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Madness Cafe215. Sexual Awakening and Transformation with guest Xanet PailetJoin the conversation by letting us know what you think about the episode!So many people are living lives lacking in true intimacy or are in relationships that are not sexually satisfying. This week's guest Xanet Pailet has firsthand experience with this and knows how to help. Xanet is the bestselling author of Living an Orgasmic Life: Heal Yourself and Awaken Your Pleasure and the founder of Passionate Intimacy Retreats. Xanet is a former health care lawyer who lived in a sexless marriage for over two decades. At age 50, after experiencing her own sexual healing and awakening in...
2025-08-0753 min
Interrupted: Act 2 Reinventing Your Legacy118|Reigniting Passion: How Committed Couples Can Heal Reconnect and Creat Lasting Intimacy with Xanet Pailet
In this enlightening episode of Interrupted with Laurie, we welcome Xanet Pailet, a nationally recognized sex and intimacy coach, bestselling author of Living an Orgasmic Life, and founder of Passionate Intimacy Retreats. Xanet brings powerful insight and compassionate guidance to couples feeling disconnected, stuck, or emotionally distant in their relationships.
After leaving a 26-year sexless marriage and a successful legal career, Xanet now dedicates her work to helping committed couples rebuild emotional intimacy, rediscover sexual connection, and reignite the spark in long-term relationships. She has led over 100 couples' retreats worldwide, teaching practical tools for cultivating t...
2025-08-0534 minInterrupted: Act 2 Reinventing Your Legacy118|Reigniting Passion: How Committed Couples Can Heal, Reconnect and Create Lasting Intimacy with Xanet Pailet
In this enlightening episode of Interrupted with Laurie, we welcome Xanet Pailet, a nationally recognized sex and intimacy coach, bestselling author of Living an Orgasmic Life, and founder of Passionate Intimacy Retreats. Xanet brings powerful insight and compassionate guidance to couples feeling disconnected, stuck, or emotionally distant in their relationships.
After leaving a 26-year sexless marriage and a successful legal career, Xanet now dedicates her work to helping committed couples rebuild emotional intimacy, rediscover sexual connection, and reignite the spark in long-term relationships. She has led over 100 couples' retreats worldwide, teaching practical tools for cultivating t...
2025-08-0434 min
Call IT In with DarCommunicating Wants & Needs with Xanet PailetMy guest today is Xanet Pailet—a sex and intimacy coach, bestselling author, and someone who really gets what it means to start over and reclaim joy. After 26 years in a sexless marriage and a demanding legal career, she now helps couples reconnect emotionally and sexually through retreats and coaching. We’re talking all about vulnerability, speaking your truth, and learning to actually ask for what you want & need! Her new book, The Sex and Intimacy Repair Kit, comes out next year—so you're getting a sneak peek at her wisdom right here….So let’s call her in! Support...
2025-07-1633 min
Negotiation with AliceSeason 2, Episode 19: Negotiating Time Together in a RelationshipSend us a textToday’s guest, Xanet Pailet, is a nationally recognized Sex and Intimacy Coach, bestselling author of Living an Orgasmic Life, and the founder of Passionate Intimacy Retreats, where she has led over 100 couples’ intimacy retreats. After leaving a 26-year sexless marriage and a high-powered legal career, Xanet now helps committed couples who feel stuck, disconnected, or in conflict transform their relationships into ones filled with intimacy, safety, passion, and joy. Through private and international group retreats, she shows couples how to create emotional and sexual connection that lasts. I am passionate about...
2025-06-2620 min
Nope! We're Not MonogamousTantra, Throuples, and the Best Sex of Her Life at 65 with Xanet PailetWhat happens when you go from 26 years in a sexless marriage… to a full-blown sexual awakening in your 50s? This week, I’m joined by Xanet Pailet — a former healthcare lawyer turned tantra teacher, somatic sex coach, and the author of Living an Orgasmic Life.We’re talking about:How she went from disconnected and dissociated… to having the best sex of her life in her 60sWhy pleasure is your birthright (and what to do if that feels impossible right now)Why communication matters more than rules — and what healthy sex agreements can actually look likeHow trauma, disc...
2025-06-0542 min
Pleasure Pathways: Venus O’HaraEP14 Sexual Awakening: Embrace Your Desire, Transform Your LifeWhat is a sexual awakening? And how can it change your life? In this video, I share my own journey, how I’ve inspired other women to embrace their desires, and why it’s never too late to awaken to your full sensual power.💫 Topics Covered:💖 What a sexual awakening truly means📖 Insights from Living an Orgasmic Life by Xanet Pailet (who had her awakening at 51!)✨ Why your desires matter—at ANY age🔥 Tips to kickstart your own sexual awakening💭 Powerful affirmations for sexual empowermentYour sexuality is YOURS to reclaim. Are you ready? Let me know in t...
2025-04-1111 min
Meredith for Real: the curious introvertEp. 230 | Can a Sexless Marriage Survive?What exactly is considered "sexless"? What are we counting as sex? What would cause someone to not want to have sex all of a sudden?These are all questions I unpacked with Xanet Pailet. She was a successful healthcare lawyer married to an attorney with two children. She lived in a beautiful home in NYC as well as a sexless marriage. At age 45 and no sex for over 15 years, she considered sex as something she was just done with. Now she is a full time intimacy educator with a fulfilling sex life. You’ll hear abo...
2024-03-111h 06
Throuple Talk Podcast#10 - Exploring Sexual Variety in Polyamorous TriadsYou've likely heard the saying, "Variety is the spice of life!", but when it comes to sexuality, variety is often frowned upon. In this episode, we get into the spiciness that comes from embracing sexual variety, particularly within our polyamorous throuple.
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In this episode, we share how challenging outdated societal norms has increased our sexual chemistry, strengthened our relationships, and resulted in higher satisfaction both in ourselves and each other.
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2023-10-2442 min
Happily Ever After Is Just The Beginning! - Lesli Doares, LMFTWhat’s the Deal About Sex Anyway?
With all that’s happening in the world right now, are you making time for intimacy? This may seem like a trick question but the amount of sex people are having has been diminishing in recent years. Some of this has to do with more people living alone, but high levels of stress and worry may be making it worse. Sheltering in place, working from home, making sure your children don’t fall behind in school, not being able to go out and socialize, you name it, your energy and attention are being tested like never before. But humans crav...
2023-04-1137 min
Celestial BodyTantra with IzzyHello lovelies and welcome back! Today's episode I will be interviewing my friend Izzy and we will be talking about an introduction to tantra. In sanskrit tantra means to weave, classical tantra is all about reaching spiritual enlightenment through connecting to your body's energy. Izzy helps us realize that this type of work isn't just about getting it on, how it's really about a deep form of connection that can only be found through being present in our body. So with that being said- get ready to learn how to tap into your sexy life force energy!!...
2023-01-2546 minHappily Ever After Is Just The Beginning! - Lesli Doares, LMFTNo, Menopause Doesn’t Mean the End of Intimacy
Would you be surprised to know that many people still have great sex into their 80s? Yes, there are some adjustments to be made due to aging, but intimacy does not have to come to a screeching halt. Menopause is often blamed for lower sexual desire in women but that’s not the whole story. Intimacy coach Xanet Pailet reveals what is and is not true about women’s desire and menopause.
If intimacy is an issue in your marriage, Lesli can help. Please share this informative show on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram.
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2022-10-2538 min
Wise Women Rise13 | Reclaim divine sexuality by releasing shame and blocked energy | Xanet Pailet and Nunaisi MaWhen you can connect with your divine sexuality, you can tap into that life force energy that lives in your pelvic bowl. Both physical wounds and emotional wounds live in the pelvic bowl, and for many women, the energy around that area can be blocked.
Feeling closed down with your partner and around your sexuality can be very isolating and frustrating. Once you can heal your relationship with your divine sexuality, you can also rediscover the joy and pleasure of sex and deepen your intimacy and relationships. It’s never too late.
Re...
2021-12-0452 min
Minda Wilson | Urgent Care - The PodcastUrgent Care - Featured Guest - Xanet Pailet - Living An Orgasmic LifeXanet Pailet is a former New York City health care lawyer who lived in a sexless marriage for over two decades. After experiencing her sexual healing and awakening in 2011, she transitioned her career into a full-time sex and intimacy coach, writer, blogger, and teacher. She works with individuals and couples to empower them around their sexuality and strengthen relationship and intimacy skills.
Author Xanet Pailet “I wrote this book because I am passionate about helping individuals who feel broken reclaim their sexuality and their pleasure, and transform their lives. I want women and men who are struggling wi...
2021-11-2938 min
Spiderum Official10 sự thật thú vị về chuyện ấy có thể bạn chưa biết | SPIDERUM | .Ngưn. | Giáo dục giới tínhĐàn ông có thể đạt cực khoái mà không cần xuất tinh Điều này có làm bạn ngạc nhiên không? Cực khoái và xuất tinh là hai phản ứng sinh lý khác nhau ở nam giới. Xanet Pailet, nhà giáo dục tình dục và là tác giả cuốn “Living An Orgasm Life” cho biết: “Mặc dù xuất tinh thường bị đánh đồng với cực khoái nhưng thực tế, cả hai xảy ra liên tiếp một cách nhanh chóng, với cực khoái đến trước khi xuất tinh và g...
2021-09-2507 min
Sex, Love & Superpowers on the Superpower NetworkSLSP – Reclaiming Desire and Healing Our Relationship to SexHave you forgotten how to experience pleasure? Are you in a process of reclaiming desire? Or maybe you are someone who has always had a negative or painful relationship to sex? In this episode of Sex, Love, and SuperPowers host Tatiana Berindei and sex and intimacy coach Xanet Pailet talk about how to go [...]
2021-04-0545 minHappily Ever After Is Just The Beginning! - Lesli Doares, LMFTWhat’s the Deal About Sex Anyway?
With all that’s happening in the world right now, are you making time for intimacy? This may seem like a trick question but the amount of sex people are having has been diminishing in recent years. Some of this has to do with more people living alone, but high levels of stress and worry may be making it worse. Sheltering in place, working from home, making sure your children don’t fall behind in school, not being able to go out and socialize, you name it, your energy and attention are being tested like never before. But humans crav...
2020-09-0737 min
Happily Ever After is Just the BeginningWhat’s the Deal About Sex Anyway?With all that’s happening in the world right now, are you making time for intimacy? This may seem like a trick question but the amount of sex people are having has been diminishing in recent years. Some of this has to do with more people living alone, but high levels of stress and worry may be making it worse. Sheltering in place, working from home, making sure your children don’t fall behind in school, not being able to go out and socialize, you name it, your energy and attention are being tested like never before. But humans crave conn...
2020-09-0737 min
Heart-repreneur® RadioHeartrepreneur® Radio | Episode 230 | An Orgasmic Life With Xanet PailetDo you ever think about how the most private and intimate parts of your life affect everything on the outside? It’s often neglected by many people but sexual fulfillment plays such a huge component in the way we’re fulfilled in other aspects of our lives, but it’s time to be more conscious of it. Joining Terri Levine is Xanet Pailet, the bestselling author of Living an Orgasmic Life: Heal Yourself and Awaken Your Pleasure. Xanet and Terri discuss the role that sexual fulfillment plays outside the bedroom: in the boardroom and beyond. Let Xanet and Terri’s conver...
2020-06-2923 min
Heart-repreneur® RadioHeartrepreneur® Radio | Episode 230 | An Orgasmic Life With Xanet PailetDo you ever think about how the most private and intimate parts of your life affect everything on the outside? It’s often neglected by many people but sexual fulfillment plays such a huge component in the way we’re fulfilled in other aspects of our lives, but it’s time to be more conscious of it. Joining Terri Levine is Xanet Pailet, the bestselling author of Living an Orgasmic Life: Heal Yourself and Awaken Your Pleasure. Xanet and Terri discuss the role that sexual fulfillment plays outside the bedroom: in the boardroom and beyond. Let Xanet and Terri’s conver...
2020-06-2923 min
SexologyEP157 - Engineer An Orgasmic Year For Yourself Welcome to episode 157 of the Sexology Podcast! Today it’s my pleasure to welcome Xanet Pailet to the podcast. In this episode Xanet speaks to me about she overcame a sexless marriage, looking at the barriers of sexual shame and taking the power back over arousal. Xanet Pailet is the best-selling author of Living an Orgasmic Life. Xanet is a recovered NYC health care lawyer who lived in a sexless marriage for over two decades. After experiencing her own sexual healing and awakening in 2011, she transitioned her career into a full-time sex and intimacy educator and coach.
2019-12-3132 min
SexologyEP157 - Engineer An Orgasmic Year For YourselfToday it’s my pleasure to welcome Xanet Pailet to the podcast. In this episode Xanet speaks to me about she overcame a sexless marriage, looking at the barriers of sexual shame and taking the power back over arousal.
2019-12-3132 min
Answers NetworkEpisode 539: Ending the Sexless Marriage Epidemic: Living an Orgasmic Life7-29-19 Answers for the Family interview wth author Xanet PailetHost: Allen Cardoza and Co-Host: Art TorresLiving An Orgasmic Life is for those who find sex challenging and are uncomfortable with their sex life. Women who are alienated from their erotic side due to sexual abuse or trauma will find healing balm in these pages. Women who can’t surrender into pleasure, can’t sustain intimacy, or want to reclaim and feel empowered in their sexuality will greatly benefit from this book.Living An Orgasmic Life was created to help individuals awaken their sexu...
2019-07-3053 min
Answers Network Radio Show"Living an Orgasmic Life"Ending the Sexless Marriage Epidemic: Living an Orgasmic Life - Heal Yourself and Awaken Your Pleasure
Show Guest: Xanet Pailet
Author Xanet Pailet notes - &"I wrote Living An Orgasmic Life because I am passionate about helping individuals who feel broken reclaim their sexuality and pleasure, and transform their lives. I want women who are struggling with sex to understand that help is available and that they can have healthy, passionate sex lives.” Living An Orgasmic Life can help you rediscover the joy and pleasure of sex.
2019-07-2955 min
Shameless Sex#106 Sexless Relationships With Xanet PailetIn this episode we chat with author, sex coach and Sexological Bodyworker Xanet Pailet all about sexless marriages and relationships. How common is it (hint - it's more common than you may think)? What are the signs that someone may be heading towards a sexless relationship? Why is this happening? What can partners do to keep the fire burning? Xanet Pailet, best selling author of the new book, Living an Orgasmic Life, is a recovered NYC health care lawyer who lived in a sexless marriage for over two decades. After experiencing her own sexual healing and awakening i...
2019-05-1449 min
Shameless Sex#106 Sexless Relationships - with Xanet PailetIn this episode we chat with author, sex coach and Sexological Bodyworker Xanet Pailet all about sexless marriages and relationships. How common is it (hint - it's more common than you may think)? What are the signs that someone may be heading towards a sexless relationship? Why is this happening? What can partners do to keep the fire burning?Xanet Pailet, best selling author of the new book, Living an Orgasmic Life, is a recovered NYC health care lawyer who lived in a sexless marriage for over two decades. After experiencing her own sexual healing and awakening i...
2019-05-1449 min
Listen To The Full Audiobook Everyone Is Talking About — So Spellbinding!Living an Orgasmic Life by Xanet Pailet, Emily Morse - foreword byPlease visithttps://thebookvoice.com/podcasts/2/audible/32543to listen full audiobooks.
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Author: Xanet Pailet, Emily Morse - foreword by
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Format: mp3
Length: 6 hrs and 59 mins
Release date: 05-14-19
Ratings: 4.5 out of 5 stars, 83 ratings
Genres: LGBTQ+ Studies
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Living an Orgasmic Life is written for anyone who finds sex challenging or feels uncomfortable with their sex life. Women who are alienated from their erotic side due to sexual abuse or trauma will find a healing balm here. Women who can't surrender into pleasure, can't sustain intimacy, or want to reclaim and feel...
2019-05-146h 59Relish: This Best-Selling Full Audiobook For Curious Minds.Living an Orgasmic Life by Xanet Pailet, Emily Morse - foreword byPlease visithttps://thebookvoice.com/podcasts/2/audible/32543to listen full audiobooks.
Title: Living an Orgasmic Life
Author: Xanet Pailet, Emily Morse - foreword by
Narrator: Xanet Pailet
Format: mp3
Length: 6 hrs and 59 mins
Release date: 05-14-19
Ratings: 4.5 out of 5 stars, 83 ratings
Genres: LGBTQ+ Studies
Publisher's Summary:
Living an Orgasmic Life is written for anyone who finds sex challenging or feels uncomfortable with their sex life. Women who are alienated from their erotic side due to sexual abuse or trauma will find a healing balm here. Women who can't surrender into pleasure, can't sustain intimacy, or want to reclaim and feel...
2019-05-146h 59Begin Into A Heart-Pounding Full Audiobook On The Go.Living an Orgasmic Life by Xanet Pailet, Emily Morse - foreword byPlease visithttps://thebookvoice.com/podcasts/2/audible/25059to listen full audiobooks.
Title: Living an Orgasmic Life
Author: Xanet Pailet, Emily Morse - foreword by
Narrator: Xanet Pailet
Format: mp3
Length: 6 hrs and 59 mins
Release date: 05-14-19
Ratings: 4.5 out of 5 stars, 83 ratings
Genres: Sexual & Reproductive Health
Publisher's Summary:
Living an Orgasmic Life is written for anyone who finds sex challenging or feels uncomfortable with their sex life. Women who are alienated from their erotic side due to sexual abuse or trauma will find a healing balm here. Women who can't surrender into pleasure, can't sustain intimacy, or want to reclaim and...
2019-05-146h 59
Listen to the Best Full Audiobooks in Health & Wellness, Fitness, Diet & NutritionLiving An Orgasmic Life: Heal Yourself and Awaken Your Pleasure by Xanet PailetPlease visit https://thebookvoice.com/podcasts/1/audiobook/375978 to listen full audiobooks. Title: Living An Orgasmic Life: Heal Yourself and Awaken Your Pleasure Author: Xanet Pailet Narrator: Xanet Pailet Format: Unabridged Audiobook Length: 7 hours 0 minutes Release date: May 14, 2019 Ratings: Ratings of Book: 5 of Total 2 Ratings of Narrator: 5 of Total 1 Genres: Fitness, Diet & Nutrition Publisher's Summary: Overcome your discomfort: Living an Orgasmic Life is written for anyone who finds sex challenging or feels uncomfortable with their sex life. Women who are alienated from their erotic side due to sexual abuse or trauma will find healing balm here. Women who can't surrender into...
2019-05-1430 min
Conscious CouplesXanet Pailet - Recovering from Sexless MarriagesIn this episode, Xanet Pailet talks with Bill about recovering from sexless marriages and challenges with sex in long-term relationships. Pailet is the best-selling author of Living an Orgasmic Life. She is a recovered NYC health care lawyer who lived in a sexless marriage for over two decades. After experiencing her own sexual healing and awakening in 2011, she transitioned her career into a full-time sex and intimacy educator and coach. Pailet believes that pleasure is our birthright and she is passionate about helping women and men find their way back into their bodies, their desires, and their pleasure. Xanet Pailet...
2019-04-1800 min
The Dr. Brenda Wade ShowXanet Pailet: Living an Orgasmic LifeXanet Pailet is a former New York City health care lawyer who lived in a sexless marriage for over two decades. After experiencing her sexual healing and awakening in 2011, she transitioned her career into a full-time sex and intimacy coach, writer, blogger, and teacher. She works with individuals and couples to empower them around their sexuality and strengthen relationship and intimacy skills.
Xanet is a certified Somatica® Sex and Intimacy Coach, Sexological Body Worker, Holistic Pelvic Care Practitioner, Tantra Educator and Somatica Experiencing Trauma Practitioner. She is on the faculty of the Ecstatic Living Institute and the Somatica Institute. She li...
2019-04-1427 min
Make More Love Not WarReclaim Your Orgasms | Xanet PailetAre you a woman that finds it difficult to enjoy sex because it is painful physically or emotionally? You may find it challenging to ignite the sexual desire within yourself because of past sexual abuse, trauma, shame, body image issues, physical wounds or fear of intimacy. This can lead many women to living a life that is void of orgasms and frankly zero pleasure in the bedroom. They many even justify this terrible situation as a fact of life for them because they simply have a broken vagina. Some may even go as far as turning this unfortunate lack of...
2019-04-131h 22
AskSharifahXanet Pailet and Sharifah hardie interviewXanet Pailet and Sharifah Hardie interview
Xanet Pailet is the best selling author of Living an Orgasmic Life: Heal Yourself and Awaken Your Pleasure. Xanet is a recovered NYC health care lawyer who lived in a sexless marriage for over two decades. After experiencing her own sexual healing and awakening in 2011, she transitioned her career into a full-time sex and intimacy educator and coach.
Xanet believes that pleasure is our birthright and she is passionate about helping women and men find their way back into their bodies, their desires, and their pleasure. X...
2019-03-2650 min
Can A Playa Play“Living an Orgasmic Life”Xanet Pailet is the best selling author of Living an Orgasmic Life (Mango Media, 2018). Xanet is a recovered NYC health care lawyer who lived in a sexless marriage for over two decades. After experiencing her own sexual healing and awakening in 2011, she transitioned her career into a full-time sex and intimacy educator and coach. Xanet believes that pleasure is our birthright and she is passionate about helping women and men find their way back into their bodies, their desires, and their pleasure. Xanet works with couples who are in sexless marriages and women who have experienced abuse and trauma. She help...
2019-03-241h 02
CAN A PLAYA PLAY?“Living an Orgasmic Life”Xanet Pailet is the best selling author of Living an Orgasmic Life (Mango Media, 2018). Xanet is a recovered NYC health care lawyer who lived in a sexless marriage for over two decades. After experiencing her own sexual healing and awakening in 2011, she transitioned her career into a full-time sex and intimacy educator and coach.
Xanet believes that pleasure is our birthright and she is passionate about helping women and men find their way back into their bodies, their desires, and their pleasure. Xanet works with couples who are in sexless marriages and women who have experienced abuse and trauma. She help...
2019-03-241h 03
The Sexy Lifestyle with Carol and DavidLIVING AN ORGASMIC LIFEDo you find it difficult to surrender to pleasure and just let go? Does your erotic-self seem alien to you? Then, it might be time for some sexual healing. Join us with Sex & Intimacy Educator, Xanet Pailet, as we discuss our relationship with sex at different times in our lives - from the hot 'n horny 20’s, to the stale 'n boring 40’s, and how it’s never too late to re-awakening your sexuality so that you can have a better relationship, juicier sex and more passion in your love life.
2019-03-191h 09
Leading Edge LoveLeading Edge Love - Xanet Pailet, Sex & Intimacy Educator, Coach and Author.Tuesdays, 9 pm Eastern, 6 pm Pacific: "Leading Edge Love," host Sumati Sparks:
This week, her guest is Xanet Pailet, Sex & Intimacy Educator, Coach & Author (https://powerofpleasure.com/).
Sumati Sparks, The Open Relationship Coach, (www.SumatiSparks.com) offers coaching sessions via video conferencing, telephone or in person in the San Francisco Bay Area.
SUMATI WORKS WITH:
• Professional Married Men & Women who have little or no intimacy in their long-term relationship.
• Single or Divorced People who do not wish to have another traditional relationship.
• Couples who want to successfully open their relationship.
• Singles & Couples who don’t know where to find other polyamorous people to me...
2019-03-1358 min
Leading Edge LoveLeading Edge Love - Xanet Pailet, Sex & Intimacy Educator, Coach and Author.Tuesdays, 9 pm Eastern, 6 pm Pacific: "Leading Edge Love," host Sumati Sparks: This week, her guest is Xanet Pailet, Sex & Intimacy Educator, Coach & Author (https://powerofpleasure.com/). Sumati Sparks, The Open Relationship Coach, (www.SumatiSparks.com) offers coaching sessions via video conferencing, telephone or in person in the San Francisco Bay Area. SUMATI WORKS WITH: • Professional Married Men & Women who have little or no intimacy in their long-term relationship. • Single or Divorced People who do not wish to have another traditional relationship. • Couples who want to successfully open their relationship. • Singles & Couples who don’t know where to find other polyamorous people to me...
2019-03-1357 min
Erotic AwakeningEA479 - bringing sexy back with Xanet PailetThe Erotic Awakening Podcast is about BDSM, Sex & Sexuality, Polyamory, Kink, Sacred Sexuality, and more! This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast we talk with author Xanet Pailet on bringing sexy back to sexless relationships! Plus they share some seriously geeky fantasies! Don't miss an episode! Click below to subscribe
2019-03-1252 min
This Is WhyLiving an Orgasmic Life ft. sex coach Xanet PailetWe welcome Xanet Pailet, a sex and intimacy educator, coach and the author of the new book "Living an Orgasmic Life." We talk all about what to do when you're stuck in a sexless relationship, orgasms, tantra and more. In dating news we discuss how lucid dreaming can help fulfill your sexual fantasies & what constitutes “normal” sex. Then we answer your listener questions including a listener who doesn’t know where she stands with a guy she’s seeing and a listener whose guy never “finishes.”This week's episode is brought to you by Adam and Eve, Care Of, and...
2019-02-0650 min
Conversations with Peter SolomonConversations with Peter Solomon 01/20/19XANET PAILET-DISCUSSING HER BOOK “LIVING AN ORGASMIC LIFE: HEAL YOURSELF AND AWAKEN YOUR PLEASURE.” DR. LEO TRANSANDE-DISCUSSING HIS BOOK “SICKER, FATTER POORER:THE URGENT THREAT OF HORMONE-DISRUPTING CHEMICALS TO OUR HEALTH AND FUTURE … AND WHAT WE CAN DO ABOUT IT.”
2019-01-201h 29
Relationship AdviceWhat's Your Fantasy?Sexual fantasy can play a large role in a relationship and individual sexuality. However, there's often a fair amount of shame around sexuality and sexual fantasies. Listen to today's show to learn how to explore your own fantasies and share them with your partner. You just might learn a few fun new things about each other and perhaps your fantasy will turn to reality! Today's show topics include: How to work on feeling less shameful about your sexual fantasies Communication tools to share your fantasies with your partner The deeper meaning of your sexual fantasies (Threesomes...
2018-12-1950 minRelationship AdviceWhat's Your Fantasy?Sexual fantasy can play a large role in a relationship and individual sexuality. However, there's often a fair amount of shame around sexuality and sexual fantasies. Listen to today's show to learn how to explore your own fantasies and share them with your partner. You just might learn a few fun new things about each other and perhaps your fantasy will turn to reality! Today's show topics include: How to work on feeling less shameful about your sexual fantasies Communication tools to share your fantasies with your partner The deeper meaning of your sexual fantasies (Threesomes...
2018-12-1950 min
The Bad Girls Bible - Sex, Relationships, Dating, Love & Marriage Advice#26 Discover Your Sexual Blueprint and Learn How To Enjoy Sex More With Xanet PailetOn the show today we welcome Xanet Pailet, tantra educator, sex coach, and author of Living an Orgasmic Life. Xanet is here tell us all about her work and how accessing your sexual blueprint and core erotic themes can guide you to a more fulfilling sex life and transform your whole world. We discuss Xanet’s own journey and the events in her life that led up to her current vocation before launching into some examples of the difficulties that people can have accessing and communicating their sexual needs. We talk about lowered libido, sexless ma...
2018-12-1433 min
Age Less / Live MoreThe Power of Pleasure – Rediscovering Your SexualityXanet Pailet was in a marriage with zero physical intimacy for more than 15 years. Most people don't go that long, but many do wait years before they openly address these issues; however, by then, permanent damage to the relationship may have already been done. Sexuality is a definitive part of the human experience, and when it's not working, it's one of the top reasons couples split. So what's going wrong? Past trauma, self-esteem issues, guilt, shame, and a general lack of communication all contribute to the complexity of physical intimacy, so it's not surprising most people avoid...
2018-11-1447 min
BITEradio.meLiving An Orgasmic Life: Heal Yourself and Awaken Your PleasureLiving An Orgasmic Life: Heal Yourself and Awaken Your Pleasure with Xanet Paillet Living An Orgasmic Life is written for anyone who finds sex challenging or feels uncomfortable with their sex life. Women who are alienated from their erotic side due to sexual abuse or trauma will find healing balm in these pages. Women who can’t surrender into pleasure, can’t sustain intimacy, or want to reclaim and feel empowered in their sexuality will greatly benefit from this book. Challenges with sexuality are all too common in our society and not frequently discussed in an open and thoughtful manner. In Liv...
2018-10-0847 min
Living An Orgasmic Life: Heal Yourself and Awaken Your PleasureLiving An Orgasmic Life: Heal Yourself and Awaken Your Pleasure with Xanet Paillet
Living An Orgasmic Life is written for anyone who finds sex challenging or feels uncomfortable with their sex life. Women who are alienated from their erotic side due to sexual abuse or trauma will find healing balm in these pages. Women who can’t surrender into pleasure, can’t sustain intimacy, or want to reclaim and feel empowered in their sexuality will greatly benefit from this book.
Challenges with sexuality are all too common in our society and not frequently discussed in an open and thoughtful manner. In Liv...
2018-10-0848 min
The Kathryn Zox ShowEp. 1: US Diversity and Ep. 2: Sexual LiberationKathryn interviews consumer finance expert Jill Gonzalez on 2018’s Most and Least Diverse States in America. To determine where the most idea and identity exchanges have occurred at the highest level in the U.S. — and where the population is relatively more homogeneous — WalletHub compared the 50 states across six key categories: socio-economic, cultural, economic, household, religious and political diversity. Gonzalez, Media Director at WalletHub, is featured on NBC Nightly News, NPR’s Marketplace and C-SPAN. Kathryn also interviews former attorney turned sex and intimacy coach Xanet Pailet, author of “Living an Orgasmic Life: Heal Yourself and Awaken Your Pleasure”. Pailet lived in a s...
2018-10-0355 min
Last First Date RadioEP 321: How to Awaken Your Sexuality and Create More Intimacy at Any Stage of LifeXanet Pailet is a former New York City health care lawyer who lived in a sexless marriage for over two decades. After experiencing her sexual healing and awakening in 2011, she transitioned her career into a full- time sex and intimacy educator and coach. She works with individuals and couples to empower them around their sexuality and strengthen relationship and intimacy skills.
Xanet is a certified Somatica® Sex and Intimacy Coach, Sexological Body Worker, Holistic Pelvic Care Practitioner, Tantra Educator and Somatica Experiencing Trauma Practitioner. She is on the faculty of the Ecstatic Living Institute and the Somatica Institute.
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2018-08-2840 min
Dare to be Authentic PodcastAuthentic Talk about Sex - with Xanet PailetJoin me with special guest Xanet Pailet as we talk about how we can heal our relationship with sex and stop living in sexless relationships. And how it’s possible to claim or reclaim our pleasure at any age. Xanet will tell her story about her journey to sexual healing and awakening and how this can be possible for anyone.
2018-08-2230 min
2018-07-0356 min
Sex With EmilyYour Orgasmic Potential with Xanet PailetOn today’s show, Emily is joined by Xanet Pailet, a sex and intimacy coach and author of the forthcoming book, Living An Orgasmic Life, to discuss how to reach your full orgasmic potential, overcome the shame/pleasure paradox, and understanding the difference between arousal and desire. Emily and Xanet also walk through a couple exercises to tap into your sexual energy–– something you can do along with them! There are a lot of useful tools and information packed into this episode, all geared towards helping you get in tune with your sensual side. Thank you fo...
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How To Talk To Girls PodcastWhat Makes A Woman Say Yes To Sex?Xanet Pailet is a sex and intimacy coach. Today she shares how to get a woman to let go of her insecurities and be more open to having sex.
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2016-12-1535 min
How To Talk To Girls PodcastWhat Makes A Woman Say Yes To Sex?Shame is the #1 reason that some women are unable to open themselves up sexually and fully express their sexual desires. So the #1 thing you can do to make a woman want to have wild sex with you is by removing shame. Xanet Pailet is a sex and intimacy coach and will show you how.MORE RESOURCES Visit Xanet’s Website: https://powerofpleasure.comHOOKED Video Masterclass: https://getherhooked.com/1-on-1 Premium Coaching: http://www.coachedbytripp.com/The Irresistible Academy: http://trippadvice.com/academy/Get my book Magnetic: htt...
2016-12-1535 minHappily Ever After is Just the BeginningHappily Ever After is Just the Beginning – Yes, Mothers Really Can Have SexResearch shows that children are one of the worst things that can happen to marriage. Once children come on the scene, marital satisfaction takes a big hit. But having children is one of the reasons couples decide to get married. So, what exactly happens once those bundles of joy arrive that causes this stress? Exhaustion, no time, exhaustion, changed body image, changed focus, and, did I mention, exhaustion. It’s easy to understand how couples get disconnected and intimacy, both physical and emotional, often takes a back seat. But the real truth is, the best gift you can give your ch...
2016-06-0633 minHappily Ever After is Just the BeginningHappily Ever After Is Just The Beginning! – The Solution for Soul-Satisfying SexMany people dismiss monogamy as boring and unappealing. Who wants to be stuck with making love to only one person for the rest of their lives? But study after study report that married couples have more frequent and better sex than singles. So what gives? In reality, most of us want to have truly great sex but don’t know how to get it. Sex and intimacy coach and author of 30 Days to Orgasmic Bliss (http://powerofpleasure.com/), Xanet Pailet, tells you exactly what you need to do, and also what not to do, to experience soul-satisfying pleasure. Send your co...
2016-02-0834 min