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Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
Helping Your Kids Choose Presence This Summer
This Summer, Don’t Let Screens Raise Your KidsWhat if the “golden idol” in your home glows… and fits in your child’s hand?This week on Needed Conversations, Ryan & Viktoriya Cole unpack one of the most urgent topics facing families today: how to reclaim your kids from screen time and reset your home around God’s presence this summer.With school out and devices calling louder than ever, most parents feel stuck between survival mode and spiritual neglect. But this episode offers something di...
2025-05-20
32 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
When In-Laws Cross The Line
In this week’s powerful episode of Needed Conversations, Ryan and Viktoriya Cole tackle one of the most sensitive issues many couples face: setting healthy boundaries with extended family.Whether it’s in-laws overstepping, family drama leaking into your marriage, or blurred lines of emotional dependency, learning how to protect the spiritual atmosphere of your home is critical. With biblical examples and personal stories, Ryan and Viktoriya walk you through:✅ Why "leave and cleave" still matters✅ How to honor your parents without giving them unlimited access✅ Crea...
2025-05-07
32 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
From Hustle to Harmony
What if the most spiritual thing you could do right now… is rest?In this week’s episode of Needed Conversations, Ryan and Viktoriya Cole unpack a revolutionary truth: you were never meant to live from hustle to exhaustion, from pressure to burnout. You were designed to work from rest—not for it. Before Adam received his assignment, God introduced him to the rhythm of rest. His very first full day was the Sabbath. In this episode, the Coles explore how our obsession with productivity has disrupted our marriages, diminished intimacy, and distanced us from G...
2025-04-22
36 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
Desire, Distraction, & Preventing The Death Of Intimacy
What does your social media algorithm say about the state of your soul—and the health of your marriage?In this week’s episode of Needed Conversations, Ryan and Viktoriya take you deep into the quiet war being waged right in your pocket. It's not just about screens—it's about desires, distractions, and the subtle erosion of intimacy.You’ll explore:How your algorithm is discipling your desiresThe spiritual dangers of ambient noise and digital fatigueWhy stillness is where God speaks—and connection thrivesA powerful couples' challenge: swap phones and...
2025-04-15
34 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
The Presence Pledge
It's time to reset. Your marriage needs your presence—not constant distractions.Welcome to a brand new 8+ week series on Needed Conversations with Ryan & Viktoriya Cole — The Presence Pledge. In this first episode, we're laying the foundation for a relationship reset that prioritizes connection, restores rhythm, and realigns your heart with God and your spouse.In Episode 1: The Power of Presence, we’ll explore:What the Bible says about presence in the Garden (Genesis 3:8)How daily rhythms affect emotional, spiritual, and physical intimacyWhy two sacred windows—morning and evening—...
2025-04-09
31 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
Cultivating Intimacy In The Garden of Marriage
Can intimacy grow again after betrayal, distance, or seasons of silence? In this powerful episode of Needed Conversations, Ryan and Viktoriya Cole explore how intimacy in marriage—emotional, spiritual, and physical—is not just a moment, but something that must be cultivated like a garden.Drawing from the rich imagery of the Song of Solomon and personal stories, they invite couples to rethink intimacy as more than sex. It's about trust, pursuit, and the daily tending of your marriage soil. Whether your garden is blooming or buried under weeds, this episode will help you find hope, healing, and...
2025-03-25
40 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
When I'm Sorry Isn't Enough
Sometimes apologies feel empty—either because they’re not genuine or because the pain runs too deep to move on. But in marriage, forgiveness isn’t optional. So how do you heal, rebuild trust, and truly reconcile after hurt? In this episode of Needed Conversations with Ryan & Viktoriya Cole, we’re diving deep into:Why "I'm sorry" doesn’t always fix things & what a real apology looks likeThe difference between forgiveness & trust (they are NOT the same!)What Jesus really meant by forgiving 70x7—and why that doesn’t mean being a doormatWhat "love always trusts" actually means...
2025-03-11
37 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
Your Capacity Determines Your Future—Here’s How to Increase It
In this episode of Needed Conversations, Ryan and Viktoriya Cole explore how to enlarge your capacity for the next stage in life and marriage. They discuss the importance of exposure to new experiences and the power of building effective networks and relationships. Highlighting the significance of taking personal responsibility and aligning with God's purpose, they emphasize strategies for couples to navigate transitions and elevate their spiritual and relational growth. This episode also touches on the detrimental impact of toxic relationships and the benefits of seeking mentors and wise counsel, all within the context of their 'Built to Last' series.00:00...
2025-02-25
31 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
New Rules For A New Season In Your Marriage
🚨 Are you operating with old strategies in a new season? 🚨If you don’t learn the protocols of your next level before you get there, the very thing meant to bless you could become the thing that crushes you. Many marriages struggle not because of a lack of love, but because of a failure to adapt to the new challenges, responsibilities, and blessings that come with growth.In this episode of Needed Conversations, we (Ryan & Viktoriya Cole) are talking about New Rules for a New Season in Marriage—how to recognize when it’s time to shift, re...
2025-02-18
33 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
You Can’t Change Your Spouse—But You CAN Do This!
In this episode of Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole discuss the importance of personal commitment within a marriage and how to navigate differing levels of discipline and commitment between spouses. They share personal stories, strategies for supporting your spouse, and emphasize accepting rather than trying to control your spouse. The episode also touches on how to set realistic expectations, the power of prayer, and the significance of seeking wise counsel. As part of their 'Built to Last' series, they aim to help couples find strength in individual commitment while working collaboratively towards shared goals.00:00...
2025-02-11
31 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
A Better Marriage Starts With You
Built To Last Part 1 | Needed Conversations In this first episode of season 7 of Needed Conversations, hosts Ryan and Viktoriya Cole discuss the importance of personal commitment and alignment with God's purpose as a foundation for a healthy marriage. They emphasize the necessity of creating intentional moments of silence, practicing self-discipline, and leading by example in your spiritual and emotional growth. The episode also outlines the significance of knowing your identity in Christ and the impact that maintaining your personal commitments has on your marriage. 00:00 Introduction: Aligning with God's Purpose 00:52 Welcome to Season Seven
2025-02-04
30 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
Navigating Boundaries In Marriage
In this episode of 'Needed Conversations with Ryan & Viktoriya Cole,' part of the 'Summer Shorts' series, we discuss the essential need for boundaries in marriage to foster healthy communication. We break down different types of boundaries such as personal space, communication, emotional, financial, and sexual boundaries, emphasizing their importance and offering practical advice on how to implement them. Register now for the Forevermore Marriage Getaway at https://forevermoregetaway.com/ Looking Ahead: Hit the subscribe button to stay updated with our latest conversations, filled with insights to enhance your marriage. If this ministry has been...
2024-06-30
29 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
Do You Have A Passive Aggressive Marriage?
In this episode of 'Needed Conversations with Ryan & Viktoriya Cole,' part of our 'Summer Shorts' series, we dive deep into the nuances of nonverbal communication in marriages. We explore why spouses might say they're fine when they're not and discuss the impact of passive-aggressive behavior. We offer insights on understanding body language, facial expressions, and tone of voice to improve relationship dynamics. Additionally, we highlight the importance of aligning actions with words and doing the inner work necessary for genuine transformation. The episode also includes details about the upcoming Forevermore Getaway for couples on August 30th and 31st...
2024-06-24
29 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
Part 2 of 12 Keys for Cultivating Passion in Marriage
Hello everyone, Ryan & Viktoriya here from "Needed Conversations," your go-to podcast for marriage empowerment. Today, we're finishing up the "12 Keys for Cultivating Passion in Marriage." Did you know that passion is more in your control than you think it is? By intentionally delighting in your spouse using these 12 strategies you can reignite the desire for one another. 🔑 What You'll Learn Today: 7. Shared Experiences: Understand the importance of creating memories together through activities like traveling, exploring new hobbies, or facing challenges side by side. Discover how these experiences deepen your connection beyond surface-level interactions. 8. Per...
2024-02-22
34 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
Part 1 of 12 Keys for Cultivating Passion in Marriage
Hello everyone, Ryan & Viktoriya here from "Needed Conversations," your go-to podcast for marriage empowerment. Today, we're thrilled to share with you the first part of our special series: "12 Keys for Cultivating Passion in Marriage." Marriage is a beautiful journey of growth, intimacy, and spiritual connection. In this episode, we unveil the first six of twelve practical strategies aimed at deepening the bond between you and your spouse. From mastering the art of active listening to understanding the importance of expressing love in your partner's language, we're here to guide you through essential steps to reignite the spark and foster...
2024-02-14
39 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
Passion Reignited
What is passion in marriage & where does it come from? Can it be resurrected? There are so many couples who say "The spark is gone" or "I'm not in love in more" but fail to realize that we are more in control of our desire than we think we are. In this episode, we talk about how you can cultivate passion and desire in marriage. The bible has a lot to say about this topic including Psalm 37:4 "Take delight in the LORD, and he will give you the desires of your heart." But the way we...
2024-02-07
45 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
The Origin Story of the Wife
The origin story of the wife is often misunderstood. The name"Eve" didn't even emerge until after the couple in the Garden of Eden sinned and were removed. You see, the tension between men and women was a part of the curse, but through Christ, the story of Eve has been reversed and now we're able to discover God's original design for the wife. Along with discovering her real story, in this episode, we help women rise to their full potential by talking about how to: + Refine and strengthen your God-given relational skills. +...
2024-02-01
1h 01
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
The Presence Driven Marriage
In this episode of "Needed Conversations with Ryan & Viktoriya Cole," we discuss the importance of having a spiritual foundation in marriage, how to grow spiritually with your spouse, and how walking in the presence of God is paramount if you want to fulfill your purpose and have a marriage with a mission. #PresenceDrivenMarriage #NeededConversations #SpiritualMarriage #ChristianCouples #MarriageGoals #RyanAndViktoriyaCole Join our INTENTIONAL MARRIAGE COMMUNITY HERE: https://empoweredculture.donorsupport.co/page/intentional If this ministry has been a blessing to you, partner with us now at http://moremostforever.com where you will have the opportunity to join...
2024-01-10
44 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
The Story Your Marriage Is Telling
What is the story that you're telling about your marriage? Do you want to repeat the story you told last year? It's time to return to the greatest story ever told...and maybe you'll be surprised to find out that it's a story of marriage too. In this episode of "Needed Conversations," Ryan and Viktoriya Cole dive deep into the heart of what makes a marriage truly meaningful. They explore the divine institution of marriage as God originally intended, drawing powerful insights from the Genesis account. This episode is not just about marriage as a social contract...
2024-01-03
52 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
The Unconventional Path to a Legendary Marriage
In the latest episode of "Needed Conversations," Ryan and Viktoriya Cole discuss the art of building an Intentional Marriage for 2024. Discover what it truly means to have a marriage rooted in purpose by rethinking "romance" in marriage, date nights, and the faulty ideas you have about marriage. 🌍 A Special Announcement! Don't miss our upcoming FREE Online Marriage Event! The Intentional Marriage Webinar will be a game-changer for your relationship, offering strategies for a more fruitful and connected marriage in 2024. Learn how to fortify your marriage against challenges and grow stronger together. 📅 Event Details: Date: Monday, November 27th Time: 8:30 PM Easter...
2023-11-22
26 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
An Economic Shift For The Church
Hey there, welcome to Needed Conversations! It's Ryan & Viktoriya Cole here. In this latest episode of our podcast, we're diving into some really important topics about finances as we take a broader look at the global economy and how the church should be preparing for the future. We've previously explored topics like prosperity, tithing, offerings, and sowing seeds, but in this episode, we're taking a deeper look into what the Lord has shown us about the future of the church, what is happening with a one-world economy being set up, and how the church can prepare by...
2023-11-02
56 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
God's Investment Strategy: The Power of the Seed
In today's episode, we take on the topic of investment from a biblical perspective. We explore the stark contrast between today's consumer mentality and the empowering investment mindset that the Bible champions. Together, we uncover the profound revelation of the seed offering and decode the Parable of the Talents to extract financial strategies. If you've ever wanted to know what the Bible says about financial investing, this is the episode for you. Join us, Ryan & Viktoriya Cole, as we help you discover the wisdom principles that made Solomon such an effective and wealthy leader. If...
2023-10-19
1h 02
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
The Marriage Money Blueprint
In this episode of "Needed Conversations with Ryan & Viktoriya Cole," we start a new series all about money & marriage. This new series, "The Prosperous Marriage" helps to unlock wealth creation strategies for couples. In this episode, we unravel the secrets of a prosperous marriage, challenging the traditional views and offering a fresh perspective. 🔍 Topics Covered:The true meaning of prosperity in a marriage.How to shift from a poverty mindset to a prosperity mindset.The dominion mandate and its role in financial success.Stewardship vs. Ownership: Which mindset are you carrying?Real-life strategies for managing mon...
2023-10-03
42 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
From Me to We: How To Write A Vision For Your Marriage
In this episode of "Needed Conversations with Ryan & Viktoriya Cole," we dive deep into the heart of marriage and the importance of vision writing. Drawing from the inspiration of Rosh Hashanah, the Jewish New Year, we emphasize the need for couples to reflect on the year so far and plan for gaining a jump start into the new year. Central to our discussion are six pivotal questions that every couple should ask themselves to craft a shared vision for their lives. These questions touch on your personal growth, your purpose, your passions, and the mission of your marriage. We...
2023-09-26
47 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
How to Fortify Your Marriage With a God-Given Mission
Dive into a transformative journey in Season 6 of our podcast "Needed Conversations with Ryan & Viktoriya Cole. During this first episode, we will explore the concept of having a "Marriage with a Mission." Drawing inspiration from biblical couples like Abraham and Sarah, we discuss the vital importance of shared vision in a relationship. Discover how gender dynamics, grounded in science and scripture, influence the way couples perceive and achieve their goals. Get ready to see your marriage transformed as you write a vision together and put the pieces to ensure that you're ready to fulfill...
2023-09-20
45 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
Navigating Marriage & Your Calling | Interview with Pastors Chris & Nita Daigle
"In this special live edition of 'Needed Conversations w/ Ryan & Viktoriya Cole', we dive deep into an enriching conversation with Pastors Chris & Nita Daigle. Journey with us as we explore their experiences in marriage and ministry, uncovering invaluable lessons and heartfelt stories. From their early days in ministry to navigating the challenges of modern-day spirituality, the Daigles open up about their path and the wisdom they've accumulated along the way. Whether you're in ministry, considering it, or simply seeking insights into a life led by purpose and faith, this episode promises to inspire and enlighten. Join us for this...
2023-08-23
1h 08
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
Investing In Your Marriage
"Welcome back to Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole! In this episode, we continue our series on the seven Habits of an Intentional Marriage or Intentional Couple. Today, we delve into the third aspect of being an intentional couple: prioritizing quality time.Join us as we discuss the importance of investing in quality time and how it can strengthen your relationship. Quality time doesn't necessarily mean spending hours together; it's about being intentional with the time you have. We share practical strategies and inexpensive date ideas to help you make the most of your time together.**** We also...
2023-06-28
41 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
The Ultimate Marriage Prayers | Part 1
Hey there, fellow couples! Ryan and Viktoriya Cole here, and we're excited to invite you to join us in "The Ultimate Marriage Prayers - Part 1." We understand that marriage can be challenging, and sometimes it feels like you're stuck in a rut. That's why we've created this powerful prayer session, designed to help you and your spouse deepen your relationship with God and each other, gain fresh vision and strategy for your future, and improve your communication and unity. We also know that forgiveness and healing from hurt and pain are crucial to the success of any...
2023-03-02
15 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
Submission: The Counter-Cultural Approach to a Successful Marriage
It's a word that often carries negative connotations, but in this episode of "Needed Conversations with Ryan & Viktoriya Cole," we're reclaiming the beauty and power of submission in marriage. Join us as we explore this often-misunderstood principle and learn how it can deepen your intimacy and strengthen your bond with your spouse. Support this podcast by giving to our ministry at https://www.ryancoleempowerment.com/giving Get the marriage book bundle now at https://marriage.ryancoleempowerment.com/bookbundle Follow us on Instagram for dating and marriage wisdom https://www.instagram.com/moremostforever/
2023-02-15
31 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
The Divine Design of a Woman
In this episode of "Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole," we dive into the topic of womanhood from a biblical perspective. We discuss the controversial progressive gender ideologies that have been circulating in society and explore the true essence of being a woman. We delve into the biological and spiritual qualities that define womanhood and look at the divine design of the female identity. Join us as we navigate this important conversation and discover the beauty of womanhood through a biblical lens. Support this podcast by giving to our ministry at https://www.ryancoleempowerment.com/giving
2023-01-25
39 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
How Courageous Men Lead Their Families w/ Mike Anthony [Needed Conversations]
In the fourth episode in the series, "As For Me & My House," we are joined by special guest Mike Anthony from www.CourageMatters.com and the author of "A Call For Courage" to discuss the role of men in society today. With mass shootings happening more often and the common denominator being that they are all men, we raise the question, "Are we empowering men in America to lead?" Ryan and Mike answer that question, discuss the God-ordained role of men in the home and in society, and give some wisdom for raising sons...just in time for Father's...
2022-06-06
1h 26
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
The Power of a Husband's Words
We're LIVE all week on Instagram talking all things MARRIAGE! https://www.instagram.com/moremostforever/ Yesterday, Viktoriya took the lead by talking about the power that a wife has in her words, and tonight it's the HUSBAND'S turn. In this teaching, I take about the role of a husband in marriage and the power we have in declaring blessings over our wife and calling forth his potential. Husbands, your words hold weight, presence, spiritual authority, influence behavior, and establish identity in your children. Our newest book SPICY Sex is now available in paperback and e-book. G...
2022-04-21
38 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
The Power of a Woman's Words
We're LIVE all week on Instagram talking all things MARRIAGE! https://www.instagram.com/moremostforever/ In this episode Viktoriya takes the lead by talking about the power that a woman has in her words to either tear her husband down or to build him up. There is a special weight behind a wife's words to prophesy life over her husband and give him the encouragement he needs to lead their family. Our newest book SPICY Sex is now available in paperback and e-book. Get the e-book now at https://www.ryancoleempowerment.com/store/spicysex
2022-04-20
26 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
Becoming a Happy Homemaker
In this episode, Viktoriya interviews Tamika Vaughn, a homesteading stay-at-home mom. She and her husband left their comfort zones to explore unconventional living. Together they are raising their 2 children and caring for their elderly aunt on a farm in SC. Tamika shares her wisdom as a mom, farmer, and follower of Christ. Find out more about Tamika at https://happyhomemakerchronicles.com/ Donate to our ministry at https://www.ryancoleempowerment.com/giving Purchase our book on dating and marriage now at https://www.ryancoleempowerment.com/store/iloveyoumore Follow us on social media:
2021-11-01
33 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
Are You Up For The Challenge?
We have some exciting things to announce! We're ramping up our dating and marriage resources for this next month! This includes 2 unique challenges and the roll-out of some new books. Dating Challenge: The 3-Day Activate Your Dating Life Challenge If you are single, let us help you hit the reset button on your dating life. On September 14-16 we are going to be helping you upgrade your dating strategy, get right with God, & experience lasting love! To join the challenge text "Activate" to +1 (864) 428-7131. We will send you a link to the private Facebook group w...
2021-08-30
11 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
Sex Worth Fighting For [ 🌶 Spicy Sessions ]
We finish up our series on God's purpose for Sex by discussing the Y in our acronym S.P.I.C.Y. — Yeilding & Yearning! This episode is vitally important because we help you navigate arguments and disagreements in marriage, especially the ones that negatively affect your sex life. Join the conversation in the comments below! Buy our book "I Love You More, Most, & Forever" now at https://www.ryancoleempowerment.com/store/iloveyoumore Donate to this ministry at https://www.ryancoleempowerment.com/giving TEXT US!!! • Keywords "marriage" or "dating" to (864) 428-7131 ...with your questions o...
2021-08-23
35 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
A Comforting Embrace [🌶 Spicy Sessions]
There is so much more to sex than the physical. Today's episode discusses one of the more overlooked aspects of sex in the covenant of marriage—comfort. When you're in the safety of marriage, sex becomes a tool for God to ease your burdens, bring healing to your soul, and help soothe the pain of grief. Whether you're single or married, this episode is for you. This conversation will equip you with the tools you need to release the supernatural into your marriage or future marriage. Buy our book "I Love You More, Most, & Forever" now at htt...
2021-08-16
41 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
Intense Intimacy [🌶 Spicy Sessions]
Intimacy is so much more than the act of sex itself, but instead, it's mastering the art of effective and trustworthy communication with your spouse. Where there is effective communication and intentional pursuit of knowing one another, there is an increase in the intensity of your sex life. This is the I from our acronym S.P.I.C.Y. to help you learn God's purpose for sex. Buy our book "I Love You More, Most, & Forever" now at https://www.ryancoleempowerment.com/store/iloveyoumore Donate to this ministry at https://www.ryancoleempowerment.com/giving
2021-08-09
27 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
The Supernatural Side of Sex [🌶 Spicy Sessions]
This episode is for both married and single people! Sex is so much more than a physical act! It's a full spirit, soul, and body connection that should not be taken lightly. In the covenant of marriage, sex is a powerful tool for procreation, partnership, & prophetic activation. Your marriage was designed to be a tabernacle for the glory of God and sex is the means by which that is initiated. Buy our book "I Love You More, Most, & Forever" now at https://www.ryancoleempowerment.com/store/iloveyoumore TEXT US!!! • Keywords "marriage" or "dating" to (864) 428-7131 ...with...
2021-08-02
25 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
The Most Satisfying Sex [🌶 Spicy Sessions]
In this episode, we discuss how God designed sex to be satisfying and pleasurable. We also address what Christian purity culture got wrong and the right way to approach the conversations about abstinence, modesty, and overall purity. Finally, we talk about the do's and don'ts in the bedroom if you're married. What acts are appropriate and is there anything off-limits? Buy our book "I Love You More, Most, & Forever" now at https://www.ryancoleempowerment.com/store/iloveyoumore TEXT US!!! • Keywords "marriage" or "dating" to (864) 428-7131 ...with your questions on this topic and we will address in t...
2021-07-26
38 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
The Purpose of Sex [🌶 Spicy Sessions]
This episode of our Summer Love shifts our conversation into the Holy of Holies / Most Holy Place! This is where you deal with the covenant of marriage, intimacy, sex, and yes...these next few episodes are going to be spicy. Nothing is off the table in these conversations so be prepared. In this first part, we talk about God's purpose for sex with a fun acronym S.P.I.C.Y. to help you remember: Sex should be SPICY 🌶 Satisfaction Procreation / Partnership / Prophetic Activation (reinforcing the mission) Intimacy Comfort Yielding / Yearning Listen to the Summer Love W...
2021-07-19
34 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
Soulful Dating [Summer Love Series]
This episode of our Summer Love series focuses on the second stage of the dating process...the inner court! This is where you deal with the matters of your soul. In this episode, we discuss what the one-on-one dating process for Christians should look like. I also read an excerpt from my book, "I Love You More, Most, & Forever!" Share this with a friend who needs this wisdom in their life! Sign up for the Summer Love Webinar at https://summerlovewebinar.com/ Buy our book "I Love You More, Most, & Forever" now at https://www.r...
2021-07-05
29 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
Dating In Plain Sight [Summer Love Series]
This episode of our Summer Love series focuses on the qualifying stage of dating. These are all from our 3 phase approach to dating that's found in our book! This is a pivotal stage of the dating process and cannot be overlooked! If you're single or dating these tips we're giving today are just the tip of the iceberg. Join us for a FREE Night of Dating mentorship for all those who are single, dating, & engaged. Click the link below to sign up for our Summer Love Webinar! Sign up for the Summer Love Webinar at https://summerlovewebinar.c...
2021-06-28
29 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
Gabriel Pagan: Former Gay Man, Now a Pastor Tells His Story
Explicit Content Warning. This episode deals with sensitive topics that are discussed in a very candid and detailed manner. Topics include the harmful effects of pornography, hook-up culture, and sexual sin. In our Summer Love series, we have been discussing all of the needed conversations about dating, gender roles, sexuality, and more. In today's episode, we go even further with a very special interview with Gabriel Pagan. This man of God was Gay, living in torment, and had no sense of purpose until he experienced the transforming love of Jesus Christ. Now he's delivered from homosexuality, married t...
2021-06-22
1h 17
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
Biblical Wisdom for Modern Dating [Summer Love]
We continue our Summer Love series discussing how dating has changed over the years and how we can apply biblical principles to this modern dating environment. Dating starts with you and your relationship with Jesus Christ. From there, your identity is restored and your purpose is revealed. Understanding what your purpose is and having a proper context for marriage will set you up for success in the dating process. TEXT US!!! • (864) 428-7131 ...with your questions on this topic and we will address in the next episodes. Sign up for the Summer Love Webinar at https://summerl...
2021-06-14
30 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
Gender Roles and Dating [Summer Love]
We're getting a jump start on the Summer with this new conversational series on gender, dating, and marriage. In this first episode, we jump into the deep by discussing gender, gender roles, and how your understanding of God's design for "male and female" affects how you approach the dating process. We don't hold back anything in this episode, we discuss the LGBTQ community and what the bible has to say about gender, sex, and how we should view marriage. TEXT US!!! • (864) 428-7131 ...with your questions on this topic and we will address in the next episodes. Sig...
2021-06-07
44 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
No Longer An Employee
This is a very special episode of our podcast. As we've been discussing how to respond to the call of God upon your life over the last serval weeks, we've been walking through some transitions as a family as God has been calling us out onto the water. If you've followed our journey, you know that I've been working with Dr. Cindy Trimm as the ministry's executive director. Well, that's changed. Please take the time to listen to this episode so you have in context, where we've been and where we're going. If you want to partner...
2021-05-31
43 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
How To Transition Into Your NEXT with Power!
The calling of God on our lives will lead us from assignment to assignment. How you transition from one phase of your life to the next is vitally important. In this episode, we discuss the pain of transitions, how to transition with grace and power, and how to support your spouse or any loved one who is going through a transition in their life. TEXT US!!! • (864) 428-7131 ...We will for sure text back w/ empowerment strategies for dating, marriage, discovering purpose, and growing in your faith! Enroll in our course on Purpose now at https://ryan...
2021-05-18
29 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
How to Raise a Child Who Is Called of God
The calling of God doesn't just come upon us when we're adults. God's purpose is beating on the inside of each one of us from the time we are born. So how do we raise our children to walk in purpose and fulfill the call of God upon their lives? Well, in today's episode we answer just that question. TEXT US!!! • (864) 428-7131 ...We will for sure text back w/ empowerment strategies for dating, marriage, discovering purpose, and growing in your faith! Enroll in our course on Purpose now at https://ryancoleempowerment.thinkific.com/courses/purpose
2021-05-10
33 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
When Your Calling Affects You Marriage
In this episode, we talk about the calling of God upon your life and what to do when it feels like your career or calling is affecting your marriage and other relationships. There's a lot of valuable information for those who are single and dating as well! TEXT US!!! • (864) 428-7131 ...We will for sure text back w/ empowerment strategies for dating, marriage, discovering purpose, and growing in your faith! Enroll in our course on Purpose now at https://ryancoleempowerment.thinkific.com/courses/purpose Follow us on social media: https://www.viktoriyacole.com...
2021-05-04
35 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
Mental Health Questions with Dr. Caroline Leaf (Part 2 of Interview)
In the second part of a two-part interview with Dr. Caroline Leaf, we continue our conversation about mental health, focusing specifically on the tech dilemma as well as mental health in parenting. Find more about Dr. Leaf and buy her latest book, Cleaning Up Your Mental Mess at https://drleaf.com/ TEXT US!!! • (864) 428-7131 ...We will for sure text back w/ empowerment strategies for dating, marriage, discovering purpose, and growing in your faith! Enroll in our course on Purpose now at https://ryancoleempowerment.thinkific.com/courses/purpose Follow us on social media: h...
2021-04-26
35 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
Cleaning Up Your Mental Mess | Interview with Dr. Caroline Leaf Part 1
In this first of a two-part interview with Dr. Caroline Leaf, we dive deep in discussing mental health in a way like you've never heard it. Through her clinical studies and her proven methods, she helps expose the miseducation of the mental health industry and how we can change our brain through the use of her 5 step neurocycle plan. Find more about Dr. Leaf and buy her latest book, Cleaning Up Your Mental Mess at https://drleaf.com/ TEXT US!!! • (864) 428-7131 ...We will for sure text back w/ empowerment strategies for dating, marriage, discovering purpose, and growing in...
2021-04-19
33 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
The Tech Dilemma
Let's face it, growing up in the world today comes with a completely different set of challenges than any other generation has faced. Technology is one of those areas. In this episode, we discuss, what the challenges are with raising children in this type of environment and how you can protect your children's mental health. And...don't miss the next episode, where we will be interviewing world-renowned neuroscientist Dr. Caroline Leaf! TEXT US!!! • (864) 428-7131 ...We will for sure text back w/ empowerment strategies for dating, marriage, discovering purpose, and growing in your faith! Enroll in our...
2021-04-12
15 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
Where Your Mental Health Journey Begins
Mental health is often looked at as an "adult issue" however the truth is that our mental health struggles as adults can be traced back to our childhood. In this episode, we discuss how you can address the unmet needs you have from your childhood and if you're a parent or want to be...how you can help your children develop healthy coping skills now to prepare them for adulthood! TEXT US!!! • (864) 428-7131 ...We will for sure text back w/ empowerment strategies for dating, marriage, discovering purpose, and growing in your faith! Enroll in our course...
2021-04-05
23 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
Where Anxiety Comes From & How To Deal With It!
In the second episode of "Spring Cleaning: Strategies for Mental Health," we help bring some understanding as to what exactly anxiety is, how it can affect your marriage and relationships, and how to deal with it! Especially when one spouse deals with anxiety or depression and the other has never, it can be easy to diminish what they are feeling or just simply not know what to do to help. This episode will help open that conversation and shed light on what can often feel very isolating. TEXT US!!! • (864) 428-7131 ...We will for sure text back w/ empo...
2021-03-22
25 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
Spring Cleaning: Strategies for Mental Health
In the first episode of this new series, Spring Cleaning, we discuss our own mental health journey and how we've been able to let go of the anxiety and stress and walk in a greater level of fulfillment in our lives! Mental health affects every aspect of your life, from your work to your marriage, and even in raising your children. It especially affects your physical health. If you don't do some necessary mental spring cleaning every once and a while, it can become like an unbearable mountain. Don't ignore the warning signs! TEXT US!!! • (864) 428-7131 ...We will...
2021-03-15
33 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
Parenting: Expectations Versus Reality
Parenting can sometimes throw some major curveballs. It's tough when you have certain expectations about what parenting is going to be like and then reality sets in. It's not doom and gloom though! Parenting is a great responsibility but there is such a great reward as well! In this episode, we're sharing with you some of the expectations that we're destroyed once we actually had children, and letting you in on the wisdom we've gained along the way. Enroll in our course on Dating & Marriage at https://ryancoleempowerment.thinkific.com/courses/i-love-you-more-most-forever TEXT US!!! • (864) 428-7131 ...We w...
2021-03-08
29 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
Managing Conflict in Marriage
Conflict in any relationship is inevitable, especially in marriage when you're with each other all the time. The truth is that tension can be good in a relationship and you should be free to bring your perspective to the table without feeling judged. How you manage conflict is going to make or break your relationship. In today's episode, we talk about the expectations versus reality when it comes to handling conflicts in marriage. If you're singe there are some gems in here for you too! In fact, we have a full course for those single, dating, or engaged. Click...
2021-03-01
22 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
10 Things You Should Expect In Marriage
Our series on Expectations vs Reality in Relationships moves into the 10 things that every person should expect in marriage. There are some things that every marriage needs to have as a standard in order for that marriage to thrive. Some of these things may surprise you and we've done a deep dive to help give you some guiding principles no matter if you are dating, married and happy, or in a horrible marriage. Enroll in our course on Dating & Marriage at https://ryancoleempowerment.thinkific.com/courses/i-love-you-more-most-forever Enroll in our course on Purpose now at h...
2021-02-22
41 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
7 Things You Should Not Expect From Marriage
Our new series on Expectations vs Reality in Relationships continues in this episode as we break down the things that you should not from marriage. There are so many expectations that we place on our spouses that they were just not designed to carry. This week we help you to navigate many of those things and if you're single, these are good things to know when dating so that you aren't let down in marriage. Enroll in our course on Dating & Marriage at https://ryancoleempowerment.thinkific.com/courses/i-love-you-more-most-forever Enroll in our course on Purpose n...
2021-02-15
26 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
Expectations vs. Reality
This month we're talking about relationships and in particular the expectations we have going in versus the reality of what they actually are once we are in them. Today we are focusing on the expectation of marriage. What are the proper expectations and how can you make sure that who you're getting ready to marry is who you think they are? Enroll in our course on Purpose now at https://ryancoleempowerment.thinkific.com/courses/purpose Enroll in our course on Dating & Marriage at https://ryancoleempowerment.thinkific.com/courses/i-love-you-more-most-forever Follow us on social m...
2021-02-08
27 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
The Rhythms of Purpose
We continue our conversation on the concept of purpose by discussing two Bible characters and the discovery of their God-given purpose. Register for our course on Purpose now at https://ryancoleempowerment.thinkific.com/courses/purpose Follow us on social media: https://www.viktoriyacole.com/home https://www.facebook.com/ryancoleempowerment https://www.facebook.com/coleture https://www.instagram.com/ryancoleempowerment/ https://www.instagram.com/viktoriyacole/
2021-02-01
30 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
Why most people never discover their purpose
Today we are breaking down the misconceptions that most people have when trying to understand their purpose. We talk about how we came to understand how God's purpose was working in our lives and the equation we've come up with to help you understand God's unique Purpose Flow in your life! Register for our course on Purpose now at https://ryancoleempowerment.thinkific.com/courses/purpose Follow us on social media: https://www.viktoriyacole.com/home https://www.facebook.com/ryancoleempowerment https://www.facebook.com/coleture https://www.i...
2021-01-25
29 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
Learning How To Transition Well
In this first episode of season 2, we give an update about what's been going on in our lives. The past few months have seen sickness and grief for our family but we've come through this season with a better outlook on life, greater focus, and strategies for transitioning well that we want to pass on to you! Register for our course on Purpose now at https://www.ryancoleempowerment.com/ Follow us on social media: https://www.viktoriyacole.com/home https://www.facebook.com/ryancoleempowerment https://www.facebook.com/coleture...
2021-01-18
35 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
Having A Vision That Affects Many Generations
In this episode, we discuss how to have a vision that impacts not just your lifetime, but generations to come. Write a vision for your family and get your children involved! This is the last episode of this season and we will be back in 2021 with more empowering content on this podcast! Until then, get to writing that vision. Subscribe and get access to my FREE 1-week course "Incline Your Ear" on how to hear the voice of God. https://mailchi.mp/8a4316253898/inclineyourear http://www.ryancoleempowerment.com/ https://www.vi...
2020-11-23
30 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
Your Secret Weapon To Discern Relationships...VISION
In this episode, we continue our conversation on the power of vision. This week we are focusing on those who are single or dating and the importance of having a vision for your life as a tool you can use in the dating process. Vision really helps solidify the boundaries you set around your life, who you allow close, and what activity you allow yourself to participate in. Join us for this power-packed needed conversation. http://www.ryancoleempowerment.com/ https://www.viktoriyacole.com/home https://www.facebook.com/ryancoleempowerment https://www.face...
2020-11-09
29 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
The Need For Vision
Over the next four weeks, we will be discussing the power of having a vision for your life. This episode is packed with tons of "aha moments" and practical tools for writing a really powerful vision for your life and actually achieving it. http://www.ryancoleempowerment.com/ https://www.viktoriyacole.com/home https://www.facebook.com/ryancoleempowerment https://www.facebook.com/coleture https://www.instagram.com/ryancoleempowerment/ https://www.instagram.com/viktoriyacole/ #NeededConversations #marriage #Christianmarriage #marriagewithamission #visionwriting
2020-11-02
31 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
Back To Our First Love
We're ending out our series addressing voters issues from a Christian perspective. We recap what we've discussed and then jump back into the topic which is the primary reason we started this podcast, Marriage & Family! Throughout the next 4 episodes, we are going to be discussing how important writing a vision for your life is! If you are single, this provides a strong standard for you in the dating process, and when you are married and vision keeps you focused, intentional, and deeply connected to one another by staying connected to God's purpose for you. http://www.ryancoleempowerment.co...
2020-10-26
28 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
The Top 2 Issues Voters Are Most Concerned About
In this episode, we round out our series covering all the major issues voters consider when heading out to vote. Especially as Christians, we have concerns and we also have solutions. Right now Law & Order, as well as the Economy, are the two most important issues to voters according to polls. Today, we address both these topics from a Christian perspective to give you tools to vote more effectively! Here's some fuel for your needed conversations "What Would You Say" https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCA7Gikp1j0uAIrcEJDTriyQ http://www.ryancoleempowerment.com/ ht...
2020-10-19
53 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
My Immigrant Wife & I Have Thoughts About Immigration
Immigration is such a layered subject, and in the USA it has become such a divisive one...at least in the Trump era. However, immigration isn't new. Even the bible is a book filled with stories of immigrants. So what should the Christian perspective be on this issue and how should that affect how we vote? We take this entire episode to address just that and discuss each party's position on the issue. http://www.ryancoleempowerment.com/ https://www.viktoriyacole.com/home https://www.facebook.com/ryancoleempowerment https://www.facebook.com/colet...
2020-10-12
48 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
Education & The Election
In this week's episode, we discuss the recent Presidential debate and also tackle the next voter issue that Christians should be concerned about, education! We talk about what each party's plan is for educating our children, some of the challenges we are all facing with virtual learning, and make some interesting predictions about the future of education and higher learning that you're going to want to hear. As always, we let you know where we stand on it all and how that will affect how we vote. After all, we will be voting our Christian values! http://w...
2020-10-05
51 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
Healthcare: How Christians Should Vote
This is part 2 of our discussion on how Christians should vote and engage in politics. We're tackling the issue of healthcare and we have a lot to say! In this episode, we talk about our personal experience with healthcare, our children's delivery stories, and dealing with a family member who has been diagnosed with cancer. Here is a good healthcare proposal from a Christian perspective: https://www.heritage.org/health-care-reform/commentary/health-plan-president-trump http://www.ryancoleempowerment.com/ https://www.viktoriyacole.com/home https://www.facebook.com/ryancoleempowerment https://www.fac...
2020-09-28
56 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
A Christian Perspective on Healthcare
We all want a better quality of life and healthcare is one of those things that is far too complicated that it has to be. Most of the time our healthcare system is "sick-care" system and that has to change. But what about the plans that Democrats and Republicans propose, are any of them good, or is the solution found in the Biblical Worldview that we have as Christians? This episode and next week as well, we will do a deep dive into the issue of healthcare and how that should shape your vote as you head to the...
2020-09-21
35 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
Are Christians One Issue Voters?
During this week's episode, Viktoriya returns to give her response to last week's interview with Pastor Tony Foster and to address the issue of abortion. Over the next several weeks we will be breaking down all of the major issues that Christians should be considered when heading out to cast your vote in elections. http://www.ryancoleempowerment.com/ https://www.viktoriyacole.com/home https://www.facebook.com/ryancoleempowerment https://www.facebook.com/coleture https://www.instagram.com/ryancoleempowerment/ https://www.instagram.com/viktoriyacole/ #NeededConversations #prolife #prochoic...
2020-09-14
39 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
The New Civil Rights Movement w/ Guest Pastor Tony Foster
In this week's episode, Ryan interviews Pastor Tony Foster about his book The New Civil Rights Movement. They discuss the issue of abortion, the racist origins of Planned Parenthood, and the dilemma that Pastors face when addressing this issue in the church. Find out more about Pastor Tony's book at https://www.tonyfosterministries.com/ and make sure you subscribe to this podcast1 http://www.ryancoleempowerment.com/ https://www.viktoriyacole.com/home https://www.facebook.com/ryancoleempowerment https://www.facebook.com/coleture https://www.instagram.com/ryancoleempowerment/ https://www.in...
2020-09-07
48 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
Let's Talk About Your Well Being
Is your being well? In this week's episode, we talk about the human soul, in particular, what it means to be human. We often forget that we are not physical beings alone, but we are spiritual, we have a soul, and all of these experiences impact our bodies. We take care of our bodies but what about your spiritual life, and mental health? Well, in this episode you will learn what the bible has to say about it all and our personal strategies for holistic living. Make sure to subscribe and hit the bell icon for notifications here on Yo...
2020-08-31
29 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
For The Martyrs
Christians are being persecuted around the world by the millions...over 200 million to be exact. Why is this issue being widely ignored? What isn't the media covering this issue and what can we do to protect and stand with our brothers and sisters in Christ who are greatly suffering for their faith? In this week's episode, we interview Gia Chacon, the founder of March for the Martyrs — a non-profit organization highlighting Christian persecution around the world and bringing real solutions from a social, political, and humanitarian perspective. Join the movement now at https://forthemartyrs.com/ DONATE and PARTIC...
2020-08-24
32 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
Breaking Generational Curses
In part 2 of this conversation with his Dad, Ryan discusses the generational curses in his family that was broken by his father and gives strategies on how you too can destroy the power of the enemy over your family and release generational blessings over your children! His Dad, Cary also discusses his marriage of 35 years to Ryan's mom and gives some marriage tips! http://www.ryancoleempowerment.com/ https://www.viktoriyacole.com/home https://www.facebook.com/ryancoleempowerment https://www.facebook.com/coleture https://www.instagram.com/r...
2020-08-17
43 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
The Pandemic No One Is Talking About
In this episode Ryan is joined by his father, Cary Cole, to shed light on the effects of having a fatherless generation, finding the power to forgive, and strategies for mentoring the next generation of men. http://www.ryancoleempowerment.com/ https://www.viktoriyacole.com/home https://www.facebook.com/ryancoleempowerment https://www.facebook.com/coleture https://www.instagram.com/ryancoleempowerment/ https://www.instagram.com/viktoriyacole/ #NeededConversations
2020-08-10
38 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
Censorship, Social Media, & Speaking The Truth
There's been a lot going on in the United States over the last several weeks. Doctors who claim there is a treatment for COVID-19 being censored on social media, tech giants being interrogated by congress, talk of the app Tik-Tok being banned, and just the overall dark pit that the comment sections have turned into. How do we use social media for good? How can we speak out against censorship? What is God saying all of this? Well, this is the needed conversation that we are having in this episode. In addition to addressing these topics, Ryan & V...
2020-08-03
49 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
Red Flags In Dating You Should Never Ignore!
This week, we are continuing our Summer of Love series discussing relationships, dating, & marriage. In this episode, we are talking about all the red flags you should look out for while dating! We're also excited about the online course we just released online. Open Enrollment closes on Friday, July 31, 2020, and will reopen at the beginning of the year. Journey with for 90 days as we mentor you through 13 HD video lessons and study guides as well as 6 Live Sessions featuring our personal marriage mentors. Sign up now at https://ryancoleempowerment.thinkific.com/ https://youtu.be/4gIslem__2A
2020-07-27
32 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
Google Autocomplete Interview on Marriage
In this episode, we go to Google to find out what are the most common searches and questions about marriage! The world has got some interesting searches when it comes to love and relationships but we're here to respond! This is all leading up to our 2-day FREE webinar for Singles, Dating, or Engaged. Sign-up now and join us on July 22-23! www.SummerLoveWebinar.com #SummerLove #NeededConversations #datingandmarriage #marriageadvice #googleautocomplete
2020-07-20
40 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
Are You Qualified To Be A Husband?
In this episode, we discuss the biblical qualities of a husband! We go in-depth about the role that gender plays in society today and dispel all the myths about gender stereotypes. Finally, we do a deep dive into the biblical origins of the word "husband" and how the institution of marriage affects society! There's a lot of profound revelation in this episode that you don't want to miss! This is leading up to... OUR FREE 2 Day Webinar that we are hosting on July 22nd and 23rd at 8 pm EST each night. This is for those who are...
2020-07-13
45 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
Are You Qualified To Be A Wife?
In this episode, we discuss the biblical qualities of a wife! We go in-depth about the role that gender plays in society today and dispel all the myths about gender stereotypes. Finally, we do a deep dive into the biblical origins of the word "wife" and how the institution of marriage affects society! There's a lot of profound revelation in this episode that you don't want to miss! Next week we will be doing the same w/ the role of a "husband." We have a FREE 2 Day Webinar we are hosting on July 22nd...
2020-07-06
49 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
8 Misconceptions About Marriage
In this episode, Ryan and Viktoriya talk about all things dating and marriage! There are so many misconceptions about what marriage really looks like once you're in it. They take the time to debunk all the myths and give strategies on finding lasting love! https://www.Facebook.com/RyanColeEmpowerment https://www.Instagram.com/RyanColeEmpowerment https://www.facebook.com/coleture https://www.instagram.com/viktoriyacole
2020-06-29
43 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
5 Ways To Create a Culture of Empowerment
Viktoriya is back on this week's episode and along with Ryan, they discuss how to create a culture of empowerment in your home. This is truly where change begins in our society and yet so few homes host environments that encourage discussions around controversial topics. We all need an environment where we can discover our purpose, assess our gifts, and pair those gifts to problems in the world that we can be a part of solving.
2020-06-22
46 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
Black Lives Matter Part 2!
In this 2nd part of the episode started last week, Ryan interviews Jermaine Connelly, an African-American who is a Senior Pastor in Florence, SC, and Christian Aguayo who is a Puerto Rican police officer and youth pastor in Greer, SC. They discuss the recent events involving the deaths of George Floyd & Ahmaud Arbery, the black lives matter hashtag, and mental health in the police force!
2020-06-15
45 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
Black Lives Matter Part 1!
In this episode, Ryan interviews Jermaine Connelly, and African-American who is a Senior Pastor in Florence, SC, and Christian Aguayo who is a Puerto Rican police officer and youth pastor in Greer, SC. They discuss the recent events involving the deaths of George Floyd & Ahmaud Arbery, what it's like for people of color when being pulled over by police, and what the actual protocol for police encounters should be!
2020-06-08
43 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
Worth The Wait
In this episode, we talk about SEX, and specifically how important it is to wait to have sex until marriage. We discuss our own journey and also what the Bible says about the topic also. In addition, we give strategies for parents on how to talk to their kids about sex and purity.
2020-06-01
40 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
How To Manage Disputes
In this episode, we discuss how to fight well in marriage. Disputes aren't something you can avoid, the key is in learning to fight in a way that progresses the relationship and honors the other person. We talk also about the importance of learning your love language and knowing how and when to engage in a dispute with your significant other. There's also a lot of good information for those who are single as well!
2020-05-25
34 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
For the Love of Food?
A healthy lifestyle really begins with what you're putting in your body. In today's world, our relationship with food can be described as well... "it's complicated." But it doesn't have to be. In today's episode, we share our rollercoaster relationship with food and what we have learned through it all. We give you strategies to help you make healthier choices and confront some touchy subjects like the body positivity movement, veganism, and more.
2020-05-18
39 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
Taking Your Time Back!
In this episode, we discuss strategies on how to maximize the time you have every day! Sometimes we can get so lost in other people's priorities and lose sight of what's important. Your "no" is more powerful than your "yes!" You can take advantage of every moment in every day with these 7 simple tips for managing your schedule and live more fulfilled!
2020-05-11
31 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
Having A Vision For Marriage
When it comes to dating and marriage, everything really comes down to vision. We all want to know, "where is this going?" and that question doesn't stop once you get married. In this podcast, we address the power of vision and how to manage the transitions in your relationship by slowing down and restrategizing!
2020-05-04
35 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
Our Thoughts On Parenting Strategies
In this episode, we continue our conversation on parenting and discuss everything from spankings to children whose parents say are "transgender." These are some tough topics but we address them from a Christian perspective and as parents of a 1.5-year-old and a 3-year-old!
2020-04-27
32 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
A Tough Challenge But It's Worth It!
In this episode, Ryan and Viktoriya talk about the struggles of parenting, especially with the world quarantined right now. They talk about strategies for parents in every season and learning to parent each child individually with a unique strategy suited for their needs and personality! Also...their children, Mila and Tobias make their debut at the beginning!
2020-04-20
35 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
This Is Getting Personal
During this episode, we get vulnerable about our experiences with depression and the different tragedies that we have had to overcome. Mental health is a big conversation and isn't talked about in the Christian community like it should be. The truth is that Jesus is still the answer! The Holy Spirit is our comforter and counselor. Through Him, we can overcome and in turn, help others overcome as well. #NeededConversations
2020-04-13
41 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
Technology Overstimulation, COVID-19, & The World After
In this episode, we talk about what's not being discussed much when it comes to the COVID-19 Pandemic....what the world will look like when it's over. We are all so overstimulated with technology and now we are at a place where we have to prepare for an onslaught of new technologies that will come out of this global crisis. The world is going to look completely different when it's all said and done, and we have to prepare ourselves by drawing definitive lines as to how far we will allow technology to affect our lives. In this episode...
2020-04-06
37 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
8 Things Every Husband Needs From His Wife
Men are not as simple as they have been labeled over the years. With that being said, most men have common needs in a relationship. Here are the top 8 things that we believe every man wants and needs in a wife. Let us know if there is something else you would have added to this list. *And Ladies...Yes, there are still a lot of amazing men in the world!!
2020-03-31
41 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
The 8 Things Every Wife Needs From Her Husband
The core of what women want or need in a husband isn't all that complicated. Sure, some women have unrealistic expectations of what marriage is and what a husband is or should be doing for them, but what most women are looking for isn't far-fetched or unattainable. In this episode, Ryan and Viktoriya discuss the top 8 things that they believe every woman needs in a husband.
2020-03-31
43 min
Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole
Love, Life, & Podcast!
In the first episode of the brand new podcast Needed Conversations, Ryan and Viktoriya introduce themselves, discuss their love story, and why this podcast is so needed right now. Don't miss this inspiring conversation and subscribe now for all the future episodes that will include relationship wisdom, strategies for healthy living, parenting tips, reasoned responses to hot topics and more! www.RyanColeEmpowerment.com www.ViktoriyaCole.com
2020-03-21
35 min