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The Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP433: You Can’t Automate Your Awakening: What AI Gets Wrong About the Enneagram—and What You Deserve InsteadIn this powerful episode, Tracy O'Malley dives into a hot topic: the intersection of AI and the Enneagram. With the rise of AI tools like ChatGPT, many are turning to these platforms for quick answers about their Enneagram type and personal growth. But Tracy is here to set the record straight—your transformation isn’t programmable, it’s personal.She unpacks why AI often gets the Enneagram wrong, how it mirrors the masks we wear instead of revealing our truth, and why the Enneagram is a sacred map meant to be lived, not downloaded. Tracy shares her own journey with the En...
2025-08-0524 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP429: You’re Halfway There: How Procrastination Is Keeping You From Your Finish Line Based on Your Enneagram TypeWe’re halfway through the year, and it’s time to get real. Procrastination isn’t just a harmless habit—it’s a thief that robs you of your potential, peace, and progress. In this episode of The Enneagram Edge, Tracy O’Malley dives deep into the unique ways procrastination shows up for each Enneagram type and how to break free from its grip. Whether you’re stuck in perfectionism, people-pleasing, overthinking, or chasing shiny objects, this episode will give you the clarity, compassion, and tools to cross your finish line with confidence.What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
2025-07-0829 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP425: Resistance in Disguise You Justify It. The Enneagram Exposes It.In this fiery and no-nonsense episode of The Enneagram Edge, Tracy O’Malley calls out the sneaky ways resistance shows up in our lives, shapeshifting into something we trust—intuition, strategy, even our Enneagram type. But here’s the truth: resistance hijacks your survival patterns, flatters your strengths, and keeps you stuck in a loop of productivity, perfection, and fear. This episode is about naming resistance, cutting through the bullshit, and reclaiming your edge by using the Enneagram as a weapon for transformation, not an excuse for stagnation.What You’ll Learn in This Episode:How resistance cloaks itself in your Enne...
2025-06-1030 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP424: Built to Carry It - Reclaiming Your Edge Beneath the ArmorIn this raw and vulnerable episode of The Enneagram Edge, Tracy O’Malley dives deep into a topic that many high achievers avoid—our relationship with our bodies. As leaders, parents, and visionaries, we often push through fatigue, ignore the red flags, and treat our bodies like afterthoughts. But here’s the truth: your body is not separate from your calling—it’s the vessel that carries it. And if you’re out of alignment with your body, you’re out of alignment with your mission. This episode is a wake-up call to reclaim your strength, honor your softness, and redefine what...
2025-06-0323 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP416: The ELITE don't wait in line. It's not what you may think...In this episode, I dive deep into the concept of "The Elite Don't Wait in Line," a principle that applies both personally and professionally. Reflecting on my own experiences, including a six-month spiritual sabbatical, I discuss the importance of making space for the bigger, better things in life. Whether it's relationships, business opportunities, or personal growth, holding onto what isn't serving you can block the elite opportunities meant for you.I share anecdotes about friends and clients who struggled with letting go of subpar relationships and business ventures, emphasizing that the best things won't wait around while you're...
2024-10-0129 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP415: The Spiritual Sabbatical Glow-UpHello, everyone. It's been a long time since I last recorded an episode, and today, I want to have a real conversation with you. Over the past four and a half years, I've released over 400 episodes, and I deeply appreciate your support and concern about the podcast's status.I've been on a spiritual sabbatical for the past year, which has been a transformative experience. My word for the year was "Emerge," and while I initially intended to come out strong, life had other plans. This sabbatical has taught me a lot about what it means to truly emerge...
2024-09-2426 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP414: THRIVING as opposites in marriage and beyond with Kate and Aaron Howard (SP Enneagram 1 & SP Enneagram 7)In this episode of Lead with the Enneagram, we dive deep into the dynamics of relationships, particularly between individuals with contrasting Enneagram types.Our special guests, Kate and Aaron Howard, are a couple who embody the phrase "opposites attract," with Kate being an Enneagram Type 1 and Aaron a Type 7. They share their experiences of working with me and how understanding their Enneagram types has significantly improved their relationship and business ventures.We discuss the challenges and benefits of their differing perspectives and how they've learned to navigate their partnership without "throat punching each other on the...
2024-04-0445 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP413: You are on the right track baby, you were born this way. Being Legendary - in all your divine waysIn this solo episode of Lead with the Enneagram I dive into the significance of birthdays and self-celebration, particularly how my own upbringing shaped my reluctance to embrace such personal milestones.I recount the stories of my birth and the mixed messages I received, which led to a lifelong journey of striving for perfection and approval, especially from my father. These narratives, while humorous in retrospect, left a profound impact on my self-perception and the way I viewed my own worth.Despite the challenges, I've come to recognize the importance of celebrating oneself and the journey...
2024-04-0224 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP412: From avoidant to alignment as an Enneagram 7 with Dr. Megan Daley (SP Enneagram 7)In this episode of Lead with the Enneagram, we dive deep into the practical applications of the Enneagram, particularly for those identifying as Type 7. Our special guest, Dr. Megan Daley, a self-preservation Enneagram 7 with a 748 tri-type, joins us to explore the nuances of living as a Type 7. We discuss the challenges and joys of being an Enneagram 7, from the desire for freedom and adventure to the tendency to avoid discomfort and pain.Dr. Megan shares her personal story of pivoting careers multiple times, from a math degree to physical therapy, and eventually to coaching. She reflects on the...
2024-03-2849 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP411: Falling in love with vulnerability and patience with Kaitlin Anthony (SX Enneagram 8)Our conversation today is particularly special as I chat with one of my favorite clients, Kaitlin Anthony, who is also an Enneagram 8. Kaitlin has the 837 tri-type, known as the mover and shaker, which embodies high achievement and assertiveness. Despite her success, Kaitlin opens up about the struggles and obstacles that come with her Enneagram type, particularly in parenting, business, and marriage.We explore the challenges of connecting with loved ones who have different Enneagram types and the importance of slowing down and tapping into the softer energies of the Enneagram, such as types 2 and 9, to foster deeper connections...
2024-03-2646 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP410: Unleashing compassion and service, while honoring strong boundaries with Tonya Raybon (Social Enneagram 2)Our special guest, Tonya Raybon, joins us to discuss her experience with the Enneagram. Tonya has worked extensively with me, participating in retreats, one-on-one sessions, and couple's workshops. She shares her insights as a social Enneagram Type 2, also known as "The Helper," and we explore the nuances of her tri-type, 2-6-8, which is referred to as "The Rescuer."Throughout the episode, we tackle the challenges of setting boundaries, especially for Enneagram Type 2s who are naturally inclined to say "yes" and accommodate others. We emphasize the importance of pausing before committing to tasks and asking oneself if...
2024-03-2143 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP409: How to embrace conflict when everything inside you wants harmony and freedom with Julie A (SX Enneagram 9)In this special hotline episode of Lead with the Enneagram, we had the pleasure of speaking with Julie A, a one-on-one Enneagram 9 with a 935 tri-type, also known as the thinker. Julie shared her journey of self-discovery through the Enneagram and how it has impacted her both personally and professionally as a leadership and career coach at a high-level university in Chicago.We delved into the nuances of being an Enneagram 9, discussing the core emotion of anger and how it often manifests in passive-aggressive behaviors like avoidance and procrastination. Julie opened up about her challenges with confronting anger and...
2024-03-1944 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP408: Doing the next BRAVE thing - That is the real flex.In this latest episode of "Lead with the Enneagram," I discuss the common trap of accumulating knowledge, attending events, and seeking more strategies without making real progress. I emphasize that while these activities are valuable, they may not always lead to the growth we seek. I challenge listeners to consider what the "next brave thing" is for them, which can be a deeply personal and vulnerable step.Using the Enneagram as a tool, I encourage you to identify your fears and take action that aligns with your type's unique path to growth. I confess my own struggles with...
2024-03-1514 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP407: When self-awareness isn't enough - How to take the action that moves the damn needleIn this latest episode of Lead with the Enneagram, I open up about a recent self-awareness realization I had during a mastermind event involving a racetrack challenge. Despite my confidence and expertise in self-awareness, I noticed a pattern of self-sabotage when the focus was solely on me, rather than on a team or others. This led to a vulnerable moment where I recognized the importance of not just being self-aware but also taking compassionate, effective action to create real change.I emphasize that self-awareness is only a piece of the puzzle and that understanding your Enneagram type is...
2024-03-1222 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP406: What the heck do you do when your core Enneagram Type isn't the right tool for the job???In this latest episode of "Lead with the Enneagram," I'm thrilled to share the insights and experiences fresh from a soulful retreat with an elite entrepreneurial mastermind group. We dove deep into the transformative power of the Enneagram, and I can't wait for you to join us on this journey.As someone who once told her therapist to take a hike when introduced to the Enneagram, I've come a long way. Now, with over a decade of integrating this tool into my life and helping others do the same, I'm here to show you how it's more than...
2024-03-0723 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP405: Getting out of your own way and finding joy in the unknown journey with Kyle Jones (SP Enneagram 6)Today on the podcast, I take you on a deep dive into the practical applications of the Enneagram, especially focusing on Type 6, the Loyal Skeptic. In this episode, we feature a special Enneagram hotline segment where I chat with Kyle Jones, a Type 6, who brings a male perspective to understanding the Enneagram. Kyle discusses his challenges with analysis paralysis, his relationship dynamics with his Type 8 wife, and parenting a Type 6 child. We delve into strategies for overcoming fear and uncertainty, embracing spontaneity, and the importance of trusting the process of personal growth.Listeners will find solace...
2024-03-0541 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP404: Uncovering and Honoring the Free Spirit with Merilou DeLosSantos (SP Enneagram 7)In this episode of "Lead with the Enneagram," we dive deep into the world of Enneagram Type 7s with our vibrant guest, Merilou DeLosSantos from New York. As your host, Tracy, I share my initial skepticism about the Enneagram and my journey to embracing it as a powerful tool for personal and professional development.We explore the complexities of the Enneagram, particularly for those who identify as Type 7s, known for their enthusiasm and visionary qualities. Merilou, a self-preservation Enneagram 7 with a 728 tritype, joins us to discuss the challenges of discernment and alignment in her life, especially when...
2024-02-2935 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP403: Revealing the Business Soul: Authenticity, Service, and Success with Jason LewThis week, we took a deep dive into the heart of entrepreneurship and the importance of playing the long game. I had the pleasure of chatting with my dear friend and business consultant coach, Jason Lew, who brought a wealth of knowledge and integrity to our candid conversation.We tackled the often grueling reality of showing up on social media and the pressure to constantly feed the content monster. Jason and I discussed the temptation to chase quick wins and how it can lead us to forget that entrepreneurship is a marathon, not a sprint. We explored the...
2024-02-2750 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP402: Are you allowing a moment of misery to rob you of all the miracles for your life?In this episode of "Lead with the Enneagram," we're tackling the big question: What are you willing to lose to achieve what you want? It's about discerning true desires from shiny distractions and understanding the sacrifices necessary for authentic success.I'll share my own journey of self-discovery, the tough choices I've made, and how the Enneagram has been a guiding light through it all. We'll discuss the importance of being transparent with ourselves, letting go of what no longer serves us, and embracing the discomfort that comes with growth.And because I love to keep it real...
2024-02-2215 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP401: Beyond the Armor: Discovering Feminine Energy and Vulnerability as an Enneagram 8 with Talia A (SO Enneagram 8)In this episode, I take you on a journey through the complexities and transformative power of the Enneagram, especially focusing on Type 8's path to vulnerability and strength. Today's episode is particularly special as we delve into the "hotline" segment where listeners, who've been accurately typed by me, get to ask deeper questions about their Enneagram journey. Our guest, Talia, a vibrant Enneagram 8 like myself, shares her experiences from participating in one of my immersive retreats. Despite her initial skepticism about her type, Talia's story is a testament to the power of the Enneagram in uncovering our true...
2024-02-2041 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP400: Show the F up to your life NOWWelcome to episode 400!!Over the years, I've gone from being an Enneagram skeptic to integrating it deeply into my life and work. I've used it to build bulletproof leadership and sales teams, work with one-on-one clients, couples, and lead workshops for top executives around the world. The Enneagram has been a complex but powerful tool, and I'm here to guide you through it.In this episode, I'll share personal stories and lessons learned throughout the journey of this podcast. From initially launching on New Year's Eve 2019 to navigating the changes the world has faced, including COVID...
2024-02-1528 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP399: Investing in People: The Enneagram's Role and Gift in your Teams and OrganizationsIn this episode of Lead with the Enneagram, we dive into the transformative power of the Enneagram in team building, both in professional and personal spheres. As your host, Tracy, I share my journey from being an Enneagram skeptic to a passionate advocate, using it to foster bulletproof leadership and sales teams, and to facilitate workshops for Fortune 100 executives.We discuss the critical importance of team culture and the necessity of investing in your teams, especially in today's climate of budget constraints and remote working. I emphasize that culture isn't just a part of the team dynamic; it...
2024-02-1318 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP398: Bouncing Back Stronger: Unveiling the Tools to Overcoming Life's Setbacks with Amy Shoenthal (SO Enneagram 2)In this episode of the Lead with the Enneagram, we dive deep into the world of setbacks with the incredible journalist and writer, Amy Shoenthal. As we're well into the new year, many of us find that our initial excitement for our goals has faded, and life's unexpected challenges have thrown us off course. Setbacks are a natural part of life, especially for those of us striving to do epic things in the world.Amy, a writer for Forbes magazine and Harvard Business Review, brings her expertise and insights to the table, discussing her new book, "The Setback...
2024-02-0843 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP397: Soulful Strategies: The Enneagram way to Heartfelt EntrepreneurshipIn this episode of Lead with the Enneagram, I dive into the transformative power of the Enneagram in both personal and professional spheres.I explore the intersection of identity and business, particularly for entrepreneurs who are the face of their brand. I emphasize the importance of authenticity in branding and how understanding oneself through the Enneagram can lead to a more sustainable and fulfilling business.I also touch on the challenges of evolving identities, especially in the digital age where personal branding is crucial. The episode highlights the importance of knowing oneself deeply to navigate these...
2024-02-0626 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP396: Enneagram Hotline - Finding Freedom: Saying 'No' as a Superpower for a SO Enneagram 2 with Tisha C.In this episode of Lead with the Enneagram, we dive deep into the practical applications of the Enneagram, particularly focusing on Type 2, the Considerate Helper. Our guest, Tisha, shares her journey from skepticism to embracing the Enneagram as a powerful tool for self-discovery and growth.Key Takeaways:Understanding Motivations: The Enneagram is more than a personality test; it's about understanding the 'why' behind our actions. For Type 2s, actions are often motivated by a desire for love and appreciation.Setting Boundaries: Type 2s tend to say 'yes' too quickly, leading to...
2024-02-0145 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP395: The Enneagram's Magic: How Deeper Levels of Self-Awareness Can Transform YOUR LifeIn this episode of Lead with the Enneagram, I discuss the significance of self-awareness and the beauty of the Enneagram when used correctly. I touch upon the common theme of self-understanding that has emerged in my recent interactions with mastermind groups and high-level entrepreneurs. I caution against using the Enneagram to force change rather than finding a natural flow and the importance of approaching the typing process with openness and patience.I also address the concerns of those who use the Enneagram in their businesses or coaching practices, stressing the need for integrity and depth in the typing...
2024-01-3022 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP394: Enneagram Hotline - How do you know if you are serving from all the right places with Emily Helderman (SO Enneagram 2)In this insightful episode of the Lead with the Enneagram podcast, we had the pleasure of speaking with Emily Helderman, a licensed therapist who discovered that her true Enneagram type was not what she initially thought. Despite being labeled as an Enneagram 3 by many, Emily's journey led her to realize she is actually a Social Enneagram 2. We delved deep into the nuances of overgiving, people-pleasing, and the motivations behind helping others.Key Takeaways:The Misidentification of High-Achieving Women: We discussed how high-achieving women, like Emily, are often mistyped on the Enneagram, particularly when it comes...
2024-01-2550 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP393: The Enneagram Edge: Beating the Odds on Quitter's Day - Understanding the roadblocks in your resolutionsIn this episode, we'll explore why people tend to give up on their goals so early in the year and how each Enneagram type might struggle with sticking to their resolutions. From the perfectionist tendencies of Type 1s to the fear of vulnerability that challenges Type 8s like myself, we'll delve into the unique motivations and fears that can lead each type to quit.But it's not all about the challenges. I'll also share strategies for overcoming the urge to quit, emphasizing the importance of compassion for oneself. The Enneagram provides us with a roadmap to understanding our...
2024-01-2327 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP392: Enneagam Hotline - Dropping the Armor- Embracing Authenticity and Healing Shame as a SP Enneagram 3 with Laurel BoylanIn this episode of "Lead with the Enneagram," we dive deep into the world of Enneagram Threes, particularly those with a self-preservation instinct like our guest, Laurel Boylan. We explore how the Enneagram can be applied to family dynamics, especially in a household as diverse as Laurel's, with six different Enneagram types under one roof. I offer practical advice on how to communicate effectively with each type, emphasizing the importance of understanding their core motives and fears.Laurel and I discuss the challenges of overcoming a scarcity mindset, particularly around money, and the shame that can...
2024-01-1841 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP391: 4 Enneagram 8's walk onto an island together - The power of surrender and understanding the vulnerable parts of your type and tritypeIn this episode, I reflect on a transformative trip I took with a group of seven other women to a small island in Mexico. This journey was a follow-up to last week's discussion about the importance of support and love in our lives, and it turned out to be a profound experience of vulnerability and growth for me.As an Enneagram 8, known for seeking power and control within a group, I consciously approached this trip with the intention to receive as much as to give. Surrounded by four other Enneagram 8s, two Enneagram 2s, one Enneagram 7, and one...
2024-01-1632 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP390: Slay, Scale, Sustain: A CEO Woman's Epic Journey Through Business Evolution and Personal Growth with Rashae Doyle (SP Enneagram 3)Our special guest, Rashae Doyle, CEO and founder of Bevel Up, joins us to discuss her transformation from a nurse practitioner to a thriving business owner. Rashae embodies the essence of a powerhouse woman and shares her experiences of overcoming initial doubts and leveraging her Enneagram type to achieve success.We explore the complexities of leading a diverse team, the challenges of transitioning from a star employee to a CEO, and the importance of creating a supportive culture in a competitive industry. Rashae opens up about her personal growth journey, the significance of vulnerability in leadership, and how...
2024-01-1148 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP389: Clearing the clutter for the relationships, support and community you desire and deserve in your life.In this episode of "Lead with the Enneagram," host I discuss the importance of having a support system and community in our lives. Building a support system can be challenging, especially for introverts like me. However, I stress the significance of having people around us who can love us, hold us accountable, and help us achieve our goals.The episode also delves into the concept of vulnerability and the fear associated with it. I emphasize the importance of being vulnerable and exposing our weaknesses in order to receive the support we need. I discuss the difference between transparency...
2024-01-0929 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP388: The Enneagram Hotline - Living life at warp speed, when YES is your default with Amy Bartko (SO Enneagram 7)In this episode of the Lead with the Enneagram podcast, we had an enlightening conversation with Amy Bartko, an Enneagram 7, who shared her experiences with the overcommitment cycle and how the Enneagram has helped her navigate through it. Amy's story is a testament to the power of the Enneagram in creating long-term freedom and choices, which is especially significant for Enneagram 7s like her.We delved into the complexities of the Enneagram and how it can be applied to both personal and professional life. I shared my own journey from skepticism to embracing the Enneagram, and how it...
2024-01-0449 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP387: How the Power of a Pause can set your entire 2024 on the right path for YOUAs we step into 2024, it's time to reflect on our goals and intentions. But before we charge ahead, I want to talk about the importance of taking a pause. This isn't about inaction; it's about intentional reflection to ensure our goals align with our true selves.I've been where you are, skeptical of the Enneagram, but now, with over a decade of experience, I've seen its transformative power in my life and the lives of others. Whether it's personal growth, family dynamics, or professional leadership, the Enneagram has been a guiding light.In this episode, we'll...
2024-01-0216 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP386: Step into 2024: A Journey Towards Choosing Your Word for the year that will set your 2024 on fireToday we're exploring the power of choosing a theme word for the year.This past year has been a rollercoaster for me, filled with grief, challenges, and a lot of personal growth. I've learned the importance of not bypassing the hard feelings and truly going through the process to grow. Despite having a strong network of resources, I've realized the necessity of facing my struggles head-on.I recently had a transformative weekend with a close friend and strategist, which helped me start to emerge from my cocoon season. We discussed the concept of a theme...
2023-12-2824 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP385: Enneagram Strategies for Effective Goal Setting : Transform Your 2024 Desires into RealityIn this episode I am talking all about goal setting! As we're in the week of setting goals for the new year, I want to guide you through goal setting for 2024 using the Enneagram lens. This episode is particularly special as we celebrate the four-year anniversary of the podcast.Today, we'll dive into how each Enneagram type can set goals effectively, avoiding common pitfalls and leveraging their unique strengths. We'll also discuss the importance of integrating this knowledge for true transformation, because as I always say, information doesn't equal transformation.Enneagram Insights for Goal SettingType 1 (Reformer...
2023-12-2627 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP384: Beyond the Cocoon: The Real Truth in what it takes to soar into your Butterfly Szn with Aisha Marshall (SO Enneagram 3)In this vulnerable and heartfelt episode, I sit down with my dear friend Aisha Marshall, a social Enneagram 3, to discuss the necessary parts of going into cocoon season in order to emerge as the best version of ourselves. Cocoon season is an unpredictable phase of self-exploration and unlearning unhealthy patterns. It varies for each individual, and there is no specific timeline or step-by-step guide to navigate it. We emphasize that cocoon season is disruptive and uncomfortable. It requires you to confront your coping mechanisms and address the pain that led to your development. Many people resist or rush...
2023-12-2154 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP383: Finding Holiday Harmony : Navigating the Season with Enneagram WisdomIn this episode, I provide tips for each Enneagram type on how to navigate the holiday season and find harmony. I address the stressors and challenges that each type may face during this time and offer suggestions for growth and self-care.Enneagram Type 1 (The Reformer): Type 1s may struggle with the disruption of their sense of perfectionism and black-and-white thinking during the holiday season.Enneagram Type 2 (The Helper): Type 2s may overextend themselves and try to please everyone during the holiday season.Enneagram Type 3 (The Achiever): Type 3s may feel pressure to be the...
2023-12-1925 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP382: The Enneagram Hotline - Cracking the tough shell and leveraging the softer side of strength with Jennifer Staats (SO Enneagram 8)In this episode, I am speaking with Jennifer Staats, a fellow Enneagram 8, about the power of vulnerability in our homes and in the world. We discuss the challenges faced by strong, independent women who are wearing many hats in their lives. Jennifer clarifies the misconception that vulnerability is synonymous with transparency. She explains that vulnerability is a lifelong lesson and emphasizes the importance of practicing it, particularly during moments of weakness, betrayal, or violation.Jennifer also acknowledges the challenges that Enneagram 8 personalities face in embracing vulnerability, as they tend to second-guess others' motives and prefer isolation...
2023-12-1443 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP381: Enneagram 101- Peeling back the layers : Understanding your inner conflict - The Enneagram VICES revealedUnderstanding and integrating information is crucial for personal growth and preventing negative outcomes. In this episode, I am diving into the significance of using information and integrating it into your life. By doing so, you can develop a compassionate perspective towards yourself and make necessary adjustments before negative consequences arise. I encourage you to approach yourself with compassion, and understand that compassion is the key to effectively utilizing personal development tools. Without compassion, negative patterns and behaviors will persist. While the Enneagram can expedite the transformation process, it requires embracing discomfort. By taking compassionate action and breaking these cycles, you...
2023-12-1233 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP380: Mastering your Magic and Elevating Excellence with Rebecca Cafiero (SX Enneagram 7)In this episode, we dive deep into the dynamics of the Enneagram and how it impacts your life, career, and relationships with special guest Rebecca Cafiero. An ex-corporate VP of sales turned best selling author, podcaster, and nationally recognized business expert. Rebecca empowers entrepreneurs just like you to put a spotlight on your superpowers so you can step into becoming the expert you’re meant to BE. We discuss the importance of understanding the different needs and strengths of participants as a facilitator and mentor. By gaining insights into motivations, fears, behaviors, and how individuals show up, the fa...
2023-12-071h 07The Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP379: Enneagram 101- Can the Enneagram really help me transform my life? Real talk and hell yesIn this episode, we dive deep into the dynamics of the Enneagram and how they impact your life, career, and relationships. Get ready for some powerful conversations, live typing sessions, and insightful solo episodes. The Enneagram is not just a trendy tool, but a powerful resource for personal growth. I address the question that many have been asking: "Can the Enneagram really help me?" While it may have gained popularity recently, we delve into the importance of not letting its trendiness devalue its true potential.Information alone is not enough; integration is key. Merely listening to...
2023-12-0519 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP378: The Enneagram Hotline - Stepping into Thought Leadership as a SP Enneagram 7 with Dr. Nicole MarcioneIn this episode, we dive deep into the world of thought leadership and community building with Dr. Nicole Marcioni, a self-preservation Enneagram 7. Dr. Nicole Marcioni shares her insights on the importance of building a strong community as an entrepreneur. She emphasizes the power of networking and how it leads to more freedom and choices. As she beautifully puts it, "In community and with the right network, more freedom and choices come." Whether you're an Enneagram 7 or not, the Enneagram can be a valuable tool in the marketplace and entrepreneurship. Dr. Nicole Marcioni and I discuss how to leverage...
2023-11-3040 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP377: Enneagram 101 - Cracking the Code : Tips and strategies for Stress Management MasteryThis episode takes a different approach to our usual Enneagram 101 discussions. Instead of focusing on tactical aspects, we explore how to integrate the Enneagram into our lives. As we enter the holiday season, which can often be a stressful time, understanding how our Enneagram type impacts our stress levels and learning how to manage and embrace it is crucial. This episode provides valuable insights and strategies to help you navigate stress and find fulfillment in every aspect of your journey.To further support you on your journey, I am excited to announce that I will be hosting a 90...
2023-11-2826 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP376: Special Episode - Bittersweet Thanks: Navigating Gratitude in Times of Hardship and UncertaintyIn this episode, I dive into the difficulty of finding gratitude and thankfulness during times of hardship. I acknowledge the various losses that you may experience, whether it be of people, places, things, finances, or health, and recognize that it can be challenging to find things to be thankful for in these situations. Throughout the episode, I emphasize the importance of recognizing that everyone's reality is different. I caution against comparing your own struggles to the highlight reels of others, as it can be detrimental. Instead, I encourage you to find something beautiful even in...
2023-11-2314 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP375: Debunking the "getting in the room" and the BS you need to stop to make the most of those roomsIn this episode, I am talking about the impact of attending events, extending beyond merely listening to keynote speakers on stage. The true value lies in the connections and relationships formed with others. The network and the valuable knowledge gained are what truly matter. I believe you should prioritize utilizing the network and integrating what you have learned before moving on to the next event. The power of attending events lies in the connections made and the knowledge gained, rather than solely the act of speaking on stage.I also talk about the importance of avoiding quick solutions...
2023-11-2127 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP374: Putting the blinders on and owning the uniqueness in YOU with Jadyn Walden (Enneagram 4)In this episode, I am speaking with Jadyn Walden. Throughout the episode, we stress the value of embracing one's uniqueness and being comfortable with standing out from the crowd. We discuss how conforming to a predetermined mold or persona that does not align with one's true self will fail to resonate with others. Jadyn introduces her new community, Solovation, which centers around building confidence and reconnecting with oneself.I also share my own experience of resisting being labeled as the Enneagram girl, as I desired to bring a fresh perspective and be distinct. I emphasize that my uniqueness...
2023-11-1643 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP373: Enneagram 101 - Exploring the Underlying Emotions of Enneagram Centers of IntelligenceIn this episode, I dive into understanding the Centers of Intelligence and how this is key to understanding oneself and others. These centers, including the gut or instinctual center, the heart or feeling center, and the head or thinking center, house the nine Enneagram types. Depending on an individual's core Enneagram type, they default to a specific center of intelligence. Recognizing which center someone operates from provides insights into their underlying emotions, motives, and fears.For instance, the gut center (types 8, 9, and 1) is motivated by independence, autonomy, and control, with frustration or anger as their underlying emotion. The...
2023-11-1421 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP372: Stepping into your CEO Era with Katherine Horrigan (SP Enneagram 9)In this episode, my guest is Katherine Horrigan (SP Enneagram 9). Katherine is Founder/CEO of the Dance Academy of Virginia, based in the DC metro area, which in its 2 yrs has grown to a student body of over 900. Katherine is a mother, business leader, mentor, teacher, choreographer and former professional dancer.You can find her on Instagram @kathorrigan @danceacademyvaOr check our her website https://www.danceacademyva.com/The thinking center encompasses types five, six, and seven. These types are primarily driven by their thoughts and have a strong desire for knowledge, understanding, and intellectual stimulation. They...
2023-11-0946 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP371: Enneagram 101 - Cracking the Enneagram Code - A trip thru the 3 Centers of IntelligenceIn this episode, we explore the three centers of intelligence in the Enneagram: thinking, feeling, and instinctual. These centers group together different Enneagram types based on their primary drivers and motivations.The thinking center encompasses types five, six, and seven. These types are primarily driven by their thoughts and have a strong desire for knowledge, understanding, and intellectual stimulation. They rely on logical reasoning and their minds when making decisions.The feeling center includes types two, three, and four. These types are driven by their emotions and seek connection, validation, and personal significance. They are in...
2023-11-0721 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP 370: The Enneagram Hotline - Stepping out of fear and going from worrier to warrior with SP Enneagram 6 Brandi GilstrapIn this episode, I have my friend Brandi Gilstrap (SP Enneagram 6) as a guest. Brandi has had a lifetime of experience dealing with chaos, pain, hurt, and hiding behind it all. Her mission in this life is to help free people from the behaviors and habits that have kept them stuck and unfulfilled, to teach new behaviors of caring for yourself and to watch you grow into all you were born to be. Brandi and I discuss her experience of discovering her Enneagram type and what it meant for her. We explore the challenges of integrating this understanding into real-life...
2023-11-0250 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP369: Enneagram 101 - The symbol of change and evolution - Unlocking the Hexad - Embracing the twists and turns of lifeIn this episode, we are unlocking the Hexad in the Enneagram which represents the law of one and emphasizes the interconnectedness of all individuals.The Hexad and the Law of Seven are concepts within the Enneagram that offer a unique perspective on the non-linear nature of life and help individuals embrace the twists and turns they encounter. Represented by a six-pointed line in the Enneagram diagram, the Hexad symbolizes the Law of Seven, challenging conventional thinking about linear progression and encouraging individuals to let go of rigid expectations.Understanding the Hexad and the Law of Seven...
2023-10-3115 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP368: Empowering the hell outta yourself to be the best version of you with Kacia Ghetmiri (SP Enneagram 7)In this episode of Lead with the Enneagram, I am speaking with the amazing Kacia Ghetmiri. Kacia is the host of the popular podcast "Empower Her." More than a podcaster or event host, you can think of Kacia as your go-to hype woman who is always there to encourage you and share experiences with you. She pulls back the curtain on what it means to redefine success and build a fulfilling life. From business to relationships to everyday life, Kacia cuts through the BS fluff and has real, honest conversations that will help you get out of your...
2023-10-2650 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP367: Enneagram 101 - Triad Harmony: Dancing Through the Enneagram's TriangleIn this episode of Lead with the Enneagram, I dive into the significance of the triangle within the framework and diagram of the Enneagram. Enneagram 101 episodes feature powerful conversations, live typing sessions, and solo episodes that break down the dynamics of the Enneagram and their impact on life, career, and relationships. Understanding the interconnectedness of the different triangles within the Enneagram framework is crucial for personal transformation, effective communication, and overcoming obstacles. The significance of the triangle in the Enneagram symbolizes our interconnectedness and shared characteristics, regardless of our Enneagram types. This understanding helps us foster a sense...
2023-10-2414 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP366: Unleashing Your Inner MVP: Are You Playing for Others or YourselfIn this episode of Lead With The Enneagram, I am getting super vulnerable as I share the importance of being the MVP in your own life rather than constantly seeking validation from others. I share a personal story from the mastermind event I attended and the value of freely giving your gifts without expecting anything in return. I also dive into the significance of understanding your motives and discerning whether actions come from a place of love and service or fear and ego. I discuss the importance of understanding and embracing our emotions to facilitate healing...
2023-10-2029 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP365: Enneagram 101 - Exploring the why behind the Enneagram's Circular shape and using it for a spiritual experienceIn this episode of Lead with the Enneagram, I dive into the spiritual meaning of the Enneagram's circular shape. The circular shape symbolizes wholeness, unity, and interconnectedness. Each of the nine Enneagram types has a unique expression and perspective, but together they create a diverse and compassionate understanding of the world. Tune in to discover the spiritual dimensions of the Enneagram's circularity.I discuss how the Enneagram serves as a roadmap to discovering your most authentic self. By understanding your Enneagram type, you gain valuable insights into your tendencies, blind spots, and inner landscape. Armed with this knowledge...
2023-10-1818 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP364: Making the most of all the options with Surbhi Dedhia (SX Enneagram 7)In this episode, we dive into integrating and leveraging your Enneagram type to become a powerful leader in your life. Our guest, Surbhi Dedhia, an Enneagram 7, shares her insights as an entrepreneur, mom, and fellow podcaster. Serby is the founder of Digital Genie, a boutique marketing consulting company, as well as jotmybio.com, a personal bio writing service. Surbhi hosts The Making of a Thought Leader podcast with an aim to encourage entrepreneurs to step up and build their thought leadership in their niche, systematically. Surbhi’s past work experience with global consulting companies has helped her build B2...
2023-10-1243 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP363: Enneagram 101 - Why the enneagram is the holy grail of personal development tools.In this episode I am talking about the Enneagram being the holy grail of personal development tools. Understanding the "why" behind our actions and the actions of others is crucial for true understanding and transformation. The Enneagram goes beyond surface-level behaviors and delves into the underlying motivations, defense mechanisms, and fears that drive our thoughts, feelings, and actions. By comprehending the reasons behind our actions, we can cultivate compassion, empathy, and understanding for ourselves and others. This understanding empowers us to make positive changes and break free from repetitive cycles that may be holding us back.When we...
2023-10-1017 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP362: It all begins and ends with YOU! Integration with the Enneagram to accelerate your transformation.In this episode, I reflect on a recent workshop I did for a mastermind group. This workshop reflected to me all over again the power of bringing people together to learn about themselves and others, and how the Enneagram can create a sense of being seen and understood. It’s not enough just to know about the Enneagram, that’s not where the magic happens, the magic is in the integration. True transformation happens when you know how to integrate what you have learned into your life.The Enneagram is a means to not only understand yourself, but also...
2023-10-0614 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP361: ENNEAGRAM 101 - What is the Enneagram and why do you need it in your life?In this episode, I am talking about the importance of the Enneagram in our lives and its significance in personal transformation. The Enneagram is not just a trendy label, but a powerful tool for understanding yourself and others. I share with with you how I first resisted the Enneagram, but how it has not only had a massive impact on my life, but how it has helped shape me and better understand not just who I am, but the people in my life I care the most about. It has helped me to navigate difficult conversations, understand different perspectives, and...
2023-10-0425 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP360: Understanding the WHY behind your procrastination and how to break the cycle of it.In this episode, I am talking all about procrastination, how it affects high achievers and the importance of understanding the root cause behind procrastination and approaching it with compassion and grace. Procrastination is a common struggle for everyone and often stems from a fear of vulnerability or the anticipation of being exposed. The fear of conflict, betrayal, or violation may arise from pursuing your dreams and by recognizing and acknowledging these fears, you can approach them with compassion and empathy, ultimately embracing the discomfort rather than avoiding it. By doing so, you can develop new systems and tools...
2023-09-2922 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP359: Get on The Enneagram Hotline - Fun, exciting & new ways to learn how to use this tool in your lifeIn this episode I am letting you inside all that we have been working on behind the scenes for the podcast! I am developing new and valuable methods for integrating the Enneagram into your life and I want to provide you not only with knowledge about the Enneagram but also with practical strategies to apply it in both your personal and professional life. When I've interviewed people in the past or done hot seat coaching, those are the episodes you love the most. You love hearing people just like you. learning about themselves and talking about the Enneagram...
2023-09-2614 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP358: Season 2 coming in Hot - Has self-abandonment become the sneaky go to in your life?Welcome to Season 2 of Lead with the Enneagram - things are about to get very real. On this episode of Lead with the Enneagram, I dive into the concept of self-abandonment and its profound impact on our relationships and overall well-being. Self-abandonment is often done with the intention of being a better partner, friend, or family member. However, this behavior actually hinders personal growth and deprives others of the opportunity to learn from their own experiences.I share personal examples of my own codependent tendencies in various relationships, highlighting the different ways in which self-abandonment can manifest.
2023-09-2144 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP352: Are You Really Ready for A Pivot, Or Are You Running Scared? How to Use the Enneagram to Know For Sure!Many of us are standing at life's crossroads, grappling with situations that keep us awake at night or yearning for a transformative shift forward.We crave change, yet distinguishing between genuine motivations and those driven by a desire to escape pain or discomfort can be challenging.And making decisions from a place of fear or avoidance will only lead us astray, diverting us from our true purpose while hindering our personal growth.As we navigate the complexities of making important choices—whether in our businesses, relationships, health, or as parents—it’s critical to ensure that these decisi...
2023-06-2924 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP346: Mistyped!!! The Most Common Enneagram Mistypes and What To Do About It If You Are MistypedDo you know if you are accurately typed on the Enneagram? In a world where online quizzes are shockingly inaccurate 65 to 70% of the time, it's time to shed light on the complexities of mistyping and why it happens so frequently. Because if you're seeking to harness the Enneagram's transformative potential, proper typing is the vital first step, paving the way for a profound understanding of ourselves and others and unlocking the door to self-growth and discovery. In this episode of the "Lead With The Enneagram" podcast, we'll discuss the importance of being accurately typed on the Enneagram...
2023-06-0825 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP323: The Enneagram Wings - You Have More Than One, and if You Aren't Using Them Both, it May Be Why You are So StuckYour Enneagram wings are like the bookends that hold together the core of who you truly are, reflecting the Divine's design for you — before the world came and kicked you in the teeth. That's right! But so many people get it wrong. Sometimes people say they are something like a 3w4 or a 5w6. But that's different from how it works. In addition to your core type, your wings are essential to the Enneagram framework. We dream of flying and soaring to all the places we desire and deserve, and we're even willing to put in...
2023-03-0217 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP313: Finding the 'Holistic' Leader in You - Using the Enneagram to be & Stay in FlowMost of us are wearing many hats. We're parents and partners, we have our careers and great friendships we want to maintain, and we want growth in all of it while having time to stretch and grow in our own self-awareness. It. Can. Be. A. Lot. And things can start to pile up as we strive to balance our multiple roles and responsibilities, especially when we feel like we're all over the place or living our lives on autopilot. This can negatively affect our personal and professional relationships, energy levels, and even our physical health. ...
2023-01-2626 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP307: Use The Enneagram to Transform Your Partnerships—Personally and Professionally"You can't have all the great parts of your life without polarity; you have to have some contrast. Sometimes the hard things, the endings of things, or the rejuvenation of partnerships is exactly the thing that needs to happen." Often, the holiday season brings up many of the cracks in the foundation of the most significant partnerships in your life, whether family, romantic, or even business partnerships. If you are like me, 2022 was very eye-opening personally and professionally, and I recognized that some of the partnerships I had hooked to my trailer weren't working the way I wanted...
2023-01-0524 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP301: The Fine Line Between Compassion and Codependency. Use The Enneagram to Honor Your Relationships"Codependency is one of the hardest things to break even professionally."One of the things that comes up a lot when I am coaching is an admission of feeling responsible for other people's feelings. And that can sneak right in no matter which Enneagram Type you are. But allowing that into any relationship can create an element of inauthenticity and, worse, codependency. And when you feel it is your responsibility to dictate how other people feel about something, you are creating an energy tourniquet that will block everything else that is good in your...
2022-12-1527 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP300: The Big 300! How the Enneagram Can Help You Accelerate the Transformation of Your Whole LifeEpisode 300! Can you believe it? I couldn't have reached 300 episodes without your belief in what I'm sharing with you and, by extension, your sharing with others.The fact that you choose to spend time listening to me means a lot to me, and I'm passionate about sharing the tools of the Enneagram with you to help you improve and thrive in ALL five areas of your life. Today, on The Leadership Formula, I'm sharing information about how the Enneagram has helped me thrive in all areas of my life, and the passion behind what...
2022-12-1325 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP299: Don't Go into Another Year NOT Being Anything but YOU! The Top 5 Ways to UNSTUCK Yourself"We were all designed with a unique, beautiful calling on our life with a unique personality and disposition. But if you're feeling blah, or like, you're not stepping into that version of yourself that you know is inside you, or you're not feeling fulfilled, you're stuck." 2022 is going to be ending soon. Having just experienced the BEST year of your life, you may be closing the calendar in wonder. Or you'll be tossing the calendar into the garbage can on December 31, determined never to revisit 2022. Or you're somewhere in between because it's been a...
2022-12-0832 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP298: Find The Real Path to Your True, Authentic Self Using the Enneagram"What would your life look like if you lived your authentic truth?"The word authentic is a buzzword right now. And we can all scroll social any day and see and hear what authenticity means to someone with a big Instagram following. But what does it really mean? And more importantly, what does authenticity mean to YOU?A lot of times, when we are not living lives true to who we are, we sidestep dealing with our feelings by throwing ourselves into other things, like work, people, or jam-packed calendars...
2022-12-0628 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP297: Blindsides & Betrayal in Adult Friendship - How to Grow From it and Stay Open for the Right People for You Using the Enneagram"No matter how much pure intention you put into the world, it doesn't mean it's always going to be received that way or responded to as though it was."Often, we're going along just fine, and then something happens, and a member of our supporting cast—our friends or business besties—decides, without warning, that their part in our life story is over. This can come in different packaging, from betrayal to even being ghosted. But no matter what format the end of your friendship takes, finding out someone you thought would always be in y...
2022-12-0133 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP296: Blindsided by a Romantic Partner - How You Can Turn That Pain into Something Beautiful Even While You are in the Middle of It."Blindsides always come down to a breakdown in communication."A broken romantic relationship is always painful. But we're most vulnerable when the relationship breakdown comes as a surprise. One minute, everything is fine; and the next, you've been blindsided. So how can you get over being blindsided by a breakup? Today, on The Leadership Formula, I'm sharing the personal story of what I went through when my marriage ended, how it activated every unhealthy part of my Enneagram 8 self, and why what came next was even worse. I'll walk you...
2022-11-3028 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP295: When it is Hard to Feel Thankful - Some Love and Something Special for YOU"Every new relationship and experience in our life is here to grow us and teach us. "This week social media is filled with pictures of perfect turkeys, board game nights, and smiling, happy families gathering for Thanksgiving pictures. Yet, the holidays are often bittersweet for many of us. And watching other people's highlight reels can make us question our worth, leaving us wondering why we are stuck in a Groundhog Day style cycle of crap. But the good news is, you always have the opportunity to turn something shitty into something beautiful....
2022-11-2417 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP294: Health Blindsides - How Getting Rocked in The Most Vulnerable Way Can Change Your Legacy Forever"Taking care of our health is so super important. You have to honor the vessel. But even in honoring the vessel, it doesn't guarantee that nothing is going to happen." Have you ever faced a health blindside? Either your own or that of someone you love? When faced with your own mortality or that of someone you love, it can rock your world, taking you to your knees in the pit of the unknown. We have two choices. We can wallow in the grief and despair of our situation, or we can take the...
2022-11-2224 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP293: Financial Blindsides -How losing it All Can Actually Be a Blessing. Using the Enneagram to Navigate That Uncertainty."You're gonna have to find a pain point that is uncomfortable enough for you to do what is required to be in that element of greatness that I know you have in you."With record inflation, this year has been financially rocky for most of the world. And it's not the first time. Couple that with the other high-stress situations you might be experiencing in your life, and things can begin to feel desperate. But times like these can actually force our hand of change. Sometimes for the worse, but often for the better.
2022-11-1727 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP292: Blindsides- Do They Derail You or Do You Allow Them To Help You Prevail! How The Enneagram Can Help You Move Thru the Mess"Becoming bulletproof is contingent on the maintenance of our spiritual condition." Nobody is immune to being blindsided.You can experience financial blindsides when without warning, your client base or revenue dries up, and your business goes belly up.Or a doctor can deliver an unexpected and challenging diagnosis for you or someone you love that changes your way of life. We were all blindsided by the pandemic when without warning, we could no longer live or work the way we once had. But how do you turn the blindsides that...
2022-11-1518 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP291: Do You Suffer From "Purpose Anxiety"? How To Recognize It and Move Thru It To Live Your PurposeAnxiety can hit us at any age for any reason, especially when taking the next BIG step in our lives. You might be anxious about going to college or picking the wrong major.Or maybe you are anxious about becoming a parent or "getting it right" for your child's future. Or maybe you're working a j.o.b. to put food on the table, but every day when you wake up, your heart is screaming that you are meant for more. Many of us are living with an intense need to understand...
2022-11-1024 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP290: The Enneagram Tritypes. What Is It, And How Can It Help You Step Into The Best Version Of YourselfRecently I was doing an offsite with a team at Google, and I was talking to the Enneagram 1 leader of the group. As she gave me the background on each person who would be there, she mentioned one she struggles to interact harmoniously with. I soon discovered they are the same Enneagram Type and same subtype, yet they each approach life much differently. Why was that? Because their Tritype and where they dominate in the Centers of Intelligence were completely different. On this episode of The Leadership Formula, I am diving deep...
2022-11-0821 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP289: {Special Series} What it's like to be an Enneagram Nine - Heart, Mind, and Soul with Taylor Murphy- The PeacemakerThe Enneagram 9 is the Adaptive Peacemaker. Got conflict? They don't want it and will go out of their way to avoid in, in their quest to maintain peace and harmony at any cost. Which sometimes causes them to go along with others' wishes in relationships or career situations even when it doesn't meet their needs.But this go-along-to-get-along attitude can lead them to feel resentment towards others and even themselves, and this quest for peace can leave them energetically bankrupt and looking like a horizontal sloth, belly up with Ho Hos at the ready, and binging Netflix for...
2022-11-0334 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP288: Being an Enneagram Nine - The Good, Beautiful, Hard, and Ugly of the PeacemakerEnneagram 9 is the Adaptive Peacemaker. They are easy to get along with and make others feel accepted, heard, and understood in their presence. When they're at their best, the Enneagram 9 is like the Yoda of the Enneagram, they genuinely see and accept potential in other people—they’re a great hype squad. Those are their superpowers, but sometimes their agreeable, understanding, patient, and supportive ways can be a thorn in their sides, leaving them feeling like their voice doesn't matter, leading to resentment that keeps them stuck.So, how can Enneagram 9s learn to reco...
2022-11-0134 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP286: Being an Enneagram Eight - The Good, Beautiful, Hard, and Ugly of the ChallengerEnneagram 8s are motivated by a need to be strong and in control. They are take charge, decisive, aggressive, power-oriented, and magnetic. Self-sufficient autonomy is essential to an 8, and they have their own way of influencing others, including within large and powerful organizations.Those are their superpowers, but when they are in an unhealthy space or acting in their ego, those same superpowers can be like a wrecking ball on the life of an Enneagram 8. So, how can Enneagram 8s overcome their fear of being vulnerable to realize the connection and intimacy they so desperately crave...
2022-10-2527 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP284: {Special Series} Being an Enneagram Seven - The Good, Beautiful, Hard, and Ugly of the Enthusiast"Enneagram Sevens can develop an addictive cycle of fun-filling, but not fulfilling experiences."Enneagram 7s are the most optimistic of the Enneagram Types. The Enthusiastic Visionary often acts as the joy meter in their circle of family and friends. They love spontaneity and approach life as an adventure, blazing a trail to an exciting future. But, when they aren't at their best, their insatiable search for fulfillment and FOMO can sometimes lead them to become impulsive and unfocused, leaving them dissatisfied. So, how can Enneagram 7s stop chasing the excitement of the next big...
2022-10-1829 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP283: {Special Series} What It's Like to Be An Enneagram Six - Heart, Mind, And Soul With Sara Craig- The Loyalist"I've often said everyone needs an Enneagram Six in their life because they keep our butts out of trouble." As The Loyalist, Enneagram 6s can troubleshoot and are prepared for the worst-case scenario in any situation.But all that planning, and preparation can lead to anxiety, insecurity, and a lack of enjoyment in life. So, how can Enneagram Type 6s learn to stop worrying so much and trust their instincts to enjoy the moment more? Today on the show, Sara Craig joins me. A podcast listener, her family had their Enneagram types...
2022-10-1336 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP280: Being an Enneagram Five - The Good, Beautiful, Hard, and Ugly of the InvestigatorAt their best, Wise Enneagram 5s are visionaries who approach life in a logical way, sidestepping emotion when needed. Innovative and pioneering, objectivity and knowledge are crucial to 5s.Their intellectual interests enable them to build expertise in various fields, topics, and theories. Especially their areas of interest. But, when they're not in a great place, 5s may seem intellectually arrogant and disconnected from emotion as they retreat into their minds to avoid being overwhelmed. So, how can Enneagram 5s stop hoarding their resources, information, and energy, start sharing their impactful wisdom with the...
2022-10-0424 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP278: Being an Enneagram Four- The Good, Beautiful, Hard, and Ugly of the Individualist/RomanticFeelings and self-expression are important to Enneagram 4s. Romantics at heart, they appreciate creating meaning for themselves and others. Unafraid of deep emotions, they courageously ask the deep questions and then hold space without judgment for those willing to answer. Enneagram 4s are motivated by a need to be unique and authentic, often leading them to become purpose-driven creatives sharing their inspiring contributions with the world. But, when they're not in a great place, they compare themselves to others causing them to get stuck in an unhealthy loop of melancholy and envy. So, how...
2022-09-2725 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP273: {Special Series} Being an Enneagram Two - The Good, Beautiful, Hard, and Ugly of the HelperEnneagram 2s are very warm, giving, and caring. Their gift is their intuitive ability to anticipate the needs of others or determine the exact 'right thing' for any situation. People-centered and relationship-focused, they excel in careers demanding engagement with people and clients. Known as the Considerate Helper, Enneagram Type 2s are the connectors of the Enneagram. But, they're often unaware of their subconscious need to over-give to get love and appreciation.So, how can 2s learn to stop over-giving and set healthy boundaries?On this episode of The Leadership Formula...
2022-09-0626 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP271: {Special Series} Being an Enneagram One- The Good, Beautiful, Hard, and Ugly of the ReformerEnneagram type 1s value integrity and lead by example. They walk their talk and do what they say they're going to do.They are super quality-minded, have a knack for detail, and pay attention to quality and the application of standards. As you know, I like to call Enneagram 1s the 'sheriff in town' because of their strong sense of right and wrong and their propensity toward black-and-white thinking. They are the first person you should call when you need an accountability partner to stay on track.But those same qualities can also get...
2022-08-3024 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP268: {BTE – Big Tracy Energy} What to Do When the People Who Love You Don’t Support You the Way You Would LikeYou've been taught, told, and modeled things that keep you stuck.From multimillionaires and CEOs, to psychologists, doctors, and lawyers, guilt and shame are the number one thing people say hold them back. A lot of the time those feelings are handed to us due to a lack of support from those we love the most. You are no different. And those same emotions can keep you stuck too.But you get only one shot at this life. So, how do you take steps to repair the parts of yourself...
2022-08-1821 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP265: [BTE- Big Tracy Energy] You Say You Want to Make an IMPACT in This World - THIS is What is Required of YouImpact is not one size fits all.One of the things I often hear from my clients and even in my DMs on Instagram is that you want to make an impact. You want to make a difference and help people. The truth is whatever impact you want to make is going to require something of you. And we're not all wired the same. What may be right for someone else might leave you feeling drained, out of your depth, and ready to quit. So how do you determine which type of impact will...
2022-08-0215 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP263: {BTE - Big Tracy Energy} Know When to Hold 'em - Know When to Fold 'em - Making Room for the Abundance You Desire is MessyAbundance and Manifesting are two of the most [over] used words in the self-growth industry. Many of you are consuming all the information, taking every course, and hiring coaches and strategists on your quest for more growth.But are you growing in the way that you wanted to? So often, we continue to consume because we believe there's something we're missing somewhere. I'm here to tell you—there's not. But to make room for the abundance you desire, you must integrate ALL you've learned. And that's the hardest pa...
2022-07-2613 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP256: You Work to Understand Yourself, Self-Awareness Becomes Your Superpower and Unlocks Everything You Want Personally and ProfessionallySelf-awareness is a superpower. Most of us want to grow and stretch toward the person we know we are meant to be so that we can live out our life's purpose. We read the books, spend the money to join the programs, but even then, the self-awareness stumbling blocks can trip us up. We can end up caught in a loop of self-discovery followed by flat-lining or worse, self-implosion. But what if there was another way? A path filled with the right tools for the job so you can progress on your quest to...
2022-06-3025 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP248: Please DON'T Do This - Enneagram Etiquette - How NOT to Use This Powerful ToolSo many of you are recognizing the power of integrating the Enneagram into your life.You're discovering the root of why you do what you do and communicating in a way that allows other people to see the truth in your heart instead of hiding behind your fears. You want this beautiful gift for everyone in your circle of influence.But that comes with a warning. On this episode of The Leadership Formula, we're taking a deep dive into Enneagram etiquette and how NOT to use the Enneagram. I walk...
2022-05-2622 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP244: Special Episode - Why You Are Really Afraid To Be SEEN, and How To Have a Visibility Breakthrough with Special Guest Amber LilyestromWe are all here because we have a vital message to share with the world.But so many of us are not showing up, instead we’re choosing to watch other people show up while we zone out on too much screen time instead of sharing our own message. Amber Lilyestrom is a transformational branding strategist and business coach, best-selling author, and speaker who has been featured in Forbes and Working Mother Magazine. Her mission is to empower women to become sought-after thought leaders and experts in the online space. She's also the host of The Am...
2022-05-1246 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP240: What Each Enneagram Type is REALLY Thinking When You are Talking to ThemCommunication is a two-way street between the communicator and the listener. But 80% or more of communication is not the words we use, but in our speech patterns and the nonverbal ways we communicate our energy to the other person. The Enneagram helps honor each of our communication strengths so we can be understood and understand others more effectively.On this episode of The Leadership Formula, I explain what each of the other Enneagram types might be thinking when you're talking to them. We’re talking about how you can develop next-level awareness when you are talking to...
2022-04-2825 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP212: Client Spotlight with Steph Purdy—Slowing Down to Speed Up with a Feisty Enneagram 3Sometimes you have to slow down in order to speed up. But for a feisty Enneagram 3, ‘too fast’ is a foreign concept.Can slowing down really get you to the goal line faster and with less effort? And how can we leverage the framework of the Enneagram to make sure we’re in the right race?Steph Purdy is the Performance Coach behind 1 Good Push, a program designed to help determined men get what they really want out of life. As a driven Enneagram 3, Steph owns multiple businesses and serves as the Canadian Liaison for DECK Leader...
2022-01-2050 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP170: What Would the ‘Little You’ Do? Tips to Help You Dive Into the REAL Work Holding You BackIf you’re not where you want to be in your life, but you can’t figure out why you keep procrastinating or playing small or sabotaging yourself, then it’s time to ask what Little You would do.You see, there’s a child inside each and every one of us. A child who’s still feeling a lot of pain from the traumas they endured.And until you can learn to identify what Little You needs when you’re triggered, you’ll continue to fall back on the coping mechanisms that kept you safe as a kid—but a...
2021-08-0529 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’MalleyEP164: [Part 2] Now I Know Why Don’t Have the Life I Desire, But WHAT Do I Do About It? Let's Get Down to Business—with Tiffany CarterYes, you need strategy to build a successful business.But all the best strategy in the world doesn’t mean jack if you’ve got some stuff rumbling beneath the surface. Stuff that you hope nobody finds out about. Stuff that you’re not willing to address. Keep avoiding the inner work and ignoring your pain, and it will come in like a tsunami and take you (and your business) out.Beyond being my best friend, Tiffany Carter is the Top Business Strategist and Digital Marketing Expert behind ProjectME with Tiffany, a coaching practice and po...
2021-07-1555 minThe Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’Malley75: How to get authentic and really move the needle in network marketing, with Melissa MartinGetting authentically aligned with yourself This week’s guest has a beautiful soul and is going to be a gift to everyone who listens. Melissa Martin is all about network marketing and how to get authentically aligned with yourself and where you are going. She has developed a coaching system and program to get you get clear on the legacy you want to leave behind, being a better leader, how to collaborate and not imitate, and drops some beautiful golden nuggets of knowledge throughout this episode. Listen to this episode if you are in network marketing, re...
2020-09-0343 min