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Relationship HelpersPersonal Growth: Getting UnstuckTired of doing what everyone else is doing? Dissatisfied with doing what you are told you "should" do? Laura and Vincent discuss going counter-culture, breaking the mold of conventional education and career paths while honoring your unique skills and abilities.
2019-07-2233 min
Relationship Helpers099 Marriage: What Your Sex Life Says About Your Marriage - Part #2What is healthy sex? How does your sex life correspond to your marriage? In this 2nd episode of a 2 part series, Laura and Vincent discuss healthy sex. They talk about how it is healthy to be selfish and unselfish in the sexual relationship as well as 6 traits of a great lover.
2019-07-1529 min
Relationship HelpersMarriage: What Your Sex Life Says About Your MarriageWhat is healthy sex? How does your sex life correspond to your marriage? In this first episode of a 2 part series, Laura and Vincent discuss healthy sex. They talk about how it can be distorted and how that distortion affects your marriage.
2019-07-0825 min
Relationship HelpersParenting: Teens & DevicesOur society is inundated with computer screens. Though these screens have many advantages, they also have disadvantages. Vincent and Laura talk about how devices like smart phones, I-pads, and Kindles are re-wiring our youth's brains and disabling them in the areas of emotional and social health.
2019-07-0131 min
Relationship HelpersParenting: Teens & VapingIn December 2018, the US Surgeon General Jerome Adams issued this statement, “I am officially declaring e-cigarette use [vaping] among youth an epidemic in the United States.” In this episode, Vincent and Laura discuss the health risks of vaping and how to talk to your children about it.
2019-06-2423 min
Relationship HelpersMarriage: Date Night Movies - Part 3Are you wanting to have some deeper conversations with your spouse? In this 3 part series, Laura and Vincent give suggestions to six romantic movies that have strong relationship themes. Laura and Vincent give synopses of each movie, discuss the themes, and give suggestions for questions to ask your spouse. The goal is to get your spouse to discuss your relationship on a deeper level. In this third episode, they discuss the movies 27 Dresses and How To Lose A Guy In 10 Days.
2019-06-1728 min
Relationship HelpersMarriage: Date Night Movies - Part 2Are you wanting to have some deeper conversations with your spouse? In this 3 part series, Laura and Vincent give suggestions to six romantic movies that have strong relationship themes. Laura and Vincent give synopses of each movie, discuss the themes, and give suggestions for questions to ask your spouse. The goal is to get your spouse to discuss your relationship on a deeper level. In this second episode, they discuss the movies Sleepless in Seattle and Hope Floats.
2019-06-1027 min
Relationship HelpersMarriage: Date Night Movies - Part 1Are you wanting to have some deeper conversations with your spouse? In this 3 part series, Laura and Vincent give suggestions to six romantic movies that have strong relationship themes. Laura and Vincent give synopses of each movie, discuss the themes, and give suggestions for questions to ask your spouse. The goal is to get your spouse to discuss your relationship on a deeper level. In this first episode, they discuss the movies Sense and Sensibility and Long Hot Summer.
2019-06-0335 min
Relationship Helpers092 Marriage: How To Support Your Grieving SpouseHas your spouse lost a loved one recently? Has your spouse had some major life changes like losing a job or moving? This is the last episode in our 8 part series "How To Support Your Spouse...". In this episode, Laura and Vincent discuss grief and how to help your spouse work through the grieving process.
2019-05-2728 min
Relationship HelpersMarriage: How To Support Your Spouse With Non-Drug AddictionsDoes your spouse spend too much time at work? Or do they shop all of the time? In this episode, Laura and Vincent discuss how you can approach these subjects to begin to help your spouse lessen these addictions.
2019-05-2025 min
Relationship HelpersMarriage: How To Support Your Spouse With Anger IssuesDoes your spouse explode on you or your children? Are you at a loss with how to deal with their anger? In this 6th episode in the series "How To Support Your Spouse...", Laura and Vincent examine different ways you can help your spouse who struggles with anger issues.
2019-05-1336 min
Relationship HelpersMarriage: How To Support Your Spouse With DepressionIs your spouse depressed and you don't know how to help them? In this 5th episode in the series "How To Support Your Spouse...", Laura and Vincent describe ways to encourage your depressed spouse.
2019-05-0629 min
Relationship HelpersMarriage: How To Support Your Spouse Struggling With AlcoholismIs your spouse struggling with alcoholism or substance abuse? Are you at your wit's end and not sure what to do? In this episode, Vincent and Laura discuss ways to support your spouse as they struggle with alcoholism and substance abuse. They give practical advice to create a healthy relationship.
2019-04-2933 min
Relationship HelpersMarriage: How To Support Your Spouse With a Toxic FamilyAre your in-laws intrusive or overly dependent? If so, your spouse may have a toxic family. In this episode, Vincent and Laura discuss how you can be a positive support for your spouse and help them to establish healthy boundaries. This is the 3rd episode in the series "How To Support Your Spouse..."
2019-04-2225 min
Relationship HelpersMarriage: How To Support Your Spouse With Anxiety Or OCDDoes your spouse obsess over having things just so or are they always second-guessing themselves? If so, your spouse may be struggling with anxiety. In this episode, Vincent and Laura discuss how you can be a positive support for your spouse in practical ways. This is the 2nd episode in the series "How To Support Your Spouse..."
2019-04-1530 min
Relationship HelpersMarriage: How To Support Your Traumatized SpouseThis is the first in a series "How To Support Your Spouse". Laura and Vincent discuss how to support a spouse who has post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They share their experience and give practical advice on how to help your spouse to recover.
2019-04-0841 min
Relationship HelpersPersonal Growth: What Are Triggers?Have you felt groggy or irritable or in a bad mood, but you are not exactly sure why? Do you become depressed or avoidant at times without no apparent reason? Maybe you are being triggered by some some past trauma, hurt, or loss. Laura and Vincent discuss the many ways that we may be triggered to help you get a better understanding of yourself and others.
2019-04-0128 min
Relationship HelpersPersonal Growth: Is Self-Care Selfish?What is the appropriate amount of self-care? How should you take care of your self or should you do it at all? Laura and Vincent discuss these issues and give practical advice on how to be your best.
2019-03-2526 min
Relationship HelpersMarriage: How the Connection With Your Baby Affects Their Future Marriage - Part 2The first few years of a child's life are extremely important, thus called the formative years. Vincent and Laura interview psychologist Dr. Jesse Gill. In this second part of a two part interview, Dr. Gill discusses how this early attachment affects your marriage.
2019-03-1831 min
Relationship HelpersMarriage: How the Connection With Your Baby Affects Their Future Marriage - Part 1The first few years of a child's life are extremely important, thus called the formative years. Vincent and Laura interview psychologist Dr. Jesse Gill. In this first part of a two part interview, Dr. Gill discusses healthy and unhealthy attachment that a child learns in those formative years.
2019-03-1138 min
Relationship Helpers080 Personal Growth: A Better New Year's Resolution - PeacemakingWhat does a New Year's resolution mean to you? Are they empty promises that you make to yourself about the way you look or are they about something deeper? This is the 8th and final episode in an 8 part series entitled "A Better New Year's Resolution." In each episode, Vincent and Laura discuss a character trait that we would like to improve upon. This week's episode is "Peacemaking."
2019-03-0428 min
Relationship Helpers079 Personal Growth: A Better New Year's Resolution - GenuinenessWhat does a New Year's resolution mean to you? Are they empty promises that you make to yourself about the way you look or are they about something deeper? This is the 7th episode in an 8 part series entitled "A Better New Year's Resolution." In each episode, Vincent and Laura discuss a character trait that we would like to improve upon. This week's episode is "Genuineness."
2019-02-2525 min
Relationship Helpers078 Personal Growth: A Better New Year's Resolution - PatienceWhat does a New Year's resolution mean to you? Are they empty promises that you make to yourself about the way you look or are they about something deeper? This is the 6th episode in an 8 part series entitled "A Better New Year's Resolution." In each episode, Vincent and Laura discuss a character trait that we would like to improve upon. This week's episode is "Patience."
2019-02-1840 min
Relationship Helpers077 Personal Growth: A Better New Year's Resolution - GenerosityWhat does a New Year's resolution mean to you? Are they empty promises that you make to yourself about the way you look or are they about something deeper? This is the 5th episode in an 8 part series entitled "A Better New Year's Resolution." In each episode, Vincent and Laura discuss a character trait that we would like to improve upon. This week's episode is "Generosity."
2019-02-1123 min
Relationship Helpers076 Personal Growth: A Better New Year's Resolution - BraveryWhat does a New Year's resolution mean to you? Are they empty promises that you make to yourself about the way you look or are they about something deeper? This is the 4th episode in an 8 part series entitled "A Better New Year's Resolution." In each episode, Vincent and Laura discuss a character trait that we would like to improve upon. This week's episode is "Bravery."
2019-02-0421 min
Relationship Helpers075 Personal Growth: A Better New Year's Resolution - CheerfulnessWhat does a New Year's resolution mean to you? Are they empty promises that you make to yourself about the way you look or are they about something deeper? This is the 3rd episode in an 8 part series entitled "A Better New Year's Resolution." In each episode, Vincent and Laura discuss a character trait that we would like to improve upon. This week's episode is "Cheerfulness."
2019-01-2830 min
Relationship Helpers074 Personal Growth: A Better New Year's Resolution - FriendlinessWhat does a New Year's resolution mean to you? Are they empty promises that you make to yourself about the way you look or are they about something deeper? This is the 2nd episode in an 8 part series entitled "A Better New Year's Resolution." In each episode, Vincent and Laura discuss a character trait that we would like to improve upon. This week's episode is "Friendliness."
2019-01-2122 min
Relationship Helpers073 Personal Growth: A Better New Year's Resolution - GentlenessWhat does a New Year's resolution mean to you? Are they empty promises that you make to yourself about the way you look or are they about something deeper? This is the 1st episode in an 8 part series entitled "A Better New Year's Resolution." In each episode, Vincent and Laura discuss a character trait that we would like to improve upon. This week's episode is "Gentleness."
2019-01-1436 min
Relationship Helpers072 Dating: Do They Put You On A Pedestal?This is the final episode in the 8 part series, "8 Warning Signs You May Need To Break Up." Is your boyfriend or girlfriend always making statements like "You're too good for me," or "I'll never live up to you"? Whoa, take a step back! Vincent and Laura discuss how this can be unhealthy and how to address it.
2019-01-0729 min
Relationship Helpers071 Dating: Are They Always Wanting To Know Where You Are?This is the 7th episode in the 8 part series "8 Warning Signs That You May Need To Break Up." Does your boyfriend or girlfriend check in with too much or want to be with you too much? Vincent and Laura discuss this unhealthy insecurity in your partner and how to address it.
2018-12-3121 min
Relationship Helpers070 Dating: Do They Apologize?This is the 6th episode in the 8 part series "8 Warning Signs That You Might Need To Break Up." Is your boyfriend or girlfriend able to take a step back and admit that they are wrong and then learn from their mistake? Vincent and Laura discuss this key trait of "being teachable."
2018-12-2435 min
Relationship Helpers069 Dating: How Are Their Friendships?What kind of friendships does your significant other have? Are they positive? This is the 5th episode in the 8 part series, "8 Warning Signs You Might Need To Break-Up." Vincent and Laura discuss how unhealthy friendships may affect your relationship and how to prevent that from happening.
2018-12-1726 min
Relationship Helpers068 Dating: How Is Their Relationship With Their Family?What is the relationship like between your boyfriend or girlfriend with their parents? Is it healthy? This is the 4th episode in the 8 part series, "8 Warning Signs You Might Need To Break-Up." Vincent and Laura explore these relationships and talk about questions that you need to be discussing with your significant other. They give helpful tips to avoid future heartbreak and anguish.
2018-12-1036 min
Relationship Helpers067 Dating: How Do They Treat Wait Staff?This is the 3rd episode in the 8 part series, "8 Warning Signs You Might Need To Break-Up." Vincent and Laura discuss how the behavior your partner has toward wait staff may determine their future behavior toward you.
2018-12-0332 min
Relationship Helpers066 Dating: Values and Beliefs?Do you really know the person you are dating? This is the 2nd episode in the 8 part series "8 Warning Signs You Might Need To Break Up." Vincent and Laura discuss values and beliefs that your future spouse has and how tantamount to a healthy relationship that they are. They discuss practical ways to really understand what they value and believe.
2018-11-2627 min
Relationship Helpers065 Dating: Are They Responsible?This is the first in an eight part series entitled, "8 Warning Signs You Might Need To Break Up". Vincent and Laura explore how responsible a dating partner should be before you consider marriage. They give practical advice to determining if this person is right for you.
2018-11-1929 min
Relationship Helpers064 Marriage/Personal Growth: Psychology of LoveEverybody wants to know the definition of love. In this episode, Vincent and Laura discuss romantic love. They describe the elements of the Eros theory, the Biology/Chemistry theory, the Imago theory, and the Projection theory. They give practical advice for those who are wondering if they are in love.
2018-11-1245 min
Relationship Helpers063 Personal Growth: Coping Skills Part 10 - HelpingIn order to help others effectively, you must take your mind off yourself. Your attention is diverted toward the other person and their needs. Not only is your mind off of your worries, but also you feel good when you are able to help someone. In this episode, Vincent and Laura discuss "helping" - giving specific tips and talking about studies that echo the suggestions.
2018-11-0528 min
Relationship Helpers062 Personal Growth: Coping Skills Part 9 - Touch & SmellTouch and smell are two of the five senses. They are a great way to ground your mind and body so that you are "in the moment." Being "in the moment" requires your mind and body to slow down thus reducing your anxiety response. In this episode, Vincent and Laura discuss ways that you can use touch and smell to restore your mental health.
2018-10-2925 min
Relationship Helpers061 Personal Growth: Coping Skills Part 8 - Creating & LearningCreating and learning are some of the best activities to keep your mind sharp. When you learn, you are creating new neural connections in the brain that helps to reduce memory loss as you age. In this episode, Vincent and Laura discuss ways that you can create and learn to help overcome your anxiety and depression.
2018-10-2223 min
Relationship Helpers060 Personal Growth: Coping Skills Part 7 - AestheticsAppreciating things of beauty or experiencing aesthetically pleasing activities help you to get in touch with your senses and use them. By using your senses, you are better able to ground yourself and be in the "present." In this episode, Vincent and Laura discuss aesthetics (or appreciating beauty) and give helpful suggestions to help overcome anxiety and depression.
2018-10-1531 min
Relationship Helpers059 Personal Growth: Coping Skills Part 6 - SocializeThe more people that you are connected to, the less likely you are to become depressed. If you suffer from depression, joining a group or participating in the community could help you recover and prevent relapse. In today's episode, Vincent and Laura talk about socializing and the benefits of it.
2018-10-0833 min
Relationship Helpers058 Personal Growth: Coping Skills Part 5 - Animals & NatureMuch like we discussed last week about babies, animals, especially pets, can provide wonderful opportunities to laugh and brighten our spirits. Enjoying scenes from nature also helps us to see outside of ourselves and to feel like a part of something “bigger.” In today's episode, Vincent and Laura will look at some activities that you can do to get you amongst God’s great, creative world!
2018-10-0129 min
Relationship Helpers057 Personal Growth: Coping Skills Part 4 - FunIf your struggling with depression or have anxiety, the chances are that you rarely allow yourself to enjoy life. In this episode, Vincent and Laura talk about how having fun can be a great coping skill for anxiety and depression. They give practical advice and tips.
2018-09-2426 min
Relationship Helpers056 Personal Growth: Coping Skills Part 3 - Slow DownAnyone with anxiety is ramped up or at least it feels like it. You feel like things are out of control. When you think, you think in one mode and that mode is fast. Thoughts are racing. In this episode, Laura and Vincent discuss ways for you to slow down. They give practical, specific advice and tips.
2018-09-1738 min
Relationship Helpers055 Personal Growth: Coping Skills Part 2 - ExerciseThis is the second episode in a 10 part series about ways to reduce anxiety and depression. Vincent and Laura discuss healthy coping skills that relate to exercise. They discuss psychological studies that validate these methods and give helpful tips.
2018-09-1038 min
Relationship Helpers054 Personal Growth: Coping Skills Part 1 GodThis is the first episode in a 10 part series about ways to reduce anxiety and depression. Vincent and Laura discuss healthy coping skills that relate to God. They discuss psychological studies that validate these methods and give helpful tips.
2018-09-0341 min
Relationship Helpers053 Personal Growth: How Discouragement Leads To DepressionAll of us have had discouragement. How we handle it is one of the keys to good mental health. In today's episode, Laura and Vincent discuss how discouragement can lead to anxiety and depression. This is the introduction to their 10 week series on "How To Reduce Anxiety and Depression."
2018-08-2742 min
Relationship Helpers052 Parenting: For the Mother Who Needs To Have the Hard ConversationsJill Martin is the mother of thirteen children with many of them with special circumstances. In this episode, Jill discusses how she manages so many responsibilities. Jill gives advice on discipline. Jill describes how she discusses the hard issues with her kids and gives encouragement and tips on how to do it.
2018-08-2045 min
Relationship Helpers051 Personal Growth: How To Navigate A Guilt TripWe all have people in our lives that make us feel guilty. Sometimes, it's your mother, a friend, or a spouse. In today's episode, Laura and Vincent discuss guilt trips and how to handle them in a healthy way. They provide examples and role play ways to appropriately address the guilt-tripper.
2018-08-1333 min
Relationship Helpers050 Personal Growth: For the Mother Who Has Nothing Left to GiveA never-ending to-do list. Hair that hasn't been washed in days. Jeans that don't fit. Kids who misbehave in public. No matter how hard you try, it's never "good enough." Our guest, Jill McCormick, the self-described "try-hard girl", shares her insights and encouragement for the mom who feels that she does not measure up.
2018-08-0647 min
Relationship Helpers049 Marriage: When Your Spouse Has a Crisis of FaithCrisis tests the mettle of marriage. If the spiritual foundation is weak, then the relationship is likely to falter. Many spouses struggle when they feel that their significant other is drifting away from their faith. In today's episode our guest Melissa Gendreau provides guidance on how to cope with spiritual imbalance in marriage. She gives helpful tips on how to be a praying spouse and how to help the wayward spouse.
2018-07-3044 min
Relationship Helpers048 Marriage: Are You a Selfish Spouse?Usually by the time we see a couple for marriage counseling and the complaint of selfishness is the issue, the couple has been married a while. This selfishness comes across as being demanding and commanding with their needs, values, and wants. In this episode, Laura and Vincent discuss how selfish demands causes discord in marriage and tips to alleviate it.
2018-07-2334 min
Relationship Helpers047 Marriage: Is Complaining Ruining Your Marriage?Do you find yourself making statements like "we never go on dates" or "he doesn't care what I think or want"? Do you find yourself constantly complaining about your spouse? In today's episode, Laura and Vincent discuss "over-generalizations" that come across as complaining. They give tips on how to reduce your complaining.
2018-07-1636 min
Relationship Helpers046 Marriage: Do You Read Your Spouse's Mind?The basis for every plot on the sitcom Three's Company was an assumption that had gone wrong. Misconstrued assumptions are funny on a TV show, but they can be toxic in a marriage. In this episode, Vincent and Laura discuss how we "mind-read" our spouses and get it very wrong.
2018-07-0934 min
Relationship Helpers045 Marriage: What Do You Call Your Spouse?In marriages, we can get into bad habits of giving our spouse's negative labels. Are you labelling your spouse without really getting to know them? Do you really understand them or are you just making harsh judgements that are extreme? In today's episode, Vincent and Laura discuss how you address your spouse.
2018-07-0231 min
Relationship Helpers044 Marriage: Do You Magnify The Problems In Your Marriage?We all have Eeyores and George Castanzas in our lives. These are people that are chronically negative. They are the Debbie Downers that don't see the good things right under their noses. In today's episode, Vincent and Laura are going to discuss "MAGNIFYING." This is our second in a series on anger in marriage.
2018-06-2531 min
Relationship Helpers043 Marriage: How To Avoid The Blame GameWhen something goes wrong with the communication in marriage, we tend to blame the other person. We feel that we should be understood correctly. We believe that we have done all we could to express ourselves appropriately. Unfortunately, many times we are wrong. We don't see our responsibility in the communication breakdown. In this episode, Vincent and Laura discuss how to avoid the blame game.
2018-06-1832 min
Relationship Helpers042 Marriage: Need a Referee For Your Marriage?Today's guest is Dr. Barry Ham, the author of "Living on Purpose" and "Unstuck: Escaping the Rut of a Lifeless Marriage." He has decades of experience in private practice counseling families. Although he does not wear a referee shirt to counsel, he does get in the midst of heated and difficult situations to help. Dr. Ham gives valuable advice on how to hand these situations and how to thrive in life.
2018-06-1139 min
Relationship Helpers041 Personal Growth: How To Avoid Being a VictimHave you made statements like, "Why does this always happen to me?" or "I never get a break." If so, then you may be operating with a victim mentality. In this episode, Laura gives tips about how to get out of the victim mindset.
2018-06-0407 min
Relationship Helpers040 Parenting: Protecting Your Child From PedophilesProtect your children from pedophiles. Today guest, family therapist Tracy Lamperti has done extensive work with sexual abuse victims. She explains the grooming process that pedophiles use and how prevent it. She provides questions to ask caretakers and facilities where your children interacts.
2018-05-2837 min
Relationship Helpers039 Personal Growth: Alcoholism and Other Addictions in the FamilyGrowing up with a parent who is lost in addiction causes you to view the world in a different way. Today's guest Kimberly Dewberry discusses how her worldview was skewed in her childhood and the ways that it affected her adult life. Kimberly gives helpful advice on how to overcome unhealthy, codependent habits.
2018-05-2146 min
Relationship Helpers038 Marriage: A Pre-Marital ChecklistSave yourself the cost of a divorce lawyer and have these discussions now with your spouse to be! Vincent and Laura discuss important questions that you must ask your fiancé. Even if you are already married these questions will benefit your marriage.
2018-05-1830 min
Relationship Helpers037 Parenting: Build a Loving Family With Adopted ChildrenConsidering adoption? You would like to explore it, but you have some reservations. In this episode, Naomi Quick gives level-headed advice on the decision to adopt and the adoption process.
2018-05-0736 min
Relationship Helpers036 Marriage: 4 Things New Dads Need To HearSometimes new dads get lost in the excitement of a new baby. Sometimes they feel left out. In today's episode, Vincent and Laura discuss four things wives can say to connect with their husbands.
2018-04-3020 min
Relationship Helpers035 Personal Growth: Leaving a Spiritual Legacy with Elisa PulliamLearn how to leave a spiritual legacy from Elisa "Lisa" Pulliam. Lisa shares her story of coming to Christ from a non-church home. She gives practical advice on Bible study and spiritual discipline.
2018-04-2332 min
Relationship Helpers034 Personal Growth: Conquering Sexual Sin with Nate DanserNate Danser of Pure Life Ministries offers advice for those struggling with sexual sin. Nate shares his experience of recovering from this addiction. He gives encouraging tips for men and their wives in similar situations.
2018-04-1633 min
Relationship Helpers033 Parenting: Why I'm Not Disappointed In My C-SectionAfter doing extensive planning for a natural child birth, Laura and Vincent describe their experience with a C-section to promote April's National Cesarean Awareness Month which is sponsored by The International Cesarean Awareness Network. Their mission is "to improve maternal-child health by preventing unnecessary cesareans through education, providing support for cesarean recovery, and promoting Vaginal Birth After Cesarean (VBAC)."
2018-04-0919 min
Relationship Helpers032 Marriage: The Key To a Thriving Blended Family with Willie and Rachel ScottA blended family is when a couple forms and bring children from their previous families together. This undeniably brings in stress for the couple, as roles are questioned - do you replace the children's other mother or father? How do you best treat everyone equally? Willie and Rachel Scott, founders of Better Than Blended, answer these questions and share their secrets to a thriving family.
2018-04-0233 min
Relationship Helpers031 Personal Growth: Could You Be Abused and Not Even Know It?Abuse in relationships come in many different forms: sexual abuse, spiritual abuse, physical abuse, and emotional abuse. Sometimes it is difficult for a victim to recognize the abuse. They may have coped by rationalizing it away. In this episode, Laura and Vincent define abuse so that victims may acknowledge it and begin to heal.
2018-03-2627 min
Relationship Helpers030 Personal Growth: With Or Without a Relationship: Learn To Love Yourself With Christy JohnsonEver avoid being in your own company? A struggle with being single can push you into unhealthy relationships as a way to fight the fear of being alone. Today's guest is Christy Johnson, a former 'Love Junkie' who constantly sought love through others and not through God and herself. She's a speaker, author, and life coach. Her mission is to support women and feed their soul health. She provides hope and tips to healthy singlehood.
2018-03-1943 min
Relationship Helpers029 Personal Growth: Finding Hope Through Sexual Abuse with Paula Mosher WallaceSadly, sexual abuse is rampant. One in four women and one in six men are affected by sexual abuse. In today's episode, Paula Mosher Wallace shares her own experience with childhood sexual abuse, how it affected her adult life and how she has healed from it. You will find many resources in the podcast and show notes.
2018-03-1243 min
Relationship HelpersO28 Personal Growth: Domestic Abuse with Holly AshleyOur guest today, Holly Ashley, is a domestic violence victim advocate. She describes the signs of domestic abuse and how to get help which include a danger assessment and safety plan. She advocates the need to follow the biblical principles of a loving marriage, and the need to trust God.
2018-03-0544 min
Relationship Helpers027 Personal Growth: When Power Is Abused At Church with Athena Dean HoltzThe church is the place we go to strengthen our bond with God, even more so when in moments of need. We hear from today's guest, Athena Dean Holtz, on how she got wrapped into a church cult for over 12 years, and how she got out of it.
2018-02-2637 min
Relationship Helpers026 Marriage: Disappointed in Your Spouse?Have you ever felt like you didn't matter after Valentine's Day? Your spouse remembered and did do something, but it was not what you really wanted. Or your spouse didn't do anything at all, but you didn't mention your disappointment or you shrugged it off. In this episode, we talk about mistakes we make that lead to disappointments and how to fix them.
2018-02-1925 min
Relationship Helpers025 Marriage: The Balance Between Home and Work LifeUnless you are born with a lot of wealth, work is necessary for you to live. So what is the proper balance of work and home life? Both activities require your time and effort. In this episode, Vincent and Laura discuss what a healthy work and home life should look like. They give specific tips to help couples who work at home or have a business together.
2018-02-1234 min
Relationship Helpers024 Personal Growth: Brenda Knowles on the Power of Being an IntrovertSome people feel energized when they're in the company of other people, others feel energized in solitude. Our guest today, Brenda Knowles, is the latter, and she shares her experiences of being an introvert.
2018-02-0532 min
Relationship Helpers023 Marriage: Dr. Corey Allen on Marriage, Sex, and Liking YourselfMany partners strive for the 'perfect marriage' and to be the 'perfect partner'. At its core, you grow up through marriage as you learn how to give, stand on your own two feet - and have children. Spiritually, we become better Christians in a relationship. Dr. Corey Allen joins us in today's interview, where we discuss what makes a happy marriage.
2018-01-2933 min
Relationship Helpers022 Marriage: Should I Snoop On My Spouse's Phone?My spouse sure has been secretive lately? I wonder what's going on. Have you ever felt this way. Laura and Vincent discuss phone privacy in a marriage and the pros and cons of snooping on your spouse's phone.
2018-01-2228 min
Relationship Helpers021 Personal Growth: Dr. Pauline Dillard Discusses Postpartum Depression and Birth TraumaPostpartum depression needs to be talked about. It is more common than what our research or statistics report. Birth trauma ALSO is a taboo subject that needs more discussion. Today, Dr. Pauline Dillard illuminates the importance of having these discussions and what can be done to help families struggling from PPD and/or birth trauma.
2018-01-1537 min
Relationship Helpers020 Personal Growth: Feeling Like the Appendix of the Body of ChristUnsure about your place in the church? How do you fit in? Laura encourages ways to get involved and to get out of your comfort zone.
2018-01-0807 min
Relationship Helpers019 Personal Growth: Why I Don't Like Before & After PhotosNo matter where you look you can't avoid before & after photos. What message do they send? Laura discusses her opinion on before & after photos.
2018-01-0108 min
Relationship Helpers018 Personal Growth: Luann Grambow on Selfless LoveHave you ever thought of yourself as selfish? In today's episode, counselor Luann Grambow discusses how people who struggle in their relationship are suffering from a divided heart. They are not fully able to meet the needs of their spouse because they are not serving the needs of God. She discusses how serving the needs of God will naturally improve the marital relationship and will in turn, serve the needs of the spouse.
2017-12-2535 min
Relationship Helpers017 Marriage: Date NightWhen is the last time that you and your spouse went on a date - just the two of you without your kids or friends? Vincent and Laura talk about the importance of dating your spouse.
2017-12-1821 min
Relationship Helpers016 Personal Growth: Dr. Gregory Jantz Discusses DepressionHave you been stuck in a rut for a long time? Eating disorder specialist and best-selling author, Dr. Gregory Jantz discusses how you can get out of that pit and thrive. He talks about his whole-centered approach to treating mental illnesses, using a team instead of just one person. Dr. Jantz gives hope and understanding.
2017-12-1130 min
Relationship Helpers015 Personal Growth: Why Don't Sexual Harassment Victims Speak About It?Why are these victims of sexual harassment just coming out with their stories now? Have you wondered why? Have you been a victim yourself, or have you been a perpetrator? Laura and Vincent talk about reasons that victims are just talking about it now years later and the mentality behind sexual harassment.
2017-12-0425 min
Relationship Helpers014 Parenting: Dr. Jonathan C. Robinson discusses "Teachable Moments"Kids misbehaving? Is there a disconnect between your children and you? How close are you to your teenager? Dr. Jonathan C. Robinson discusses how to train up your child with healthy morals. He gives helpful tips about how to communicate with your child effectively.
2017-11-2734 min
Relationship Helpers013 Marriage: Stress-Free Family HolidayHow are your holidays? Are you relaxed and at ease during them? Do you feel refreshed afterwards or do you feel like you just survived? This episode talks about the stressors of the holidays. Numerous tips and strategies are discussed to help you thrive during the holidays.
2017-11-2049 min
Relationship Helpers010 Personal Growth: Nicole Greer Encourages You To Pursue Your CallingDo you know your calling? Vincent interviews Nicole Greer, the Vibrant Coach. Nicole discusses how the 21st century is no longer about getting a college degree and getting married. Learn how to live with joy and passion in your work.
2017-10-3035 min
Relationship Helpers009 Grief/Loss: Secret Sisterhood of MiscarriageOne in four pregnancies end in miscarriage. Laura and Vincent discuss their experiences with miscarriage. They talk about the secrecy behind miscarriage. They give advice on how to help someone who has had a miscarriage and what to say or not to say to them.
2017-10-2332 min
Relationship Helpers008 Parenting: John Stengel Discusses the Dangers of the InternetVincent interviews John Stengel, founder of JSCM Group, a cyber security business. John explains how easy it is for kids and adults to access the negative parts of the internet. He gives helpful tips on ways to keep your children safe.
2017-10-1637 min
Relationship Helpers007 Parenting: "11 Ways Parents Sabotage Their Kids' Future & How To Stop"Therapists Vincent and Laura Ketchie talk about ways they see parents harm their child's future unknowingly. First, they help parents identify these negative behaviors. Secondly, they discuss how this behavior harms the child's development. Lastly, they give helpful tips on how to turn these negative ways into positive ones.
2017-10-0936 min
Relationship Helpers007 Parenting: "11 Ways Parents Sabotage Their Kids' Future & How To Stop"Therapists Vincent and Laura Ketchie talk about ways they see parents harm their child's future unknowingly. First, they help parents identify these negative behaviors. Secondly, they discuss how this behavior harms the child's development. Lastly, they give helpful tips on how to turn these negative ways into positive ones.
2017-10-0936 min
Relationship Helpers005 Marriage/Affairs: Vincent & Laura Discuss "Seven Signs Your Marriage Is Susceptible To an Affair"Vincent & Laura discuss some of the signs that your marriage may be in trouble. Marriage is difficult. Successful, romantic marriage takes a lot of hard work. Vincent & Laura talk about some the attitudes and bad behaviors that undermine a healthy relationship. You will learn what you need to work on in your marriage and how.
2017-09-2535 min
Relationship Helpers003 Parenting: Vincent & Laura discuss "When Your Help Doesn't Help"Vincent and Laura discuss how in today's culture, women often feel that they must entertain those who come to visit, even when they are in need of an extra set of hands. Laura explains how not being direct can actually frustrate the people wanting to give help. She gives examples of ways to communicate directly with those who visit to get the maximum results.
2017-09-1129 minRelationship Helpers003 Parenting: Vincent & Laura discuss "When Your Help Doesn't Help"Vincent and Laura discuss how in today's culture, women often feel that they must entertain those who come to visit, even when they are in need of an extra set of hands. Laura explains how not being direct can actually frustrate the people wanting to give help. She gives examples of ways to communicate directly with those who visit to get the maximum results.
2017-09-1129 min
Relationship Helpers001 Communication/Marriage: Laura and Vincent Discuss "Five Behaviors That Break Down a Conversation"Vincent Ketchie, LPC and Laura Ketchie, LPC talk about ways that conversations are harmed: talking too fast or over someone, not considering the other person's point of view, closed body language, and device distractions. They give helpful tips and describe ways to improve your conversations.
2017-08-3129 minRelationship Helpers001 Communication/Marriage: Laura and Vincent Discuss "Five Behaviors That Break Down a Conversation"Vincent Ketchie, LPC and Laura Ketchie, LPC talk about ways that conversations are harmed: talking too fast or over someone, not considering the other person's point of view, closed body language, and device distractions. They give helpful tips and describe ways to improve your conversations.
2017-08-3129 minRelationship Helpers000 About the Hosts of Relationship Helpers, Vincent & Laura KetchieVincent Ketchie, LPC and Laura Ketchie, LPC talk about their backgrounds and how they became counselors. They discuss what led them to start the podcast "Relationship Helpers", and their journey thus far.
2017-08-3008 min
Relationship Helpers000 About the Hosts of Relationship Helpers, Vincent & Laura KetchieVincent Ketchie, LPC and Laura Ketchie, LPC talk about their backgrounds and share how they became counselors. They discuss what led them to start "Relationship Helpers" and their journey thus far.
2017-08-3008 min