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Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaWho Gets to Die with Dignity? Rethinking Palliative CareI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, host Traci Arieli is joined by Ashley Mollison from the Palliative Approaches to Care in Aging and Community Health Research Program at the Institute on Aging & Lifelong Health at the University of Victoria. Ashley is also a PhD candidate in the Social Dimensions of Health program at the University of Victoria, and her work centers on equity, exclusion, and structural vulnerability at the end of life. Ashley has spent years walking alongside p...
2026-02-1948 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaHow Kicking the Bucket Helps Us Talk About DyingI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, host Traci Arieli sits down with multidisciplinary artist and podcast creator Andee Kinzy to explore how fiction, humor, and storytelling can make end of life conversations feel more approachable. Andee is the creator of the audio fiction series “Kicking the Bucket,” a thoughtful and often funny story about an aging couple facing terminal illness, autonomy, and the emotional realities of planning for the end of life. Through the characters of Dolores and Howar...
2026-02-0546 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaHow to Talk to Your Doctor About Your Advance DirectiveI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, host Traci Arieli sits down with family physician Dr. Eleanor Tanno to talk about one of the most overlooked steps in end-of-life planning: discussing your advance directive with your doctor. Together, they discuss why the form itself is not enough, what to do before the appointment, and how to approach this conversation so your care truly reflects your values. You will learn how to prepare, what to bring, and which questions lead t...
2026-01-2958 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaChoosing When to Die: A Conversation on Voluntarily Stopping Eating and DrinkingI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, host Traci Arieli sits down with Crystal Flores, an end-of-life doula and owner of The Grateful Death® to discuss Voluntarily Stopping Eating and Drinking (VSED) as a compassionate and empowering end-of-life option. Together, they discuss what VSED really looks like, from the moment a person chooses it, to the emotional and practical support that follows. Crystal shares her personal and professional experiences, including walking alongside a beloved family member during their VSED pr...
2026-01-2251 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaBeyond Borders: Seeking Medical Aid in Dying Abroad with Bryan RiggI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, Traci Arieli speaks with Bryan Rigg, founder of Axios Consulting, about what happens when Medical Aid in Dying (MAiD) isn’t available where you live. After helping a close family member access MAiD through Dignitas in Switzerland, Bryan created a consulting practice that now supports others in navigating the emotional, legal, and logistical journey of seeking MAiD abroad. Together, they disucss what it takes to prepare for this path, how laws limit acc...
2026-01-1552 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaHow to Avoid Probate and Protect Your FamilyI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, host Traci Arieli speaks with estate planning attorney Jeannette Marsala about probate, why it is so common, and how families can best avoid it with thoughtful planning. Together, they discuss what probate is, how people often end up in court even when they believe they planned ahead, and why a will alone is often not enough. Jeannette explains how living trusts work, the small details that frequently cause estate plans to fail, a...
2026-01-0850 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaParenting Through Grief: What No One Prepares You For, Part 2I'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, host Traci Arieli continues her conversation with returning guests Ashley Meyveci, Co-founder and President of Luke’s Purpose, and Danielle Cristofano-Schwartz, Founder of Love From Lydia. Together, they explore the long road of parenting after child loss: the complex emotions, evolving identities, and how grief shows up every day. Ashley shares how her daughter continues to grieve her younger brother, Luke, and how moments of joy are often mix...
2025-12-1835 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaParenting Through Grief: What No One Prepares You For, Part 1I'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, host Traci Arieli speaks with returning guests Ashley Meyveci, Co-founder and President of Luke’s Purpose, and Danielle Cristefano-Schwartz, Founder of Love From Lydia, about what it means to keep parenting after the unimaginable: the death of a child. Ashley shares how life shifted after the loss of her son Luke, and what it was like to continue raising his older sister amid deep grief. Danielle reflects on how her identity as a p...
2025-12-1156 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaWhen the Law Blocks a Peaceful Death: The Fight to Expand Medical Aid in Dying AccessI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, Traci Arieli sits down with Marica Hofer, President of A Better Exit, to talk about a devastating and often overlooked fact: many people with diseases like ALS and dementia are locked out of Medical Aid in Dying (MAiD). Together, they discuss what’s broken in the law, what it means for people who are suffering, and why the ability to plan your own death is a form of dignity. Marica shar...
2025-12-0441 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaThe Obituary of the Future Starts While We’re Still HereI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, Traci Arieli sits down with Gary Kisela, founder of Murial, to explore how storytelling, especially before death, can transform legacy, connection, and grief. Together, they discuss how Murial is helping families create collaborative, living legacies through stories, photos, and memories shared before a person passes. From life review to digital obituaries, this conversation invites listeners to consider what it means to honor someone while they’re still here to feel it. Ke...
2025-11-2040 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaHow the Norse Faced Death: Viking Funeral RitualsI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, Traci Arieli speaks with archaeologist and museum lecturer Ellen Marie Næss from the Museum of the Viking Age in Oslo. Together, they discuss how Norse communities approached death, burial, grief, and legacy. From funeral rituals and fate-driven beliefs to the poetry of grief and the legacy of honor, this conversation reveals how the Norse faced death and what we can learn from them today. Key topics include:
2025-11-1344 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaFrom Fear of Death to Funeral Design: Ruby Cohen Love & Cafe MortelI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, Traci Arieli speaks with Ruby Cohen Love, founder of Cafe Mortel, about reimagining what a funeral can be. Ruby shares her journey from struggling with fear of death and bipolar disorder to creating deeply personal and artistic memorials that reflect the true essence of a life. Together, they explore how funerals and memorials can move beyond tradition, why planning ahead is a gift to loved ones, and how art, food, music, and p...
2025-11-061h 00Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaGeorge Mark Children's House: Where Care Feels Like HomeI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, Traci Arieli explores pediatric palliative and hospice care with Shekinah Eliassen, CEO of George Mark Children’s House. They talk about what makes George Mark one of the few places in the country offering whole-person care for seriously ill children and their families at no cost. This episode covers: The difference between pediatric palliative care and hospice care What support looks like for the whole family Why most families do not learn...
2025-10-301h 00Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaMusic at the End of Life Creates Sacred Space for DyingI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, host Traci Arieli sits down with music-thanatologist Catharine DeLong to talk about the powerful role of music at the end of life. With decades of experience bringing harp and voice to the bedside of those who are dying, Catharine offers a moving perspective on how music can provide comfort, connection, and peace during life’s final chapter. Together, they discuss what music-thanatology is, how it differs from simply playing music in...
2025-10-2845 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaCourageous Parents Network: A Lifeline for Families Facing the UnknownI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, host Traci Arieli sits down with Dr. Chrissy Salley, pediatric psychologist and Director of Clinician Engagement and Outreach at Courageous Parents Network, and Blair Young, a Parent Champion with the organization and mother to Bubba, who died in 2024. Together, they discuss what it’s like to raise a child with complex medical needs, and to do so in a system that often delays palliative care and overlooks emotional support. Blair shar...
2025-10-1651 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaFrom Death Sentence to Legacy: HIV and End-of-Life Care – Part 1I'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this first of a two-part episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, Traci Arieli speaks with longtime HIV/AIDS activist Vince Crisostomo about his decades-long journey living with HIV. Diagnosed in the 1980s, Vince shares what it was like to receive a death sentence and then outlive it. Together, they discuss the early years of the AIDS crisis, the trauma of surviving when so many didn’t, and what end-of-life care looked like then versus now. Vince reflects on caregiving, com...
2025-10-0232 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaDeath Doula Q&A: What We Do, How We Help, and When to Call UsI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, Traci Arieli sits down with veteran death doula Sarah Hill to answer the questions people are often too afraid, or too unsure, to ask. Together, they discuss what death doulas do, how they complement hospice care, and the deeply personal ways they support individuals and families through dying, grief, and legacy work. Whether you're navigating end-of-life decisions, supporting someone you love, or just curious about the doula role, this honest conversation offers g...
2025-09-251h 00Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaDoctor. Mom. Caregiver: A Pediatric Hospice Journey, Part OneI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, host Traci Arieli speaks with Dr. Tasha Faruqui, a pediatrician and mother navigating the complex path of parenting a child in hospice care. Together, they discuss what it means to live with intention when time is uncertain. Tasha shares her family’s rare medical journey, the emotional landscape of anticipatory grief, and how hospice care at home became an act of deep presence. Key takeaways include: The lived experience of an...
2025-09-1129 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaYou Just Lost a Child. Now Comes the Bill. Luke’s Purpose Can Help.I'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, Traci Arieli explores what happens after the unthinkable: the death of a child. Joined by Ashley Meyveci, founder of the nonprofit Luke’s Purpose, they discuss the emotional and financial shock grieving families face and the lack of systemic support in those first devastating days. Ashley shares the heartbreaking story of her son Luke, the unexpected medical complications that led to his death, and how she turned her grief into action. Together, Tra...
2025-09-0455 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaFrom Loss to Listening: Healing Grief Within FamiliesI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, Traci Arieli sits down with grief counselor and former funeral director Joe Stinson to explore the deeply personal and complex nature of grieving as a family. With over 50 years of experience in deathcare, Joe shares his knowledge and personal journey following the loss of his grandchild, offering a rare perspective on anticipatory grief, complex family dynamics, and how different grieving styles can either divide or unite us. Together, Traci and Joe discuss t...
2025-08-2853 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaMemory, Love, and Loss: A Daughter’s Dementia Caregiving StoryI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, end-of-life doula Traci Arieli speaks with Tracey Scheffler, who cared for her mother through the final stages of dementia. Tracey shares her experience with honesty, vulnerability, and deep love. From emotional exhaustion to boundary-setting, from grief to unexpected moments of connection, her story will resonate with anyone who has ever cared for a loved one. Together, Traci and Tracey explore what it means to show up fully in the face of decline, a...
2025-08-211h 11Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaTouching the End: Comfort and Care Through Palliative MassageI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, Traci Arieli sits down with Cindy Spence, massage therapist at the T. Boone Pickens Hospice Center and author of Palliative Touch: Massage for People at the End of Life. Together, they discuss how simple, intentional touch can become one of the most powerful tools for comfort and connection in hospice care. Cindy shares her journey from family caregiver to palliative massage expert, explains the myths and misconceptions surrounding end-of-life massage, and offers d...
2025-07-3140 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaTalking to the Dead: Victorian Spiritualism and GriefI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, host Traci Arieli explores the mystical and emotionally charged world of 19th-century grief and belief. Joined by historian and researcher Katie Keckeisen, creator of the digital exhibit Beyond the Veil: Spiritualism in the 19th Century, they discuss the rise of Spiritualism during the Victorian era and how it shaped public mourning, personal grief, and the deep desire to stay connected with the dead. Together, they talk about how the Fox Sisters sparked a...
2025-07-2456 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaA Promise Kept: Alzheimer’s, Love, and a Final ChoiceI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, Traci Arieli sits down once again with Erica Baccus, whose husband Jon was diagnosed with early-onset Alzheimer’s. What followed was a journey of deep love and courageous choices- culminating in his decision to pursue assisted death in Switzerland. Now, months later, Erica returns to share reflections from her new book, A Promise Kept: Honoring His Wishes, Embracing Our Love. We talk about what it means to truly hon...
2025-07-1744 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaAfter the Denial: What to Do When Insurance Says NoI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, Traci Arieli explores the emotional and financial toll of denied medical claims. Joined by founder and patient advocate Holden Karau, creator of Fight Health Insurance, they unpack the broken insurance system and how one AI-powered tool is helping people push back. From appeal letters to patient assistance programs, this episode offers clear, empowering steps for those facing healthcare denials, because no one should have to fight alone. Links/Resources Gu...
2025-07-1057 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaA Good Death Begins with a Good Life – With Chris PalmerI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, Traci Arieli explores the true meaning of a good death, and why it begins with how we choose to live. Joined by teacher, speaker, and author Chris Palmer, they unpack what it means to live with intention, plan ahead with compassion, and face death as a part of life rather than a medical failure. Chris shares deeply personal stories and lessons from his book Achieving a Good Death: A Practical Guide to t...
2025-06-2658 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaSenior Living Done Right: What Families Should KnowI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, host Traci Arieli explores the complexities of senior living decisions with Angie Graham, Division President of Our House Senior Living. Together, they break down what “good care” really looks like, and how families can distinguish between nurturing communities and places that fall short. Angie shares her personal story of navigating memory care for her father, insights into caregiver burnout, and why culture and communication are just as important as the building itself. You’l...
2025-06-1959 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaWhat to Document Before You Die: The Loving Act of PlanningI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, Traci Arieli speaks with Farah Baxter, co-founder of Soalma, about the essential documents, conversations, and emotional legacies we should prepare before we die. Together, they explore how thoughtful end-of-life planning can ease the burden on loved ones, reduce chaos, and create space for healing. Whether you’ve already started planning or are hearing about this for the first time, Farah offers gentle, practical guidance and introduces Soalma, a digital platform designed to hel...
2025-06-1245 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaAll Around Is Me: Talking to Kids About GriefI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure – Conversations with a Death Doula, Traci Arieli speaks with grief advocates and co-authors Leanne Whallett and Jess Slater about their children’s book All Around Is Me. They share personal stories of loss, parenting through grief, and the deeply healing role their book plays in helping children process death and memory. Together, they discuss how children experience grief differently than adults, why silence around death can be confusing for young ones, and how we can create safe, compassionate space...
2025-06-0548 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaLost, Misidentified, Discarded: Fixing Mishandling in Death CareI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.What happens when the system that’s supposed to care for our loved ones after death fails?In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, host Traci Arieli speaks with Nick Nell, founder of MorgueBoard, about the painful reality of mishandled remains - stories of people lost in the system, misidentified, or cremated without consent. Together, they explore how these devastating errors happen and what can be done to stop them.You’ll learn about the most common mist...
2025-05-2941 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaFrom Grief to Guidance: Family Support for Medical Assistance in DyingI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure – Conversations with a Death Doula, Traci Arieli speaks with Robin Farr, Program Manager at the MAID Family Support Society in Canada. Together, they discuss Robin’s personal journey of supporting her father through Medical Assistance in Dying, and how that experience led her to help other families navigating this deeply emotional process. Key takeaways include what MAID looks like in Canada, how peer support can be a lifeline for loved ones before and after a medically assisted death, and w...
2025-05-2242 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaAncient Egyptian Afterlife: A Soul’s Journey Beyond the StarsI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure – Conversations with a Death Doula, Traci Arieli is joined by Julie Scott, Executive Director of the Rosicrucian Egyptian Museum, for a captivating discussion on the spiritual wisdom of ancient Egypt. Together, they explore how beliefs about the afterlife shaped Egyptian life, death rituals, and our modern understanding of grief, remembrance, and legacy. Key takeaways include the soul’s multi-layered journey through the Duat, the symbolic and sacred practice of mummification, the importance of the Book of the Dead (or Co...
2025-05-1540 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaBreaking the Silence: End-of-Life Care in the Chinese American CommunityI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure – Conversations with a Death Doula, host Traci Arieli sits down with Sandy Chen Stokes, founder of the Chinese American Coalition for Compassionate Care (CACCC), to discuss end-of-life care in the Chinese American community. Together, they talk about how deeply rooted traditions, intergenerational caregiving, and spiritual beliefs shape conversations about death—and how those conversations are changing in today’s world. From cultural taboos to the power of open communication, Sandy shares personal stories, practical wisdom, and tools lik...
2025-05-0846 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaStitching Stories: Quilting as Life Review with Louise SilkI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, host Traci Arieli sits down with Louise Silk, a celebrated quiltmaker and fiber artist, to explore how quilting serves as a tool for life review, memory, grief, and legacy. Louise shares how she began her quilting journey after reading an article in Ms. Magazine, how she has used quilting to process personal loss, and why the Witness Quilt—a collection of over 1,000 embroidered wisdoms—was dismantled and given away. Tog...
2025-05-0138 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaStephy’s Place: Where Grief Finds Comfort and ConnectionI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, host Traci Arieli sits down with Sheila Martello, founder of Stephy’s Place, a nonprofit grief support center dedicated to providing free, peer-led support for those navigating loss. Sheila shares her journey of loss following the events of September 11th, and how her experiences inspired her to create a community where people can grieve openly, find connection, and heal together. They discuss the power of peer support, the myt...
2025-04-2450 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaDeath with Dignity in Switzerland: A Husband’s Final ChoiceI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure – Conversations with a Death Doula, host Traci Arieli sits down with Erica Baccus to share a deeply personal and powerful story about Death with Dignity. When Erica’s husband was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease, he knew he wanted control over his end-of-life journey. But with restrictive laws in the U.S., they were forced to travel to Switzerland, one of the few places where non-residents can legally choose an assist...
2025-04-1757 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaMormon Views on Death: Grief, Eternal Life, and Changing PerspectivesI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.What happens after we die? How does faith shape the way we grieve? In this episode of Comforting Closure – Conversations with a Death Doula, host Traci Arieli sits down with Jeff Pedersen, a former practicing Mormon turned agnostic atheist, to explore the unique and deeply rooted beliefs of Mormonism regarding death, grief, and the afterlife. Together, they discuss: Pre-mortal existence & the three levels of heaven – What Mormons believe about life before birth and where souls go after death...
2025-04-1059 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaLove From Lydia: A Mother’s Journey Through Child Loss and HealingI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, host Traci Arieli speaks with Danielle Cristofano Schwartz, founder of Love From Lydia. After the devastating loss of her daughter Lydia, Danielle turned her grief into action, creating a compassionate community that provides support for grieving parents. Together, they discuss: The unique challenges of child loss and the grief journey. How Love From Lydia provides comfort, resources, and connection for bereaved par...
2025-04-0348 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaMedicare 101: Understanding Your Options & Making Informed ChoicesI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.Navigating Medicare can feel overwhelming, but you don’t have to do it alone. In this episode of Comforting Closure – Conversations with a Death Doula, host Traci Arieli sits down with Medicare expert Sharon Knox to break down the essentials of Medicare & Medicaid, enrollment periods, common pitfalls, and how to choose the right coverage. Whether you’re approaching Medicare age, helping a loved one, or planning for the future, this episode will give you practical insights and expert advice...
2025-03-271h 01Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaKeeping Your Loved One’s Story Alive: The Healing Power of Sharing Their StoryI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure – Conversations with a Death Doula, host Traci Arieli sits down with Matt Jacobson, founder of LifeBooks, to explore the profound impact of storytelling and legacy documentation. Have you ever wondered how to preserve your loved one’s memory for future generations? Matt shares how reflecting on life stories fosters healing, connection, and a sense of continuity. From the emotional and therapeutic aspects of life review to the practicalities of capturing memories, this episo...
2025-03-2057 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaDear Loved One: The Gift of Forever Letters, Part 2I'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure: Conversations with a Death Doula, Traci Arieli sits down with Lindsay Hurty, founder of Everwell and Self School, to explore the impact of Forever Letters. These letters are more than words on a page—they’re expressions of love, wisdom, and connection that become part of a lasting legacy. Lindsay shares her thoughts on crafting Forever Letters, offering simple and practical tips to help you get started, even if writing feels overwhelming. From using photographs to spark memories to th...
2025-03-1332 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaDear Loved One: The Gift of Forever Letters, Part 1I'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure: Conversations with a Death Doula, Traci Arieli is joined by Lindsay Hurty, Ed.M., a Harvard-educated self-development specialist and founder of Everwell and Self School. Lindsay shares her inspiring journey and how she developed the concept of Forever Letters—a powerful practice of writing deeply personal messages of love, wisdom, and connection to leave a lasting legacy. Discover how Forever Letters can transform relationships, provide comfort in times of grief, and create meaningful connections across generations. Lindsay shares tou...
2025-03-0633 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaThe Gift of Life: Understanding Stem Cell DonationI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, host Traci Arieli sits down with Jennifer Leal to talk about stem cell donation. Jennifer shares her personal journey with acute myeloid leukemia, the challenges of finding a donor, and how these experiences inspired her advocacy work. Together, they discuss the basics of stem cell donation, its life-saving potential, and the barriers that prevent more people from joining the registry. The conversation also highlights the importance of diversity in donor recruitment and t...
2025-02-2753 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaFrom Awareness to Action: Fighting Elder Abuse TogetherI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this powerful episode of Comforting Closure: Conversations with a Death Doula, host Traci Arieli sits down with Lori Mars, director at the National Center on Elder Abuse (NCEA). Together, they explore the silent epidemic of elder abuse, covering its various forms—physical, emotional, financial, and neglect—and the devastating impact it has on older adults and their families. Key takeaways include: How to recognize the signs of elder abuse. Understanding the risk factors that make older adults vulnerable. Practical steps caregivers and communit...
2025-02-2047 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaExploring the Final Frontier: Memorial Spaceflights with CelestisI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, Traci Arieli sits down with Charles M. Chafer, CEO of Celestis Memorial Spaceflights, to explore a unique and inspiring way to honor loved ones—sending their cremated remains into space. Together, they discuss this extraordinary memorial option's history, science, and emotional significance. Key topics include: The logistics of launching ashes into space and the destinations offered by Celestis (Earth orbit, the Moon, and deep space). The emotional transformation families experience during the m...
2025-02-1334 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaGrieving and Weaving: Healing Through Fiber Arts at The Green-Wood CemeteryI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, Traci Arieli sits down with Gabrielle Gatto and Mary Pat Klein from The Green-Wood Cemetery to explore the healing magic of "Grieving and Weaving." This unique program invites people to use fiber arts like knitting, crochet, and weaving to process grief, connect with others, and create something meaningful. Gabrielle and Mary Pat talk about how art can help regulate the nervous system, foster deep emotional connections, and provide a safe space for h...
2025-02-0648 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaGuiding Children Through Grief: The Power of Play TherapyI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, Traci Arieli sits down with Liana Lowenstein, a registered social worker and child psychotherapist specializing in helping children navigate grief through play therapy. Together, they discuss how children experience grief differently from adults, the transformative role of play therapy, and practical strategies for parents, caregivers, and educators to support grieving children. Key takeaways include: How children process grief in "doses" and why their behavior often communicates their feelings. The unique benefits of...
2025-01-2345 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaPreparing with Purpose: Writing My Advance Directive, Part 2I'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this second part of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, Traci Arieli completes creating her own advance directive with the help of end-of-life specialist Maureen Kures. Joined by her husband, Oren, Traci defines her healthcare wishes, exploring values like maintaining dignity, mental clarity, and the importance of daily comforts. Maureen discusses topics like pain management, hospice options, and the significance of creating a thorough, personalized document to guide loved ones during critical times. Oren and Traci’s honest discussion about their fea...
2025-01-1649 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaTuning into Compassion: The Gift of Music in Aging and Memory CareI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.Episode Description: In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, host Traci Arieli welcomes Angela Hey from SpiritCare Ministry to discuss the impact of music in aging care. We discuss Angela’s journey into music and bedside ministry, SpiritCare’s mission to enrich the lives of older adults, and how music can alleviate pain, reduce agitation, and bring joy to those in long-term care and memory care facilities. Key takeaways include: How music supports emotional and spi...
2024-12-1930 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaThe Gift of Preplanning: Funeral Planning with Ryan KolstadI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of 'Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula,' Traci Arieli is joined by Ryan Kolstad, founder of Preplanning.me. Together, they discuss the importance of funeral preplanning and why making arrangements ahead of time can be one of the most loving gifts you give to your family. Key topics include the emotional and financial benefits of preplanning, how to avoid funeral debt, and ways to make end-of-life decisions easier. Ryan talks about common misconceptions, pre-need policies, and the cultural differences surrounding...
2024-12-1238 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaBreath Taking: Jessica Fein on Presence, Advocacy, and Navigating MERRF SyndromeI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, host Traci Arieli sits down with Jessica Fein, author of Breath Taking, to discuss her family's profound journey caring for her daughter Dalia, who was diagnosed with the rare disease MERRF syndrome (Myoclonic Epilepsy with Ragged Red Fibers). Jessica shares the emotional challenges of becoming her daughter's advocate, the process of navigating a complex medical system, and the lessons she learned about staying present. Together, they talk about how to find moments o...
2024-12-0536 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaCoping After Suicide: A Conversation with Joanne HarpelI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.**This episode discusses suicide and its impact on those left behind. If you find this topic distressing, please take care of yourself and feel free to pause or step away at any time. If you or someone you know is struggling, please reach out to the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline by calling or texting 988.** In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, Traci Arieli speaks with Joanne L. Harpel, MPhil, CT, JD, President of Coping After Suicide. After losing her brother S...
2024-11-2151 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaHospice Care 101: Hospice Foundation of America on What Families Need to KnowI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, host Traci Arieli is joined by Angela Novas, a nurse and Palliative and Hospice Care Consultant for the Hospice Foundation of America. Together, they discuss hospice care. Angela shares her journey in hospice work, common misconceptions about hospice, and its benefits, including improving quality of life and, in many cases, extending it. Key takeaways include: What hospice care is and how it differs from other types of medical care. Early enrollment in...
2024-11-1452 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaThe Power of Clay: Ritual, Healing, and Connection in Grief with Dr. Lula BuzzI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure – Conversations with a Death Doula, Traci Arieli talks with Dr. Lula Buzz, an artist who uses clay to explore grief, memory, and healing themes. Dr. Buzz shares her journey, how clay became a sacred tool during her grief, and how she guides others in processing their loss through creative rituals and community projects. Key takeaways include the transformative power of clay, the importance of ritual in healing, and how art helps us maintain a connection with our loved ones.
2024-11-0744 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaNavigating Senior Living: Finding the Best Fit for Your Loved OneI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of 'Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula,' Traci Arieli sits down with Mike Scoggin, senior living advisor and owner of Oasis Senior Advisors of Silicon Valley. Together, they discuss the complexities of senior living options, from independent living to memory care, and address the emotional and financial challenges families face when making these decisions. Key takeaways include navigating the decision-making process and financial aspects and dispelling common misconceptions about senior living communities. Links/Resources: Guest: Oa...
2024-10-241h 00Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaIn Life and Death: How We Shape and Are Shaped by Our DeadI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of 'Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula,' Traci Arieli is joined by Cody Sanders, author of Corpse Care: Ethics for Tending the Dead. Together, they discuss how historical events like the treatment of Indigenous Americans, the Civil War, African American slavery, major epidemics, and the rise of ecological responsibility have shaped our practices in caring for the dead, and how these practices, in turn, have shaped us. Key takeaways include how these pivotal moments in history have influenced o...
2024-10-171h 03Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaEternal Reefs: Honoring Life, Restoring OceansI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of 'Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula,' Traci Arieli discusses the innovative and environmentally conscious practice of reef memorials with George Frankel, founder and CEO of Eternal Reefs. George shares the inspiration behind the company and how Eternal Reefs transforms cremated remains into artificial reefs that help rebuild marine habitats. They discuss the personal and ecological benefits of this unique memorialization process, highlighting how it allows families to actively participate in creating lasting tributes to their loved ones. ...
2024-10-1050 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaCompassion Without Cost: The VHOCC Approach to Accessible Hospice CareI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of 'Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula,' host Traci Arieli explores barriers that many face when accessing hospice care. Joined by Priya Jayadev from Volunteer Hospice of Clallam County (VHOCC), they explore how VHOCC is making hospice care accessible and compassionate for all, regardless of financial constraints or provider availability. Discussion includes the operating model of VHOCC, the importance of community support in sustaining non-profit hospice care, and the role of cultural sensitivity in delivering end-of-life services. This e...
2024-10-0339 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaListening to Our Children: Empowerment in Pediatric Palliative CareI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of 'Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula,' host Traci Arieli sits down with Toula Saratsis, a mother, advocate, and end-of-life doula who knows firsthand the heartache of losing a child. Together, they discuss the topic of pediatric palliative care. Toula shares her personal story, discussing how parents can make sure their child’s voice is heard and respected, even in the most difficult of situations. The conversation covers how to maintain a sense of normalcy for a child who...
2024-09-2655 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaSafeguarding Your Wishes: Legal Protection for Advance DirectivesI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of 'Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula,' host Traci Arieli explores the critical topic of legally protecting your advance directive wishes. Joined by Janis Landis, an end-of-life care advocate from the Final Exit Network, they discuss how to ensure your healthcare preferences are respected and followed. Key takeaways include the importance of selecting the right healthcare representative, understanding the legal aspects of advance directives, and navigating complex situations like dementia and ALS. This episode aims to normalize conversations around end-of-life...
2024-09-1952 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaCollaborating for Comfort: Doulas and HospiceI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of 'Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula,' Traci Arieli explores the collaborative relationship between death doulas and hospice teams. She is joined by two nurses, Dori Sappo and Denise Campbell. Both Dori and Denise bring unique perspectives as they have worked on both sides—serving as hospice nurses and end-of-life doulas. Together, they discuss how these roles complement each other, the emotional and practical support that doulas provide, and how this partnership can better serve clients and their families during the...
2024-09-1245 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaVoices of Autonomy: Jim Van Buskirk on the Power of End-of-Life StoriesI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of 'Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula,' host Traci Arieli sits down with Jim Van Buskirk, a Final Exit Network volunteer and the editor of "There at the End: Voices from Final Exit Network." They read a few stories from the anthology, discussing themes of autonomy, dignity, and the profound choices we face at the end of life. Jim shares his personal journey, insights on the critical role of volunteers, and the emotional and ethical challenges involved in this important...
2024-09-0541 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaVoices from Beyond: Preserving Memories Through VinylI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, Traci Arieli discusses a unique memorialization option with Jason Leach from And Vinyly. This innovative service transforms a person’s ashes into vinyl records, creating a beautiful blend of legacy, memory, and sound. Jason shares the fascinating process behind this service and how it can provide comfort during the grieving process. Key takeaways include the emotional impact of hearing a loved one's voice on vinyl and how this unique tribute can help maintain a co...
2024-08-1542 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaBehind the Badge: Grief and Healing for First RespondersI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of 'Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula,' host Traci Arieli discusses the unique challenges that police officers and first responders face when it comes to grieving. Joined by Nicole Junkerman, a retired police officer and founder of Positive Passing, LLC, they explore the emotional toll these high-stress professions can take and the complexities of grief for those in law enforcement. Nicole shares her personal experiences from her time in law enforcement and how they have shaped her approach as a...
2024-08-0851 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaModernizing End-of-Life Planning: A Discussion with ThanacareI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of 'Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula,' host Traci Arieli discusses the critical importance of advanced directives and planning for a good quality of life as we age. Joined by Sam Madison, Co-Founder and Chief Operating Officer of Thanacare, they explore how to ensure that doctors and medical staff follow your wishes and the best ways to communicate those wishes to your loved ones. Key takeaways include overcoming the barriers to completing healthcare directives, the benefits of using m...
2024-08-0135 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaReviving Tradition: Exploring Home Funerals with the National Home Funeral AllianceI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of "Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula," host Traci Arieli discusses the profound impact of home funerals with Isabel Knight from the National Home Funeral Alliance. Together, they explore the practicalities, benefits, and challenges of home funerals, including navigating hospital and hospice rules, understanding legalities, and the importance of planning ahead. Isabel shares how cultural norms and practices intersect with the home funeral movement, addressing issues of racism and cultural sensitivity within death care. They also discuss the growing r...
2024-07-2552 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaWitnessing and Wisdom: Victoria Beelik on Losing ParentsI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of 'Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula,' host Traci Arieli explores the emotional journey of losing both parents within a short span of time. Joined by Victoria Beelik, author of "Watching My Parents Die," they discuss the challenges of navigating differing end-of-life wishes and the personal toll it takes. Victoria shares her story of making difficult medical decisions, coping with the burden of family secrets, and her reasons for writing her book. This episode looks at the complexities of...
2024-07-1834 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaVoices of Dementia: Demand Support to Keep Living Your Life FullyI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.Episode Description: In this episode of 'Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula,' host Traci Arieli discusses the complex and often stigmatized topic of dementia. Joined by Kate Swaffer from Dementia Alliance International, they explore Kate's personal journey with young-onset dementia, the formation of Dementia Alliance International, and the crucial peer-to-peer support it offers. Key takeaways include the importance of demanding support to keep living, the role of grief management, and the need for systemic change in how dementia is p...
2024-07-1154 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula(Repeat) Art as a Path for HealingI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.(Originally aired on September 12, 2023.)In this thoughtful conversation, Traci Arieli, the founder of Comforting Closure, sits down with therapist and author Bradie Hansen to explore the transformative power of art in the grieving process. Bradie, a prominent voice in the therapy community and a co-author of the book "The Long Grief Journey," shares insights drawn from both personal experiences and professional observations.Together, we dive deep into the nuances of grief, discussing its various forms and the often underestimated healing potential of...
2024-07-0440 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaDignity in Departure: Understanding Self-Deliverance with Final Exit NetworkI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.Trigger Warning: This episode discusses end-of-life choices and self-deliverance, which might be sensitive or triggering for some listeners. Please ensure you're in a space that feels safe and consider what's best for you as you listen. In this episode of 'Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula,' host Traci Arieli discusses end-of-life autonomy and self-deliverance with Lowrey Brown, the Exit Guide Program Director at Final Exit Network. Together, they explore how individuals can shape their final chapters even in the f...
2024-06-2749 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaA Call for Kindness: The Humane Approach to End-of-Life Care in PrisonsI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of 'Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula,' Traci Arieli discusses the profound impact of providing end-of-life care within the prison system. Joined by Laura Musselman, Outreach & Events Manager, and Fernando Murillo, Program Manager of the Humane Prison Hospice Project, they explore how the project brings dignity and compassionate care to incarcerated individuals nearing the end of their lives. Key takeaways include the innovative training of the incarcerated as palliative care workers, the unique challenges of providing hospice care in a...
2024-06-2054 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaA Call for Kindness: The Humane Approach to End-of-Life Care in PrisonsI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of 'Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula,' Traci Arieli discusses the profound impact of providing end-of-life care within the prison system. Joined by Laura Musselman, Outreach & Events Manager, and Fernando Murillo, Program Manager of the Humane Prison Hospice Project, they explore how the project brings dignity and compassionate care to incarcerated individuals nearing the end of their lives. Key takeaways include the innovative training of the incarcerated as palliative care workers, the unique challenges of providing hospice care in a...
2024-06-2054 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaInside the Funeral Industry: The Modern Mortician's PerspectiveI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of 'Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula,' Traci Arieli discusses the evolving landscape of the funeral industry with Melissa Meadow, known as the Modern Mortician. Together, they explore the concept of green funerals and how they can provide a more sustainable and ethical approach to honoring our loved ones. Melissa shares her journey into the death care industry, the challenges she faced, and her passion for transparency and education in funeral practices. Key takeaways include understanding the various e...
2024-06-1344 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaAging with Intention: Karen Faith Gordon on Living Well at Every AgeI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of 'Comforting Closure- Conversations with a Death Doula,' host Traci Arieli sits down with Karen Faith Gordon, an expert in holistic aging, to discuss the keys to living a fulfilling life as we age. Together, they explore the importance of mental and spiritual well-being, the role of technology in enhancing the lives of our aging population, and the critical role community and social connections play in healthy aging. Karen shares her journey and the epiphany that led her to focus on holistic...
2024-06-0656 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaBeyond the Rainbow Bridge: Understanding Pet Grief with Paws to RememberI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure, host Traci Arieli is joined by Maryglenn Warnock from Paws to Remember to explore the complex journey of pet loss and grief. "Beyond the Rainbow Bridge: Understanding Pet Grief with Paws to Remember" offers a compassionate look into the heartache of losing a pet, providing insights, support, and understanding for those walking this difficult path. We explore the emotional bonds we share with our pets, the process of grieving, and how to find healing in the aftermath of l...
2024-05-3044 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaThe Ultimate Itinerary: Death Doulas on Navigating the Path to Compassionate End-of-Life Care EducationI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.Welcome to a special episode of 'The Ultimate Itinerary: Death Doulas on Navigating the Path to Compassionate End-of-Life Care Education,' Join Kacie Gikonyo and Traci Arieli and they explore the heart of what it means to be a death doula — the education, the emotional resilience, and the deep sense of purpose that guides this meaningful work. This conversation is an essential guide for anyone considering this calling, providing clarity on the educational journey, practical advice, and a deeper understanding of the impact of thi...
2024-05-2356 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaThe Sacred Thread: Weaving Rituals into the Fabric of LifeI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of "Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula," host Traci Arieli is joined by Megan Sheldon, the visionary behind Be Ceremonial. Megan shares her wisdom on how simple, yet profound acts can transform everyday moments into sacred ceremonies, offering solace and connection in times of grief and celebration alike. This episode is a journey into the heart of what it means to live intentionally, to honor our connections, and to find peace in the presence of the sacred moments that thread through...
2024-05-0953 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaHealing at Life's End: How Psychedelics Are Transforming End-of-Life CareI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.Join Traci Arieli, end-of-life doula and founder of Comforting Closure, and Christine Caldwell, founder of the End-of-Life Psychedelic Care organization as they talk about the use of psychedelic-assisted therapy and its role in end-of-life care. In this episode, we discuss: Christine Caldwell's journey and the inception of EOLPC.org The mission and vision behind EOLPC.org and the integration of psychedelic-assisted care in end-of-life scenarios An overview of psychedelics involved in therapeutic settings The structure and spiritual dimensions of a typical psych...
2024-05-0258 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaProtecting Your Quality of Life: A Conversation about Long-Term Care Insurance with Brian GordonI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of "Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula," host Traci Arieli is joined by Brian Gordon of Gordon Associates, a specialist in long-term care insurance. The discussion centers around the importance of preparing for your future with long-term care insurance, understanding what it covers, and exploring how it fits into your overall life planning strategy. The episode includes: The basics of long-term care insurance and its critical role in future planning. Personal insights from Traci's experience with lon...
2024-04-2538 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaWaves of Change: Eco-Friendly Farewells with Aqua CremationI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.Explore the world of eco-conscious end-of-life care with Traci Arieli from Comforting Closure. In this episode, we're joined by Kahla Flores from White Rose Aqua Cremation to explore the gentle alternative of aqua cremation. Key topics include: Introduction to Aqua Cremation: Understanding the process and its benefits. Environmental Benefits: How it aligns with eco-friendly practices. Emotional and Spiritual Considerations: Catering to families' needs. Overcoming Challenges: Navigating public perception and legal landscapes. The Future of End-of...
2024-04-1826 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaHonoring the Departed: Exploring One Washcloth with Susan OppieI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of "Comforting Closure – Conversations with a Death Doula" host Traci Arieli welcomes Susan Oppie from One Washcloth to explore the act of caring for our loved ones after they've passed. This conversation explores the spiritual, emotional, and practical aspects of post-death care, highlighting how the simple act of washing can serve as a powerful ritual of love and farewell. Highlights include: The inspiration behind One Washcloth and its mission. The cultural and spiritual importance of washing the deceased. How suc...
2024-04-1133 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaRedefining Retirement: Empowerment for the Solo AgerI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.Welcome to another episode of the Comforting Closure Podcast, hosted by Traci Arieli, end-of-life doula and founder of Comforting Closure. In today’s special episode, we delve into the concept of aging gracefully and independently as a solo ager. About This Episode: Traditional family structures and support systems are evolving, and many of us are left wondering how we can ensure our later years are not just comfortable but filled with joy, autonomy, and a sense of community. In this epis...
2024-04-0442 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaCreating Honoring Spaces: The Art and Practice of Death CareI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of "Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula," host Traci Arieli joins Trina Wacasey, the founder of Creating Honoring Spaces, to discuss the changing practice of death care. Discover how she creates personal, compassionate end-of-life environments that honor the departed's journey while also supporting the healing process of those left behind. From the innovative Mini Mobile Suite to the importance of green burials, this discussion provides insight into the possibilities for honoring our loved ones respectfully and compassionately. Join us as we e...
2024-03-2842 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaBeyond Fear: Understanding and Comfort in the Final JourneyI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure – Conversations with a Death Doula, Traci Arieli, an end-of-life doula, talks with Gabby Jimenez, a hospice nurse, end-of-life doula, educator, and author. This episode, titled 'Beyond Fear: Understanding and Comfort in the Final Journey,' aims to demystify the end-of-life process, addressing the fears and uncertainties many face. Gabby shares her extensive experience and insights into the physical and emotional experiences of the dying, the importance of supportive care, and how to approach the final days with compassion and understanding. Wh...
2024-03-2149 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaBeyond the Brochure: Discovering Excellence in Assisted Living CommunitiesI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode, host Traci Arieli talks about the critical topic of finding the right assisted living community for our loved ones. We are joined by special guest Annemarie Fina, who shares her personal journey of searching for a community that would provide her mother, a resident with Alzheimer's, the care and dignity she deserves. Through Annemarie's story, we explore the challenges and considerations that families face when choosing an assisted living facility. From understanding the importance of quality care to recognizing red flags, t...
2024-03-1441 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaFrom Compassion to Calling: The Road to Becoming a Death DoulaI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.Welcome to another episode, hosted by Traci Arieli, founder of Comforting Closure and a dedicated end-of-life doula. In this episode, we are joined by special guest End-of-Life Doula. Episode Highlights: Understanding the role and responsibilities of a death doula. Insights into the training and certification process for aspiring death doulas. Discussion of the essential skills and emotional intelligence required in this field. Personal stories and experiences from both Traci and Rae that illuminate the journey of becoming a death doula. About...
2024-03-0757 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaRadiant Reflections: Illuminating the Path Through Advance DirectivesI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of "Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula," host Traci Arieli welcomes Maureen Kures, the founder of A Radiant Mourning, to shed light on the importance of Advance Directives. Together, they discuss end-of-life planning, exploring how Advance Directives can guide individuals and families toward making informed, respectful decisions that honor their wishes and values. This conversation aims to demystify Advance Directives, address common misconceptions, and offer practical advice for those looking to create or update their plans. Whether you're navigating th...
2024-02-2946 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaMemories to Meadows: Nurturing the Future with TerramationI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of "Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula," host Traci Arieli talks to Micah Truman, founder and CEO of Return Home, about the innovative and eco-conscious world of Terramation. Terramation, or human composting, offers an eco-friendly approach to afterlife care, turning human remains into nutrient-rich soil and providing a sustainable alternative to traditional burial and cremation methods. This process not only honors our loved ones but also gives back to the earth, allowing for a legacy that continues to nurture l...
2024-02-1543 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaVoices for Healing: Exploring the Power of Patient AdvocacyI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of Comforting Closure, host Traci Arieli talks with Marian Rouse, founder of Triad Health Advocates, about patient advocacy. Episode Highlights: - Marian Rouse's journey to becoming a patient advocate. - The dynamic and impactful role of patient advocates. - Navigating the complexities of healthcare systems. - Building trustful relationships between patients, medical staff, and insurers. - Ensuring seamless transitions in patient care. - Strategies to safeguard clients' interests. - Addressing and overcoming common challenges in patie...
2024-02-0854 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaEternal Echoes: The Art of Legacy StorytellingI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode, host Traci Arieli, an end-of-life doula and founder of Comforting Closure, sits down with Karla Combres, a legacy guide and celebrant. Join us as we talk about legacy storytelling and its impact on our lives. Karla shares her journey and insights into how storytelling shapes our identities, preserves our family histories, and connects us across generations. Whether you're interested in capturing your own life story, or simply looking for a deeper connection to your heritage, this episode offers a wealth of knowledge. ...
2024-02-0146 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaThe Ultimate Itinerary: Death Doulas on Life's Last Trip, 01/18/24I'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode, host Traci Arieli is joined by two peers in the death doula community, Kacie Gikonyo and Mikey Marin. Join Kacie (a registered nurse and founder of The Death Doula Collective), Mikey (founder of The Healing Hearts House), and Traci (founder of Comforting Closure), as they answer questions about being death doulas and end-of-life care. In this episode, we cover: The diverse roles and practices of death doulas. Collaborating with healthcare professionals. Managing compassion fatigue in end-of-life care. Memorable experie...
2024-01-1851 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaNavigating Medical Aid in Dying: Insight & Advocacy with Karen Morin, RNI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode, end-of-life doula and founder of Comforting Closure Traci Arieli has a conversation with patient advocate Karen Morin. They discuss the complicated world of Medical Aid in Dying (MAID) and talk about the moral problems and mental difficulties that come up when people have to make this choice. Karen Morin has extensive experience advocating for individuals and provides helpful insights about how MAID affects patients, their families, and the healthcare system. Listen to this episode if you want to learn more about t...
2024-01-0445 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaEmbracing the Journey: Insights from a Hospice NurseI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.Join host Traci Arieli, end-of-life doula and founder of Comforting Closure, in "Embracing the Journey." This episode features Shelley Henry, a seasoned hospice nurse and co-founder of The Amity Group, as we explore the misunderstood world of hospice care. In our conversation, we'll uncover: Shelley's journey into hospice nursing. The realities of hospice care, focus on patient dignity and comfort. Debunking common myths about hospice. Addressing the shortage of hospice nurses and its impact. How hospice supports families and caregivers, including the role of end...
2023-12-2133 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaPlanning for Peace: Navigating the Path of Estate Planning with Debra CassaraI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.Join Traci Arieli and attorney Debra Cassara in this episode as they explore the essentials of securing your legacy and ensuring peace of mind for you and your loved ones. In This Episode, You’ll Learn: - The basics and importance of early estate planning - How often you should refresh your estate plan - How to avoid common mistakes - Tips for involving family and choosing the right attorney To connect with Debra, go to: https://ferglawgroup.com/
2023-11-1640 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaJewish Traditions of Remembrance with Rabbi Heather PaulI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.Join me, Traci Arieli, for a soulful conversation with Rabbi Heather Paul. We delve into Jewish traditions of remembrance, the comfort they bring in grief, and their evolution in today’s interconnected world. We Discuss: - Rabbi Heather’s personal and spiritual journey. - Jewish rituals for death and remembrance. - The role of Tikkun Olam in honoring loved ones. - The adaptation of these rituals in the digital age. Connect with Rabbi Heather: https://scatteredleaves.net/ Conn...
2023-10-1947 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaArt as a Path to Healing GriefI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this thoughtful conversation, Traci Arieli, the founder of Comforting Closure, sits down with therapist and author Bradie Hansen to explore the transformative power of art in the grieving process. Bradie, a prominent voice in the therapy community and a co-author of the book "The Long Grief Journey," shares insights drawn from both personal experiences and professional observations. Together, we dive deep into the nuances of grief, discussing its various forms and the often underestimated healing potential of art - with a special focus...
2023-10-1140 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaFrom Loss to Growth: Exploring Grief and TraumaI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.Join us in a profound exploration of the journey from loss to growth as we delve into the intricate realms of grief and trauma. Traci Arieli, an end-of-life doula, and Kathleen Putnam, a grief and end-of-life coach, unravel the complexities of sorrow's impact on emotions, minds, and bodies. Discover strategies for healing, self-care, and transformation in this insightful discussion. To connect with Kathleen:https://www.coachingwithkathleen.net/https://www.nomorefoodtrauma.com/https://www.nutritionworkseattle.com/https://www.linkedin.com/in...
2023-10-1138 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaFrom Heart to Screen: The Power of Video StorytellingI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.Join Traci Arieli, an end-of-life doula and founder of Comforting Closure, as she explores the power of preserving personal stories through video. Discover how video storytelling can bridge generations, providing comfort, healing, and connection for families.Traci's special guest, Oren Arieli, the creative director of Awesomeshot Studios, shares invaluable insights on capturing and cherishing these narratives. Together, they discuss setting up the perfect interview space, lighting techniques, audio considerations, and the transformative impact that preserving personal stories can have on future generations....
2023-10-1116 minComforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaThe Healing Power of Rituals: Honoring Loved Ones During the End-of-Life JourneyI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode, Traci Arieli, an end-of-life doula and founder of Comforting Closure, and Danielle Slupesky from Conscious Crossroads engage in a meaningful discussion about the transformative potential of rituals during the end-of-life journey. Traci and Danielle explore how rituals can bring comfort and strength to grieving families, providing them with a unique way to cherish memories and honor their loved ones. The speakers emphasize the importance of creating personalized and meaningful memorial services to celebrate the lives of those who have passed away. Through their...
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Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death DoulaSecuring Your Future: Financial Planning for Major Life EventsI'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this interview, Traci Arieli, an end-of-life doula and founder of Comforting Closure, sits down with Rosie Poliquin from Pinnacle Elite/World Financial Group. Rosie's mission is to assist individuals in planning for unexpected circumstances, including end-of-life scenarios.Gain valuable insights and strategies to make informed financial decisions well in advance, ensuring you and your loved ones remain financially secure.🔹 Learn the importance of starting early in financial planning and budgeting for the future.🔹 Discover the significance of long-term care planning and ho...
2023-10-1018 min