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Please Say The DaileyHow Sexual Identity Labels Fail Contemporary Queer LifeIn this episode of Please Say The Dailey, sociologist and host Vanisha R. Dailey slows down a conversation that’s been circulating heavily online — particularly around studs, “straight women,” and who gets to be considered legitimately queer.Rather than leading with hot takes, this episode looks at what these debates reveal about belonging, sexuality, and the ways queer communities sometimes reproduce conditional acceptance instead of care. Pulling from sociological research, queer theory, and lived community experience, Vanisha explores how identity develops over time, why bisexual and questioning people are often erased, and what happens when queernes...
2025-12-1921 minPlease Say The Dailey'Tis the Season for Shaming People That Celebrate Holidays and Feed Capitalism!Follow Me on Substack: https://vanishardailey.substack.com/about12/04/25In this episode of Please Say The Dailey, Vanisha talks about the controversial topic of how holiday celebrations are often tied to consumerism and capitalism. She discusses why some people feel judged or ostracized for “participating” in holidays, even when their celebration is rooted in family, joy, or tradition rather than consumer excess. She questions whether holiday-shaming is ever actually justified and what role capitalism plays in shaping our holiday behaviors and feelings of guilt. Whether you love or hate the holidays, this conversation offe...
2025-12-0420 minPlease Say The DaileyWhy So Many Adults Feel Lonely, and What We Can Do About ItIn this insightful episode, Vanisha R. Dailey discusses the complex reasons why so many adults experience loneliness—even when they are surrounded by people. Drawing on recent data from the Pew Research Center, Vanisha speaks on how modern life, technology, shifting social norms, and internal hurdles (like self-perception and communication style) all play a role.She also brings in practical strategies for reconnecting: from building intentional friendships and deepening emotional intimacy, to small daily shifts that can break cycles of isolation. Whether you are feeling disconnected post-work, navigating relationship changes, or simply longing for more meaningful connection, th...
2025-11-1927 minPlease Say The DaileyHear Me Out: Could We Be Overthinking Gender Identity? Pronouns and Trans Identity Discussion.Follow Me on SUBSTACK--- CLICK HERE VanishaRDailey.substack.comIn this episode, Vanisha R. Dailey discusses her personal experiences and insights on gender identity, societal norms, and the complexities surrounding pronouns. She reflects on her journey with she/her vs. she/they pronouns, the influence of societal expectations, and the implications of Halloween costumes in gender norms. The conversation also touches on recent controversies in gender spaces and the importance of navigating these discussions with empathy and understanding.Send me a text! Stay Golden HawaiiNeed...
2025-11-1120 minPlease Say The DaileyThe Double Standards of Whiteness-- A Discussion on Black Activism and Charlie KirkIn this episode of Please Say The Dailey, host Vanisha R. Dailey reflects on the legacy of Assata Shakur, the impact of the Black Panther Party, and the systemic injustices faced by marginalized communities. The conversation delves into the historical context of activism, government opposition, and the media's portrayal of racial issues, particularly in light of recent events surrounding Charlie Kirk. Vanisha emphasizes the importance of critical thinking and the need to address double standards in public outrage and media narratives.Send me a text! Become a...
2025-10-0233 minPlease Say The DaileyBreaking Down Bisexuality: Myths and RealitiesIn this episode, Vanisha R. Dailey explores the complexities of sexuality, focusing on bisexuality and the societal challenges faced by bisexual individuals. She discusses the importance of bisexual awareness, the history of Bi Visibility Day, and the misconceptions surrounding bisexuality. The conversation delves into the impact of heteronormativity and cultural hegemony on sexual identity, as well as the unique struggles faced by bisexual people. Vanisha shares personal reflections on her own sexual identity and emphasizes the importance of community and living authentically.---------------------Click Here For My Stay Golden Hawaii Discount Code
2025-09-1021 minPlease Say The DaileyThe Privilege of Silence and A Discussion on Americans Moving Abroad.Vanisha R. Dailey shares her experiences starting grad school and reflects on the challenges of balancing academic demands with personal life. She discusses the impact of noise and privilege, drawing parallels to the experiences of those living in war zones. The conversation shifts to the current political climate, exploring themes of authoritarianism and activism. Vanisha also addresses the complexities of relocating abroad, financial realities, and the importance of travel preparedness. The episode concludes with a call to action for listeners to support the podcast and take care of their mental health.Links and Information Featured
2025-08-2521 minPlease Say The DaileyFriends-- How Many of Us Have Them in a Post-Pandemic World?In this episode, Vanisha R. Dailey explores the complexities of adult friendships, the impact of the pandemic on social connections, and the loneliness epidemic exacerbated by social media. She shares personal experiences and insights on navigating social anxiety, the importance of genuine connections, and practical tips for building friendships through shared interests and intentional actions.Sources Used for this Episode:https://static1.squarespace.com/static/5b7c56e255b02c683659fe43/t/67001295042a0f327c6e6fab/1728058005340/Loneliness_+Brief+Report+2024_October_FINAL.pdfhttps://www.gse.harvard.edu/ideas/usable-knowledge/24/10/what-causing-our-epidemic-loneliness-and-how-can-we-fix-it
2025-08-1226 minPlease Say The DaileyThe Confusion with Identity within the Black American CommunityIn this episode, Vanisha R. Dailey explores the complexities of race, ethnicity, and nationality, sharing personal experiences and insights. She discusses the confusion surrounding these concepts, the impact of misinformation, and the significance of identity in the context of American culture. The conversation also touches on the importance of understanding indigenous identity and the historical context of racial classifications.What Native Land Do You Live On?https://native-land.caRacehttps://www.genome.gov/genetics-glossary/Race#:~:text=Race%20is%20a%20social%20construct,social%20factors%20and%20...
2025-05-2722 minPlease Say The DaileyThe Importance of Community in Maternal Health and My Birth StoryIn this episode, Vanisha R. Dailey delves into the serious topics of maternal health, community support, and the unique challenges faced by Black mothers. She shares her personal birth story, highlighting the systemic issues in maternal healthcare and the importance of community in navigating motherhood. The conversation emphasizes the need for societal support and understanding of diverse parenting experiences, including those of LGBTQ individuals and the intersectionality of identity in motherhood.@NyaraiWaistBeadshttps://www.instagram.com/nyaraiwaistbeads?igsh=NG8yd3drYnM4YWc1@LaborWithKaci...
2025-04-2728 minPlease Say The DaileyThe Impact of AI on Personal Safety--Someone Is Using An AI Photo of Me!THE PHOTOhttps://www.facebook.com/share/1BDPkvBXtz/?mibextid=wwXIfrIn this episode, Vanisha R. Dailey discusses her personal updates, including her upcoming grad school journey and a recent vacation. She shares a concerning story about someone using an AI-generated photo of her on social media, highlighting the implications of digital identity theft and the risks associated with modern technology. The conversation emphasizes the need for awareness regarding privacy and the potential dangers of sharing personal information online.Calculate your carbon footprint!https...
2025-04-2612 minPlease Say The DaileyNavigating Digital Identities, Relationships, and SexualityIn this conversation, Vanisha R. Dailey explores the intersections of digital technology, personal identity, and societal norms, particularly in the context of relationships and LGBTQ dynamics. She reflects on her own experiences with social media, the impact of digital sociology, and the evolving definitions of gender and sexuality. The discussion also delves into the historical perspectives on gender roles and the implications of heteronormativity in modern relationships.Population Statistics on Religionhttps://populationeducation.org/world-population-by-religion-a-global-tapestry-of-faith/General Population Count Statistics https://populationmatters.org/lp-the-facts/?g...
2025-04-0135 minPlease Say The DaileyEmotional Reactions in ParentingIn this conversation, Vanisha R. Dailey shares her experiences and reflections on parenting, cultural interactions in her neighborhood, and the emotional challenges that arise when navigating her child's social experiences. She discusses a specific incident involving her child and another child, exploring themes of self-advocacy, emotional reactions, and the importance of mental health in parenting. Vanisha emphasizes the need for parents to be gentle with themselves and encourages open discussions about mental health and therapy.Send me a text! Support the showThank you for visiting! Vanisha...
2025-03-1713 minPlease Say The DaileyDoechii's Bold Statement--Along With My First GuestIn this episode, host Vanisha R. Dailey engages in a thought-provoking conversation with her husband, Jesse, about the recent statements made by rapper Doechii regarding her dating preferences and the implications of her comments on heterosexual men. They explore the societal perceptions of masculinity, the impact of patriarchy on both men and women, and the evolving dynamics of gender and sexuality. The discussion delves into the complexities of relationships, the importance of honesty, and the challenges faced by individuals navigating their identities in a changing world.Send me a text! Support the...
2025-03-1118 minPlease Say The DaileyCultural and Societal Reflections: Black History Month and How Gender is a Social Construct.In this conversation on Please Say The Dailey, Vanisha R. Dailey explores the significance of podcasting as a platform for cultural reflection and personal storytelling. She discusses the importance of Black History Month, the origins of its celebration, and the contributions of African Americans. The conversation also delves into the complexities of identity, gender norms, and the need for acceptance and understanding in society. Through personal anecdotes and historical context, Vanisha R. Dailey emphasizes the value of vulnerability and the importance of embracing individuality.Send me a text! Support the...
2025-03-0319 minPlease Say The DaileyYou Asked, I Delivered--Welcome To My Podcast!In this engaging podcast, Vanisha Dailey-Jones shares her journey of starting a podcast after years of contemplation. She discusses the challenges of navigating social media, particularly the bullying and backlash she faces for expressing her views. The conversation delves into the concept of race as a social construct, exploring its historical context and the societal implications of such constructs. Vanisha emphasizes the importance of understanding these dynamics in today's world, particularly in light of the rise of eugenics and its impact on racial theories.Send me a text! Become a...
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