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"Life Lessons to Share" with TomEPISODE 13 / FIGURE IT OUT, MY GRANDKIDS ELI & ELLADid you get your 3 wins to start your day? In today's episode...I'm going to ask you, the listener, questions from life lessons my youngest daughter, Allie, and I talked about in Episode 12.Two very special guests are going to visit the podcast, as well. My famous grandson, Eli, and my famous granddaughter, Ella. We have one of the greatest five minute conversations a grandpa could ever have with his grandkids... IT WILL MAKE YOU LAUGH!!Also, an updated "Cart Story" :)Send us a text2025-05-2627 min
The Future of Film with Tom OlivaThe Future of Film S5:EP2 | Ella Janes (Early Directing Career, AAHSFF Accolades, OKC Roots)In Episode 2 of Season 5, host Tom Oliva sits down with All American High School Film Festival alumna Ella Janes to discuss her evolution as a filmmaker. Ella delves into the creation of her award-winning short film The Derivative Outlook on Love From the Perspective of Two Sixteen-Year-Olds, which earned her the Best Editing award at AAHSFF 2023. She also reflects on her earlier work, The First 280 Honest Words of My Life, which won Best Experimental at AAHSFF 2022.Ella shares insights into her creative process, the challenges of independent filmmaking, and how her Oklahoma City roots have influenced her...2025-05-0858 min
Comfort CreaturesElla joins MFD Spring BreakIt’s not MaxFunDrive without a wild kickoff spectacular! Former real-life VJ and host of MTV's Spring Break 1999, Dave Holmes, takes your favorite MaxFun hosts through some wacky ‘90s- and Spring Break-themed mini games!!Featuring: Dave Holmes, Jeremy Bent, Oscar Montoya, Dimitry Pompée, Tom Lum, Ellen Weatherford, Alex Schmidt, Brenda Snell, Drea Clark, Alonso Duralde, Dan McCoy, Jordan Morris, Manolo Moreno, Ella Hubber, Caroline Roper, Ella McLeod, John-Luke Roberts, Justin McElroy, Clint McElroy, Mike Cabellon, Sierra Katow, Hal Lublin, Danielle Radford, John Moe, Christian Dueñas, Christian Duguay.
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Let's Learn Everything!Tom, Ella, and Caroline join MFD Spring BreakIt’s not MaxFunDrive without a wild kickoff spectacular! Former real-life VJ and host of MTV's Spring Break 1999, Dave Holmes, takes your favorite MaxFun hosts through some wacky ‘90s- and Spring Break-themed mini games!!Featuring: Dave Holmes, Jeremy Bent, Oscar Montoya, Dimitry Pompée, Tom Lum, Ellen Weatherford, Alex Schmidt, Brenda Snell, Drea Clark, Alonso Duralde, Dan McCoy, Jordan Morris, Manolo Moreno, Ella Hubber, Caroline Roper, Ella McLeod, John-Luke Roberts, Justin McElroy, Clint McElroy, Mike Cabellon, Sierra Katow, Hal Lublin, Danielle Radford, John Moe, Christian Dueñas, Christian Duguay. Timestamps:(00:00:00) Intro(0...2025-03-171h 20
MusiConversations on JazzMusiConversations on Jazz - Schu-Memories by Tom Schuman on Count Basie - Season 1a Episode 1 - Originally Aired 2021As an extension to MusiConversations on Jazz, this episode of the Schu-Memories series, features Tom Schuman reflecting on his early career with Spyro Gyra and a life-changing encounter with jazz legend Count Basie.
Introduction to Touring and Festivals
Tom recalls joining Spyro Gyra as a teenager and his excitement at playing in local Buffalo clubs.
Touring internationally with Spyro Gyra opened the door to encounters with jazz greats and solidified his commitment to the band.
The North Sea Jazz Festival (1979)
The band's first major international festival took place in The Hague...2024-12-3010 min
Emma & Tom Talk TeachingPGCE Research Bites 23 - Assessment for Learning with Ella ClearyFor today's snippet of student teacher research Tom is joined by Ella Cleary from PGCE Secondary Biology. Ella was interested in how to use assessment for learning strategies to create an equitable biology classroom.-----------------------------------------------------Recorded in studio B2.15 at Cardiff Metropolitan University's Cyncoed Campus on 29th April 20242024-09-2723 min
Two Friends Two PoemsTwo Friends Two Poems Episode 9 - Padraig O’Tuama, Ella YevtusheknoIn today’s episode Tom and Paul read poems by Irish poet Padraig O’Tuama and Eukranian poet Ella Yevtushenko. Paul reads his poem "(I have to) Write a Poem” and Tom reads “A Poem for the Angry Young Man and his Family.” But first, Tom came up with a segment. Support the showMusic by Wes Cunningham. Read more of Tom’s poetry and other writing by following him at tomwardwrites.medium.com 2024-09-0615 min
Inside WealthFrom Cashier to Group Chief of Staff in a FTSE 100 Company - Episode 38 - Ella HughHave you ever wondered how someone moves from a Tesco checkout to Chief of Staff at a FTSE company?
Find out in this episode, where Thomas Spencer was joined by Ella Hugh, a Former Director of Proposition & Marketing, who shared her remarkable journey and the qualities that have fuelled her success.
Ella's story began in a humble background in Manchester, where she defied the odds through sheer determination and a relentless desire to grow. It's a resonant testament to the power of attitude and persistence over pedigree.
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The BOB & TOM Show Free PodcastB&T Extra Throwback: The Rectum of Ella FitzgeraldOn this Bob & Tom Extra: We have throwback to 2019 with The Rectum of Ella Fitzgerald and Tim Cavanaugh's Cavalcade of Celebrity Birthdays! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices2024-07-1519 min
Last Stroke CountsLeading the Dark Blue Revolution with Oxford’s President Ella Stadler☕️ Buy us a coffee 👉 https://www.buymeacoffee.com/laststrokecounts
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In this episode of Last Stroke Counts, we sit down with the President of the Oxford University Boat Club Ella Stadler.
Ella offers an inside look into her journey from being a novice college rower to taking up the leadership role, managing the challenges and expectations of one of the world's most distinguished rowing institutions.
Ella discusses the recent integration of Oxford's men's and women's squads under he...2024-05-121h 09
The Cellar Door PodcastElla Pradella - The Cheeky Vino and the WinegramSend us a textI think the first ever social media platform I recall hearing about was Myspace. Can’t ever say I got amongst that one when I was at school, but in the blink of an eye, its out with the old and in with Facebook. And it was all Facebook. For a long time. Until it wasn’t – and then it was Twitter, Pintrest Snapchat, Instagram, and TikTok – you get the picture – this world ditches and upgrades pretty rapidly and if you want to be part of the conversation, then the world really demands quite a lo...2023-03-291h 00
Comfort Creatures30: Lets Learn Everything About Pets with Ella, Tom, & CarolineSnakes! Mice! Cats! Robots! FanFic! Frogs! This episode has something for everyone! We're joined by the delightful hosts of Let's Learn Everything: Ella Hubber, Tom Lum, and Caroline Roper! We've got a harrowing story of mice and snakes with a twist ending, a thorough discussion of cat bells, and even a blossoming pet lover. Don't forget to check out Let's Learn Everything here on MaxFun to find out if Elephants are right-handed and SO much more!Send us YOUR pet stories (Ready, Pet, Go!) at comfortcreatures@maximumfun.org and don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe! Plus...2023-03-021h 05Comfort Creatures28: Tom Merritt, Sarah Lane, and Pet TechThis week Tom Merritt and Sarah Lane of Daily Tech News success join us to tell us about their wonderful pets~ Plus, we talk pet tech, big dogs, and cats that adopt you! If you have any pet tech tales we'd love to here about them- do self cleaning litter trays actually work???- so please keep your Ready Pet Gos coming! Check out Otis on instagram at @otisreddinglane, Sawyer's movie instagram @chewhardmovie, and get more Tom and Sarah at dailytechnewsshow.com!
2023-02-1753 min
Ella Reads ...Complete | Miscalculation By Spork_in_the_Road |A Tomione (Tom Riddle x Hermione Granger) Fanfiction| Harry PotterAlternate Universe where Tom Riddle is a student in the 90s
Hermione Granger did not hate the Head Boy. She was just competitive, and Tom Riddle was the only student in the entire school who consistently edged her out of the top spot by a single point. Every. Damn. Year.
Find the original story here: https://archiveofourown.org/works/161706352022-10-1746 min
Poetry To Your Ears8 - Ella Sadie GuthrieWelcome to the eighth episode of poetry to your ears podcast! We interview Ella Sadie Guthrie. She is a Brighton-based poet, co-founder of WRIOT collective and Words by the Water poetry night. She writes about love and is releasing her first poetry book this August '22, that is all about her love fantasies with Pete Davidson. You can follow her on Instagram @poetrytoyourears.If you liked the episode, follow our podcast and leave us a comment! Follow our Instagram @poetrytoyourears to read the poems featured in each episode and be...2022-04-0646 min
Nope. I'm ScaredElla Hates Open WaterI'm sure we've talked about how Ella is scared of the ocean before but we're going in and doing our own unsolved mystery in the form of Ella's worst nightmare: Open Water/ being stranded at sea. We are talking about the tragic disappearance of Tom and Eileen Lonergan who were abandoned by their boat in the ocean and never seen again. Water the movie based on this story: Open Water (2003)Youtube video sourced for research: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X3Z-PSYT18MInstagram: nope_im_scaredEmail us! Nopeimscaredpodcast...2021-07-2858 min
Greatest Music of All Time Podcast#98 - Ella Whelan InterviewElla Whelan is the assistant editor at spiked and author of What Women Want: Fun, Freedom and an End to Feminism. She has a conversation with Tom about her favourite music, coronavirus and the impact of governmental policy in handling the pandemic, and the inauguration of Joe Biden as US President. SUBSTACK:https://substack.com/@goatedmusicpodSPONSORED BY:Lumie: https://www.lumie.comdBud: https://earlabs.coEximious: https://eximiousoflondon.comSir El Tom John: https://sireltomjohn.comADVERTISE ON GREATEST MUSIC OF ALL TIME:management@tomcridland.c...2021-01-251h 03
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Creativity WastedBeef Leash (Ella H)Seeing a hungry dog try to eat it's leash led to the idea of actually making an edible dog leash out of beef, which led to the idea of making adult toys out of beef and other foods. Also, Ella saved a frog from a toilet Originally from Creativity Wasted episode 67 Bart Dangus (Twitter: @BartDangus Podcast: bigtimegarbage.libsyn.com) Ella H Tom Walma (Twitter: @thomaswalma) Recorded at Podcast Detroit2020-01-2708 min
Tom Mateu Ses XerradesTom Mateu Ses Xerrades #10 - Carlota DelgadoEn esta ocasión nos visita Carlota Delgado, una mujer espabilada, independiente, fuerte y la sobrina más pesada. Efectivamente, aunque de pequeños decíamos que éramos primos (por aquello de evitar dar explicaciones que ni nosotros mismos entendíamos muy bien), la realidad real es que soy su tío; es decir, hermano de su madre. Y, por tanto, me debe rendir pleitesía.
Como sea, en esta entrega recuperamos una conversación que mantuvimos allá por mazo de 2017, cuando ella trabajaba como au pair en Múnich.
Espero que disfrutéis de ella tanto c...2019-10-0240 min
My Little UndergroundMLU Level 37: Tucker Winstanley and Tom Ella of The UndesirablesOn Level 37 of My Little Underground, I have an unauthorized dating conversation with two guys who definitely shouldn't have a dating podcast. Tucker Winstanley and Tom Ella of The Undesirables podcast pulled up to talk The Beatles, STDs, dates that have gone wrong, dating apps, podcast growth, monogamy and open relationships, and Tom turning down an interview with Tyler The Creator.
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The UndesirablesClosure: The Season FinaleWhen some ghosts from Tom's past return in dramatic fashion, the boys realize they have no choice but to resurrect senior relationship expert correspondent Kait Emery to inject once again some much-needed wisdom into their well-intentioned mania and neuroses.[NOTE: For the full context of these stories, please listen to episodes 13-15 of season two.]It's been a long season, y'all. We laughed. We cried. We contracted (and importantly, cured) chlamydia. But things are coming to a stop here for a little bit while we regain our sanity and...2019-08-081h 23
The UndesirablesClosure: The Season FinaleWhen some ghosts from Tom's past return in dramatic fashion, the boys realize they have no choice but to resurrect senior relationship expert correspondent Kait Emery to inject once again some much-needed wisdom into their well-intentioned mania and neuroses.
[NOTE: For the full context of these stories, please listen to episodes 13-15 of season two.]
It's been a long season, y'all. We laughed. We cried. We contracted (and importantly, cured ) chlamydia. But things are coming to a stop here for a little bit while we regain our sanity and maybe kiss a person or two off mic for a bit...2019-08-081h 23
The Undesirables"I have chlamydia"We all knew it would come to this.If you like what you hear, please leave a five-star review on iTunes; it really does make a difference! Give us a shout on social media, share us with a friend, like us on Facebook, and follow us on Twitter or Instagram: @undesirablespod @mrthomasella @tuckerwins.Photography by the talented and patient Sam Liebeskind who you can find at samliebe.com.2019-07-3148 min
The UndesirablesThe Sexual Fantasies QuizTom, Tucker and official Undesirables senior gay correspondent James dive into a sexual fantasies quiz from Tell Me What You Want ( https://www.amazon.com/Tell-Me-What-You-Want-ebook/dp/B0776PYDNM ) , a book that takes a fascinating, comprehensive look at the complexities of Americans' sexual fantasies.
Tell us a little about yourself and we can guess your sexual fantasies using this 15-question quiz. Are you organized? Democrat or Republican? Religious? Ohhh wow, you're into some stuff. Listen as we each take the quiz ourselves and learn the horrifying origins of our kinks.
If you like what you hear, please leave a five-star...2019-07-2452 min
The UndesirablesThe Sexual Fantasies QuizTom, Tucker and official Undesirables senior gay correspondent James dive into a sexual fantasies quiz from Tell Me What You Want, a book that takes a fascinating, comprehensive look at the complexities of Americans' sexual fantasies.Tell us a little about yourself and we can guess your sexual fantasies using this 15-question quiz. Are you organized? Democrat or Republican? Religious? Ohhh wow, you're into some stuff. Listen as we each take the quiz ourselves and learn the horrifying origins of our kinks.If you like what you hear, please l...2019-07-2452 min
The UndesirablesReporting LIVE from Tucker's bedroomWith Tucker out on assignment, Tom drops the hard news: There's only three episodes left in the season."Only three episodes left in the season?!"Oh, you read that right. But keep in mind, these are gonna be top quality, primo, prime cut episodes of The Undesirables. You're gonna leave this season feeling so satisfied with how it all played out.If you like what you hear, please leave a five-star review on iTunes; it really does make a difference! Give us a shout on...2019-07-1701 min
The UndesirablesReporting LIVE from Tucker's bedroomWith Tucker out on assignment, Tom drops the hard news: There's only three episodes left in the season.
"Only three episodes left in the season?!"
Oh, you read that right. But keep in mind, these are gonna be top quality, primo, prime cut episodes of The Undesirables. You're gonna leave this season feeling so satisfied with how it all played out.
If you like what you hear, please leave a five-star review on iTunes; ( https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-undesirables/id1347751705 ) it really does make a difference! Give us a shout on social media, share us with a friend...2019-07-1701 min
The UndesirablesPete and Josh, hosts of Poe Boys, a Star Wars podcastTom, not able to take the idea of asking Tucker another single question about his dating life, decides to hop on a train out of the city to catch up with his old friends and hosts of the Poe Boys podcast, Pete and Josh. Together, they know nearly everything about Star Wars and absolutely nothing about how to successfully navigate the world of modern dating.There's truly no group of less qualified people for a dating podcast and yet here we are, telling you how long you should wait to tell someone you're interested...2019-07-1024 min
The UndesirablesPete and Josh, hosts of Poe Boys, a Star Wars podcastTom, not able to take the idea of asking Tucker another single question about his dating life, decides to hop on a train out of the city to catch up with his old friends and hosts of the Poe Boys podcast ( https://poeboys.podbean.com/ ) , Pete and Josh. Together, they know nearly everything about Star Wars and absolutely nothing about how to successfully navigate the world of modern dating.
There's truly no group of less qualified people for a dating podcast and yet here we are, telling you how long you should wait to tell someone you're interested in about...2019-07-1024 min
The UndesirablesKissin' dudes, dating profile review, and shout outsTucker and Tom decide to let their natural charisma take over to talk about something other than kissin' ladies for a change... and end up talking about kissin' dudes. They talk about the motivation behind casual smooching, the difference between finding someone attractive and being attracted to them, and try to leave a little hope open for all the fans shipping a Tucker-Tom romance story.
Then phones get traded and dating profiles get a hard review. Pictures scrutinized and answers shredded. Finally, by popular demand, Tom revives closing segment Shout Outs to give props to some particularly good profiles on...2019-07-0339 min
The UndesirablesKissin' dudes, dating profile review, and shout outsTucker and Tom decide to let their natural charisma take over to talk about something other than kissin' ladies for a change... and end up talking about kissin' dudes. They talk about the motivation behind casual smooching, the difference between finding someone attractive and being attracted to them, and try to leave a little hope open for all the fans shipping a Tucker-Tom romance story.Then phones get traded and dating profiles get a hard review. Pictures scrutinized and answers shredded. Finally, by popular demand, Tom revives closing segment Shout Outs to give props...2019-07-0339 min
The UndesirablesJames, senior gay correspondent, on Grindr, hookup culture, and tongueNo one has more dirt on Tucker and Tom than James. No one. He's known them for decades, lived with them for a full year, and liked them for weeks.Official Undesirables senior gay correspondent James goes deep on Grindr and hookup culture, while Tucker goes on his first ever Bounce date, and Tom decides now is the time to ask for the group's most embarrassing sex stories, which backfires tremendously.If you like what you hear, please leave a five-star review on iTunes; it really does make a di...2019-06-2649 min
The UndesirablesJames, senior gay correspondent, on Grindr, hookup culture, and tongueNo one has more dirt on Tucker and Tom than James. No one. He's known them for decades, lived with them for a full year, and liked them for weeks.
Official Undesirables senior gay correspondent James goes deep on Grindr and hookup culture, while Tucker goes on his first ever Bounce date, and Tom decides now is the time to ask for the group's most embarrassing sex stories, which backfires tremendously.
If you like what you hear, please leave a five-star review on iTunes; ( https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-undesirables/id1347751705 ) it really does make a difference! Give us...2019-06-2649 min
The UndesirablesRead receipts, dating attrition, and tangentsAfter so many out-of-order or months-delayed episodes, Tucker and Tom take a quick squat and chat about what going on in their dating lives right now. Tom's soliciting teens for "journalism," Tucker's taking a break for "sanity," and they're both impossible to keep on topic.Also, people, this is the beginning of the end... of season two. We're in the home stretch now. We've got probably four or five (maybe six, we'll see) episodes left before we call it a wrap, and you're not going to want to miss a single one.2019-06-1936 min
The UndesirablesRead receipts, dating attrition, and tangentsAfter so many out-of-order or months-delayed episodes, Tucker and Tom take a quick squat and chat about what going on in their dating lives right now. Tom's soliciting teens for "journalism," Tucker's taking a break for "sanity," and they're both impossible to keep on topic.
Also, people, this is the beginning of the end... of season two. We're in the home stretch now. We've got probably four or five (maybe six, we'll see) episodes left before we call it a wrap, and you're not going to want to miss a single one.
If you like what you hear, please leave...2019-06-1936 min
The UndesirablesB & L, the anonymous hosts of Not Your Girlfriend's PodcastImagine Tucker and Tom unleashed. No more of this weak "let's rein it back to protect our friends and loved ones." That's what it's like for B and L, the anonymous hosts of Not Your Girlfriend's Podcast. They can get real, and they do here as the group discusses first dates, commitment, getting over exes and how important are orgasms to sex.If you like what you hear, please leave a five-star review on iTunes; it really does make a difference! Give us a shout on social media, share us with a friend, like...2019-06-121h 04
The UndesirablesB & L, the anonymous hosts of Not Your Girlfriend's PodcastImagine Tucker and Tom unleashed. No more of this weak "let's rein it back to protect our friends and loved ones." That's what it's like for B and L, the anonymous hosts of Not Your Girlfriend's Podcast. They can get real, and they do here as the group discusses first dates, commitment, getting over exes and how important are orgasms to sex.
If you like what you hear, please leave a five-star review on iTunes; it really does make a difference! Give us a shout on social media, share us with a friend, like us on Facebook, and follow us...2019-06-121h 04
The UndesirablesDr. Maggie Dancel, psychologist and sex therapistFinally seeking outside help, Tucker and Tom bring in Dr. Maggie Dancel, a clinical psychologist specializing in sex, to answer burning questions like: What is "too much masturbation"? What does a sex dungeon actually look (and smell) like? How quietly can you say the word "poop"?Then, buckle up because Tom returns the favor by reading from his extensive notes taken at a bonafide sex class called How to Please a Woman (Squirting Tutorial Included). Yes, really.If you like what you hear, please leave a five-star review on i...2019-06-0546 min
The UndesirablesDr. Maggie Dancel, psychologist and sex therapistFinally seeking outside help, Tucker and Tom bring in Dr. Maggie Dancel, a clinical psychologist specializing in sex, to answer burning questions like: What is "too much masturbation"? What does a sex dungeon actually look (and smell) like? How quietly can you say the word "poop"?
Then, buckle up because Tom returns the favor by reading from his extensive notes taken at a bonafide sex class called How to Please a Woman (Squirting Tutorial Included). Yes, really.
If you like what you hear, please leave a five-star review on iTunes; ( https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-undesirables/id1347751705 ) it really...2019-06-0546 min
The UndesirablesA Song of Ignorance and IdentityWhen Tom downloads a new dating app called Feeld and discovers a whole new world of gender identity and sexual orientation, he and Tucker decide it's high time to confront their towering ignorance. What's the difference between demi- and pansexual? What qualifies as skoliosexual? And what could "Two-Spirit" possibly mean, anyway?Note: We have a lot of laughs along the way, but this is a genuine attempt by two straight white male idiots to learn.If you like what you hear, please leave a five-star review on iTunes; it re...2019-05-2959 min
The UndesirablesA Song of Ignorance and IdentityWhen Tom downloads a new dating app called Feeld and discovers a whole new world of gender identity and sexual orientation, he and Tucker decide it's high time to confront their towering ignorance. What's the difference between demi- and pansexual? What qualifies as skoliosexual? And what could "Two-Spirit" possibly mean, anyway?
Note: We have a lot of laughs along the way, but this is a genuine attempt by two straight white male idiots to learn.
If you like what you hear, please leave a five-star review on iTunes; ( https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-undesirables/id1347751705 ) it really does make...2019-05-2959 min
The UndesirablesTom's Jenny debacle, pt. III, an extreme ghostingIn the last episode Jenny, Tom's friend turned romantic interest, seemingly dropped off the face of the planet. A few days later, Tom finally gets a response. Tune in to find out what happened to Jenny, and if a friendship can be salvaged after a romantic fallout.
If you like what you hear, please leave a five-star review on iTunes; ( https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-undesirables/id1347751705 ) it really does make a difference! Give us a shout on social media, share us with a friend, like us on Facebook, and follow us on Twitter or Instagram: @undesirablespod ( https://www...2019-05-2221 min
The UndesirablesTom's Jenny debacle, pt. III, an extreme ghostingIn the last episode Jenny, Tom's friend turned romantic interest, seemingly dropped off the face of the planet. A few days later, Tom finally gets a response. Tune in to find out what happened to Jenny, and if a friendship can be salvaged after a romantic fallout.If you like what you hear, please leave a five-star review on iTunes; it really does make a difference! Give us a shout on social media, share us with a friend, like us on Facebook, and follow us on Twitter or Instagram: @undesirablespod @mrthomasella @tuckerwins.2019-05-2221 min
The UndesirablesKait Emery, pt. II, on Tom's great Jenny debacleIn the second half of our chat with Kait, Tom tells the story his rom-com gone wrong while Kait weighs in on topics like how to take your own wants into consideration when defining the relationship, the boundaries of ghosting, and the normalcy of post-date paranoia.
Don't forget to check out Tom's new article for Tinder: The Surefire Sign She Likes You ( https://l.facebook.com/l.php?u=https%3A%2F%2Fswipelife.tinder.com%2Fpost%2Fsigns-a-girl-likes-you%2F%3Ffbclid%3DIwAR266Es296d-yVjjFLmCeOTv0S4Ko-yAL0v-N5gr1C1ViccRfJHOGNDfq3A&h=AT0EsLUO23jt6oRFGSxgoak3enwVJ_-mvFiRMCCw8KX-BFFOFm5vuB-9pD3Il9...2019-05-1551 min
The UndesirablesKait Emery, pt. II, on Tom's great Jenny debacleIn the second half of our chat with Kait, Tom tells the story his rom-com gone wrong while Kait weighs in on topics like how to take your own wants into consideration when defining the relationship, the boundaries of ghosting, and the normalcy of post-date paranoia.Don't forget to check out Tom's new article for Tinder: The Surefire Sign She Likes You.If you like what you hear, please leave a five-star review on iTunes; it really does make a difference! Give us a shout on social media, share us...2019-05-1551 min
The UndesirablesKait Emery, senior relationship expert correspondentIn the first of three gripping installments, Tucker brings in official Undesirables senior relationship expert correspondent Kait Emery to dissect and diagnose Tom's latest lady problems. This first case involves a particularly complicated ghosting that leaves both Tucker and Tom more frazzled than usual. Can Kait crack the case?
Don't forget to check out Tom's new article for Tinder: The Surefire Sign She Likes You ( https://l.facebook.com/l.php?u=https%3A%2F%2Fswipelife.tinder.com%2Fpost%2Fsigns-a-girl-likes-you%2F%3Ffbclid%3DIwAR266Es296d-yVjjFLmCeOTv0S4Ko-yAL0v-N5gr1C1ViccRfJHOGNDfq3A&h=AT0EsLUO23jt6oRFGSxgoak3enwVJ_-mvFiRMCCw8KX-BFFOFm5...2019-05-0831 min
The UndesirablesKait Emery, senior relationship expert correspondentIn the first of three gripping installments, Tucker brings in official Undesirables senior relationship expert correspondent Kait Emery to dissect and diagnose Tom's latest lady problems. This first case involves a particularly complicated ghosting that leaves both Tucker and Tom more frazzled than usual. Can Kait crack the case?Don't forget to check out Tom's new article for Tinder: The Surefire Sign She Likes You.If you like what you hear, please leave a five-star review on iTunes; it really does make a difference! Give us a shout on so...2019-05-0831 min
The UndesirablesTori Piskin, pt. II, on texting, chivalry and Tinder disastersComedian Tori Piskin is back with more hilarious stories in this second part. Learn all about whether calling or texting is worse, whether chivalry is dead (and whether it's sexist), whether it's appropriate for "a real Buddhist" to use the N-word on a date with Tori (spoilers: it's not), and whether or not Tucker is ever getting married, anyway.If you like what you hear, please leave a five-star review on iTunes; it really does make a difference! Give us a shout on social media, share us with a friend, like us on Facebook...2019-05-0147 min
The UndesirablesTori Piskin, comedian and host of Got It From My Mama podcastTucker and Tom sit down with Tori Piskin, an incredible comedian who hosts a dating podcast with her mom called Got It From My Mama. They chat about divulging their sex lives to their moms, first date sparks, having sex dreams about your dad (yes, yours), and why Tori absolutely needs to break up with all the boys in her life.
This is the first of two parts! More with Tori coming next week!
If you like what you hear, please leave a five-star review on iTunes; ( https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-undesirables/id1347751705 ) it really does make a...2019-04-2450 min
The UndesirablesTori Piskin, comedian and host of Got It From My Mama podcastTucker and Tom sit down with Tori Piskin, an incredible comedian who hosts a dating podcast with her mom called Got It From My Mama. They chat about divulging their sex lives to their moms, first date sparks, having sex dreams about your dad (yes, yours), and why Tori absolutely needs to break up with all the boys in her life.This is the first of two parts! More with Tori coming next week!If you like what you hear, please leave a five-star review on iTunes; it really do...2019-04-2450 min
The UndesirablesTucker's big breakupTom's been going on too many dates and Tucker breaks the news about his breakup with Planetarium Girl. Along the way, we talk about Tom's first (and likely only) date from Bumble, casual physical intimacy, feeling weird about dating multiple people, the final straw and crying LIVE ON AIR.If you like what you hear, please leave a five-star review on iTunes; it really does make a difference! Give us a shout on social media, share us with a friend, like us on Facebook, and follow us on Twitter or Instagram: @undesirablespod @mrthomasella @tuckerwins.2019-04-1751 min
The UndesirablesTucker's big breakupTom's been going on too many dates and Tucker breaks the news about his breakup with Planetarium Girl. Along the way, we talk about Tom's first (and likely only) date from Bumble, casual physical intimacy, feeling weird about dating multiple people, the final straw and crying LIVE ON AIR.
If you like what you hear, please leave a five-star review on iTunes; ( https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-undesirables/id1347751705 ) it really does make a difference! Give us a shout on social media, share us with a friend, like us on Facebook, and follow us on Twitter or Instagram: @undesirablespod...2019-04-1751 min
The UndesirablesTom tries speed dating 2.0Tom sits down with Ben Goodman from CitySwoon to find out what the hell is "speed dating 2.0" and how fast is he going to get rejected by how many people, exactly? Then, Tom and Tucker debrief on how it went, the most notable characters of the night and who Tom brought home with him.Read Tom's first article for Tinder here: Tinder Diaries: A Single Guy Invests Recklessly In Almost Everyone. His second article, mentioned in the intro, isn't out just yet, but follow along @mrthomasella to read it first. It's a good one.2019-04-1048 min
The UndesirablesTom tries speed dating 2.0Tom sits down with Ben Goodman from CitySwoon to find out what the hell is "speed dating 2.0" and how fast is he going to get rejected by how many people, exactly? Then, Tom and Tucker debrief on how it went, the most notable characters of the night and who Tom brought home with him.
Read Tom's first article for Tinder here: Tinder Diaries: A Single Guy Invests Recklessly In Almost Everyone ( https://swipelife.tinder.com/post/men-on-tinder ). His second article, mentioned in the intro, isn't out just yet, but follow along @mrthomasella to read it first. It's a good one.
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The UndesirablesLindsey Metselaar from We Met At AcmeTom and Tucker sit down with Lindsey Metselaar, the amazing and talented host of the hit dating podcast We Met At Acme, for a lively chat about astrology, what it's like to date with a dating podcast, open relationships, and why the hell Tom isn't on Hinge.
If you like what you hear, please leave a five-star review on iTunes; it really does make a difference! Give us a shout on social media, share us with a friend, like us on Facebook, and follow us on Twitter or Instagram: @undesirablespod @mrthomasella @tuckerwins.
Photography by the talented and patient Sam Liebeskind...2019-04-0352 min
The UndesirablesLindsey Metselaar from We Met At AcmeTom and Tucker sit down with Lindsey Metselaar, the amazing and talented host of the hit dating podcast We Met At Acme, for a lively chat about astrology, what it's like to date with a dating podcast, open relationships, and why the hell Tom isn't on Hinge.If you like what you hear, please leave a five-star review on iTunes; it really does make a difference! Give us a shout on social media, share us with a friend, like us on Facebook, and follow us on Twitter or Instagram: @undesirablespod @mrthomasella @tuckerwins.2019-04-0352 min
The UndesirablesLaura and Dylan Petro, founders of dating app BounceTucker and Tom sit down with Laura and Dylan Petro, sister-brother duo and two of the founders of Bounce, a new spontaneous dating app where you match and make plans for a date ~tonight~ all without a single message.They break down how that works, why standard dating apps waste your time, why you should swipe left on someone if you've looked at their profile for more than a minute, drinking vs. coffee dates, night vs. morning dates, how to get out of a bad date in less than half an hour, and getting...2019-03-2749 min
The UndesirablesLaura and Dylan Petro, founders of dating app BounceTucker and Tom sit down with Laura and Dylan Petro, sister-brother duo and two of the founders of Bounce, a new spontaneous dating app where you match and make plans for a date ~tonight~ all without a single message.
They break down how that works, why standard dating apps waste your time, why you should swipe left on someone if you've looked at their profile for more than a minute, drinking vs. coffee dates, night vs. morning dates, how to get out of a bad date in less than half an hour, and getting suspended from Bumble.
[Apologies for the...2019-03-2749 min
The UndesirablesTom's blind date from Time Out's The UndateablesTom went on a blind date through Time Out magazine's The Undateables column and has a lot to say about it. Then he sits down with Will Gleason, the matchmaker behind the column, to debrief and find out how this all works, anyway. Meanwhile, Tucker catches up with Tom's blind date, Molly, to find out what it's like to date Tom.You can read Time Out's The Undateables column about Tom and Molly's date right here: https://www.timeout.com/newyork/sex-and-dating/meet-the-undateables-molly-and-tomHuge thank yous go out to...2019-03-2039 min
The UndesirablesTom's blind date from Time Out's The UndateablesTom went on a blind date through Time Out magazine's The Undateables column and has a lot to say about it. Then he sits down with Will Gleason, the matchmaker behind the column, to debrief and find out how this all works, anyway. Meanwhile, Tucker catches up with Tom's blind date, Molly, to find out what it's like to date Tom.
You can read Time Out's The Undateables column about Tom and Molly's date right here: https://www.timeout.com/newyork/sex-and-dating/meet-the-undateables-molly-and-tom
Huge thank yous go out to Will Gleason for playing ball and letting us record the experience...2019-03-2039 min
The UndesirablesLong distance woes and having a typeTucker and his girlfriend *REDACTED* grapple with having different long distance styles, how much to communicate, and how specific a person's "type" can get (answer: very). Tom reaches out to his ex before downloading all the apps again and asking important questions about whether it's OK to filter potential matches by race.THEN, Tom debuts a new segment: Shoutouts.If you like what you hear, please leave a five-star review on iTunes; it really does make a difference! Give us a shout on social media, share us with a...2019-03-1351 min
The UndesirablesLong distance woes and having a typeTucker and his girlfriend *REDACTED* grapple with having different long distance styles, how much to communicate, and how specific a person's "type" can get (answer: very). Tom reaches out to his ex before downloading all the apps again and asking important questions about whether it's OK to filter potential matches by race.
THEN, Tom debuts a new segment: Shoutouts.
If you like what you hear, please leave a five-star review on iTunes; it really does make a difference! Give us a shout on social media, share us with a friend, like us on Facebook, and follow us on Twitter or...2019-03-1351 min
The UndesirablesRachel, pt. II, on "Facebook official" and exesWhile Rachel and Tucker re-litigate their breakup, Tom gets sad over his own.Along the way, they answer some important questions like does Piggly Wiggly still exist and how sensually do you lick someone's elbow on the first date?If you like what you hear, please leave a five-star review on iTunes; it really does make a difference! Give us a shout on social media, share us with a friend, like us on Facebook, and follow us on Twitter or Instagram: @undesirablespod @mrthomasella @tuckerwins....2019-03-061h 07
The UndesirablesRachel, pt. II, on "Facebook official" and exesWhile Rachel and Tucker re-litigate their breakup, Tom gets sad over his own.
Along the way, they answer some important questions like does Piggly Wiggly still exist and how sensually do you lick someone's elbow on the first date?
If you like what you hear, please leave a five-star review on iTunes; it really does make a difference! Give us a shout on social media, share us with a friend, like us on Facebook, and follow us on Twitter or Instagram: @undesirablespod @mrthomasella @tuckerwins.
Thanks to Rachel for taking the time and making the trip to be on this podcast...2019-03-061h 07
The UndesirablesRachel, Tucker's ex, on her first ever Tinder dateTucker and Tom's friend Rachel is BACK by popular demand! She drove all the way to the Big Apple to see what this whole "Tinder" thing is all about and actually go on a date.They address hot topics like what to do with your arms while kissing, whether to order a drink before your date shows up, and how fast can you have someone over for sex, anyway? An hour?If you like what you hear, please leave a five-star review on iTunes; it really does make a...2019-02-2747 min
The UndesirablesRachel, Tucker's ex, on her first ever Tinder dateTucker and Tom's friend Rachel is BACK by popular demand! She drove all the way to the Big Apple to see what this whole "Tinder" thing is all about and actually go on a date.
They address hot topics like what to do with your arms while kissing, whether to order a drink before your date shows up, and how fast can you have someone over for sex, anyway? An hour?
If you like what you hear, please leave a five-star review on iTunes; it really does make a difference! Give us a shout on social media, share us with...2019-02-2747 min
The UndesirablesPhone sex, bad sex and the morning afterTucker and Tom explore the awkward beginnings of phone sex and the awkward endings of bad dates.It's been a few months since Tucker and Tom got to sit down one on one and catch each other up on their personal lives. Who's dating whom and how does someone hit the eject button on a bad date? Let's talk about it.If you like what you hear, please leave a five-star review on iTunes. It really does make a difference! Follow us on Twitter or Instagram: @undesirablespod @mrthomasella @tuckerwins2019-02-2057 min
The UndesirablesPhone sex, bad sex and the morning afterTucker and Tom explore the awkward beginnings of phone sex and the awkward endings of bad dates.
It's been a few months since Tucker and Tom got to sit down one on one and catch each other up on their personal lives. Who's dating whom and how does someone hit the eject button on a bad date? Let's talk about it.
If you like what you hear, please leave a five-star review on iTunes. It really does make a difference! Follow us on Twitter or Instagram: @undesirablespod @mrthomasella @tuckerwins
Photography by the talented and patient Sam Liebeskind who you can...2019-02-2057 min
The UndesirablesDeanna Richards, relationship therapist, on polyamoryTucker and Tom are back... in relationship therapy.After what some would call "a season's worth of misery" and others would call "friendship," Tucker and Tom decide it's time to bring their problems to Deanna Richards, a licensed mental health counselor and relationship therapist, to get things back on track.Along the way we hit the logistics on how to fit an entire polyamorous relationship on a two-person couch, the self-esteem hit of dating apps, and how the political climate has collided with online dating.2019-02-1458 min
The UndesirablesDeanna Richards, relationship therapist, on polyamoryTucker and Tom are back... in relationship therapy.
After what some would call "a season's worth of misery" and others would call "friendship," Tucker and Tom decide it's time to bring their problems to Deanna Richards, a licensed mental health counselor and relationship therapist, to get things back on track.
Along the way we hit the logistics on how to fit an entire polyamorous relationship on a two-person couch, the self-esteem hit of dating apps, and how the political climate has collided with online dating.
As always, let us know what you think by leaving a five-star review on Apple...2019-02-1458 min
The UndesirablesSeason 1 recap trailerThe Undesirables are coming back for season 2 on Valentine's Day 2019! Catch up on season 1 now.If you like what you hear, please leave a five-star review on iTunes; it really does make a difference! Give us a shout on social media, share us with a friend, like us on Facebook, and follow us on Twitter or Instagram: @undesirablespod @mrthomasella @tuckerwins.2018-11-2800 min