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Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 209: Divorce Mortgage Planning Demystified with Jody BrunsIn this insightful episode of Divorce Conversations for Women, Rhonda Noordyk welcomes mortgage expert and CDLP® trailblazer Jody Bruns for a heartfelt and eye-opening conversation about a critical—but often overlooked—component of divorce: mortgage planning. Together, they unpack the unique financial, legal, and emotional challenges women face when trying to keep, refinance, or buy a home during divorce. Jody shares cautionary tales, real-life case studies, and empowering advice designed to help women avoid common missteps and build a more stable financial future. This episode is more than just numbers—it's about protecting your future, underst...2025-05-2338 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 208: Breaking Free from Coercive Control and Financial Abuse with Dr. Lisa FoxIn this transformative episode, Rhonda Noordyk sits down with Dr. Lisa Fox to explore the complex realities women face in the midst of divorce, especially when coercive control, abuse, and financial manipulation are involved. Drawing from her personal journey as a trauma coach and surgeon—and her experience navigating a high-conflict divorce—Dr. Fox shares candid insights and practical strategies for women to reclaim their power, protect themselves, and advocate for their rights. Together, Rhonda and Dr. Fox dive into the emotional, legal, and financial dynamics of leaving a toxic relationship while prioritizing safety and self...2025-05-0936 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode #207: Breaking the Trauma Bond with Lisa HappIn this powerful and deeply insightful episode of Breaking the Trauma Bond with Lisa Happ , Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, sits down with divorce coach and survivor Lisa Happ to unpack the layered realities of high-conflict divorce—especially when narcissistic abuse, coercive control, and parental alienation are in play. Together, they offer transformational strategies for women navigating these emotionally charged separations, empowering them to recognize abuse, reclaim their voice, and create a safe, healing home environment for themselves and their children. Whether you're in the midst of a difficult divorce or supporting someone who is, this episode she...2025-05-0228 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode #204: Embracing Divorce as a Catalyst for Growth with Karen McNennyIn this episode, Rhonda Noordyk welcomes Karen, known as the "Good Divorce Coach," to discuss how divorce can be a transformative process rather than a destructive one. Together, they explore essential strategies for navigating divorce with emotional regulation, communication, and self-care. Key Takeaways: Divorce as a Transformation Tool: How shifting your mindset can turn divorce into an opportunity for personal growth. Parenting Through Divorce: Effective communication strategies, maintaining a unified front, and preparing children for the transition. Navigating Life as a Single Person: The importance of self-care, rediscovering personal joy, and embracing the "Devorgasmic stage." Co-Parenting...2025-02-2829 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 161: How to navigate being a woman of faith contemplating divorce.Rhonda sits down with author and podcast host, Natalie Hoffman for an fascinating conversation about being a woman of faith facing divorce. They tackle some tough questions, but you’ll leave feeling empowered and encouraged. If you find yourself feeling confused about your marriage and contemplating divorce - pull up a chair and listen in! What are some common beliefs women of faith have that hold them back from making a divorce decision? How can they work to reframe those beliefs in a way that enables them to maintain the...2023-05-1243 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 160: What makes a good divorce?Divorce is never easy, but what if you could take steps to help your kids navigate the process? Rhonda's guest today is Sarah Armstrong, author of The Mom’s Guide to a Good Divorce. They discuss ways to make things easier, especially if you’ve got kids. Pay attention to small changes that the children will be affected by - kids are observant! Take the high road - easier said than done, but worth it. Set a goal to never pack a bag. Set the intenti...2023-05-0531 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 159: What if you choose joy?Rhonda’s guest today is Life Mastery Coach, Donna Tashjian. They discuss ways to move past the pain of divorce to a place of peace and empowerment. We know you will be inspired and encouraged! They cover: Choose joy - joy is not happiness You can find healing through trauma - forgiveness is not an emotion Look for the gifts - gratitude can change everything About today’s guest: Donna Tashjian is the founder of Vibrant Living International, a non-profit organization. She is a Life Mastery Coach, an ord...2023-04-2821 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 158: Is keeping the house worth it?Don’t miss this episode if you’re contemplating keeping your house in your divorce. Join Rhonda and Jeff Landers for this in depth conversation on keeping the house - is it a good idea? What factors should you consider? Learn what the 6-36 rule is and how it plays a pivotal part in planning for your future. Gather all of the information. Evaluate your particular situation (things are not black and white!). Get to a place where you can move forward. Do not fall for a false sense of financial secur...2023-04-1334 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 157: Coercive Control: How to Find the Answers You SeekRhonda and Clinical Therapist, Jennifer Parker discuss a topic we’ve been addressing a lot recently: Coercive Control. Today’s episode covers: Ways to recognize you are being controlled How to get the help and support you need Why isolation is your worst enemy Grab a copy of Jennifer’s book: Coercive Relationships: Find the Answers you Seek About today’s guest: Jennifer Parker obtained her Masters degree in Social Work at Wisconsin-Madison.She has over 35 years of mental health therapy experience and specials in intima...2023-04-0725 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 156: 5 Ways to Get the Most from your Budget Budgeting. No one wants to talk about it, but it's essential - especially if you're contemplating divorce. Rhonda sits down with Chuck Howard, Assistant Professor at Texas A&M University to discuss the importance of creating a budget and then establishing a routine to continuously track and re-evaluate it. Listen in as Chuck gives us 5 easy steps to move to successful budgeting: Set your budget - look at what’s coming in and going out of your bank account. Set aside time to track your spending against the budget....2023-03-2430 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 155: 4 Ways to Get Narcissists to Do What You WantRhonda sits down with Dr. Melissa Kalt to discuss practical things to implement when dealing with a narcissist: Examine your motives Be aware of the narcissist’s behavior patterns Give narcissistic supply for the purpose of negotiating Extracting the trauma They delve into each of these steps in a way that will make you feel empowered and encouraged. You won’t want to miss a minute of this one - get ready to take notes! About today’s guest: Dr Melissa, a Trauma Expert and Master...2023-03-1744 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 153: A Special Series: A False Sense of... Financial SecurityDid you know that according to a Forbes article nearly half of the women surveyed said they had “financial surprises” during the divorce? Say what?! Here is a short list of the things I have seen with my clients (changing life insurance beneficiaries, setting up separate business entities, establishing private bank accounts, transferring money to another family member, taking loans from 401ks and more!). Furthermore, here are a few comments women may hear from their spouse in hopes to keep things “amicable”. You will be well taken care of. You don’t need to ha...2023-02-2213 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 152: What Do You Do When You’re Feeling Lost In A Broken System?Rhonda sits down with Trauma-Informed Coach and author, Houa Utech to discuss covert narcissism and what it’s like to move through the divorce process when you feel like you have no control. They discuss: What can you do to build your team? Ways the court system is broken. How to end up with what you deserve. Tips to deal with the trauma you carry. And be sure to check out Houa’s Book: The Unseen Wounds of Women About to...2023-02-1138 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 151: What's going on with YOUR divorce strategy?Recently, Rhonda sat down with Divorce Mortgage Planner, Tami Wollensak, on her YouTube video series, Peaceful Divide. We are pleased to be able to share that conversation with you here! Tami and Rhonda discuss strategy, finding the right team, and moving the needle to enable women to walk away empowered. Have you ever wondered how Rhonda approaches her strategy? Listen in! About our Guests today: Tami Wollensak is a Senior Mortgage Loan Originator and a Certified Divorce Lending Professional NMLS 1963450 at Oak Leaf Commu...2022-12-0957 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 150: Amazing ways to prioritize travel...even if you're single again!If you’re contemplating divorce, or in the middle of the process, you may not see what your life can look like moving forward. Our guest, Laura Ericson believes in new beginnings! Laura and Rhonda talk about how you can prioritize travel - even if it’s just a weekend away. Taking time for yourself can be an important part of the healing process. About today’s guest: Laura Ericson is a travel expert and guide - ready to help you plan your next trip. Although La...2022-11-1823 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 149: How you can work through your emotions to find your Authentic SelfAre you contemplating divorce? Do you feel unsettled and can’t quite answer the question, “What do I really want?” Today’s episode is a special one. Rhonda is joined by Certified Energy & Performance Coach, Nicole Isler as they honor and remember a mutual client who lived out her next best move to the fullest. You’ll be encouraged and inspired as you hear the story of how she worked through her emotions and found her true, authentic self. Our hope is that as you listen, you’ll realize that you can be just as e...2022-11-1150 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 148: Discover ways to become your own best advocate“Don’t be afraid to be your own advocate.” Attorney Brian Blitz and Rhonda have an eye opening conversation about the divorce process, how it affects women, and ways to get the support you need. Spoiler: it takes a team; one that will provide the strategy you need to come out ahead. About today’s guest: Brian says: You do better for people when you do better with people. That’s not only my approach to matrimonial law, it’s my approach to life. Working with clients thr...2022-11-0429 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 147: How to have tough conversations with AJ GrossmanRhonda’s guest today is AJ Grossman, owner of Leap Frog Divorce. AJ is a master at navigating tough conversations in divorce. How do you respond? Is a response required? How to engage in a difficult conversation with a learning mindset. Establishing good boundaries Neutralize the emotion Determine how to protect yourself if a civil conversation isn't possible. Breathe! You’ll be ok WEBSITE LinkedIN Facebook YouTube About today’s guest: A.J. Grossman graduated from San Jose State University with a degree in business adm...2022-10-2129 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 146: Divorce Is An Never Ending Learning CurveRhonda’s guest today is Paulette Rigo from Better Divorce Academy. If you are contemplating divorce or in the midst of going through it, it’s important to stay educated! Finding the right experts to walk with you in the process is instrumental to the success of the outcome. About today’s guest: As a Credentialed Mediator, Certified Divorce Coach and Director of Divorce Coaching and Management for Divorce Operations for Divorce Right Inc. Paulette Rigo specializes in mediating and coaching clients through high conflict, domestic violence, parental alienation, estrange...2022-10-1444 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 145: Managing Your Money Isn’t As Hard As You ThinkBritt Baker, Dow Janes co-founder and money mindset coach, sits down with Rhonda to delve into the mindset of money. Who do you want to be with your money? How do you go about rewriting your story? If you’re feeling discouraged, you aren’t alone - and this episode will give you the tools you need to make some real changes. Learn what a weekly money ritual is and how it’s actually self-care! Check out Britt’s free resource: https://try.dowjanes.com/ritual/ About toda...2022-10-0726 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 144: Live Free and Safe with Lisa Fontes, PhDToday’s episode tackles the difficult subject of Coercive Control and the various ways your spouse could be controlling you. Rhonda and Lisa discuss some trends and offer suggestions on how to set boundaries and fight back. About today’s guest: Lisa Fontes, PhD, is an internationally known expert on child abuse, intimate partner abuse, and sexual violence. As a researcher, activist, expert witness, and author, she works to protect the most vulnerable people from violence. She has written many journal articles and the books: Invisible Chains...2022-07-0129 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 143: Knowledge is Power with Forensic Accountant Tracy CoenenHave you ever felt like something is “off” in regard to your spouse and your finances? The warning sides of fraud could be right in front of you. Tracy and Rhonda discuss the red flags to look out for and how to trust your gut. Be sure to connect with Tracy and access her Divorce Money Guide! About today’s guest: Tracy Coenen is a Forensic Accountant with Sequence Inc. Forensic Accounting Tracy has been investigating fraud for more than 25 years, but she didn’t always want to be a fore...2022-06-2428 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 142: Get Curious & Ask the Right Questions with Investigator Philip SegalRhonda sits down with Philip Segal to discuss the role of an investigator as you go through the divorce process. Learn how to ask the right questions, surround yourself with the right people and uncover things that can help you at settlement time. You may know more than you think you know! About today’s guest: Philip Segal is a Managing Member with Charles Griffin Intelligence. Philip has been a lawyer and investigator since 2007. Prior to that, he was a journalist for 19 years in five countries with a specialization in finance. His m...2022-06-1735 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 141: Reprogramming Your MindRhonda sits down with Christian speaker and author, Laura Sandretti to discuss all the ways women stay stuck in guilt and shame by the way they talk to themselves. It is possible to reprogram your mind to break free from what is holding you back. Pay attention to how you talk to yourself and work to change the conversation going on in your own head. Most importantly, give yourself grace. About today’s guest: Laura Sandretti has been a Christian speaker, blogger, and author for over ten years. She has her master...2022-05-2027 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 140: Land the Job you Want with Nikki RybergAre you re-entering the job market - or wanting to uplevel your current position? Rhonda and Career Coach Nikki Ryberg talk about ways to maximize this current climate. Nikki offers suggestions on ways to get creative as you transition, and shares her advice on how to land the job you really want. Be sure to check out Nikki’s website below to access her free course. About today’s guest: After 15+ years in HR leadership roles, Nikki Ryberg transitioned to become a Career Coach and Resume Writer. Nikki helps clients all over...2022-05-1333 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 139: Balance IS possible with Cheree SauerRhonda and Cheree talk openly about life as a busy Mom - whether you’re running your own business, or just managing your household, you CAN find balance. The key is to shift your perspective, know yourself, and take some time to think about what you value most. If you’re feeling stressed and overwhelmed, (and who isn’t these days?) this episode will offer practical tips to make some changes. About today’s guest: Cheree Sauer is a Life and Mindset Coach for Momprenreneurs and has her own podcast, The Balanced Mo...2022-05-0734 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 138: Military Divorce with Attorney Robert TaylorToday’s conversation is a first for us! Rhonda and Attorney Robert Taylor sit down to discuss what divorce looks like if you or your spouse serves in the military. Finding an attorney who specializes in this area is key as you navigate the rules and regulations of being a military couple. They tackle the topics: Where should you get divorced? Housing and retirement Benefits If you are in the military or married to someone who is, and contemplating divorce, this is a must listen episode! About today’s guest:2022-04-2932 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 137: Coercive Control with Christine CocchiolaRhonda’s guest today is Christine Cocchiola, Coercive Control Advocate, Educator, Researcher, & Survivor. Rhonda and Christine tackle the difficult topic of Coercive Control - what it is, and how it affects you and your children. There are many forms of abuse, including in your finances. Christine offers practical tactics and strategies to keep you safe and supported. About today’s guest: Christine Cocchiola is a college educator and clinician in social work. She is an advocate for protective parents leaving an abusive relationship and/or trying to parent ch...2022-03-2533 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 136: Contemplating Mediation? What you need to know.Are you wondering if mediation is right for you? Rhonda and Alison discuss the questions to ask yourself, your spouse, and your potential mediator before moving forward. Mediation can be a great option but it’s important to know how the process works to know if it’s right for you and your family. About today’s guest: Family means everything to Alison, which is why she has dedicated herself to peacemaking in divorce and helping families restructure in the most amicable way possible. 2022-03-1834 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 135: Addiction is a Family DiseaseRhonda sits down with Family Recovery Coach Lisa Smith to discuss how addiction affects the entire family. Lisa offers some practical ways to establish your own personal values and set healthy boundaries. Start by asking yourself, “What do I need right now?” About today’s guest: Lisa Smith is a Certified Family Recovery Coach & Educator. She has lived experience with addiction in her own family and went in search for answers and a better way to connect, move forward and have influence when the resources being given to her were not working. Lisa holds certifications in peer r...2022-03-1126 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 134: Rebuilding your Sense of SelfMarriage and family therapist Gilza Fort Martinez talks with Rhonda about leaning into the uncertainty of separation and divorce. They address how to ground your emotions and begin to dream of possibilities for yourself. Divorce can be an opportunity to rebuild your life when you have the right people by your side. About today’s guest: Gilza Fort Martinez is a licensed marriage and family therapist in Miami, Florida. She has worked with women in their families through various life‘s transitions, and has helped women after betrayal to re-create their sense...2022-03-0535 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 132: Divorce Over 50Rhonda and Attorney Tina Roddenbery discuss the new trend of “gray divorce” and how divorcing later in life presents unique challenges. They look at 5 key areas to consider as you move through the process. If this is you, listen in and take notes! About today’s guest: Tina has focused her practice on all aspects of family and domestic relations law, including divorce, division of assets, custody, alimony, child support, support modification, legitimation, paternity, and contempt since 1987. She has held many leadership positions in the legal profession, including serving as a fel...2022-02-1830 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 131: Life After DivorceJoin Rhonda as she talks with Divorce Coach, Twyla Marks about moving forward after divorce. They discuss 3 key things to help you find confidence, contentment, and joy after the dust settles. About today’s guest: Twyla M.Marks is a woman of God who exemplifies the life of an overcomer. She's a Texas native, sports lover, specifically speaking, a Dallas Cowboys lover, and has worked in the healthcare industry for 20+ years. She's a single mother of two adult children. Her daughter is a college graduate of the University of North Texas and h...2022-02-1119 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 130: Finding Love AgainYou may not be ready for this just yet, but it’s something to consider! Rhonda talks with Dr. Holly Battey about finding the right partner. Learn how to be in touch with your mind, heart and gut when making life decisions and entering new relationships. Be sure to listen to the very end for Dr. Holly’s special offer! About today’s guest: Dr. Holly Battey Dr. Holly helps conscious single men and women find the love of their dreams. With a doctorate in clinical...2022-02-0421 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 129: The Importance of Estate PlanningDo you have a plan? Rhonda talks with Attorney Ashley Lillesand about the importance of establishing an estate plan - especially if you have minor children. Choosing the right people to handle your affairs is an empowering process and will bring you peace of mind post-divorce. It’s easier than you think! About our guest: Attorney Ashley E. Lillesand is the managing partner at Lillesand Law LLC. She focuses her practice on Estate Planning, Estate & Trust Administration, Guardianship and Probate. Prior to attending law school, Ashley worked for a non-profit organization assi...2022-01-2824 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 128: What If We Go To Trial?On today’s episode, Rhonda sits down with Attorney Lindsay Renier to discuss how to prepare for trial. It’s not necessarily what anyone wants, but it’s a possibility, and you need to be prepared. Lindsay shares ways to set yourself up for success during the process. About today’s guest: Lindsay Renier is the Owner & Attorney with Renier Hotopp Law. As the owner and operator of Renier Hotopp Law, Lindsay represents women going through divorce or child custody issues. She not only 2022-01-2136 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 127: Transform Conflict in your LifeRhonda and her guest, Cherie Morris, discuss conflict resolution and practical ways to communicate effectively. Cherie explains the BIFF method and other strategies for communicating so that you can begin to honor yourself in times of stress and conflict. Grab Cherie’s free download! https://deardivorcecoach.com/request-transform-conflict-in-your-life/ More about our guest: Cherie practiced law for many years before transitioning to full-time coaching seven years ago. Her own divorce informed her awareness of a missing link in life transitions, especially separation and divorce. Cherie...2021-12-1024 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 126: Pre-Nups, Post-Nups, & Why You Need A BudgetAttorney Dennis Vetrano talks with Rhonda about ways you can build your team and set yourself up for financial success. They discuss pre and post nups, the importance of setting up a budget, and ways to prepare yourself for a healthy financial future separate from your spouse. You don’t want to miss any of this conversation! -- Today’s guest is Dennis Vetrano, Jr., Attorney and Owner of the Law Office of Dennis Vetrano, Jr. LLC in Dutchess County, NY. Vetrano graduated from SUNY Albany with a Bachel...2021-12-0340 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 125: Contemplating Divorce "Should I Stay Or Should I Go?" with Kate AnthonyRhonda talks with Podcast Host and Coach, Kate Anthony about how women can take care of themselves as they contemplate divorce. Kate tackles the difficult question: Should I stay, or should I go? About our guest, Kate Anthony: Kate Anthony is the host of the critically acclaimed and New York Times recommended podcast The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast and the creator of the groundbreaking online coaching program, Should I Stay or Should I Go? which helps women make the most difficult decision of their lives using coaching tools, relationship education, geeky ne...2021-11-1944 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 124: The 5 Stages Of Ritual and Navigating Through ChangeClaire and Rhonda talk about rituals and how they help you move forward during any kind of transition. Tune in for their discussion of the 5 stages of ritual and how that can help you navigate through change. This episode gives practical tips that you can begin to implement into your life today! About our guest: Claire Jones is a Change Guide that supports conscious visionaries who are navigating transitional spaces in their personal or professional lives. Through bespoke rituals of intention, she guides people through transitioning into some...2021-11-1222 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 122: The Importance Of Parenting Plans with Brian VictorOur guest today is Brian Victor, Attorney, JD, and LMFT. Brian is a family law attorney in San Diego, California focusing on the mediation of divorce, child custody, and parent plans. Brian has experience as a Family Court Counselor and brings us a unique perspective on the divorce process. He and Rhonda discuss mediation options and the importance of a good parenting plan. Connect with Brian: The Law Offices of Brian A. Victor https://brianvictorlaw.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lawofficesbrianavictor/ Instagram: @Brianav7 Twitter: @br...2021-11-0130 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 121: Benefits of Mediation and Communication During the Divorce Process with Amanda SingerIn this episode, Rhonda welcomes Amanda Singer. Amanda is Co-Owner of West Coast Family Mediation Center. She is a Licensed Attorney, Certified Mediator, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst. Amanda’s key area of practice is mediation. According to Amanda, mediation is not going to work in all situations, but it does in a lot more than people realize. Some couples might agree on everything and they just might need more help with getting things done correctly. And there are those that agree on nothing. At least they have to both agree on mediation. Communication is not easy. Mak...2021-10-1521 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 120:Help Your Kids Manage Their Money with Gregg MursetIn this episode, Rhonda welcomes Gregg Murset, the CEO of BusyKid, which is the ultimate debit card and app that helps teach kids how to manage their own money. Gregg is a Certified Financial Planner and consultant who has become a great advocate for sound parenting. In this episode, Gregg shares the importance of teaching your kids the value of money and managing it. He gives us some good tips on how you could help your kids have a better future by teaching them about the financial aspects of life. According to Gregg, it’s important to kno...2021-10-0820 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 119 :Things to Consider When Selling Your Home in A Divorce with Bridget PottertIn today’s episode, Rhonda is joined by Bridget Potterton. Bridget is a Certified Divorce Real Estate Expert in the state of California. Today they discuss the things you should be considering before selling your home during your divorce. Selling your home could be a tough decision due to various reasons such as emotional attachment, but you must consider everything when making this big decision in your life. Bridget reminds today’s listeners to be careful and consider everything in making your decision. Here are some of the key points to the discussion that make this a...2021-10-0129 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 118:Debunking Divorce Myths With David IancuIn today's episode, I sat down with David Iancu of Karp & Iancu, S.C. law firm in the state of Wisconsin, to debunk some of the myths surrounding divorce. Disclaimer! The discussion that we had pertains specifically to the laws on divorce in the State of Wisconsin. What we discussed may not apply to you as each state has its own laws pertaining to this matter. Nevertheless, I am encouraging you to listen to our discussion because there might be things that you didn't initially consider that could be touched upon here. Right off the bat...2021-09-2430 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 117:Other Ways to Get a Divorce with Nicole Cheri OdenFor today’s episode, Rhonda is joined by Nicole Cheri Oden. Nicole is an attorney licensed in the State of California for almost 10 years with her own virtual law practice. Today they will discuss the various options when going through a divorce. Litigation divorce isn't the only way and being aware of these options can help families minimize the emotional stress and costs during a difficult time. Taking a step back to review the emotional climate between the two parties can eventually help smoothen the journey through divorce. Nicole sternly reminds today’s listeners that divorces don't neces...2021-09-1739 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 116: Women, Money and the Mindset Around it with Ariel KopacIn this episode, Rhonda welcomes Ariel Kopac, the founder and owner of Harness Your Hindrance. They talk about money and the mindsets that keep us stuck. We all experience fears around money, and that fear is heightened when there is a significant life change, especially divorce. Knowing that you can call out the fear, face it, and not be manipulated by it, you embrace the power you have. We can be manipulated by fear, or we can manipulate our fear. The choice is ours. Women going through divorce need to know that they have the power to choose. 2021-08-0632 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 115: Life After Divorce with Elizabeth KayIn this episode, Rhonda welcomes Elizabeth Kay, the Morning Show host on 99.1 The Mix and podcast host of “50 Shades of Kay”. Elizabeth talks about her divorce process, the things she did, and the things she wished she did differently. She also talks about her life after divorce. According to her, you are going to have tough days, even after the divorce, because you need the time to mourn your relationship. Elizabeth also shares about her life in a blended family and gives some excellent co-parenting tips. She highly recommends the book The Happy Stepmother by Rachelle Katz, which is very...2021-07-3028 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 114: Financial Independence with Amee QuiriconiIn this episode, Rhonda welcomes Amee Quiriconi. Amee is an advocate, business consultant, speaker, author, and the owner of Activity Girl, LLC. Amee has been divorced twice and has learned valuable lessons from each experience. According to Amee, divorce is emotional. We have to find space in our divorce process to breathe, to calm down, and to come back to the really hard decisions that we have to make when we are not amplified, and elevated, stressed down, and depressed. Here are some of her thoughts and recommendations: Support system is invaluable. It is...2021-07-2343 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 113: Mediation with Dan ExnerIn this episode, Rhonda welcomes Attorney Dan Exner, Family Law and Divorce Lawyer, and the Founder of Exner Legal, LLC. They talk about mediation. There are some misperceptions about mediation. Mediation is not an alternative to the divorce process. And mediator is not an attorney that’s there to advise people. Mediators are not supposed to give you any kind of direction - their role is either to find the middle ground or to figure out where there is none. The one thing Dan wants you to know is: You need to be empowered with as...2021-06-1834 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 112: Prepare, Plan, Investigate and Know Your Facts with Ilyssa PanitzIn this episode, Rhonda welcomes Ilyssa Panitz, a Divorce Journalist and Columnist. According to Ilyssa, too many times women act on emotions, and then when faced with a barrage of questions about money, finances, marital residence, and expenses, they come up short by not having any of the answers. It is crucial, vital, and imperative that women do their homework before serving their husbands with divorce papers. Ilyssa’s message for you today is: You are going to be OK. You are going to land on your feet. You are going to survive and thrive. He...2021-06-1130 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 111: Healing from Trauma of Divorce with Dr. Elizabeth CohenIn this episode Rhonda welcomes Dr. Elizabeth Cohen, a clinical psychologist and the Divorce Doctor. She is the author of the book Light on the Other Side of Divorce. In this episode, Dr. Cohen shares about the trauma of divorce and healing from that trauma, and she gives some really good tips on how to process the anger. According to Dr. Elizabeth, your experience matters. And the only person you can change is you. Her message for you today is: You are immensely brave, you are immensely courageous, you are strong beyond measure. Here are...2021-06-0421 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 110: Your Own Personal Crisis Management Team with Rebecca Stern KaufmanIn this episode Rhonda introduces Rebecca Stern Kaufman, Founder of Pearl Mediation Group, LLC. Rebecca is a divorce mediator that specializes in working with families that have children with special needs, and she is also a special education advocate for those parents. According to Rebecca, whether you’re experiencing a divorce, separation, or you have a child with any kind of behavioral, developmental or educational issue, it’s a crisis, it is something you did not expect. In that moment of crisis, you’re not going to make the best decisions. You need a team of professionals, people...2021-05-2831 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 109: Listen to Your Body with Jasmin CaviezelIn this episode Rhonda welcomes Jasmin Caviezel, Personal Trainer and Menstrual Cycle Coach. They talk about the four cycle phases and what happens during the phases with hormones and energy changes. Jasmin’s message for you today is: Listening to your body is always the best thing to do. Keep track your changes. Journaling is great way to start for anyone that is new to this. The My Flow App may help you track your cycle and gives you some useful tips. Here are some of Jasmin’s tips: Women in menopause still can feel...2021-05-2121 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 108: Parenting Aspect of the Divorce Process with Kristin BelkoferIn this episode Rhonda welcomes Kristin Belkofer, a mental health professional, and a Founder and Clinical Director of CLARA Healing Institute. They talk about the parenting aspect of the divorce process and therapeutic strategies for working with children. According to Kristin, if communication and healthy confrontation is a problem in marriage, it is going to be a problem in the coparenting relationship. Her message to you today is: This is just a chapter of not only your story but of your family’s story. And remember that kids are extremely resilient. Here are some of Kr...2021-05-1446 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 107: Answering Questions and Starting Over with Jess CoenenIn this episode Rhonda welcomes Jessica Coenen, Founder and CEO of La Belle Creative. Jess shares her story of being divorced twice, left almost homeless, without an income, and full of questions like: Who am I? And then starting over, answering those questions and building the new story for herself. Here are some of her encouragements: This is you new life and fresh start. And that is scary as hell because you don’t know what’s around the corner. What do you fantasize about? What are your biggest dreams? Even if you have to go to work...2021-05-0720 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 106: Trauma, PTSD, Faith and Courage with Christine BannisterOn this episode Rhonda welcomes Christine Bannister, a Courage Coach, mom of two, and a full-time Dispatch Supervisor for 911 center. Christine shares about her own experience of raising children as a single mom, building her career in emergency services, and PTSD as a result of being overloaded and not dealing with the trauma of divorce. Christine’s message for those who are going through divorce is: This is not the end of you. There is hope. As you progress, and move through the trauma, and start dealing with things, you continue to find yourself and discover who yo...2021-04-3025 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 105: Authenticity and Balance with Jessica Lucchesi MoylanIn this episode Rhonda welcomes her friend Jessica Lucchesi Moylan, health and wellness expert, a mom of three daughters and recently divorced after 25 years of marriage. Jessica shares her insight and encouragement with you, and her message for you today is: Tack your head, your heart and your gut in the alignment. According to Jessica, divorce is like a bad dream, but she’d rather be alone than lonely with somebody else. Here are some of Jessica’s suggestions for those women contemplating divorce: Start to journal – What do I want? What do I want ou...2021-04-2334 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 104: You Can Have a Great Life on the Other Side with Lisa MackIn this episode Rhonda talks to Lisa Mack, an independent senior sales director, and a Cadillac driver. Lisa shares about her experience when she was going through divorce after four years of marriage, starting her business and building credit ratings. For a long time, she found comfort in her favorite Bible verse from Jeremiah 29:11, and it proved true in her life. According to Lisa, the overall thing is: You can do it. You can make it through. You really can come through on the other side even better than you could’ve even imagine. Here ar...2021-04-1635 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 103: Find Your Value and Set Your Goals with Leslie VanDorfIn this special episode Rhonda welcomes her friend Leslie who shares her own experience with divorce. ____________________ Our host of Divorce Conversations for Women Podcast is Rhonda Noordyk, CFEI, CDFA® Rhonda Noordyk's relentless pursuit of financial justice for women going through divorce drove her to leave the financial industry in 2014 to open The Women's Financial Wellness Center. She was in search of a better way. She used her knowledge, passion, and experience to build a leading-edge business model. The intention was to create a business that provided a safe place for women - especially tho...2021-04-0936 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 102: Special Episode with Kim RuefIn this special episode Rhonda welcomes Kim Ruef, the owner of TRUE Tax & Accounting. Rhonda and Kim discuss Tax concerns issues, such as the extended filing date, child tax credits, the filing married versus single, how to handle an uncooperative spouse and claiming Head of household. According to Kim, the key is to be educated. Contact Information Kim Ruef Website | LinkedIn | (608) 218-6547 kim@trueconsultingllc.net ____________________ Our host of Divorce Conversations for Women Podcast is Rhonda Noordyk, CFEI, CDFA® Rhonda Noordyk's relentless pursuit of fin...2021-04-0729 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 101: Taking Back Control Over Your Body with Stephanie ShawIn this episode Rhonda welcomes Stephanie Shaw, the founder of Leigh & Ollie. Stephanie is a health and wellness coach and a Certified Holistic Nutritionist and Nutrition Strategist. According to Stephanie, you need to look at the bigger picture, not just how to lose weight. Here are some of her tips: Meal prepping – make sure that your metabolism maintains consistency throughout the day and that you are getting good carbohydrates, fats, protein. You want to make sure that you’re eating that balanced diet. If you look at your cycle, the four different phases of your cycle, each of...2021-04-0223 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 100: Resistance to Change with Barbara HusonIn this episode Rhonda welcomes Barbara Huson. Barbara is the leading authority on women, wealth and power. Barbara shares several tips on how to change our mindset and deal with that resistance that keeps us from making that change. The ideal way to work with resistance is to explore it – to ask yourself some really deep questions and think it through: what am I afraid of; why am I afraid…. When you look at your resistance and you explore it, it is amazing what happens. It’s quite simple to rewire for wealth. It’s only three st...2021-03-2620 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 099: Asking the Right Questions with Kimberly WarnerIn this episode Rhonda welcomes her friend and a fellow podcaster Kimberly Warner. Kimberly shares about her experience of going through divorce after 19 years of marriage, dealing with attorneys and the importance of asking the right questions, even if your process is amicable. Here are some of Kimberly’s thoughts on the subject: It does take time, and I think you have to do something for yourself. Pick up a new hobby, or a new habit, or something that you really want to do to start healing. You have to be authentic and honest with yourself an...2021-03-1925 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 098: Financial Therapy with Nathan AstleOn this episode Rhonda introduces Nathan Astle, the founder of Relational Money LLC. Rhonda and Nathan talk about financial therapy, the goal of which is to change the way people think, feel, and behave with money. Through several examples and exercises, Nathan shares where and how financial therapy can make that change and increase the person’s wellbeing. According to Nathan, money is emotional. If financial wellness is difficult for you in the process of a divorce there are reasons behind it, and it can be a lot of different things, like your family, or your relationship wi...2021-03-1227 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 097: Estate Planning with Dera Johnsen-TracyOn this episode Rhonda talks to Dera Johnsen-Tracy, an Estate Planning Attorney and a partner at Horn & Johnsen SC. Dera law firm, about the importance of Estate planning. Dera’s message for us today is: Getting started on your Estate plan, or even getting a plan in place, gives you a sense of control. You can decide, even if your divorce is not final yet, who is going to make financial decisions for you if you cannot do that for yourself; your healthcare decisions; who is going to plan your funeral… Here are some of Dera...2021-03-0526 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 096: Heal and Honor the Place You’re in with Rachel O’ConnellOn this episode Rhonda talks to Rachel O’Connell, founder and CEO of Pinnacle Parent and Divorced Family Coach about the choices that make a difference in life and parenting. Rachel’s message today for our listeners is: You will get through it; you are going to be OK, and you will probably be better than you could even imagine. Here are some of her recommendations: Accept and own the choices you have made, and you’ll be able to grow and move through them and make different choices in the future. Everything starts with the parent...2021-02-2630 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 095: Divorce and Taxes with Jason JendrachIn this episode Rhonda talks to Jason Jendrach, a CPA and owner of Jendrach Dobogai Lindseth inc., about the importance of having right information regarding finances, especially while going through divorce. Our guest shared some important information about debts, bad tax issues, MSA, innocent spouse, how to get copies from IRS, tax refund splitting, tax table changes and business valuation. Here are some of his recommendations: Do not be afraid to ask questions. Do not hesitate and reach out, it is to your benefit. The more planning and the more you can put in on the...2021-02-1936 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 094: Leading Full Emotionally Intelligent Lives with Paula RauenbuehlerIn this episode Rhonda talks to Paula Rauenbuehler, an International Coaching Federation Certified Associate Coach, about Emotional intelligence. Paula shared about emotional intelligence assessment, self-awareness, mindset and dealing with emotions in a stressful situation, such as divorce. Emotional intelligence assessment is behavioral in nature – it is about where are you right now, where do you want to go, and what behaviors are needed in order for you to get there. Here are some of her recommendations: Self-awareness is about finding out what is behind the emotion, what caused the reaction. Take time to see what’s real...2021-02-1224 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 093: Financial College Planning with Vicki VollweilerIn this episode Rhonda talks to Vicki Vollweiler, the Founder of College Financial Prep, about plans and strategies on saving money on the cost of college when parents are separated or divorced. According to Vicki, it is possible to save money on the cost of college, but it takes some planning and strategizing. She talks about developing a college list, merit and need based scholarships, filling financial aid forms, filling appeals due to separation and divorce, custodial parents, and student loans. Vicki recommends to start developing a college list by high school sophomore/junior year...2021-02-0528 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 092: Be Your Best Self with Shannon VickIn this episode Rhonda talks to Shannon Vick, Personal Trainer and the Owner of Iron Fist Fitness, about fitness and taking care of your body in order to stay healthy and ready for the challenges throughout the stressful period of divorce. Shannon points out that working out and taking care of your body is no longer an option, it is an absolute must, just like eating, drinking water or taking a shower. His recommendations for women are: Find your reason and find out your why – Figure out what you want to do and why you want to...2021-01-2919 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 091: The Power of Self Love with Chidima AnusiemIn this episode Rhonda talks to Chidima Anusiem, a Best Selling Author and a Divorce Coach, about abusive relationships and how to find true freedom and joy. Chidima shares several tips to get through a divorce You have to know you’ve made the best decision for yourself and your family Stand up for yourself and make your own opinion about yourself Lean into your pain. You’ll find some jewels there. You don’t deserve to be abused. You’re already everything you want to be. Just know you’re originally who you are, and you’re...2021-01-2226 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 090: Let Go of False Beliefs with Cyrina TalbottIn this episode Rhonda talks to Cyrina Talbott, the Owner of The Mindset Transformation Company, about improving the mindset when it comes to false beliefs around money. Cyrina recommends to let go of false beliefs like: Man make the money, women don’t Money is available for other people, but not for me Money is evil Money is a big deal. It reflects our values, status, comfort, and our security. Don’t let these false beliefs stop you from the actions you need to take. What’s the best for me, my future, and my...2021-01-1533 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 089: Staying On Course with Lisa ZeidermanIn this episode Rhonda talks to Lisa Zeiderman, a Managing Partner at Miller Zeiderman LLP. They are discussing some of the less obvious financial issues you should consider when looking at your and your spouse’s financial assets in a divorce. Key takeaways from this conversations are: Staying on course through the litigation process is important. Divorce process is a marathon. Aim for the long run, and make sure to get to the end that works for you and your children. What you say to your therapist is not necessarily private during the child custody dispute. ...2021-01-0832 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 088: Thrive Through a Divorce with Elise BuieOn this episode Rhonda talks to Elise Buie, an Attorney/Guardian ad Litem at Elise Buie Family Law group. Elise shares her story how she overcame obstacles, so the listeners could not only just get through, but to thrive through their divorce. Elise shares advice to women going through a divorce: Don’t be afraid to “dig under the rug” and look at your finances Find an emotionally intelligent attorney who can see your potential You are so much more capable than you allow yourself to believe Elise is empowering and reassuring women that they are ca...2021-01-0150 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 087: Know Your Strengths with Consuela MuñozIn this episode Rhonda talks to Consuela Muñoz, CEO & Founder of Own Your Confidence, about identifying your strengths, so you could see them in action a lot more often. Taking the assessment can give you a boost to your confidence, and using your strengths with purpose can turn the volume down on the self-doubt. Also, it helps you focusing on the things you’re good at, so you can practice and get great at them over time. Consuela shares some advice to women contemplating or going through a divorce: Every event in your life is an...2020-12-2529 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 086: Variable Expenses Challenges with Marco MunozIn this episode, Rhonda talks to Marco Munoz, Co-Founder of DComply, about making your post-divorce life simpler with an amazing tool that provides a better process for working with an ex on shared parenting expenses. Marco recommends: To have a process when it comes to finances Stay out of court The biggest challenge around variable expenses is communication followed by administration. DComply App will help you with both of those challenges so you can avoid paying more for expenses than you should. Contact Information and Other Resources Our guest today was...2020-12-1827 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 085: Think About PEACE with Seth NelsonIn this episode, Rhonda talks to Seth Nelson, a Managing Partner of Nelson Koster Family Law, about knowing the questions to ask regarding parenting and financial issues women are facing during divorce. A message from Seth to women going through divorce: Breathe - as easy as it sounds, remember to breathe. Realize that this is a legal process and you’re going to get through it Live your life, not your divorce Focus on what you’re getting instead of what you’re losing PEACE stands for: P - Parenting E - Equitable distribu...2020-12-1151 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 084: You’re a Goddess with Elizabeth Ann AtkinsOn this episode Rhonda talks to Elizabeth Ann Atkins, a best-selling author, actress, TV host and award-winning journalist. Elizabeth shares her terrible divorce story and how she endured through vicious verbal abuse, to finally forgive herself and her ex, and find peace after 16 years of conflict for the sake of their son. Elizabeth’s message to other women going through a divorce focuses on: Forgiveness Living bigger, better and bolder Find your inner Goddess Use your divorce experience to create the best version of yourself Contact Information and Other Resources Our guest today wa...2020-12-0432 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 083: Tools for Better Communication with Ashley E. LillesandOn this episode, Rhonda talks to Ashley E. Lillesand, a Managing Partner at Lillesand Law LLC, about estate planning women should do right after a divorce. Ashley shares tips on how to get through a divorce and estate planning: It gets better The guardian and money handler for the children can be, but they don’t need to be one and the same person Do not be scared of the process Estate Planning Basics: - Writing a Will - Naming Beneficiaries & Guardians - Financial Power of Attorney - Health Care Power of Attorne...2020-11-2720 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 082: Tools for Better Communication with Laura MaelIn this episode, Rhonda welcomes Laura Mael, Director of Talent and People Development at Pareto’s Talent, about the DISC assessment as a tool for determining personality styles. Laura shares several tips on better communication: It will be ok. You will get through this. The most important thing is to be aware of during this time is how you are communicating. Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to an understanding of ourselves. Communication is all about energy and the amount of energy it takes to communicate is enormous. DISC stands for: ...2020-11-2024 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 081: Journey To Worthy with Candy LeighIn this episode, Rhonda sits down to talk with Candy Leigh, the owner of Candy Leigh Coaching about the journey to worthy. Candy shares 3 Key Takeaways to help women find their way back from divorce: Reclaim your self-worth Declutter your space Take action by journaling Candy also gives a bonus tip about building a “team” around you to support you on your journey! Contact Information and Other Resources Our guests today was Candy Leigh, Owner of Candy Leigh Coaching, LLC; Author, Finding Life In Between; certified: mediator, coach, trainer, change management profe...2020-11-1333 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 080: Rebuilding Your Foundation with Wendy SterlingIn this episode, Rhonda sits down to talk with Divorce Recovery Specialist Wendy Sterling with The Divorce Rehab about how you can make your divorce process the most empowering experience that you can go through! Wendy had some amazing tips to share, and here are just a few: Don't try to navigate the process alone Be aware of your thoughts & take out the judgement Division of Assets Get your pen and paper together for this one! Contact Information and Other Resources Our guests today was Wendy Sterling, a Divorce Recovery Specialist w...2020-10-1630 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 079: Before You File... with Russell KnightIn this episode, Rhonda sits down to talk with Family Law Attorney Russell Knight about what he thinks are the most important things to consider before filing for divorce. He had some amazing tips and advice about filing for divorce, and some secrets to make things run smoothly. Here's a sneak peek with some of Russell's tips on what to consider when filing: Parenting time Child Support Alimony Division of Assets Get your pen and paper together for this one! Contact Information and Other Resources Our guests today was R...2020-09-1831 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 078: Surviving Entrepreneurship Through DivorceIn this episode, Beth sits down to talk with Rhonda about navigating business and entrepreneurship while contemplating or going through divorce. She had a lot of great advice for our listeners, but a few items that she mentioned are: Just take that step! Build your team (and surround yourself with them) Rely on your intention Have a plan Prepare to BE INSPIRED! Contact Information and Other Resources Our guests today was Beth Crowell, owner and founder of The Hippie Banker. Here is a bit about Beth, in her own words: 2020-08-2140 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 077: Understanding Mortgages & Debt During Divorce with Rob MillerIn this episode, Rob shares some great tips regarding mortgages and debt during divorce, and what to think about during the process. Some highlights: Get a good idea of what will transpire with your joint debt Refinance or sell your home so that your name is off the debt (if your ex-spouse is keeping the home) Get a copy of your credit reports (freecreditreport.com is a good place to start) Be prepared to take notes! Contact Information and Other Resources Our guests today was Mortgage Lender Rob Miller with ProVisor. ...2020-07-2433 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 076: Seven Steps To Divorce Success with James QuigleyIn this episode, James shares seven tips to getting through divorce, from finances to wellness. Some highlights: Make it about you Understand your rights Put your wellness first Find your support group Let go of the guilt Get organized Reach out Be prepared to take notes! Contact Information and Other Resources Our guests today was Family Attorney James Quigley of Beermann Law in Chicago, IL. It was a competitive spirit and desire to make an impact in others lives that led James Quigley to pursue a career within law. After...2020-07-1751 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 075: Making Co-Parenting Easy with Michael DanielsIn this episode, Michael shares some great ways to make co-parenting easy, including how you can accomplish this through the Fayr app. Fayr stands for: Family Advocacy is Your Responsibility. Some highlights: It is IMPORTANT to stay organized throughout the divorce process; Fayr makes it easy to see who owes what with expenses, and helps balance things out; You are able to "check in" with a date and time stamp at important locations - driven by GPS; You can use Fayr alone, or with your co-parent; Fayr will NEVER sell your user data - they understand th...2020-06-1921 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 074: Refinancing Isn't Just For Homes with Christopher Coleman & Nicholas HinrichsenIn this episode, Christopher and Nicholas gives us some insider tips regarding the importance of refinancing your auto loan, even if you think you got a good rate. They had some great tips, and here are just a few of them: Be sure to do your research when shopping for a car; Through their website, you can have a soft pull of your credit to see how you can qualify for a lower rate; Try and pre-approve before you even walk into the dealership, so you know what rate you qualify for Be prepared to t...2020-06-1237 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 073: Staying Safe During Uncertain TImes with Freddie HarrisIn this episode, Freddie gives us some tips regarding staying safe physically and mentally during quarantine. Make sure you keep a good support system around you who you can communicate with during this time; Try not to disrupt your routine; Establish tools to protect your email, social media, and other apps you may use; Those aren't all of the tools that Freddie shared with me during this interview, give it a listen and be prepared to take notes! Contact Information and Other Resources Our guest today was Freddie Harris, Owner-Chief Instructor at Badger K...2020-05-0137 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 072: How To Prepare Your Credit Before & After Divorce with Jeanne KellyIn this episode, Jeanne gives us some tips to prepare your credit during & after divorce Pull your credit reports from all three credit bureaus via annualcreditreport.com Look at each report & highlight things that were joint accounts and close them Find any mistakes or charges you do not recognize Have access to credit to build it back up (Jeanne gives us a few tools to do this) Open a secure credit card or secure loan Find out your FICO Score at myficoscore.com Contact Information and Other Resources Our guest today was Jeanne Kell...2020-05-0126 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenFrom A Guy's Perspective with Andy WeinsIn this episode, Andy walks us through his story of divorce, and offers us 3 things that he has learned: Pick & choose your battles Find a common enemy or a common ally Don't communicate over the phone - use email or text Contact Information and Other Resources Our guest today was Andy Weins Experienced Sergeant First Class with a demonstrated history of working in the military industry. Skilled in Sales, Management, Training, Subcontracting, and Resiliency. Strong community and social services professional with a Bachelor of Science (B.S.) focused in Business and Man...2020-03-2722 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenTrust Your Intuition with Cyrina TalbottIn this episode, we discuss trusting your intuition. We will share some tips on how you can hear your intuition. Your intuition doesn't stop when we fail or screw up or "do it wrong" or life isn't going where we thought it should - No shame! No blame! Your intuition is lovingly leading you- even when you aren't loving yourself. It loves your kids and you and will show you the way - this is a journey of forgiving yourself. You learned this behavior - we all did. So be easier on yourself and you'll be able to...2020-02-1444 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenHe Left Me ... What Happens Now with Sheryl BrownIn this episode, we discuss helping women transition through a divorce and ways to support them through this using the 3C approach of communication, communing, and community. 🌟 Master Your Next Move in Divorce: Watch our FREE Masterclass and learn how to empower your divorce journey with confidence, clarity, and control. 🎥 FREE MASTERCLASS: Get Instant Access TRANSCRIPT: Rhonda Noordyk: This is the Divorce Conversations for Women Podcast. I'm so glad that you're here. I'm your host, Rhonda Noordyk, Founder and CEO of the Women's Financial Wellness Center. I am passionate about educating and...2020-01-3151 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for Women3 Key Essentials When Writing Your Resumé with Dr. Heather Rothbauer-WanishIn today's episode, we discuss: Identifying your strengths and how to position them How to handle time away from the traditional workforce The importance of shifting your mindset and how important it is when you are putting together your resumé Rhonda: All right. Well thank you so much for joining us. Welcome to this episode of Divorce Conversations for Women. I'm your host, Rhonda Noordyk. You know there's one common thread facing everyone that's going through or contemplating divorce and that is you don't know what you don't know. So, I want to make sure tha...2019-11-2230 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenNegotiation for Women with Nicole Martin and John Tinghitella🌟 Master Your Next Move in Divorce: Watch our FREE Masterclass and learn how to empower your divorce journey with confidence, clarity, and control. 🎥 FREE MASTERCLASS: Get Instant Access TRANSCRIPT: Rhonda: Welcome to this episode of Divorce Conversations for Women. I'm your host, Rhonda Noordyk. There's one common thread facing everyone that's contemplating divorce or even in the midst of divorce, and that is, you don't know what you don't know, right? So I want to make sure to ask the tough questions so that you can get the answers that you need. In to...2019-11-1543 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenConfidence is a Skill, Not a Trait with Aleta NorrisIn today's episode, we discuss: Get out of the muck with a plan. I use a formula that I call 15-30-90-18. Confidence is not a trait; it's a skill. We get out of difficult situations by having the confidence that we can. Confidence is triggered by taking a step, then another, then another. Progress creates confidence. Just. Take. One. Step. Look for happiness in the simple things of everyday life while dealing with the challenges of divorce, single motherhood, dealing with the comparison trap. 🌟 Master Your Next Move in Divorce: Watch our FREE Masterclass and lea...2019-10-1831 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenDivorce is a Marathon, Let's Run it Together with Rhonda Noordyk, CFEIIn this episode, we discuss: The importance of having a core team How the Women’s Financial Wellness Center can help you in your divorce marathon Finishing the marathon a more confident, solid, financially savvy woman that is ready to enter her next chapter! 🌟 Master Your Next Move in Divorce: Watch our FREE Masterclass and learn how to empower your divorce journey with confidence, clarity, and control. 🎥 FREE MASTERCLASS: Get Instant Access TRANSCRIPT: Thank you so much for joining me. Today is actually going to be a solo episode, and I am so exc...2019-07-1212 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for Women5 Items Every Newly Divorced Woman Needs in Her Power of Attorney (POA) with Beth RuthmansdorferBeth Ruthmansdorfer, Attorney with Moertl, Wilkins & Campbell, S.C., joins us to discuss the various ways that setting up authority in your Financial Power of Attorney (POA) is beneficial to you including your business, pets, children, and other assets that you have especially while going through and post-divorce. Assigning authority within your Financial POA is important because it gives you control over where your assets go in the case that something happens to you. The 5 items that every newly divorced woman needs in her POA are: Beneficiary designations – this is important because if an accident happens and...2019-06-0722 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for Women10 Paradigms About Financial Wellness with Rhonda NoordykWhat are your beliefs when it comes to money? Is it evil? Good? Or do you look at it as a tool? Money in itself is an objective tool but we connect it with a lot of emotion, that’s why it’s not only a financial topic but an emotional one. In this episode, we are going to have an assertive financial conversation about the 10 paradigms regarding financial wellness. These 10 beliefs which we are going to explore today can help you go from “Financial Self-Sabotage” to “Financial Self-Confidence”. Understanding how money works results in us becoming...2018-11-3043 min