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Not Medical AdviceNot Medical Advice 013 - Inspiring Men To Action with Drew StegmaierJoin me and my guest Drew Stegmaier, an amazing life coach and transformation guide who has helped me and many others find their way to a balanced and improved life. We discuss: Fasting, Urine Therapy https://www.aquariusthewaterbearer.com/, how to help people solve their own problems by loving them, grounded listening, where to move to is a “How” question. Why are so many men hurting in the world nowadays? We also discuss rites of passage, ManKind Project https://mkpusa.org/, how spiritual fitness is physical fitness and vice versa, body dysmorphia, dream chasing, basic human dignity as your birt...2023-04-111h 35
The Steg Drew ShowEpisode 30: Kipping through Life w/ Educator and Communications Consultant Kip DooleyKip Dooley is a writer, editor, and educator who highlights solutions to our world’s most pressing challenges. He cowrites Bare Bones, a weekly(ish) newsletter about food, family, and what nourishes us, with award-winning cookbook author Beth Dooley, his mother. They also teach a quarterly online class, showing home cooks how to make delicious home meals with seasonal, local produce.As a journalist, he’s written about food, theatre, and unlikely Trump voters. He taught communications studies at American University in Washington, D.C., and began his career teaching high school English and social studies while earn...2021-11-241h 13
The Steg Drew ShowEpisode 29: Let’s Get This Paper! w/ nomadic daddy Eric SchneiderEric Schneider is a third generation entrepreneur working at Huron Paper Stock, a family business operating since 1955. He’s collected a wild variety of life experiences and despite knowing each other for a short time, I consider him to be a wise mentor. Eric has been deep into personal growth from his high school days in peer couseling, to the Landmark Forum, creating a men’s circle in Hawaii and facilitating for years, working with the Mankind Project, and translating much of this work to his personal and professional life. When Covid hit, Eric’s life took a turn and he...2021-11-111h 55
The Steg Drew ShowEpisode 28: Wifing Things Up With Brazilian Holistic Therapist Amanda VestriAmanda Vestri is my wife, and producer of this show, in addition to tons of behind the scenes work for all of my creative projects. She was born and raised in a small town in the state of Sao Paulo in Brazil. After teaching herself English, she came to the USA in 2018 via a cultural exchange program. We met in the summer of 2019 and have been together since, getting married this July. Amanda has been interested in occult and spiritual practices from a young age and participated in the Candomblé religion, and been trained in Reiki, Theta Healing, the A...2021-10-191h 06
The Steg Drew ShowEpisode 27: Loving Satan w/ Carmen BurkeCarmen Burke is the author of HAVE YOU EVER THOUGHT ABOUT LOVING SATAN?: A GUIDE TO INCORPORATING YOUR DARK SIDE IN ORDER TO LOVE YOUR FULL SELF. She has known me since before I was born as we were neighbors growing up. In addition to her book, Carmen works as an accountant, and has Self Love Coaching practice. She studies the Enneagram, Myers-Briggs Typology, Astrology, and other forms of self-discovery and understanding. In this episode, we dive into the book, how it came to life, and break down the various modalities mentioned above in clear, simple language. ...2021-10-041h 01
The Steg Drew ShowEpisode 26: Getting Embodied w/ Embodiment Expert Boris YurganovBoris Yurganov emigrated to the USA from Belarus as a 9-year-old. Since then he has spent tons of time and effort becoming more embodied, anywhere from massage therapy, physical therapy, surfing, to Core Energetics body psychotherapy. His acting dreams began after watching Jean-Claude Van Damme as a child and he’s currently working towards realizing them in California. We dive into his story, healing from a serious neck injury via energy medicine in a basement, and other stories on his journey towards being and helping others be more embodied.WE NOW HAVE MERCH!!! stegdrew.com/mer...2021-09-241h 05
The Steg Drew ShowEpisode 25: De-Escalating All Of The Things w/ Civility Expert Jim CarpenterJim Carpenter began de-escalation as a child, living between his atheist father and Jehovah’s witness mother. Since then, he’s had a career for General Motors and the Bureau of Labor Statistics and been involved in many organizations to promote civil discourse, including but not limited to Able And Willing, winning the Ron Hering Mission of Service Award for the Mankind Project, Race Conversations, Amazing Faith Dinners, Bridge Alliance, and others. His focus is on 2 related missions:Communications skills for creating connection and respect and mutual understanding.Tools for economic prosperity.We dive into Jim’s storie...2021-09-221h 49
The Steg Drew ShowEpisode 24: Dropping the Armor w/ Transformational Relationship Artist Joe BernsteinFull-disclosure, I have been a client of Joe for men’s life coaching services. But, I’m not getting paid to chat with him here, he’s just a good dude and I want to share his story with my megaphone, hence the interview. Joe is a Transformational Relationship Artist or in another perspective, a Men’s Life Coach. We dive into the crises that kickstarted Joe into an epic journey of self-healing and growth, which lead to him wanting to be of service and share with others, talk about the difference between being wise versus educated, microdosing, and what men...2021-09-111h 10
The Steg Drew ShowEpisode 23: Shooting the Bull w/ “Shaman Sean” UrbassikSean Urbassik and I are former coworkers and friends. Sean has been an expander in my life. He invited me to my first ever open mic night, and my first time being on a podcast, which helped give me the confidence to start my own. Recently Sean fought in his first amateur MMA fight and in this episode we talk about the fight, how he got the nickname “Shaman Sean,” thoughts on eating animals, and catch up about my adventures in Brazil.This episode is a bit more conversational and less of a straightforward interview.WE N...2021-09-101h 30
The Steg Drew ShowEpisode 22: Kick Game Cray w/ Shoe Designer Mountain ChangMountain Chang founded Carets after reading The Four Hour Workweek. Carets makes barefoot dress shoes. As a barefoot shoe wearer of eight years and many brands myself, I was stoked to meet Mountain. Aside from his day job, Mountain has held California weight lifting records, ran the LA Marathon barefoot, takes professional singing lessons, and in a past life worked as an accountant.Mountain lives as an example of what a person can become when they embrace their curiosity, the main theme we explore this episode as told via anecdotes from Mountain’s life with some of my...2021-09-041h 26
The Steg Drew ShowEpisode 21: Red Pilling Not Medical Advice w/ Darrell BeckerDarrell Becker is a licensed acupuncturist living in Hawaii. He's been a guest on various podcasts since 2012, especially the School Sucks podcast and the Tin Foil Hat show. Darrell was the MKP Community Coordinator for East Hawaii for 2 years and has been very active in the MKP community on the Hawaiian Islands since his NWTA in 2015. In this conversation, we dive into Voluntaryism, Aliens, The Non-Aggression Principle, Red Pilling, Medicine, and a whirlwind of other goodies. I consider Darrell to be an autodidact and we went on quite the nerd safari! Show notes at stegdrew.co...2021-09-021h 28
The Steg Drew ShowEpisode 20: NVC and Bill Plotkin w/ James PrietoJames is a nature enthusiast, author and Certified NVC Trainer. He’s been involved in personal growth programs since the mid-1980’s, participated in many workshops, retreats and 12-step recovery. He began his journey into nature based spirituality in the late 1990’s. After publishing his book “The Joy of Compassionate Connecting – The Way of Christ Through Nonviolent Communication” in 2010, he participated in a Franciscan-inspired men’s rites of passage in 2011. He continued his growth journey through Mankind Project New-Warrior training and integration groups. He participated in Animas Valley Institute’s “Wild Mind Intensive” in Feb 2018, and had his first 12-day Vision Quest in...2021-08-281h 06
The Steg Drew ShowEpisode 19: History of the Korean Sex Industry w/ Shawn Yoon Pt. 2Shawn Yoon is a Korean and in this episode we talk about the sexual history of Korea from roughly World War 2 to present day. Shawn posits that cities cannot exist without prostitution, and we uncover many inconvenient truths around Asian sexual history and human trafficking. In this episode we focus more closely on modern sex work in Korea, and how it ties into capitalism as a whole, talking about the commoditization of everything, with sex being included in that commoditization. The episode wraps up with Shawn’s translation of a Korean poem, which does a great job summarizing the co...2021-08-231h 41
The Steg Drew ShowEpisode 18: History of the Korean Sex Industry w/ Shawn Yoon Pt. 1Shawn Yoon is a Korean and in this episode, we talk about the sexual history of Korea from the dawn of Confucianism till roughly World War 2. We filmed the episode from 10 pm to midnight in Korea time, and realized that the topic needed more time to get us from WW2 to the present day, so we are filming part 2 soon. We dive into Confucianism, the Samurai, how Japanese Imperialism and capitalism impact prostitution and sex work. Shawn posits that cities cannot exist without prostitution, and we uncover many inconvenient truths around Asian sexual history and human trafficking. Sex is...2021-08-211h 42
The Steg Drew ShowEpisode 17: Doing Men’s Work w/ Ben BechtelBen Bechtel is my friend and has sat in more than 350 hours of men’s circles, led and organized men’s gatherings and has been doing the work for years. In this episode we get into what men’s work is, why it’s needed, and why it’s hard to get into. We unexpectedly did some work on air, sharing details about our lives. If you or your partner, family member, or friend are curious about “men’s work,” the deep inner work that ripples outwardly into the world, you’ll enjoy this one. Show notes at stegdrew.com/epi...2021-08-171h 49
The Steg Drew ShowEpisode 16: Astrology Explained w/ The Hood MysticKyree ‘The Hood Mystic’ Anthony is one of the most inspirational people I have ever met. He has written 12 books...since 2017 alone! Kyree has overcome hardship in his life and is not defined by it. An autodidact, Kyree is the first podcast guest to specifically call out his favorite section in the library by number. In this conversation we dabble in astrology, having a relationship with God/Source/The Divine without religion, letting your light shine, dealing with skeptics, connecting with nature, and more. Show notes at stegdrew.com/episode16Connect with Drew:INSTA...2021-08-121h 18
The Steg Drew ShowEpisode 15: Talking Shamanism w/ Eric WeinsteinEric Weinstein is my friend and shamanic practitioner. He’s done training in shamanism from a variety of teachers, and is trained in “Tapping”/EFT/Energy Psychology, Hypnosis & NLP, EMDR/Eye Movement Integration, True Purpose coaching and more. Seriously, he has a lot of tools in his tool box and there’s too much to list here. In this episode we dive into shamanism, popular misconceptions about it, emotional neglect, ancestral healing, depossession, and shamanism for newbiesShow notes at stegdrew.com/episode15Connect with Drew:INSTAGRAM - @stegdrew / instagram.com/stegdrew2021-08-051h 08
The Steg Drew ShowEpisode 15: Talking Shamanisn w/ Eric WeinsteinEric Weinstein is my friend and shamanic practitioner. He’s done training in shamanism from a variety of teachers, and is trained in “Tapping”/EFT/Energy Psychology, Hypnosis & NLP, EMDR/Eye Movement Integration, True Purpose coaching and more. Seriously, he has a lot of tools in his tool box and there’s too much to list here. In this episode we dive into shamanism, popular misconceptions about it, emotional neglect, ancestral healing, depossession, and shamanism for newbies.Show notes at stegdrew.com/episode15Connect with Drew:INSTAGRAM - @stegdrew / instagram.com/stegdrew2021-08-0551 min
The Steg Drew ShowEpisode 14: Porn Is Apple Juice w/ Tom WorthingtonTom Worthington came into my bubble thanks to 40+ year Transcendental Meditation teacher and past guest Werner Pfleger. I watched one of his down to earth videos sharing his story about curing anxiety and depression. It moved me. Simple and personal without being prescriptive. It immediately made me want to talk to him, and I thought it’d be helpful for others to hear his story, so here we are.In this episode we discuss how he cured his anxiety and depression, particular habits and routines in his life, porn addiction and masturbation, video games, exercise, and self-help as...2021-08-031h 09
The Steg Drew ShowEpisode 13: Life On The Edge w/ Financial Coach Chris EdgerlyChristopher Edgerly is the force, founder, and CEO behind 5th Dimension Ventures. He is a Certified Financial Education Instructor and graduated from Amherst College with a degree in Psychology and a concentration in Economics. Combining his passions for people, planet, and finance, Chris created 5D Ventures, a finance firm aimed at creating a better world through socially responsible financial education and investment. Chris also in his spare time gives back to the community by volunteering for JA New York, teaching financial literacy.In this episode we dive into Chris’s background, how he got into his profession, th...2021-07-3153 min
The Steg Drew ShowEpisode 12: Turcoling The Tables w/ my childhood friend Stephen TurcolIn this episode we turn the tables! My childhood friend Stephen acts as host and interviews me. I was nervous, not sure what to expect, and Steve hit me with some good questions about how I approach living, do all the weird things I do, explorations in curiosity, lessons learned living abroad, and catching up 8 years after living in the same city. Show notes at stegdrew.com/podcastConnect with Drew:INSTAGRAM - @stegdrew / instagram.com/stegdrewTWITTER - @stegdrew / twitter.com/stegdrewTIKTOK - @stegdrew / tiktok.com/@stegdrew2021-07-0957 min
The Steg Drew ShowEpisode 11: All Politics is Loco (local) w/ Community Organizer Rachel ReyesRachel Reyes is a community organizer from Los Angeles. Born and raised in the San Fernando Valley, she started her journey in activism during high school as a member of the Bus Riders Union and continues to organize around local politics. Rachel’s activism seeks to defend Angelenos and their right to the city.We get into what community organization means, failures of capitalism, unions, and how workers organize.If you enjoy the podcast, would you please consider leaving a short review on Apple Podcasts? It takes less than a minute and makes a big di...2021-07-031h 09
The Steg Drew ShowEpisode 10: Explorations In Consciousness w/ Werner Pfleger, MA Edu.In this episode we discuss Werner’s mystical experiences, his introduction to TM, Consciousness, the difference between conscious and unconscious, and navigate some personal conundrums Drew is facing.If you enjoy the podcast, would you please consider leaving a short review on Apple Podcasts? It takes less than a minute and makes a big difference in convincing clout chasing guests to come on my show. Gotta seem like a big deal to catch the big fish!Show notes at stegdrew.com/podcastConnect with Drew:INSTAGRAM - @stegdrew / instagram.com/stegdrew...2021-07-011h 24
The Steg Drew ShowEpisode 9: Autodidactic Futurism, A Nerd Safari w/ Jo PasamonteJo Pasamonte is a Silicon Valley futurist and autodidact (big word for self-taught lifelong learner). He has apprenticed as an electrician, worked for Big Tech in Augmented Reality, Virtual Reality, Cannabis Tech, and other nerdy things. He's “the person who friends the unfriendable.” In this episode, we dive into cultural appropriation, it’s pros and cons, how ideas spread, capitalism and post-capitalism, health care, and other esoteric forms of intellectual masturbation. If you enjoy the podcast, would you please consider leaving a short review on Apple Podcasts? It takes less than a minute and makes a big differe...2021-06-231h 55
The Steg Drew ShowEpisode 8: The Dos Equis Man, Lyle McKeanyLyle McKeany is a real world version of the Dos Equis Man. He has played at Ozzfest under a major record label, been a professional poker player, founded startups, and married twice. Now he writes about life, being the father of a disabled kid, and uses his broad experience to share universal themes. We dive into mastery, what makes a life well lived, Lyle’s various projects, being honest with yourself, and unexpected things like Stoicism and golf. Lyle is one of those people you meet and realize he is fully living, and I love talking with him....2021-06-222h 07
The Steg Drew ShowEpisode 7: Hans On Sex w/ HansHans’ mission is to help men (typically over 40), who want more out of their sex life, to be better informed and more confident, so they can lead the lives they desire. He is a certified Big Leap coach from the Hendricks Institute and a Certified Tantra Educator from the Source School of Tantra Yoga. We’ve kept his last name private because he also has an un-sexy day job. In this episode we dive into tantra, let’s-get-it-over-with sex, religion and how it relates to sex, and tips and practices for people to have healthy and fulfilling sexual relationships. Part o...2021-06-191h 35
The Steg Drew ShowEpisode 6: Good Citizenship with Citizen Within founder, Rob HardyRob Hardy is my friend, colleague, and concerned United States citizen. He’s an indie creator on the internet running Citizen Within and Ungated. We dive into the culture war and how to opt-out, tribalism, general messiness, and what to do about it. Rob and I demonstrate the possibility of disagreeing without violence. If you’ve lost friends due to differing political views or other Voldemorts Of The Culture War, this one’s for you. If you enjoy the podcast, would you please consider leaving a short review on Apple Podcasts? It takes less than a minute and make...2021-06-161h 56
The Steg Drew ShowEpisode 5: Meta-Cognition through Ozmosis w/ Oz ChenOz Chen is my friend and go-to person when it comes to meta-cognition, which for normal people means “thinking about thinking.” Oz has been blogging on and off for twenty years, writes professionally, and dives into the intersection of psychology and finance at ozchen.com. In this episode we tackle mental models, cognitive biases, silly mistakes otherwise smart people make, and the big kahuna, thinking about thinking. This includes how to maintain an open mind without fooling yourself, and marriage to ideology.If you enjoy the podcast, would you please consider leaving a short review on Apple Podc...2021-06-111h 48
The Steg Drew ShowEpisode 4: All Things Steroids w/ Nate JohnsonIn this conversation, we dive into common misconceptions about steroids, what they do and don’t do, how they work, and generally catch up like two old college buddies would.If you enjoy the podcast, would you please consider leaving a short review on Apple Podcasts? It takes less than a minute, and makes a big difference in convincing clout chasing guests to come on my show. Gotta seem like a big deal to catch the big fish!Show notes at stegdrew.com/podcastConnect with Drew:INSTAGRAM - @stegdrew / instagram.co...2021-06-101h 07
The Steg Drew ShowEpisode 3: Geeking Out About Language, Twice Exceptionality, and more with Jamie BanksWe dive into pronouns and gender, as Jamie happens to be trans and also a linguist, the idea of twice exceptionality, and places where people fall through the cracks in our education system. We also tackle neurodivergence more generally, and dabble in personal knowledge management.If you enjoy the podcast, would you please consider leaving a short review on Apple Podcasts? It takes less than a minute, and makes a big difference in convincing clout chasing guests to come on my show. Gotta seem like a big deal to catch the big fish!Show notes...2021-06-092h 05
The Steg Drew ShowEpisode 2: Crypto Pride w/ The Crypto Curator, Paul McNealThis time we dive into all things crypto with my dear friend Paul McNeal, The Crypto Curator. We also talk about being friends with people you disagree with, the B part of LGBTQ, and vaccine conspiracy. Enjoy!If you enjoy the podcast, would you please consider leaving a short review on Apple Podcasts? It takes less than a minute, and makes a big difference in convincing clout chasing guests to come on my show. Gotta seem like a big deal to catch the big fish!Show notes at stegdrew.com/podcastConnect with...2021-06-061h 40
The Steg Drew ShowEpisode 1: Inside The Mind Of A Schizophrenic w/ Alex CannonWelcome to the inaugural episode! Today we dive inside the mind of a schizophrenic, software selling, Manga creating, childhood friend of mine, Alex Cannon. Many people have hypothetical ideas of what a schizophrenic is like. We dive in first hand so you don't have to wonder anymore, exploring craziness like how his diagnosis came about, healing and integrating in day to day life, cultural constructs like circumcision, and other topics to show that no one is truly crazy. This conversation was a roller coaster and I hope you enjoy it.Connect with Drew on social media:2021-06-021h 53