Shows
Undone RedoneUR 241: We Survived Infidelity — Joe and Hilary BarryOn this week's show, Tray and Mel have a conversation with Joe and Hilarie Barry about surviving infidelity. Hilarie courageously shares what it was like to be blindsided by Joe's infidelity, the emotional rollercoaster of partner betrayal, and how she deals with the resulting PTSD-like symptoms. Joe speaks about his need for help in getting well, working through his addiction, and what his journey to recovery has looked like. Today, they speak with other couples dealing with infidelity and show that there is hope and healing after the pain of betrayal. Our listeners can pick u...
2020-10-151h 00
Undone RedoneUR 235: The Restored Man − Randy HemphillOn this week's episode of the Undone Redone Podcast, Tray and Melody talk with author and speaker Randy Hemphill as he shares his story of going through the trauma of betrayal as a man. Randy shares his experience with grieving through his betrayal and how important it is for men to allow themselves to properly grieve after experiencing infidelity in marriage. He also shares that there comes a time in every man's journey with God where tips and techniques on how to be better simply do not work. Instead of trying to change ourselves through willpower and effort, Randy r...
2020-08-1900 min
Undone RedoneUR 234: The Last Addiction — Sharon HershOn this week's episode of The Undone Redone Podcast, Tray and Melody chat with author and speaker Sharon Hersh. Sharon shares the idea that addiction can be a gift and that oftentimes the areas that are shattered by trauma and betrayal are the areas that needed to be addressed in a marriage. Sharon explains it does not excuse the abuser for creating the trauma in the relationship, but that the brokenness that comes from addiction helps to create a new paradigm in the relationship that can be the catalyst to break free from addiction as a whole. M...
2020-08-0500 min
Undone RedoneUR 232: Intimate Deception — Sheri KefferOn this week's episode of The Undone Redone Podcast, Melody chats with Dr. Sheri Keffer about the impact of betrayal trauma and the path forward to recovery. Dr. Sheri Keffer received her PhD in Marriage and Family Therapy and her Master of Arts Theology, both from Fuller Theological Seminary. She currently specializes in individual, couples and family therapy at her private practice in Newport Beach, California. She explains how the trauma of betrayal affects our minds, bodies, spirits, and sexuality. Dr. Keffer also provides women new tools they can utilize when dealing with emotional triggers and helps...
2020-07-0100 min
Undone RedoneUR 231: Healing from Racial Trauma — Wendell MossOn this week's episode of the Undone Redone Podcast, Tray chats with Wendell Moss, a therapist at The Allender Center, to share his story and to specifically discuss racial trauma. The conversation about racial injustice in America is currently dominating conversations and Wendell breaks down his own experiences with racial trauma and how he was able to work through and heal from those traumas. He also explains what we as a country can do to begin listening and engaging the conversation to help those struggling with racial injustice. Our listeners can learn more about Wendell...
2020-06-1600 min
Undone RedoneUR 230: Helping Female Sex Addicts — Marnie FerreeOn this week's episode of the Undone Redone podcast, Tray and Melody welcome a long-awaited guest to the show, Marnie Ferree. Marnie is the founder of Bethesda Workshops, a program that specializes in helping those struggling with sexual brokenness and was the first of its kind to help female sex addicts in what was thought to be a "male only issue." Marnie shares her struggles with infidelity and sexual brokenness, how she has created workshops and resources to help other women, and why it is so important to approach sex addiction as a human issue rather than a purely...
2020-06-1000 min
Undone RedoneUR 228: Coping with COVID — Dr. Barbara LoweOn this week's episode of the Undone Redone Podcast, Tray and Melody chat with returning guest, Dr. Barbara Lowe, to discuss the COVID-19 pandemic from a mental health perspective. Dr. Lowe discusses ways to treat your physical, mental, and spiritual health during quarantine, and, even as life begins to return to normal, what we can do to address lingering issues in our personal lives. She also provides resources that help treat the issues that go deeper than the stress of the pandemic, like https://drbarbaralowe.com/findyourhappy/. You can learn more about Dr. Lowe and the services...
2020-05-1900 min
Undone RedoneUR 227: Celebrating the Value of Women — Elyse Fitzpatrick & Eric SchumacherOn this week's episode of the Undone Redone Podcast, Tray and Melody chat with Elyse Fitzpatrick & Eric Schumacher to discuss their book Worthy: Celebrating the Value of Women, a timely resource that dives into the value, place, and calling of women in the church. But, as they explain in this interview, this isn't a book just for women, but also offers valuable insight for men, especially leaders, who want to grow in their understanding of God's unique design of women. Could we have missed something amid the many abuse scandals that are right now rocking the church? Might the...
2020-05-1200 min
Undone RedoneUR 226: Surviving Financially During COVID-19 — Russ Morgan and Joey MuréOn this week's episode of The Undone Redone Podcast, Tray and Melody sit down with Russ Morgan & Joey Mure of Wealth Without Wall Street to discuss financial security during COVID-19. Joey and Russ share their expertise to our listeners to help them navigate the financial minefield that is the COVID-19 pandemic. They explain the things every person needs to be doing to keep their head above water in these unprecedented times. They also point to helpful resources and are offering our listeners a chance to join their free community at https://www.wealthwithoutwallstreet.com/community. To learn more about...
2020-05-0500 min
Undone RedoneUR 225: COVID-19 & Financial Stress — Ericka YoungCOVID-19 has shut down the US economy and many are feeling the effects as unemployment applications hit record levels. On this week's show, Tray and Melody talk with Financial Coach Ericka Young to discuss how to handle financial uncertainty during this unprecedented pandemic. Ericka offers practical guidance to help navigate the current financial landscape as well as ideas on preparing for the future. She also encourages viewers to take the time to step back and ask the question "is my plan working?" and, if it isn't, offers help in creating a plan that will get them through...
2020-04-3000 min
Undone RedoneUR 224: What To Do When Your Child Sees Porn — Bryce LandwehrOn this week's episode of the Undone Redone Podcast, Tray and Melody sit down with Therapist Bryce Landwehr to discuss how to parent a child that has been exposed to pornography. Bryce explains that especially since we all have more free time during the COVID-19 pandemic, its more important than ever to ensure that we have a proper way to talk to our children and parent them through that exposure. Bryce talks about why grace based parenting is key to helping our children navigate a place that often they know more about than we do. Our listeners can learn...
2020-04-2100 min
Undone RedoneUR 223: Restoring the Nobility of Manhood — Jeff StrueckerOn this week's episode of the Undone Redone Podcast, Tray sits down with Army Ranger Jeff Struecker to discuss what it means to be a man. Jeff and Tray discuss how we should mend men who are suffering from brokenness and how to build boys into men. We often try to grow up being a man without ever having someone properly teach us what it means to truly be one. Jeff explains how we can properly realize our masculinity without having to "ruffle a manly pose for our timid hearts." This is an episode you don't want to miss...
2020-04-1400 min
Undone RedoneUR 222: Ministering in the Messy — Gary ThomasOn this week's episode of the Undone Redone Podcast, Tray and Melody sit down with Gary Thomas to talk specifically to ministry leaders who are overwhelmed in the midst of an unprecedented time with COVID-19. Gary explains how ministry leaders need to identify their strengths in the church and when to recognize that something is outside of "their lane" so that they can allow others to take control of that work. This is an episode everyone can benefit from, but is specifically target to those who are leading churches throughout this difficult time. For more information on Gary Thomas...
2020-04-0700 min
Undone Redone[Bonus] Starting Wednesday, April 1: Q&A with Mel & TrayGet Your Questions Answered! Tray and Melody's journey has provided unique wisdom and insight in the areas of marriage, parenting, pornography addiction recovery, and betrayal trauma. Each Wednesday at 2 PM CST, you have the opportunity to have any specific questions you might have answered on Q&A with Mel & Tray, a new feature being offered by Undone Redone. No question is off-limits. Click the link below to register for this FREE event. Submit your question at ask@undoneredone.com.
2020-03-3100 min
Undone RedoneUR 221: Ministering to Military Families — Megan BrownOn this week's episode of the Undone Redone Podcast, Tray and Melody sit down with military spouse and minister Megan Brown. Megan works with the military community, specifically spouses, on how to connect into your community as a military spouse and increase community engagement with active duty members and veterans alike. Military life and the transitions it puts families through can bring challenges including marriage building, creating community, and finding a sense of purpose. Through empowering others to build their military life well, Megan works to help those facing challenges find a purpose and become a part of something...
2020-03-2400 min
Undone RedoneUR 219: Getting Marriage Right — Tod Jacobs and Peter LynnOn this week's episode of the Undone Redone Podcast, Tray and Melody sit down with guests Tod Jacobs and Peter Lynn, authors of Not a Partnership, to discuss why we seem to keep getting marriage wrong and what we can do to make our marriages stronger. Tod and Peter present tools and strategies to not only sustain marriages, but to enrich them as well. They believe that as two people develop the mindset and practice of serving something greater than themselves in their marriages, a miraculous transformation occurs and the marriage is strengthened as a result. Our listeners can...
2020-03-1200 min
Undone RedoneUR 218: Same Crossroads, Different Results — Tray and Melody LovvornOn this week's episode of the Undone Redone Podcast, Tray and Melody host their first podcast from their new office. They talk about how God will often bring us back to the same crossroads in our lives, but with different results. Tray speaks to our listener's about how to walk these same crossroads without letting the shame narrative take over. He explains that the reason we can begin to find joy in the present is often because we remember where the Lord has taken us. This is a great episode for those feeling like they are walking the same...
2020-03-0300 min
Undone RedoneUR 215: Boundaries & Safe People — Dr. Henry CloudOur guest on today's show is Dr. Henry Cloud. Dr. Cloud is a New York Times bestselling author, and his books have sold over 10 million copies. He discusses the importance of making safe choices in relationships and setting appropriate boundaries, whether its friendships or romantic relationships. He explains how people can identify the traits that bring nurturing people into our lives, as well as ones we need to learn to avoid. Tray and Melody are so excited to have Dr. Cloud on the Undone Redone Podcast and this is an episode you don't want to miss! Our listeners can l...
2020-01-2900 min
Undone RedoneUR 214: Climbing Out of Debt — Ericka YoungOn this week's episode of the Undone Redone Podcast, Tray and Melody sit down with Ericka Young to discuss tackling debt and other financial hardships in marriage. Ericka and her husband Chris carried loads of debt that included student loans, car payments, and a mortgage. They eventually found themselves in over $100,000 in debt, but were able to pay everything off successfully after being taught by the master of finance himself, Dave Ramsey. Now over ten years later, she helps both people and businesses transform their finances, careers, families and, most importantly, their futures. She explains the importance of discussing y...
2019-12-1700 min
Undone RedoneUR 213: In Good Faith — Scott ShayOn this week's episode of The Undone Redone Podcast, Tray and Melody sit down with author and banker Scott Shay. Shay is a Co-Founder and Chairman of Signature Bank and a longstanding Jewish community activist. He has started a Hebrew school, an adult educational program, and chaired several Jewish educational programs. Shay discusses his new book In Good Faith: Questioning Religion and Atheism, describes what motivated him to engage with the arguments of the New Atheists. He also explains that the temptation of idolatry did not disappear in the Old Testament but persists as part of human nature to t...
2019-12-1000 min
Undone RedoneUR 212: Building a Stronger Marriage — Les ParrottOn this week’s episode of The Undone Redone Podcast, Tray and Melody sit down with Dr. Les Parrott to discuss strengthening your marriage. Dr. Parrott is a bestselling author, a professor of psychology at Northwest University, creator of the SYMBIS Assessment, and founder of the Parrott Institute for Healthy Relationships at Olivet Nazarene University. He and his wife Leslie are a husband-and-wife team who not only share the same name, but the same passion for helping others build healthy and stronger relationships. Dr. Parrott explains that a marriage can only be as strong as the two spouses in it...
2019-12-0400 min
Undone RedoneUR 211: Post Traumatic Growth — Dr. Shannan CrawfordOn this week's episode of the Undone Redone Podcast, Tray and Melody sit down with Dr. Shannan Crawford to discuss post traumatic growth. Dr. Crawford is a licensed clinical psychologist, conference speaker, adjunct professor, and innovator-expert in Restoring Self-Cohesion. She explains the difficulty of overcoming severe trauma in our lives and the steps we can take to begin that recovery process. She shares her own stories of trauma with Tray and Melody and how God and His word can work to identify and eliminate internal blocks or triggers that hinder us from optimally thriving and fulfilling our life purpose...
2019-11-2600 min
Undone RedoneUR 210: Reminiscing — Charles BillingsleyOn this week's episode of the Undone Redone Podcast, Tray and Melody sit down with award winning singer and songwriter, Charles Billingsley, to reminisce about their time at Samford University and discuss how sometimes the "perfect" image we strive for isn't the right one. Charles discusses his jump into music and how God really tested his strength and walk through his voice. Charles conveys the central message of his heart is to assist other believers in discovering a lifestyle of worship. He explains that every decision we make, every sin we commit is ultimately a worship issue, as a...
2019-11-1900 min
Undone RedoneUR 208: Disappointed, Difficult, or Destructive Marriage? — Leslie VernickOn this week's episode of The Undone Redone Podcast, Tray and Melody sit down with author and counselor Leslie Vernick. Leslie is the author of seven books, including the best selling, The Emotionally Destructive Relationship and her most recent book, The Emotionally Destructive Marriage. She speaks with Tray and Melody about the difference between a disappointing relationship and a destructive relationship, and what we as spouses can do when we find ourselves in either type. Our listeners can learn more about Leslie and her work by going to her website: https://leslievernick.com/ Quotes: "When you...
2019-10-2900 min
Undone RedoneUR 207: The Joy of Intimacy — Rabbi Manis FriedmanOn this week's episode of The Undone Redone Podcast, Tray and Melody sit down with Rabbi Manis Friedman to discuss intimacy in marriage. Rabbi Friedman states that we all crave intimacy because It's essential to our emotional and spiritual health. Yet, he also explains that today's culture faces an intimacy crisis and often times, even when we're in a committed relationship, we still feel painfully alone. Our listeners can learn more about Rabbi Friedman at his website, https://itsgoodtoknow.org/ Quotes: "Intimacy flourishes in an atmosphere that is permeated with kindness, respect, and sanctity. True...
2019-10-2200 min
Undone RedoneUR 206: Don't Keep Jesus From Your Kids — Joel FitzpatrickOn this week's episode of the Undone Redone Podcast, Tray and Melody sit down with Joel Fitzpatrick to discuss spiritual parenting between fathers and their children. Joel Fitzpatrick has served as an ordained minister in the Presbyterian Church in America with a focus on youth and family. He received his MDiv from Westminster Seminary California. Joel lives in Southern California with his wife of nineteen years and their two children. He is a sinner, a preacher, the author of Between us Guys, the coauthor of Mom, Dad . . . What’s Sex?, and contributed chapters to The Sinner and Saints Devotional: 60 days in...
2019-10-1500 min
Undone RedoneUR 205: Meteorologist Mom: Balancing Career and Life — Ashley GannOn this week's episode of the Undone Redone Podcast, Tray and Melody sit down with Meteorologist Ashley Gann to discuss work life balance. She explains that it's easy to categorize ourselves based on one area of our lives and define ourselves only by that task or talent. She stresses that we can always find balance in our lives if we live it with intentionality. Ashley Gann is the Chief Meteorologist at CBS 42 in Birmingham, AL and is a believer, wife, and mother of 3. Our listeners can learn more about Ashley on her Twitter, Instagram, and Facebook pages, all of...
2019-10-0800 min
Undone RedoneUR 204: When To Walk Away — Gary ThomasHave you ever found yourself in a toxic relationship with others? As Christians, we often feel the guilt and responsibility of meeting the needs of unhealthy people in our lives. Whether a family member, spouse, coworker, or friend, toxic people frequently seek to frustrate our empathy in Christ Jesus. While you're seeking God's kingdom first, it seems like they're seeking to distract your focus and delay your work. Instead of attempting the impossible task of mollifying toxic people, it's time we dedicate our energy to the only worthwhile effort: completing the work God has given us by i...
2019-10-0100 min
Undone RedoneUR 202: Dangerous Curves AheadOn this week's episode of The Undone Redone Podcast, Tray and Melody discuss their trip to the Utah Coalition Against Pornography while on location and how a road sign at Valley of Fire National Park got them thinking about marriage. They discuss that like roads we travel, marriage is not always straightforward and easy by design. They tell us the importance of recognizing that marriage will never be perfect or even easy, and that there will always be struggles in a marriage. It's by accepting that truth that couples can begin to work through those problems and find lasting...
2019-09-1700 min
Undone RedoneUR 200: Weathering Life — James SpannOn this week's episode of The Undone Redone Podcast, Tray and Melody celebrate their 200th podcast with a very special guest, meteorologist James Spann. Tray and Melody talk about how James inspired them to start podcasting and how they have evolved over time through their podcasts. James discusses his passion for using one's talents to minister to Christ and how anyone can minister to others. He also discusses the importance of weather awareness and how he aims to mitigate loss of life from severe weather in Alabama. Our listeners can follow and contact James Spann on Twitter, https://twitter...
2019-09-0400 min
Undone RedoneUR 198: How To Help Your Anxious Teen — Jessica ThompsonOn this week's episode of The Undone Redone Podcast, Tray and Melody sit down with Jessica Thompson to discuss her seventh book, How to Help Your Anxious Teen: Discovering the Surprising Sources of Their Worries and Fears. She stresses how many of our societal norms can actually exacerbate anxiety in teens and how parents can approach their children to discuss and manage anxiety. Jessica is the author of several books and is a frequent conference speaker. Her heart is to see women, families, and children freed from the bondage of moralism. She is a contributor at Christ Hold Fast. S...
2019-08-1900 min
Undone RedoneUR 197: Understanding Eating Disorders — Alice ChurnockOn this week's episode of The Undone Redone Podcast, Tray and Melody bring Alice Churnock into the studio to discuss the importance of understanding eating disorders. Alice specializes in counseling adolescents, women, and parents in areas relating to eating disorders, body image, and depression, as well as stress and anger management. She stresses that eating disorders go far beyond that of anorexia and bulimia, and that it is pivotal to understand the root issues that lead to these disorders. Most of the time, eating disorders arise as a coping mechanism for problems in life, and Alice explains how to walk w...
2019-08-1200 min
Undone RedoneUR 196: Walking With My Daughter Through Her Eating Disorder — Kristen HattonOn this week's episode of the Undone Redone Podcast, Tray and Melody sit down with Kristen Hatton to discuss what its like walking with a child or teen struggling with an eating disorder. She emphasizes the importance of talking to our children about the idols in their lives that drive undesirable behaviors instead of just trying to fix it for them and make them "good kids." Kristen has written multiple books including The Gospel-Centered Life in Exodus for Students, Face Time: Your Identity in a Selfie World and Get Your Story Straight. Our listeners can learn more about Kristen...
2019-08-0500 min
Undone RedoneUR 195: Enmeshment vs DifferentiationOn this week's episode of the Undone Redone Podcast, Tray and Melody sit down to discuss enmeshment, differentiation and interdependence in marriage. They work to define the difference between each of these terms and different ways that couples can practically address enmeshment in a relationship so that they can work towards a fuller, more healthy marriage. For more information on the tools and tips Melody and Tray discussed in this week's podcast, visit https://undoneredone.com/. Our listeners can also check out the upcoming Open Your Purse and Embark Men's Recovery Intensive events at https://undoneredone.com/openyourpurse and h...
2019-07-3000 min
Undone RedoneUR 194: Rethinking Sexuality — Juli SlatteryOn this week's episode of the Undone Redone Podcast, Tray and Melody sit down with Author Juli Slattery to discuss sexuality. Juli explains how sexuality is often misinterpreted in the church and that only 10% of Christians enter a marriage without some form of sexual experience from a previous relationship. Juli then discusses what to do for Christians that reach marriage with or without baggage and say "Ok... Now what?" We encourage our listeners to check out her new book "Rethinking Sexuality" and visiting her website https://www.authenticintimacy.com/ for more resources on properly defining God's view of healthy...
2019-07-2200 min
Undone RedoneUR 193: Submission In MarriageOn this week's episode of the Undone Redone Podcast, Tray shares his thoughts on submission in marriage and how often men will misinterpret verses like Ephesians 5:22. He explains that God has not called husbands to be tyrants in a relationship that demand their wives to do whatever they say, but instead to lovingly lead them as Christ is leading us in our lives. Quotes from this episode: "Many times guys we don't know who we are and we try to feel powerful by controlling our wives. That is not what the Lord has called us...
2019-07-1600 min
Undone RedoneUR 192: One Day At A Time — Daniel FickOn this week's episode of the Undone Redone Podcast, Tray sits down with Daniel Fick to discuss pornography addiction and lust. Daniel Fick is the author of One Day at a Time, his story of navigating lust, adultery, pornography, and the healing that only Christ can bring. He tells his journey of addiction and what others can do in similar situations. Our listeners can purchase One Day at a Time on amazon and contact Daniel at Onedayatatimebook@gmail.com.
2019-07-0800 min
Undone RedoneUR 191: No Hope In Silence — Tom and Michelle WeaverOn this week's episode of the Undone Redone Podcast, Tray and Melody sit down with Tom and Michelle Weaver to discuss what it's like coming forward when a spouse struggles with sexual infidelity and pornography addiction. Tom and Michelle both emphasize how silence only hurts a relationship and how keeping secrets from your spouse can ultimately destroys the foundations of that relationship. Tray and Melody also spoke at Tom and Michelle's Come to the Table Conference, and our listeners can hear both parts of that discussion at these links https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5yKTzIoBjzA&list=PLYoRkz4XSywMKX5...
2019-06-3000 min
Undone RedoneUR 187: The Importance of PlayEpisode 187 features Tray and Mel discussing the importance of rest and play as they record after a week of writing at beautiful Smith Lake in North Alabama. They discuss the underlying unbelief that keeps us perpetually “doing” instead of taking time to simply “be”. But, as they share in this episode, rest and play are vitally important in keeping us energized and enjoying wholehearted living. Where do you need to cut back in order to build in the margins necessary for adequate play and rest? Please share this episode with family and friends who also need to be remin...
2019-05-2700 min
Undone RedoneUR 183: Upside-Down Spirituality — Chad BirdTray and Melody welcome Chad Bird back to the show on this week’s episode. Chad is an author and speaker devoted to honest Christianity that addresses the raw realities of life. On today’s show, Tray, Mel, and Chad discuss his latest book, Upside-Down Spirituality: The 9 Essential Failures of a Faithful Life which takes a deep-dive into the counter-cultural life God desires for each of us. Chad invites us to put our striving for success aside in order to embrace nine specific failures in the areas of our personal lives, our relationships, and the church. Chad has...
2019-04-3000 min
Undone RedoneUR 181: The Importance of Full DisclosureOn this week's episode of The Undone Redone Podcast, Tray and Melody sit down to discuss the importance of full disclosure to a loved one after experiencing infidelity in a marriage. They speak on the difficulty of coming forward to disclose information to a spouse and how vital it is to begin that journey of healing and rebuilding in a relationship. Tray also speaks about two non-profits that he and Melody have worked closely with: Magic City Woodworks and Sozo Children. You can check out Magic City Woodworks at http://www.magiccitywoodworks.org/ and Sozo Children at http://www...
2019-04-0800 min
Undone RedoneUR 180: Co-Parenting After Divorce — Travis ShepardOn this week's episode of the Undone Redone Podcast, Tray and Melody sit down with Travis Shepard. Travis is a Major in the U.S. Air Force Reserved. Travis speaks about his story that lead to divorce while being active in the United States military. He speaks to Tray and Melody about his reunion with Christ and how he is working to father his daughters through the divorce.
2019-03-1900 min
Undone RedoneUR 179: Holy Sexuality and the Gospel — Christopher YuanOn this week's episode of the Undone Redone Podcast, Tray sits down with author Christopher Yuan. Dr. Christopher Yuan has taught the Bible at Moody Bible Institute for over ten years and his speaking ministry on faith and sexuality has reached five continents. He speaks with Tray about his experiences as a gay man returning to Christ, and how the church can begin to have a better understanding of sexuality in light of God's grand story of creation, fall, redemption, and consummation.
2019-03-1200 min
Undone RedoneUR 176: Healing On The Other Side of Pain On this week’s episode of the Undone Redone Podcast, Tray discusses upcoming events before diving into the idea of healing on the other side of pain. Tray talks about how pain is an important part of the healing process as God works to bring deep-rooted issues to the surface of our lives, and we can begin to work through them with His power and glory.
2019-02-1200 min
Undone RedoneUR 172: Recovery During the HolidaysOn this week’s episode, Tray and Melody talk openly and honestly about how painful the holidays can be for those who are dealing with marital issues stemming from sexual brokenness. During the holiday season, everywhere we look we see smiling, happy families…out shopping, on the Hallmark channel, commercials that are non-stop. When we are experiencing a season of brokenness that overlaps with the holidays, things can really be magnified and our enemy…the accuser of the brethren…often loves to point out the discrepancy in our circumstances and what we see around us. Having experienced 6 years of...
2018-12-1200 min
Undone RedoneUR 168: Healthy Conflict in Marriage Part 2Tray and Melody are back for part two of their two part series on healthy conflict in marriage. They dig more into what having conflict in a marriage can look like when it is healthy and how to handle conflict with grace. Tray and Melody discuss how loses yourself in your coupleship can often times lead to more issues and more conflict because if you are properly inmeshed your spouse should understand. The problem with that is that when you think that your spouse is thinking the same thing which leads to stagnant frustration. Tray a...
2018-09-0300 min
Undone RedoneUR 167: Healthy Conflict in Marriage Part 1Tray and Melody kick off a two part series discussing healthy conflict in marriage and how to deal with conflict in a Godly relationship. When you put two broken people together you will have conflict regardless of what you do. You ultimately cannot avoid conflict, but rather you need to learn how to work through conflict in a healthy manner. Avoiding conflict leads to more conflict because at some point everything that is constantly pushed down comes bursting to the surface. Tray and Mel discuss what they have learned about having healthy relationships and how...
2018-08-2800 min
Undone RedoneUR 166: MySecureFamily and Open Your PurseTray and Melody are talking My Secure Family and the event benefitting MSF called Open Your Purse happening September 21st. Listen to hear more about what Tray and Mel are doing to prepare and equip parents with the tools and knowledge to protect their children in the world of technology. There will be a ladies only event at the Grand Bohemian Hotel in Mountain Brook, Alabama. This is a wonderful opportunity to gather with a community of women at a dinner benefitting a incredible initiative. The Open Your Purse Benefit is unlike any event Birmingham h...
2018-08-2400 min
Undone RedoneUR 163: What Sex is Not — Jeromy DarlingTray is joined by singer/songwriter, actor, speaker, and advocate against sexual exploitation in all its forms, Jeromy Darling of The Spokeman. Tray and Jeromy dive into a conversation surrounding his passions, abstinence, music, movies and the beauty of faith based relationships. Jeromy has his hand in a vast array of projects ranging from speaking engagements, music, films, writings and even tied martial arts. He walks us through these projects, why he is passionate about each of them and how you can get involved. Jeromy has been married to his one and only girlfriend Gretchen...
2018-07-3100 min
Undone RedoneUR 161: Sex, Jesus, and the Conversations the Church Forgot — Mo IsomTray and Melody are joined by Mo Isom to talk her books, Jesus, tough conversations, and her own undone redone story. Mo, Mel and Tray discuss parenting kids to have a healthy view on sex and purity. Mo talks through her undoing story of identity issues, eating disorder struggles, loss, grief and brokenness. She tells us of how she reached her rock bottom and from that moment forward God has totally changed her life and what she had planned. She lets us in on how she went through season of isolation and she went through a season o...
2018-07-1000 min
Undone RedoneUR 158: Masculine Initiation — Chuck DeGroatTray is joined by seminary professor Dr. Chuck DeGroat to discuss masculine initiation, his books, his personal journey, and the shame that impacts everyone. Chuck gives us an insight on a significant moment of experiencing shame and how he took that specific moment to start a journey of looking at his sexual and emotional story. Tray and Chuck discuss the crisis of masculinity that faces our culture and society today. Chuck offers his opinion on how we need to address this issue and what Christian Men can do to help grow men up at an...
2018-06-1200 min
Undone RedoneUR 151: Accountability That Flows From Community — Sam BlackTray and Melody are joined by Sam Black from covenant eyes to discuss the need for filtering and accountability online, authentic community, intentionality and living a life of freedom. Tray, Melody and Sam discuss the importance of having not only accountability partners in life but the benefits of utilizing tools that Covenant Eyes provides. These tools not only allow you to put filters in place for your children but also allow their internet history to be sent to you in a report weekly. This is a wonderful parenting tool that allows conversations to be opened up and...
2018-04-1000 min
Undone RedoneUR 150: The Long Road Back — Stephen MizellTray and Melody are joined for the 150th episode of the Undone Redone Podcast by author, speaker, pastor, and entrepreneur Stephen Mizell. Tray, Mel and Stephen talk the messy stories, his own undoing and coming back from the mess through grace. Growing up a Pastor’s kid, Stephen’s father urged him to try other things before settling on ministry and Stephen did just that. After trying a slew of jobs and businesses Stephen felt God stirring in his heart in 1995 to go into ministry. He took a church in rural North Carolina where they were for sever...
2018-04-0300 min
Undone RedoneUR 143: What Brought Me Back To God — Philip YanceyTray and Mel are joined by Philip Yancey for episode 143 to discuss his story of leaving the faith due to the fundamentalist church he grew up with and what brought him back to Christ. Tune-in as one of the leading Christian voices of our day describes his journey from understanding God as a scowling super cop to a loving and gracious Father and the specific elements that God used to reveal Himself. Philip, Tray and Mel dive into a discussion of the beauty of sex in God’s plan for our lives and how he seeks to ha...
2018-02-0600 min
Undone RedoneUR 142: Dealing With Sexual Brokenness in the Church — Jacob SimmonsTray and Mel are joined in studio by Jacob Simmons to discuss the often brushed aside topic of sexual brokenness and the Church. When it comes to sexual brokenness, the church remains silent on it because they often think, “Oh we’d never do something like that” and it becomes hard for someone to seek help form the church when they are comparing their shame to everyone else’s highlight reel. Tray shares some staggering statistics released by the largest porn site in regards to consumption of pornography in 2017 showing that the enemy is hunting in the unique p...
2018-01-3000 min
Undone RedoneUR 141: True Spirituality is Desperation — Erik GuzmanTray and Mel are joined by Erik Guzman to discuss spirituality, his new book, and have an honest conversation about the beauty of Christianity. Erik discusses how various people he has had the opportunity to speak with have impacted his life and put him on a path of discovery. Jesus takes us into not just the blatant stuff but the nuances of our brokenness and that really shows us the beauty and amazingness of Christ’s Grace. Erik discusses his mini book The Gift of Addiction and how true Spirituality is just desperation. Even though it...
2018-01-2400 min
Undone RedoneUR 140: We Would Have Been Married 26 YearsTray and Melody spend episode 140 discussing the emotions and feelings that surround January 11th, which would have been their 26th wedding anniversary. As you may know Tray and Melody were married in 1992 and then their world unraveled when they divorced for 6 years before reconciling in 2008. Tray shares a story of feeling totally alone on Christmas Day and running into a groomsman in his wedding at the movies when he was in line to see a movie alone. This was the first time he was seeing this man, who was part of his "community", since his wedding and...
2018-01-1600 min
Undone RedoneUR 137: Sexual Abuse in the Church — Boz TchividjianTray and Melody are joined by Boz Tchividjian to discuss sexual abuse in the Church, grace and how we can assist in creating cultures of healing. God placed on his heart to take what you learn to train and equip his church to be the safest place for those who have been hurt to heal and for those that are doing the hurting. Boz, Tray and Mel discuss a topic that many people don’t want too discuss because it is messy and the victim has to live with the trauma for the rest of their lives. ...
2017-12-1100 min
Undone RedoneUR 134 : Giving ThanksThis week Tray and Melody talk Thanksgiving, giving thanks and what that looks like throughout the recovery process. Speaking from experience Tray and Mel offer words of wisdom, encouragement and motivation to make it through the often difficult season that is the holiday season when you are experiencing brokenness.
2017-11-2000 min
Undone RedoneUR 133 : A Conversation with Randy Alcorn — Randy AlcornTray and Melody are joined by Author and Pastor Randy Alcorn to discuss grace, books, the hope of God even in dark chapters of life, and the journey he takes you on. Randy shares with Tray and Mel the undone and redone moments that have occurred in his life and how these moments have shaped not only his career path but his family’s lives as well. Randy is a New York Times bestselling author and has written over fifty books. Some of these titles include Courageous, Heaven, The Treasure Principle, and the Gold Medallion win...
2017-11-1300 min
Undone RedoneUR 131 : Women and Lust — Sarah TarasTray and Melody are joined by author and speaker Sarah Taras who is a lover of grace, theology and sharing her story. In episode 131, Tray, Melody and Sarah discuss her journey to discovering grace, the unconditional love of God, her podcasts, lust, and shame. Sarah grew up Southern Baptist, married right out of high school and at the age of 20 she and her husband chose to try out a new church. They began attending a fundamentalist church for several years and Sarah discusses the struggles that came from within that church and leaving that church.
2017-10-3000 min
Undone RedoneUR 130: Escaping Fundamentalism — Marci PreheimOn episode 130, Traylor and Melody are joined by Author and speaker Marci Preheim to discuss a variety of topics ranging from sexual culture in Hollywood, Fundamentalism, pride and pornography, and awakening to scripture. Marci, Tray and Mel talk through personal experiences of being stuck in the paradigm of performance and how things look to the outside world. Marci bravely speaks out against a culture and community that she felt stuck in. Marci was born in Lincoln, Nebraska but moved to Hollywood, California as a teenager hoping to pursue modeling. She was born and raised in a very...
2017-10-2300 min
Undone RedoneUR 128 : Sustaining Grace — Bob HillerTray and Melody are joined by Pastor Bob Hiller on episode 128 to discuss a variety of topics. Bringing a sense of humor to a conversation about sports, faith, binge watching Netflix shows, love, Christian Celebrity culture and sustaining grace Bob Hiller makes episode 128 one you can’t miss. Bob talks through his opinion on “Christian Celebrity culture”, how Ministry has become a sector of marketing and how it is affecting The Church. The job of the Gospel is not to give you a pretty life, but to forgive you and teach you to love. ...
2017-10-0900 min
Undone RedoneUR 121: The Heart Of Man — Kevin TriplettIn this week's episode Tray and Mel are joined by Kevin Triplett who lends his voice and story to the upcoming film, The Heart Of Man, coming out September 14, 2017. Kevin talks the traumas he witnessed in the line of duty and how this led to his addiction.
2017-08-2100 min
Undone RedoneUR 120: The Heart of Man — Justin TorrenceOn this week’s episode Mel and Tray are joined by Justin Torrence who makes his debut as actor in leading role in the upcoming film The Heart Of Man. Justin plays the prodigal in the film hitting theatres September 2017. Justin talks religion and his journey to finding his role in The Heart of Man with Mel and Tray. Justin was born in Chicago where he lived until his family moved to Atlanta at the age of 11. Although acting was always a passion he did not pursue it until the end of his 20’s when he began trai...
2017-08-1400 min
Undone RedoneUR119: The Heart of Man — Noel BouchéOn this week's episode Mel and Tray are joined by Noel Bouché of PureHOPE as he lends his voice to the upcoming film The Heart Of Man. Noel aims to inspire and equip believers to pursue a world free of sexual brokenness and exploitation through personal transformation. Noel worked as a litigation attorney in New York, Washington D.C., and Cincinnati prior to joining PureHOPE as the Chief Executive in 2008. Noel lives in the Dallas/Ft. Worth area with his wife and two daughters.
2017-08-0700 min
Undone RedoneHealing From Sex Addiction — Seth Alan TaylorOn this week's show, Tray and Mel are joined by author, speaker, and life-coach Seth Alan Taylor who openly shares his journey of recovery from pornography addiction and offers hope and help for fellow sojourners. Seth's first book, Feels Like Redemption, leans into the issue of porn addiction, but is a book for everyone who seeks to experience freedom in their lives. Trained by Dr. Dan Allender at the Seattle School of Theology and Psychology, Seth brings deep insight and wisdom to this important question of “How Do People Change?” A few quotes from this episode...
2017-07-3100 min
Undone RedoneThe Love of God in Christ — Elyse FitzpatrickTray and Mel welcome author and speaker Elyse Fitzpatrick to the Undone Redone podcast! Elyse is the author of 23 books on daily living and the Christian life, including Good News For Weary Women, Because He Loves Me, Found in Him, and Give Them Grace. Elyse is a frequent speaker at women’s conferences, has been married for over 40 years, and has three adult children and six grandchildren. Connect with Elyse at www.elysefitzpatrick.com.
2017-07-2600 min
Undone RedoneUR 114: Losing Religion, Finding Grace — Kendra FletcherKendra Fletcher, author of Lost & Found: Losing Religion and Finding Grace, joins Tray and Mel for episode 114 of the show. Kendra is a homeschooling mother of 8 and popular conference speaker. She and her husband came close to losing 3 of their 8 children over the span of 18 months and, in the process, discovered that their clean and neat Christian formula wasn’t working. Kendra is passionate about addressing the quiet legalism that so easily infiltrates Christian communities and exposes the dangers of focusing on anything but the finished work of Christ. Connect with Kendra on Tw...
2017-07-0500 min
Undone RedoneUR 112: Jesus Came For The Train Wrecks — RJ GrunewaldAuthor and Pastor RJ Grunewald, a self-proclaimed theology nerd, joins Tray and Mel for episode 112 of the show to discuss law and grace, his latest book Reading Romans with Luther, and the many ways we attempt to hide our true selves from those around us. In this episode, RJ shares the paradoxical truth that the things we spend so much energy trying to hide often become the tools God uses for the mission of the Gospel. Whatever you are facing today, be encouraged that you do not have to face it alone. Connect with RJ...
2017-06-1900 min
Undone RedoneUR 111: Stewarding our Scars — Chad BirdIt is often tempting to hide who we really are to the outside world and project that we have it all together. We have many seemingly valid reasons for why we do this — to be a good witness to the world around us; to pretend the Christian life produces nothing but happiness and joy; and often, simply because we fear that no one could relate to who we really are. But God has never called us to a pretend life where we cover up the truth about ourselves. As we see throughout scripture, it is often our pa...
2017-06-1200 min
Undone RedoneUR 109: The Heart of Man — Dr. Dan AllenderAuthor, Speaker, Teacher and Professor Dr. Dan Allender joins Tray and Mel for episode 109 of the show to discuss the upcoming film, The Heart of Man, and the importance of entering into our own narrative in order for true healing to occur. An expert in sexual trauma, Dr. Allender shares practical insight into the journey to wholeness. A co-founder of The Seattle School of Theology & Psychology, he is the author of The Wounded Heart, The Healing Path, To Be Told, and God Loves Sex, and the co-author of Intimate Allies, The Cry of the Soul, Bold Love...
2017-05-2400 min
Undone RedoneUR 108: Parents Who Fight — Sarah SiegandSarah Siegand joins Tray and Mel for episode #108 to discuss online digital safety and Parents Who Fight, an organization she runs with her husband Jesse. Parents Who Fight is a place parents can get connected to other parents and organizations who are proactively engaged in the battle for this generation. Sarah is a contributor to Undone Redone’s MySecureFamily.com and provides great insight on this episode from her own experience. You can connect with Sarah via Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram.
2017-05-1600 min
Undone RedoneUR 104: Untangled — Carey ScottAuthor, blogger, and speaker Carey Scott joins Tray and Mel on episode 104 to discuss her book Untangled: Let God Loosen the Knots of Insecurity in Your Life and the problems that arise when we try to get our value and worth from anything apart from God. In this fun, heart-felt interview, Carey Scott affirms that we are accepted, loved, beautiful, and treasured and gives practical strategies for escaping performance-based living.
Connect with Carey on her blog at www.careyscott.org!
2017-02-2000 min
Undone RedoneUR 103: I Don’t Wait Anymore — Grace ThorntonAuthor Grace Thornton joins Tray and Mel for Episode 103 of the podcast to discuss relationship expectations and the ‘happily ever-after’ that often doesn’t turn out the way we had planned.
In her book, “I Don’t Wait Anymore: Letting Go of Expectations and Grasping God’s Adventure for You”, Thornton describes her wrestling match with God after discovering that He was not providing her with the husband and 2.5 kids like she anticipated. Along the way, she found that the story He was writing was better than the one she had planned for herself.
As we celebrate Valentine...
2017-02-1400 min
Undone RedoneUR 102: Valentine’s Day and What We Long For In RelationshipsIt is hard to believe that it has been four years since we launched the Undone Redone podcast! A big ‘thank you’ to all of our listeners! You guys make this journey so much fun! In episode #2 of the show, way back in February of 2013, we talked about the pros and cons of Valentine’s Day and we want to revisit that theme here on episode #102. With all of the fun and excitement that Valentine’s Day can bring, it can also provide a tremendous amount of unspoken expectations and pressures that can lead to problems...
2017-02-0600 min
Undone RedoneUR 100: Scandalous Freedom — Steve BrownAuthor, speaker, podcast host, seminary professor, and all around great guy, Steve Brown, joins Tray and Mel for the 100th episode of the Undone Redone podcast to discuss the scandal of grace, 3 free sins, Luther’s invitation to “sin boldly”, and the Coming Back Stronger Men’s Conference. In his own refreshing style that blends orthodoxy and controversy, humor and profundity, Dr. Brown points out why it is so difficult for the human heart to accept the freedom offered to us by the Gospel and the ways we try to hide who we really are. If you w...
2017-01-2300 min
Undone RedoneUR 99: Law and Grace — David ZahlDavid Zahl, editor-in-chief of the Mockingbird blog and one of the speakers for the upcoming Coming Back Stronger Men’s Conference (www.comingbackstronger.com) being held in Birmingham January 27 -28, joins Tray and Mel on episode 99 for a frank discussion about grace, rock-n-roll, ministering to folks burned by church, and the pressure put on men to always be strong.
David’s unassuming, laid-back style is refreshing and his ability to communicate the Gospel of grace is second-to-none. And don’t miss his cover article in Christianity Today this month that speaks to the on-going tension we have between law...
2017-01-1600 min
Undone RedoneUR 98: Resignation, Not ResolutionsAll of us at Undone Redone wish you the very best as we begin an exciting new year! In this episode, Tray and Mel briefly discuss Alabama’s loss in the National Championship game and dive into a discussion of the gospel as it relates to a topic that is always very popular at this time of year: Resolutions. While New Year’s Resolutions are all about discipline, effort, and willpower as we try to make changes in various areas of our lives, most of us know that, while trying harder might produce temporary change, true...
2017-01-1300 min
Undone RedoneUR 96: Emmanuel, God With UsMerry Christmas from Undone Redone! In this episode, Tray and Melody discuss the wonderful good news and powerful implications of the proclamation of Emmanuel: God with us! Tune in as Tray and Melody take a close look at the lineage of Jesus recorded in Matthew 1 that offers hope for us all as we see God using broken people to bring perfection into the world. The Good News that we celebrate at Christmas is that God is with us steps into the mess with us. Unlike what we often believe, God is not expecting us to clean things...
2016-12-2100 min
Undone RedoneUR 90: A Chat With Our Northern Ireland FriendsTray and Mel sit down with Kento Morgan and Matty Patterson from Northern Ireland and discuss the Troubles, Southern food, and their relationship with God. This is a fun and energetic conversation with two young men who love the Lord and who are having a blast in the USA. If you are enjoying the show, please consider letting us know by giving us a rating and review on iTunes and Stitcher Radio!
2016-06-3000 min
Undone RedoneUR 85: Ending Sexual Exploitation — Dawn HawkinsIn this episode of the Undone Redone podcast, Tray and Mel discuss their recent getaway to the Whitestone Country Inn in Kingston, Tennessee and a fabulous Mother’s Day weekend. They also share their chat with Dawn Hawkins at the recent Set Free Summit in Greensboro, North Carolina. Dawn, quickly becoming a regular on Undone Redone, is the Executive Director of the National Center on Sexual Exploitation based in Washington DC. If you’ve enjoyed the show, please consider leaving us a rating and review on iTunes and Stitcher Radio!
2016-05-0900 minUndone RedoneUR 84: How To Talk To Your Kids About Pornography — Dina AlexanderDina Alexander, Executive Director of Educate and Empower Kids, joins Tray and Mel in this episode to talk about some of the brand-new books and resources just released by her organization. 30 Days of Sex Talks, 30 Days to a Stronger Child, and How to Talk to Your Kids About Pornography are all designed to equip parents as they engage the hearts of their children on these important topics. Discover more about Educate and Empower Kids by going to their web site at www.educateempowerkids.org. If you are enjoying the show, please consider giving us a...
2016-05-0400 minUndone RedoneUR 81: 3 Keys to Dealing with Sexual Sin in the ChurchOur sex-saturated culture is creating a huge wake of devastation that is having a tremendous impact on families. This impact is being felt inside the church as well. In this episode, Tray and Mel discuss how to deal with sexual brokenness in the church and offer practical solutions to help you put together a holistic strategy for your congregation.
2016-04-0200 minUndone RedoneUR 80: Appropriate Communication with the Opposite Sex — Shea LoweryThis week’s guest on the Undone Redone podcast, Shea Lowery, joins Tray and Mel to discuss her story of how lines can get crossed in relationships when we are not careful. Shea provides valuable insight from firsthand experience to help prevent these lines from being crossed and about God’s forgiveness when they are. Information about Shea’s ministry can be found at www.livesbeingrestored.com.
2016-03-2100 minUndone RedoneUR 75: Protecting Our Children from Sexual AbuseIn this episode of the Undone Redone podcast, Tray and Mel take an in-depth look at Justin and Lindsey Holcomb's fantastic book for parents of young children called God Made All Of Me: A Book to Help Children Protect Their Bodies. This book is a wonderful tool to help parents educate their children in an age-appropriate way about their bodies...especially their private parts. As the introduction of the book states, "Education is vitally important in preventing inappropriate sexual behavior or contact. By teaching children about their bodies and discussing appropriate and inappropriate touch, you are helping...
2016-02-0400 min
Undone RedoneUR 73: Tips for Parents in the Digital Age — Luke & Trisha GilkersonAuthor Luke Gilkerson and his wife Trisha, who blog regularly at Intoxicated on Life, join hosts Tray and Mel on this episode of the Undone Redone podcast to provide specific tips for parents in our current age of rampant technology and stimulus overload.
2016-01-1900 minUndone RedoneUR 72: Parenting in the Digital Age — Melea StephensMarriage and Family Therapist Melea Stephens joins Tray and Mel again on the Undone Redone podcast to discuss the important topic of parenting in the digital age. Melea shares invaluable information from real-life cases that helps parents understand that age-appropriate dialogue with their children about pornography and sex is just as important as blocks and filters in the home.
2016-01-1100 min
Undone RedoneUR 70: I Was Raised From the Dead — Travis ReedAfter a brief hiatus due to our speaking schedule, we are back with another great interview with Travis Reed, founder and filmmaker at The Work of the People, an “independent ecumenical platform that produces and publishes multimedia to stir imagination, spark discussion and move people toward discovery and transformation”. In this raw conversation with Tray and Mel, Travis shares his painful yet redemptive journey that includes four stepdads in four years and being saved at a U2 concert.
2015-09-2300 minUndone RedoneUR 69: Sex and True Intimacy — Melea StephensWe’re talking sex and our deep desires on this episode of the Undone Redone podcast! With the recent hack of cheating website AshleyMadison.com that boasts over 39 million now not-so-anonymous subscribers, it is pretty apparent we need fresh perspective on how to cultivate true intimacy in our relationships. Sex therapist Melea Stephens once again joins Tray and Mel on the show and provides insight and wisdom on how to cultivate a marriage relationship that is mutually satisfying. Got questions? Email us at feedback@undoneredone.com or leave us a voicemail at www.undoneredone.com. Thanks for li...
2015-08-2000 minUndone RedoneUR 67: Unraveled — David Upton & Keith Everette SmithSinger/songwriter David Upton and music producer Keith Everette Smith join Tray and Mel for episode #67 to talk about their brand new “soundtrack for the recovery journey” entitled Unraveled. David and Keith discuss the genesis of the project and also the background for four of the album’s thirteen tracks: “Unraveled”, “Change”, “I’ll Leave the Light On”, and “Whiskey Soaked Revival”. David and Keith’s hearts shine through as they openly and vulnerably share their own journey and their passion for the recovery process.
2015-08-0200 minUndone RedoneUR 65: Longing for Love — Emily Rose MasseyAuthor Emily Rose Massey joins Tray and Mel for episode #65 to tell her story of healing from a past filled with sexual sin and brokenness. Emily openly and honestly shares about sexual abuse, abandonment, and years spent trying to validate herself through male attention and affection. Her book, Yielded in His Hands: Becoming a Vessel for God’s Glory, is her testimony of God’s relentless pursuit in the midst of a wayward life. Connect with Emily on her blog at www.emilyrosemassey.com. Got questions? Email us at feedback@undoneredone.com or leave us a voicemail at ww...
2015-07-2000 minUndone RedoneUR 63: We Are Free!With the 4th of July coming up this weekend, Tray and Mel dive into the freedom offered by the gospel and the reasons it is sometimes so hard for us to simply live in that freedom. Episode #63 takes a look at powerlessness as the entry-point of the gospel, Paul’s use of the imperative and indicative in his writing, and how the performance treadmill becomes another form of slavery. If you enjoyed the show, please rate it and write a brief review. That would help tremendously in helping us get the word out! Thanks!
2015-07-0300 minUndone RedoneUR 62: Creating Authentic Community Healthy, authentic community is one of the key ingredients that helps to bring about lasting, long-term change in our lives. In this episode of the Undone Redone podcast, Tray and Mel talk in-depth about how to create this type of authentic culture through Route1520’s Christ-centered recovery solution for churches, called GroupNOW.
2015-06-2100 minUndone RedoneUR 60: A Messy Few Months Mel and Tray are FINALLY back in the studio! As they remind us on each episode, “Life is Messy…Bring Your Boots”, they openly share the messiness that they have experienced over the past few months that hindered them from consistently getting into the studio to record. Tray and Mel deliberately stepped back from ministry for 2 months in order to re-fresh and re-focus and got to experience a wonderful 4-day marriage intensive in Nashville during their time away. They are now back rested, refreshed, and re-focused and look forward to bringing you fresh new content in the weeks a...
2015-06-0200 minUndone RedoneUR 57: The Link Between Pornography & Sexual Exploitation In this episode, Tray and Mel kick off a new series entitled “Sex. There is Nothing Grey About It” in an effort to respond to the upcoming release of the “50 Shades of Grey” movie. Two previous guests on the show, Dawn Hawkins and Therapist Melea Stephens, join Tray and Mel to discuss the link between pornography consumption and sexual exploitation. Got a question? Email us at feedback@undoneredone.com or leave us a voicemail at www.undoneredone.com.
2015-02-0300 minUndone RedoneUR 45: A Messy Christmas In this last episode of 2013, Tray and Melody discuss Disney's Frozen, the genealogy of Christ recorded in Matthew 1 and the messiness surrounding Jesus' birth in a feeding trough surrounded by animals and the stench of manure. We often attempt to sanitize Christmas and other parts of the Christian life, but God wants to join us in the mess rather than pretend it isn't there. Merry Christmas and Season's Greetings from Tray and Mel! We look forward to bringing many exciting guests to the show in 2014!
2013-12-2400 minUndone RedoneUR 44: Pornography Harms — Dawn Hawkins Tuesday, December 10th is the National Day of Prayer to Strengthen the Fight Against Pornography and, to help bring awareness to this event and the organization behind it, Tray and Mel interview Morality in Media’s Executive Director, Dawn Hawkins. Dawn discusses Morality in Media’s fight at the national level to get obscenity and decency laws enforced and shows how being lax with these laws has helped to usher in an explosion of pornographic material in the last decade. Tune into this informative episode and please consider sharing it with your pastor or priest.
2013-12-0900 minUndone RedoneUR 43: Perfectly Imperfect Marriage Wrap-Up Tray and Mel conclude the Perfectly Imperfect Marriage series on this week’s Undone Redone podcast. Tray and Mel talk Thanksgiving, the epic Iron Bowl, and unpack how God has used this series in their own marriage over the past two months. Please consider sharing this marriage series with your family and friends!
2013-12-0400 minUndone RedoneUR 31: The Process of Healing — Michael Warden Adventurer, author, blogger, and Life Coach Michael Warden joins Tray and Mel on this week’s Undone Redone podcast. Michael openly shares his traumatic story of childhood sexual abuse and his painful yet redemptive path toward healing and genuine freedom in Christ. Michael also gives details about the BraveHeart Intensive for men and the Destiny Project for women…intensive 4-day events designed to help men and women discover and live out of their true identities in Christ. Tune-in and be encouraged by this courageous man’s path to true freedom.
2013-09-1700 min