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Love MasteryCan I love again? Finding Love After TransformationEpisode Description: In this heartfelt episode of Love Mastery, Kanu dives into one of life’s most vulnerable questions: Am I ready for love after everything I’ve been through? Whether you’ve healed from addiction, navigated a tough divorce, or overcome a major life hurdle, this episode offers encouragement and guidance for those standing at the crossroads of love and transformation. Kanu shares insights as a therapist and matchmaker, helping you assess your readiness for love, break free from unhealthy cycles, and choose a partner who uplifts the person you’re becoming. With practical tools, i...2025-01-2308 minLove MasteryNavigating Love Safely: Protecting Yourself from Romance ScamsDescription: In this episode of "Dear Kanu," Kanu dives into the pressing concerns of a recently divorced woman in her 60s. A listener of the Love Mastery Podcast, reaches out with a poignant question about the rising threat of romance scams in 2023. Join Kanu as she addresses this crucial issue, sharing the latest insights, online dating scam statistics, and practical advice to empower individuals to safeguard their hearts and wallets. In a world where vulnerability can lead to heartbreaking consequences, Kanu provides invaluable information to ensure that love seekers are equipped to navigate the digital dating landscape securely. Don't...2023-11-1115 minLove MasteryNavigating Love Safely: Protecting Yourself from Romance ScamsDescription: In this episode of "Dear Kanu," Kanu dives into the pressing concerns of a recently divorced woman in her 60s. A listener of the Love Mastery Podcast, reaches out with a poignant question about the rising threat of romance scams in 2023. Join Kanu as she addresses this crucial issue, sharing the latest insights, online dating scam statistics, and practical advice to empower individuals to safeguard their hearts and wallets. In a world where vulnerability can lead to heartbreaking consequences, Kanu provides invaluable information to ensure that love seekers are equipped to navigate the digital dating landscape securely. Don't...2023-11-1115 minLove MasteryDear Kanu: Intimacy and Identity: Finding the right moment for the hair conversationIn this episode of the "Love Mastery Podcast," the Kanu addresses a listener's dilemma about when and how to share a significant aspect of her life with her new boyfriend. The listener is in a loving relationship and feels a strong connection with her partner. However, she hasn't yet disclosed that she wears wigs, and she's unsure about the right time to bring it up. The listener acknowledges the importance of honesty and openness in a relationship, but she also wants to ensure that the timing is appropriate. She's concerned about not overwhelming her boyfriend or making...2023-10-0213 minLove MasteryDear Kanu: Intimacy and Identity: Finding the right moment for the hair conversationIn this episode of the "Love Mastery Podcast," the Kanu addresses a listener's dilemma about when and how to share a significant aspect of her life with her new boyfriend. The listener is in a loving relationship and feels a strong connection with her partner. However, she hasn't yet disclosed that she wears wigs, and she's unsure about the right time to bring it up. The listener acknowledges the importance of honesty and openness in a relationship, but she also wants to ensure that the timing is appropriate. She's concerned about not overwhelming her boyfriend or making...2023-10-0213 minLove MasteryDear Kanu: Reclaiming Trust: Overcoming My Insecurities About My Husband's Female FriendsIn this "Dear Kanu" episode I am answering a listener's letter looking to better manage her emotions and be able to communicate her feelings to her husband of 5 years regarding his female friends. In this episode I answer her question using the following points: self reflection, using "I" statements, active listening and being non-judgemental, seeking to understand first, being vulnerable, building trust and seeking professional help from a therapist. This episode is brought to you by: Candle Consulting Group: www.candleconsulting.net 2023-09-1513 minLove MasteryDear Kanu: Reclaiming Trust: Overcoming My Insecurities About My Husband's Female FriendsIn this "Dear Kanu" episode I am answering a listener's letter looking to better manage her emotions and be able to communicate her feelings to her husband of 5 years regarding his female friends. In this episode I answer her question using the following points: self reflection, using "I" statements, active listening and being non-judgemental, seeking to understand first, being vulnerable, building trust and seeking professional help from a therapist. This episode is brought to you by: Candle Consulting Group: www.candleconsulting.net 2023-09-1513 minLove MasteryDear Kanu: How can I tell if a guy likes me or if he is just being friendly?This episode is centered around answering a listeners question - " How can I tell if a guy likes me or if he is just being friendly?" I share the top most common signs most guys do if they are interested in a woman: 1) light physical touch 2) body language, compliments, he acts nervous, he opens up, he gives you his personal number, the initiates contact, he rembers details, he makes future plans, he teases you playfully, he is supportive, and he introduces you to friends and family This episode is brought to you by: Candle Consulting Group: www...2023-09-0415 minLove MasteryDear Kanu: How can I tell if a guy likes me or if he is just being friendly?This episode is centered around answering a listeners question - " How can I tell if a guy likes me or if he is just being friendly?" I share the top most common signs most guys do if they are interested in a woman: 1) light physical touch 2) body language, compliments, he acts nervous, he opens up, he gives you his personal number, the initiates contact, he rembers details, he makes future plans, he teases you playfully, he is supportive, and he introduces you to friends and family This episode is brought to you by: Candle Consulting Group: www...2023-09-0415 minLove MasteryDear Kanu: Does age really matter?In this episode I read and answer a fan letter. Listener who I am referring to as Norman is in a age gap relationship and is looking to figure what to do. Norman describes the woman he is involved with to check off all the boxes. In this episode I also share the potential challenges and what to do about them. This episode is brought to you by: www.candleconsulting.net 2023-08-2418 minLove MasteryDear Kanu: Does age really matter?In this episode I read and answer a fan letter. Listener who I am referring to as Norman is in a age gap relationship and is looking to figure what to do. Norman describes the woman he is involved with to check off all the boxes. In this episode I also share the potential challenges and what to do about them. This episode is brought to you by: www.candleconsulting.net 2023-08-2418 min
Love Mastery10 tips from seniors on finding and keeping true love that will lastIn this episode I am sharing 10 tips from seniors who gave valuable advice on how to find and keep true love. The episode is brought by: The Ultimate Love Attractor Plan - helping high-achieving single women become love attractors. Book free Love Attractor Call Schedule Here2021-04-2107 min
Love MasteryHow to reduce sketchy encounters while online datingZach Schleien is the Co-founder/CEO of the video speed dating app, Filter Off. Filter Off has been featured in publications such as The New York Times, BBC, and hit #1 on ProductHunt. Previously he ran and sold the dating blog Top Romp, which covered dating hacks and apps for the modern dater. He is a TEDx speaker and his passions lie in technology, health, and creating authentic connections. When he is not working, Zach loves to travel the world, listen to podcasts, and workout. Filter Off is a video speed dating app. We host local a...2021-03-1319 min
Love MasteryHow she did not deny true love ...In this episode you will hear Veronica's love journey. How she met her husband, how he showed up for their first date and how they became inseparable after. Veronica is a life coach, leadership coach and founder of Leadership Life Support. She works with ambitious, driven women who have a strong desire to up their leadership game and make career moves that seem out of reach. Whether you're an aspiring leader or a manager seeking the e-suite, she helps women like you hone your leadership skills so that you can have an amazing career.2021-02-1031 min
Love MasteryHow to live an adventurous life as a coupleBrian and Maryann Remsburg, certified life coaches and founders of Adventurous Life, seek to live the purpose adventure that God has designed them for, and help others to do the same. After living internationally for eighteen years, working in education and training, along with their four children, they have learned that stepping into your Zone of Challenge is the catalyst to learn and grow in sometimes very unexpected ways. They are ready to help you gain the adventurous mindset to reach your mountaintop summits in life.2021-01-1042 min
Love MasteryThey connected on a love for fitness and love blossomed from themMeet Debbie and Ernie Pitochelli. They share a common interest of exercise. They blended their families 10 years ago and their love is still going strong. 2020-12-1319 min
Loved & LostRemembering Dr. Masenda a man who loved music and dancingOn November 18th, 2018 we (the Masenda family) lost a pillar. Such a wonderful conversation with Kathrine remembering her dad. May he forever rest in peace Dr. Solomon Masenda: He completed his doctorate at the University of Oklahoma in Norman. He single handedily recruited over 500 students from Zimbabwe to come and study in the US at mostly Wiley College and Jarvis University. "Through my tireless efforts and determination the students also became involved in recruiting their brothers and sisters so they too could have the opportunity to succeed academically. I have always been driven by t...2020-11-1834 min
Love MasteryThey laugh, cook and pray togetherWhitney and Donovan Williams share their love journey. They take us on a journey from when they met in college to their engagement and to now being a beautiful family of 3. Their marriage a christ centered marriage Coming up soon - they are launching their Instagram Page called "fromthewilliams"2020-11-0127 min
Love MasteryStuck in a neutrally bad relationshipIn the guest chair is a woman who asked to be kept anonymous for her safety. It's a candid conversation where she shares her relationship that has been bad from the beginning. If you are constantly demeaned, accused, shamed, blamed, bilittled, or verbally abused please seek help.2020-10-2422 min
Love MasteryA guide to overcoming the urge to buy affection Guide to Overcoming the Urge to Buy Affection It’s easy to fall into the habit of buying affection, but there are better ways to make your relationships run smoothly. These are some basic guidelines for relating to others in a healthier way so your inner qualities speak more loudly than your bank account. You deserve to be valued for who you are. It’s delightful to exchange gifts and favors with those you love, but set healthy limits. In the long run, you’ll strengthen your connections and enable everyone to share in the joy of...2020-10-1509 min
Love MasteryHow to fall in love when the color is off the roseIn this episode Valerie Fair who has been happily married for 49 years shares her love story and she tells us the importance of finding your own happiness in your relationship. Valerie is an artist based in Phoenix AZ. You can see her art in a magazine she runs called Artist on the Cutting Edge eMagazine HERE This episode is brought to you by: The Single Black Woman's Advantage ... Click Here for more information 2020-10-0138 min
Love MasteryHow to improve relationships using attachment language and styleJennifer Lehr, MFT is an author, Marriage, and Family Therapist and the founder and creator of WeConcile® – an affordable online DIY relationship restoration program for couples. Jennifer's journey led her from self-growth to helping others grow. Her mission is helping others create a life and relationship of love and joy. Jennifer writes and talks about relational health and wellness as well as healing and living our best lives for various print and online publications as well as podcasts. You can find more about her at https://weconcile.com/about Here are some additional link...2020-09-2030 min
Love MasteryHow to feel more comfortable on a first dateWith the right attitude, you can enjoy yourself on a first date. Dating is meant to be fun and exciting. In this episode I am sharing steps to take before, during and after your date. A first doesn't have to cause anxiety, especially if you take proactive approach to making things comfortable for you and you date. Let go of your worries and enjoy yourself. Happy Dating and Love always! This episode is sponsored by: The Single Black Woman's Advantage: A game changing program that is helping many women change their narrative on h...2020-09-1012 min
Love MasteryBenefits of LOVEIn the episode I share the real love relationship my parents had. I share types of love and health benefits The episode is brought to you by: https://singlewomansadvantage.mykajabi.com/pl/1861382020-09-0108 min
Love MasteryLove is ... when he always gives you the last bite of his delicious foodIn this episode Andrea and Kevin share parts of their love story. They take us back to when they first met working together at ESPN. They share with us how they make their relationship in these different times. It's a beautiful story. Read their NYT article to learn even more about them https://www.nytimes.com/2020/01/10/fashion/weddings/adding-a-wedding-to-the-highlight-reel.html This episode is brought to you by: The Single Black Woman's Advantage: A game changing program that is helping many women change their narrative on how they are perceived into an advantage to become Love...2020-08-2036 min
Love MasteryHow to forgive yourself for past relationship mistakes in 5 stepsShare | Learn | Thrive in LOVE Forgive yourself for any relationship mistakes that might potentially be deeming your light to attract LOVE! Episode is sponsored by: The Single Black Woman's Advantage - A game changing e-course that is helping women change their narrative on how they are perceived into an advantage to find love Copy and paste this link: shorturl.at/fzHOY2020-08-1004 min
Love MasteryLove and Basketball with WNBA player Briann January & TashaJune is Pride Month (this year marks 50th anniversary of annual Pride traditions) ... I was honored to sit down and interview Tasha and Briann January. Tasha is a Life Coach/ Author and Briann is a former Phoenix Mercury WNBA player who currently plays for Connecticut Sun. They have been in a relationship for 5 years now. In this episode you will hear their love story/ how they support each other and how they make the relationship work when Bri travels a lot in her basketball career. Connect with Tasha and Bri on Instagram: Tasha: ta...2020-07-0139 min
Love MasteryTheir families friendship led them to a beautiful marriage!Priya and Rohit are both from India but grew up in Zambia. Their families were really close which led to them being suggested they get married. They now live in Arizona and have 2 wonderful daughters. In this episode they share their love journey, and how they make their relationship work since one partner travels a lot for work.2020-05-2129 min
Love MasteryThey came into the relationship whole and their love is overflowingMeet Britt and Brotha Anthony. In this episode they take us back to when they met. They share how they started to dating, got engaged, bought a house together and got married all in one year. Connect with the Glovers Facebook: Anthony Glover/ Instagram: Brotha Anthony Facebook: Britt Glover/ Instagram: brit_tuh_nay 2020-05-1548 min
Love MasteryHe doesn't believe in the institution of marriage ... find out why!An interview with Chris discussing dating, and how he doesn't believe in the institution of marriage. He is single, 42, and lives in Arizona. 2020-05-0147 min
Love MasteryA personal story on sexual violence #metooIn honor of April being sexual violence awareness month I am sharing my own story. It has taken me over 20 years to get to this point. The numbers of cases of documented sexual violence have been on the rise in the last decade and that's not even thinking about those that go unreported. Let's talk about and educate each other about this topic. What happened to me was terrible and I don't wish that on anyone. Let's stop it once and for all especially for generations following 2020-04-2214 min
Love MasteryA 7 year journey of self love led her to marrying THE ONE!In the guest chair is: Jacqueline J Holness is a seasoned journalist with 15 years of professional experience writing and working for an assortment of newspapers, magazines, websites and other publications. She is a correspondent for "Courthouse News Service," an online, national news service for attorneys. Prior to working for "Courthouse News Service," Jacqueline worked primarily as an education reporter for the "News Daily" newspaper. She also worked as a reporter for the "Clayton Neighbor" newspaper where she covered several beats including education and county and city governments. Endorsed by Candace Bushnell, creator of Sex and the City2020-04-2030 min
Love MasteryA love of music and arts led to a beautiful love story!Meet Colette and Brian Watson the owners of Black River life Media. The create media that celebrates Black life. They help small businesses reach their communication goals. Brian is a NewJersey born actor, poet and filmmaker son of Jamaican immigrants. Colette is a musician and creative director from the low country of South Carolina. She is also a co-host of a Venus Clapback In this episode they share their love journey from meeting in the arts world in NYC to moving to Arizona where they currently reside Connect with them on:2020-04-101h 21
Love MasteryAn empty tank of gas leads to a beautiful love story!Meet Shirley who lives in Phoenix and is married to Dennis. The couple got married many years ago and are looking to get connected with a man who took pictures of their wedding back in 1965. John Brown who was married to Betty Brown back then used his camera to capture images of the weeding but since Dennis and Shirley left town after the wedding they did not stay in contact with John. Shirley gave me permission to use this platform to cast a wider net in search of John and Betty or their families about the pictures. Please reach...2020-04-0249 min
Love Mastery10 tips to preserve your relationship (s) during COVID-19 quarantine/ social distancingSharing some tips that I feel will help you deal with each other during these difficult and uncertain times. 1) Choose joy in the 5 mins of being awake 2) Get Moving 3) Use safe words 4) Make a list of what is annoying 5) Use headphones 6) Take a shower and wear nice comfortable clothes 7) Clean up after yourself 8) Limit news intake 9) Finish unfinished projects 10) Take turns cooking 2020-03-1913 min
Love MasteryWhy we marry partners similar to our parents/ caregiversResearchers have explored this and concluded that there seems to be an association between our attachment styles as infants to the romantic relationships we choose. There are 4 basic attachment styles: 1) Secure attachment 2) anxious resistant attachment 3) avoidant attachment 4) disorganized attachment Do you know which you are?2020-03-1012 min
Love MasteryIs love blind?Cori shares how she met and married her husband after 3 weeks of meeting. Cori is the host and producer of "That's Not Proper" podcast. 2020-03-0135 min
Love Mastery2020 is the year to "Date myself" ... here is how I did it last monthDo you have ways that you “date yourself?” Things you wish a significant other did for you, but that you’ve taken it into your own hands to do. I am taking this year to be year to date myself. I am excited about this journey. 2020-02-2011 min
Love MasteryWhen city girl meets country boy!Buffy is a Clinical Psychologist who works primarily with women who are trauma survivors in Phoenix Arizona and her husband Robert is a Criminal defense attorney with an extensive criminal litigation experience. She is grew up in San Diego and he grew up in Oklahoma, they met in Los Angeles but now call Phoenix their home.2020-02-1157 min
Love MasteryCancer turns into a powerful love story!They are touching lives of individuals and families all over the country by providing much needed cancer support. They run the "Living Hope Cancer Foundation" - where they will walk alongside you no matter what stage of the journey you are. You can read more about Chuck's journey with cancer in his book: "Hi ... I'm Chuck" which is available on Amazon and on www.chuckkeels.com Keep an eye out for Hannah's book: "Faith like skin" soon to the published 2020-02-0157 min
Love MasteryHe tried charming her, she felt swindled and it didn't help that he had a mullet.Rachel and Dave met at McDonalds .... Rachel was a hairdresser and Dave was spotting a mullet and later got a "Dorothy Hamill" cut. They have been married 18 years now 2020-01-2039 min
Love MasterySingle? Here are a few easy steps to set your new years intentions for loveA new year, new outlook, new possibilities and plenty of fish in the sea. Goals can be stifling, intentions set us free to be our best selves. Providing you with a few ways to channel good energy for you to find love in 2020. 2020-01-1106 min
Love MasteryWhen they met there was a lot of alcohol, football, dancing and a lot of friends saying "don't mess with that girl"When they first met she was babysitting a Keg of beer at a party. His friends warned him to stay away from her but he didn't and now they have been married 31 years. Their relationship has sustained the bedlam rivalry that is between them. He is a Sooner fan and she is Cowboys fan. 2020-01-0233 min
Love Mastery2019 was a great year!Sharing Real Love Real Stories wins for the year. Giving my shoutout to: Podcasts guests, to my listeners, storytellers, the attendees who came to live events, Heard Museum for collaborating with RLRS and for my team for supporting me. Also sharing the Top 10 episodes for 2019 that have been listened to the most. 2019-12-2307 min
Love Mastery5 tried and true ways to survive the holidays when you are single ...These are a few of my tried and true tips I have used over the years to avoid holiday gloom. 1) make your environment happy and inviting 2) help someone 3) Mingle or throw a party 4) create fun traditions 5) Don't beat yourself up and remember God's timing is different from ours2019-12-1810 min
Love Mastery5 ways to stay happy in your relationship during the holidaysIt's the Jolliest time of the year!!! Sharing some simple and easy tips to keep your relationship on the right track during the holidays. 1) Simplify your schedule 2) Stay healthy 3) Keep romance alive 4) Stick to a budget 5) De-Stress2019-12-1813 min
Love MasteryHow to make "The 5 love languages" work for you during the holidaysThis episode is brought to you by Audible. They are offering you a free audio book subscription for 1 month. Since this episode is about "5 love languages" if you haven't read the book yet ... go ahead and use your free trial to listen to the book today. You will understand yourself and your partner well. www.audibletrial.com/realloverealstories.com Ideas of showing love to your partner this holiday season using" 1) Words of Affirmation 2) Quality Time 3) Acts of Service 4) Gifts 5) Touch 2019-12-1012 min
Love Mastery6 most common relationship secrets..Money Food Infidelity Exercise Ex's Television These are the most common I have read about and or heard from couples. 2019-12-0109 min
Love MasteryLife partnership vs marriage with KalishaKalisha is an Aquarian who moved to Arizona in 2017 by way of the Bluegrass State and Southern California. Her hobbies include practicing yoga, exploring the country and reading relationship books such as “Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus” by John Gray PhD. In a personal quest to seek the purpose of marriage for her own relationship, Kalisha has spent several years studying its history, anatomy and behaviors. Most recently, she created a survey to better understand marriage beliefs in today’s society. Take the survey here 2019-11-2029 min
Love Mastery10 Strategies to help you reconnect with your inner self after a breakupIn this episode you will hear 10 simple strategies to help you move on from a breakup. Try these helpful strategies to reconnect with your inner self and identify the path that will lead you to full recovery and closure ... #breakup #healing #happiness #findinglove #getmotivated #yougotthis2019-11-1009 min
Love Mastery10 Obvious signs it's time to move on from your relationshipIt's not always obvious when the time has come to start a different chapter in our lives. It is always good to really think things through before making drastic decisions in life. Each relationship is different and I highly recommend seeking professional help to make sure you do the right thing for you and especially if you have children. Here are 10 signs to help you know if it is time to move on from your relationship or not2019-11-0112 min
Love MasteryHow Sam Walker found love after rising from the ashes like a PhoenixSam Walker's journey to discovering what else is out there led her to meeting her husband. How she sought her life out to open herself to finding love with Sam Walker/ Sam Walker is an Award- winning broadcaster and podcaster. Audio consultant and MD at Whatgoesonmedia. Event host and speaker. Mom of daughters and a Vegan2019-10-2043 min
Love Mastery10 obvious signs he is falling in love with you...The signs that a man is falling in love are often right there in front of you, and there is usually doubt about how he feels about you. Men fall in love differently than women. So, what are the signs of being in love? How do you know if he loves you? Here are a few signs that I came up with and ofcourse there are a ton out there as well.2019-10-1006 min
Love MasteryShe is just a girl who loves her amazing husband and a cute, colorful outfit!Meet Rynetta - she is a dedicated wife, an avid reader, an English Professor and she believes that you can change the world one literary text and one smile at a time Recently rebranded from #jcrewismyfavstore to #reallyrynetta You can connect with her on: Instagram: reallyrynetta Blog: www.reallyrynetta.com Book recommendations from Rynetta: 5 languages of love Don't be a wife to your boyfriend Love Busters The art of marriage 2019-10-0131 min
Love MasteryIs true love a choice or feeling?Love comes from feelings, lasting love is a matter of choosing to nurture the same. When Aditi met her husband, it was a magical coincidence. Choosing to marry was a choice for them and they felt the love bloom after that. "The love & respect my husband and I have shared over the past 12 years is not just the foundation of the life we have built but all my entrepreneurial success. His belief in my talent led to my writing career which snowballed into creating the global platform for diverse parenting voices - RaisingWorldChildren.com & the bestselling book Strong Roots Have No Fe...2019-09-2018 min
Love MasteryLOVE is not a big enough word to describe what they have for each otherThis couple has so much love for each other its so beautiful .... Cameron and Mai share their love journey. Cameron: Chief Strategy Officer at Palliative Care Alliance - community based and provides care management to patients with chronic, serious or critical illnesses in their homes especially as the focus continues to shift toward value and quality. Mai Ling: Chief Executive Officer of Xceptional ED - inspire and empower professionals, teachers, and parents to help more people with special needs through online learning. Working with thought leaders in the disability industry, her team builds on clinical expertise and professional e...2019-09-1031 min
Love MasteryJessica reveals how she found love after being lied to, cheated on and left brokenheartedIn this episode you will hear Jessica tell her story from when she was 16. She met a guy on yahoo messenger who lied to her about his age. He was 20 years older. He married her, moved her cross country, cheated on her and left her for his high school sweetheart. She took time to heal and do good for others and as a result she met her husband now while volunteering in Haiti.2019-09-0128 min
Love MasteryDear Diary: I chose otherhood (childless) vs motherhoodMy reasons for choosing otherhood: career, freedom, time, money, and I just didn't have the right person to have kids with. Some well meaning people have said: "You will regret it when you get older, being childless is selfish, you won't understand what it is like to truly love someone, etc" The truth is I am ok with my decision and I am make a pretty awesome aunty. If I decide I want to be a mother I can always foster, or adopt. 2019-08-2502 min
Love MasteryBeing overweight, over the "hill" and battling internal fears did not stop her from finding loveLinda found Love and has been married 10 years. "I was 43 years old, never married, and I weighed almost 300 pounds. Not only that, but I still had underlying fears. What if I do meet someone that I liked and after investing myself in it, it does not work out? Or worse, what if I got hurt? Maybe I should lose weight first? Or get my teeth fixed and have some work done to look younger" .... Linda Denise www.lindadenise.com2019-08-2049 min
Love Mastery4 simple but important tips to help find the relationship that you desireHere is what you will learn after listening to this episode 1) To know who you are 2) To know your core values 3) Know your goals are in a relationship 4) Know your needs I lead you through a short self reflection exercise to be open to love. I live you with some self reflection questions to ponder2019-08-1013 min
Love Mastery2nd year launch - Updates episodeIn this episode I am providing you with updates and some exciting new things happening with Real Love Real Stories. Thank you for all your support. I am excited to be back with new and exciting new content.2019-08-0109 min
Love MasteryDance with me in celebration of Real Love Real Stories turning 1!!!Thank you for going on this journey with me and for your support. I am so grateful and humbled that these love stories are being listened in 64 countries and counting. As I raise the glass to toast to this one year I want to thank all the guests that took time and shared their stories on my podcast. These stories give hope and inspiration to a lot of people. Cheers to one year!!! Excited to come back on August 3rd with bigger and better things.2019-06-0503 min
Love MasteryA few easy ways to make your relationship better ...One of the ironies of modern life is that we can spend more time being connected, and yet, sometimes wind up being less present for each other. Maybe you're in the same room with a group of your friends, but each you is busy texting or talking on your phones. Maybe you're sitting down to a family dinner, but your mind is still back at the office or looking ahead to the chores you need to do this weekend. If you feel like you're missing out on something, you could be right. Relationships are more fulfilling when you give...2019-05-2811 min
Love MasteryShe had the desire for a guy to first ask her to marry her before going on a date ... AND HE DID!Excited to share this episode for 2 reasons: it's family and it's an opportunity for you to learn about the Zimbabwean culture when it comes to love, marriage, weddings and lobola. Isaac and Ruth Anne tell their story so beautifully and also they explain the cultural norms regarding bride price etc Book recommendations: His Needs Her Needs by Willard F Harley Jr. Some words used in this episode and their meaning: 1) Tete - Aunt 2) lobola/ dowry - token of your devotion aka bride price 3) Mukoma - Brother or sister or a...2019-05-2244 min
Love MasteryIs pre-marital counseling important? (with Pastor Frank Switzer)Some of your questions and comments from facebook answered in this episode regarding: "Have you or are you going through pre-marital counseling? What did you gain from it? Is it important to go through pre-marital counseling and also when is a good time to go through it?2019-05-1528 min
Love Mastery4 truths of a gospel-centered marriage ... (with Pastor Frank Switzer) TRUTHS OF A GOSPEL-CENTERED MARRIAGE You’re marrying an image-bearer (Gen 1 & James 3) You married not a finished product but a work in progress, and YOU are also a work in progress. Phil 1:6, 2 Cor 4:16, Romans 8. Marriage is all three: Back – to – back Side by side (CS Lewis) Face to face Out of reverence for Jesus, submit to one-another (Ephesians 5). Love God more than you love each other. 10 MOST COMMON “ISSUES” IN MARRIAGE 1. Most spouses refuse to see themselves as the biggest problem in their marriage. The purpose of marriage is to fulfill me and make me Marriage shouldn’t be...2019-05-1533 min
Love MasteryHow she found the one to laugh with ... 30 years later they are still laughing together (Barry and Sherry)Barry and Sherry have been married 30 years. They enjoy admiring beautiful women together. They are open and honest with each other and he looks at a marriage as a business proposition that needs a return on investment.2019-05-0753 min
Love MasteryPart 2: with Tim and Adia on being in an interracial marriageContinuing the love story of Tim and Adia and this time we are talking about their experiences of being in an interracial marriage.2019-04-2814 min
Love MasteryPart 1: He asked her to marry him ... she needed a few days to process ... he waited! (Tim and Adia)Interracial couple from Phoenix Arizona share their love story. Tim and Adia have been married 6 years and counting. When Tim asked Adia to marry him she asked for a week to pray and fast about it before she gave him her answer. 2019-04-2756 min
Love MasteryAn arranged marriage brought Parul the love of her life...An arranged marriage brought Parul Agrawal the love of her life. Her parents responded to a newspaper ad in India in the matrimony section. "Growing up in India, I had always thought love was what we see in Bollywood movies. A boy chases a girl and they live happily ever after," Agrawal said. It was about 22 days from when the parents responded to the newspaper ad to her getting married and relocate to the US.2019-04-1254 min
Love MasteryHow to address finances with your partner without it being a romance buzzkillHere is a few freebies from Sarah Blanchfield www.sarahblanchfieldfinancial.com Here is the link for the Money Discussion Guide for Couples - this one was created exclusively for you my listeners and is not published anywhere else :) https://www.dropbox.com/s/v7kc4tquv6zdry7/Money%20Discussion%20Guide%20for%20Couples.pdf?dl=0 Here is the link to my Money Audit Checklist https://www.dropbox.com/s/oaeh8mpa1rulu06/Money%20Audit%20Checklist.pdf?dl=0 If you are interested in more free resources ... here is the link to Sarah's free resource library opt-in page where you...2019-04-041h 20
Love Mastery5 relationship goals to aspire to.Want your relationship to stay strong and healthy? If you are looking for simple ways to nurture your relationship, here are 5 to get you started. 1) You have lives outside of your realtionship 2) Prioritize your relationship and have fun together. 3) Push each other and stimulate each other intellectually. 4) Check in with each other on the intimacy subject 5) Always be kind to each other after-al you are a team What are your relationship goals?2019-03-2814 min
Love MasteryHer pregnancy saved his lifeJJ is a Professional Poker Dealer, Story Teller, Dog whisperer, Wine Steward, Former Green Beret, Labyrinth Designer, Desert Survival Instructor and an Author. He has written the following books that you can purchase on Amazon: 1) 'Pour L'Amour de Dieu' - For the love of God why am I still alive? and 2) Cards are Cards - But history is forever and 3) Desert Safety and Survival. Thank you JJ for serving our country and for sharing your love story. Enjoy his love story2019-03-2149 min
Love MasteryWhen parents take it in their own hands to find you a partner..Have your parents tried to hook you up before? How was it? Did they find a person that you felt was a good fit for you? In this episode Kelsey talks about the guy her parents hooked her up with. She also shares a "what not to do on a first date" tip. Enjoy!2019-03-1417 min
Love MasteryShe found love in her local Walgreens Store (James and Sarah)Love happens when you least expect it. Sarah wasn't looking for love but one day she walked into her local Walgreens to pickup a prescription and she met a cute guy behind the counter who she continued to flirt with for 14 months before he asked her out. James mentioned that he was very shy and always regretted not asking her out every time she came to the store - according to Sarah she frequented that store even for things she didn't need just so she could see him. He even tried to sell her a frying pan that was...2019-03-0732 min
Love MasteryShe found the one that fits like a good bra (Randy and Joyce)What makes a city girl move to the country? .... LOVE Joyce and Randy met online and fell in love. Randy a country boy and Joyce a city girl connected on a christian site and fell in love. He makes her laugh everyday, they respect each other and are making their relationship work. She described him as follows "He is a like good bra" and he responded by saying "I guess I hold things up around here" Enjoy their love story!! 2019-02-2737 min
Love MasteryShe shares her reasons behind starting this love story podcastMany of you have asked: 1) why did I start the podcast, 2) How did I start it?, 3) what has the journey been like 4) what are some lessons I have learned 5) and finally 6) what's next for Real Love Real Stories In this episode I am answering all these questions for you. Enjoy!2019-02-2117 min
Love MasteryA special message for you!A message of Thanks to all my listeners on this day of Valentine's Day!2019-02-1402 min
Love MasteryOnline dating: the good, the bad and the ugly and even catfish storiesThere are so many online dating out that range from free to paid memberships. Anyone at any dating age can find one that has what they are looking for. I have personally tried many of them but did not find love online. In this episode you will hear our personal online dating stories from my guest and I. We have been on good, bad dates and even have some cat fishing stories to share. Enjoy!2019-02-0449 min
Love MasteryHow she deals with the loss of relationshipI am sure we have all suffered the loss of a relationship at one point or another. Whether or not it was your idea or not it still hurts. How did you heal and recover from it. In this episode you will hear how Juliette Marie dealt with and is continuing to deal with the loss of her last relationship. 2019-01-2924 min
Love Mastery5 ways of expressing and experiencing love ... which one is yours? We all feel and know that we are loved by how people relate to us. There are five love languages that we can fall under that make us feel truly loved. They are: Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Receiving Gifts, Acts of Service and Personal Touch. We, of course, will fall into more than one category but one will resonate more than the others. Finding the right language is the key to helping a person feel loved. Do you know your love language? Follow this link and take this short and quick quiz and you w...2019-01-1715 min
Love MasteryReunited: A Journey Through Time with My Lost ConnectionJoin me on a heartfelt journey down memory lane in this special episode. I share the remarkable story of a connection that endured for 24 years, proving that true love and friendship know no bounds. Through twists and turns, ups and downs, this tale is a testament to the enduring power of genuine affection. Tune in and be inspired by the beautiful notion that the right people always find their way back to each other, even if the timing isn't always perfect. This episode is a celebration of love's unwavering ability to conquer all. Enjoy this touching story of reconnection...2019-01-1016 min
Love MasteryDoes being single hold you back from traveling because no-one can join you?How often do you travel? I saw this quote and loved it "Once a year go some place you have never been" Most single people who like to travel end up not doing so because they cannot find someone to travel with. The year go somewhere new and remember traveling solo is not letting other people hold you back when they cannot join you.2019-01-0336 min
Love MasteryLove bombing or romantic gesture ... learn about it then you decide!Emotional abuse, verbal abuse, and domestic violence are on the rise, especially among young people. The risk of falling into an abusive relationship is greater than ever. There are obvious red flags to avoid in a prospective lover, such as angry, controlling, possessive, jealous, or violent behavior. Unfortunately, most abusers are able to mask these tendencies in dating. By the time many people notice the obvious red flags, they're already attached to an abuser, which makes it much harder for them to leave the relationship. Here is a link to the shimmymob.com list of...2018-12-1129 min
Love MasteryLove should NOT hurt. Period!Have you ever been in a relationship where trust was broken? How did you learn to trust and love again? Trust can be broken in many different ways. It takes mental braveness, and support to get out of abusive relationships. In this episode we explore one woman's experience. She shares what she went through and how she is now in a beautiful and healthy relationship. Love does exist. Enjoy her story. 2018-12-0525 min
Love MasteryLove Unbound: When She Proposed and He Said Yes!In this special episode, get ready for an unconventional twist in the age-old tale of love and commitment! Join us as we celebrate the power of bold gestures and breaking stereotypes. Tune in to hear heartwarming stories of women taking charge and proposing to their partners, with the beautiful outcome of a resounding "YES!" This episode is a testament to the fact that love knows no bounds, and sometimes, it's the bride who puts a ring on it. Whether you're planning to pop the question or simply seeking a dose of inspiring love stories, this episode is a must-listen. 2018-11-2922 min
Love MasteryThomas and Jennifer reveal the secrets to making their long-distance relationship thrive Part 1: Dive into the extraordinary love journey of Thomas and Jennifer in this multi-part special. Discover how their connection blossomed two decades after attending Putnam High School in Oklahoma City. In Part 1, they open up about the profound moment when they found a deeper connection during an intimate moment in Colorado. This episode is a must-listen for those seeking to strengthen their emotional bond in the realm of intimacy. Join us as we explore the intricate dance between love and physical connection. Part 2: In Part 2, Thomas and Jennifer reveal the secrets to making their long-distance relationship thrive...2018-11-2811 min
Love MasteryIntimacy and Milestones: Thomas and Jennifer's Unconventional Love Story Part 1: Dive into the extraordinary love journey of Thomas and Jennifer in this multi-part special. Discover how their connection blossomed two decades after attending Putnam High School in Oklahoma City. In Part 1, they open up about the profound moment when they found a deeper connection during an intimate moment in Colorado. This episode is a must-listen for those seeking to strengthen their emotional bond in the realm of intimacy. Join us as we explore the intricate dance between love and physical connection. Part 2: In Part 2, Thomas and Jennifer reveal the secrets to making their long-distance relationship thrive...2018-11-2732 min
Love MasteryEmbracing Open Love: Navigating Relationships on Your Terms with Beatriz Join us for a candid and enlightening episode featuring Beatriz, who graciously shares her experiences in the realm of open relationships. From entertaining dating anecdotes to shedding light on the dynamics of non-monogamy, Beatriz provides valuable insights into how an open relationship can thrive. Tune in as we explore intriguing questions like whether there's a deadline for openness and the importance of communication in such partnerships. If you've ever been curious about alternative relationship models, this episode is a must-listen. Get ready to challenge norms and discover the beauty of love on your own terms! 2018-11-1719 min
Love MasteryTech, Love, and 21 Years Strong: Daniel and Kendra's Inspiring Journey In this episode, we unveil the remarkable love story of Daniel and Kendra, a dynamic black couple whose journey began with an internship at Intel. Their powerful bond has stood the test of time, and they're celebrating 21 years of marriage. Hailing from the beautiful state of Arizona, Daniel and Kendra not only exemplify enduring love, but they also dedicate themselves to helping other couples navigate the complexities of marriage. Join us as we explore their story, filled with triumphs, challenges, and the wisdom they've gained along the way. Tune in for a dose of inspiration from a couple whose...2018-11-0932 min
Love MasteryBonus Episode: Courting Connections: Navigating New Interests with Confidence In this special bonus episode, we're tackling the age-old question: how do you approach someone new when you're keen on making a connection? Join us as we hear from a diverse range of participants who share their insights on initiating conversations and making a memorable first impression. Discover what qualities pique their interest in someone new, and get ready for some delightful tales of standout dates. Plus, we delve into the perennial debate: do women find it off-putting or flattering when approached in everyday settings? Whether you're single and ready to mingle or simply seeking some fresh perspectives on...2018-10-2417 min
Love MasteryKeys, Running, and the Art of Communication: John and Eileen's Love Story Buckle up for a thrilling episode! Join us as we unravel the charming tale of John and Eileen, whose paths first crossed over a set of misplaced car keys. Tune in for stories of unexpected adventures, including impromptu sprints and the classic lockout mishap. But that's not all – this episode also brings you invaluable relationship advice, as John and Eileen highlight the importance of open communication and dispel the myth that your partner can read your mind. Don't miss out on this engaging episode filled with laughter, love, and the wisdom gained from years of shared experiences. Listen now fo...2018-10-2424 min
Love MasteryTwo Decades of Love: Scott and Tawnya's Enduring High School Sweetheart Story Get ready for an episode packed with heartwarming tales! Join us as we dive into the incredible love journey of Scott and Tawnya, high school sweethearts whose passion continues to burn brightly even after two decades together. Discover the secrets that have kept their flame alive, from the intimacy that fuels their connection to the adventures they embark on, both with and without their children. This episode is a treasure trove of inspiration for both couples seeking to rekindle their love and singles searching for hope in lasting romance. Don't miss out on this captivating episode that proves true...2018-09-1537 min
Love MasteryHow she used an intention card to ATTRACT her Prince Charming (Sean and Meeka)What is the law of attraction? Can you really use the Secret to get a partner? The book talks about "energy flows where attention goes". In this episode you will hear how Meeka used the "The Secret" to attract her Prince Charming.2018-08-3031 min
Love MasteryFrom Best Friends to Forever: Visal and Stephanie's Prayerful Love JourneyWelcome to another heartwarming episode of our podcast, where love stories come alive! In this installment, we dive into the remarkable journey of Visal and Stephanie, a couple who built their foundation on friendship before taking the leap into marriage. Their story is a testament to the power of companionship and how it lays the strongest foundation for a lasting union. Join us as they share the secrets of making their relationship thrive, including the transformative practice of praying together. Discover how this simple act has become their sanctuary, making it nearly impossible to stay angry with each other...2018-08-1532 min
Love MasteryHarmony of Hearts: Chris and Tina's Karaoke-Inspired Love StoryJoin us for an emotional rollercoaster in this special episode featuring Chris and Tina, a couple whose love story began on a fateful karaoke night in New Mexico. From the very first meeting, Tina knew there was something extraordinary about Chris, and she had a vision of him standing beside her at their wedding. Their journey is a testament to the power of intuition and the magic that can happen when two hearts are destined to be together. As they celebrate their wedding anniversary in May 2018, their story is bound to bring tears of joy and a renewed sense...2018-07-3129 min
Love MasteryLove Beyond Boundaries: Patrick and Tina's 19-Year Saga In this enchanting episode, dive into the extraordinary love story of Patrick and Tina, who defied distance to find true love. Hear how their hearts connected long before they met in person, setting the stage for a romance that has endured for 19 years. Join us for a lively conversation filled with finger snapping, an unwavering love for all humans, and a belief in loving without rules. Discover the magic of repeating messages and the special moments that have woven the tapestry of their love. Don't miss this heartwarming tale that proves that love knows no bounds. Tune in and...2018-07-1530 min
Love MasteryHow her journey of self discovery led her to the love of her life (Jack and Patricia)Patricia went on journey of self discovery in Asia but little did she know she would volunteer and fall in love. Jack and Patricia's first date was in the rice fields of Thailand while hunting for rats and drinking local whiskey. 2 cultures (Thailand and Netherlands) brought together and created a love story. Want to hear how Jack was a Monk first then fell in love? Listen to their story2018-07-0927 min
Love MasteryHow she found love and married after 2 months of meeting him (Joshua and Ivana)A platform for couples to share their love stories and for single to find hope. Episode 2 features Joshua and Ivana and they talk about how they met/ how he proposed in the car on their way to the courthouse and how they do not fight but instead they have "love matches" Listen to their love story!2018-06-1528 min
Love MasteryHow she found love in her brother-in-law (Terry and Rosalie)Love happens in unique ways and in the case of my guests love happened when Rosalie divorced one brother and years later fell in love with the other brother. Listen to their love story!2018-06-0522 min