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Climbing Henge PodcastDomesticating Zod! (She Will Try to Control You)On this episode of the podcast we explore the phenomena whereby women attempt to control and domesticate their male partner. We first explore the reason why this happens. We then talk about the techniques that women use to control men. Then finally, we talk about the methods you can use to reduce her attempts to control you. You
2022-12-1336 minClimbing Henge PodcastThe Double Bind - Impossible To Win Situations (AEP^2)In this episode of the podcast we explore the “double bind,” or impossibly to win situations. First, we describe and define what the double bind is and how it works. Next we describe the profile of people that tend to do this and why they do it. And finally, we describe how you can use the AEP^2 (Accept -Empathy - Pivot - Proactive) method to deal with this situation successfully.
2022-12-0623 minClimbing Henge PodcastCreating the Monster! (Psychological Entitlement)On this episode of the podcast we are going to describe and review the concept of psychological entitlement. First, we define psychological entitlement so we can understand it. Second, we talk about how entitlement evolves as a defensive mechanism. And finally, we describe a three step method you can use to move your partner from entitled to healthy and constructive.
2022-11-2829 minClimbing Henge PodcastNo Empathy, No Remorse - Amgydala Hijack!On this episode of the we explore the phenomena of amygdala hijack. Amygdala hijack os entered into when a person experiences some form of threat to their self autonomy. The threat could be non acceptance by another of their emotional state, or a threat to their emotional well being. A state of amygdala hikack then suppresses the persons congnition, memory and other emotions.
2022-11-1618 minClimbing Henge PodcastForce Powers: AEP (Acceptance - Empathy - Pivot)On this episode of the podcast we introduce the Force Powers AEP method. In this case AEP stands for Acceptance - Empathy - Pivot. On the podcast we first give a brief background on the power of Acceptance and Empathy and how they activate “reward” in the brain. Second, we articulate the AEP method. And finally, we go through several examples to illustrate how the method is used.
2022-11-1416 minClimbing Henge PodcastForce Powers: Hacking the Unconscious MindOn this episode of the podcast we explore the nature of the unconscious mind. First, we explore and describe the nature of the unconscious mind and how it drives human behavior, motivations and goals. Then we describe 9 Force Powers that affect the unconscious mind in order to motivate another person to “move” towards you and be more attracted, trusting and safe.
2022-07-2439 minClimbing Henge PodcastForce Powers: Hacking the Human Body - ExpectationsOn this episode of the podcast we discuss and describe the concept of expectations. Basically, when someone rejects you they will expect your behavior to be negative. We can hack this mind / body process by exceeding their expectations. If we do exceed their expectations, they experience a feeling of being “rewarded” as dopamine is secreted into their body. On this podcast we describe a three step process by which you can hack another persons expectations whereby you become the reward.
2022-07-0728 minClimbing Henge PodcastThe Flow of Empathy (Feminine) Into Mission (Masculine)On this episode of the podcast we provide a model whereby you flow from empathy into mission seamlessly. But first, we go back 70,000 years to describe male and female mating behaviors. From those behaviors we can see how modern day mating behaviors have evolved. Knowing how these behaviors have become innate allows us to understand and evolve to a better place. We can do this by using the empathy (first) into mission model of the flowing of the masculine and feminine.
2022-06-2628 minClimbing Henge PodcastThe Flow of the Masculine and FeminineFamous psycho analyst Carl Jung speaks of the Anima and Animus, or the masculine and feminine energies which exist inside all. On this podcast we first work to understand this concept. And then we discuss how behaviors and hormones change and enhance each other. Finally, we discuss methods by which you can harmonize these energies within you to achieve a balance.
2022-05-2229 minClimbing Henge PodcastSecrets of Female Sexual Desire and LovemakingOn this episode of the podcast we explore the secrets of female sexual desire and lovemaking. First, we look at the research that tells us that female sexual desire declines more rapidly for females than men in marriage. We then review the research on female sexual fantasies to understand what they truly desire. Next, we explore the female’s need for their partners to truly love and appreciate their bodies. And finally, we put it all together so that you can use and exploit this information and unleash your partners desires.
2021-11-1119 minClimbing Henge Podcast“She’s Sabotaging!” (Becoming the Fox Pt.2)Women will sabotage relationships due to a number of reasons. Relationship self sabotage is fundamentally about protecting the self from harm. In this episode of the podcast we first explain what relationship sabotage is and give examples. We then give first hand accounts from women with regards to why they sabotage. We then describe how you work to negate this sabotage by becoming the fox.
2021-10-2828 minClimbing Henge PodcastThe Perfect DateOn this episode of the podcast we explore the idea of the “perfect date.”
First, we explore the research on dates to better understand how females evaluate dates and what they are looking for in terms of cues, interest / attraction levels and conversation. The w e go through the specific actions that you want to execute in order for your date to feel desired, safe, special and that she’s having fun.
2021-10-1427 minClimbing Henge PodcastEmpathyOn this episode of the podcast we explore and define empathy. First, we give some background research on empathy to understand what it is and how it works. We then go through different models to explain how to use it. And we finish off with exercises you can do to improve your empathy.
2021-10-0422 minClimbing Henge PodcastYou Must Become the (Dead) Red FoxThe red fox is cunning and full of deception and guile. The fox is able to capture a carrion as a meal by “playing” dead. You too must learn the skills and the are of playing “dead” in order to reunite with the woman you love after a severe breakup. On this episode of the podcast we describe the three core reasons you can’t get your partner back using “direct” actions. And then we describe what exactly you need to do in order to play “dead” and enact your plans. You must become the fox. The dead fox.
2021-09-2331 minClimbing Henge Podcast“Navigating Her Map!” (She Won’t Guide You)No woman is simply going to give you a map to her heart. You can forget about that ever happening. Instead, you must understand what the map to her heart looks like and learn to successfully navigate the storms and waves. In this episode of the podcast we describe 6 key things that you need to navigate on the map in order to have a loving and intimate Union.
2021-09-1424 minClimbing Henge Podcast“Captain of the Ship!”On this episode of the podcast we explore the idea that the partner in a relationship must portray and act in a manner that personifies the captain of the ship. We describe five dimension in which the masculine partner acts as the captain of the ship. First and foremost, the captain’s duty is the safety of the crew and passengers (your partner, wife, girlfriend, etc). If you lose sight of this when adversity and rejection hit, it’s highly likely your female partner will lose trust and love for you.
2021-09-0216 minClimbing Henge PodcastWaves and Storms (Hormone Cycles of the Feminine Explained)We talk about the waves and storms of the feminine. David Deida talks about the “layers of wilderness” of the female. But what exactly drives these storms? On this episode of the podcast we describe and articulate how female hormone levels go up and down in cycles. The first cycle is the monthly menstrual cycle. Later in life it’s the menopausal cycle. During these cycles estrogen, testosterone and progesterone swing up and down. These changes affect moods, emotions and behavior. Knowing these cycles allows us to understand and offer a “safe harbor” for our partners.
2021-08-1912 minClimbing Henge Podcast“She’s Out Of Control!” (Escaping Behavior / Science of Mania)On this episode of the podcast we explore the situation of when a relationship ends and your partner is “out of control” and behaving in manic ways. We often call this “escaping” and “rebounding.” It turns out that specific types of stress actually trigger bouts of hypomania and mania. On this podcast we first define hypomania / mania. We then describe the types of stress that trigger mania. We discuss how mania works. And then we walk through case studies and illustrate how to handle this.
2021-07-2723 minClimbing Henge Podcast“All We Do Is Argue!” (4 Step Conflict Resolution)Hostility and arguments often start when one person feels slighted / hurt or disrespected. And that hostility is usually returned by the recipient -‘d an argument ensues. In this episode of the podcast we work through a 4 Step Conflict Resolution model that allows us to de-escalate the situation and move onto problem solving.
2021-07-2219 minClimbing Henge Podcast“You’re Not Hearing Me!” (Magic of Acceptance)On this episode of the podcast we explore the ideas of “being heard” and acceptance. We first define “acceptance” and then we hi-light the research as to why it’s so important for a woman to feel heard and accepted. We then describe how to make your partner feel heard and accepted using both non-verbal and verbal methods. Finally, we walk through four scenarios and demonstrate how to be fully accepting in how your partner feels.
2021-07-1321 minClimbing Henge Podcast“She Won’t Just Let You Walk up the Mountain“On this episode of the podcast we focus why your partner / ex won’t simply let you just walk up the mountain to become a free and loving person. First we describe the three reasons why she won’t let you just walk up the mountain. Then we describe how to handle her challenges and provocations as you climb the mountain to become a superior free and loving man or woman.
2021-07-0117 minClimbing Henge Podcast“Written in Stone” (Power of Your Words / Journaling)Feeling a “loss of control” in your life can be debilitating and the cause of adverse health events. Divorce, separation, break up and job loss are all likely to a feeling of “loss of control.” On this episode of the podcast we first explain the negative mental and body health impact of perceived loss of control. We then explain how the power of your written words allows you to gain perceived control. Finally, we describe a method of reflective journaling you can use to take back control.
2021-06-2014 minClimbing Henge PodcastSafe, Subtle and Suggestive (Science of Flirting)In this episode of the podcast we first define flirting and discuss why the ambiguity and vagueness of flirting is especially important to woman. Second, we discuss female body language that signals she’s interested in you. Third, we describe the male body langue that females are attracted to. And finally we discuss the nature of “touch” and how it can be used in the flirting process.
2021-06-0919 minClimbing Henge PodcastOnly You and the Fish Exist (No Distractions)“You have to make your reality whereby only you and the fish exist.” What are we talking about here? What we want to do is eliminate unnecessary distractions that cause us to self sabotage and experience failure. On this podcast we first describe three types of irrelevant distractions that cause failure. Then we describe four methods you can use to eliminate distractions and increase your focus.
2021-05-2023 minClimbing Henge PodcastTERRAFORMING! Radiating Positive Energy (Emotional Contagions)On this episode of the podcast we describe that art of Terraforming! Radiating positive energy in your environment and positively impacting those around you. First we describe what terraforming is, then we describe the process by which emotions act as a contagion influencing the moods and the emotions of everyone we encounter. You can radiate positive energy everyday and essentially act as a magnet and draw people to you.
2021-05-0522 minClimbing Henge Podcast“She Rejected Me!” (Science of Rejection)On this episode we explore and describe the science of rejection. First we describe how being rejected impacts the body from a physiological and neurological perspective. Then we walk through Three steps you can undertake to lessen the blow of rejection and use it as positive event.
2021-04-2321 minClimbing Henge Podcast“We’re Just Friends!” (Her Cognitive Dissonance)In this episode of the podcast we explore and define the psychological phenomena known as “cognitive dissonance.” First, we define cognitive dissonance from a psychological perspective. Then we describe and give examples of how it surfaces in relationships and breakups. Third, we describe and articulate the strategies you use when your partner / ex is behaving in ways that align with cognitive dissonance.
2021-04-0923 minClimbing Henge Podcast“You’re Not Fighting For Me!” (Provocative Statements)Provocative language can be hurtful, upsetting and disorientating. If you’re not prepared your responses to provocative language will likely worsen an already bad situation. In this podcast we walk through some of the well worn statements heard in relationships. We then introduce a framework you can use to develop persuasive responses to provocative statements. Finally, we give examples using this framework.
2021-03-2327 minClimbing Henge PodcastShe Loves to Punish - Take Your Punishment Little SpartanDo women really love to punish the men that hurt and anger them within the context of a relationship? If you’ve emotionally hurt, angered Or disrespected the women you love, there’s a good chance she will punish you. On this episode of the podcast we explore why women love to punish men. We then explain why absorbing her punishment is key to her forgiveness.
2021-03-1123 minClimbing Henge Podcast“What’s The Plan?” (Vision and Objectives)Many people ask, “what’s the plan” without having a clear understanding of what a “plan” is. In this podcast we describe the framework for a plan that has both a vision and objectives. The objectives are timeless and enduring and are vital in any relationship. You can learn and master these objectives to reunite and have a “Union of the Two” with the person that you love.
2021-02-1822 minClimbing Henge PodcastYour Singular Purpose (Learning From Zod)Many people ask, “how do I sustain and muster the energy to keep going on when it seems so bleak?” The answer is that you must have a singular and committed purpose. To climb the mountain you must live that purpose. On this episode we define and describe what singular purpose is, and we describe exercises that you can practice to help you harness your singular purpose. General Zod has a singular purpose, for that there is no doubt. You can too.
2021-01-1723 minClimbing Henge Podcast“He Just Doesn’t Listen!” (Female Communication)On this episode of the podcast we explore describe female communication styles. First, using academic research we describe both female and male dominant communication styles. In looking at that research it’s evident that women place great emphasis on connecting and feelings and being heard and understood. Using that knowledge we then describe a two step method for “Listening” to your partner.
2020-12-0823 minClimbing Henge PodcastFree and Loving (No Storm Can Alter My Direction)On this episode of the podcast we describe what it means to be a Free and Loving man / woman. We first define what “free and loving” means. After that, we describe a guide / compass you can use to assess your “direction” in order to assess if your behavior is Free and Loving. Finally, we give some scenarios and examples to illustrate and highlight how we use this compass / guide on actual practice.
2020-10-1825 minClimbing Henge Podcast“I Want Her to See My Value!” (Science of Social Proof)On this episode of the podcast we explore and describe the science of social proof. Social proof is a psychological method whereby you can signal your value to others using specific mechanisms. On this episode we first define what social proof is. We then describe how and when to use it. And finally, we give examples to illustrate how it can be used.
2020-09-2322 minClimbing Henge Podcast“I Want Her To Miss Me!” (Science of Scarcity)Men will often say that they want a girl “to miss me!” Or they might say they want a girl to “wonder about me.” What we want to do is harness the power of scarcity in order to create draw or attraction. On this episode of the podcast we define what scarcity is from both a psychological and physiological perspective. We then give examples of when and when not to use scarcity to create attraction. Then finally we walk through a few scenarios to illustrate how to effectively implement it.
2020-09-1320 minClimbing Henge PodcastShe’s Not Attracted to me Anymore! (Attraction)On this episode of the podcast we define and describe the nature of attraction on relationships. We first describe how attraction evolved from evolutionary forces. We then give a definition of attraction from a biological perspective. Then we define what “chemistry” is. And then we articulate the three dimensions of attraction: physical, structural / status and behavioral.
2020-08-2633 minClimbing Henge Podcast“It’s Not Fair!”On this episode of the podcast we explore the idea of fairness in relationships. First we explain the nature of relationships and why notions of “fair” don’t always apply. Second, we explore differences in male and female sensory awareness and how this affects notions of fairness. Third, we discuss the differences between masculine and feminine energy to understand why notions of fairness don’t apply to specific aspects of relationships. Finally, we give examples to illustrate specific behaviors that men say “aren’t fair.”
2020-08-1322 minClimbing Henge PodcastHow Trauma and Stress Damage the BrainOn this episode of the podcast we explore how trauma and stress impact the functioning of the brain. Trauma and stress can cause long term damage to the brain which can have an impact on female behaviors over a life time. First we explore the types of trauma and stress that can cause damage. Then we discuss the resulting behaviors that can result from this trauma and stress.
2020-07-0127 minClimbing Henge Podcast“He’s So Needy!”Why Needy Behavior is Disgusting To The Female. And why you as a man need to be aware of this, and take the necessary steps to curtail your excessive desire for affirmation and affection.
2020-06-2115 min2020-06-0119 minClimbing Henge PodcastThe Power of Being UnaffectedIn This Podcast We Explore The Nature Of Being “Unaffected” And Why It’s So Powerful. Unaffected Essentially Means That You Do Not React In Negative Ways To The Provocations And Test Of The Female. We Explore The Science Behind Being Unaffected And The Neurological Reasons It’s So Effective In Building Trust And Safety With The Female.
2020-05-1928 minClimbing Henge Podcast“She’s Playing Games!” Understanding Female BehaviorWe often hear men state that, “shes playing games!” The term “games” is used as a euphemism for manipulation. When men state that “she’s playing games,” they feel that the female is somehow manipulating them. In this podcast we first explain how use of words / terms impacts how we think and behave. As such, we want to be careful about the words (games) we use to describe things. In fact, we want to eliminate use of the phrase “she’s playing games.” Second, we review specific female behaviors that men classify as “games.” Third, we describe and articulate the nature of these femal...
2020-03-2326 minClimbing Henge PodcastDo Nice Guys Finish Last?On this episode of the Podcast we explore the myth of the “nice guy” who finishes last with girls. First, we define what “nice” means. Second, we review research in terms of what females are really attracted to in a man. Third, we describe the balance of male behaviors and attributes that a female needs in a man. And finally, we dispose of the “nice guy” label once and for all.
2020-03-0218 minClimbing Henge PodcastPower In Intimate RelationshipsAll relationships have a balance of power. Sometimes one partner has more power than the other. In this podcast we first describe the sources of power in an intimate relationship. We then describe sources of power that are exclusive to the female. We then describe why a partner with more power will exhibit less pro relationship behaviors. And why the importance of having a balance of power in the relationship critical for long term relationship success.
2019-12-2923 minClimbing Henge Podcast“I Need To Spend Time So She Can See My Changes!”On this episode of the podcast we discuss how you should be thinking about how you spend time with your partner after a breakup / separation / divorce. After or during a breakup your partner is likely to have a negative emotional valence towards you. If they have a negative emotional valence towards you it’s likely they don’t want to spend a lot, or any time with you. We then discuss how you use positive interactions to move your partners emotional valence from negative to positive. And as you do that you slowly start to spend more time with her...
2019-12-1923 minClimbing Henge Podcast“She Doesn’t Respect Me!” Respect In Intimate RelationshipsMen feel the need for “respect” to a much higher degree than females. When a man feels his partner / wife is not respecting him it can cause the man to feel devalued and he can become angry or upset. On this episode of the podcast we explore the nature of respect in intimate relationships. First, we define what respect is. Second, we describe the “respect worthy” qualities that a mate uses to evaluate your respect worthiness. And finally, we give examples of scenarios that may make a man feel disrespected, and offer ways to deal with each effectively.
2019-12-0932 minClimbing Henge Podcast“But My Girl Is Different!” Explaining Personality vs EmotionMany men will say, “but my girl is different!” Meaning, she is somehow unique and different from all other women. And of course; every woman, and every human, is unique and different and a blessing. However, we need to understand the difference between personality and emotions. Personality and identity reside in the frontal cortex area of the brain. The frontal cortex is relatively new as far as human evolution (150,000 - 300,000 years old). Emotions are derived from the amygdala, which is more powerful and ancient (millions of years old). The amygdala gives emotions salience, or meaning. This podcast will explain the...
2019-12-0220 minClimbing Henge PodcastPerseverance! How to Persevere and Achieve Long Term GoalsAchieving long term goals can be difficult, especially when signs of success are not very apparent. At least not apparent to the inexperienced eye. As such, when you’re trying to reunite with an estranged wife or girlfriend, you need to understand how to increase goal commitment, and use strategies to persevere and increase mental toughness. On this podcast we first discuss how to increase goal commitment. The two most important factors in goal commitment are the “importance of the goal,” and your belief that you can “achieve the goal.” We tech you how to approach these two things. We then di...
2019-10-2121 minClimbing Henge PodcastHer Phone! Men Can’t Handle This And How to Fix ItMost men are threatened by their partners (wife, girlfriend, etc) use of their phone. The feeling of being threatened by her phone use usually results in either controlling (“you’re always on your phone!”) or needy behavior (“I wish you gave me more time, you’re always in your phone.”) Both of these behaviors weaken the man and make the female feel less comfortable. On this podcast we will describe the specific steps and mindset you need in order to deal with your partners phone usage.
2019-09-1319 min
Climbing Henge PodcastFemales Are “Options Open” Oriented - What That Means For YouMales have a “lock in” orientation, whereas females have an “Options Open” orientation. On this episode of the podcast we describe what an “options open” orientation is, any why females are embedded with this from a purely biological and reproductive standpoint. We then share some statistics on this, and what contributes to a female having a greater “Options Open” orientation. We then share how you as the partner of a female need to accept this and how you decrease a females “Options Open” orientation through positive behaviors and actions.
2019-08-1723 min
Climbing Henge Podcast“I Just Can’t Trust Her!” Building A Foundation of TrustMany men will often say, “I don’t know if I can trust her!” This is the wrong thing to say. As the masculine partner in the relationship your role is to lead. That means you behave in specific ways that allow your partner to feel safe and have trust in you. On this podcast we explore three dimensions of trust. We first explore cognitive trust, which is about your competency and reliability. We then explore affective trust, which deals with benevolence and care and understanding. And finally, we deal with behavioral trust, which is the embodiment of all you say...
2019-08-0432 minClimbing Henge Podcast“I Can’t Make Her Love Me!” The Power of ExpectationsIt’s true you “can’t make someone love you.” However, if you understand the power of expectations and how they work on the brain, then you know how you can shape how someone feels about you. Expectations and the neurotransmitters Dopamine are woven tightly together. They go hand in hand. If your expectations are exceeded you will experience an increase of Dopamine which makes you feel “good.” In this podcast we will teach you how to use the power of expectations to shape how your partner feels about you. Used correctly, you can increase the positive emotions that your partner...
2019-07-2221 min
Climbing Henge PodcastShe’s Having A Rebound! Now What?On this episode of the podcast we explore why females have rebound relationship. We first explore the feminine’s deep desire to be desired, to feel loved, to feel special and unique. We then link these female needs to the rebound relationship. We then describe how they feel about you, and what you need to do to recapture positive emotions from the female if you wish to reunite with them.
2019-04-2723 min
Climbing Henge PodcastI’ve Been Friend Zoned! Now What?You’ve been friend zoned! Now What? On this episode of the podcast we define what “friend zoned” means, the two main reasons why a female will “friend zone” you, and how to recover if this happens.
2018-12-1719 min
Climbing Henge Podcast“He’s So Needy!” What Needy Behavior Is, And Why Females Reject ItMany Men Exhibit Needy And Clingy Behavior In Their Relationships. Needy And Clingy Behavior Will Always Be Rejected By The Female. In This Podcast We Define Needy Behavior, Give Specific Examples, And Then Describe Exactly Why Females Reject It. We Then Give You Some Methods To Fix Your Needy Behavior So That It Doesn’t Destroy Your Relationship.
2018-11-2416 min
Climbing Henge Podcast“I love You, But I’m Not In Love With You” - Maintaining Sexual Tension“I Love You, But I’m Not In Love With You” Are The Dreads Word That No Man Wants To Hear. On This Episode We Explain Exactly What Those Words Mean, Then We Go On To Explain How To Maintain Sexual Attraction And Tension So That Your Girlfriend Or Wife Will Have A High Level Of Attraction And Sexual Lust For You Over The Course Of A Relationship.
2018-11-0429 min
Climbing Henge Podcast“She’s Really Cold! What Now!”Females can be very cold and distant and this is something that most men dread. In this episode we define “cold and distant behavior,” give examples of it, then go on to explain the different stages of cold and distant behavior. We then give you a roadmap in how to deal with the different stages of your partners cold and distant behavior; so that you can have a successful and loving relationship.
2018-10-2025 min
Climbing Henge Podcast“I Wanna Call Her Out! Should I?”Men Often Want To “Call Out” Their Romantic Partners For Perceived Wrongs. These Wrongs Are Generally Perceived Lies Or Deception On The Part Of The Female. In This Podcast We Discuss How “Calling Out” A Partner Will Usually Have Bad Results And Why. Then We Talk About Whether You Should Discuss The Perceived “Wrong” Or Not, And How To Do It In A Calm, Loving Way.
2018-10-1225 min
Climbing Henge PodcastFemale Sexual Desire - What You Need To KnowFemale Sexual Desire is more nuanced and less direct than male sexual desire - and in this podcast we explore the reasons why. We also also explain the three things that are crucial to a female being able to maintain sexual desire. Then we talk about how long term relationships and marriage can actually “suffocate” female sexual desire and what you as a man need to do about that.
2018-10-0625 min
Climbing Henge Podcast“She’s Angry!” What You Need To Know About Female Anger NowFemale anger is different than male anger. Men express their anger more readily and tend to be rewarded for it. Females are derided as being “unhinged” or un-ladylike when they display anger, and thus they tend to “keep it in.” This is a problem for you. In this podcast we explore the sources of female anger, why females don’t express it, and how it then “boils over” after months or years and threatens your relationship. We then talk about the “do’s and don’ts” in how you handle female anger, and what you need to do in order to defuse it.
2018-09-2724 min
Climbing Henge PodcastLies, Deceit And Trickery: Inside The Female MindFemale’s are inherently more cunning and clever than men. Their social intelligence skills are more advanced and they have greater ability to use non verbal communication. In this podcast we first discuss why females are more cunning and wily then men. We then discuss how they use sex, incitement of arguments, and “coldness” to bait and trap men in order to achieve their goal. Their goal could be to end the relationship of course.
2018-09-2027 min
Climbing Henge Podcast“No Contact Rule? Should I Do It?”It seems everyone has heard about the “No Contact Rule,” but not everyone really knows when it should be used or how. In this podcast we give an overview of what exactly the “No Contact Rule” is, how it works and what it’s supposed to do. We then review different relationship scenarios to understand what situations would be appropriate for some form of “no contact.” The answer is very few.
2018-09-1222 min
Climbing Henge Podcast“She’s Not Even Trying!” (When There’s No Effort From Wife or Girlfriend Then What?)Men who are trying to work on their relationship or win back their wife / girlfriend will often say that, “she’s not even trying!” Meaning that the female isn’t putting in an effort to make things “work.” In this podcast we discuss the situations when women will not “try,” as well as why they won’t. We then discuss whether it matters or not in terms of your ability to have success winning her love.
2018-09-0623 min
Climbing Henge Podcast“She Wants A Separation! Now What?”On this podcast we explore the situation when your wife wants a separation. We discuss how to handle the situation when your wife wants a separation and how to use this “disaster” as an opportunity to build trust with her. We will walk you through the specific steps and what to say to her step by step, in order to turn this impending “disaster” into an opportunity for you to regain her trust and love.
2018-08-3130 min
Climbing Henge PodcastWhen She Tells You About Another Guy----more----
As a default way of behaving an ex girlfriend or wife that wants separation; will not tell you that she is seeing / dating someone else as that will likely result in conflict / anger / jealousy, and that is dangerous to the female. Thus, when an ex girlfriend / separated wife tells you about another man they do it for specific reasons. On this podcast we will detail the specific reasons why a female will tell you about anther man. And then we will explain how to handle each of those scenarios in order to be successful in your...
2018-08-1618 min
Climbing Henge PodcastThe Power Of Being UnaffectedIn This Podcast We Explore The Nature Of Being “Unaffected” And Why It’s So Powerful. Unaffected Essentially Means That You Do Not React In Negative Ways To The Provocations And Test Of The Female. We Explore The Science Behind Being Unaffected And The Neurological Reasons It’s So Effective In Building Trust And Safety With The Female.
2018-08-0928 min
Climbing Henge Podcast“I Need Space!”“I Need Space!” The dreaded words you hear from your wife / girlfriend / love interest that cause you to second guess yourself and worry. In this podcast we explore the nature of the female that “needs space.” Why females are more likely to feel they “need space.” And as a man / partner of a female how you should handle it and behave so that you can have a successful relationship with her.
2018-08-0519 min
Climbing Henge PodcastPracticing Loving BehaviorIt’s relatively easy to be loving and warm towards the woman you love when she’s loving and warm towards you. However, when she’s cold, distant, bitchy, angry, or when she’s rejecting you it can be very hard to be loving towards her. In this podcast we define what it means to be “loving” towards the woman you love and how to practice so that you can behave in loving ways regardless of how she behaves towards you.
2018-07-2921 min
Climbing Henge Podcast“Nothing’s Working!”When you’re trying to win back your wife or girlfriend it will often seem like “nothing’s working!” Or, people will ask, “how long does it take for these actions to sink in?” On this podcast we explore the reasons why it takes time for positive behaviors and actions to sink in. How the female brain evaluates and internalizes emotional memories. And what that means for you.
2018-07-1120 min
Climbing Henge Podcast“It Doesn’t Seem Like She Cares!”Quite often when a female is pulling away from a man, or trying to end things she will behave in ways where it doesn’t seem like she cares. Or, that any of the actions and behaviors you are doing are noticed and having an impact on her. This is not the case at all. In fact she’s likely feting the impact. But that doesn’t mean she will tell you or show you. In this podcast we are going to explain why the female will not reveal and why she hides her feelings and emotions.
2018-07-0520 min
Climbing Henge Podcast“I’m Confused!” Why Female Behavior Can Be So ConfusingMany men get “confused” by conflicted female behavior and don’t know what it means. In this podcast we will explain the nature of conflicting and “confusing” female behavior, what it means, and how you handle it in order to be in a successful, loving relationship
2018-06-2919 min
Climbing Henge PodcastWhen And Why Females Reject Affection And IntimacySome females are extremely uncomfortable with affection and intimacy. Insecure avoidant females in particular tend to be very uncomfortable with intimacy and affection. In this podcast we explore why and when females are uncomfortable with intimacy and how you need to handle it.
2018-06-2016 min
Climbing Henge PodcastFemales Tend To Be Indirect, Males Direct. What This Means For YouFemales / the feminine are much more likely to use Indirect methods to resolve conflict and be indirect in their aggression. So for example, instead of her being “mature” and telling you she doesn’t want to talk to you, she delays or does not reply to your text messages or phone calls. That is a form of indirect communication. Understand female indirect forms of communication and how to behave in response to it.
2018-06-0524 min
Climbing Henge PodcastFear And Fear Memories In The FemaleFear and fear memories are very powerful and you need to fully understand how they are formed and how they are triggered. When you are trying to “win” a female back it is likely she will have strong fears about coming back to the relationship. You must understand how to navigate these fears successfully in order to reunite with her. You can’t just simply tell someone to “forget” about their fears and expect it to work. Fear memories do not work in this manner. They must be conditioned away through positive reinforcement over time.
2018-05-2820 min
Climbing Henge PodcastWomen Live In The MomentWe always say that women live in the moment. Well, what does this mean and how does it impact how you behave? Essentially it means that whatever our woman is feeling in the moment is how she believes she will likely always feel. So, don’t fight it and don’t argue about it. Research shows that emotional events are felt “deeper” and last longer in the female. As an example, acts of kindness are felt more deeply by the female. And vice versa, females are more sensitive to Fear and threats. Thus, females are more sensitive to emotional stimuli...
2018-05-2721 min
Climbing Henge PodcastHow Trauma And Stress Damage The BrainStress and trauma can damage the brain in significant ways and cause behavioral issues and problems that manifest themselves in later life. This podcast will identify the types of stress and trauma that damage the brain and the resulting behavioral issues and problems that can result from it.
2018-05-2728 min