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Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsHow Dating Rules Keep You Stuck w/ Talia KorenFrom dating books like 'The Rules' to TikToker's giving dating advice, we're here to say the rules don't freaking work – yet they are so much more engrained in all of us than we may even think. If you're debating when to text next, finding the "right" time to have sex or strategically keeping dates short, then it's likely these dating "rules" are actually keeping you stuck. We're joining Talia Koren on her podcast 'Dating Intentionally' to chat about what vulnerability is and isn't, how to tell if you've been playing relationship chicken this whole time and tips for being mor...2025-07-151h 15Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships#brunchtalk: Dishing About Why The Matchmaking Industry is F%cked and Our Polar Opposite Views on MaterialistsYue almost walked out of the movie Materialists...it may be one of Julie's favorite movies of all times. Whether you've seen it or not, we're having a debate about the messaging and takeaways of the movie as it pertains to modern dating, financial disparities in relationships, height surgery, and the matchmaking industry. We're revealing our true feelings of matchmaking from our own experiences and hope you enjoy this heated debate! And if you saw the movie, let us know what you thought...we'll be putting up some Spotify & Instagram polls. Enjoy!Take the Dating Archetypes quiz...2025-06-2944 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsS20E21: What To Know About Marriage (Before You're Even Married) w/ Casey & Meygan CastonWhat happens when you meet the love of your life but then the relationship completely falls apart not long after you get married? You learn what you probably needed to know lonnng before you tied the knot! We're joined with Casey & Meygan from Marriage365 to talk about how their relationship nearly collapsed – and what they did to get it back on track. We're discussing the green/red flags when picking a partner, the modern myths that almost ruined their marriage, and what you need to know about marriage even if you are single AF right now. Plus we give a r...2025-06-241h 04Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsQuickie w/ Yue: The Wine Pairing Test (To Determine The Right Partner For You)We always wonder...how do I know if someone is right for me? Yue's breaking down her recent analogy that gives you a good gut check when dating to see if someone could be a good partner for you. She shares what she's learned over the years – and how she was able to find a partner that compliments her in all the right ways. Bottoms up!Take the Dating Archetypes quiz now: https://howtobedateable.com/HOW TO BE DATEABLE IS OUT! Order now: https://howtobedateable.com/Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out...2025-05-1505 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsQuickie w/ Julie: The Magic of The MiddleIt's so hard to not be focused on the milestones, but Julie had a reality check recently that she wanted to share on this quickie with you. Because as Dr. Laurie Santos discussed in this week's episode the arrival fallacy is exactly that – a fallacy. And the reality is that we're never out of the middle (even if we've hit said milestones), so do we not just embrace the middle, but truly enjoy it. Take the Dating Archetypes quiz now: https://howtobedateable.com/HOW TO BE DATEABLE IS OUT! Order now: https://howtobedateable.com/F...2025-03-0704 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsQuickie w/ Julie AND Yue: Welcome To The WorldIt's been one heck of a week with our book, our baby 'How to Be Dateable: The Essential Guide to Finding Your Person & Falling In Love' officially out into the world! We're both reflecting on the week – how we celebrated and all the gratitude we have to all of you that have supported us through this all! Go get 'How to Be Dateable' on howtobedateable.com or wherever books are sold. Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podca...2025-01-3113 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsFinding Love (And Yourself) Again - Julie Interviews YueWhile last year was all about building resilience after that heart-wrenching infidelity, this year was about finding love again. Julie interviews Yue to hear how she's been able to able to design the type of relationship that works for her and her "manfriend" – and most importantly herself. We discuss the biggest shifts she's made in dating / relationships, how she learned to love being in her single era instead of looking at it as a layover to a relationship, and of course the impact she's hoping to make with our book 'How to Be Dateable' which comes out NEXT WEEK! 2025-01-211h 04Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsThe Year of Yes – Yue Interviews JulieFrom getting engaged to quitting her job pursue Dateable full-time, it's been a year of taking that next step – saying yes to the future that's to come. In this episode, Yue interviews Julie about all these life changes – what's been incredible, challenging, and so forth. We discuss not always so linear progression of relationships, the anxieties despite the milestones, and of course the hopes for 2025 with our book 'How to Be Dateable' soon into the world!Take the Dating Archetypes quiz now: https://howtobedateable.com/To listen to Julie's engagement story, listen to the intro in 'S1...2025-01-141h 01Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsQuickie w/ Yue: Dating Shouldn't Be This HardWe're meant to do life with other people. So then, why is dating so damn hard? Yue's sharing why dating feels so difficult these days – and how we can start to shift our mindset to think about things differently. Because being with another human you love is natural, yet dating is not. And it's about time we change how we approach it altogether. Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.2024-11-2111 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsQuickie w/ Julie: The Case for Underthinking (In Dating)What if there were benefits of underthinking in dating and relationships? Yup, you heard us right. Julie's sharing a low light from her trip to Italy and how the anxiety and overthinking started to creep in related to her relationship. And also how overthinking has caused issues in the past and why thinking a little less can actually be of greater service to us all. Don't worry, we're never advocating for not thinking dating and relationships through; but more about how we don't get in our own ways. Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our w...2024-10-2510 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsQuickie w/ Yue: What You Have In Common Doesn't Really MatterWe tend to be so focused on commonalities when dating...but what if that wasn't actually what mattered in finding a compatible partner? Yue's breaking down why focusing so much on shared interests can lead to a false sense of connection and what's more important to look out for. Also she's sharing her newfound love of quickies – from this type of episode to you know, the real deal. Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get...2024-10-1010 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsQuickie w/ Julie: A Letter To Your ExWhat's better than coming across letters you wrote to your ex(s) years later? Julie's diving into how this practice has helped her process the past so she can move forward. No, you don't need to send the actual letter (in fact, it's recommended you do not). And yes, this absolutely will give you the closure and clarity you need. And one day, you'll be able to see how far you've come and how none of this was time wasted. If you're looking for a dose of optimism and tactical tips, tune in for this one. Plus she'll share...2024-09-2608 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsQuickie w/ Yue: What I Learned About The First 6 Months of A Relationship + Updates On My 'New" RelationshipYou've heard the theories about the first 6 months of a relationship and how it's a marker if the relationship will last. Yue's breaking down what she's learned about the 6 month period – what typically happens and how she's doing things differently this time around. Also, she's sharing some updates about her 'new' relationship after crossing that 6 month barrier and what's unfolded in that time.Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts....2024-09-1310 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsQuickie w/ Julie: Dating Is Rarely As Personal As It Feels - And Here's WhyIt's hard not to take dating personally – especially when someone can't commit or doesn't want to see you again. But what we've learned is that it often has nothing to do with you, despite what we may think. Julie's diving into this topic as it's something that's been a challenge for her while dating – and even into her current relationship. Hopefully this will help you not take things as personally and use dating for what it's meant for: to find the right match. Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen...2024-08-2906 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsQuickie w/ Yue: Poop Anxiety (In Early Dating)How many of you get anxiety about using the bathroom when you're just starting to date someone new? Anyone? Yue is going there: taking us through her own bathroom anxieties while being utterly perplexed that her friend did not share the same sentiment in the slightest – so much that it lead to an investigation on the topic and this quickie for all of you.TW: Talking about bathroom activities in this one. If this is not for you, check out our many other episodes. Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more...2024-08-1611 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsQuickie w/ Julie: Finding Closure From Past RelationshipsIt's been a big week! Writing a book brings up a lot – especially when the topic is around dating and relationships! Julie is discussing how she processed her own dating history and patterns, including reconnecting with her ex 4 years later.Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/Our Sponsors:* Mint...2024-08-0108 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsThe Science Of Attraction: A Flashback to Our Most Popular EpisodeWhat makes you attracted to one person and not another? We're bringing back our most popular episode ever with Dr. Paul Eastwick about his work at the UC Davis Attraction Lab of how people form and maintain relationships. We discuss how ideal partner preferences play into partner selection, why we often think we know what we want when we don't, and the secret of when attraction can build over time. Plus we'll kick off the episode with a new intro recapping Yue's solo trip + the intimacy workshop she attended, and Julie's bday highs and lows. Plus BIG announcement coming...2024-07-161h 20Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsQuickie w/ Yue: The Quickest Way To Stop Bad Dating BehaviorAre you sick of the ghosting, bread crumbing, flaking, zombie-ing, and the myriad of other bad dating behavior? Yup, us too. Yue is discussing her theory on why it seems to keep getting worse every year, but more importantly how we can all squash this type of behavior and head into a dating utopia. Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.WE WROTE A BOOK...2024-07-1110 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsQuickie w/ Julie: The #1 Skill In A Relationship (That's Not Communication)We're told that communication is everything in relationships....but what if there's another skill that is arguably more important??? Julie takes you through her experience of what she learned through couples therapy and how it's applied to not only her romantic relationships but also relationships with friends, family and coworkers too.Related Episodes:The Truth About RelationshipsHow To Have A Healthy RelationshipWhat's Your Communication StyleFollow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w...2024-06-2708 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsQuickie w/ Yue: Sometimes Staying Together May Need Time ApartWe've talked about Dating Sabbaticals but what about Relationship Sabbaticals? Yue is reflecting on the conversation we had with Mark Groves this week about the need to take an intentional pause and how this could serve her relationships – past, present, and future. If you've wondered before if you should stay or go, or when the relationship is worth fighting for, this one is for you!Related Episodes:The Key To Getting Back Together With Your Ex w/ Mark GrovesFollow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also lis...2024-06-1410 min
Dating Intentionally78. Dating skills you need to find the relationship you want w/ Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick (@dateablepodcast)Today's episode features the amazing hosts of Dateable Podcast, Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick. They have been sharing their dating advice for 8 years with thousands of daters everywhere. We get into super practical tips for having better conversations on dates, the importance of screening your matches, and the mindset shifts you need to be more curious and less attached to the outcome. We also talk about the common thing that successful daters have: wanting a relationship, not needing one, and knowing what your "north star" is in dating. At the end, we do a rapid-fire round of "Is it...2024-06-1459 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsS18E16: Creating a Relationship 2.0 w/ Mark GrovesWe're so excited to have long-awaited guest, Mark Groves in the house! And even more importantly, diving into his story about breaking up – and getting back together– with his now-wife Kylie McBeath and what this experience taught him about relationships. We're discussing how both parties must take responsibility owning their sh*t, what it actually means to build a relationship 2.0, and why liberating yourself from the patterns of your relationship is the only way forward.Even if you're not interested in reconnecting with your ex (um...bye), this episode is a must listen as it'll teach you so mu...2024-06-111h 19Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsQuickie w/ Julie: My Biggest Fear – Even In A Happy, Healthy RelationshipWe're dropping another quickie as Julie reflects on her biggest fear that was triggered by last week's episode 'Are Long-Term Relationships For Everyone?' Find out why this apprehension still creeps in even in her current relationship and how she could relate to Ryan's ex from her experience in the past. If you've been in a situation where it felt like someone pulled the rug out from under you saying they couldn't be in a relationship anymore, then this episode is for you. Related Episodes:S18E12: Are Long-Term Relationships For Everyone? w/ Ryan Van D...2024-05-2409 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsQuickie w/ Yue: What I Learned 1-Year Post-BreakupIt's been one-year from that fateful day when Yue learned her partner of 5 years had been unfaithful. Join us for a heartfelt quickie as Yue shares what she's learned in the last year about love, relationships, and persevering through it all – to a happier and more fulfilled place than she ever imagined she'd be. This is an emotional one, but also certainly uplifting for anyone else struggling with heartbreak. Because you're never alone in what you're going through.Related Episodes:The Next Chapter Post Breakup The Other WomanFol...2024-05-1711 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsQuickie w/ Julie: The #1 Quality To Look For While DatingWe're back for another “Quickie” where we’ll share a single idea, theory, or revelation – in 10 minutes or less – that you can take back to your own love life. This week, Julie shares the one quality that's pivotal to look for when you're dating – a foundational trait that you need in a partner in order to have a happy and healthy relationship. Enjoy!Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts...2024-04-2608 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsQuickie w/ Yue: Reset The Algorithm Of Your Love LifeWe're back for another “Quickie” where every other week, we’ll share a single idea, theory, or revelation – in 10 minutes or less – that you can take back to your own love life. This week, Yue is sharing how with all the changes with the eclipse, now is the perfect time to take control and move out all the noise of what has been clouding your path before. Enjoy!Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio...2024-04-1810 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsQuickie w/ Julie: The Best Is Yet To ComeWe're back for another “Quickie” where every other week, we’ll share a single idea, theory, or revelation – in 10 minutes or less – that you can take back to your own love life. This week, Julie is sharing a framework to look at past dates or relationships that didn't work out not as failures – but rather as building blocks that lay the foundation for your great relationship that's still yet to come. Enjoy!Join our Finding Your Person Program! https://www.findingyourperson.com/ Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen t...2024-04-0507 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships#brunchtalk: How Do You Know When To Trust Your Gut?When something feels off...is it just your anxiety talking or is this your gut telling you something is very wrong? Whether you're dating someone new or in a long-term relationship, we're discussing a framework to decipher these feelings, how to determine if you're in a "Yue situation" (as the listener so endearingly refers to it), and ways you can actually talk it out instead of jumping to conclusions.Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.comJoin our Finding Your Person Program! https://www.findingyourperson.com/ Follow...2024-03-2416 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsQuickie w/ Yue: Stop Waiting For That Text Back (Among Other Things That Are A Waste of Your Time)We're back for another “Quickie” where every other week, we’ll share a single idea, theory, or revelation – in 10 minutes or less – that you can take back to your own love life. This week, Yue will discuss a framework she uses to stop spending time on trivial things in dating – whether it's that text back or anything else that ends up being a waste of your time when dating.Join our Finding Your Person Program! https://www.findingyourperson.com/ Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podc...2024-03-2210 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsQuickie w/ Julie: The Single ScaleWe're trying something new! Welcome to the first installment of “Quickies” where every other week, we’ll share a single idea, theory, or revelation – in 10 minutes or less – that you can take back to your own love life. This week, Julie will dive into the Single Scale: what it is, where you land on it and how it may be impacting finding an actual partner who is the real deal.Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, S...2024-03-0807 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsS18E1: The Reason You Don't Need To Be Good At DatingWe're back with Season 18 here to answer an existential question we've had after doing this podcast now for 8 years: do you need to be good at dating? When we first started the pod, the answer was an obvious yes....until we dug in further. Join us as we discuss why dating culture isn't helping us get into relationships, how to start dating differently, and ways you can start forming more connections in your dating life TODAY!Join our Finding Your Person Program! https://www.findingyourperson.com/ Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our...2024-02-2842 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsS17E2: The Other WomanBuckle up friends, this one is juicy! Today we're joined with Kelly aka "the other woman" in Yue's infidelity story to hear her POV and how she was also severely impacted by these turn of events. We're discussing how to cope after finding out someone has a significant other, ways to regain trust again after feeling misled, and why talking to "the other woman" can help both parties heal if you're open to it.Follow Kelly @kellypantaleoniFollow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other...2023-09-061h 03Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: This is 40 - Yue interviews JulieIt's a celebration, y'all! We're talking about milestone bdays as Yue interviews Julie about turning the big 4-0 and the celebrations that followed (ummm still feeling that wine country trip). We discuss how love hits differently with each decade, why there's always mixed emotions about getting older, and ways to keep creating the love life you've always wanted in this next chapter.Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your...2023-07-2640 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: The Friendship EpisodeToday we're talking about one of the most important relationships of all: friendship! Julie and Yue discuss the importance of friendship, yet why it often gets deprioritized in the hierarchy of relationships. We discuss the ways we approach platonic relationships differently than romantic ones, why even our friendship needed some extra TLC, and how to keep every relationship in your life healthy and thriving. Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you...2023-07-1929 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBonus: Are We Dating The Same Person?So you’re dating someone new - would you want to know if someone else had intel about them before you went on a date? Or would you want to find out if anyone had dated (or was currently dating) your long-term partner? Julie and Yue debate the pros and cons of these ‘Are we dating the same person?’ groups and if they are helpful or harmful to your dating life. We discuss the concept of paying it forward to other daters, why it doesn’t always to work to skip to the end, and how to use these groups m...2023-07-1231 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: The Next Chapter Post Breakup - Julie interviews YueWhat happens when you discover your partner of almost 5 years has been unfaithful? In this episode, Julie interviews Yue about her recent breakup. We discuss how she's processing what happened, why she still views this relationship as a "success," and the reasons she's excited about the next chapter while still very much believing in love.Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.This episode is sponsored...2023-07-0547 min
Exit InterviewAre You Ready for Love? Season Finale Over the course of this season of Exit Interview, we’ve learned that most people have absolutely no clue what they’re doing wrong in dating - but with some simple fixes, love may be right around the corner. In this season finale, Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable check back in with several of our featured daters to see if they’ve heeded any of their advice. Did Kirstin find someone who wasn’t intimidated by her? Did Caroline get her second chance at love? Has Justin gone out on a date? Tune in today for some key takea...2023-05-1855 minExit InterviewIs Your Lifestyle a Dealbreaker? w/ CarolineWe all have that thing that we are positive is blocking our romantic paths.. For Caroline - she’s convinced that it’s being a single mom. Is that really what’s holding her back from her second chance at love - or is it something totally different? In this next installment of Exit Interview, Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable makeover Caroline’s life by doing the scariest thing ever: call up her old flames for feedback. Why did one ex decide Caroline wasn’t worth driving to see? How did one relationship become “accidentally” exclusive? What was the real r...2023-05-1149 minExit InterviewDo You Want Connection or Just Attention? w/ KyleKyle is a sex empowerment coach on the search for a primary partner who can fit in with his polyamorous lifestyle. You may have caught him on Amazon Prime’s The One that Got Away. Why can’t he be as open with his heart as his sexuality? Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable put Kyle in the hot seat this week for the ultimate romance review: calling up his old flames to find out what he’s doing wrong. And some of these women have shocking stories to share. Why did Sam leave their road trip only two da...2023-05-0450 minExit InterviewAre You a Dating Chameleon? w/ DeborahDeborah is a romantic, through and through. But…maybe, she’s so hungry for love that she molds herself to adapt to whomever she’s dating. You may remember Deborah from Christofer’s episode, and now she’s back for her very own Exit Interview. Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable are ready to help Deborah understand what’s getting in the way of love. Tune in to hear their conversations with several of Deborah’s past flames - all of whom help shed light on Deborah’s struggles with her own sexuality and identity. Why did Deborah sell her shoes to...2023-04-2749 minExit InterviewWhy Can’t You Get a Date? w/ JustinJustin is the full package - he’s handsome, he’s smart, he’s the life of the party. But now well into his 30s, he’s never had a boyfriend. Not only that, but he’s never been on a date. What is he doing wrong? Well, luckily, Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable are here to help. Julie and Yue call up Justin’s friends (because he doesn’t have any exes) to help figure out what he’s doing wrong. Is Justin going after the wrong sort of men? Is he keeping himself removed from the Austin queer...2023-04-2051 minExit InterviewAre You Too Intimidating to Date? w/ KristinKristin is so strong and independent that she worries she’s scaring off potential partners. In this instalment of Exit Interview, Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable are ready to help Kristin understand how she is actually presenting herself on dates. And who would know better - than her exes? Julie and Yue call up several of Kristin’s old flames to answer these burning questions: Are Kristin’s dates really not ready to be in a relationship, or just not in a relationship with her? Do her dates find her exhausting, overwhelming, or out of their league? Maybe...2023-04-1348 minExit InterviewWhere Do You Fall on the Intentionality Spectrum? Midseason check-inSo far, we’ve heard from five daters who are all struggling to find love. To help them, Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable have conducted the ultimate romance review: calling up past flames to gather feedback. In this special edition of Exit Interview, Julie and Yue check in on these daters to hear if they’ve taken any advice to heart. Was Chris able to finally find love? Did Anchie finally get over Mindy? What happened when Tia followed up with her old flames? There are some unexpected updates in store - tune in for all the surp...2023-04-0649 minExit InterviewAre You Stuck on The One Who Got Away? w/ AnchieAnchie is ready for a serious partner, and yet he keeps hitting dead ends on his hunt for a longterm relationship. But – maybe – could the key to solving his dating problems be hidden in the past? In this week’s episode, Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable unpack Anchie’s dating life by calling up those who know him best - his old flames. Why did his ex feel like he wanted to just kiss “a girl” and not specifically her? Why did Anchie upgrade himself to business class, leaving his date in economy? And, the biggest question - can Julie a...2023-03-3050 minExit InterviewAre You in a Relationship or a Situationship? w/ ChrisSituationships - love them, hate them - they’re all too common this day in age. But Christofer - well, she’s the Queen of Situationships, and the fairest of them all. In this week’s episode of Exit Interview, Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable sit down with Chris to figure out if Situationships are actually getting her the love she wants. And who better to ask – but Chris’s old flames? Get ready for a whole lot of heartbreak, as Julie and Yue call up women who actually fell very hard for Chris, only to be cast aside...2023-03-2348 min
Exit InterviewAre you TOO in control of your love life? w/ PylinAs a recovering Type A, Pylin has dating down to a science. She’s on the boyfriend track, full steam ahead. But - do people on board feel interchangeable? Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable conduct the ultimate romance review: calling up Pylin’s exes to get their feedback. Is she scaring people away with her questions? Can she even read the room? Is she treating her dates like her psychology clients? Press play to find out. Follow us: Instragram @ExitInterviewshow Twitter: @ExInterviewShow Episode transcript here —> shorturl.at...2023-03-1648 minExit InterviewCan You Reform A F-Boy? w/ AngelAngel has some strong F-boys tendencies - but still claims he’s looking for love. Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable are on the case. To investigate, they call several of Angel’s old flames to gather feedback, uncovering many surprises. Did Angel ghost a date after she didn’t kiss him? Why does he still have his ex’s clothes in his closet? Does he actually know how to treat a woman he likes? Hear all of this and more on this week’s episode. Follow us:Instragram @ExitInterviewshow Twitter: @ExIn...2023-03-0949 minExit InterviewDoes Playing It Cool Ruin Your Dating Life? w/ TiaTia is suffering from a very serious case of Cool Girl Syndrome. Dating experts Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable are here to help Tia recover. How? By talking to the people who know her best – her exes. In this first instalment of Exit Interview, Julie and Yue call three of Tia’s exes to gather feedback. Did she sabotage a perfectly good relationship? Why didn’t her old flame know they were actually on a date? Could someone still secretly have feelings for her? Tune in to hear if Tia can heal from her CGS and learn how to...2023-03-0947 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: Breaking up with Bad Dating Habits - Julie interviews YueFrom being the "cool girl" to avoiding difficult conversations to blowing up when trying to DTR, we're unpacking more bad dating habits that we both had – that you probably do too. But this week, Julie is interviewing Yue about her dating history and how these behaviors got in her way – even today. We're discussing how dating games ended up being counterproductive, why bad dating behavior is often a self-protection mechanism, and how to continue to grow at any stage of a relationship.Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch...2023-01-251h 12Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: Breaking up with Bad Dating Habits - Yue interviews JulieFrom staying in situationships to being rigid with timelines, we all have some bad dating behaviors that have gotten in our way. On this week's bonus episode, Yue is interviewing Julie about her past patterns and how they still sneak in even while in a relationship. We dive into it all: from how these behaviors were learned, how they manifest in dating, and how she's still trying to unlearn them today. Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard2023-01-181h 03
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: Answering your Dating Questions! w/ Katie Sturino of Boob Sweat & MegababeWe're continuing the off season for just a few more weeks! Join us as we talk about Yue's layoff and the parallels of feeling disposable in both work and dating. We're also reairing the episode we did on Katie Sturino's podcast 'Boob Sweat' answering all your dating q's. We discuss dating app burnout, the art of meeting people IRL, and how to get back out there after a long-term relationship.Follow Katie @katiesturnio and check out her podcast 'Boob Sweat', book body talk and beauty line Megababe. Dateable listeners only! Get15% off, use the code BOOBSWEAT15 at...2022-07-271h 04
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: Avoiding West Elm Calebs, Tinder Swindlers, and Navigating Modern Dating w/ Sydney Lotuaco of Something to ShareIt's the offseason baby! Join us as we talk about Julie's bday celebration that Yue was in town for plus the big debate we got into re: sleeping with a partner (not in the way you think). We're also reairing the episode we did on Sydney Lotuaco's podcast 'Something to share' all about how to navigate modern dating in today's world. We discuss avoiding dating scenarios like the extremes of West Elm Caleb and the Tinder Swindler, the shifts in dating over the past 6 years, and how to get inspired to continue your dateable jouney to enjoy dating again!2022-07-201h 13
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: Yue Interviews JulieFrom getting over an ex to starting a new relationship, we're turning the tables as Yue interview Julie this time around. We're unpacking it all: why dating is so much harder than making friends, knowing when it's time to end a relationship that isn't working, staying friends with an ex (or cutting the cord), starting the podcast, and finding love – on the apps – in the time of Corona. Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboardThank you to...2022-01-261h 04
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: Julie Interviews YueWe're doing something fun! Julie's interviewing Yue to hear how's she's navigated her love life from the time she was dating to now being 3 years into a committed relationship. We talk about it all: turning 40, her love/hate relationship with dating coaching, dating as Asian American woman, dealing with the societal pressure to get married, co-habitating between 2 cities, and playing the long game by dating her partner after knowing him for 7 years before.Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast...2022-01-1956 min
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: Will We Ever Meet IRL Again? w/ the California GroundbreakersWe thought it would be the roaring 20s but we're chatting about why everyone is experiencing FODA as we reair Julie's episode w/ Vanessa Richardson from California Groundbreakers & Paul Eastwick, professor of UC Davis's attraction lab. We discuss why people are feeling burnout from online dating, how pandemic relationships have different trajectories, and how to get out there and mix and mingle again (safely of course).Learn more about the California Ground Breakers https://www.californiagroundbreakers.org/ and listen to their podcast series 'This Changes Everything on all podcast playersFollow us @dateablepodcast. Check out...2021-08-111h 00
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: Is it a Dick Pic if it's not your Dick? w/ Kane Holloway & Greg Behrendt of 'Don't Take Bullshit from Fuckers'Hang tight...this is a BIG one. We're talking about everything from dick pics to if size matters and re-playing Julie's interview with comedians Kane Holloway & Greg Behrendt from DTBFF. We discuss tactics that work (or don't work) for taking the elusive pic, why your worst self is never your best self, and how it's never OK to send pics of your bedroom activities to your sister. Listen to 'Don't Take Bullshit from Fuckers' and follow DTBFF, Greg, Kane, and Pat on Instagram @dtbffpodcast, @itsgreggers, @kaneholloway, and @dtbffproducerpat or your other favorite podcast playersFollow us...2021-07-211h 04
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: DTR to Diamond Rings w/Greg Behrendt & Kane Holloway of 'Don't Take Bullshit from Fuckers'Don't take bullshit from fuckers...especially when it comes to commitment and defining the relationship. We're diving into when (and how) to have the big DTR talk and re-playing Yue's interview with comedians Kane Holloway & Greg Behrendt from DTBFF. We discuss girls making the first move, why one may turn away love for selfish reasons, and how an engagement ring turned into an epic fail.Listen to 'Don't Take Bullshit from Fuckers' and follow DTBFF, Greg, Kane, and Pat on Instagram @dtbffpodcast, @itsgreggers, @kaneholloway, and @dtbffproducerpat or your other favorite podcast playersFollow us @dateablepodcast. Ch...2021-07-141h 12
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsS12E5: Is it the Right Person or the Right Time?You all know that guy that's fiercely independent, has a revolving door of casual flings, and whose family and friends have determined will never settle down. Well, we're talking to Yue's friend Jesse who was just like this...until he wasn't. Join us as we hear from him and his now-wife Cassie about how they went from being in a totally uncommitted relationship to being married. We discuss what happens when that light goes off that you want something more substantial, the risks that you're willing to take for the right person, and how to be as full of...2021-03-101h 08
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: What you know bout loveFrom Kamala & Doug's #relationshipgoals to Yue turning 40, there's so much to unpack as we also dive into the top 6 episodes that changed the way we view love and relationships. We'll discuss having trust in your timing, the balance of knowing yourself vs. relating to others, and how this all relates to relationships during the pandemic.Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboardThank you to our partners for this episode:2021-01-2746 min
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsS11E4: The Boyfriend ManualNope, this isn't like an instruction manual from IKEA but we're chatting with Vasanth about all the little things that help you become a better partner. We discuss different types of small gestures that have a huge ROI, how to adjust your moves based on your partner's love language, and why women can (and should) also be doing these little things for their partner.Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchandise.Thank you to our partners for this episode:...2020-09-091h 11
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsS11E3: 51 First DatesWhen nothing seems to be going right in your dating life, the only logical step is to go on 51 first dates and document it all through a podcast, right? We're chatting with Kimmy & Liza about how this experiment helped uncover and break their bad dating patterns for good. We discuss why CGS (cool girl syndrome) is the demise of dating, how to break free of fuckboys, and why it's so important to ask what you want for in relationships. Follow Kimmy & Liza @51firstdatespod. Listen to 51 First Dates on all podcast platforms. Follow us @dateablepodcast. C...2020-09-021h 30
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsS11E2: Love in the Time of TikTokAnd it goes like...download TikTok, make a video that goes viral, meet a cute girl, fly across the country, and define the relationship on your road trip back home. Is this a movie or love in 2020? We're chatting with Josiah & Natalie about their turbo relationship that started virtually and has resulted in them being together as a full-fledged couple. We discuss how virtual dates can be romantic, why right now is the best time to take a risk when it comes to relationships, and how to open yourself up to possibilities of finding love in unexpected places. 2020-08-261h 12
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsS11 E1: Trust in your timingAre you where you thought you'd be at 30? 40? 50? Especially when it comes to finding love, we're diving in with Christina Bradley, the author of 'Which way to Happiness?', to discuss why there's so much pressure to finding 'The One' by a certain age. We discuss why certain milestone years are such triggers, how you can start living on your own timelines, and how to create your own happiness no matter where you are in life.Check out Christina's book 'Which way to Happiness?' (formerly 30): https://amzn.to/3aFuFMV2020-08-191h 19
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: How to Rethink Relationships Post-Quarantine w/ Liza & Kimmy from 51 First DatesFrom traveling (virtually) via Hinge to being #teamchrishell, we're wrapping up the dating app experiment and chatting with Kimmy & Liza on 51 First Dates about the shift in dating mindset that might occur after 2020., We'll discuss taking those socially distanced dates up a notch, the dangers of false intimacy, and how COVID has ruined f*ckboys hopefully forever. Also, 1 more week until we're back with Season 11!!Follow Kimmy & Liza @51firstdatespod. Listen to 51 First Dates on all podcast platforms. Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchandise.2020-08-121h 19
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: The Museum of Modern Dating w/ Ken Page of Deeper DatingWould glory holes be in the museum of modern dating? Maybe in COVID-19 times! First, we'll run down the results of Julie's around the world dating app experiment and then we'll chat with Ken Page of Deeper Dating about the landscape of today’s dating world. We'll discuss some of our most moving dating stories, our best advice, and the most essential challenges facing daters todayFollow Ken at @deeperdating and check out deeperdating.com along with Ken's podcast Deeper Dating on Apple Podcasts or your other favorite podcast playersFo...2020-08-051h 28
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: Redefining how we Date & Communicate w/Kimmy Seltzer from Charisma QuotientSo if we're all dating virtually, we can be anywhere, right? We'll kick off with a dating app experiment comparing different cities and then we'll chat with Kimmy Seltzer of the Charisma Quotient about some of the common issues that everyone's experiencing in this new dating world. We'll discuss traditional vs. modern gender roles, navigating virtual dating , and what your messages really mean between the lines.Follow Kimmy at @kimmyseltzer and listen to the Charisma Quotient on Apple Podcasts or your other favorite podcast playersFollow us @dateablepodcast. Check...2020-07-291h 03
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: Love & Dating in the Time of COVID w/ Minji Chang from FirstofAllSo if you just do doggy style in a mask, you're safe from COVID, right? Umm. Umm. nope. We're talking this week about sex during the pandemic and then with Minji Chang on the FirstofAll Pod about all the nitty-gritty of sex & dating during this time. We discuss our own COVID experiences & perspectives on dating apps, virtual dates, reconnecting with exes, coping with current relationships & projections of the TBD future of dating culture. Follow Minji @minjeezy and @firstofallpod. Listen to First of All Podcast on all podcast platforms. Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our w...2020-07-221h 43
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: The best & worst dating advice w/ Kinda DatingLove conquers all. Wait until he texts you first. Don't have sex for 90 days. There’s so much love advice out there, yet so much is so so bad. We teamed with Natasha Chandel from Kinda Dating to give you our rundown on the best and worst dating advice we've heard along the way. So strap in, decide what tips you'll take and which you'll toss.Check out Natasha at @natashachandel and Kinda Dating on all podcast platforms and @kindadatingFollow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more con...2020-07-151h 25
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: 6 Ways COVID-19 will forever change datingTo say dating has changed in 2020 is the understatement of the year! We'll share our top 6 trends with everything from how singles and couples are navigating this time to why f*ckboys are o-v-e-r. We'll discuss how to make the most of your dating life whether it's on a socially distanced date or if you're rekindling an old flame. So get your masks on, stay 6 feet away, and see how COVID-19 could actually be the best thing for your love life (if you let it be).Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for m...2020-07-0859 min
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 10 Episode 21: An Open Letter to S****y HusbandsWhat if we told you the silent killer of marriage was something so seemingly small, so avoidable? Join us as we chat with Matthew Fray about how a “good guy” like him ended up being a sh****y husband and how others can avoid these missteps. We discuss why neglecting your partner's thoughts and feelings is the demise of a relationship, how to recognize signs of this behavior even in early dating, and the importance of being aware of this now even if you're nowhere close to marriage.Check out Matt's blog: https://mustbethistalltoride.com...2020-07-011h 25
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 10 Episode 20: I Date Me FirstWhat happens when you break up with your long-term, live-in boyfriend right before COVID-19? You use this time...and you use it wisely. Join us as we chat with Minji about how she used quarantine to learn how to be alone – correction, happy alone. We discuss the importance of taking breaks, doing the necessary self-work, and why self-love is so important to ultimately find the love you want.Check out Minji @minjeezy and listen to her podcast, First of All:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/first-of-all/id1260925014F...2020-06-241h 36
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 10 Episode 19: What's your [personality] type?Whether you're an ISFJ, ENFP, INTP, or whatever it may be, we're here with Frank James to share how your personality type impacts the way you date. We discuss the blind spots that each type has while dating, how we can better understand each other to resolve conflicts/ misunderstandings in relationships, and if any two types are most compatible (or incompatible). Check out Frank'sYoutube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxc0c4cOfFmSUnzX9uY7JwwFollow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, live show dates, and m...2020-06-171h 02
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 10 Episode 18: The Future of Sex Toys w/ Lora DiCarloOmg. Omg. Ohhhh my god. Join us as we chat with Lora DiCarlo about the mind-blowing orgasm that inspired her to revolutionize the sex toy industry. We discuss how to get to the elusive squirting orgasm, the archaic history of vibrators, and how sex tech is continuing to evolve to help women own our pleasure.Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchandise.Check out Lora Dicarlo at https://loradicarlo.com/Thank you to our partner for...2020-06-101h 08
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 10 Episode 17: Racism in DatingWith the death of George Floyd and the nation-wide protests for black lives matter this week, it's time we really pay attention to how racism plays into everyday life – including dating. We compiled a few of our past episodes about the struggles of dating as black men and women in modern times. Really listen as we talk with Yelitsa, Sofaya, and Chris about how they navigate racist comments on dating apps, the extra hardships that come with dating as a person of color, and how best to openly discuss sexual racism to help put an end to this behavior.2020-06-031h 10
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 10 Episode 16: Relationship. Are you sure you want one?Of course you want a relationship...but do you..do you? We unpack if we really need relationships with Simone and Brendon, who created their own great relationship, only to un-create it 8-years later. We discuss why relationships are a choice, how to live a full-life whether you're in a relationship or not, and what's really important if you do choose to be with someone.Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchandise.Thank you to our partner for this episode:2020-05-271h 10
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 10 Episode 15: He said YES!Why are we still waiting for the man to propose in 2020? Join us as we chat with Lauren about how she proposed to her now fiancé and took control of her love life. We discuss decoupling what traditions matter to you, how to continue to break down gender barriers, and the future of weddings with COVID-19Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchandise.Thank you to our partner for this episode:BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month of online t...2020-05-201h 07
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 10 Episode 14: The Art of Virtual SexFrom sex parties to steamy video chats, it's getting hot in here this quarantine! Listen as we chat with Mischa Byruck about the art of phone sex and what goes down at a virtual sex party. We discuss honing in on your sensual voice, why virtual methods can be so erotic, and how to ease into virtual sex.Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchandise.Check out Mischa Byruck at https://www.evolve.men/Thank you...2020-05-131h 06
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 10 Episode 13: ZumpingYou guessed it: there’s a new quarantine dating term. Listen in as we talk to Julia, who put zumping on the map through her viral tweet after being dumped via zoom. We discuss how zumping is way better than being ghosted, if this trend could continue post-quarantine, and why the term sounds so negative despite being a respectful option right now.Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchandise.Thank you to our partner for this episode:BetterHelp: Get 10% off...2020-05-0659 min
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 10 Episode 12: Love is not enough w/ Mark MansonLove is all you need...or is it? This week we talk to best-selling author and blogger Mark Manson about why love is not enough to make relationships work. We discuss the reasons we settle for less than situations, why it's time to ditch the fantasy, and how we can take more ownership over our love lives. Warning: F-bombs are gonna be dropped!Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchandise.Follow Mark @markmanson and get his new Audible original 'Love is...2020-04-291h 03
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 10 Episode 11: U up? Let's DFH w/ Jordana AbrahamDespite all that’s been going on, dating app usage continues to soar...and we got to chat with Jordana Abraham, the founder of Betches and the dating app Ship, about the future of online dating. We discuss how dating apps can start to mimic IRL, how DFH is the new DTF, and ideas about the next big dating tech craze.Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchandise.Thank you to our partners for this episode:Empower: Download this mo...2020-04-2255 min
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 10 Episode 10: Love is Blind Part 2So is love blind? Find out which one of the ladies Ryan asked on a date and how their date went down amidst COVID-19. We discuss their perspectives of each other once looks are revealed, if their virtual impressions matched reality, and if a connection was formed throughout this experiment.Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchandise.Thank you to our partners for this episode:Empower: Download this mobile banking app and get $5 at empower.me/dateable with the...2020-04-151h 17
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 10 Episode 9: Love is Blind Part 1We were so obsessed with Love is Blind that we recreated our own rendition! Follow along as we hear the impressions Ryan has of Rachel, Lacy & Taylor and their feelings towards him after communicating through their own version of the pods. We’ll discuss assumptions made sight unseen, how active listening changes everything, and if love can really be blind.Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchandise.Thank you to our partners for this episode:Empower: Download this mobile ba...2020-04-0854 min
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 10 Episode 8: Quarantined from Fuckboys w/ Shallon LesterIt’s a pandemic...but luckily we got Shallon Lester to tell it like it is about how to not murder your partner during quarantine and how to use this time to self-isolate from fuckboys. We discuss the difference between fuckboys and clueless men, changing your dating patterns to find someone that treats you right, and using this time to focus on the #1 person in your life – you.Check out Shallon's Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/shallonlester and her podcast 'Girl on Top': https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/girl-on-top-shallonxo/id1463991214Fol...2020-04-011h 06
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 10 Episode 7: Six Feet Apart: Dating on LockdownFrom video dates to virtual sex parties, we're finding out how daters are staying connected without leaving their home during this Coronavirus pandemic. We discuss how to form deeper connections during this time, ideas to bring video dates to the next level, and the changes COVID-19 is likely to bring to our dating lives even after this passes. Buckle up, because this is one hell of a ride!Thank you to our partners for this episode:Empower: Download this mobile banking app and get $5 at empower.me/dateable with the code DATEABLE2020-03-251h 34
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 10 Episode 6: Coming out as Bisexual in your MarriageFrom Coronavirus to coming out in your marriage – there’s no predicting what can happen! We talk to Chris about discovering his sexuality later in life and what it meant for him and his wife. We discuss adapting to unforeseen situations, navigating change, and staying true to yourself through it all.Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchandise.Thank you to our partners for this episode:Empower: Download this mobile banking app and get $5 at empower.me/dateable with the...2020-03-1845 min
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 10 Episode 5: Millennial vs. Gen Z datingWe got a Gen Z in the house! Listen as we talk to Zoe about what it's like to date as someone who’s been using digital technology their entire life. We discuss the traditional tendencies of this generation, the different patterns with dating apps, and the challenges that don’t seem to ever go away.Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchandise.Thank you to our partners for this episode:Flutter: Download this new dating app that only work...2020-03-111h 04
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 10 Episode 4: Too Old to DateTune in as we talk to Brad about the time pressure of dating as you get older – even for men. We discuss the challenges of dating in your 30’s when everyone else is settling down, how expectations change as you age, and balancing having a life plan vs. seeing how it all plays out. Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchandise.Thank you to our partners for this episode:Flutter: Download this new dating app that only works on Sunday...2020-03-0457 min
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 10 Episode 3: PHD in MansplainingJoin us as we talk to Mindy about her one-sided date where it felt like the whole time she was getting mansplained. We discuss how to respond to dates that feel disrespectful, discerning between innocent misunderstandings, and how to be aware if you’re doing this type of behavior yourself.Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchandise.Thank you to our partners for this episode:Flutter: Download this new dating app that only works on Sundays with matches and me...2020-02-2658 min
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 10 Episode 2: Is Communication ruining your sex life?Listen as we talk with Tommy Danger Kim about his unexpected divorce – and how it's impacting his dating life 4 years later. We discuss why communicating in relationships is so damn hard, how to assess a life partner, and learning from your past while not letting it dictate your future.Check out Tommy's podcast The Tommy Danger ExperimentFollow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchandise.Thank you to our partners for this episode:SunBasket: Get $35 off your order at...2020-02-191h 06
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 10 Episode 1: Taking Sexy BackJoin us as we talk with Dr. Alexandra Solomon about how to own your sexuality and create the relationship you want. We discuss making sex a less shameful topic, how to navigate desire differences with a partner, and why it’s essential to explore your sexual self– especially on your own.Follow Dr. Alexandra Solomon on Instagram @dr.alexandra.solomon. Check out her book on AmazonFollow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchandise.Thank you to our partners for this...2020-02-121h 07
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: Dateable Unplugged LIVE From SFTune in for a sneak peek into our inaugural live show in SF. We flipped the script and had Logan Ury interview us for a change! We discuss why we started Dateable, how this podcast changed the way we date, and what to do when there are controversial guests.WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/Our Sponsors:* Mint Mobile: Get 3 months unlimited premium wireless service for $15/ a month: https://mintmobile.com/DATEABLE* Mint Mobile: Get 3-months of Unlimited premium wireless service for 15 bucks...2020-01-2949 min
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: Confessions Of A Bartender LIVE from Mad River in NYCTune in as we chat with Ryan live at his bar, Mad River, in the Upper East Side of New York City. We discuss what bartenders observe on your dates, ideas for cheap dates outside of a bar, and why a good hookup can be just what the bartender ordered.WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/Our Sponsors:* Mint Mobile: Get 3 months unlimited premium wireless service for $15/ a month: https://mintmobile.com/DATEABLE* Mint Mobile: Get 3-months of Unlimited premium wireless service for 15...2020-01-2234 min
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 9 Episode 11: First Date In 12 YearsTune in as Jeff tells us about his first date in 12 years with our co-host and producer Julie. We discuss being on dating apps at different stages of life, how the past plays into how you approach dating, and why pursuing a friendship first may not be the worst idea.WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/Our Sponsors:* Mint Mobile: Get 3 months unlimited premium wireless service for $15/ a month: https://mintmobile.com/DATEABLE* Mint Mobile: Get 3-months of Unlimited premium wireless service for 15...2019-10-231h 31
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: Everything you need to know about dating on 'The Wise Woman Podcast' with Erin Rachel DoppeltListen as Yue & Julie are interviewed on 'The Wise Woman Podcast' by Erin Rachel Doppelt and we talk about why we started the podcast, the biggest things we've learned along the way, the best advice we've received, and how to enjoy the journey of dating.WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/Our Sponsors:* Mint Mobile: Get 3 months unlimited premium wireless service for $15/ a month: https://mintmobile.com/DATEABLE* Mint Mobile: Get 3-months of Unlimited premium wireless service for 15 bucks a month. Upfront payment...2019-07-1032 min
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 8 Episode 4: 8-year Friends with BenefitsJulie and Andrew tell us about their 8-year journey from friends with benefits to a fully committed relationship. We discuss the evolutions that happen over time, navigating the ups and downs, and how a change of perception of the “right” person may reveal someone who’s been there all along.WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/Our Sponsors:* Mint Mobile: Get 3 months unlimited premium wireless service for $15/ a month: https://mintmobile.com/DATEABLE* Mint Mobile: Get 3-months of Unlimited premium wireless service for 15 bucks...2019-03-1359 min
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 4 Episode 1: Dating in the DarkJulie and Danny talk about their experience ‘dating in the dark’ at matchmaker OKSasha’s event. We discuss how removing physical attraction from the equation - the antithesis of online dating- gives a new perspective.WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/Our Sponsors:* Mint Mobile: Get 3 months unlimited premium wireless service for $15/ a month: https://mintmobile.com/DATEABLE* Mint Mobile: Get 3-months of Unlimited premium wireless service for 15 bucks a month. Upfront payment of $45 required (equivalent to $15/mo.). Limited time new custom...2017-02-1533 min
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 3 Episode 3: Dating on a WhimYue tells us about her own first date using the app Whim. Eve Peters, the founder and CEO, interviews Yue and Andrew separately to hear their impressions of one another and how they cut through the “date talk” to make a true connection.WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/Our Sponsors:* Mint Mobile: Get 3 months unlimited premium wireless service for $15/ a month: https://mintmobile.com/DATEABLE* Mint Mobile: Get 3-months of Unlimited premium wireless service for 15 bucks a month. Upfront payment of $45 required (equi...2016-09-1347 min
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 2 Episode 4: Are we asking too much of Tinder?Sam talks about a Tinder date gone wrong after a stand up and group date to his date’s DJ show. We talk about expectations, vetting, and commitment to meet someone via a dating app. Also Yue spills about her Tinder test from the Season 1 finale.WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/Our Sponsors:* Mint Mobile: Get 3 months unlimited premium wireless service for $15/ a month: https://mintmobile.com/DATEABLE* Mint Mobile: Get 3-months of Unlimited premium wireless service for 15 bucks a month. Upfront pa...2016-05-1119 min
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 2 Episode 1: The Blind DateYue goes on a blind date riding a Scoot Quad around the city. Her date, Matt, comes on air and we hear both of their impressions of the date. When have you ever gotten real feedback from a date? Spoiler alert: minds are blown.WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/Our Sponsors:* Mint Mobile: Get 3 months unlimited premium wireless service for $15/ a month: https://mintmobile.com/DATEABLE* Mint Mobile: Get 3-months of Unlimited premium wireless service for 15 bucks a month. Upfront payment of $45...2016-04-2038 min
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 1 Episode 7: Don't Molly and DateOne of our hosts, Yue, spills about her dating experience that moved a little too fast. We get into conversations about how to handle when people ghost and are non-committal to plans.WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/Our Sponsors:* Mint Mobile: Get 3 months unlimited premium wireless service for $15/ a month: https://mintmobile.com/DATEABLE* Mint Mobile: Get 3-months of Unlimited premium wireless service for 15 bucks a month. Upfront payment of $45 required (equivalent to $15/mo.). Limited time new customer offer for first 3 months...2016-02-1423 min