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Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaBreaking the Silence: End-of-Life Care in the Chinese American CommunityI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure – Conversations with a Death Doula, host Traci Arieli sits down with Sandy Chen Stokes, founder of the Chinese American Coalition for Compassionate Care (CACCC), to discuss end-of-life care in the Chinese American community. Together, they talk about how deeply rooted traditions, intergenerational caregiving, and spiritual beliefs shape conversations about death—and how those conversations are changing in today’s world. From cultural taboos to the power of open communication, Sandy shares personal stories, practical wisdom, and tools lik...2025-05-0846 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaStitching Stories: Quilting as Life Review with Louise SilkI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, host Traci Arieli sits down with Louise Silk, a celebrated quiltmaker and fiber artist, to explore how quilting serves as a tool for life review, memory, grief, and legacy. Louise shares how she began her quilting journey after reading an article in Ms. Magazine, how she has used quilting to process personal loss, and why the Witness Quilt—a collection of over 1,000 embroidered wisdoms—was dismantled and given away. Tog...2025-05-0138 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaStephy’s Place: Where Grief Finds Comfort and ConnectionI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, host Traci Arieli sits down with Sheila Martello, founder of Stephy’s Place, a nonprofit grief support center dedicated to providing free, peer-led support for those navigating loss. Sheila shares her journey of loss following the events of September 11th, and how her experiences inspired her to create a community where people can grieve openly, find connection, and heal together. They discuss the power of peer support, the myt...2025-04-2450 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaDeath with Dignity in Switzerland: A Husband’s Final ChoiceI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure – Conversations with a Death Doula, host Traci Arieli sits down with Erica Baccus to share a deeply personal and powerful story about Death with Dignity. When Erica’s husband was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease, he knew he wanted control over his end-of-life journey. But with restrictive laws in the U.S., they were forced to travel to Switzerland, one of the few places where non-residents can legally choose an assist...2025-04-1757 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaMormon Views on Death: Grief, Eternal Life, and Changing PerspectivesI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.What happens after we die? How does faith shape the way we grieve? In this episode of Comforting Closure – Conversations with a Death Doula, host Traci Arieli sits down with Jeff Pedersen, a former practicing Mormon turned agnostic atheist, to explore the unique and deeply rooted beliefs of Mormonism regarding death, grief, and the afterlife. Together, they discuss: Pre-mortal existence & the three levels of heaven – What Mormons believe about life before birth and where souls go after death...2025-04-1059 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaLove From Lydia: A Mother’s Journey Through Child Loss and HealingI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, host Traci Arieli speaks with Danielle Cristofano Schwartz, founder of Love From Lydia. After the devastating loss of her daughter Lydia, Danielle turned her grief into action, creating a compassionate community that provides support for grieving parents. Together, they discuss: The unique challenges of child loss and the grief journey. How Love From Lydia provides comfort, resources, and connection for bereaved par...2025-04-0348 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaMedicare 101: Understanding Your Options & Making Informed ChoicesI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.Navigating Medicare can feel overwhelming, but you don’t have to do it alone. In this episode of Comforting Closure – Conversations with a Death Doula, host Traci Arieli sits down with Medicare expert Sharon Knox to break down the essentials of Medicare & Medicaid, enrollment periods, common pitfalls, and how to choose the right coverage. Whether you’re approaching Medicare age, helping a loved one, or planning for the future, this episode will give you practical insights and expert advice...2025-03-271h 01Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaKeeping Your Loved One’s Story Alive: The Healing Power of Sharing Their StoryI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure – Conversations with a Death Doula, host Traci Arieli sits down with Matt Jacobson, founder of LifeBooks, to explore the profound impact of storytelling and legacy documentation. Have you ever wondered how to preserve your loved one’s memory for future generations? Matt shares how reflecting on life stories fosters healing, connection, and a sense of continuity. From the emotional and therapeutic aspects of life review to the practicalities of capturing memories, this episo...2025-03-2057 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaDear Loved One: The Gift of Forever Letters, Part 2I'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure: Conversations with a Death Doula, Traci Arieli sits down with Lindsay Hurty, founder of Everwell and Self School, to explore the impact of Forever Letters. These letters are more than words on a page—they’re expressions of love, wisdom, and connection that become part of a lasting legacy. Lindsay shares her thoughts on crafting Forever Letters, offering simple and practical tips to help you get started, even if writing feels overwhelming. From using photographs to spark memories to th...2025-03-1332 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaDear Loved One: The Gift of Forever Letters, Part 1I'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure: Conversations with a Death Doula, Traci Arieli is joined by Lindsay Hurty, Ed.M., a Harvard-educated self-development specialist and founder of Everwell and Self School. Lindsay shares her inspiring journey and how she developed the concept of Forever Letters—a powerful practice of writing deeply personal messages of love, wisdom, and connection to leave a lasting legacy. Discover how Forever Letters can transform relationships, provide comfort in times of grief, and create meaningful connections across generations. Lindsay shares tou...2025-03-0633 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaThe Gift of Life: Understanding Stem Cell DonationI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, host Traci Arieli sits down with Jennifer Leal to talk about stem cell donation. Jennifer shares her personal journey with acute myeloid leukemia, the challenges of finding a donor, and how these experiences inspired her advocacy work. Together, they discuss the basics of stem cell donation, its life-saving potential, and the barriers that prevent more people from joining the registry. The conversation also highlights the importance of diversity in donor recruitment and t...2025-02-2753 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaFrom Awareness to Action: Fighting Elder Abuse TogetherI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this powerful episode of Comforting Closure: Conversations with a Death Doula, host Traci Arieli sits down with Lori Mars, director at the National Center on Elder Abuse (NCEA). Together, they explore the silent epidemic of elder abuse, covering its various forms—physical, emotional, financial, and neglect—and the devastating impact it has on older adults and their families. Key takeaways include: How to recognize the signs of elder abuse. Understanding the risk factors that make older adults vulnerable. Practical steps caregivers and communit...2025-02-2047 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaExploring the Final Frontier: Memorial Spaceflights with CelestisI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, Traci Arieli sits down with Charles M. Chafer, CEO of Celestis Memorial Spaceflights, to explore a unique and inspiring way to honor loved ones—sending their cremated remains into space. Together, they discuss this extraordinary memorial option's history, science, and emotional significance. Key topics include: The logistics of launching ashes into space and the destinations offered by Celestis (Earth orbit, the Moon, and deep space). The emotional transformation families experience during the m...2025-02-1334 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaGrieving and Weaving: Healing Through Fiber Arts at The Green-Wood CemeteryI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, Traci Arieli sits down with Gabrielle Gatto and Mary Pat Klein from The Green-Wood Cemetery to explore the healing magic of "Grieving and Weaving." This unique program invites people to use fiber arts like knitting, crochet, and weaving to process grief, connect with others, and create something meaningful. Gabrielle and Mary Pat talk about how art can help regulate the nervous system, foster deep emotional connections, and provide a safe space for h...2025-02-0648 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaKindness and Clarity: Preparing for the Future with Elliott AppelI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, I sit down with Elliott Appel, the founder of Kindness Financial Planning, to talk about how financial preparation can provide comfort and peace of mind, especially during life’s toughest transitions. Elliott brings a warm and empathetic approach to financial planning, helping people navigate challenges like widowhood, “widow brain,” caregiving, and the financial realities of aging. Together, we discuss practical steps you can take now to prepare for the future—whether it’s simplifyi...2025-01-3040 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaGuiding Children Through Grief: The Power of Play TherapyI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, Traci Arieli sits down with Liana Lowenstein, a registered social worker and child psychotherapist specializing in helping children navigate grief through play therapy. Together, they discuss how children experience grief differently from adults, the transformative role of play therapy, and practical strategies for parents, caregivers, and educators to support grieving children. Key takeaways include: How children process grief in "doses" and why their behavior often communicates their feelings. The unique benefits of...2025-01-2345 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaPreparing with Purpose: Writing My Advance Directive, Part 2I'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this second part of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, Traci Arieli completes creating her own advance directive with the help of end-of-life specialist Maureen Kures. Joined by her husband, Oren, Traci defines her healthcare wishes, exploring values like maintaining dignity, mental clarity, and the importance of daily comforts. Maureen discusses topics like pain management, hospice options, and the significance of creating a thorough, personalized document to guide loved ones during critical times. Oren and Traci’s honest discussion about their fea...2025-01-1649 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaPreparing with Purpose: Writing My Advance Directive, Part 1I'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this very personal episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, join me as I work with Maureen Kures, founder of A Radiant Mourning and my husband, Oren, to create my own advance directive. Maureen leads us in exploring what it really means to document our wishes—from reflecting on our personal values to choosing the right person to speak on my behalf. Together, we’re opening up about the emotions, questions, and even moments of humor that come with this planning process. ...2025-01-0942 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaTuning into Compassion: The Gift of Music in Aging and Memory CareI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.Episode Description: In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, host Traci Arieli welcomes Angela Hey from SpiritCare Ministry to discuss the impact of music in aging care. We discuss Angela’s journey into music and bedside ministry, SpiritCare’s mission to enrich the lives of older adults, and how music can alleviate pain, reduce agitation, and bring joy to those in long-term care and memory care facilities. Key takeaways include: How music supports emotional and spi...2024-12-1930 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaThe Gift of Preplanning: Funeral Planning with Ryan KolstadI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of 'Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula,' Traci Arieli is joined by Ryan Kolstad, founder of Preplanning.me. Together, they discuss the importance of funeral preplanning and why making arrangements ahead of time can be one of the most loving gifts you give to your family. Key topics include the emotional and financial benefits of preplanning, how to avoid funeral debt, and ways to make end-of-life decisions easier. Ryan talks about common misconceptions, pre-need policies, and the cultural differences surrounding...2024-12-1238 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaBreath Taking: Jessica Fein on Presence, Advocacy, and Navigating MERRF SyndromeI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, host Traci Arieli sits down with Jessica Fein, author of Breath Taking, to discuss her family's profound journey caring for her daughter Dalia, who was diagnosed with the rare disease MERRF syndrome (Myoclonic Epilepsy with Ragged Red Fibers). Jessica shares the emotional challenges of becoming her daughter's advocate, the process of navigating a complex medical system, and the lessons she learned about staying present. Together, they talk about how to find moments o...2024-12-0536 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaCoping After Suicide: A Conversation with Joanne HarpelI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.**This episode discusses suicide and its impact on those left behind. If you find this topic distressing, please take care of yourself and feel free to pause or step away at any time. If you or someone you know is struggling, please reach out to the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline by calling or texting 988.** In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, Traci Arieli speaks with Joanne L. Harpel, MPhil, CT, JD, President of Coping After Suicide. After losing her brother S...2024-11-2151 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaHospice Care 101: Hospice Foundation of America on What Families Need to KnowI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, host Traci Arieli is joined by Angela Novas, a nurse and Palliative and Hospice Care Consultant for the Hospice Foundation of America. Together, they discuss hospice care. Angela shares her journey in hospice work, common misconceptions about hospice, and its benefits, including improving quality of life and, in many cases, extending it. Key takeaways include: What hospice care is and how it differs from other types of medical care. Early enrollment in...2024-11-1452 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaThe Power of Clay: Ritual, Healing, and Connection in Grief with Dr. Lula BuzzI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure – Conversations with a Death Doula, Traci Arieli talks with Dr. Lula Buzz, an artist who uses clay to explore grief, memory, and healing themes. Dr. Buzz shares her journey, how clay became a sacred tool during her grief, and how she guides others in processing their loss through creative rituals and community projects. Key takeaways include the transformative power of clay, the importance of ritual in healing, and how art helps us maintain a connection with our loved ones. 2024-11-0744 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaBeyond Burial: Deathcare and Community at Greenwood CemeteryI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, I’m joined by Gabrielle Gatto, manager of public programs from Green-Wood Cemetery, to discuss the transformation of cemeteries in today’s world. Gabrielle shares Green-Wood’s unique history as part of the rural cemetery movement and its modern role as a community hub. We also discuss how technology is helping families honor loved ones in meaningful ways and what the future holds for cemeteries as places of reflection, remembrance, and connection. Key tak...2024-10-3155 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaNavigating Senior Living: Finding the Best Fit for Your Loved OneI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of 'Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula,' Traci Arieli sits down with Mike Scoggin, senior living advisor and owner of Oasis Senior Advisors of Silicon Valley. Together, they discuss the complexities of senior living options, from independent living to memory care, and address the emotional and financial challenges families face when making these decisions. Key takeaways include navigating the decision-making process and financial aspects and dispelling common misconceptions about senior living communities. Links/Resources: Guest: Oa...2024-10-241h 00Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaIn Life and Death: How We Shape and Are Shaped by Our DeadI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of 'Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula,' Traci Arieli is joined by Cody Sanders, author of Corpse Care: Ethics for Tending the Dead. Together, they discuss how historical events like the treatment of Indigenous Americans, the Civil War, African American slavery, major epidemics, and the rise of ecological responsibility have shaped our practices in caring for the dead, and how these practices, in turn, have shaped us. Key takeaways include how these pivotal moments in history have influenced o...2024-10-171h 03Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaEternal Reefs: Honoring Life, Restoring OceansI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of 'Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula,' Traci Arieli discusses the innovative and environmentally conscious practice of reef memorials with George Frankel, founder and CEO of Eternal Reefs. George shares the inspiration behind the company and how Eternal Reefs transforms cremated remains into artificial reefs that help rebuild marine habitats. They discuss the personal and ecological benefits of this unique memorialization process, highlighting how it allows families to actively participate in creating lasting tributes to their loved ones. ...2024-10-1050 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaCompassion Without Cost: The VHOCC Approach to Accessible Hospice CareI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of 'Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula,' host Traci Arieli explores barriers that many face when accessing hospice care. Joined by Priya Jayadev from Volunteer Hospice of Clallam County (VHOCC), they explore how VHOCC is making hospice care accessible and compassionate for all, regardless of financial constraints or provider availability. Discussion includes the operating model of VHOCC, the importance of community support in sustaining non-profit hospice care, and the role of cultural sensitivity in delivering end-of-life services. This e...2024-10-0339 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaListening to Our Children: Empowerment in Pediatric Palliative CareI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of 'Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula,' host Traci Arieli sits down with Toula Saratsis, a mother, advocate, and end-of-life doula who knows firsthand the heartache of losing a child. Together, they discuss the topic of pediatric palliative care. Toula shares her personal story, discussing how parents can make sure their child’s voice is heard and respected, even in the most difficult of situations. The conversation covers how to maintain a sense of normalcy for a child who...2024-09-2655 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaSafeguarding Your Wishes: Legal Protection for Advance DirectivesI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of 'Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula,' host Traci Arieli explores the critical topic of legally protecting your advance directive wishes. Joined by Janis Landis, an end-of-life care advocate from the Final Exit Network, they discuss how to ensure your healthcare preferences are respected and followed. Key takeaways include the importance of selecting the right healthcare representative, understanding the legal aspects of advance directives, and navigating complex situations like dementia and ALS. This episode aims to normalize conversations around end-of-life...2024-09-1952 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaCollaborating for Comfort: Doulas and HospiceI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of 'Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula,' Traci Arieli explores the collaborative relationship between death doulas and hospice teams. She is joined by two nurses, Dori Sappo and Denise Campbell. Both Dori and Denise bring unique perspectives as they have worked on both sides—serving as hospice nurses and end-of-life doulas. Together, they discuss how these roles complement each other, the emotional and practical support that doulas provide, and how this partnership can better serve clients and their families during the...2024-09-1245 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaVoices of Autonomy: Jim Van Buskirk on the Power of End-of-Life StoriesI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of 'Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula,' host Traci Arieli sits down with Jim Van Buskirk, a Final Exit Network volunteer and the editor of "There at the End: Voices from Final Exit Network." They read a few stories from the anthology, discussing themes of autonomy, dignity, and the profound choices we face at the end of life. Jim shares his personal journey, insights on the critical role of volunteers, and the emotional and ethical challenges involved in this important...2024-09-0541 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaDisrupting Tradition: How Titan Casket is Changing the Funeral IndustryI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode, we explore how Titan Casket is transforming the funeral industry by making high-quality caskets more accessible, customizable, and affordable by selling directly to consumers. Josh and Scott share their personal journeys that led to the creation of Titan Casket and explain how their mission is to help families manage the financial burden of funerals. We also touch on the issue of funeral debt and explore the importance of planning ahead. Josh and Scott provide advice on how families can e...2024-08-2929 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaStanford Hospital's Decedent Affairs: Family Support Meets Medical ExcellenceI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode, Traci Arieli speaks with Charles Tigard, the director of Stanford's Office of Decedent Affairs. They discuss the reasons behind the creation of this office, the family experiences, and the larger impact of their work. Key takeaways include insights into how the office supports grieving families and the unique services they offer. This episode aims to provide a compassionate look at end-of-life care and normalize conversations around these important topics. Links/Resources: Guest: Stanford's Office of Decedent Affairs - ht...2024-08-2241 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaVoices from Beyond: Preserving Memories Through VinylI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, Traci Arieli discusses a unique memorialization option with Jason Leach from And Vinyly. This innovative service transforms a person’s ashes into vinyl records, creating a beautiful blend of legacy, memory, and sound. Jason shares the fascinating process behind this service and how it can provide comfort during the grieving process. Key takeaways include the emotional impact of hearing a loved one's voice on vinyl and how this unique tribute can help maintain a co...2024-08-1542 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaBehind the Badge: Grief and Healing for First RespondersI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of 'Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula,' host Traci Arieli discusses the unique challenges that police officers and first responders face when it comes to grieving. Joined by Nicole Junkerman, a retired police officer and founder of Positive Passing, LLC, they explore the emotional toll these high-stress professions can take and the complexities of grief for those in law enforcement. Nicole shares her personal experiences from her time in law enforcement and how they have shaped her approach as a...2024-08-0851 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaModernizing End-of-Life Planning: A Discussion with ThanacareI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of 'Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula,' host Traci Arieli discusses the critical importance of advanced directives and planning for a good quality of life as we age. Joined by Sam Madison, Co-Founder and Chief Operating Officer of Thanacare, they explore how to ensure that doctors and medical staff follow your wishes and the best ways to communicate those wishes to your loved ones. Key takeaways include overcoming the barriers to completing healthcare directives, the benefits of using m...2024-08-0135 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaReviving Tradition: Exploring Home Funerals with the National Home Funeral AllianceI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of "Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula," host Traci Arieli discusses the profound impact of home funerals with Isabel Knight from the National Home Funeral Alliance. Together, they explore the practicalities, benefits, and challenges of home funerals, including navigating hospital and hospice rules, understanding legalities, and the importance of planning ahead. Isabel shares how cultural norms and practices intersect with the home funeral movement, addressing issues of racism and cultural sensitivity within death care. They also discuss the growing r...2024-07-2552 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaWitnessing and Wisdom: Victoria Beelik on Losing ParentsI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of 'Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula,' host Traci Arieli explores the emotional journey of losing both parents within a short span of time. Joined by Victoria Beelik, author of "Watching My Parents Die," they discuss the challenges of navigating differing end-of-life wishes and the personal toll it takes. Victoria shares her story of making difficult medical decisions, coping with the burden of family secrets, and her reasons for writing her book. This episode looks at the complexities of...2024-07-1834 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaVoices of Dementia: Demand Support to Keep Living Your Life FullyI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.Episode Description: In this episode of 'Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula,' host Traci Arieli discusses the complex and often stigmatized topic of dementia. Joined by Kate Swaffer from Dementia Alliance International, they explore Kate's personal journey with young-onset dementia, the formation of Dementia Alliance International, and the crucial peer-to-peer support it offers. Key takeaways include the importance of demanding support to keep living, the role of grief management, and the need for systemic change in how dementia is p...2024-07-1154 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula(Repeat) Art as a Path for HealingI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.(Originally aired on September 12, 2023.)In this thoughtful conversation, Traci Arieli, the founder of Comforting Closure, sits down with therapist and author Bradie Hansen to explore the transformative power of art in the grieving process. Bradie, a prominent voice in the therapy community and a co-author of the book "The Long Grief Journey," shares insights drawn from both personal experiences and professional observations.Together, we dive deep into the nuances of grief, discussing its various forms and the often underestimated healing potential of...2024-07-0440 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaDignity in Departure: Understanding Self-Deliverance with Final Exit NetworkI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.Trigger Warning: This episode discusses end-of-life choices and self-deliverance, which might be sensitive or triggering for some listeners. Please ensure you're in a space that feels safe and consider what's best for you as you listen. In this episode of 'Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula,' host Traci Arieli discusses end-of-life autonomy and self-deliverance with Lowrey Brown, the Exit Guide Program Director at Final Exit Network. Together, they explore how individuals can shape their final chapters even in the f...2024-06-2749 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaA Call for Kindness: The Humane Approach to End-of-Life Care in PrisonsI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of 'Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula,' Traci Arieli discusses the profound impact of providing end-of-life care within the prison system. Joined by Laura Musselman, Outreach & Events Manager, and Fernando Murillo, Program Manager of the Humane Prison Hospice Project, they explore how the project brings dignity and compassionate care to incarcerated individuals nearing the end of their lives. Key takeaways include the innovative training of the incarcerated as palliative care workers, the unique challenges of providing hospice care in a...2024-06-2054 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaA Call for Kindness: The Humane Approach to End-of-Life Care in PrisonsI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of 'Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula,' Traci Arieli discusses the profound impact of providing end-of-life care within the prison system. Joined by Laura Musselman, Outreach & Events Manager, and Fernando Murillo, Program Manager of the Humane Prison Hospice Project, they explore how the project brings dignity and compassionate care to incarcerated individuals nearing the end of their lives. Key takeaways include the innovative training of the incarcerated as palliative care workers, the unique challenges of providing hospice care in a...2024-06-2054 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaInside the Funeral Industry: The Modern Mortician's PerspectiveI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of 'Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula,' Traci Arieli discusses the evolving landscape of the funeral industry with Melissa Meadow, known as the Modern Mortician. Together, they explore the concept of green funerals and how they can provide a more sustainable and ethical approach to honoring our loved ones. Melissa shares her journey into the death care industry, the challenges she faced, and her passion for transparency and education in funeral practices. Key takeaways include understanding the various e...2024-06-1344 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaAging with Intention: Karen Faith Gordon on Living Well at Every AgeI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of 'Comforting Closure- Conversations with a Death Doula,' host Traci Arieli sits down with Karen Faith Gordon, an expert in holistic aging, to discuss the keys to living a fulfilling life as we age. Together, they explore the importance of mental and spiritual well-being, the role of technology in enhancing the lives of our aging population, and the critical role community and social connections play in healthy aging. Karen shares her journey and the epiphany that led her to focus on holistic...2024-06-0656 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaBeyond the Rainbow Bridge: Understanding Pet Grief with Paws to RememberI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure, host Traci Arieli is joined by Maryglenn Warnock from Paws to Remember to explore the complex journey of pet loss and grief. "Beyond the Rainbow Bridge: Understanding Pet Grief with Paws to Remember" offers a compassionate look into the heartache of losing a pet, providing insights, support, and understanding for those walking this difficult path. We explore the emotional bonds we share with our pets, the process of grieving, and how to find healing in the aftermath of l...2024-05-3044 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaThe Ultimate Itinerary: Death Doulas on Navigating the Path to Compassionate End-of-Life Care EducationI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.Welcome to a special episode of 'The Ultimate Itinerary: Death Doulas on Navigating the Path to Compassionate End-of-Life Care Education,' Join Kacie Gikonyo and Traci Arieli and they explore the heart of what it means to be a death doula — the education, the emotional resilience, and the deep sense of purpose that guides this meaningful work. This conversation is an essential guide for anyone considering this calling, providing clarity on the educational journey, practical advice, and a deeper understanding of the impact of thi...2024-05-2356 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaEmbracing the Day: The Transformative Power of Adult Day Services with Live OakI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of "Comforting Closure- Conversations with a Death Doula," we sit down with Ann Peterson from Live Oak Adult Day Services to explore the vital role these services play in our communities. From enriching the lives of older adults and individuals with special needs to offering respite and support to families, adult day services are an important part of a holistic support plan. Join us as Ann shares inspiring stories, the everyday challenges and triumphs of providing care, and the profound impact o...2024-05-1635 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaThe Sacred Thread: Weaving Rituals into the Fabric of LifeI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of "Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula," host Traci Arieli is joined by Megan Sheldon, the visionary behind Be Ceremonial. Megan shares her wisdom on how simple, yet profound acts can transform everyday moments into sacred ceremonies, offering solace and connection in times of grief and celebration alike. This episode is a journey into the heart of what it means to live intentionally, to honor our connections, and to find peace in the presence of the sacred moments that thread through...2024-05-0953 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaHealing at Life's End: How Psychedelics Are Transforming End-of-Life CareI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.Join Traci Arieli, end-of-life doula and founder of Comforting Closure, and Christine Caldwell, founder of the End-of-Life Psychedelic Care organization as they talk about the use of psychedelic-assisted therapy and its role in end-of-life care. In this episode, we discuss: Christine Caldwell's journey and the inception of EOLPC.org The mission and vision behind EOLPC.org and the integration of psychedelic-assisted care in end-of-life scenarios An overview of psychedelics involved in therapeutic settings The structure and spiritual dimensions of a typical psych...2024-05-0258 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaProtecting Your Quality of Life: A Conversation about Long-Term Care Insurance with Brian GordonI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of "Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula," host Traci Arieli is joined by Brian Gordon of Gordon Associates, a specialist in long-term care insurance. The discussion centers around the importance of preparing for your future with long-term care insurance, understanding what it covers, and exploring how it fits into your overall life planning strategy. The episode includes: The basics of long-term care insurance and its critical role in future planning. Personal insights from Traci's experience with lon...2024-04-2538 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaWaves of Change: Eco-Friendly Farewells with Aqua CremationI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.Explore the world of eco-conscious end-of-life care with Traci Arieli from Comforting Closure. In this episode, we're joined by Kahla Flores from White Rose Aqua Cremation to explore the gentle alternative of aqua cremation. Key topics include: Introduction to Aqua Cremation: Understanding the process and its benefits. Environmental Benefits: How it aligns with eco-friendly practices. Emotional and Spiritual Considerations: Catering to families' needs. Overcoming Challenges: Navigating public perception and legal landscapes. The Future of End-of...2024-04-1826 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaHonoring the Departed: Exploring One Washcloth with Susan OppieI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of "Comforting Closure – Conversations with a Death Doula" host Traci Arieli welcomes Susan Oppie from One Washcloth to explore the act of caring for our loved ones after they've passed. This conversation explores the spiritual, emotional, and practical aspects of post-death care, highlighting how the simple act of washing can serve as a powerful ritual of love and farewell. Highlights include: The inspiration behind One Washcloth and its mission. The cultural and spiritual importance of washing the deceased. How suc...2024-04-1133 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaRedefining Retirement: Empowerment for the Solo AgerI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.Welcome to another episode of the Comforting Closure Podcast, hosted by Traci Arieli, end-of-life doula and founder of Comforting Closure. In today’s special episode, we delve into the concept of aging gracefully and independently as a solo ager. About This Episode: Traditional family structures and support systems are evolving, and many of us are left wondering how we can ensure our later years are not just comfortable but filled with joy, autonomy, and a sense of community. In this epis...2024-04-0442 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaCreating Honoring Spaces: The Art and Practice of Death CareI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of "Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula," host Traci Arieli joins Trina Wacasey, the founder of Creating Honoring Spaces, to discuss the changing practice of death care. Discover how she creates personal, compassionate end-of-life environments that honor the departed's journey while also supporting the healing process of those left behind. From the innovative Mini Mobile Suite to the importance of green burials, this discussion provides insight into the possibilities for honoring our loved ones respectfully and compassionately. Join us as we e...2024-03-2842 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaBeyond Fear: Understanding and Comfort in the Final JourneyI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure – Conversations with a Death Doula, Traci Arieli, an end-of-life doula, talks with Gabby Jimenez, a hospice nurse, end-of-life doula, educator, and author. This episode, titled 'Beyond Fear: Understanding and Comfort in the Final Journey,' aims to demystify the end-of-life process, addressing the fears and uncertainties many face. Gabby shares her extensive experience and insights into the physical and emotional experiences of the dying, the importance of supportive care, and how to approach the final days with compassion and understanding. Wh...2024-03-2149 min
Win Win Women: Conversations That MatterDesigning a Doula Business with Traci Arieli2024-03-1530 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaBeyond the Brochure: Discovering Excellence in Assisted Living CommunitiesI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode, host Traci Arieli talks about the critical topic of finding the right assisted living community for our loved ones. We are joined by special guest Annemarie Fina, who shares her personal journey of searching for a community that would provide her mother, a resident with Alzheimer's, the care and dignity she deserves. Through Annemarie's story, we explore the challenges and considerations that families face when choosing an assisted living facility. From understanding the importance of quality care to recognizing red flags, t...2024-03-1441 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaFrom Compassion to Calling: The Road to Becoming a Death DoulaI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.Welcome to another episode, hosted by Traci Arieli, founder of Comforting Closure and a dedicated end-of-life doula. In this episode, we are joined by special guest End-of-Life Doula. Episode Highlights: Understanding the role and responsibilities of a death doula. Insights into the training and certification process for aspiring death doulas. Discussion of the essential skills and emotional intelligence required in this field. Personal stories and experiences from both Traci and Rae that illuminate the journey of becoming a death doula. About...2024-03-0757 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaRadiant Reflections: Illuminating the Path Through Advance DirectivesI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of "Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula," host Traci Arieli welcomes Maureen Kures, the founder of A Radiant Mourning, to shed light on the importance of Advance Directives. Together, they discuss end-of-life planning, exploring how Advance Directives can guide individuals and families toward making informed, respectful decisions that honor their wishes and values. This conversation aims to demystify Advance Directives, address common misconceptions, and offer practical advice for those looking to create or update their plans. Whether you're navigating th...2024-02-2946 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaHealing Connections: Affirmations of Heart and HopeI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode, we're honored to have a special guest, Kim Moldofsky, the founder and CEO of Scrappy Affirmations and the author of the graphic novel 'It’s Her Story – Amelia Earhart'. Join us as we explore the power of connections in healing from profound loss. Kim opens up about her journey, and the creation of Scrappy Affirmations, and shares valuable insights on coping with grief through community support. Connect with Kim Moldofsky: https://scrappyaffirmations.com/ Connect with Traci Arieli: https://www.comf...2024-02-2251 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaMemories to Meadows: Nurturing the Future with TerramationI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of "Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula," host Traci Arieli talks to Micah Truman, founder and CEO of Return Home, about the innovative and eco-conscious world of Terramation. Terramation, or human composting, offers an eco-friendly approach to afterlife care, turning human remains into nutrient-rich soil and providing a sustainable alternative to traditional burial and cremation methods. This process not only honors our loved ones but also gives back to the earth, allowing for a legacy that continues to nurture l...2024-02-1543 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaVoices for Healing: Exploring the Power of Patient AdvocacyI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure, host Traci Arieli talks with Marian Rouse, founder of Triad Health Advocates, about patient advocacy. Episode Highlights: - Marian Rouse's journey to becoming a patient advocate. - The dynamic and impactful role of patient advocates. - Navigating the complexities of healthcare systems. - Building trustful relationships between patients, medical staff, and insurers. - Ensuring seamless transitions in patient care. - Strategies to safeguard clients' interests. - Addressing and overcoming common challenges in patie...2024-02-0854 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaEternal Echoes: The Art of Legacy StorytellingI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode, host Traci Arieli, an end-of-life doula and founder of Comforting Closure, sits down with Karla Combres, a legacy guide and celebrant. Join us as we talk about legacy storytelling and its impact on our lives. Karla shares her journey and insights into how storytelling shapes our identities, preserves our family histories, and connects us across generations. Whether you're interested in capturing your own life story, or simply looking for a deeper connection to your heritage, this episode offers a wealth of knowledge. ...2024-02-0146 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaThe Ultimate Itinerary: Death Doulas on Life's Last Trip, 01/18/24I'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode, host Traci Arieli is joined by two peers in the death doula community, Kacie Gikonyo and Mikey Marin. Join Kacie (a registered nurse and founder of The Death Doula Collective), Mikey (founder of The Healing Hearts House), and Traci (founder of Comforting Closure), as they answer questions about being death doulas and end-of-life care. In this episode, we cover: The diverse roles and practices of death doulas. Collaborating with healthcare professionals. Managing compassion fatigue in end-of-life care. Memorable experie...2024-01-1851 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaRooted in Remembrance: Better Place Forests’ Vision of End-of-LifeI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of 'Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula,' I sit down with Gillian Nye from Better Place Forests. We talk about the innovative concept of sustainable Memorial Forests as an alternative to traditional memorial methods. Gillian shares insights into how Better Place Forests combines environmental conservation with creating meaningful, lasting legacies for loved ones.Discover how choosing a Memorial Tree can be a comfort to families and a gift to the earth. Whether you're considering eco-friendly end-of-life options, interested...2024-01-1137 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaNavigating Medical Aid in Dying: Insight & Advocacy with Karen Morin, RNI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode, end-of-life doula and founder of Comforting Closure Traci Arieli has a conversation with patient advocate Karen Morin. They discuss the complicated world of Medical Aid in Dying (MAID) and talk about the moral problems and mental difficulties that come up when people have to make this choice. Karen Morin has extensive experience advocating for individuals and provides helpful insights about how MAID affects patients, their families, and the healthcare system. Listen to this episode if you want to learn more about t...2024-01-0445 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaThe Healing Power of Rituals: Honoring Loved Ones During the End-of-Life Journey (First Aired August 8, 2023)I'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.Happy Holidays! 🌟 As we celebrate this festive season, we're revisiting one of our most cherished episodes. Enjoy a popular replay from our podcast, bringing warmth and wisdom into your holidays. “The Healing Power of Rituals: Honoring Loved Ones During the End-of-Life Journey"- A Repeat Broadcast 🕯️ During moments of sorrow, rituals stand as a beacon of hope and unity, offering comfort and fortitude in our collective grieving. They guide us to cherish our connections with loved ones, creating invaluable memories and bonds in the...2023-12-2841 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaEmbracing the Journey: Insights from a Hospice NurseI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.Join host Traci Arieli, end-of-life doula and founder of Comforting Closure, in "Embracing the Journey." This episode features Shelley Henry, a seasoned hospice nurse and co-founder of The Amity Group, as we explore the misunderstood world of hospice care. In our conversation, we'll uncover: Shelley's journey into hospice nursing. The realities of hospice care, focus on patient dignity and comfort. Debunking common myths about hospice. Addressing the shortage of hospice nurses and its impact. How hospice supports families and caregivers, including the role of end...2023-12-2133 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaEmpowered Endings: End-of-Life Options with Compassion & Choices, Part 2I'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message. In Part 2 of our conversation on end-of-life decisions, Traci Arieli, end-of-life doula and founder of Comforting Closure, is joined by Angela Schultz from Compassion and Choices. This episode explores the topics of palliative sedation, the intricacies of DNR and refusal of care, and the unique challenges that dementia introduces to end-of-life choices. About Compassion & Choices: Compassion & Choices is at the forefront of empowering individuals to make informed decisions about their end-of-life care. Their mission is to improve care, expand options, and champion the...2023-12-1438 min