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Clearly MisunderstoodGetting Old RevelationsHave y’all noticed your body and interests switching up on you lately? From making noises every time we sit down to needing a full warm-up before picking something off the floor, aging sneaks up on us in the funniest ways. This week, we dig into the origins of “Charlie Horse,” the unspoken rules of taking off shoes without a chair, and how family roles shift as we grow older. Tune in for laughs, sibling banter, and a conversation about what it means to embrace the aging process.Follow us on IG!https://instagram.com/hava_tu...2024-11-2449 min
Clearly MisunderstoodGetting the IckQuestion... have you ever felt that unexplainable inner cringe toward someone for the tiniest reason? Well, this episode is all about having "The Ick", those many times small yet mighty turn-offs you just can't seem to shake. We'll explore more of what the ick is, some of our personal triggers and annoyances, and discuss whether or not redemption from "the ick" is possible! Follow us on IG!https://instagram.com/hava_turner_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=https://www.instagram.com/ahasadjedu/2024-11-1051 min
Clearly MisunderstoodHappy HalloweenHey y’all! Happy Halloween! We’re diving into a fun and introspective episode today. First up, Linda Belcher - I mean Hava - is going viral, and the timing couldn’t be more fitting—it’s Halloween, after all! But we’re also getting real about how the Fall Season naturally brings about a time for solitude. The crisp weather, the holidays rolling in, and the changing vibes make it a season to reflect on being alone with yourself while still navigating relationships with others. How do y’all handle this balance? Drop us a comment and let us know!2024-10-3156 min
Clearly MisunderstoodOpinions on Murder CasesWhat’s happening y’all! Today we take a deep dive into two of the most controversial true crime cases: Gypsy Rose Blanchard and the Menendez Brothers. We’ll explore the twisted family dynamics, the psychological impact of years of abuse, and the not-so-shocking decisions that led these infamous stories to unfold. Join us as we break down what lies beneath the surface and discuss how these cases challenge our understanding of justice, the complexity of victimhood, abuse, and family bonds.Follow us on IG!https://instagram.com/hava_turner_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=http...2024-10-2057 min
Clearly MisunderstoodBlink TwiceHey, y’all! What’s Halloween without a psychological thriller to dive into?This week, we’re unpacking Zoe Kravitz’s Blink Twice, where a woman’s journey takes a wild turn after accepting an invite to a tech billionaire’s private island. Ever found yourself somewhere you didn’t plan to be, surrounded by unfamiliar faces? We dig into what the movie says about those situations, Zoe’s directorial debut, and its place in a post #MeToo world.Follow us on IG!https://instagram.com/hava_turner_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=https://www.in...2024-10-1355 min
Clearly MisunderstoodHow Do We Validate Our Existence?Welcome to Episode 50!!! 🎉We’re back and hitting you with our first-ever video episode! After a brief hiatus (you know, life happens), we're diving straight back into the fun with our 50th episode. Here’s what we’re chatting about this timeThe fine art of people watching, who’s ruling the rap with the end of the Kendrick and Drake fiasco, living a reflective and introspective life, finding validation for our existence, and seeing the world turn upside down all at once!We’re excited to have you along for the ride again...2024-06-1656 min
Clearly MisunderstoodQuestions & ConfessionsY’all, what didn’t we talk about this week! We opened up the episode with a few show tunes and some singing before we flow through all types of topics. Begin moving through our ideas of bliss, the gentle honesty of children, and some of our realizations as we journey into another week of our sugar fast. In this week's episode we ask each other a few random questions about food and tv shows before ending with a few reddit confessions we wanted to share with each other!Follow us on IG!https://instagram.com...2024-04-211h 14
Clearly MisunderstoodArguments In RelationshipsWhat’s good yall! We haven’t had any dating talks in a while, so we decided to get into it about arguing in relationships. What’s your toxic trait while arguing? Is arguing even worthwhile? We talk about it all after we cover a few of Hava’s ADHD moments of course. Follow us on IG!https://instagram.com/hava_turner_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=https://www.instagram.com/ahasadjedu/2024-04-141h 05
Clearly MisunderstoodAre You A Foodie?We back with one of Hava’s all time favorite subjects: Food! After sifting through some ADHD thoughts and part two of the traumatic NYC rat story, we take you on a journey through our relationships with breakfast, lunch, and dinner. We talk fast food, eating habits, our cravings and hatings, and rationalizing pending money we don’t have for the food we desire. And of course, we left just a little room for dessert! Follow us on IG!https://instagram.com/hava_turner_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=https://www.instagram.com/ah...2024-04-071h 06
Clearly MisunderstoodShoppingThis week we dive into the topics of fashion and shopping! Hava and I both have a love for clothes and fashion generally, but how we express that love and how our bank accounts are set up might be a little different. We're sure most of you know what we mean. This is a full hour of fun, loving laughter and conversation. Let us know what effects and affects shopping and fashion have on you and on a more serious note who you got?Metro, Future and Kendrick or Drake, 21 and J.Cole?Happy Easter!2024-03-311h 04
Clearly MisunderstoodOversharingWe back with another one! This week we talk about the ins- and outs of oversharing. Speaking of oversharing - well actually before speaking about it - have y’all watched “Quiet on Set!?” A lot was just shared about what Nickelodeon was doing behind the scenes too. Anyways… oversharing. What does it mean to you? Would you consider yourself one? Is oversharing a matter of topic, subjects, or time or something a bit more like vulnerability and openness? Listen in and let us know your thoughts!Follow us on IG!https://instagram.com/hava_turner...2024-03-2455 min
Clearly Misunderstood2024 So FarA couple weeks of living and we’re back to share it all with you. This episode we catch up the events of each others 2024 thus far. Traveling, birthdays and a series of unfortunate events always makes for an eventful beginning of the year. We briefly touch on dealing with imposter syndrome as well while navigating new creations and expressions of ourselves. And yes, in all of this, somehow Hava works Punxsutawney Phil into the conversation. Follow us on IG!https://instagram.com/hava_turner_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=https://www.instagram.com/aha...2024-03-171h 03
Clearly MisunderstoodLazinessLazy is a word most people hate being called. Who wants to be known as “averse” to working, weak, or feeble? Let's be honest, being called lazy is really like being called a peasant. BUT, in this episode, we explore the ways laziness might actually be a matter of culture and perspective, and how laziness can yield productivity!Follow us on IG!https://instagram.com/hava_turner_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=https://www.instagram.com/ahasadjedu/2024-02-251h 00
Clearly MisunderstoodMultitaskingAs a millennial, how have you not perfected the art of multitasking yet? Don’t worry, we’re still unpacking it ourselves! Do you believe multitasking is real or are we in a constant state of task-switching? We believe there are levels to it all, you just have to know yourself and what you can handle.We dedicate this episode to our dear friend Lennard. All Hogs go to Heaven. Follow us on IG!https://instagram.com/hava_turner_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=https://www.instagram.com/ahasadjedu/2024-02-1844 min
Clearly MisunderstoodLetting GoIs letting go hard for you? Are you an emotional hoarder? How do we find our way through the ease and difficulties of letting go of memories, ideas, people, places, and most importantly old versions of ourselves? Does letting go require a plan? We know that sounds wild but think about it again and use this episode as a form of reflection.Follow us on IG!https://instagram.com/hava_turner_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=https://www.instagram.com/ahasadjedu/2024-02-1154 min
Clearly MisunderstoodLyingIs lying always negative? Have you ever lied to protect someone or yourself? Was it actually protection or were you just trying to save face? What about white lies… Would you consider fibbing or circumventing the truth until a later time or date a lie? This week we explore whether lying is ever acceptable: how, why, and when, if at all! Follow us on IG!https://instagram.com/hava_turner_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=https://www.instagram.com/ahasadjedu/2024-02-0445 min
Clearly MisunderstoodCreativity & InspirationThis week's a good one; Creativity. How do you massage the creative side of your mind? What apps help stimulate your energy? Which ones drain you? Do you know yourself and your habits well enough to use your own life as inspiration? Does love and romance help your creativity bloom? We cover it all in this and always a little bit more of course!Follow us on IG!https://instagram.com/hava_turner_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=https://www.instagram.com/ahasadjedu/2024-01-281h 01
Clearly MisunderstoodBeing the "Bigger Person"Back like we never left. No more small talk! This week we get into being the "bigger person.” What does it actually mean? And why have we all decided that it’s socially acceptable? Cause WE DON’T AGREE!Ever find yourself disassociating from social situations often? Dive into this convo with us as we discuss how people and systems have us messed up, how it's our fault, and what we can do about it!Follow us on IG!https://instagram.com/hava_turner_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=https://www.instagram.com/ah...2024-01-2150 min
Clearly MisunderstoodSmall TalkWhat’s happening y’all!To be honest, this might be one of our best episodes yet! Interesting that it’s all about “Small Talk.” Neither of us particularly like it, but we definitely understand the benefits of mastering the art of small talk. Picking up on social questions, being forced into conversation by the over-sharing stranger, and navigating the intersection of small talk, networking, and anxiety! It's all here. Listen in and let us know your thoughts!Follow us on IG!https://instagram.com/hava_turner_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=https://ww...2024-01-1450 min
Clearly MisunderstoodNew Year IntentionsWelcome to the other side! It’s 2024 and this year the energy is up! In this episode we start with our 2023 recap. We talk about the lessons we've learned, the “resolutions” we don’t have, and what we need to let go of, coming into the new year. We laugh, reconnect, and reflect on our own way and tendencies, and what’s to come ahead. HAPPY NEW YEAR!Follow us on IG!https://instagram.com/hava_turner_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=https://www.instagram.com/ahasadjedu/2024-01-0748 min
Clearly MisunderstoodMarriageWe back, but with a longer episode than usual. We’re talking about marriage this week. Yes, we acknowledge neither of us is married but we certainly have thoughts about it! We intro with some random ADHD moments before exploring if marriage is realistic to desire, if our generation is properly prepared for marriage, and what expectations may or may not come with taking your relationship to the next level! Follow us on IG!https://instagram.com/hava_turner_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=https://www.instagram.com/ahasadjedu/2023-12-171h 05
Clearly MisunderstoodGossipingWe backkkk!!!!This week's convo is a little juicy as we get all into the subject of gossiping. Does everyone do it? What does it really mean? We all enjoy talking our sh** every now and then, but is that the same thing as gossip? Would it change things if you said it to the person's face? We chit-chat about all of this and more. Make sure to answer the question below!Follow us on IG!https://instagram.com/hava_turner_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=https://www.instagram.com/ahasadjedu/2023-12-1043 min
Clearly MisunderstoodCan People Change?Let's have a quick debate. Can people change? Are you really changing if the change is for someone else?This week we wanted to break down our opinions and thoughts on whether or not we believe people can "change" or they are just "evolving". Is the change a behavior/action thing? Personality? Listen in as we explore this deep question to ponder and see what side of the coin you live on!Follow us on IG!https://instagram.com/hava_turner_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=https://www.instagram.com/ahasadjedu/2023-12-0348 min
Clearly MisunderstoodThanksgivingThe sun is setting earlier, the crisp autumn breeze is cooling the temperature, and the smell of fresh turkey and macaroni is right around the corner! You guessed it, this week's episode is dedicated to Thanksgiving! Whether you find joy in actively cooking and participating, like Hava, or if you're using this season to refine your palate as a food connoisseur, like Wesley, don’t we all love indulging food with our loved ones? This year we’re taking Thanksgiving on the road. We talk about the newness it brings to not celebrate at home this year.And t...2023-11-1952 min
Clearly MisunderstoodSelf-SabotageOkay guys, let's talk about something we all do; self-sabotage.This week we ponder when we first recognized our self-sabotaging tendencies and why understanding this behavior is crucial. Whether it's conscious or unconscious, can self-sabotage be inflicted for "fun"?Between analyzing our triggers, patterns and habits leading to self-sabotage, we also question whether self sabotage is a normal part of human behavior, or has it been taught and normalized? Join us and let's get to the bottom of it together!Follow us on IG!https://instagram.com/hava_turner_?igshid=YmMyMTA2...2023-11-1248 min
Clearly MisunderstoodGaslightingWELCOME BACKKKK!Today's episode is about a new trending topic: Gaslighting.Ever felt like your sense of reality was being subtly undermined? That's the heart of our conversation today. We're dissecting the complex phenomenon of gaslighting—unpacking the ways it can warp and weave through our perceptions. We'll navigate the fine line between miscommunication and manipulation, and consider the thought that “gaslighting" could be used as a tool for... more gaslighting (crazy, right?).Whether you're on a journey of recovery from being a gaslighter or seeking clarity amidst the chaos of one, this episo...2023-11-0558 min
Clearly MisunderstoodHalloweenHey, hey, hey!Grab your favorite pumpkin inspired snacks and listen in as we embrace the spirit of HALLOWEEN! From our unapologetic love for this holiday to what concocts the ideal spooky ambiance! Is it the crisp fall air? A Twilight rainy day? A good movie with a lit candle? You tell us! Join in on our last spooky season themed episode as we talk about all things Halloween and costumes. Enjoy the ride!Follow us on IG!https://instagram.com/hava_turner_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=https://www.instagram.com...2023-10-2948 min
Clearly MisunderstoodDark Psychology (Explicit)Welcome backkkk!This week we're diving into the unexplainable depths of Dark Psychology! It's still spooky season and Hava and I are here to unravel the mystique of one of her favorite topics: serial killers. Y'all know her obsession, but have you ever wondered who first intrigued her into this world? We discuss the puzzling blend of pain and pleasure in violence, the controlling world of cults, and much more! Follow us on IG!https://instagram.com/hava_turner_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=https://www.instagram.com/ahasadjedu/2023-10-2258 min
Clearly MisunderstoodScary MoviesHappy Friday the 13th!Dim those lights, grab your popcorn, light your fall-scented candle, and listen in as we unravel the irresistible allure in eerie music, heart-stopping jumps, and emotional manipulation of scary movies. What is it about scary movies that keep us coming back for more? Join us as we explore the psychology behind our fascination with the "scary." We're giving some love to the classics, the underrated gems, and the animated movies that might just be the hidden treasures of the genre!Follow us on IG!https://instagram.com/hava_turner_?i...2023-10-1553 min
Clearly MisunderstoodFears & NightmaresHey, hey, hey! Guess who's back!We're bringing you a hauntingly good time in our newest episode as we take a deep dive into the world of Fears and Nightmares! It's October and it’s Hava’s favorite time of year! We're kicking off the spooky season with talks about spirits, nightmares, our personal paranormal encounters and more. There’s no emoji of the week, but this week we end giving y’all (inside joke) a glimpse into what's most recent in our camera rolls lol!Follow us on IG!https://instagram.com/hava_tur...2023-10-0854 min
Clearly MisunderstoodCheatingLet's get to the bottom of it guys, do you believe it's in a man's nature to cheat? Do you believe all men are cheaters? Do you think cheating is okay?In this week's episode, we hash out our truths and feelings about the trending topic of cheating. We speak about our own personal experiences and definitions of cheating while discussing the big debate about why cheating has been normalized in our generation. Buckle up and enjoy the ride!Follow us on IG!https://instagram.com/hava_turner_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=2023-08-0651 min
Clearly MisunderstoodLiving With OthersSooooo this week we wanted to talk about the elephant in the room; roommates. Do you have any roommate horror stories? Do you like rooming with others or do you prefer to live alone? Tune in to this week's episode, where we talk about our crazy roommate experiences and our opinions on rooming with others! Much love to all of our listeners.Follow us on IG!https://instagram.com/hava_turner_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=https://www.instagram.com/_wesleycox/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y%3D2023-07-3047 min
Clearly MisunderstoodWhy We PodcastAnother week, another epiiiiii! This week we felt the need to take the time and talk about why we decided to create a podcast, what we've learned from podcasting, and why podcasts are so popular in our generation.What was the podcast that got you into listening to podcasts? What do you look for in a podcast? Do you listen to podcasts that have grown outside their original scope or genre? In this episode, we cover our own personal opinions and more. We hope you love it!Follow us on IG!https://instagram...2023-07-2355 min
Clearly MisunderstoodClosure & Making AmendsYoooo, welcome back! In this week's episode we of course start off with a beautiful string of thoughts performed by Hava's ADHD, then we have a candid convo about relationship closure and making amends.Is "finding closure" without the other person selfish? How do you approach closure with someone you've hurt or wronged? Tune in to this episode to hear our personal perspectives.P.S. Listen out for this week's emoji!Follow us on IG!https://instagram.com/hava_turner_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=https://www.instagram.com/_wesleycox...2023-07-0946 min
Clearly MisunderstoodHolidaysWelcome back everyoneeee!What is your favorite holiday? Which holiday do you think is unnecessary and we should get rid of?As we reflect on this year's Juneteenth and with the 4th of July around the corner, we take this episode to talk about holidays! Prepare for a laughter-filled journey through the holiday calendar that's guaranteed to leave you entertained! And as always, listen for this week's emoji! :)Follow us on IG!https://instagram.com/hava_turner_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=https://www.instagram.com/_wesleycox/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y...2023-07-0250 min
Clearly MisunderstoodVulnerabilityDo you think being vulnerable is a weakness? Why is it so hard to do? In this week's episode, we cover the topic of vulnerability, why being vulnerable is such a difficult task to overcome, and when it is hardest to stick up for yourself. This episode is the perfect mixture of a deep convo and lightheartedness. We hope you enjoy it as much as we do! ...and as always, listen for this week's emoji! 2023-06-2551 min
Clearly MisunderstoodThis Is RandomWelcome back everyone! This week we're embracing the randomness, so buckle up! We talk Tupac and outside etiquette, Don Toliver, cheesecake and more! Also somewhere in the episode, you get a sneak peek of Wesley for real singing! We're just having fun this week and hope you'll enjoy it with us too! P.S. Listen for this week's emoji! 2023-06-1851 min
Clearly MisunderstoodSummertimeSummer is around the corner! Are you having a hot girl/hot boy summer? What's your go-to alcoholic beverage? This episode is a mix of our own personal nostalgias with our summertime favorites. And as always, remember to listen in for this week's emoji. 2023-06-1150 min
Clearly MisunderstoodBuild-A-PartnerHey everyone! Yes, we took a bit of a hiatus again :( If you could build your perfect partner would you? We cover questions like whether love at first sight is real or whether love is “enough”. How important is physical attraction? Should you be friends before getting into a relationship and does it make sense to stay friends if the relationship ends? This episode is full of juicy debates! Listen till the end for the emoji of the week!2023-06-041h 06
Clearly MisunderstoodI Got a SecretWelcome back to the podcast everyone! This week we discuss the subject of secrets! What makes someone trustworthy? Have you ever regretted sharing a secret with someone? Is it ever alright to share a secret? We talk about it all plus more!p.s. Listen out for the secret emoji to send us! 2023-05-1454 min
Clearly MisunderstoodTo Date or Not To Date?What's happening y'all! This week's episode is all about dating! After airing out our own misunderstanding, we talk about the complexities of dating. Are y'all dating, talking, or just exclusive? Should the guy always make the first move? Are you a cat responder? Listen and find out! 2023-05-071h 05
Clearly MisunderstoodMental Health CheckHeyyy everyone! This week's episode is a mental health check. Do you find yourself spiraling at the little things? What do you do to get yourself out of that rut? We speak about it all and more. Enjoy the real talk and some laughs. And always remember, "no is a full sentence." 2023-04-3056 min
Clearly MisunderstoodFear of Missing Out (FOMO)Do you think having FOMO is a negative thing? What do you fear you're actually missing out on? In this episode, we hash out what FOMO means to us, when we feel it the most, and how our personality types influence what we fear the most.2023-04-2359 min
Clearly MisunderstoodConfidence & Identity: Faking it or Making itOkay guys we know we've been MIA but we're back and we're better. In this week's episode, we talk about why we took a break, how we identify ourselves, and how confidence and identity go hand and hand. When someone asks "Who are you?" do you respond with what you do or who you are inside?2023-04-1649 min
Clearly MisunderstoodI'm Just Not Good At ItHow do you handle not being good at something? In this episode, we sit down and discuss things we are not so good at. We cover a range of topics like our frustrations in not being good at something, maintaining friendships at work, and noticing when we are even going through issues and need to rest and relax. As always thanks for listening!Follow us on IG!https://instagram.com/hava_turner_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=https://www.instagram.com/_wesleycox/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y%3D2023-03-261h 00
Clearly MisunderstoodNo Pain, No PainBuckle up! This weeks episode is a bit of a roller coaster! The show starts with a somber moment about dogs before talking about all things pain: How we do or don't cope with pain, emotional vs physical pain, our first painful memories and more! IG: @hava_turner_ @_wesleycox2023-03-1959 min
Clearly MisunderstoodJust Games: Part 2It's Game Day! Would you rather drink or nah? This week we go back and forth about our worst fears, pet peeves, worst habits of a potential partner, and so much more. Enjoy! 2023-03-121h 02
Clearly MisunderstoodGo Shawty, It's Yo Birthday!It's Hava's Kobe year, turn up with us! We talk about birthdays, festivities and reflect on how things change as we grow older. Shout out to my fellow Pisces!2023-03-0559 min
Clearly MisunderstoodStress TestThis week we've been stressed. Better to talk about it with y'all than let it build up. What's been bothering you lately? Alleviate your stress by listening to ours!2023-02-2655 min
Clearly MisunderstoodSelf Care Sundayvalentines day + single = self care, well self care is everyday in our world technically, but extra self care this week.2023-02-1953 min
Clearly MisunderstoodBuilt-In-Best-FriendThis one is for our siblings. Growing up with a house full of kids we were never bored. From cleaning with toothbrushes to family vacations and ganging up on the parents, we couldn't imagine life without each other. If you relate tune in, this episode is full of laughter and nostalgia.2023-02-1246 min
Clearly MisunderstoodJust GamesThis episode we wanted to play a game with you guys while also giving you a chance to learn a little bit more about us. Listen in as we chit chat and fire off some would you rather questions.2023-02-0555 min
Clearly MisunderstoodAdulting: The GhettoJoin us as we talk about navigating the ups and downs of adulting. We discus how we've attempted to maintain friendships as we journey new paths and connections in our careers and other aspects of our lives. Enjoy some real talk, laughter, and a little bit of nostalgia as we share how we are figuring out this new space in life. 2023-01-2955 min
Clearly MisunderstoodKeepin' It Copacetic?New year, new moves. This episode is all about new year resolutions and how we plan to not having another year of the same sh*t. But did y'all know you spell copesthetic, copacetic?2023-01-2256 min
Clearly MisunderstoodWe Be Coughin, We Be CoughinWelcome to our pilot episode. Thank you for flying with Clearly Misunderstood, fasten your seatbelts and enjoy your flight.2023-01-0922 min