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Mormon LandTom Christofferson about LGBTQ+ issues within the church | Episode 398On Sept. 28, 2017, The Salt Lake Tribune premiered a new podcast, “Mormon Land,” and its first guest was Tom Christofferson, a prominent LGBTQ+ member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and a brother of apostle D. Todd Christofferson.
Deseret Book had just published Tom’s memoir, “That We May Be One: A Gay Mormon’s Perspective on Faith and Family.”
As hosts, we were definitely neophytes, but the power of Tom’s narrative and his openness carried the moment.
Now, as “Mormon Land” approaches its 400th episode — and a decade after the Supreme Court ma...2025-07-0233 min
Faith MattersHeavenly Mother's Day - A Conversation with McArthur KrishnaWith Mother’s Day coming up, we’re so honored to bring you this conversation with McArthur Krishna about her new book, Mother in Heaven: A Gospel Topics Essay Study Guide.The doctrine of Heavenly Mother is one of the most beautiful and distinctive Latter-Day Saint teachings—but for many, it’s still unfamiliar territory. McArthur and her co-authors created this study guide as an invitation to engage with this doctrine more deeply. Drawing on the church’s Gospel Topics essay, the book explores each point through art, rich personal reflections, and theological insights with contributions from many peopl...2025-05-0341 min
Post Mormon PeaceThrough My Mother's Eyes (Part Three): Creating a Culture of UnityIn the final episode of this three-part series, Derek and Ruth Ann explore how their family has cultivated an atmosphere of mutual respect, love, and acceptance despite differing beliefs. They share practical strategies, lessons learned, and key moments that helped their family grow closer together. This episode is an inspiring testament to the power of open communication, listening, and choosing unity over division.
Books Mentioned in Episode 3
That We May Be One: A Gay Mormon's Perspective on Faith and Family by Tom Christofferson
Description: Tom Christofferson, brother of Elder D. Todd Christofferson, shares his...2025-03-0445 min
All Out in the OpenSeeing the Love of God In Others (with Tom Christofferson)IN the Scriptures: In this episode, Clare Dalton chats with Tom Christofferson about finding faith, hope, and love through the stories in Ether 12 and Moroni 7 from the Book of Mormon. They dive into the ups and downs of faith, what it means to trust God, and how to see yourself the way Christ does. Along the way, Clare and Tom share personal stories about navigating life’s challenges, embracing who they are, and finding connection through charity and understanding.2024-11-191h 12
The Parents Place181. Story of Resilience: Supporting an LGBTQ+ ChildBeing a parent is a big job and often times we don't realize how hard it might be to let them grow and live their own lives. Sydney is here and has a great story about watching two of her children grow up and come out as being members of the LGBTQ+ community. She talks about what was hard, what she wishes she did better, what she did well, and what young LGBTQ+ adults want parents to know.
Subject Resources:
USU Resources: https://www.usu.edu/inclusion/programs/lgbtplus-and-allies/lgbtqia-resources
...2024-04-011h 01Faith Matters192. How Church? — Tom Christofferson at RestoreA few weeks ago, Faith Matters released a video we called “Why Church?” It features several of our favorite people, who gave really thoughtful answers to that question that is present for so many. Today, we’re sharing Tom Christofferson’s Restore talk, which addresses the next question: “How Church?” Tom describes in poignant and sometimes hilarious detail his experiences joining a new ward where so many people are so unlike him, and, in the end, found that that was kind of the point. For us, this was one of the very most memorable sessions at this year’s...2023-11-2618 min
Unpacking with Sarah203 - Truth Telling With Julia Sanders and America MarvelTrigger warning. Discussions of whether Joseph Smith might have been a pedophile or a sexual predator are contained, and further discussions on the differences between the two classifications. Despite this trigger warning, this episode is filled with a vast amount of information, discussions of overlapping missions, and loads of laughter with two guests who are intelligent, fun, and filled with data. Refrain from letting their bright dispositions distract you from enjoying their sharp wit and delightful rapport with each other, as well as Sarah and Mason. Here comes Julia and America, and they are bringing the heat. ...2023-09-112h 26
Living Beyond the Shadow of Doubt™Episode 55: Beyond the Surface, Spiritual Wounds Part 2 The Gender WoundA few months ago, as I was listening to the ALSSI podcast, Episode 113, I determined a spiritual wound that I have experienced personally and I believe we have collectively as conservative faith communities. Susan Hinkley and Cynthia Winward interview guest Kathryn Knight Sonntag author of The Mother Tree: Discovering the Love and Wisdom of Our Divine Mother.
In the preface of the book, Kathryn shares the following “I believe asking questions and exploring possibilities are indispensable ways to show love and reverence for revealed truth.”
I couldn't agree more.
On page 13, she says “My experiences and study led me to see tha...2023-08-0918 min
Living Beyond the Shadow of Doubt™Episode 44: Doubt is what helps us refine belief, with Bro. Tom Christofferson PART 2"If we (society) could be a little more willing to allow other people to learn in the ways that are most effective for them--even as they're reaching conclusions we whole-heartedly disagree with--if we can suspend the need to force them or change them into what we want to see, I think we have an opportunity to be a vibrant diverse society." T. Christofferson.
I welcome Brother Tom Christofferson to the podcast to discuss his experience as a gay man and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. Tom shares his journey of...2023-06-3035 min
Living Beyond the Shadow of Doubt™Episode 43: Doubt is what helps us refine belief, with Bro. Tom Christofferson PART 1"If we (society) could be a little more willing to allow other people to learn in the ways that are most effective for them--even as they're reaching conclusions we whole-heartedly disagree with--if we can suspend the need to force them or change them into what we want to see, I think we have an opportunity to be a vibrant diverse society." T. Christofferson.
I welcome Brother Tom Christofferson to the podcast to discuss his experience as a gay man and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. Tom shares his journey of...2023-06-2835 min
Spiritually Minded Women PodcastThe Doctrine of Christ: Baptism and the Sacrament || Part 3 of 5This is the third episode in a five part series about the doctrine of Christ. Listen to hear why continuing on from faith in Jesus Christ and repentance to baptism and partaking of the sacrament will give you even more power in your life to change.Episode Links
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Into the LightResources for LESS IGNORANCE About LGBTQ TopicsThis week we talk about resources that Sarah has shared with us in order to become more open, more educated and more comfortable to ask and listen about LGBTQ+ issues!! Linked are all the books, podcasts and organizations we mentioned!!!PODCASTSQuestions from the Closet Websitehttps://questionsfromthecloset.comListen, Learn and Love Websitehttps://www.listenlearnandlove.org/podcastsBOOKSWithout the Mask by Charlie Birdhttps://www.amazon.com/Without-Mask-Coming-Into-Light/dp/1629727849/ref=nodl_?dplnkId=43...2022-09-2812 min
What Now65. A Gay Mormon’s Perspective I Tom Christofferson shares his journey of faith and how he came backJoin me as I speak with Tom Christofferson, author of, “That We May Be One - A Gay Mormon’s Perspective on Faith & Family". Tom talks honestly about his experience as a gay man and what ultimately brought him back into full activity in the gospel of Jesus Christ, after being in a committed gay relationship for over 12 years. Tom shares how the unconditional love of his family (including his brother, Elder D. Todd Christofferson) and ward community, helped him come back. His story is powerful.2022-06-2950 min
Voices of Hope007 - Trent as a Branch President007 - Trent as a Branch PresidentJeff & Joseph speak with Trent, who was Joseph’s Branch President in Vermont. He gives insights into how church leaders can be more understanding of different circumstances in a branch or ward. Trent talks about how he spent a lot of time and effort trying to better understand Joseph when he first heard that a member of his branch experiences same-sex attraction. They all discuss the internal conflicts that come from being a member of the church while simultaneously knowing how to support and love anyone making choices th...2022-04-1544 min
MSL TalkMastering the Medical Affairs Professional Role: Inside and OutIn this episode, Tom Caravela welcomes Kent Christofferson to discuss his career journey and insights into the MSL role. Kent shares his transition from academia to industry, highlighting the importance of mastering the MSL role and thinking like a Key Opinion Leader (KOL). He delves into the value proposition of MSLs, the significance of team effectiveness, and the challenges of handling multiple roles. The conversation covers compliance, technology, and future medical affairs directions, emphasizing digital engagement and the shift towards relationship-based interactions. Kent concludes with strategies for effective KOL engagement and the importance of leadership support in the evolving MSL...2021-12-2138 min
Funeral Potatoes for the Singles WardEpisode 89: Human LighthousesWe're going back to our roots with this week's episode! We're talking about human lighthouses: people we believe are shining beacons of hope and fantastic examples for single adult members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. This week we're talking about Sharon Eubank, Tom Christofferson, Rosemary Card, David Archuleta, and Carol Lynn Pearson!2021-10-2054 minFaith Matters84. Elusive Unity at BYU — A Conversation with Tom Christofferson and Patrick MasonToday’s episode was a tough one, to be honest. In the aftermath of a speech that Elder Jeffrey R. Holland gave recently to faculty and administration at BYU, we try to explore and understand why the message created such a firestorm. Among other things, the speech raised anew the Church's longstanding challenge in speaking to LGBTQ issues. If you aren’t familiar with the speech that we’re talking about, don’t worry — we give a little more context once the discussion starts. The full transcript and video of the speech are available on the Church Newsroom we...2021-09-111h 19
Coaching Your Family RelationshipsTom Christofferson - Finding Love and Understanding for your LGBTQ ChildSend us a text#005 - In this episode, Tom Christofferson and I have a discussion about families and their LGBTQ children. Tom is a gay latter-day saint who has been through many experiences in his life, including leaving the faith, and then returning years later. His experience and insight into what LGBTQ members and their families experience in the church is invaluable. He has also authored two books and you will find the links to purchase these books below. Some of the topics we cover:What to do when your child...2021-07-0659 min
Hope Helps: Navigating Everyday LifeKnown and LovedIn this episode of Hope Helps, Tom Christofferson and Arteh Odjidja reflect on how we can affirm ourselves in Christ. As members of the LGBTQ+ community, they share their common life experiences on being members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and how we can reach out and love those around us.Tom is the author of inspirational books, That We May Be One: A Gay Mormon’s Perspective on Faith & Family and A Better Heart: The Impact of Christ’s Pure Love. Arteh is an award-winning professional photographer, best known for ‘The Stranger Series...2021-06-0932 min
Doing Good with Carmen HerbertTom Christofferson || Love & Support LGBTQ+What are the best ways to show love and support to friends and family in the LGBTQ+ community? Join Carmen as she interviews Tom Christofferson on friendship, forgiveness, faith, and what it means to unite your family in love and loyalty.2021-06-0850 minFaith Matters70. A Better Heart — A Conversation with Tom ChristoffersonThose fortunate to have come into the orbit of Tom Christofferson have found a wise, genuine and compassionate friend. His first book That We May Be One: A Gay Mormon’s Perspective on Faith and Family was instrumental in healing many hearts and building many bridges. In his new book A Better Heart, Tom dives deeper into his journey toward the kind of Christ-like love to which we aspire as disciples. Tom sat down with Aubrey and Tim Chaves this week to talk about the spiritual journey that led to his latest book.2021-05-0257 min
Listen, Learn & Love Hosted by Richard OstlerEpisode 381: Tom Christofferson, Author “A Better Heart: The Impact of Christ's Pure Love”My friend Tom Christofferson joins us to talk about his new book which invites readers to learn more deeply about the Lord’s supernal gift of charity and shows how understanding that gift can change our very discipleship.
We also talk more generally about Tom’s experiences with his former partner, his family, the local church leaders who have influenced him, and his hopes for our young LGBTQ members and their parents.
If you want to better follow Christ’s example and better live His teachings, I encourage you to read and share Tom’s excellent book which is available at:
Des...2021-02-131h 23
All InTom Christofferson: The Healing Power of CharityWhat if there is power in a Christlike attribute we have heard about our entire lives but have barely scratched the surface of understanding? In his new book, “A Better Heart,” Tom Christofferson writes, “The gift of charity is enormous in conception, its effect and meaning eternal. And yet, it is also small and intimate and personal.” On this week’s episode, we explore charity and how it has the power to give us all better hearts. “It’s that opportunity to be able now to simply be an instrument in His hands—to transmit as purely as we possibly c...2021-01-1345 min
Dialogue Gospel StudyDialogue Book of Mormon Gospel Study with Tom Christofferson on 3 Nephi 20 – 26October 18: Tom Christofferson on 3 Nephi 20-26 Tom Christofferson is the author of “That We May Be One: A Gay Mormon’s Persoective on Faith and Family”, and the forthcoming “A Better Heart: The Power of…
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Dialogue Journal PodcastDialogue Book of Mormon Gospel Study with Tom Christofferson on 3 Nephi 20 – 26October 18: Tom Christofferson on 3 Nephi 20-26 Tom Christofferson is the author of “That We May Be One: A Gay Mormon’s Persoective on Faith and Family”, and the forthcoming “A Better Heart: The Power of…
The post Dialogue Book of Mormon Gospel Study with Tom Christofferson on 3 Nephi 20 – 26 appeared first on Dialogue Journal.2020-10-2200 minAll Out in the OpenHow do I reconcile changes in Church policy?LDS author Tom Christofferson joins us to discuss changes in Church policy. We cover the November 2015 policy that affected LGBTQ+ individuals and their families, as well as its reversal in 2019. We have a conversation about dealing with challenging teachings or topics in a church setting, and how we maintain faith when policies change. 2020-07-0736 min
Latter-day Landscape (previously Mormonism Magnified: Top Mormon News)LGBTQ Policy Reversal (Part 2: Understanding the April 2019 announcement)This episode covers the announcement from the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints in April 2019, which essentially reversed its prior policy of labeling those in same-sex marriages as apostates and banning their children from Church ordinances such as baptism and baby blessings. In this episode we explore the details and implications of the April 2019 announcement. Featuring special guest scholars Cristina Rosetti and Paul Reeve, as well as a conversation with Tom Christofferson, Bill Turnbull, and Patrick Mason from the FaithMatters.org podcast. Don't forget to subscribe to the show. LatterdayLandscape.com2019-07-2049 min
Latter Gay StoriesTom Christofferson | Church Leader Session: Affirmation ConferenceTom Christofferson is an active member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, he’s gay and the author of “That They May Be One,” a book detailing his life is a member of the Church and how he navigates his sexuality. In this episode Tom shares his experiences and offers advice to church leaders and to the LGBTQ community from the 2019 Affirmation International Conference. 2019-06-2726 min
Pesquisas MormonasEpisodio 212: ¿Los líderes mormones ven a Dios y a Jesús?
Noticias:
1. La iglesia se opone al Acta de Igualdad del Congreso estadounidense
- https://tinyurl.com/y6x4f4ok
2. Mujer que demanda a la iglesia es atacada en su hogar
- https://tinyurl.com/y2z2flrk
3. Iglesia demanda a mujer que grita en la conferencia
- https://tinyurl.com/yy6hvhp8
4. Nelson visita a presidenta de Nueva Zelanda
- Visita a Nueva Zelanda: https://tinyurl.com/yyhmprcy
- Iglesia dona $100,000 a musulmanes neozelandeses: https://tinyurl.com/yxm7pk3s
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Faith Matters23. Tom Christofferson and Patrick Mason on the reversal of the Church's policy on gay familiesIn this conversation, Bill Turnbull from Faith Matters sits down with Tom Christofferson and Patrick Mason to discuss the Church’s reversal of its controversial November 2015 policy regarding LGBTQ couples and their children. They discuss what we know about the origins of the policy and its reversal, as well as the implications of those actions for both gay and straight Latter-day Saints, and for our understanding of how revelation occurs on important Church matters.Tom Christofferson is a devout, gay Latter-day Saint, and brother of Elder D. Todd Christofferson. Tom is author of “That We May Be One...2019-04-1747 min
Mormon Stories - LDS847: Tom Christofferson - That We May Be One Pt. 3Our special Christmas Morning release on Mormon Stories Podcast includes an interview with Tom Christofferson about his book “That We May Be One.” Tom shares the story of voluntary excommunication from the LDS Church in order to live his life as a gay man—a life that included a fulfilling relationship with a partner and acceptance from his family including brother D. Todd Christofferson—Apostle in the LDS Church. Sensing a void in his spiritual life, Tom began attending a local meetinghouse of the Church with the support of its leadership. Over time his relationship with his partner e...2017-12-251h 00Mormon Stories - LDS846: Tom Christofferson - That We May Be One Pt. 2Our special Christmas Morning release on Mormon Stories Podcast includes an interview with Tom Christofferson about his book “That We May Be One.” Tom shares the story of voluntary excommunication from the LDS Church in order to live his life as a gay man—a life that included a fulfilling relationship with a partner and acceptance from his family including brother D. Todd Christofferson—Apostle in the LDS Church. Sensing a void in his spiritual life, Tom began attending a local meetinghouse of the Church with the support of its leadership. Over time his relationship with his partner e...2017-12-251h 19Mormon Stories - LDS845: Tom Christofferson - That We May Be One Pt. 1Donate Our special Christmas Morning release on Mormon Stories Podcast includes an interview with Tom Christofferson about his book “That We May Be One.” Tom shares the story of voluntary excommunication from the LDS Church in order to live his life as a gay man—a life that included a fulfilling relationship with a partner and acceptance from his family including brother D. Todd Christofferson—Apostle in the LDS Church. Sensing a void in his spiritual life, Tom began attending a local meetinghouse of the Church with the support of its leadership. Over time his relations...2017-12-251h 01
Faith Matters1. Faith, Family, and Discipleship as a Gay Mormon - Terryl Givens with Tom ChristoffersonTom Christofferson’s journey through life has been anything but ordinary. On the surface, itbegan as a typical Mormon story. He grew up in a close gospel-centered LDS family and wenton to serve a faithful mission. But during these years, he was also trying to deal with aninconvenient truth: He was gay.Although his life and family had been firmly rooted in the church (his older brother Todd waseventually called as an LDS apostle), Tom came to a point at which he could no longer envisiona place fo...2017-11-0957 min
A Thoughtful Faith - Mormon / LDS216: From Mormon Missionary to Catholic Priest: Rima Tamaiparea-PukiTom Christofferson's spiritual journey as a gay man took him from Mormonism, out, and back again. Rima Tamaiparea-Puke's spiritual journey as a gay man took him from Catholicism to Mormonism and back to Catholicism. Both stories attest to stories of deep faith and religious devotion. Both stories speak to the need in all of us to be reconciled in one way or another to the faith of our families. 2017-10-301h 15
Un-UninformedA Gay Mormon’s Perspective on Faith & Family- with Tom ChristoffersonTom Christofferson is a gay Mormon. To many, this is a conflict that cannot be reconciled. But for Tom, it’s not that simple. His personal journey brought him away from being an active Mormon years ago. But most recently, his journey brought him back to being a full-time member of the church. In this episode, … Continue reading "A Gay Mormon’s Perspective on Faith & Family- with Tom Christofferson"2017-10-0900 min
A Thoughtful Faith - Mormon / LDS214: That We May Be One: A Gay Mormon's Perspective on Faith and Family: Tom ChristoffersonTom Christofferson is gay and he's Mormon. His recently published book 'That We May Be One' is a touching memoir of love, loss, and faith. We discuss the story within his story that our life's journey be underscored by a demonstrative, kind and gentle love, particularly for our LGBTQ brothers, sisters and children.2017-09-301h 04Mormon Stories - LDS731: Meg and Jake Abhau’s Meeting with D. Todd Christofferson about LGBT IssuesAs part of our series on meetings with Mormon General Authorities, we interview Meg and Jake Abhau as they relay the story of their September 2013 meeting with Mormon Apostle Elder D. Todd Christofferson. Meg and Jake appeared on episodes 508-510 of Mormon Stories discussing their experiences in early 2013 when their 13 year old son, Jon, came out to them as gay while they were living as committed, orthodox Mormons. During this period Meg and Jake met Tom Christofferson, brother of Mormon Apostle D. Todd Christofferson. At the time Meg and Jake met Tom he was an exco...2017-04-241h 42
A Thoughtful Faith - Mormon / LDS153: Daniel Parkinson and Tom Christofferson: LGBTQ Mormon Youth Suicide: A DiscussionIn this discussion we talk about the issues related to LGBTQ Mormon Youth suicide and how we can build more loving, inclusive and compassionate communities for all regardless of sexual orientation.2016-07-011h 22
Nourish Balance ThriveTripping Over the Truth: The Return of the Metabolic Theory of Cancer Illuminates a New and Hopeful Path to a CureCancer is like a computer program gone wrong, the kernel panic of the human body. Unfortunately, we have no reboot button, and so cancer is the most serious of diseases. This year, almost six hundred thousand Americans will die from cancer. Despite the fact that cancer receives more NIH funding than any other illness, the death rates remain the same as in the 1950s. Tripping Over the Truth: The Return of the Metabolic Theory of Cancer tells the story of molecular biologist and science writer Travis Christofferson’s journey to discover why cancer has remained so elusive. Th...2016-02-1848 minNourish Balance ThriveTripping Over the Truth: The Return of the Metabolic Theory of Cancer Illuminates a New and Hopeful Path to a CureCancer is like a computer program gone wrong, the kernel panic of the human body. Unfortunately, we have no reboot button, and so cancer is the most serious of diseases. This year, almost six hundred thousand Americans will die from cancer. Despite the fact that cancer receives more NIH funding than any other illness, the death rates remain the same as in the 1950s. Tripping Over the Truth: The Return of the Metabolic Theory of Cancer tells the story of molecular biologist and science writer Travis Christofferson’s journey to discover why cancer has remained so elusive. Th...2016-02-1848 min