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Raising His KidsThe Survivor Center with Vickie LynnWhat does healing look like when you're still stuck co-parenting with your abuser? In this raw and honest conversation, Toni sits down with Vickie Lynn — survivor, coach, and fierce advocate for mums navigating high-conflict co-parenting with narcissistic exes.Together, they explore the emotional roller coaster of trying to raise emotionally healthy children while protecting them from manipulation, smear campaigns, and trauma — all while being accused of being the “high-conflict” parent. Toni shares parts of her own story too, including the complex dynamics of raising a child who looks like your abuser, parenting as a survivor, and navigating a stepfa...
2025-05-1942 min
Raising His KidsThe Impact on Ours in This Blended LifeIn this heartfelt and insightful episode, Toni and Lauren dive into a topic that resonates deeply with many blended families: how life in a blended household affects the 'ours' babies. These children, biologically shared by the couple, grow up in a unique dynamic filled with both blessings and challenges.Toni opens up about her personal experience as an 'ours' baby, offering a raw and honest look at sibling dynamics, age gaps, and the emotional complexities of growing up in a blended family. Lauren adds her perspective, reflecting on her hopes and concerns about raising her daughter in...
2025-01-201h 11
Raising His KidsLetting go of ResentmentIt’s a brand-new year and in this episode of Raising His Kids! Toni and Lauren tackle one of the most challenging aspects of stepparenting—resentment. Whether it’s feeling overshadowed by the biological mother, dealing with unmet expectations, or struggling with the emotional weight of being a stepmother, resentment is a feeling many of us know all too well. Toni and Lauren share their personal experiences with resentment, unpack listener questions, and provide strategies to help stepmothers acknowledge and move past these feelings. From setting healthy boundaries and prioritising self-care to letting go of the “first place” men...
2025-01-1329 min
Raising His KidsNew Year, New IntentionsHappy New Year and welcome to the first episode of 2025! With Lauren away for this episode, Toni is joined by her good friend Bekks as they reflect on their Christmas and New Year celebrations with their families. In this heartfelt episode, they also share intentions for the year ahead and hear from listeners about their own holiday experiences. ⚠️ Trigger Warning: Toward the end of the episode, there is a sensitive discussion about miscarriage, as one listener shares the heartbreaking loss of their baby on the cusp of the new year. Don’t forget to check out our Pa...
2025-01-0653 min
Raising His KidsPreparing for Christmas Chaos, Custody Schedules, and Everything In BetweenIn this episode of Raising His Kids, Toni is joined by Kassandra from @WeAreFamilyish to kick off a series of holiday-themed episodes. With Lauren away, Kassandra shares her unique perspective on navigating the festive season, reflecting on her journey from being a stepmum to blending traditions in her "familyish" setup today. Together, they dive into the pressures of managing multiple households, merging family traditions, and setting boundaries to keep the season merry and bright.Toni and Kassandra explore everything from the magic of Elf on the shelf & December 1st boxes to creative ways to blend traditions across...
2024-11-181h 40
Raising His KidsGloves Off, Round Two: Unfiltered StepMum ConfessionsIn this episode of Raising His Kids, Toni and Lauren revisit one of their most popular topics: all the things you wish you could say to ‘Karen’—the high-conflict biological mother who makes coparenting a challenge. It’s been a while since the first round of venting back in Episode 29, “Gloves Off: StepMoms Speak Up - What You Wished You Could Say,” so it’s time for a refresh!Lauren and Toni dive into candid listener responses, sharing the unfiltered thoughts, frustrations, and truths stepmums hold back for the sake of peace. From double standards and child support battle...
2024-11-1113 min
Raising His KidsNavigating Bio, Step & Half-Sibling RelationshipsIn this episode, Toni and Lauren dive into the unique sibling dynamics of blended families, focusing on the connections and challenges between bio, step, and half-siblings. They explore distinct sibling types—bio siblings who share both parents, step-siblings who live together through marriage, and half-siblings who share one parent, with at least one child often navigating two households. From competition and jealousy to personality differences and varied parenting styles, Toni and Lauren discuss common struggles and share practical strategies to foster healthy sibling bonds.Listen in as they share listener stories, answer questions on managing sibling conflict, an...
2024-11-0448 min
Raising His KidsA Haunted House, But... You're a StepmotherThanks for sticking with us through 100 episodes! In this milestone celebration, Toni and Lauren dive headfirst into the spooky, chaotic, and sometimes downright terrifying realities of stepmotherhood. In honour of Halloween, we’ve themed this episode accordingly, sharing the creepiest, funniest, and most intense listener-submitted stepmum horror stories. From awkward run-ins with exes to bone-chilling custody battles—including every mother and stepmother's worst nightmare—no story is off-limits! You'll hear about: - 🫣 Jump scares from late-night texts and custody dramas. - 😬 Awkward family encounters that make you wish you were invisible. - 💔 Intense perso...
2024-10-2825 min
Raising His KidsConnecting with Stepkids When Loyalty Gets in the WayIn this episode of *Raising His Kids*, Toni and Lauren explore one of the toughest challenges for stepmums: building meaningful connections with stepkids, especially when loyalty binds them to their biological mum. We unpack what loyalty binds are, why they happen, and how they can create emotional distance. Toni and Lauren share practical tips for fostering trust, staying patient, and creating safe spaces—without forcing a bond or feeling like you're competing with their mum. Tune in as we answer listener questions about rejection, overstepping boundaries, and dealing with bio-mums who stir the pot. If you’...
2024-10-2133 min
Raising His KidsLosing Friendships: Divorce, Stepmotherhood, and Shifting Social CirclesIn this heartfelt episode, Toni and Lauren dive into a topic that’s rarely discussed but deeply felt—losing friendships after divorce or when stepping into the role of a stepmother. They share their own personal stories about how life changes can create distance in old friendships and explore why relationships sometimes dissolve during these transitions. From navigating grief to building new support systems, Toni and Lauren offer practical tips on how to rebuild your social circle with friendships that align with where you are now. If you’ve felt the sting of shifting relationships or the isolatio...
2024-10-1442 min
Raising His KidsReddit AITA Blended Family EditionIn this episode of Raising His Kids, we’re diving headfirst into the chaotic, heartwarming, and sometimes downright hilarious world of Reddit’s "Am I the A**hole" (AITA) stories – blended family style! After a small tech hiccup with our first attempt, we’re back with a brand new batch of Reddit stories that are sure to resonate with all the stepmums, stepparents, and blended families out there. From boundary battles to holiday dilemmas, these stories explore the complexities of navigating life in a blended family, and trust us, Reddit never disappoints.Tune in as Lauren an...
2024-10-0737 min
Raising His KidsTriggered? Us Too! Learning to Manage & Heal from TriggersIn this episode of Raising His Kids, Lauren & Toni dive deep into the world of triggers—those unexpected moments that can catch you off guard and leave you feeling overwhelmed. Whether it’s something your stepchild says, a comment from their biological parent, or just the pressures of a blended family, triggers can take a toll on your emotional well-being.Join Toni and Lauren as they share personal stories of their own triggers, answer listener questions, and provide practical tips for managing and healing from these challenging moments. From setting boundaries to seeking professional support, we’ve got th...
2024-09-2332 min
Raising His KidsMaking it Yours, with Traditions that StickIn this episode of Raising His Kids, Toni and Lauren explore the importance of creating and blending traditions in your family. Whether you're starting from scratch or combining traditions from different backgrounds, it can be both challenging and rewarding. They also take a moment to recognize National Stepfamily Day on September 16th in the USA and share how it could be the perfect opportunity to start a new tradition with your blended family.Tune in as they discuss personal stories, offer practical tips, and read listener submissions on the traditions that have helped strengthen family bonds. Whether...
2024-09-1632 min
Raising His KidsBlended Family WeddingsIn this episode of *Raising His Kids*, Toni and Lauren explore the often complicated topic of blended family weddings. From figuring out how much to involve the kids to navigating relationships with biological parents, they share their own wedding experiences and offer practical advice for making your big day go smoothly.They also answer listener questions on dealing with tricky wedding scenarios unique to blended families. Whether you're planning a large wedding or thinking about eloping, this episode offers insights into how to make your wedding day a celebration that reflects your unique family.If...
2024-09-0933 min
Raising His KidsWhen You Only Have Every Other WeekendIn this episode of Raising His Kids, Toni and Lauren explore the unique challenges and joys of being an every other weekend stepmother. They share personal experiences, offer tips on maximizing the limited time with the kids, and discuss how to navigate the complexities of this role. Whether you’re an every other weekend stepmother or looking to better understand these dynamics, this episode has something for everyone.Plus, they answer listener questions, such as whether every other weekend is considered visitation or custody and how to handle having no say in decisions.Join Toni an...
2024-09-0220 min
Raising His KidsBonus Episode: Father's Day Down UnderIn this special bonus episode of Raising His Kids, we honour Australian Father’s Day, coming up on the 1st of September. Toni sits down with Mark, a dedicated bio dad who has full custody of his son. Mark shares his powerful journey of stepping into full-time parenting, overcoming challenges, and the deep love that drives him every day.Before diving into Mark’s story, Toni discusses an important issue—men’s mental health, particularly around Father’s Day. With suicide rates among Australian men significantly higher than women, this episode sheds light on the pressures and struggles...
2024-08-301h 12
Raising His KidsFinding Positivity in StepparentingIn this episode, Toni and Lauren explore the often challenging yet rewarding journey of finding positivity in stepparenting. We know it’s not always easy, but there are so many ways to focus on the positives and build a fulfilling family dynamic.We dive into listener responses and hear how some of you find joy in the little moments, like a heartfelt "I love you" or a big hug from your stepkids. We also discuss how to maintain your peace when the challenges of coparenting feel overwhelming. From disengaging when needed to creating your own little world wi...
2024-08-2635 min
Raising His KidsNavigating from Stepmum to Bio Mum with Jasmine YowIn this episode of Raising His Kids, Toni welcomes Jasmine Yow, a dedicated stepmum coach who specialises in supporting childless stepmums as they navigate the transition into biological motherhood. Jasmine’s work is transformative for many women, helping them unravel complex emotions and build cohesive family cultures amidst the challenges of blended life.Join us as Jasmine shares her insights on the common struggles stepmums face when they add their own babies into the mix, how these challenges affect family dynamics, and practical strategies to manage the emotional rollercoaster that often accompanies this journey. From creating unity wi...
2024-08-1953 min
Raising His KidsBack To SchoolIn this episode of Raising His Kids, Toni and Lauren dive into everything you need to know to get ready for the new school year, whether you're a seasoned pro or new to the back-to-school chaos.What We Cover:- Tips for getting your kids back into school routines- Fun ways to celebrate the last days of summer- Navigating the financial aspects of back-to-school season with your coparent- Listener questions about handling school supplies, splitting costs, and making the most of the back-to-school experience...
2024-08-1236 min
Raising His KidsBlended Family VacationIn this episode, your hosts Lauren and Toni dive into the exciting and sometimes daunting world of Blended Family Vacations. With summer in full swing in the northern hemisphere for Lauren and planning underway in the southern hemisphere for Toni, this episode is packed with tips and advice to ensure your family trip is memorable, fun, and stress-free.Toni shares her experience planning a big family trip, while Lauren talks about her upcoming vacation. Together, they provide practical suggestions for involving everyone in the planning process, setting clear boundaries, and being flexible with custody schedules. They also...
2024-08-0538 min
Raising His KidsChristmas In JulyToday, Lauren & Toni are bringing a bit of festive cheer to your summer (or summer planning) with a special episode all about planning your holiday schedule with your co-parent now.It might seem a little early to be thinking about the holidays, but trust us, planning ahead can make a huge difference, especially in a blended family. The holidays can be magical but also stressful, so we’re here to help you get a head start on your co-parenting holiday schedule. In this episode, we share tips on navigating the tricky parts of holiday planning, fro...
2024-07-2956 min
Raising His KidsStaying in Your Lane with Parallel ParentingToni and Lauren delve into different coparenting styles, with a spotlight on parallel parenting. This episode, a winner of our Patreon vote, is packed with valuable insights for those navigating high-conflict coparenting situations.We'll cover the three main types of coparenting—cooperative, conflicted, and parallel—based on information from the familyassist.gov website. Toni and Lauren share their personal experiences and discuss how these styles manifest in their own blended families. Focusing on parallel parenting, they highlight essential elements for your parenting plan or court orders to ensure effective parallel parenting.The hosts also address list...
2024-07-2249 min
Raising His KidsI Win, You Win, We All WinIn this episode, Toni and Lauren dive into the inspiring world of stepmum wins. We're revisiting this popular topic to share new stories and celebrate the successes of stepmums in our community.We kick off the episode by following up on our last episode with a listener response that touches on the complexities of summer holiday plans and co-parenting dynamics. Hear how one stepmum navigates the challenges of a high-conflict bio mum and strives to create memorable summer experiences for her stepdaughter.Then, we share a collection of incredible stepmum wins from our listeners. From...
2024-07-1534 min
Raising His KidsSchools Out For The Summer & WinterToni and Lauren dive into the seasonal breaks from school, exploring the unique challenges and rewards that come with having the kids home. With Toni in Australia just starting winter break and Lauren in the USA kicking off summer break, they discuss how custody schedules can change dramatically, sometimes even disappearing altogether during these long breaks.They share personal experiences on how their families are handling these changes, including adjustments to custody schedules and the financial implications that come with school breaks. Lauren brings up the often-overlooked topic of additional payments expected during school breaks and whether...
2024-07-0939 min
Raising His KidsTransition Day Tips & TricksIn this episode of Raising His Kids, Toni and Lauren dive into one of the most challenging aspects of blended family life: transition days. These days can be tough on everyone, especially the kids, but with the right approach, they can be much smoother and less stressful.Join Toni and Lauren as they share practical tips and tricks to help make transition days easier for your family. They also discuss the top four phrases to avoid saying to your child during these times to prevent emotional manipulation and ensure your child feels loved and supported....
2024-07-0140 min
Raising His KidsAdvice from Seasoned Stepmothers to Blooming StepmothersIn this heartfelt episode of Raising His Kids, Lauren and Toni provide crucial advice for new stepmothers. Tune in as they address common concerns like expressing love to stepchildren, adjusting to custody schedules, navigating court proceedings, and building relationships with children influenced by negative perceptions.You'll hear seasoned stepmoms share their wisdom, including tips on patience, setting boundaries, and managing expectations. This episode is packed with practical advice and supportive insights, making it a must-listen for both new and experienced stepmoms.Join the conversation and discover helpful strategies to navigate the unique challenges of step-parenting...
2024-06-2427 min
Raising His KidsThe Black Hole That Is The Other HomeIn today’s special episode, we dive into the hilarious, frustrating, and sometimes baffling world of co-parenting mishaps—the black hole, or as some of us might call it, the abyss of Karen’s house. Whether you're a stepparent or a biological parent, you've likely dealt with the infuriating black hole where things disappear between homes. Inspired by a simple photo shared on our Instagram stories—where one of Toni’s stepsons keeps coming to their home wearing smaller socks than his four-year-old sister—we explore the baffling behaviour of dressing children in the wrong-sized clothing and the mysteriou...
2024-06-1739 min
Raising His KidsAt The Half Way PointIn this episode of "Raising His Kids," Lauren and Toni check in with each other and the community, reflecting on the past six months since their New Year's episode, "You Good Sis?" They dive into their personal updates, sharing their progress, challenges, and how they’ve been navigating 2024 so far.Lauren and Toni discuss their New Year’s resolutions, the importance of self-care, and maintaining balance in their blended family lives. They also read listener responses, providing a snapshot of how their audience is doing halfway through the year, with experiences ranging from achieving goals to just trea...
2024-06-1023 min
Raising His Kids10 Things I Hate About Being in a Blended FamilyIn this episode of "Raising His Kids," Toni and Lauren dive deep into the often challenging reality of being part of a blended family. Inspired by a popular Instagram reel, Toni revisits her top 10 frustrations, from being falsely labeled a homewrecker to dealing with toxic co-parents and the emotional rollercoaster of sharing children with another parent. Lauren shares her own top 5 struggles, including the dreaded "golden uterus syndrome" and the constant drama that comes with co-parenting. They also read and react to listener responses, revealing common grievances like lack of control, missed life events, and the ongoing t...
2024-06-0346 min
Raising His KidsWhen Bio Dad Met KarenIn this episode of Raising His Kids, Toni and Lauren dive into a lively discussion about Mother's Day experiences and share their personal stories from the special day.The main segment of this episode is all about how our spouses met Karen. Many of us feel intrigued about our partner’s relationship with their child's other parent. In many cases, there’s a lot of conflict, making us curious about what initially attracted them to Karen, given how different things seem now.You'll hear personal stories from Lauren & Toni about how their husbands met Karen as well as a...
2024-05-2745 min
Raising His KidsTales of Virtuous StepmothersIn this special episode of "Raising His Kids," Toni is out, but we're excited to have Georgina Warren join Lauren as a guest. Georgina has an intriguing story, having grown up with a stepmother and now writing a book that challenges the traditional narrative of stepmotherhood.Georgina shares her journey, offering a glimpse into her book, "Tales of Virtuous Stepmothers," and the inspiration behind it. She discusses the importance of representing stepmothers in a positive light and how her own experiences have shaped her perspective on family and storytelling.Tune in to hear Georgina's unique...
2024-05-2030 min
Raising His KidsWhen You Can't Have Mother's DayJoin Toni and Lauren in this special episode as they shine a light on Stepmother’s Day, celebrated the Sunday after Mother's Day. This episode serves as a heartfelt tribute to all the incredible stepmothers who play pivotal roles in their families. Dive into discussions about the importance of recognizing the contributions and love that stepmothers bring to their blended families. Explore common challenges, such as feeling like an outsider, especially around Mother's Day, and discover ways families can make Stepmother's Day special for everyone involved. The episode features a listener's anonymous story about the heartache of not being ab...
2024-05-1308 min
Raising His KidsMother's Day Through a Stepmother's EyesIn this episode, hosts Toni and Lauren delve into the complexities of celebrating Mother's Day as a stepmother, exploring how to navigate this emotionally charged day in blended families. As Lauren experiences her first Mother's Day as a biological mother, the duo discusses the importance of acknowledging both Mother's Day and Stepmother's Day, especially when traditional celebrations may not include stepchildren. They address listener questions that reveal the deep-seated challenges stepmoms face, from lack of recognition to the tricky dynamics with biological mothers and other family members. This episode offers guidance on communicating your needs, setting boundaries, and finding...
2024-05-0635 min
Raising His KidsLook Who's Talking NowIn this episode, Toni and Lauren continue to explore the foundational role of communication in blended family dynamics, this time focusing on communication with your spouse and stepkids. Whether you're bridging gaps with your spouse or fostering a nurturing relationship with your stepchildren, discover practical tips for maintaining open and honest dialogues. The hosts share insights from their own experiences and listener stories about dealing with defensiveness, expressing needs, and creating a safe space for all family members. Tune in to learn how to enhance your family's communication and ensure everyone feels heard and valued. Join us for heartfelt...
2024-04-2933 min
Raising His KidsNavigating Communication with a KarenIn this episode of Raising His Kids, join Lauren and Toni as they delve into the complex world of communication between stepmothers and biological mothers. Drawing from real listener experiences, we explore the challenges and triumphs of interacting with a "Karen." Whether you're facing silence, conflict, or awkward exchanges, this episode offers insights into maintaining boundaries and promoting the well-being of the children involved. Plus, we share essential tips on how to keep communications respectful and focused, whether you're directly involved or supporting your partner. Don’t miss this blend of personal stories and advice aimed at helping you na...
2024-04-2239 min
Raising His KidsRaising His Kids - The Unheard MomentsIn this special behind-the-scenes episode of "Raising His Kids," join host Toni as she takes you on a journey through some of the hilarious, touching, and downright unforgettable moments that didn't quite make it into our regular episodes. With a blend of laughter, mishaps, and candid conversations, get ready to experience the raw and unfiltered side of our podcast.From episode 26, hear the voices of Lauren, Madison, and Toni as they share their insights and experiences of having guests not quite show up on time to the behind the scene conversations they have had with disgruntled listeners...
2024-04-1533 min
Raising His KidsThe Easter Aftermath & Shocking Stepmom's AnonymousIn this episode of Raising His Kids, hosts Toni and Lauren dive into the post-Easter chaos, sharing their own holiday experiences and engaging with listeners' anecdotes. From missed transitions and family tensions to heartwarming moments and unexpected surprises, the Easter stories shared by their audience highlight the diverse realities of navigating blended family dynamics. Additionally, the episode features a jaw-dropping submission to Stepmom's Anonymous, where a listener unveils shocking revelations about her partner's ex’s new boyfriend (aka the stepdad's) troubled past. Grab your coffee or your wine, and join Toni and Lauren as they react, discuss, an...
2024-04-0830 min
Raising His KidsEaster Disasters vs. Easter WinsHappy Easter, everyone! We hope you had a great weekend celebrating with friends and family. In this episode of Raising His Kids, hosts Toni and Lauren dive into the highs and lows of blended family Easter celebrations. From hilarious mishaps to heartwarming victories, they share personal and listener stories that reflect the joys and challenges of navigating holidays in blended families. Tune in to hear tales of Easter disasters, including accusations during egg dyeing sessions and tense exchanges over shoes, along with uplifting wins like setting boundaries with ex-partners and creating new traditions with extended family.
2024-04-0116 min
Raising His KidsBonus Easter Episode with Your Favourite Bonus MumsIn this special Easter bonus episode of "Raising His Kids," Toni and Lauren reunite after a much-needed mental health break following Toni's surgery. Join us as we catch up on the past three weeks and share our plans for Easter!We're diving into our blended family Easter plans and traditions, as well as those from all of our listeners. From Easter egg hunts to special dinners, we're sharing how we make the holiday meaningful for our families. Thank you to everyone who contributed!Whether you're celebrating with a big family gathering or enjoying a quiet...
2024-03-2720 min
Raising His KidsFinding Humor in Childfree (Step)parenting with Jyl BarlowWhile Toni is absent recovering from surgery, join host Lauren for a captivating episode of Raising His Kids as she dives into the nuanced world of childfree/childless stepparenting. Drawing from her own experiences as a childless stepmom for six years prior to having an 'ours' baby last year, she delves into the challenges and triumphs of navigating this unique path. Accompanying her is our friend and the esteemed author of 'What to Expect When You Weren't Expecting', returning guest Jyl Barlow, who adds valuable insights to the conversation.In this episode, Lauren and Jyl revisit the...
2024-03-2550 min
Raising His KidsWhinge & BitchWelcome to a special unscripted and unfiltered Whinge & Bitch episode of "Raising His Kids," where Toni and Lauren dive headfirst into the whirlwind of listener vents, whinges, and bitches. With no script or show notes, they take a spontaneous approach, reading out the unfiltered frustrations and challenges shared by their audience.From typical struggles of a stepmother to co-parenting catastrophes, no topic is off-limits as Toni and Lauren provide a safe space for listeners to air their grievances and share their experiences. With humor, empathy, and a healthy dose of sarcasm, they navigate through...
2024-03-1846 min
Raising His KidsWe're Just Recovering Control FreaksIn this episode of "Raising His Kids," hosts Lauren and Toni delve into the intricate world of control within the realm of stepmotherhood. Join them as they navigate the complexities of finding balance and influence in blended family dynamics.From the desire for authority to the struggle of relinquishing control, Lauren and Toni candidly share their experiences and insights, offering practical tips and strategies for navigating the challenges that arise when control feels elusive.Listeners will gain valuable advice on communication, self-care, setting realistic expectations, and practicing patience and flexibility. The hosts also address common...
2024-03-0433 min
Raising His KidsBlended House Rules, Body Piercings and Social MediaIn this episode of "Raising His Kids," hosts Toni and Lauren delve into the complexities of blended family dynamics, with a focus on the intricate topic of house rules. They explore the implications of setting boundaries around body piercings and social media within blended family environments, acknowledging the unique challenges that arise in these situations.Drawing from insights shared by renowned parenting experts like Australia's Justin Coulson, the hosts discuss the traditional perspectives on these issues, emphasising safety, self-esteem, and mental well-being as primary concerns. However, they go on to highlight the discrepancy between the advice tailored...
2024-02-2634 min
Raising His KidsAin’t no guilt like Stepmother guiltIn this episode of "Raising His Kids," hosts Lauren and Toni tackle the often-overlooked topic of stepmom guilt. They delve into the complexities of this emotion, discussing common triggers such as feeling like an outsider in family events and societal stereotypes. The hosts explore the impact of stepmom guilt on relationships within the blended family and provide practical coping strategies, emphasizing self-compassion and setting realistic expectations. Drawing from listener responses & personal experience, they shed light on real-life experiences, including struggles with balancing personal and family obligations, feelings of resentment and burnout, and the challenges of building bonds with stepchildren...
2024-02-1934 min
Raising His KidsA Stepmothers Guide to Hallmark Holidays and Poker FacesLove is in the air on this special Valentine's Day episode of Raising His Kids! Join Toni & Lauren as they celebrate love and relationships in blended families.From the rollercoaster of complexities and joys to heartwarming anecdotes and practical tips for celebrating Valentine's Day as a stepmother or in a blended family setting, this episode is brimming with love, laughter, and plenty of heartwarming moments & traditions.Plus, don't miss our Step-Mothers Anonymous segment, where a stepmother seeks advice on maintaining her poker face when her stepson mentions his mother.So grab your coffee...
2024-02-1226 min
Raising His KidsRaising His Kids: The Editor's CutIn this special episode of "Raising His Kids," join Toni for a rollercoaster behind the scenes as she compiles previously unpublished audio from Episodes 27, 28, 29, 30, and 36. Delve into unfiltered conversations, candid moments, and unexpected gems that didn't make it into the final cuts.From heartfelt laughter to thought-provoking reflections, this compilation offers a raw and authentic look at all that goes into "Raising His Kids." Hear the unscripted banter, the shared experiences, and the genuine connections that define the essence of this podcast.Don't miss this exclusive peek behind the curtain, where every unspoken word and...
2024-02-0524 min
Raising His KidsBio Mum to Bio MomIn this unscripted episode of "Raising His Kids," your host Toni takes the lead solo as Lauren recovers. Join Toni for a heartfelt conversation with Kassandra Martinez from We Are Familyish as they explore the intricate journey from being a stepmother to becoming the biological mother on the other side of a blended family.The discussion delves into the challenges of navigating an ours baby pregnancy, overcoming the complexities of miscarriages, and the profound realisation of being in an abusive relationship – and ultimately finding the strength to break free.This candid episode covers a spectrum of...
2024-01-2946 min
Raising His KidsAustralia Day, Birthdays, and Back-to-School MayhemGet ready for a rollercoaster of emotions and celebrations in this episode of "Raising His Kids." Join hosts Lauren and Toni as they dive into the controversy of the upcoming Australian national holiday Australia Day, the excitement surrounding Miss K's fourth birthday, and the mayhem that comes with the back-to-school season.Toni shares her perspective on Australia Day, reflecting on the evolving nature of this national celebration. Meanwhile, excitement fills the air as the hosts delve into the birthday plans for Miss K, exploring the joy of having a national holiday coincide with a special family milestone.
2024-01-2243 min
Raising His KidsWhen The Past Infects The PresentIn this compelling episode of Raising His Kids, hosts Toni and Lauren explore the theme of 'The Past Infecting the Present.' As stepmothers, they understand the challenges rooted in past experiences that can influence present relationships. Past relationships can impact us in the present more than we know it or even going as far back as childhood experiences can ooze trauma infecting our present day. The hosts also feature listener stories and questions, creating a space for the community to share and connect. Tune in for practical tips on consciously shaping present relationships without letting the past dictate...
2024-01-1528 min
Raising His KidsYou Good Sis?Your favourite Stepmother podcast hosts are back with their first official recorded episode of the year. Technically it's the second episode of the year, but it is titled 'You Good Sis?' The hosts are catching up for the first time since before Christmas & they are diving into the aftermath of the holiday season, sharing not only their own experiences but also checking in with their listeners.Pour yourself a cup of coffee or wine as Lauren and Toni reflect on their post-holiday feelings, recount their Christmas celebrations, spill the beans on their NYE celebrations, and share...
2024-01-0828 min
Raising His KidsStepping into 2024 - New Year, Fresh StartKick off the New Year with Toni and Lauren in the first episode of 2024 as they embrace the spirit of the new year. The hosts kick off the episode by sharing their personal affirmations and resolutions, setting a positive tone for the discussions ahead. Listeners open up about their experiences, offering heartfelt affirmations and resolutions related to the challenges and joys of blended family life. Get ready for a dose of inspiration, support, and a renewed sense of community in the world of "Raising His Kids."Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/ra...
2024-01-0125 min
Raising His KidsWe Wish You a Very Merry Blended ChristmasMerry Christmas, Stepmamas! 🎄 Join Lauren & Toni for this Christmas Day special, as we unwrap stories from our incredible stepmother community. From the joy of starting new traditions to the challenges of navigating custody during the festive season, our listeners share their successes and, yes, a few disasters too!In this episode, we celebrate the resilience of blended families, highlighting the triumphs and lessons learned along the way. Discover how one family is finding balance this Christmas Day during their first Christmas with a newborn ‘ours baby’, or the journey of transforming strained relationships with in-laws into cooperative partner...
2023-12-2516 min
Raising His KidsFestivus for the Rest of Us StepmothersJoin hosts Lauren and Toni on a festive journey in this special episode of "Raising His Kids." Dive into the world of blended family celebrations during the magical holiday season with a sleigh-full of stories, tips, and festive laughs.In this episode, Lauren and Toni tackle the challenges many stepfamilies face during the holidays, offering valuable insights on managing traditions, coordinating with co-parents, and ensuring the warmth of the season reaches every member of your blended family. From Elf on the Shelf antics to Christmas Eve and December 1st boxes, discover creative traditions that add magic to...
2023-12-1854 min
Raising His KidsWhat To Expect When You Weren’t Expecting - with guest Jyl BarlowIn this episode of "Raising His Kids"! Toni is joined by the incredible Jyl Barlow, an American writer and humorist, listen in for a fascinating conversation. Jyl is the author of the #1 New Release, "What to Expect When You Weren't Expecting," a hilarious memoir that debuted in early 2023.Jyl Barlow's humor, is often lost on Americans but most of all on her mother-in-law, which shines through as she chronicles her journey as a stepparent. Navigating life as a (second) wife and (step)mom, Jyl shares insights with inappropriate laughter and near-perfect hindsight. Her debut book provides a...
2023-12-101h 01
Raising His KidsPodcastAversary: Ask Us Anything!Join Toni and Lauren in this special anniversary episode of "Raising His Kids" as they reflect on a year of laughter, tears, and shared experiences in the world of blended families. It's a celebration, and they're pulling back the curtain to answer your burning questions in a candid "Ask Us Anything" segment.From navigating tricky co-parenting situations to personal insights about life outside of stepmotherhood, Toni and Lauren share their stories and wisdom with humor and authenticity. Get to know the hosts on a deeper level as they answer questions straight from you their listeners....
2023-12-0438 min
Raising His KidsThe Stepmother Role: You Better Not Lose YourselfWelcome to another insightful episode of "Raising His Kids" with your compassionate hosts, Toni and Lauren! In this episode, we delve into a crucial topic that resonates with many stepmoms – the challenge of keeping your identity and not losing yourself in the intricate role of stepmotherhood.Toni and Lauren courageously share their personal struggles, emphasizing the importance of preserving a sense of self amidst the complexities of court dates, custody schedules, and the unique hurdles of blended families. Join us as we explore the reasons why stepmoms may feel like they are losing a part of themselves, to...
2023-11-2729 min
Raising His KidsThe One Where Blended Families Feast: AITA Thanksgiving Edition!Join your hosts, Lauren and Toni, on the latest episode of "Raising His Kids," as they dive into the holiday spirit with a special Thanksgiving edition! With the festive season around the corner, the duo explores the challenges and joys of planning holidays in blended families.While Thanksgiving might not be a tradition in Australia, Lauren and Toni offer valuable insights that resonate with listeners worldwide. Get ready for a delightful mix of advice, entertaining stories, and heartfelt discussions on navigating family dynamics during this special time of the year.Grab your coffee or wine...
2023-11-2046 min
Raising His KidsStepmother Diaries: The Art of DocumentingStepmothers, get ready for diving into the world of documenting in this episode of "Raising his kids." Hosts Toni and Lauren share their expertise on what to document and when, covering critical aspects like preparing for court, keeping track of payments, and maintaining a record of agreements. As seasoned stepmoms, they understand the challenges and nuances of documenting, making this episode a valuable resource for listeners.The hosts also announce the exciting launch of their Patreon membership, offering exclusive podcast episodes, voting capabilities, discounted coaching, and a unique stepmom group chat. Plus, there's a free Facebook group...
2023-11-1329 min
Raising His KidsEnjoying Your Blended Family - With Guest Scarlett TandyIn this heartwarming episode of *Raising His Kids* podcast, co-hosts Lauren and Toni are joined by the fantastic Scarlett from "Enjoying Your Blended Family." Scarlett, a seasoned blended family Mama, shares her incredible journey of blending for 15 years. As a bio mom of 2, stepmom to 1, and a foster mom, Scarlett offers a unique perspective on navigating the complexities of modern family life.Together, they explore the challenges of being both a biological mom and a stepmom, sharing insights on finding balance in these roles. Scarlett's own experience of facing the strains of having her three kids leave...
2023-11-0658 min
Raising His KidsThe Wicked StepmotherIn this enchanting Halloween special of "Raising His Kids," hosts Lauren and Toni invite you to join them on a journey through the world of stepmotherhood. But beware, this episode is not for the faint of heart, as they explore the age-old myth of the "wicked stepmother."Are stepmothers truly wicked, or is it all a myth?Dive into the captivating stories from our listeners, who've been labeled as "wicked" or "evil," and discover the truth behind these stereotypes.Lauren and Toni add a touch of magic to the conversation, discussing their own...
2023-10-3048 min
Raising His KidsWho is stalking who??In this episode of "Raising His Kids," hosts Toni and Lauren dive into the intriguing world of social media stalking in co-parenting. Discover the motivations behind stepmothers and bio mothers checking each other's social media profiles, even when they're blocked. Join the conversation as we explore the impact on co-parenting relationships, children, and mental well-being. We share personal experiences, listener stories, and poll results, shedding light on a topic that hits close to home for many in blended families. Plus, we discuss the possible reasons behind this behavior, from curiosity to insecurity.Join us as w...
2023-10-2347 min
Raising His KidsBut my Mum said... But at my Mom's house...In this installment, your hosts Lauren and Toni delve into a pivotal topic that's often overlooked but essential for blended families: "House Rules."Navigating co-parenting can be complex, especially when different households have varying rules and expectations. Join us as we explore the challenges and solutions related to establishing and maintaining house rules in a blended family.Lauren and Toni share personal experiences and practical advice on:Setting crystal-clear house rules, from chores to screen time and everything in between.Managing the difficulties that arise when different homes have different rules.Maintaining consistency in...
2023-10-1653 min
Raising His KidsStepmums Unloaded: Unpacking the Mental LoadIn this episode of "Raising His Kids” hosts Toni and Lauren embark on a delightful journey through the heavy and sometimes humorous side of stepfamily life as they tackle the often underestimated mental load.Join us as we dive deep into the world of carrying the mental load in stepfamilies. We'll explore the emotional rollercoaster, share relatable anecdotes, and reveal practical strategies for maintaining sanity and a sense of humor along the way.In this episode, we:Define the mental load in the context of stepfamilies, from emotional rollercoasters to organizational juggling.Explore the un...
2023-10-0246 min
Raising His KidsHow to Go from Magic Moments to Marriage MagicIn this episode of "Raising His Kids," Lauren and Toni dive into a crucial topic for stepmothers and blended families: focusing on your relationship and dating your spouse. While the demands of a blended family can be overwhelming, nurturing your marital bond is essential for the well-being of everyone involved, especially the children.Discover the importance of presenting a unified parenting approach to your children and the potential consequences of disagreements in front of them. Lauren and Toni also delve into the success and failure rates of second marriages to emphasize the significance of dating your spouse...
2023-09-2552 min
Raising His KidsBio Mom did What?!In this episode of "Raising His Kids”, Lauren & Toni dive deep into the world of stepmotherhood, where our listeners take center stage. Step into the shoes of stepmothers from around the globe as they share their most pressing questions and heartfelt stories, from navigating family dynamics to dealing with high-conflict biological mothers. We explore the delicate balance of trust, boundaries, and empowerment in blended families. Plus, get ready for a mind-blowing "Stepmoms Anonymous” segment that will leave you dumb founded by the lengths some BM’s will go to destroy their children's relationships. Join us for an episode filled with e...
2023-09-1835 min
Raising His KidsOne-Up, None-Up: Navigating the Impact of Competition in Blended FamiliesIn this episode, your hosts Lauren and Toni dive into a significant topic that can affect many blended families: one-upping. As Lauren and Toni catch up and celebrate Madison's nuptials, they shift gears to address a crucial issue within blended families – one-upping. This behavior, driven by a need for validation and worth, can introduce complexities and tensions that disrupt family harmony.In this enlightening episode, they explore the challenges that arise from one-upping. It erodes trust, triggers resentment, and places children in the middle of parental rivalry. It disrupts parenting unity, strains co-parenting relationships, and necessitates open co...
2023-09-1142 min
Raising His KidsEmbracing Neurodiversity: Insights and Solutions (Part 2)In the highly anticipated Part 2 of our neurodivergent children episode of “Raising His Kids” your host Toni and her guest Joslynn delve even deeper into the world of parenting neurodivergent children. This continuation of their heartfelt conversation picks up right where they left off, exploring the challenges, triumphs, and wisdom that come with raising children with diverse neurological profiles.Toni and Joslynn begin by sharing the remaining chapters of their personal stories, detailing the journeys they've embarked on with their neurodivergent children. With a warm and candid approach, they offer insight into the nuances of parenting when neur...
2023-09-0443 min
Raising His KidsStepping into Neurodiversity: Navigating Parenthood with Neurodivergent Children (Part 1)In this enlightening episode of "Raising His Kids," your host Toni takes a deep dive into the world of parenting neurodivergent children. Flying solo this time, Toni is joined by a special guest and fellow stepmom, Joslynn. The two women share a unique bond – not just through their blended families but through the shared experience of raising neurodivergent children.Toni and Joslynn kick off the episode by shedding light on what "neurodivergent" truly means. Neurodivergence encompasses a range of neurological differences, including conditions like Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD), Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD), dyslexia, and more. They em...
2023-08-2837 min
Raising His KidsThe No Drama, Blended Mommas - with special guests Maria & SamIn this special edition of Raising His Kids, Lauren and Toni sit down with the dynamic duo of motherhood, Sam (Bio Mom) and Maria (Stepmom), also known as "The Blended Mommas." Join us as we delve into the inspiring journey of two incredible women who have turned their roles as a Mom and Stepmom into a beautiful friendship. Sam and Maria have made it their mission to break down the barriers of traditional coparenting and prove that harmonious blended family life is not only achievable, but it can be filled with love, understanding, and laughter.I...
2023-08-211h 07
Raising His KidsAcceptable Co-Parent Boundaries vs. Asshole Co-ParentsIn this special recap episode of "Raising His Kids” Toni dives deep into thought-provoking listener questions surrounding the topic of setting healthy boundaries from last weeks episode. Get ready for an insightful discussion as Toni & Lauren address challenging situations and shed light on the complex issue of recognizing boundaries, even when they appear unreasonable or abusive. The hosts start by exploring the perplexing issue of co-parents setting boundaries that may seem manipulative or abusive. Sharing eye-opening results from a recent listener poll, where 96% of respondents questioned the legitimacy of their co-parent's boundaries, Lauren and Toni provide a saf...
2023-08-1429 min
Raising His KidsQ&A: Answering StepMums' Co-Parenting QuestionsJoin hosts Lauren and Toni in this special Q&A episode as they address common co-parenting challenges faced by stepmums around the world. Drawing from their personal experiences and expertise, they provide practical advice and strategies to navigate complex situations.In this episode, Lauren and Toni offer guidance and support on a range of different listener topics covering issues that most stepmothers have faced at some point or another:Effectively Communicating with a High-Conflict Biological Mother (HCBM): Learn valuable tips on how stepmums can navigate and communicate with HCBM’s, ensuring a positive co-parenting dynamic.Building a...
2023-07-2450 min
Raising His KidsThe Dollars and Sense of Blended Family FinancesJoin hosts Lauren and Toni in this candid and insightful episode of Raising His Kids as they dive into the often complex world of blended family finances. Drawing from their own experiences and listener questions, Lauren and Toni share their perspectives on splitting finances in a blended family and explore various approaches taken by different families. Lauren opens up about her journey, discussing how she and her husband managed finances before and after moving in together. From separate bank accounts to a shared account for household bills, Lauren shares her reasons for maintaining financial independence and the...
2023-07-1747 min
Raising His KidsNavigating & Balancing Birthdays in Blended FamiliesIn this episode of "Raising His Kids," hosts Toni and Lauren delve into the intricate world of birthdays in blended families. Join them as they share their personal experiences and insights, shedding light on the complexities of splitting time and celebrating milestones within blended households.With a blend of heartfelt anecdotes, relatable stories, and a touch of humour, Toni and Lauren discuss the challenges faced by parents, step-parents, and children when navigating birthdays in a blended family dynamic. From coordinating schedules to honouring traditions, they explore various strategies and tips for making these special occasions memorable and...
2023-07-1031 min
Raising His KidsFrom Stepmother to Motherhood: Birth Stories and TransitionsWelcome back to another heartfelt episode of "Raising His Kids"! Join your hosts, Toni and Lauren, as they dive into the rollercoaster of emotions and experiences that come with the transition from Step-Motherhood to motherhood.In this special episode, Lauren returns from her maternity leave, and together, Toni and Lauren embark on a candid conversation about their unique journeys as stepmothers turned mothers. They fearlessly share their personal birth stories, covering the highs, the lows, and even the deeply challenging moments that shaped their experiences.But the conversation doesn't stop there. "Raising His Kids" is...
2023-07-0358 min
Raising His KidsGloves Off: StepMums Speak Up - What You Wished You Could SayIn this special episode of 'Raising His Kids,' join host Toni, an experienced and empathetic advocate for Stepmums & Bio Mums alike, as she takes the reins alongside Bekks while Lauren and Madison are out on leave. Get ready for an unfiltered and listener-focused discussion as stepmums from all walks of life and across the globe write in to share their unspoken truths, revealing what they've always wanted to say to the biological mothers of their stepchildren. Additionally, we've received some brutal contributions from bio dads, offering what they would like to say to the mother of their children...
2023-06-2639 min
Raising His KidsBefore You: When you are Familish - with Kassandra MartinezIn this heart warming episode of "Raising His Kids," hosts Lauren, Madison and Toni are joined by a very special guest, Kassandra Martinez, also known as "wearefamilish" on social media. Together, they honour the joys and challenges of both motherhood and step-motherhood while co-parenting. Recorded on Mother's Day weekend and now being published in June, this episode captures the essence of the holiday as Kassandra shares her unique perspective and experiences as a biological mother and stepmother.Kassandra Martinez, a devoted mother and advocate for blended families, brings a wealth of wisdom and insight to the conversation...
2023-06-1955 min
Raising His KidsStep-Mum Chronicles: Conquering the Bio Mum Encounter!In the latest episode of "Raising His Kids," hosts Madison and Toni delve into the intricacies of being stepmothers and the profound experience of meeting the biological mother, affectionately known as the "bio mum," for the first time.With a shared understanding of this transformative journey, Madison and Toni create a safe and relatable space for their listeners. By openly sharing their personal stories and perspectives, they offer genuine empathy and compassion to those who may be grappling with similar emotions and uncertainties.This enlightening conversation goes beyond the hosts' experiences as Madison and Toni...
2023-06-1240 min
Raising His KidsStep-Motherhood: Bah-da-bah-bah-bah, We're Lovin' It!In this unscripted episode of 'Raising His Kids,' hosts Madison and Toni come together to catch up after Mother's Day, sharing their experiences as stepmothers. Join them as they delve into the highs and lows of navigating this unique role while celebrating the joys and challenges it brings. They reflect on their own Mother's Day experiences and discuss how being stepmothers adds a distinctive layer to the celebrations. Tune in as they delve into recent discussions that have slid into their DMs, offering insights and perspectives on the complexities of Step-Motherhood. Additionally, Madison and Toni hold space for...
2023-05-2940 min
Raising His KidsStepping Up Our Stepfamily Game: Coffee, Wine, Patience & Community - with special guest BekksIn this episode, Madison and Toni are joined by a special guest who is none other than Toni's Aussie stepmum BFF Bekks. Despite being a self-proclaimed "neurodivergent hot mess," Bekks is a mum and stepmum of 3 boys under 5, and she's no stranger to dealing with the highs and lows that come with a high conflict coparenting situation. She even co-hosts a podcast with her husband called "Highs & Lows with Jon & Bekks," inspired by their experiences. The three women have a lively and engaging conversation about their lives and the ways in which the online stepmom community has evolved over...
2023-05-2256 min
Raising His KidsThe Daily Stepmom - with guest Joslynn FlowersOn this week's episode of Raising His Kids, Lauren and Toni sit down with special guest Joslynn Flowers, also known as The Daily Stepmom. Joslynn is a full-time mom & Stepmom of four and a certified stepmom coach from California.Joslynn is passionate about helping stepmoms succeed in life, having experienced firsthand the many struggles that can come with blending a family. She is the co-founder of The Stepmom Collective, a community-based app designed to help stepmoms build community and feel supported on their journey.Joslynn also hosts a chart-topping podcast called The Daily Stepmom Podcast...
2023-05-1539 min
Raising His KidsStepping into Self-Care: Prioritising Yourself as a StepmotherIn this episode, Lauren & Toni dive into the topic of self-care for stepmothers. As a stepmom, it can be easy to prioritize the needs of your partner and stepchildren over your own. However, taking care of yourself is crucial to your overall well-being and your ability to be present for your family.We'll discuss some common challenges that stepmothers face when it comes to self-care, and offer practical tips and strategies for incorporating self-care into your daily routine. From carving out time for yourself, to setting boundaries and practicing mindfulness, we'll explore a variety of approaches to...
2023-05-011h 04
Raising His KidsOne for the Childfree & Childless StepmothersThis week Toni took a break to spend some much needed time with her Bio Kids, which gave room for Lauren & Madison to discuss their journeys as child free stepmoms. They share their thoughts and feelings on being child free - how it affects holidays, work, and relationships - as well as whether their child free status may change in the future.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations
2023-04-171h 01
Raising His KidsWhat's your Parenting Style?Strap yourself in & buckle up because in this hour long episode Lauren & Toni are diving in deep by discussing parenting styles within a blended family. They discuss what the 4 main parenting styles are as well as sharing what their style of parenting is, they answer listener questions & talk about how they discovered their parenting style & let you know how you can find out your style by taking the quiz on the following website: https://www.happyfamilies.com.au/parenting-stylesSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations
2023-04-101h 09
Raising His KidsCelebrating Easter in a Blended FamilyIn this episode Madison & Toni, discuss the challenges & joys of celebrating Easter in a blended family. They share personal stories of their experiences and offer tips and advice on how to navigate this holiday in a blended family. Topics include how to navigate Easter traditions when you do & don't have your step or bio kids, different religious beliefs & how to create traditions for your family. Overall this episode offers valuable insight to anyone who is struggling to navigate the complexities of celebrating Easter within a blended familySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations
2023-04-0343 min
Raising His KidsThe Disneyland DadThis week Lauren & Toni are discussing Disneyland parents and how they impact the co-parenting relationship as well as the relationship between child and parent.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations
2023-03-271h 01
Raising His Kids2 Homes Vs 2 FamiliesLauren & Toni welcome Madison back as a part time co-host. The 3 of them discuss a controversial topic amongst blended families and that is if the children have 2 homes or 2 families. The Ladies shared their own POV, drawing on their own experiences from their past & present; as well as what our listeners had to say on the topicSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations
2023-03-2046 min
Raising His KidsThe Disengaged Stepmother!In this weeks episode Lauren & Toni talk about why it can be a good idea to disengage and take a step back when you're a stepmother. While offering all the tips & tricks in their play book to help you decide if you might need to take a step back and how to do it.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations
2023-03-1346 min
Raising His KidsHappy International Women's Day 2023 Stepmamas!It's International Women's Day this week - Celebrating Equality & as stepmoms we wanted to share our thoughts on how this years topic relates to us. Lauren & Toni also touch on how to keep your relationship strong through the highs & lows of step parenting, followed up by giving advice to one of our listeners who needs help with a particular situation.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations
2023-03-0637 min
Raising His KidsThe Overnight Stepmom - with guest MadisonJoin Toni & Lauren as they catch up with their Stepmom Bestie, Madison & talk all things Stepmom, including why Madison had to take a step back as an original cohost for RHK! While respecting Karen's wishes, Madison became an overnight stepmom to her 2 stepsons Max, 10 & Lincoln, 6 who also comes with the added stress of having special needs.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations
2023-02-2750 min
Raising His KidsSmall Wins, Big Wins, We all Win!After a few weeks of consecutive emotionally heavy episodes, Lauren & Toni decided to lighten things up a little & reached out to fellow stepmom's to share some wins. Some were big, some were small but overall, they were massive wins; through our eyes!Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations
2023-02-2046 min
Raising His KidsParental Alienation, Emotional Parentification & Malicious Parent SyndromeIn this episode it hits close to home, Lauren & Toni talk on their own personal experiences of dealing with alienation tactics with their stepsons as well as Laurens own experience growing up being subjected to these tactics.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations
2023-02-1358 min
Raising His KidsThe High Conflict Step ParentAs Stepmum's we often talk about the HCBM but what about the HCSM?In this episode Lauren & Toni are talking about High Conflict Parents & Step Parents, including: How to make sure you’re not the High Conflict Step Parent & Making sure your partner isn’t the one being High Conflict.As always we have some interesting listener questions as well as some stories from BM's who have had to deal with HCSM's & even one about a HCBD.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations
2023-02-0647 min
Raising His KidsOh baby, baby! - It's an "Ours Baby"No matter your relationship with your step kids or the Ex, when it comes to adding an "ours" baby to your step family, their emotions & reactions can go either way. Lauren & Toni are talking about the positive experiences as well as the negatives that have come with having an ours baby, as well as answering listener questions, including this week's stepmoms anonymous where one stepmom shares her negative experience of announcing her pregnancy to her kids & step kids.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations
2023-01-3049 min
Raising His KidsStep-Motherhood is a Rollercoaster!In this episode Lauren & Toni are talking all about the normal feelings and emotions that come with being a Stepmom, the rollercoaster of emotions are real but could it be Second Wife Syndrome?Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations
2023-01-2344 min
Raising His KidsMediation, Court & Child SupportThis week the ladies intended on only talking about mediation & court but got sidetracked talking about child support. Lauren & Toni are answering listener questions, sharing their own experiences of attending mediation and court and the differences with Family Law between America & Australia. Lauren also subtly drops a much awaited announcement!Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations
2023-01-1641 min
Raising His KidsOnce Upon a Stepmom - Q & A Part 2Lauren & Toni pick right back up, where they left off in episode 3, answering listener questions & some from each other. While sharing stories from their stepmom life both ladies surprised each other, when they found out that this is not either of their first time being in a Stepmom role.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations
2023-01-0237 min
Raising His KidsOh the controversy - Q & A Part 1In this episode Lauren & Toni discuss the controversy that surrounded their first episode on their Instagram page as well as answering some listener questions about how they met and what life is like for them as Stepmom's .Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations
2022-12-2639 min
Raising His KidsBlended Family Holiday TraditionsIn this weeks episode Lauren & Toni are talking about blended family holiday traditions, the ones to keep, the ones that need to go & the ones you might like to introduce. They also touch on the elf on the shelf & meeting new spouses friends & family during the holidays.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations
2022-12-1945 min
Raising His KidsHolidays as a StepmomLauren & Toni are discussing what it is like to be a Stepmom during the holidays, everything from what it means to be a HCSM & how not to be one, how to handle Santa between households & dealing with the drama that Karen brings.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations
2022-12-1240 min
Raising His KidsTrailer - Introducing RHKLauren & Toni welcome you to RHK - a podcast for stepmoms. Where they will be sharing their real life stepmom stories, all while giving you their hot takes, real opinions, hard truths & everything in-between.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations
2022-12-0401 min