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The Wounds That Do Not HealEpisode 25: From Homecoming to Homicide: The Betrayal of Amy ContrerasDo you have a story you’d like to share on TWTDNH or are you a subject matter expert who would like to shed light on any of the topics I cover? Shoot me a message! Last episode, we mourned the consequences of untreated PTSD. This time, we confront something far more calculated: a story of entitlement, control, and the deadly cost of leaving.Sergeant Amy Colbert had done the unimaginable—survived war zones, brought daughters into the world, and chosen freedom after years of abuse. Days after returning from deployment, she packed up her life...2025-07-3141 min
The Wounds That Do Not HealEpisode 24: The War Machine Doesn’t Stop—Even When the Battle Ends: The Desmond Family TragedyDo you have a story you’d like to share on TWTDNH or are you a subject matter expert who would like to shed light on any of the topics I cover? Shoot me a message! In this deeply personal and unflinchingly honest episode, Tressa will unravel the tragedy at the heart of a Canadian family’s devastation... and the sprawling system failures behind it. From ignored cries for help to institutional silence, and the high cost of unchecked trauma, we examine the forces that failed Lionel Desmond—and the loved ones who paid the price.This...2025-07-021h 00
The Wounds That Do Not HealEpisode 23 (Part 2) What’s Done in the Dark: Unmasking Jordan Henning and Honoring Ashley’s TruthDo you have a story you’d like to share on TWTDNH or are you a subject matter expert who would like to shed light on any of the topics I cover? Shoot me a message! **NSFW**In this episode, Tressa delves into the trial of Jordan Henning, exposing the ways Ashley Henning was failed by the system.We’ve dissected the crime, unraveled the investigation, and now, we step into the heart of the courtroom drama—examining the testimonies, the verdict, its repercussions, and the lasting impact of this tragedy. What was happen...2025-05-261h 04
The Wounds That Do Not HealEpisode 22: (Part 1) What’s Done in the Dark: Unmasking Jordan Henning and Honoring Ashley’s TruthDo you have a story you’d like to share on TWTDNH or are you a subject matter expert who would like to shed light on any of the topics I cover? Shoot me a message! In part one of this gripping episode, we unravel the shocking case of Jordan Henning, who murdered his wife, Ashley Henning. Tressa uncovers how an anonymous source handed her explosive evidence that the trial and media did not expose—revealing Jordan’s dark secrets and double life.Ashley, a devoted mother and beloved woman, endured years of deception and abuse...2025-05-2126 min
The Wounds That Do Not HealEpisode 21: Misplaced Honor: Exposing a False Idol and Celebrating the Real Hero, Madalyn CoulterDo you have a story you’d like to share on TWTDNH or are you a subject matter expert who would like to shed light on any of the topics I cover? Shoot me a message! In this deeply emotional and thought-provoking episode, Tressa returns after an unplanned hiatus to tackle an array of systemic issues. From navigating the complexities of domestic violence, military accountability, and the enduring trauma of war, this episode serves as a powerful blend of storytelling, advocacy, and education.The host shares updates on the tragic cases of Dana Alotaibi, Mischa Jo...2025-03-1158 min
The Wounds That Do Not HealEpisode 20: Plea for Help, Shadowed by Blame: Dana Alotaibi’s StoryDo you have a story you’d like to share on TWTDNH or are you a subject matter expert who would like to shed light on any of the topics I cover? Shoot me a message! Dive into the haunting story of Dana Alotaibi, an OnlyFans model and influencer, whose life was cut tragically short. In this episode, Tressa explores the systemic failures, societal attitudes, and lack of empathy that left Dana vulnerable despite her desperate pleas for help. Her story sheds light on the broader issues of victim-blaming and domestic violence within the military community....2025-01-2337 min
The Wounds That Do Not HealEpisode 19 (Part 2): Warriors' Wounds: From Exemplary Service to Terrorism-the story of Shamsud-Din JabbarDo you have a story you’d like to share on TWTDNH or are you a subject matter expert who would like to shed light on any of the topics I cover? Shoot me a message! In this gripping episode, we explore the tragic stories of two Army veterans, Matthew Livelsberger and Shamsud-Din Jabbar, who committed shocking acts on New Year's Day. Both men, plagued by mental health struggles, spiraled into radicalization and violence, leading to devastating consequences.We delve into the commonalities and differences in their backgrounds, shedding light on the systemic failures that le...2025-01-2131 min
The Wounds That Do Not HealUpdate on Marine Wife Found at Marine Corp Base Hawaii: Ruby Alcantar (nèe Tenorio)Do you have a story you’d like to share on TWTDNH or are you a subject matter expert who would like to shed light on any of the topics I cover? Shoot me a message! Rest in peace Ruby. I promise I will not let them sweep this under the rug. Ruby Tenorio Obituary and Online Memorial (2024)YouTube : @TheWoundsThatDoNotHeal“Tressa the Truthsayer”2025-01-1710 min
The Wounds That Do Not HealEpisode 18 (Part 1): Warriors' Wounds: From Combat to Conspiracy, the story of Matthew LivelsbergerDo you have a story you’d like to share on TWTDNH or are you a subject matter expert who would like to shed light on any of the topics I cover? Shoot me a message! This podcast episode delves into the tragic events surrounding Matthew Livelsberger, a 37-year-old active-duty Special Operations Soldier, who committed suicide and detonated a vehicle-born improvised explosive device (VBIED) outside Trump Tower on New Year's Day. The episode addresses Livelsberger's struggle with PTSD and perhaps traumatic brain injuries (TBI) and explores the military's handling of mental health issues among its service members. Tr...2025-01-1035 min
The Wounds That Do Not HealEpisode 17 (Part 2): Cults, Collusion, Coverups and the Hawaii Military LoreDo you have a story you’d like to share on TWTDNH or are you a subject matter expert who would like to shed light on any of the topics I cover? Shoot me a message! In this episode, Tressa explores the dichotomy of Hawaii as both a paradise and a challenging station for military personnel, highlighting the high cost of living and unique dynamics that can create stress, especially for lower-ranking service members with families. The discussion then shifts to a broader trend of young men, including teenagers, resorting to extreme violence and murder when faced wi...2024-12-3133 min
The Wounds That Do Not HealEpisode 16 (Part 1): Cults, Collusion, Coverups and the Hawaii Military LoreDo you have a story you’d like to share on TWTDNH or are you a subject matter expert who would like to shed light on any of the topics I cover? Shoot me a message! TW: Suicide and rape discussed in this episode:In this episode, we delve into the dark and often hidden world of military corruption, domestic violence, military sexual trauma, and conspiracy theories. Listeners will hear about the mysterious death of a military wife in Kaneohe Bay, the potential cover-ups of military deaths and sexual assaults, and the shocking st...2024-12-2747 min
The Wounds That Do Not HealEpisode 15: Crisis on Hawaii's Military Bases: Holding Leadership Accountable for Domestic Violence and the diabolical plan to murder Catherine WalkerDo you have a story you’d like to share on TWTDNH or are you a subject matter expert who would like to shed light on any of the topics I cover? Shoot me a message! Dive into the unsettling realities of Hawaii's military bases, where a pattern of domestic violence and unexplained murders have gone alarmingly without major systemic changes. This episode unravels a chilling case that underscores the systemic failures of military leadership in safeguarding dependents, particularly women and children. As the story unfolds, listeners are guided through a series of shocking revelations inv...2024-12-1230 min
The Wounds That Do Not HealEpisode 15: Crisis on Hawaii's Military Bases: Holding Leadership Accountable for Domestic Violence and MurdersDo you have a story you’d like to share on TWTDNH or are you a subject matter expert who would like to shed light on any of the topics I cover? Shoot me a message! Dive into the unsettling realities of Hawaii's military bases, where a pattern of domestic violence and unexplained murders have gone alarmingly without major systemic changes. This episode unravels a chilling case that underscores the systemic failures of military leadership in safeguarding dependents, particularly women and children. As the story unfolds, listeners are guided through a series of shocking revelations inv...2024-12-1229 min
The Wounds That Do Not HealEpisode 14: Shattered Idols: The Hidden Abuse by Service Members and the Harrowing Murder of Andreen McDonaldDo you have a story you’d like to share on TWTDNH or are you a subject matter expert who would like to shed light on any of the topics I cover? Shoot me a message! Andre McDonald seemed to have it all—an Air Force Major with a successful wife and beautiful daughter. But behind the facade of this San Antonio power couple lay a dark reality of control, abuse, and ultimately, murder.When 29-year-old businesswoman Andreen McDonald vanished in March 2019, those closest to her already knew who was responsible—she had warned...2024-12-0541 min
The Wounds That Do Not HealEpisode 13: Holiday Heartbreak: Military Failure Leads to the Death of Three. The Preventable Murder of Sarah Lewis and Her Beloved Baby GirlDo you have a story you’d like to share on TWTDNH or are you a subject matter expert who would like to shed light on any of the topics I cover? Shoot me a message! This podcast episode is a heartfelt and intense reflection on the challenges and dangers that holidays can bring, especially for those in abusive relationships. Tressa shares personal experiences of abuse during holidays, highlighting how increased stress, alcohol consumption, and financial strain can exacerbate domestic violence. The episode also discusses how events like football games and other sporting events can trigger abusive be...2024-12-0126 min
The Wounds That Do Not HealEpisode 12: Expat Marine Brings More Violence to Australia: The Horrifying Murder of Kelly WilkinsonDo you have a story you’d like to share on TWTDNH or are you a subject matter expert who would like to shed light on any of the topics I cover? Shoot me a message! Kelly Wilkinson knew she was in danger. She had a code phrase ready—"I'm considering moving back to Ohio"—to signal to her family that her life was at risk. But before she could use it, her worst fears came true.This episode delves into a story of domestic abuse, systemic negligence, and a prev...2024-11-1939 min
The Wounds That Do Not HealEpisode 11: The Systemic Failures of Criminal Courts that are Costing Women Their Lives: The Story of Jackelyn Wilson’s Preventable MurderDo you have a story you’d like to share on TWTDNH or are you a subject matter expert who would like to shed light on any of the topics I cover? Shoot me a message! Judge DaSean Jones had a chance to stop a violent man from causing more harm. Instead, his leniency led to tragedy—a mother of four, Jackelyn Wilson, was killed in front of her children by a man with a history of violence.Despite clear warnings and previous convictions, Jackelyn's pleas for protection were ignored. Her story is just...2024-10-2936 min
The Wounds That Do Not HealEpisode 10: Moral Injury, Mistreatment, and Murder: The Tragic Story of Private John Needham and Jacqwelyn VillagomezDo you have a story you’d like to share on TWTDNH or are you a subject matter expert who would like to shed light on any of the topics I cover? Shoot me a message! John Needham was a decorated soldier, an artist, and a man battling demons after serving in the Iraq War.Despite surviving the horrors of war, his battle with PTSD, traumatic brain injuries, and moral injury led to a tragic outcome—taking the life of the woman he loved, Jacqwelyn Villagomez. Their story reveals the devastating failures in the...2024-10-0836 min
The Wounds That Do Not HealEpisode 9: Selena Roth: The AdvocateDo you have a story you’d like to share on TWTDNH or are you a subject matter expert who would like to shed light on any of the topics I cover? Shoot me a message! The youngest of nine, Selena was a force of nature—a talented violinist, star athlete, and dedicated military intelligence analyst.But behind her achievements lay a dark secret: a troubled marriage marked by manipulation and control. Just weeks after advocating for victims of domestic violence, Selena became a victim herself.This disturbing look at domestic viol...2024-08-2126 min
The Wounds That Do Not HealEpisode 8: Honor Walk: The Meghan Santiago StoryDo you have a story you’d like to share on TWTDNH or are you a subject matter expert who would like to shed light on any of the topics I cover? Shoot me a message! What happens when the system designed to protect fails those who need it most?In this episode, I will share with you the tragic story of Meghan Santiago, a devoted mother and military spouse who endured unimaginable abuse at the hands of her husband, Joseph Santiago, a Special Forces soldier. Through detailed court records, personal testimonies, and ch...2024-07-2438 min
The Wounds That Do Not HealEpisode 7: All Things Love and War… and Legal Advice: An Interview with Expert Attorney Amanda J. HillDo you have a story you’d like to share on TWTDNH or are you a subject matter expert who would like to shed light on any of the topics I cover? Shoot me a message! How does the intersection of military law and state family law impact the rights and protections available to military spouses? And do you lose your TRICARE after divorce?I invited attorney Amanda J. Hill to cut through the confusion and reveal the hidden complexities of military divorces. She exposes little-known facts about on-base housing rights, custody during de...2024-07-0947 min
The Mike Litton ExperienceDomestic Violence Champion Embarks On A Deeply Personal Journey To Bring Awareness, Hope And Healing To Those Experiencing A Very Painful Isolation!Tressa Brady was born and raised in Southern Oregon out in the country. She enjoyed having fun outdoors and sports. In fact she and her sister were champion athletes growing up. She grows up and opens a health club, a lifelong dream. She obtained her personal training license. Her junior year in college she moved home and started a gym with her parents as partners. She opened a coffee shop and learned a great deal about entrepreneurship. She met her husband at 25 years old and he was in the special forces in the military. The experiences she went through...2024-06-2246 min
The Wounds That Do Not HealEpisode 6: Keep Rising (Part B) - Expert Interview with Dr. Megan McCoy, Certified Financial Therapist and Licensed Marriage and Family TherapistDo you have a story you’d like to share on TWTDNH or are you a subject matter expert who would like to shed light on any of the topics I cover? Shoot me a message! How can financial therapy change your view on money and relationships?Dr. Megan McCoy, the nation’s first financial therapist and a licensed marriage and family therapist, talks about how financial therapy can help when dealing with financial abuse in domestic violence cases, especially in military families. With her expertise in both mental health and financial well-being, Dr...2024-06-1344 min
The Wounds That Do Not HealEpisode 5: Keep Rising (Part A)Do you have a story you’d like to share on TWTDNH or are you a subject matter expert who would like to shed light on any of the topics I cover? Shoot me a message! Is the traditional wife trend merely a nostalgic fantasy, or does it conceal a sinister reality? In this episode, I peel back the layers of the picture-perfect stay-at-home housewife image to expose the insidious nature of economic abuse. Sharing my own story and advice, I show how this seemingly innocent 1950s lifestyle can trap victims in a cycle of control and de...2024-06-0648 min
The Wounds That Do Not HealEpisode 4: 7th Time’s the Charm (Part B) - Expert Interview with Dr. Christine Cochiola, Clinician, Social Justice Advocate, and Expert on Coercive ControlDo you have a story you’d like to share on TWTDNH or are you a subject matter expert who would like to shed light on any of the topics I cover? Shoot me a message! Today we are joined by Dr. Christine Cocchiola, a clinician and coach specializing in the traumatic experiences of adult and child victims of coercive control. With expertise that goes beyond individual cases, Christine focuses on the broader impact of coercive control on children and the importance of education in preventing generational trauma from this insidious form of abuse. Listen in to le...2024-05-2423 min
The Wounds That Do Not HealEpisode 3: 7th Time's the Charm (Part A)Do you have a story you’d like to share on TWTDNH or are you a subject matter expert who would like to shed light on any of the topics I cover? Shoot me a message! What are the signs of emotional abuse in relationships? In this episode, I'll be sharing the often hidden world of emotional abuse and its impact. I'll describe my personal journey of recognizing and surviving emotional abuse and why it can be as dangerous as physical abuse. From coercive control tactics to the cycle of abuse, I'll explain the manipulation techniques used by...2024-05-1443 min
The Wounds That Do Not HealEpisode 2: Soldier’s Heart (Part B) Expert Interview with Dr. Shauna SpringerDo you have a story you’d like to share on TWTDNH or are you a subject matter expert who would like to shed light on any of the topics I cover? Shoot me a message! What does post-traumatic stress injury truly entail? And how does it manifest within personal relationships and family dynamics? Dr. Shauna 'Doc' Springer, a renowned psychologist and expert in psychological trauma, sheds light on these questions and more as she explains the complexities of PTSI. Drawing from her extensive experience working with military warfighters and first responders, Dr. Springer offers insights into th...2024-05-0744 min
Discover Top Full Audiobooks in Kids, Animals & NatureLeila & Nugget Mystery: Bark at the Park by Deserae Brady, Dustin BradyPlease visithttps://thebookvoice.com/podcasts/1/audiobook/713568to listen full audiobooks.
Title: Leila & Nugget Mystery: Bark at the Park
Series: #3 of Leila and Nugget Mysteries
Author: Deserae Brady, Dustin Brady
Narrator: Emily Eiden
Format: Unabridged Audiobook
Length: 1 hour 9 minutes
Release date: October 17, 2023
Genres: Animals & Nature
Publisher's Summary:
Leila Beal and her little dog, Nugget, are back in this third and final installment of Leila & Nugget Mysteries. Leila, Kait, and their dogs are on a mission to rescue the missing Red Dogs' team mascot. This year’s Bark at the Park event at the Middleburg Red Dogs baseball stadium could not have gotten...2023-10-171h 09
Burn It All DownEp. 243: Hanging Up The Racket: Retirement and Aging in SportIn this episode Brenda Elsey, Shireen Ahmed and Lindsay Gibbs talk aging and retirement in sports. But first, they discuss fun sports moments of the last week, like Justin Bieber's new Maple Leafs Jersey. Then, they unpack the ways that aging is viewed, delayed and exacerbated through sport. From the recent surprise retirement of 25-year-old tennis phenom Ash Barty to the unretirement of Tom Brady to the ways athletes in many sports are playing longer and longer, they also discuss the ways that personal economics, identity and redemption narratives are linked to how and when (and if!) athletes retire.
Following t...2022-03-2950 minBurn It All DownInterview: Shalise Manza Young, Yahoo Sports Columnist, on NFL News and Superbowl LVIIn this episode, Amira Rose Davis talks to Shalise Manza Young, Yahoo sports columnist and former Patriots beat reporter. They discuss Brian Flores's lawsuit, Tom Brady’s retirement, the rise of Joe Burrows and how she's seen sports media change over the years.
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