex and Infidelity Podcast we are talking about Meditation as we are launching Todd Creager's brand new Meditation for Couples Program. We’re focusing on the benefits of meditation and how it gives you the freedom to drop your agenda and to be able to listen from a deeper place.Listen in and discover:What are some of the typical agendas that people have in relationships and how does having them impact their communication and relationship dynamics?Why Todd uses the words FREEDOM of drop...
2022-07-1234 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #97: How to Optimize Male Sexual Performance with Dr. Tracy GapinListen in to this interview Todd Creager and male sexual performance expert Dr. Tracy Gapin discuss ways that men can maximize and optimize their sexual health.He is a leading GAINSWave provider. He offers a personalized path to helping men maximize sexual health, testosterone levels, and prostate health.Dr. Gapin is also the author of Male 2.0: Cracking the Code to Limitless Health and Vitality.In this interview they discuss:What does it mean to bio-hack male sexual performance?How is regenerative performance possible?Newer treatments that have yet to reach c...
2022-07-0531 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #96: How to handle rejection when you've initiated sex with your partnerIn this episode, relationship expert Todd Creager shares his tips on how to handle rejections when you've initiated sex with your partner.Many couples come to see him for help with this very issue. The advice he gives is based upon his 35+ years of work with thousands of couples in his practice.Listen in and discover:Why rejection when you've initiated sex is so painful.Why rejection happensWhat you can do about it when you are rejected by your partner when initiating sex with them.TAKE ACTION:T...
2022-06-2815 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #95: How to deal with your emotions after discovering your spouse's pornography useAre you reeling and trying to copy with a mixed bag of feelings and emotions after discovering your spouse’s pornography use?In this episode, relationship expert Todd Creager discusses how to deal with your emotions after discovering your spouse’s pornography use.Todd’s unique perspective on how to deal with your emotions after discovering your spouse’s pornography use is based on his 35+ years of real-life experience coaching couples through issues like this.Listen in and and find out:1. The negative beliefs you have about yourself...
2022-06-2117 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #94: How Pornography Destroys Committed RelationshipsIs your partner consuming pornography and you feel like it is impacting your relationship with them?In this episode, relationship expert Todd Creager discusses how pornography destroys committed relationships.Todd shares his thoughts about pornography and when used wisely it doesn’t destroy relationships. He suggests that it can be used for good things or bad depending on the scenario.Listen in and find out what Todd says about the 3 ways it can destroy your committed relationship.TAKE ACTIONTodd Creager, LCSW, LMFTTodd is a se...
2022-06-1414 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #93: Does Porn Lead to Infidelity?Are you concerned that your partner is consuming pornography and wondering…does porn lead to infidelity?In this episode, relationship expert and coach Todd Creager gives an inside look at pornography and intimate relationship. He answers this commonly asked question is pornography use a gateway to infidelity? Here’s a sneak peek at what you'll hear in this episode:Are there situations where porn is okay?When is porn a problem and how does it affect relationships?When and how can porn lead to infidelity?Listen in and discover the most damaging way that po...
2022-06-0710 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #92: Attachment Trauma: Why Everyone Needs to Know More About ItIn this Episode, relationship coach and therapist Todd Creager discusses attachment trauma.He sees a lot of it in his work with couples and individuals and feels that it’s important that everyone listens to this conversation because most of us think of trauma as big things that happen to us…In fact, many of us have had small traumas and these are called “Mini T’s” and we don’t even realize it.This type of attachment trauma happens when you haven’t had a secure attachment to your caretakers (parents) at an early age.
2022-05-3113 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #91: Ways That People (and Their Brains) Deal with Trauma and Perceived ThreatsIn this episode of the Love, Sex and Infidelity Podcast, Todd Creager shares the ways that people (and all of our brains) deal with trauma and perceived threats.If you are having trouble dealing with past trauma or have a partner who has been impacted by trauma, then you will find this podcast episode enlightening and give you a better understanding of how people deal with trauma.Listen in and find out what he shares and learn the most important theory about trauma that you may never have heard of.Todd dives into...
2022-05-2413 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #90: The Power of Meditation On Your Brain and HealthAs a therapist and coach, Todd Creager relies on several tools to help his clients heal themselves, create the life they want, and get the love they deserve.In this episode, he shares the power of meditation: its impact on your brain and your health. You'll get practical tips and examples of the power of meditation on your brain, health and relationships.Listen in and hear Todd explain:✅ How meditation impacts your brain...the neurological effects.✅ Why meditation helps to get you out of flight or flight mode and back into a...
2022-05-1717 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #89: Meditation, Love and AttractionIn this episode, marriage and relationship expert Todd Creager discusses the link between meditation, love and attraction.Looking to attract more love into your life whether you are single or married? Meditation may be the answer…Todd shares deep insight based on his personal experiences of the impact that meditation has on love and attraction.Listen in and discover:✅ How finding your inner light increases your capacity to give and receive love.✅ Meditation is the pathway to help you discover and access this inner light inside of you.
2022-05-1013 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #88: How Meditation Benefits RelationshipsIn this episode, marriage and relationship expert Todd Creager answers the question about Meditation, how does it benefit relationships?Listen in and find out what Todd says about meditation based on his own experiences and what benefits he’s observed in his work with couples for over 35+ years when they embrace meditation.Here’s you’ll discover when you listen:1. How mediation takes you to a deeper place and the impact this has on you and your relationship.2. When you go to a deeper place in your meditation it has an...
2022-05-0316 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #87: What Happens When A Child Has to Parent A ParentIn this episode, Marriage Therapist and Relationship Expert Todd Creager discusses what happens when a child has to parent their parent.This is a toxic situation that he sees in his work with couples and individuals. The signs are usually when he sees an adult who has a difficult time relaxing and/or letting other's be there for them...usually when he digs deeper he finds that this is because they did not have a parent who was attentive to their needs as a child.Listen in and find out what Todd has to say s...
2022-04-2614 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #86: When Unresolved Issues Cause InfidelityIn this episode, Marriage Therapist and Relationship Expert Todd Creager shares an infidelity success where the cheater had a family of origin issues that caused him to cheat. Todd was able to help Ted the cheater learn to overcome his fears and be able to express himself on a deeper level with his partner which helped them to come back together.LINKSGet your FREE copy of 10 Steps Towards Healing From Infidelity here: https://toddcreager.com/infidelity-freebie/TAKE ACTION:T...
2022-04-2007 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #85: Healing from An Ego Driven Infidelity Success StoryIn this episode of the Let's Talk about Love Sex and Marriage Podcast, Marriage Therapist and Relationship Expert Todd Creager shares a story of a couple who healed from infidelity that happened because of an ego-driven partner's actionsListen in as Todd shares the story of a husband with narcissistic traits who cheated on his stay-at-home wife. After a while, he still wants to prove that he is the guy – an ego-driven infidelity factor there.When they finally came to see Todd, the wife discovered that he had been cheating on her… Todd was able to he...
2022-04-1209 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #84: Success Story: How this couple with a new baby healed their relationship after infidelityIn this episode, Marriage Therapist and Relationship Expert Todd Creager share the story of how a couple with a new baby were able to heal their marriage after infidelity.Todd points out that there were underlying issues that caused the wife to commit the infidelity. Once those were uncovered and resolved, Todd was able to help them save their marriage.ABOUT TODD CREAGER: ====================Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFTTodd is a sex expert and therapist in Huntington Beach. He provides relationship counseling to couples throughout Orange County including Irvine, Newport Bea...
2022-04-0508 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #83: Success Story: How This Woman Overcame Her Dysfunctional FamilyIn this video, Marriage Therapist and Relationship Expert Todd Creager shares a success story of a woman who took on the role of the people pleaser, care taker and rule follower in her family.She had recently divorced and was ready to start dating again but was afraid of making the same mistake again. Watch the video and learn how Todd successfully helped her break free from her family of origin role that was causing her to have relationship issues.ABOUT TODD CREAGER: ====================Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFTTodd is a...
2022-03-2207 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #82: Success Story: Overcoming Unhealthy PatternsIn this video, Marriage Therapist and Relationship Expert Todd Creager shares a success story of a person who was able to overcome some of the unhealthy patterns like pain, anxiety and feeling out of control. He had learned to adapt to his very chaotic alcoholic dysfunctional family.TAKE ACTION:Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFTTodd is a sex expert and therapist in Huntington Beach. He provides relationship counseling to couples throughout Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach, and Long Beach. (714) 848-2288.You can fi...
2022-03-1508 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #81: Overcoming Dysfunctional Families on Both Sides of a MarriageIn this video, Marriage Therapist and Relationship Expert Todd Creager shares the story of how a woman was able to overcome her own dysfunctional family and her husband's as well.She was in an arranged marriage and her husband's family dynamics weren't helping her, as a result, she was depressed and unhappy.During their work together, Todd was able to help her be able to find interests that made her happy. She become more of her own person and was able to assert herself in her family dynamics instead of just staying quiet and unhappy.
2022-03-1109 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode 78: What to Do When You Are Like Two Ships Passing in the NightIn this podcast, Marriage and Relationship expert Todd Creager tells you how to rekindle the passion in your marriage (or relationship) when you have fallen into the trap of living like you are two ships passing in the night.Todd provides marriage and sex therapy and counseling in the Orange County area. Based out of Huntington Beach, he serves the nearby areas of Corona del Mar, Irvine, Newport Beach, Seal Beach, Long Beach and beyond. He also offers virtual appointments! Contact Todd's office today at (714) 848-2288.TAKE ACTIONTodd Creager, L...
2022-02-1620 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode 77: Rescuing a Long-Term Marriage From DivorceIn this podcast, relationship expert Todd Creager tells the story of how he was able save a long term marriage that was headed for the divorce courts.This couple was dealing with core conflicts that were going unresolved, a common issue Todd sees in couples that work with him. He helped them recognize and work on them and as a result their self-work has brought them closer together.TAKE ACTIONTodd Creager, LCSW, LMFTTodd is a sex expert and therapist in Huntington Beach. He provides relationship co...
2022-02-1507 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityPodcast Episode #72: How Do I Overcome Pattern of Sabotaging My Goals?Today, I'm joined by my daughter Arielle Creager who is a personal trainer, group fitness instructor, and holistic nutritionist based in Los Angeles for a father-daughter dialogue around getting out of self-sabotage and into action.In this conversation, we talk about1. Food 2. Fitness 3. RelationshipsIf you are ready to change your relationship with food and exercise so that you can finally create a healthier lifestyle that you’re looking for please contact Arielle Creager at ariellecpt@healthylivingwithari.com or check out her website at https://www.healthylivingwithari.netTo chat...
2022-01-1716 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #45: How to Stop Your Family From Pulling Your Chains | Todd's Advice for Surviving the Holidays!Marriage & family therapist Todd Creager of Orange County brings you tips on how to survive the Holidays with family without getting stressed or upset. Your family doesn't have to yank your chains during the holidays or anytime you get together for that matter. I want you to enjoy spending time with your family and not dread those get-together! Here's simple tips to help you experience happy and stress-free family gatherings. Watch this short video where Todd shows you how to keep those happy feelings even when someone says something that pushes your buttons. Here's to...
2020-11-0305 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #21: How EMDR Can Help IntimacyAs a a relationship expert in the Orange County area, Todd Creager specializes in topics like increasing passion, avoiding toxic relationships, and healing from trauma. Todd is a certified EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) therapist, and in this video he shares a success story of how this type of therapy can improve intimacy. TAKE ACTION: ============ Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFT Todd offers marriage, relationship and sex therapy services from his Huntington Beach location. He provides counseling to couples throughout Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach. (714) 848...
2020-05-0508 min
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & InfidelityEpisode #14: Brainwashing & Mind Control in RelationshipsIn this video Todd Creager discusses gaslighting, brainwashing and mind control all are classic tools that abusers use to control their partners. This video covers a topic that I consider to be of utmost importance. Most often it affects women but it can happen in all types of relationships and it isn't the woman who is the victim. I cover why the abuser is they way they are. If you feel like you're the crazy one in your relationship, you'll want to watch this video. You may realize that you're with a crazy-maker. Todd specializes in help...
2020-03-1905 min