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Getting IntimateFeeling disconnected from your sensuality?Listen, we all need a good reminder every once in a while; myself included. This is for you if you want to reconnect to your sensuality, your feel good place or just feel re-inspired about how easy it can be to build intimacy with your self or your lover. If you want to create deeper intimacy NOW, go grab the 14 days to hotter intimacy E-bookCome find me in the Getting intimate Facebook group! Subscribe to my email list for a juicy gift at https://www.azariamenezes.com/your-pussy-is-a-portal-to-healing or come find me on Instagram @azaria...
2023-04-0817 minGetting IntimateThe wild ride: medication and libidoIf you have ever noticed the subtle or not so subtle changes that come with taking anti depressants or ADHD medication and your libido this episode is for you. I share my experience of my plummeting libido on some of these medications and how things are affecting me today. You'll also get to hear some incredible experiences of folks who shared how medication affected their libido in positive or negative ways. This is a great podcast to learn a little more about the intricacy and layers that contribute to your libido and what you can do to feel more...
2023-02-1547 minGetting IntimateSomething triggered me during sex..I was triggered hard during sex, and I wanted to share (after processing) how I navigate a trauma response showing up in my own personal sex life. I've done tons of work on my sexuality - and there are always new ways my body integrates things on deeper levels. Some things I share out of this experience are: understanding what my body needs and how it helps me process triggers or big emotions during sex, shame and guilt associated with sex and feelings during sex, the fear of getting triggered happening again and what we did to navigate that...
2022-12-0940 minGetting IntimateLessons from taking spaceAn update on the Italy trip, why I didn't really miss anyone at home and what it means to take space away from the hustle and bustle. In this episode I share about my struggle of slowing down, what it means to learn enjoying time with myself and the way I honor my identity outside of being a mother and a wife. I also share all the ways you can practice taking space in your relationship, what it means to seek sacred and inspiring experiences in your life and how you can support your relationship to feel spacious. I a...
2022-11-2226 minGetting IntimateFrom dislike to love - Ry and I's relationshipDrop into this episode where I share the beginnings on how Ry and I met. When I tell you I spent the majority of the first year of our relationship crying you might not believe me. I share about how we went from disliking each other to having a hot secret office romance all the way to what I wore on our first time together and how the tools we used at the beginning of our relationship still support us to feel amazing today. If you told me I would go from primarily being in relationships with women to...
2022-10-2146 minGetting IntimateSo; your libidos aren't matching up?Have you ever wondered WHAT you can do about different levels of desire? How to actually navigate those times when you're feeling low/high desire and your partner is feeling the opposite? In this episode you'll learn How to communicate effectively about this, what to do to navigate the challenging lows, what some of the things are that actually contribute to low desire. Theres also an art to understanding your desire, you'll leave this episode understanding how you can find out what turns you on sexually and non sexually and knowing how you can shift to the sex you a...
2022-10-1140 minGetting IntimateWhat does amazing aftercare look like?For all of you baddies who want to create amazing aftercare for yourselves or the lover/s in your life. If youre wondering if you even need to know about aftercare or need it in your life, the answer is always YES. In this episode I dive into what the whole point of aftercare is, how we can make it fun and how it can really benefit us with in any relationships. This includes dating, long term relationships, non -monogamous relationships and monogamous relationships. If you want to know the deets on how to communicate your needs, process big feel...
2022-09-3027 minGetting Intimate5 Tips for the hottest midnight sexIn this episode I'll share with you not only 5 core tips on how to increase the pleasure factor during your midnight sex adventures. I also share my most recent experience, how to navigate not being in the mood for it and ways you can tap into your intuition and discern between routine and desire. Midnight sex is underrated and I know that after this episode, you'll be calling some of this midnight delight into your life. xo The Pussy FairyIncase you haven't heard; I created an online course for couples. If you are desiring to...
2022-09-2228 minGetting IntimateThe 1 thing that will suck the fun out of your sex lifeIf you drop this one thing, I can almost guarantee you'll have more fun in your sex life. There is a place and a time for it though.. In this episode I drop some gems on how you can make your sex life + the rest of your life a little easier by taking inventory of this 1 thing. We all need these simple reminders, but often times we don't think too deeply about them. So of course as the Pussy Fairy, Im here to remind you, myself and everyone who tunes into this podcast to ditch this one thing so...
2022-09-1425 minGetting IntimateAncestral work, motherhood + sexual healing with Mina AidooAfter a week off I'm back and with a real special conversation around ancestral healing with Mina Aidoo. Tune into this conversation that sparked so many aha moment's and brings the real honest truth about how sometimes we need to go deeper in our healing through ancestral healing, the sexual healing journey as a whole and of course motherhood. Come and catch the vibe with us! " Hi I'm Mina, I am a Healer, Embodiment Coach, Artist, poet & trained professional dancer / choreographer. My story involves turning down a West End World Tour to find myself spiritually, drinking plant...
2022-09-0145 minGetting IntimateBad Bitch Affirmations: Empowered AFStart your day feeling like the confident bad bitch you are. Need a little pick me up and feeling low on confidence? Need to remember your power and who the fuck you are? These Affirmations will get you back in your groove baby. 8 minutes of high-dose empowerment coming your way. This is all you need to spark that fire back up! xo The Pussy FairyIncase you haven't heard; I created an online course for couples. If you are desiring to spice up you sex life, intimacy and have FUN! Tune in to get all...
2022-08-1709 minGetting IntimateNew Update: Intimacy Made Easy couples courseIncase you haven't heard; I created an online course for couples and shared about it on Instagram live. If you are desiring to spice up you sex life, intimacy and have FUN! Tune in to get all the info and click the link to check out the course. This online couples experience will change the way you do intimacy and each other! https://www.azariamenezes.com/intimacy-made-easy xo The Pussy FairyCome find me in the Getting intimate Facebook group! Subscribe to my email list for a juicy gift at https...
2022-08-1127 minGetting IntimateTHE ultimate anticipation tool, edging!Do you like edging? Edging alone vs. partnered, what are the best things about it and what are the things that aren't that great? I sit down with my friend Anna + my partner Ry to talk about our experiences edging and offer 4 hot tips on how YOU can make your edging experience soo much more fun! We also get into airplane sex and thoughts on edging with toys vs. fingers. Whether you have tried edging before and consider yourself a pro or if you have no idea what I'm on about you're in for a treat. xo The Puss...
2022-08-0236 minGetting IntimateParent Tell interview: The roller coaster that is sex after babyIf you've ever wanted to hear stories about my sex life after having a baby here you have it! I was invited on the Parent Tell podcast and I'm pretty sure my most awkward post-baby sex story lives on that podcast and now I'm letting you hear it. Kaila and I talk about all the ups and down's that come with the changes of kids + small babies in particular. Parent Tell shared: "Azaria highlights the importance of honouring your body's wants and needs, whatever they may be, while getting creative with what it means to be intimate with your...
2022-07-2053 minGetting Intimate"How do I talk about my desires with my partner?"This is one of the biggest questions I get - "How do I talk to my partner about my desires" and also "How do I convey a feeling that I want". In this episode I'll share with you a really simple way to look at this, something that will really change the way you approach the conversations you have around desires and fantasy's. I go over things like: What happens when we share our desires and our partners don't get the hint. How to even talk about your deepest fantasy and wants, what gets in the way of communicating t...
2022-07-1223 min
Conversations With Your TherapistHow to Improve Your Sex LifeLET'S TALK ABOUT SEX!!!!!!! Chenelle and Teyana interview Azaria Menezes A.K.A. "The Pussy Fairy"! Azaria is a trauma informed sex and intimacy coach. She provides tips on how to make the most out of your sexual experiences and ways to communicate effectively with your partner. Chenelle also provides talking points for your therapy sessions. Visit www.thepussyfairy.com or https://www.azariamenezes.com to learn more about Azaria's podcast, courses, or coaching opportunities. Link to book Come As You Are: Revised and Updated: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life...
2022-07-041h 06Getting IntimateLearn the art of surrender and receiving in the bedroomIf you've ever been curious how to tap into deep surrender in the bedroom, this practical episode will give you the tips! I share: What happens in the mind-body connection when it comes to surrender? Whats the damm thing that stops us from surrendering? The one big thing you need to know about surrender and receiving, and the one pre-curser to surrender. I share some juicy journal questions and share my easy go2 personal favs to drop into my body during/before lovemaking you don't wanna miss.xo The Pussy FairyIf you w...
2022-06-2822 minGetting IntimateWe didn't have sex for almost 4 weeks.... tips for you too!OMG, the sex coach isn't having sex wtf? What our most recent dry spell looked like and how you can get out of yours. This episode was as long awaited as the sex we weren't having! I go over : What happens when you have a dry spell and what causes them? How can you have bad ass intimacy with out sex? The sex or nothing phenomenon I see so often among couples and how to transition from no sex - sex. Ya'll know I like to get personal, so I shared my recent experience and the things we di...
2022-06-2126 min
Parents in Business CommunityPrioritizing intimacyIn this episode, Azaria speaks about how we can use the power of intimacy in our relationships to connect deeper to feeling alive, magnetic, and radiant in all other areas of our lives. Having a business and being a parent can be challenging, which also puts intimacy at the bottom of our priority list. What would it feel like to ask yourself one simple question to show up towards intimacy in a whole new way? What if intimacy didn't have to be tedious and could create a feeling validated and heard in just 5 min? Azaria shares 1 practical way to implement...
2022-06-1615 minGetting IntimateHow I feel about my Ex's partner!This episode might surprise you a little! I spent the weekend celebrating pride with my hubby, my ex and her partner and I felt really called to get up-close and personal with you all about how I feel. We have a choice in how we show up in the relationships in our life. Sometimes just sometimes, things don't go the way we planned. In this episode I share what happened when I said yes to staying close with the family of my ex , my ex and how I feel about her partner! Can it work? Is everything falling apart? Is th...
2022-06-1417 minGetting IntimateWhat's that thing blocking your pleasure and intimacy?If you want to know what that thing is thats often blocking you from greater pleasure + intimacy, or what that thing is that totally stops you from doing the things you KNOW would be the game changer in your sex life... tune in. We all have this in one area of our lives or more. When it comes to sex and relationships; I see this one come up ALOT. In this episode I share what that thing is and all the practical ways you can overcome this. If you want to learn how to understand what happens in your b...
2022-05-3131 minGetting IntimateBoundaries, self trust and self love with Veronica PuryearLet's unpack all the ways you can use boundaries, self love and self trust for your relationships with yourself and others. Veronica a Somatic Sex, Intimacy, and Relationship Guide sits down with the Pussy Fairy to chat about all the ways we can celebrate all of our parts so we can show up feeling more grounded in our self trust. If you have ever wondered what it could look like to deepen your intimacy with self trust, what it could look like to create a more loving relationship wth setting boundaries and how we can actually find joy and s...
2022-05-2441 min
Love-Listen-Talk-Repeat Podcast with Wendy CapewellBring the Spark Back into the Bedroom with Azaria Mendendez (aka The Pussy Fairy) INTRO Azaria Menendez is a sex, intimacy, and relationship coach who supports folks to reignite that spark back into their sexual self so they can show up feeling deeply connected and full of vibrance. WHAT WE TALK ABOUT Rekindle that sexual spark into your life, whether solo or in a relationship Our Sexual desire has highs and lows, and can change just as in the seasons What we see on Social Media isn’t reality! When does foreplay begin? Take time to explore what feels good - and what could feel even bett...
2022-05-1821 minGetting IntimateWhy do couples fight? An instagram live quickie!What's the real reason couples get into arguments? Why do these arguments even start? How is it that one small thing can turn into a silly debate? What is the thing that triggers an argument in couples? This instagram live was too good not to share on the podcast! This has been a common theme amongst my couples clients in the last two weeks. These 22 minutes will give you sooooo much insight on what sounds the alarm bells off in your body and what you can do about it! Grab your cup of coffee or tea, pull on those...
2022-05-1724 min
Raise Your Volume Academy with Tiphany Kane, M.Ed.Radically Claiming Our Sexuality with Guest Azaria Menezes (aka: The Pussy Fairy)Azaria Menezes is known as "The Pussy Fairy". Azaria is a trauma-informed Sex and Intimacy coach that works with women, moms, and couples to figure out what that thing is that's holding them back in the bedroom. She supports folks to find back to feeling turned on, ecstatic and orgasmic in and out of the bedroom. Azaria supports her clients to re-ignite that spark back into their sexuality or relationships so that they can fall more in love with themselves and/or each other. She also hosts the podcast: Getting Intimate where she brings practical ways to invite more p...
2022-05-1153 minGetting IntimateA past client shares all the tea about the work we didWe want the real tea from real people. I caught up with Sky, a previous client of mine and she shared all the HOT details of her dating life, how our work together has changed and shifted how she feels about herself and her open relationship. What it means to see the results and how the tools from our coaching supported in all of these intimate and juicy hookups. Sky shares the way she opened up to her incredible worthiness and vulnerability and how she infused all the pussy magic into her current relationships today. Sky is incredibly smart an...
2022-05-1035 minGetting IntimateSo you want more orgasms? Listen to this episodeYou want more orgasms? This episode will give you everything you need to know! Allow The Pussy Fairy to blow your mind, because I'm about to tell you the opposite about everything you may have learned orgasms to be. I dropped all the goodies in this one, and you might be surprised at how much is possible for you after listening to this episode alone. You are ready to take your orgasms a step deeper or maybe even experience your orgasm for the first time? I would not miss out on this episode. I share all the different w...
2022-05-0336 minGetting IntimateHealing heartbreak with Lucy PriceDo you want all the deets on how to move through heartbreak? Well, this week you're in luck because Lucy Price - The heartbreak expert, is in the house. We dive deep into what it looks like to tend to your heart during a break-up, how to navigate finding empowerment in the healing stages, how to deal with heartbreak grief, and how to navigate the loss of not only a lover but maybe some family, friends and even the life you thought you would create together. We dive into questions like: What does it look like to consciously uncou...
2022-04-2631 minGetting IntimateMenstrual Magic and Blood Rituals with Laura CarmodyHave you ever wondered what rituals you could do with your menstrual blood? Maybe you've been curious as to what sacred menstruation means or even how to create your own blood magic ritual. In this episode, we dove deep into menstrual magic with my special guest Laura Carmody, who is a menstrual health and empowerment educator. Whether you're a newbie and looking to learn a super accessible and gentle way to connect to your cycle or a seasoned ritual lover and you're wondering what things to take into account when ingesting your moon blood, this episode might be for y...
2022-04-1935 minGetting IntimateThe practice that showed me the shame and judgment my pussy held I share how one powerful practice showed me all the judgment and shame I had around my pussy. I thought I loved the way she looked, but what I didn't know is what she felt. I honestly assumed this would be the most amazing spiritual practice ever until I was met with a shit ton of BIG emotions. This practice was one of my first lessons in self-love and the start of building a relationship with my pussy that felt sensual and vibrant. I had to get through all the feelings of judgment, and disconnection first. If you have ever...
2022-04-1229 min
My Letter isn't Scarlet, it's Fucking Gold.82. Embracing pleasure & intimacy through cultural shaming and motherhood with The Pussy FairyAzaria Menezes aka The Pussy Fairy is a trauma-informed Sex and Intimacy coach that works with women, moms, and couples to figure out what that thing is that's holding them back in the bedroom. She supports folks to find back to feeling turned on, ecstatic and orgasmic in and out of the bedroom. Azaria supports her clients to re-ignite that spark back into their sexuality or relationships so that they can fall more in love with themselves and/or each other. She also hosts the podcast: Getting Intimate where she brings practical ways to invite more pleasure into your...
2022-03-3149 minGetting IntimateFertility Cycles and Hidden Ovulation with Elsa MarieThis is an episode I was soooo curious to explore because I have never heard about hidden ovulation. In this episode, I dive into it with Elsa and she shares how astrology plays into fertility and the possibilities of hidden ovulation. If you're anything like me you're always looking to expand your mind to new ideas and concepts, especially if you're into astrology or into conscious conception this might just be a really fascinating episode for you. Elsa shares how your chart could play a role in conception, fertility, and ovulation and what it is you have to know to...
2022-03-2237 minGetting IntimateWant more pleasure? Think about these thingsEyyy, This week we are dropping into all the richness of what pleasure has to offer us. IF you're craving more pleasure in your life or you just wish your partner could give you more pleasure in the bedroom; tune in. I share some really practical and simple ways to get in touch with your own well of pleasure and also give you some really great questions to ask yourself when you feel like your pleasure cup is empty AF. We all need a good reminder of the simpler things when it comes to our sexuality and how we...
2022-03-1529 minGetting IntimateA full guided practice for you and your lover - Inspired by my 14 Days to hotter intimacy ebookOkay, I am soooo excited about the launch of my new 14 days to hotter intimacy E-book, that I am sharing a connecting practice from the ebook with you here. BUT you know I love you, so I am dropping a FULL guided audio practice for you to tune into. I share all the juicy info about my new eBook and then you'll drop straight into your practice.All you need to do is carve a little time out of your day ( 10 min) and hit play at the guided practice part. This practice is one of my f...
2022-03-0811 minGetting Intimate2 things that contributed to having the best sex ever last weekendYall, you know this podcast is gonna be good because this week, ya girl had the best sex ever! I'm talking like out of this world, into a different dimension, multiorgasmic, blackout sex. Now you might be wondering HOW, and I always like to rewind the process and think on: What actually was it that made the sex this good? I can tell you one thing, it wasn't the technique. In this episode I go over: What type of best kept ( and obvious )secret we need to be harnessing more, what it means to understand your sexual spectrum of t...
2022-03-0120 minGetting IntimateRole play; how do you really get into it?Let's talk about my favorite thing ever: Roleplay! If you are one of those people who think role play is super awkward or maybe you just really want to be inspired and bring a little role play spice into your life... this episode is for you. This isn't just your 101 roleplay episode, I talk about how to actually get super embodied in role play and make it feel really fun and incredible to try. I share how role play can spark that element of surprise in your relationship, how you can shift that whole rejection thing you might get...
2022-02-2230 minGetting IntimateHow I deal with my low libido when my anxiety hits hardOMG yall, when that anxiety hits my libido and desire to be intimate go straight out the window. I mean obviously, I wouldn't expect a different response! The body is prioritizing and just trying to get by during survival mode. In this episode, I share why we shouldn't run from connecting with our partners when we feel anxious even though it's the first thing to go. How can cultivating intimacy that feels good for us support us when we feel dysregulated? What are some things that actually help in getting us back to balance? How can we even figure out...
2022-02-0826 minGetting IntimateWould you take your Pussy on a date?Everyone loves date nights, guess what? So does Pussy! This episode is going to be a little different than all the usual ones. It's time to take a little action and take your Pussy on a date. We know that it can feel really hard to connect with our bodies through all the rush and hurry of the days. I'm going to make it super easy and juicy for you to plan your own version of a date with Pussy. Just click this link Take your Pussy on a date fillable PDF and it will take you right to the...
2022-01-2404 minGetting IntimateWorkshop : How to love your breastsThis was a recording of a juicy workshop I did for all the honey's in my "Getting Intimate" Facebook group. Pull up a chair and pull up your boobs because this workshop is dedicated to THEM. Do you want to cultivate more self-love? Feel more confident? Connect to your source of power? In this workshop, I go over things like : Why is it so hard to love our breasts? How can loving our breasts contribute to better sex? What happens when we aren't connected to our breasts? How are breast and heart connected? How are our power and our bre...
2022-01-1741 min
Power & Pleasure : All Things Women's Health UncensoredGetting Your Libido Back and Keeping Your Sex Life JuicyAzaria Menezes aka The Pussy Fairy is a trauma-informed Sex and Intimacy coach that works with women, moms, and couples to figure out what that thing is that's holding them back in the bedroom. She supports people to find back to feeling turned on, ecstatic and orgasmic in and out of the bedroom. Azaria supports her clients to re-ignite that spark back into their sexuality or relationships so that they have the capacity to fall more in love with themselves and/or each other. She also hosts the podcast: Getting Intimate where she brings practical ways to invite more...
2022-01-1144 minGetting Intimate"Okay, how do I tell my partner exactly how I like it in bed?" How to ask for what you wantThis is for my Pussy owners who are never quite sure how to explain how or what they like in the bedroom. Have you ever struggled with the pressure of how to say exactly what you like or maybe even just abandoned ship and pretended to like something when you damn well know you didn't but you already tried to explain how a few too many times? I hear you, this is something that we have all been through at some point and you're certainly not alone. In this episode, I drop all the tips on how to ask f...
2022-01-1032 min
Clever ConversationsClever Conversations Body Love & Bad Bitch Affirmations with Azaria Menezes S2E1Join me with my guest Azaria Menezes aka The Pussy Fairy, a trauma-informed Sex and Intimacy coach that works with women, moms, and couples to figure out what that thing is that's holding them back in the bedroom. Complete with Bad Bitch Affirmations and a journaling pdf to help get you started...Website : www.azariamenezes.comFREE OPT-IN https://www.azariamenezes.com/your-pussy-is-a-portal-to-healingPODCAST : https://www.azariamenezes.com/servicesInstagram : @azaria.menezes on Instagram https://www.facebook.com/groups/309842676890814 Grab your FREE JOURNALING PDF...
2022-01-0640 minGetting IntimateAn Intimate reflection on new years rituals and our sex life in 2021Damm okay well I guess we are welcoming 2022! I wanted to do an episode that was a little more intimate than I usually do aka. I have a very special guest where we talk about our sex life and intimacy in 2021. I also share some things around new years rituals and if you listen all the way to the end you'll receive a special gift with a link below to start your news year ritual. In this episode we go over questions like: How have we found this year as individuals in our relationship, what has been the be...
2022-01-0332 minGetting IntimateFeeling triggered or activated? Let's regulate togetherFeeling triggered, activated, or feeling like your nervous system is taking you for a ride can be overwhelming. I know personally how scary it can feel to be in this state of activation. The more tools we have to support our nervous systems to find back to balance the better. Tune into this guided support to invite some calm back into your nervous system. Let's regulate together. You're not alone. Remember: if you feel like you can't self regulate always, always reach out to your support systems (friends/family/professionals) xo The Pussy FairyCome find me in...
2021-12-2014 minGetting Intimate"I want deeply connecting sex" 3 non-sexual things to cultivate thisThis is the one I hear the most " I wish I could just feel more deeply connected during sex" because FUCK yes we all want to feel this. I mean sex is good but have you ever had deeply connected, present, totally in your body + pleasure sex? That shit is next level baby. The three things I share with you today have actually very little to do with sex and are non-sexual ways to go deeper in your sex life. We go over things like: What happens when we don't feel connected, what are the things that get in t...
2021-12-1326 minGetting IntimateThe one thing people are forgetting about their sexualityOOOO Okay, so this one is a juicy one. I share the one thing that people easily forget about their sexuality. Have you ever found yourself in the post-honeymoon phase of your relationship, wondering where the hell your sex life went? Or wondering why your connection to your own sexuality is feeling like a distant memory of the past? In this episode, I go over why everything we have learned about our sexuality has contributed to this and how we can shift our experience of sexuality. I also go over how to have that deep, connected, and vibran...
2021-12-0621 minGetting Intimate5 ways you can increase your wetness factor in the bedroomOkay, soo this is a juicy little quicky I took from the Getting Intimate Facebook group because it was too good not to share on here.Have you ever wanted to know what supports your personal wetness factor in the bedroom? Do you ever wonder if there's any way you can increase it? Of course, a woman's wetness factor is going to vary depending on what's happening in her life. Ex. : Breastfeeding, different stages in her cycle, menopause, stress factors etc. but there are ways you can support your personal wetness factor and how you feel about it! ...
2021-11-2916 minGetting IntimateThe one thing you can do to feel alive and connected with your sexualityHave you ever felt like you wanted to maintain that connection to your sexuality + aliveness? You know you see these women just oozing in their sexuality and you're like " Shit, I want that". Well, guess what, I have the damm secret for you. In this episode, we go over the one thing you can do to feel alive and connected with your sexuality always. We go over things like: The reason you're disconnected from your sexuality in the first place, How to actually reconnect with our sexuality in the most simple way, the complicated relationship we can have with...
2021-11-2225 minGetting Intimate"I feel awkward initiating sex with my partner" How to feel more at ease initiating sexOooo Okay I know there are some people out there that this might benefit. If you've ever felt like initiating is awkward, you resist it because maybe you fear getting rejected or you just don't even think about initiating because you don't think about sex this is for you. In this episode, we go over topics like What's the deal with initiating anyways? The expectations we place on our partners when we don't, what the common fears around initiating are, how to make rejection feel less awkward, and how we can tap into feeling more empowered around initiating sex!
2021-11-1527 minGetting IntimateAre you sitting in the passenger seat of your sexuality?Have you ever wondered how you can shift your perception of sex? Ask yourself this: Are you sitting in the driver's seat or the passenger seat of your sexuality? In this quick little episode, I go over what that looks like and how you can shift it. Sometimes we just need those good little reminders in life to get in the driver's seat. Pussy fairy is spilling all the juice, come sip. xo The Pussy FairyCome find me in the Getting intimate Facebook group! Subscribe to my email list for a juicy gift at...
2021-11-0820 minGetting IntimateA quick 10min practice to start your morning feeling juicy and groundedTrick or Treat - Always treat. Happy Halloween, I have a treat for you. Pussy owners! A Juicy morning practice to start your day. This one is best done before you start your morning, still in bed, your eyes barely open and you're still snuggly in your sheets. You can do this practice every morning or just on those days where you just want to start your day feeling grounded,sensual, and juicy. All you need is this 10 min audio, some alone time, and yourself for a happy morning. Enjoy. The Pussy fairy is spilling all th...
2021-11-0111 minGetting IntimateWant to have great sex? Do these thingsYalll, I know you want to have great sex because; same. In this episode, I drop my favourite ways to shift mediocre sex into great sex. Now we know that sex isn't mindblowing all the time, but we can definitely shift into having great sex A LOT of the time. There are a million ways to have great sex, trust me I discover more and more every day but I'm sharing my favourite ones from today ;) Want to know what makes great sex? How to shift from showing up with blah energy to YES energy? What can happen when...
2021-10-2526 minGetting IntimateWhy periods of low libido are an important part of your sexualityHave you ever felt really frustrated by your low libido or quiet phase in your sexual desire? In this episode, I dive into rest and how important this phase is for your sexuality. We go over the seasons of sexuality and what this means when you have low desire. We look at what rest even has to do with pleasure and how one can truly honour the season of not feeling aroused. Rest is a powerful tool you can use to heal your sexuality and I share how you can utilize this tool in a way that supports your peak...
2021-10-1826 minGetting IntimateWait so you can have less sex and feel more aroused and turned on?Did you ever think that having less sex could increase your connection and intimacy even more? In this episode, I go over Ry and I's 3-week sex detox and how setting an intentional break from sex with the intention of doubling down on the intimacy + connection actually lead to multiorgasmic sex. I also share why not having sex can do wonders for your communication, what the difference is between not having sex and intentionally not having sex is, what actually happens when you give your sex life and your sexuality room to breathe, what it means to let your...
2021-10-1131 minGetting IntimateAll things Safer Sex, HSV + Safe Sluts with Tricia WiseOhhh haaaaaaay we are back and feeling Sluttier + Safer than ever. In this episode, The Pussy Fairy gets to sit down with Safe Slut and chat about sooooo many important + empowering things. This episode is filled with sex positivity and we go over topics like What it means to be a safe slut, the shame around STI's, Genital Herpes and Tricia's story, Navigating conversations around disclosing and rejection, and what it means to deeply find pleasure in being a Safe slut. If you don't want to miss you on ALL the tea that is spilled in this episode yo...
2021-09-2724 minGetting IntimateHow to eat and worship pussy like a boss (listen to this with your partner if you have one)Oooo This episode is dedicated to ALL my pussy owners. Grab a partner, grab a friend, grab anyone who plans on eating pussy for this one because it's about to get WET. In this episode, I share my passion for eating + worshipping pussy and answer all the questions like : Why can it sometimes feel really hard to relax during oral, what the first thing is you might have to relearn when it comes to pussy worship, what type of environment does pussy worship need. We don't just get into the concept of Pussy worship and eating, we get down to...
2021-09-1335 minGetting IntimateHow to give the most pleasurable blowjob and practice cock worshipWant to know what it takes to give an incredible mind-blowing blowjob? Have you ever wondered how you can make a blowjob something for YOU as the giver? The Pussy Fairy is here to preach cock worship, so come join in on the fun! What are some things that you have to consider before giving a blowjob? What if you have a really bad gag reflex and how can you improve it? How the fuck do I "worship" a cock? What are some incredibly healing things for a penis owner to hear during a blowjob? Wondering about techniques? Don't...
2021-09-0642 min
Interstates & Heartbreak64: Porn: The Good, the Bad, and the FuglyJoin me and Azaria Menezes for a discussion about porn that won't leave you wanting to immediately clear your search history. We discuss the evolution of our relationship with porn, from our first encounters to the role it's played in shaping our sexuality to-date. Topics range from OnlyFans' empowerment of its creators, to porn's impact on labiaplasties and anal bleaching. To get more intimate with Azaria : azariamenezes.com And to hear more of Azaria's juicy takes on sex : Getting Intimate on Apple Podcasts To make things Instagram official : @interstatesandheartbreak For dating commentary from my inner Carrie : interstatesandheartbreak.com For any...
2021-09-0552 min
Beautifully Unbalanced (Formerly Thym 4 Tea with Mikita)Reclaim Your Sexy with Sex and Relationship Coach Azaria MenezesSex can be a touché subject for couples. Not knowing how to express your sexual needs to your partner can lead to frustration. In this episode we explore how you can approach the subject with your partner. Join me and my special guest Sex and Relationship Coach Azaria Menezes as we talk about intimacy vs intimate. Learn how parenthood is a great time to be creative and explore new ideas in the bedroom. We also dive into ways you can build a healthy relationship with open communication. Sex is great and in this day and age its every where fro...
2021-08-3043 minGetting IntimateSexuality, sensuality and how to tap into bothThe Pussy Fairy is back with some magic, this week we get into questions like What's the difference between sexuality and sensuality? How to even tap into both? What if there are emotional blocks, trauma, or things in the way of tapping into that energy? What are the common myths around sensuality + sexuality? How can you use sexuality and sensuality out of the bedroom to benefit your life? I also share some practical and easy ways on how you can feel into your sexual energy and ways to check yo self when you have lost that spark and connection to you...
2021-08-3033 min
FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity or BetrayalSex, Pleasure, and Intimacy After Infidelity & Betrayal – with Azaria MenezesSex, pleasure, and intimacy don’t have to be hard. Even post-betrayal it is possible to feel connected, turned on, and radiant. Whether you are struggling with hysterical bonding, revenge cheating, a desire to move on, or feel like you never want to be intimate with anyone ever again, this episode will help. No matter what you are going
through or what is holding you back, sexual energy and expression is profoundly healing and deeply pleasurable.
Top take-a-ways:
What self-love really means, and how to keep showing up for the parts of you that yo...
2021-08-2952 minGetting IntimateHow to get creative in the bedroomWhen was the last time you spiced things up? Okay but first what does getting creative in the bedroom even mean? Sometimes we also just need a good old reminder to spice things up, leave it to The Pussy Fairy to put a sweet little creative fire under your ass. In this episode I cover things like: What does it even mean to be creative in the bedroom? Why do sex and creativity go hand in hand? What is the thing that holds us back from being creative? How can we break out of our routines and GET cr...
2021-08-2226 minGetting IntimateLet's talk healing from betrayal through burlesque with Lora CheadleOkay I've been mega excited about this, because if you're wondering what burlesque has to do with healing infidelity you're in for a big awakening. I sat down with Lora Cheadle a former lawyer who now works with empowering women after betrayal. In this episode you'll hear how Lora helps her clients to shift devastation into a reclamation of their Naked Self-Worth® so they can find their sparkle, create a life they love, and live every day with enthusiasm and joy. Lora Cheadle a former attorney, bestselling author, international speaker, and Life Choreographer® .She...
2021-08-1551 minGetting IntimateWhy it's important to prioritize working on your sexuality + relationshipsOkay have you ever thought to yourself; " Sexuality work is amazing and relationship work is cool but its not super high on my priority list". Well, let me blow your mind and share with you why it should be on the TOP of your priority list. I share all the incredible ways of how you can do the work in really small ways and big ways that have an impact on your whole life. You also get an intimate sneak peak of what it looks like in a coaching container and learn about some of the strange things yo...
2021-08-0825 minGetting IntimateHow to orgasm your way to everything you wantOoo this episode gets super juicy, I share all the things you need to know to learn orgasmic manifestation and sex magic. Are you getting super bored of writing your goals and desires down and just want to find a really incredible way to switch things up and make your dreams and desire come true ? Ya girl the Pussy Fairy spills the tea in this, I share what it was like to do sex magic this week with Ry and the one time I did it with 25,000$. I'll share how you can actually create a new empowering story aro...
2021-08-0138 minGetting IntimateHow to get your mojo back and feel excited about your sex lifeOMG I cant wait for you to listen to this one. This episode is one that you can listen to over and over again for those times when you're just feeling stuck and in an uninspired place with your libido + sex drive. I go over how you can actually increase turn on in your life and what things might actually be stopping you from being turned on. You'll learn what it means to fully embody your desires around your sex life and how you can invite more pleasure into your body. I'll also go over what it actu...
2021-07-2425 minGetting IntimateLet's talk conception, TCM and intimacy with Dr. Denise WiesnerHave you ever wondered how traditional Chinese medicine can support fertility and conception? Maybe you're just starting your conception or fertility journey and you want some easy and practical ways to invite more intimacy and knowledge into baby making. I had the wonderful opportunity to sit down with Dr. Denise Wiesner DACM, L. Ac., founder of the Natural Healing and Acupuncture Clinic in West Los Angeles to chat about all the ways we can support our bodies and sex life during conception + the fertility journey. Dr. Denise Wiesner is an internationally recognized traditional Chinese medicine practitioner, specializing in...
2021-07-1833 minGetting IntimateI had a crush this week and it wasn't my husbandHave you ever feel attracted to other people whilst in a relationship? In this episode I talk about my personal story of how I deal with feeling attracted to other people and drop some tips on what you can do to navigate attraction in your relationship. What does it mean to be attracted to someone else? How can you actually use the attraction to other people to strengthen your communication + trust in your own relationship? What are some steps you can take when you're attracted to someone and what can happen if you just keep it a secret...
2021-07-1127 minGetting Intimate3 Easy ways to practice Pussy self loveSociety shows us all the ways that disconnect us from our Pussy's and with all the crazy messaging around it can sometimes feel hard to know how to actually practice Pussy self love and learn to really tune into her wisdom. In this episode I break down what this could look like for you and share 3 super easy ways to invite some Pussy self care into your life. I also go over why the media and society want to police how we feel about our Pussy's , what it means to connect to your power and your Pussy and how...
2021-07-0427 minGetting Intimate3 Easy ways to practice Pussy self loveSociety shows us all the ways that disconnect us from our Pussy's and with all the crazy messaging around it can sometimes feel hard to know how to actually practice Pussy self love and learn to really tune into her wisdom. In this episode I break down what this could look like for you and share 3 super easy ways to invite some Pussy self care into your life. I also go over why the media and society want to police how we feel about our Pussy's , what it means to connect to your power and your Pussy and how you...
2021-07-0427 minGetting IntimateA Pussy connecting, guided practice Do you want a really delicious quick 15 min way to connect with your Pussy and fill your body up with aliveness and sexual radiance? Listen to this guided practice I created just for you. This is fabulous for early morning wake-ups and just before bed to give you that boost you need to feel connected to your pussy and your sexual energy. If you want to have something deeply nourishing and easy to follow along you'll absolutely love this. Pussy will love it too! If you loved this episode show me some love + support by ratin...
2021-06-2715 minGetting IntimateIs your inner control freak running your relationship?Control, control, control . In our society this can sometimes feel like a pretty big and heavy word. What if we had the opportunity to look at control in a new way and find ways to feel less of a struggle with it in our relationships. If you struggle with control, this episode might be so insightful to the way you view your relationship and how you show up to it. This episode really brings to light how control can manifest in the relationship, what the reasons might be and what you can do about it. I share some ways my inn...
2021-06-1927 minGetting Intimate4 Major ways to keep the spark alive in your relationshipHave you ever wondered what really keeps the spark alive? Is it sex toys and sex parties? Nope, in this episode I go over some really important things to consider when it comes to keeping the spark alive in your relationship. It can be really tricky to pinpoint how you can do this even with lots of practical advice out there. Sometimes it's the things we don't even think about that keep the spark alive in a relationship. If you're curious, tune in! If you loved this episode show me some love + support by rating this podc...
2021-06-1324 minGetting IntimateGet your strap on! Strap on play in the bedroomThe strap on is one of my favourite sex toys in the bedroom because there is so much to you can do with it. In this episode I talk about : Who a strap on is for, What you can do with it, How to get used to your strap on, The different types of strap ons and , What to look for when you're shopping for your favourite strap on. Strap on play can really bring in a fun new element into the bedroom for everyone. Get your strap on and pull up a chair because this episode has all...
2021-06-0524 minGetting IntimateHow to go about exploring prostate playSo you're curious about prostate play ? Let me tell you there are so many magical and mind blowing sensations that come with prostate play, some might even argue that prostate orgasms are more intense than ejaculatory orgasms. In this episode we talk about the basics of a prostate, the stigmas that can hold cis hereto males from exploring it and how to navigate conversations around exploring this together. I highly recommend listening to this together if you are in a relationship with someone who has a prostate and hasn't explored it yet! There is soo much to learn ab...
2021-05-3136 minGetting IntimateThe best kept secret about your libidoHave you ever wondered why you might not be feeling desire at the same time as your partner? Or why sometimes your desire for sex isn't constant? In this episode I talk about how the seasons of your turn on and sexual desire work and what you can do to support the fluctuations of desire. If you want to unlock the ways to looking at desire, this episode is for you! Feel free to give this podcast 5 stars if you loved this episode. Subscribe to my email list for a juicy gift at www.azariamenezes.com or com...
2021-05-2219 minGetting IntimateWays you might be avoiding intimacy and how to increase closenessIntimacy doesn't mean just sex, It can mean so many other things! in this episode we look at different intimacy types, what you can do do figure out if you actually avoid intimacy in your relationship, the reasons you might be doing this and ways to reconnect to your partner again. We look at what intimacy actually means and what the quality's and elements are of good intimacy. This episode also contains some personal stories of the days I used to have a masters degree in avoiding intimacy and how I actually overcame this to have incredible, deep a...
2021-05-1539 minGetting IntimateHave you ever cried during or after sex?Emotions in the bedroom are a big topic and I go over all the possible reasons why you might be shedding some tears in the bedroom during consensual sex. We go over all the reasons from one end of the spectrum to the other. You can learn how to ask for what you need when it does happen and how to understand the reasons your body does this. I share some personal stories of when it happens to me and how to navigate this if it comes from trauma or past sexual abuse. Most importantly, I share...
2021-05-0842 minGetting IntimateSo, you're ready to explore analSo you want to try anal ? Do I ever have the deets in this episode. I go over things like consent, communication, boundaries , safety and trust. What to try first, what you need to prep, the stigmas around anal sex and what the deal is with poop. I share some things that I personally love about anal and some things I don't. We will go over all the do's and don'ts and the sexy details of how and what. Tune in, kick back and let's get intimate. Feel free to give this podcast 5 stars if you loved this e...
2021-05-0144 minGetting IntimateHow to hack your sex life with your 5 sensesWho wants some sex hacks for the bedroom? I share some hacks you can use in the bedroom with your senses and how to tap into each of the five senses to enrich your sex life, my favourite sex snacks, how you can take some of the senses away to bring an element of surprise and how you can truly get primal with sound + taste. Feel free to give this podcast 5 stars if you loved this episode. Subscribe to my email list for a juicy gift at www.azariamenezes.com or come find me on instagram @azaria...
2021-04-2440 minGetting IntimateQuestions you've always wanted to ask a Dominatrix : Getting Intimate with Domina ElataWhat are a Dominatrix's favourite things to do? What does a day in the life look like? What are some super common things people love coming for ? Sooo many questions and sooo many answers in this episode with Dominatrix : Domina Elata Have you ever wondered what it's like to be a professional Dominatrix? Domina Elata is a sadistically, sassy Queer, with a heavy hand who has been working in sacred erotic space for 7+ years. A pleasure activist and embodiment facilitator, she is fulfilled in creating brave spaces for people to be vulnerable, define or push their limits, il...
2021-04-1851 minGetting IntimateHow you can use the principles of BDSM for dating with Kari Lu CowellGetting intimate with Kari Lu Cowell on how to use BDSM principles to rock your dating life. We talk about : Consent+ communication How BDSM actually applies to datingWhat types of things you can do to bring in more authentic relating in your dating life How to have way more fun on dates and how to complete a date in the best way ever ! Kari Lu Cowell is a Dating Coach for Nerds. She helps people feel authentically comfortable and confident with dating so they can find the relationships of their dreams. She wor...
2021-04-1046 min
Honeydew MeHave Fun Giving Blowjobs with Azaria MenezesPSA: Blow jobs can be pleasurable for EVERYONE involved. Yep, you read that right, even the giver. WHO FRICKIN KNEW?! Lucky for us, sex and relationship coach Azaria Menezes is here to give us all a rundown on how to give a killer blow job and perhaps more importantly, how to enjoy doing it. We cover logistics (i.e. what to do when you're down there), how to add some spice, and SO MUCH MORE. Tune in for an episode that could just change you life (no promises, but like maybe!) We also talk about: BALLS How to feel i...
2021-04-071h 05Getting IntimateHow to love dirty talk in the bedroomDirty talk. Sure it can be amazing and for those of you who really want to learn how to feel good dirty talking do I ever have some tips for you! We explore what dirty talk means , how you can access the best type of inspiration to it and some different ways you can make dirty talking super easy and accessible to you.Subscribe to my email list for a juicy gift at www.azariamenezes.com or come find me on instagram @azaria.menezes and say Hi.I'd love to hear your questions so I can ans...
2021-04-0324 minGetting IntimateSelf Pleasure and RitualWe go into the practical ways of how you can invite ritual into your self pleasure practice. What beliefs or conditioning you may have around self pleasure and how you can invite intention to your self pleasure routine so that you can "cum" out on the other side feeling nourished, radiant and glowing! Subscribe to my email list for a juicy gift at www.azariamenezes.com or come find me on instagram @azaria.menezes and say Hi.I'd love to hear your questions so I can answer them on future episodes!
2021-03-2627 minGetting IntimateHow to explore your sexuality in a monogamous relationshipIs it even possible to explore your sexuality in a monogamous relationship? Yes you totally can, in this episode I talk about how you can do this and how you can create space in your relationship for ALL of you and that this doesn't have to be the end all to your relationship if you don't want it to be. Subscribe to my email list for a juicy gift at www.azariamenezes.com or come find me on instagram @azaria.menezes and say Hi.I'd love to hear your questions so I can answer them on fu...
2021-03-2026 min
Getting IntimateThe Clitoris, The Orgasm Gap and The MoviesWhere is female focused pleasure in the media? What is an orgasm gap and why did I climax more when I had sex with women? Just some of the juicy topics I go over in this episode.I also go over things like what it takes as a society to bring more pleasure in the bedroom and what you can do as a pussy owner to increase that pleasure education factor in your life as well. Subscribe to my email list for a juicy gift at www.azariamenezes.com or come find me on instagram @aza...
2021-03-0429 minGetting IntimateA chat with a Pelvic Floor Physical Therapist : Melissa DessaullesHave you ever gone to see a Pelvic floor Physical therapist? What are some things to consider before you go? Maybe you're even wondering what the hell they even do; well tune in to this episode to find out!You can find Melissa at https://mommyberries.com/ where she offers programs to support your pelvic floor through pregnancy,birth, and postpartum and on Instagram @mommyberrieshealthIf you want to create deeper intimacy NOW, go grab the 14 days to hotter intimacy E-bookCome find me in the Getting intimate Facebook group! Subscribe to my...
2021-02-2034 min
Getting IntimateBad Bitch Pleasure AffirmationsThese affirmations are here for you when you need them. Get comfortable, close your eyes and listen to these empowering affirmations for your sex life. Take the affirmations that really land with you and use them in your daily life! Subscribe to my email list for a juicy freebie at www.azariamenezes.com or come find me on instagram @azaria.menezes and say Hi. Send me your questions so I can answer them on future episodes!
2021-01-2011 min
Getting IntimateImprove your relationships and sex life with listeningWe uncover : 1. What is listening and how does it apply to communicating?2.What does it mean to show up in a conversation?3. How listening can change in relationships4. What are some ways listening can improve your sex life?5.What can happen if you're not a good listener in the bedroom?6. How can you improve your listening skills As always, try it on for size, take what you need and leave the rest. Subscribe to my email list for a juicy freebie at www.azariamenezes.com...
2021-01-0727 minGetting IntimateThings Pussy loves : Foreplay and 40 minHow can you make foreplay a practice in your life ? What's the deal with 40 min ? I talk about foreplay and how you can use this pleasure hack to spark some arousal hours before lovemaking. As always, try it on for size, take what you need and leave the rest. Subscribe to my email list for juicy monthly newsletters at www.azariamenezes.com or come find me on instagram @azaria.menezes and say Hi.I'd love to hear your questions so I can answer them on future episodes!
2020-11-2615 min
Getting IntimateSex and mismatched libidosTune in to explore how common it is to have a mismatched libido, what it looks like to not only support yourself in this time but what you can do to support your partner as well. In this episode I cover things like "What's the normal amount of sex we should be having ?" , " How do I communicate with my partner about my sexual needs ?" , "What can I do when im not feeling turned on?". We will look at what it means to look at your sexuality from a different lens and how this can help you surf through th...
2020-10-1029 minGetting IntimateSay YES to pleasure!
Yasss! In this episode, we look at how a simple tool like saying YES can help you invite more pleasure into your life. How could you be blocking pleasure ? How can you say YES to pleasure in the bedroom ? What happens when you say YES ? Of course we all want to cultivate more pleasure in the bedroom and today we explore a way to do this! Try it on for size and let me know how you said YES to pleasure in your life.
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2020-09-1813 minGetting IntimateGetting Intimate with Azaria Menezes aka The Pussy FairyHi, its Azaria aka The Pussy Fairy, I am a sex, intimacy and relationship coach that is about to blow your mind with all the ways you can invite pleasure and more connection into your life! Tune into the trailer and see for yourself! xo If you want to create deeper intimacy NOW, go grab the 14 days to hotter intimacy E-bookCome find me in the Getting intimate Facebook group! Subscribe to my email list for a juicy gift at https://www.azariamenezes.com/your-pussy-is-a-portal-to-healing or come find me on Instagram @azaria.menezes and say...
2020-08-1602 min