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Transactional Love3.7: Retail Therapy with Rajul Lakhotia . Dubai | Concious Travel, Good Karma, Buying with Intention, The Pursuit of BeautyJoin Wendi and Norma as we sit down with our friend, Rajul Lakhotia, dialing in from across the globe in Dubai. We crossed paths with Rajul at a beautiful Summer camp for women in the Southwest of France (see TL♡ Episode 8, Season 1) and instantly became fast friends, an inspiring woman we wanted on the pod for another #RetailTherapy convo. Indian by roots, strategist by mind, artist by heart, Rajul is a lover of chai, travel, yoga, choices and soulful conversations. We delve into exploring oneself through presence, self reflection, cooking, travel and yoga. Rajul reminds us that ou...2025-05-2149 min
Transactional Love3.6: Aaron Jackson, Founder + Designer of Think Outside . Sydney, Australia | Movement in Art, Impact through Influence, Economic Community Empowerment"We believe in supporting and working with Mother Nature; we take old and abandoned materials and upcycle them into stunning works-of-art." | Think Outside, Founded by Aaron JacksonIn this special episode, Wendi and Norma welcome Aaron Jackson dialing in from across the Pacific, where he is based in Sydney, Australia. Aaron Jackson is the award-winning designer and creator behind Think Outside. A multi-talented and passionate businessman, Aaron’s journey and experiences have shaped his life and inspired the creation of unique and remarkable hand-crafted products for people to enjoy in their homes and gardens. An artisan from a v...2025-04-251h 04
Transactional Love3.5: "The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership" By John C. Maxwell | Unboxing with Wendi & NormaWelcome back, Lovers! Wendi and Norma Unbox the book, "The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership" By John C. Maxwell, which explores the "laws" of effective leadership as the greatest determinant of success. Maxwell shares practical insights and compelling stories through shared qualities of historical leaders and the pivotal role they play in inspiring others to follow their vision. We are so happy you're here, thank you for listening in with us! Join us over on Patreon at the link below to listen into member-only episodes and TL♡ Community content: Circle, Besties and Co-creators. ♡ Join us on Patr...2025-04-0217 min
Transactional Love3.4: TL♡ National Drink Wine Day with Wendi & Norma | *Patreon Teaser* Full Episode Link in Show Notes*TL♡ Patreon Teaser* | Full episode at the link below.Welcome back to Transactional Love: Season 3! This is a very fun episode teaser for our incredible TL♡ Patreon family, our Transactional Lovers. We are talking all things wine blind tastings, a sneak peek of what's ahead for our TL♡ Merch line drop, and a giggly Galentine's rapid-fire of Vogue bestie questions to dig in deeper to your TL♡ Hosts.How do two best friends get to know each other even better? Last month, we celebrated National Drink Wine Day with Vogue’s questions to ask your best frien...2025-03-2203 min
Transactional Love3.3: Retail Therapy with Crystal | Fluidity of Self Expression, Brand Inclusivity + Conciousness, Positive Impact of Representation in Social MediaJoin Wendi and Norma as we sit down with our dear friend, Crystal, for a fun wine-weekend Retail Therapy episode. We dive deep into the transformative power of inclusivity and self-expression. From exploring the fluidity of fashion to the positive impact of thoughtful brand choices, Crystal reminds us that our shopping decisions are more than just transactions—they're opportunities to express who we are and support brands that reflect our values. Discover how gender-neutral fashion is making waves and why representation matters in every aspect of our lives—from the clothes we wear to the authenticity we show on socia...2025-02-0258 min
Transactional Love3.2: "The Molecule of More" By Daniel Lieberman, MD + Michael Long | Unboxing with Wendi & NormaWelcome back, Lovers! Wendi and Norma Unbox the book, "The Molecule of More," by Dan Lieberman, MD & Michael Long, which explores the role of dopamine, a neurotransmitter often associated with pleasure and reward. Dopamine drives our desires and behaviors, particularly our tendency to constantly seek "more" in various aspects of life. It delves deep into different facets of dopamine's function, from its basic mechanisms to its influence on decision-making, addiction, and social interactions. Dopamine is brain chemical which essentially acts as a desire molecule that motivates us to seek more, whether it be love, success, or even risky pursuits, su...2024-12-0920 min
Transactional Love3.1: Cordelia Coffee Flower Shop in Paris, France by Cordelia de Castellane | Beauty in Atmosphere, Inclusive Hospitality, Authenticity for Exploring our own Personal TouchCordelia Coffee Flower Shop, Paris France | Welcome to Season 3 and our 1 year 11.11 anniversary to our TL♡ Lover family! In this special episode, Wendi and Norma take you to Paris to welcome Michelle Schmill of Cordelia Coffee Flower Shop which is nestled in the Rue du Bac in the heart of Paris's left bank. Cordelia Coffee Flower Shop is conceived, designed and curated by Cordelia De Castellane, creative director of Dior Maison and Baby Dior as well as the designer of many of Paris's finest hospitality spaces. The joyful boutique is a subtle blend of Parisian elegance, French history, fresh fl...2024-11-1132 min
Transactional LoveSeason 2 Insights ♡ with Wendi & NormaHello to our avid Lover fam! That's a wrap on Season 2! Today we unpack what we learned this whole season, what our takeaways are, what our experiences abroad and at home have been, and share a sneak peek of what is ahead. We've had so many magical moments, insights, aha-moments, inspiration, a whole lot of laughs, and whole lot of wine :) Join us for Season 3 capsule launch on November 11. We are so grateful you're here with us! #Transactwithlove at the links below:♡ Join us on Patreon for early access, exclusive member-only episodes and more: patreon.co...2024-10-1644 min
Transactional Love2.11: Porchfest Benicia ♫ Part II of II - Ex Capitals Band | Mary Farmar School of Rock StageWelcome back to Transactional Love♡. Wendi and Norma bring you a special two-part episode, stories that are near and dear to both of our hearts. Focused on our town, Benicia, California, we have a behind-the-scenes look into Porchfest Benicia 2024, presented by Benicia Magazine.If you haven't been to a Porchfest, this special event is a local, grassroots live music festival that takes place on home porches, local businesses, and venues throughout the US. Porchfest Benicia, on September 21st, 2024, is a celebration of community and a testament to the power of music to bring us together. This music fe...2024-09-1255 min
Transactional Love2.10: Porchfest Benicia ♫ Part I of II - Jerry Hayes, Former Benicia Mayor and Steward of Benicia History | Mary Farmar School of Rock StageWelcome back to Transactional Love♡. Wendi and Norma bring you this very special two-part series episode, a story that is near and dear to both of our hearts. Focused on our town, Benicia, California, we have a behind-the-scenes look into Porchfest Benicia 2024, presented by Benicia Magazine.If you haven't been to a Porchfest, this special event is a local, grassroots live music festival that takes place on home porches, local businesses, and venues throughout the US. Porchfest Benicia, on September 21st, 2024, is a celebration of community and a testament to the power of music to bring our us...2024-08-0631 min
Transactional Love2.9: Philip Soucy, Ceramicist, Artist + Founder of The Soucy Shop | The Commerce of Art, Honesty in Ceramics, Speaking + Dancing in Clay, Trusting your LightWelcome back to Transactional Love. In this special episode, Wendi and Norma welcome Philip Soucy, internationally-acclaimed Ceramicist, Artist + Founder of The Soucy Shop. Philip has exhibited at The Clayarch Gimhae Museum in South Korea and Cranbrook Art Museum and has been featured in publications throughout the art world, such as Artforum. His work explores the accumulation of experiences, how repetition and layering can produce new forms through the process of making. We try something a bit different in this episode where we unbox Phillip's beautiful ceramic art while we're speaking with him to learn about his inspiring journey around the...2024-07-141h 25
Transactional Love2.9: Philip Soucy, Ceramicist, Artist + Founder of The Soucy Shop | The Commerce of Art, Honesty in Ceramics, Speaking + Dancing in Clay, Trusting your LightWelcome back to Transactional Love. In this special episode, Wendi and Norma welcome Philip Soucy, internationally-acclaimed Ceramicist, Artist + Founder of The Soucy Shop. Philip has exhibited at The Clayarch Gimhae Museum in South Korea and Cranbrook Art Museum and has been featured in publications throughout the art world, such as Artforum. His work explores the accumulation of experiences, how repetition and layering can produce new forms through the process of making. We try something a bit different in this episode where we unbox Phillip's beautiful ceramic art while we're speaking with him to learn about his inspiring journey around the...2024-07-141h 25
Transactional Love2.8: Unboxing with Wendi & Norma | The Psychology of Selling by Brian Tracy, Insights on 6 Practices to Increase Success in Business Sales and Selling for OurselvesWelcome back to TL♡. In this episode, Wendi and Norma Unbox the book, The Psychology of Selling by Brian Tracy, published in 2006. We discuss 6 practices you can implement today to increase success in selling, not only in business, but in everyday life. Join us over on Patreon at the link below to listen into member-only episodes and TL♡ Community content: Circle, Besties and Co-creators. ♡ Join us on Patreon for early access, exclusive member-only episodes and more: patreon.com/TransactionalLove♡ Join our Community on IG: @transactionallove ♡ Say hello to Wendi & Norma: Hello@transactionallove.org♡ Lea...2024-06-0715 min
Transactional Love2.7: Andrea Escobar, Designer + Founder of Andrea Escobar Studio | Architecture as poetry, Structure and beauty, Behavior and emotion to the spatial environmentWelcome back to Transactional Love. Wendi and Norma welcome a dear friend and passionate designer, Andrea Escobar. Andrea is the founder of Andrea Escobar Studio, where she explores the evolving concept of home and how it changes over time and from person to person. Raised in Tijuana, Mexico and educated in architecture at Cal Poly San Luis Obispo, Andrea has over 10 years of professional experience in high-end residential projects in the San Francisco Bay Area. Her studio, reflects her commitment to quality and originality, blending contemporary elegance with practical, operational design. Andrea's current work includes consulting services with architects...2024-05-3144 min
Transactional Love2.6: TL♡ Benicia Magazine Interview | *Patreon Teaser* Full Episode Link in Show NotesWelcome back to Transactional Love. In this *Patreon member-only* episode, Wendi and Norma Speak with Caitlin Emmett of Benicia Magazine to do a fun interview on the TL♡ podcast, what started this passion project of ours, and a bit more into our own backgrounds. We are so happy to share this episode with you. For the full episode visit the Patreon link below.About Benicia Magazine | Celebrating 16 years, Benicia Magazine is the go-to source for County. Covering feature stories that engage readers who look forward to every issue, we extend our reach with Beniciamagazine.com, the anchor in...2024-05-3101 min
Transactional Love2.5: Unboxing with Wendi & Norma | The Tortured Poets Department by Taylor Swift *Patreon Teaser* 31:13 Full Episode Link in Show NotesWelcome back to TL♡. It's been a month since TTPD has been ours. We are unboxing The Tortured Poets Department by Taylor Swift with Wendi & Norma. We reflect and ruminate on the beauty, the heartbreak and the poetry of it all. Join us over on Patreon to listen into the full 31:13 minute convo, click on the link below & join the TL♡ Community: Circle, Besties and Co-creators. ♡ Join us on Patreon for early access, exclusive member-only episodes and more: patreon.com/TransactionalLove♡ Join our Community on IG: @transactionallove ♡ Say hello to Wendi & Norma: Hello@transactio...2024-05-2313 min
Transactional Love2.4: Chef Kyle Young, Executive Chef of The Cafe at the Inn Benicia | Complex Art of Simple, Informal Training, Kitchens as Chapters, Hospitality Is Not One-Size-Fits-AllWelcome back to season two with Wendi & Norma, welcoming our friend and local Chef Kyle Young. Born and raised in Tucson, Arizona, Chef Kyle realized his love for cooking by accident. As a teenager, Chef Kyle had his first restaurant experience in his first job as a dishwasher. Since then and throughout his career he has become a self-taught, award-winning chef, discovering his love of ingredients and garden-reflective, "field-to-fork" menus through rewarding chapters training in Napa kitchens including Brix, Bardessono, Meadowood, The French Laundry and most recently Provisions in Vallejo, California. Today he joins us as the Executive Chef...2024-04-2954 min
Transactional Love2.3: Unboxing with Wendi & Norma | *Patreon Teaser* Full Episode Link in Show NotesWelcome back to TL♡. Join us over on Patreon for this *exclusive member-only* episode of Unboxing with Wendi & Norma. To listen into the full convo and product details, click on the Patreon link below & join the TL♡ Community: Circle, Besties and Co-creators. ♡ Join us on Patreon for early access, exclusive member-only episodes and more: patreon.com/TransactionalLove♡ Join our Community on IG: @transactionallove ♡ Say hello to Wendi & Norma: Hello@transactionallove.org♡ Learn more about Transactional Love Podcast by Wendi & Norma: https://transactionallove.org/2024-04-2501 min
Transactional Love2.2: Wendi Shavon, Founder of The Garden Somm, Sweetness & Light Flowers, Sanctuary of Self Yoga | Insights on Connection, Cultivating, and CommunityFor our second season 2 drop, we have a very special episode with our very own Wendi Shavon. Wendi is the founder of three unique business ventures that all seamlessly weave together through wine, flowers and yoga. Wendi is the Founder of The Garden Somm, Sweetness & Light Flowers, and the Sanctuary Of Self Yoga. We're flipping the script as she's the guest today. We get to go deeper and get to know Wendi, our Transactional Love co-host, in a different light. We are so excited to share her inspiring journey on embracing her art in the pursuit of beauty and...2024-04-2243 min
Transactional Love2.1: Jenny Boucher, Founder - D.A.R. Proyectos | Art of Play, Intersection of Local Identity & Contemporary Design, Finding Courage to Globally ExploreTo kick off our very first Episode of Season 2, Wendi & Norma delve into visionary Parson's The New School designer, Jenny Boucher's captivating journey with D.A.R. Proyectos, the design studio she co-founded in Peru. Alongside her husband, award-winning industrial designer, Mauricio Navarro, Jenny marries traditional Peruvian Andean craftsmanship with contemporary design, creating sustainable, globally recognized products in textile and precious stones. From their inception, the duo has garnered numerous accolades, including features in the New York Times Style Magazine and recognition in prestigious museum stores worldwide including MoMA in New York where you can love-click-to-buy below! Their iconic...2024-04-041h 17
Transactional LoveSeason 1 Insights ♡ with Wendi & NormaThat's a wrap on Season 1! Today we unpack what we learned this whole season, what our takeaways are, what our experiences have been. We've had so many magical moments, insights, aha-moments, inspiration, a whole lot of laughs, and whole lot of wine :) Wendi & Norma achieved our goal of spending time together in creation as dear friends and are so grateful to share it with you all and our community. Join us for Season 2 capsule launch on April 4th.♡ Join on Patreon for early access, exclusive-member-only episodes and more: patreon.com/TransactionalLove♡ Join our Community: https://www...2024-03-3015 min
Transactional LoveEpisode 11: Retail Therapy with Brenda | Intentional Shopping, Joy of Being Alone, Mom Guilt Spectrum, Generational Money LessonsRetail Therapy with Friends: Wendi and Norma welcome our good friend and neighbor, Brenda, for our first episode of retail therapy. We look beyond the big data and demographics to dissect the human aspect of buying. Brenda is an attorney, wife and mother who is based in Benicia, CA. She shares her consumer psyche and retail habits as we explore motherhood and how it has affected our own spending habits. We share insights for intentional shopping and generational money lessons for our own children. ♡ Join on Patreon for early access, exclusive-member-only episodes and more: patreon.com/TransactionalLove...2024-03-0124 min
Transactional LoveEpisode 10: Unboxing with Wendi & Norma | Ü Relax by Calming Co.Unboxing with Wendi and Norma: Ü Relax by Calming Co.We discovered a lovely calming tonic that has become a staple beverage for recording our podcast together. We have loved this tonic as an alternate "cheers" to our weekly glass of wine. Ü Relax is a naturally soothing formula which promotes deep relaxation, calms your nerves, & brightens your mood. Key ingredients are: Kava kava, ashwagandha and lemon balm. Add 1 packet to 4-6 ounces of cold water and feel that serene buzz we chat about in this episode. Thank you to Calming Co. for sharing a 15% off code with our Tr...2024-02-0616 min
Transactional LoveEpisode 9: Martin Reyes, Master of Wine & Partner at WineWise | Viticulture Stories & Futures, Wine Selection and DiscoveryA first-generation American, Martin Reyes, has held influential roles in many sectors of the wine industry since 2002: wine director, importer, educator, international judge, award-winning winemaker, and writer. His wine story began with an over-indulgent Parisian dinner as a Stanford undergrad; soon after he was stocking shelves at K&L in California. By the 2010s, Martin was responsible for The New York Times, Food & Wine Magazine, Williams-Sonoma Wine, and was named one of Wine Enthusiast’s Top Forty under Forty Tastemakers in 2015. After working harvest at Solomon Undhof in 2016, he took over production for Sonoma-based Peter Paul Wines, a role he...2024-01-3052 min
Transactional LoveEpisode 8: Philippa Girling, Camp Château CEO | A Haven in the Southwest of France, Investing in Ourselves, Discovery of Self, The Art of "Candlemaking"Philippa Girling has over 30 years of experience establishing new functions and businesses. She was a C-level banking executive before founding Camp Château in the Southwest of France, and has an extensive network of US-based professional women. Philippa has a close connection with the Quercy region having visited her parent’s family home there every summer for the past 15 years.Camp Château | Our mission is to provide women with a joyful, tranquil, and rejuvenating all-inclusive summer camp experience. In a château in the French countryside we offer you the chance to enjoy great food and wine...2024-01-181h 18
Transactional LoveEpisode 7: Kelly Grace Thomas, Published Poet | Creativity in Matriarchy, Healing in Words, Lifespan of Art, Creation over Destruction, Transaction of LiteratureKELLY GRACE THOMAS is a poet, writer, educator, and an ocean-obsessed Aries from Jersey. Her first full-length collection, Boat Burned, was released with YesYes Books in 2020. She is the winner of the Jane Underwood Poetry Prize and the Neil Postman Award for Metaphor. Kelly’s poems have appeared in: The Adroit Journal, Best New Poets, 32 Poems, Los Angeles Review, Sixth Finch and elsewhere. Kelly has received fellowships from the Martha’s Vineyard Institute of Creative Writing and Kenyon Review Young Writers’ Workshop. Kelly is Head of Curriculum for Get Lit- Words Ignite and the co-author of Voices in Verse: Poetry...2023-12-0751 min
Transactional LoveEpisode 6: Katherine Berg, Founder Will&Atlas | Fair Trade Philosophy, Investing in Women for Community, Love & Contracts, Motherhood & Legacy in BusinessKatherine Berg is the founder of Will & Atlas based in Benicia, California. Katie holds a lifelong appreciation for craftsmanship and one-of-a-kind treasures – a love honed over decades of travel and running a French antiques import business with her late husband, William. Together, the Bergs built what is now known as Will & Atlas, a home decor and accessories line partnering directly with fair trade artisans in Bangladesh. The name Will & Atlas is both a reflection of global community and a tribute to Will, who tragically passed away in 2019. Will’s legacy and the heart of Will & Atlas is woven into ever...2023-11-2251 min
Transactional LoveEpisode 5: Nicole Yarbrough, Founder Pink Arrows Boutique | Fashion as Storytelling, Motherhood + Entrepreneurship, Silent Partner, Movement in MerchandisingNicole Yarbrough is the founder and owner of Pink Arrows Boutique in Benicia, California. Nicole shares her inspiring journey from childhood, getting her first sewing machine to fashion school to corporate jobs to realizing her dream of owning Pink Arrows. She shares insights on fashion as storytelling, motherhood and entrepreneurship, her silent partner, movement in merchandising, e-commerce strategies, and choosing to believe in the beauty in ourselves.♡ Join on Patreon for early access, exclusive-member-only episodes and more: patreon.com/TransactionalLove♡ Love click to buy & join our community: https://www.instagram.com/transactionallove/♡ Pink Arrows...2023-11-111h 03
Transactional LoveEpisode 4: Kristle Lauren, Tastemaker | Building an Influence, Pivoting from the Corporate World, Choosing YourselfKristle Lauren is a fashion and beauty influencer based in Austin, TX. She creates content around inspiring and instilling confidence in the every day woman through affordable, comfortable, and relatable style and beauty. When she is not creating content on social media, she enjoys reading, watching movies and shows with her husband of 9 years, working out, hiking, and hanging out with her 2 year old pup, Albus. She is a huge lover of horror, all things spooky, rainy days, Harry Potter, and a hot, fluffy cup of coffee.♡ Join on Patreon for early access, exclusive-member-only episodes and more: pat...2023-11-0847 min
Transactional LoveEpisode 3: Michele Varian, Founder MV | Inclusive Design, Brick & Mortar, Supply Chain, Art of MakingDesigner and owner, Michele Varian joins us from New York City to share deep insights on inclusive design, brick & mortar, supply chain, and the art of making. Michele has been featured in the New York Times, New York Magazine and Dwell. The Michele Varian shop at 400 Atlantic Avenue is an unexpected oasis of curious, provocative, and beautiful things. At the shop you can find Michele’s own collections of textiles, pillows, wallpaper, lighting, and furniture, as well as product by 100+ other innovative designers of furniture and home accessories and 70+ locally-based fine jewelry designers. Coupled with her own product design eth...2023-11-0657 min
Transactional LoveEpisode 2: Welcome to Transactional LoveWelcome to Transactional Love. Hosts Wendi and Norma share the purpose behind the podcast and what to expect from conversations to come. So happy you're with us! ♡ Join on Patreon for early access, exclusive-member-only episodes and more: patreon.com/TransactionalLove♡ Join our Community: https://www.instagram.com/transactionallove/♡ Say hello to Wendi & Norma: Hello@transactionallove.orgtransactionallove.org2023-10-2608 minTransactional LoveTransactional Love TrailerWelcome to Transactional Love. We are so happy you're with us! ♡ Join on Patreon for early access, exclusive-member-only episodes and more: patreon.com/TransactionalLove♡ Join our Community: https://www.instagram.com/transactionallove/♡ Say hello to Wendi & Norma: Hello@transactionallove.orgtransactionallove.org2023-10-2600 min