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Kinky Frame of MindEpisode 179 - Don’t give upEpisode 179 - Don’t give up - In this episode of Kinky Frame of Mind Don and Syn talk about getting used to having extra people in the house and their trip to Dallas. This weeks topic is about a couple that had a bad first encounter and might be done cause of it All our links My Lifestyle US | LinktreeCheck out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind Get all your merchandise at Shop Alternative Lifestyle Podcasters - FullSwapShop.com The...
2024-10-0455 minKinky Frame of MindEpisode 178 -Get off your buttEpisode 178 -Get off your butt - In this episode of the Kinky Frame of Mind Don and Syn talk about everything that has been going on in life. Multiple people moving into the house, Don's mentor died, just busy busy stuff. Don shares about his mentor and the loss and impact of that. This weeks topic is about finding your partner a date of play partner. All our links My Lifestyle US | LinktreeCheck out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind Get all your...
2024-09-0648 minKinky Frame of MindEpisode 172 - Your First SceneEpisode 172 - Your First Scene In this episode of Kinky Frame of Mind Don and Syn talk about their trip to Colorado and then Don talks about his eye surgery. Then this weeks topics is a Facebook post about their first impact scene and not being happy with how it went. So we talk about important thing in scenes. My Lifestyle US | LinktreeCheck out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind Get all your merchandise at Shop Alternative Lifestyle Podcasters - Full...
2024-05-311h 09Kinky Frame of MindEpisode 166 - This long distance thingEpisode 166 - This long distance thing - In this episode of Kinky Frame of Mind Don and Syn share their views on Long distance relationships. Fist the talk about their happenings, Don talks about dates and their hotel take over and getting to see Kole and Amanda from KASBH. Then they discuss long distance relationships, they can work and Don gives tips that have helped him over the years. My Lifestyle US | LinktreeCheck out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind Get all your merchandise at ...
2024-02-2358 minKinky Frame of MindEpisode 165 - How we handle our BSEpisode 165 - How we handle our BS - In this Episode of Kinky Frame of Mind Don and Syn discuss their happenings. Don talks about going to a Kinky Prom and still a little about the wreck. This weeks topics is about drama in the lifestyle and how we handle it and how people stir it up. It will happen it is life but how we handle it shows much more. My Lifestyle US | LinktreeCheck out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind Get all your mer...
2024-02-091h 01Kinky Frame of MindEpisode 164 - KWN RecapEpisode 164 - KWN Recap - In this Episode of Kink Frame Of Mind Don and Syn talk all about KWN. Don talks about his wreck on the way to the event. We talk all about the amazing event and the clothes at the formal to the impact class to the just amazing people and the out purring of love. The talk about KWN being KC bound next year. My Lifestyle US | LinktreeCheck out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind Get all your merchandise at Sho...
2024-01-2657 minKinky Frame of MindEpisode 162 - Are you helping make the lifestyle better?Episode 162 - Are you helping make the lifestyle better? - In this episode of Kinky Frame of Mind, Don and Syn talk about family stuff and about their happenings. The topic this week is fitting with the end of the year, Don asks what are you doing to make the lifestyle better and what things do you think make it better and when things hold it back or make it worse. My Lifestyle US | LinktreeCheck out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind Get all...
2023-12-2253 minKinky Frame of MindEpisode 161 - Creepy Nights outAll our links Episode 161 - Creepy Nights out - In this episode of Kinky Frame of Mind, Don and Syn talk all the fun stuff. Don is excited about their new sound board and all the possibilities. Then they discuss their weekend, Syn took their son to Colorado and Don had a date night with Sour Patch and Lady Kroft. This weeks topics are about creepy people at clubs and then about why vanillas are ok with cheating but not non monogamy My Lifestyle US | LinktreeCheck out Kinky Frame of Min...
2023-12-081h 08Kinky Frame of MindEpisode 157 - But I stayed at a Holiday Inn Express last nightEpisode 157 - But I stayed at a Holiday Inn Express last night - In this episode of Kinky Frame of Mind, Don and Syn talk about their happenings. Don talks about his rope class in Kansas City and then about moving their kid. This weeks topic is about understanding you kink and kink education. Kink education goes beyond just the basics of doing the act but goes into understand all the other little things going on or in the big picture. We need to teach the little details more and more.All our links My L...
2023-10-061h 11Kinky Frame of MindEpisode 156 - Do I know consentEpisode 156 - Do I know consent - In this Episode of Kinky Frame of Mind Don and Syn talk about their happenings. Don talks about his trip with Ladu Kroft for their anniversary. Then they talk about Rope Jam and the great event it was. Then they talk about a consent issue that came up about a scene that the person watching did not know what was consented and cause a scene All our links My Lifestyle US | LinktreeCheck out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind ...
2023-09-2248 minKinky Frame of MindEpisode 154 - To post or not to post that is the questionEpisode 154 - To post or not to post that is the question - In this episode of Kinky Frame of Mind Don and Syn talk about all the things going on. They make the announcement about going to Podcast-A-Palooza in Miami. Don talks about his recent classes and dates. Then this weeks topic is about posting on social media and how fast it can blow up. Don talks about an issue going on in Wichita with a venue owner posting some stuff on Facebook. All our links My Lifestyle US | LinktreeCheck out
2023-08-251h 01Kinky Frame of MindEpisode 153 - I invoke the VETO PowerEpisode 153 - I invoke the VETO Power - In this episode of Kinky Frame of Mind we get to take a peek into what has been going on with Don and Syn. Syn talks about seeing Beauty and the Beast live and Don talks about a couple dates with Lady Kroft. The they dive into a comment off a Facebook group about rules and changing them for partners. Then they discuss a big thing we don't talk about a lot VETO power. All our links My Lifestyle US | LinktreeCheck out
2023-08-111h 04Kinky Frame of MindEpisode 152 - OKC Pool party recap and I think I have and new girlfriend!Episode 152 - OKC Pool party recap and I think I have and new girlfriend! In this new episode of Kinky Frame of Mind podcast Syn talks about her weekend in Denver for BT's birthday. Then Don jumps into getting packed for the pool party and getting there. Don and syn discuss all the stuff going on and the great memories. Don talks about his new girlfriend and the funny story behind that. Then they talk about all the pool party games. All our links My Lifestyle US | LinktreeCheck out Kinky Fram...
2023-07-281h 13Kinky Frame of MindEpisode 150 - First time play dropEpisode 150 - First time play drop - In this episode of Kinky Frame of Mind, Don and Syn talk about getting ready for the pool party in OKC, talk about Don's tattoo and going to a hotel takeover. The they discuss and amil about emotions and drop after first time play. Don and Syn talk about a lot of times in their journey where they have struggled with things and why. All our links My Lifestyle US | LinktreeCheck out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind
2023-06-3054 minKinky Frame of MindEpisode 149 - Keeping TallyEpisode 149 - Keeping This episode of the sexy Kinky Frame of Mind swinger and kink podcast we get to see what is going on with Don and Syn in their lives. Syn talks about her trip to Dallas with BT and Don talks about his kink classes in OKC. Then they discuss a question about a partner feeling bad for playing more. All our links My Lifestyle US | LinktreeCheck out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind Get all your merchandise at Shop...
2023-06-161h 01Kinky Frame of MindEpisode 147 - Lifestyle Rule 101!!!Episode 147 - Lifestyle Rule 101!!! - In this episode of the sexy Kinky Mind of Podcast. Don and Syn talk about graduation, their rope intensive in Kansas City and Rope Jam coming up. This weeks topic is a Facebook post about needing to talk to the other partner before talking to them. Don and Syn discuss their views on this and what they do when this comes up. Don discusses what he thinks Lifestyle Rule #101 is. All our links My Lifestyle US | LinktreeCheck out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of...
2023-05-1959 minKinky Frame of MindE144 - My partner is going through FRENZY!E144 - My partner is going through FRENZY! - In this Episode of Kinky Frame of Mind Don and Syn talk about Don's Birthday weekend. Don talk about his date with his friend in OKC. Then they dig into this weeks topic. The have a question from a person who has a partner that is going through some frenzy and how this happen and how to help it. All our links My Lifestyle US | LinktreeCheck out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind Get all...
2023-04-0756 minKinky Frame of MindEpisode 143 - We need education!Episode 143 - We need education! - In this episode of the Kinky Frame of Mind Podcast we discuss our lives and what is going on. Don talks about his Dad getting catfished. Don talks about getting to attend a Rope Class as a student. The we jump into our topic. It is education in the lifestyle. We talk about pros and cons of how we do educations in the lifestyle and how we would like to see things move going forward. All our links My Lifestyle US | LinktreeCheck out Kinky Fra...
2023-03-2446 minKinky Frame of MindEpisode 142 - Don't do that in here playroom edition!Episode 142 - Don't do that in here playroom edition! In this episode of the sexy Swinger, Kink, BDSM podcast, Kinky Frame of Mind, Don and Syn talk about all their happenings. Don talks about giving some private rope lessons and ruining his dinner with ice cream. The he talks about a first date with a new friend. The we jump into discussing paly room etiquette. Things to do and not do in a playroom at a club. We give a few key points to think about. All our links My Lifestyle US | LinktreeCh...
2023-03-1045 minKinky Frame of MindEpisode 141 - What's this ethical thing?Episode 141 - What's this ethical thing? - In this episode of the sexy Swinger, Kink, BDSM podcast, Kinky Frame of Mind, Don and Syn talk about their weekends. Syn went to Denver with BT and they had lots of fun. Don and Lady Kroft went to OKC and say Rob Little and then they taught a rope intensive. Then this weeks topic is about ethical nonmonogamy, what is ethics, who decides what is ethical? Don talks about a post he put on a Facebook group about would you support a club if you knew the owner was shady or...
2023-02-2454 minKinky Frame of MindEpisode 140 - When the risk goes wrongEpisode 140 - When the risk goes wrong - In this episode of Kinky Frame of Mind your sexy swinger, kink, Bdsm podcast Don and Syn talk about what has been happening in their lives. They did a rope performance at a recent party for a friend that has some interesting stuff happen during. They spent a quiet weekend at home and some movies. Rope Jam 2023 is announced, its a regional rope event in Wichita. Then they discuss risk profiles in BDSM or Kink, firs off the different types of risk profiles. Then Don talks about when something goes wrong yo...
2023-02-1048 minKinky Frame of MindEpisode 137 - The waiting game (how long to wait)Episode 137 - The waiting game (how long to wait) - In this episode of Kinky Frame of Mind we recap our last couple weeks, Don went to see Kole and Amand from Krazy Truth and Syb went to Denver to see BT. Then they talk about their Christmas. This weeks question is about how long to wait to hook up with a friend going through a divorce. Don and Syn both share their views on this and discuss helping the new person as a mentor All our links My Lifestyle US | LinktreeCheck ou...
2022-12-3057 minKinky Frame of MindEpisode 136 - I have been profiledEpisode 136 - I have been profiled In this episode of Kinky Frame of Mind, Don and Syn talk about going to OKC for the weekend. They attended and shared their art at the Love Erotic event and then went to The Club Okc. Don talks about how he got profiled by the group when a cute blonde came in. Don talks a little about being in the right mind set and mental health before events and shares about how he has been with the anniversary of his mom's passing. Then they discuss a question about trusting play partners.
2022-12-1645 minKinky Frame of MindEpisode 135 - Give me a second I am bufferingEpisode 135 - Give me a second I am buffering - In this Episode of Kinky Frame of Mind Don and Syn talk about their Thanksgiving. Don talks about the one year anniversary of his Mom's death. Then they dive into questions. They first l Don thinks is fun about how you react if your partner is with someone you don't like. The second they talk about their real life situation about how to handle being bummed your partner is doing something you want with another partner. Syn talks about letting your partner process their feelings first. Don talks about...
2022-12-0247 minKinky Frame of MindEpisode 134 - Should I care about my dress?All our links My Lifestyle US | LinktreeCheck out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind Get all your merchandise at Shop Alternative Lifestyle Podcasters - FullSwapShop.comEpisode 134 - Should I care about my dress? In this weeks episode of Kinky Fame of Mind Don and Syn talk about their trip to The Club OKC. It was Syn's birthday they had a good time celebrating. They taught a Kinky class on Electric play. Ladt Kroft got to hit Don with a cattle prod...
2022-11-1852 minKinky Frame of MindEpisode 133 - This was my first event are they all like this?Episode 133 - This was my first event are they all like this? - In this episode Don and Syn talk about their week. Don went to a local kink event. Then they talk about going to The Club OKC Halloween Party. The talked about their costumes. Don was so excited about his. Then they have a couple questions one is about vetting for your partner. They talk about good ways and bad ways to do that. Then the next question was someone when went to their first event and was not sure of the vibe of the event. They...
2022-11-0449 minKinky Frame of MindEpisode 131 - Why we so worried about the orgasm?In this episode Don and Syn talk about their weeks, Syn talks about going to KC and the Ren fair, then Don talks about the art expo and the gang bang from his weekend. This week's topics, the first is a fb post about how a partners body tenses up during play and what should you do. The second is about a partner that does not orgasm from penetration. They talk about why is orgasm such a big deal if everyone is having fun. They talk about reasons why some people can't orgasm. All our links ...
2022-10-211h 00Kinky Frame of MindEpisode 130 - This is what i want what do you wantEpisode 130 - This is what i want what do you want. In this Episode Don and Syn talk about their lives, Don shares about how funny he was after his medical procedure. How he was making the nurses laugh. This we they had two questions the first was does it really matter how long you can last, they look at this question a couple different ways as to fast and to long. Then the next is about do you have to have the same after play expectations when you come home, and they talk about how their needs are...
2022-10-1451 minKinky Frame of MindEpisode 129: What does your name really meanEpisode 129: What does your name really mean - In this episode Don and Syn talk about their week, Don talks about attending a kink bonfire and getting to see some people he has not seen in a long time. The they talk about the soft opening of the club and how nice it was to party with people and have a good time. So then they get into the topic for this week, what do people in the community really think about you behind closed door? What does you name mean to them? Don talks about the our pouring...
2022-09-3049 minKinky Frame of Mindepisode 128 - Evolution of the LifestyleEpisode 128 - Evolution of the Lifestyle - In this episode Don and Syn talk about all their lives and their weekend at The Club OKC. Then they talk about a topic Don has seen a lot in groups lately about how the Lifestyle has changed. They discuss the good and bad of the changes and their views on change All our links My Lifestyle US | LinktreeCheck out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind Get all your merchandise at Shop Alternative Lifestyle Podca...
2022-09-231h 01Kinky Frame of MindEpisode 127 - Late night Recording and changing rulesEpisode 127 - Late night Recording and changing rules. In this episode Don and Syn talk about their weeks. Don and Lady Kroft had their anniversary. Syn went out with BT. Then this week's question is about a couple who changed their rules from couple to solo cause not getting action and then the guy is mad cause as solo the wife gets more attention All our links My Lifestyle US | LinktreeCheck out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind Get all your merchandise at ...
2022-09-1653 minKinky Frame of MindEpisode 126 - A day in the lifeEpisode 126 - A day in the life - In this episode Don and Syn talk more about Don's medical stuff. Then they talk about their trip to Denver. The went to a few farmers markets, meow wolf and some fun Tiki bars. This weeks question was two part. First is it ok for a certain gender to message first. they talk about their views on that. Then the second question is what does a day in the life look like. Oh what fun this is All our links My Lifestyle US | LinktreeCheck ou...
2022-09-091h 01Kinky Frame of MindEpisode 125 - Do you look for Red Flags?Episode 125 - Do you look for Red Flags? - In this Episode Donand Syn talk about their past weeks since they missed a week, Don talks about getting flashed at a gas station. Don also talks about his medical issues last week that kept them from recording. Then this weeks question is about as a couple do you look for red flags when you meet people? They talk about the kind of things they look forAll our links My Lifestyle US | LinktreeCheck out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Fr...
2022-08-2652 minKinky Frame of MindEpisode 124 - As the scouts say always be preparedEpisode 124 - As the scouts say always be prepared - In this episode Don and Syn discuss their weeks, Syn talks about her weekend with BT. They had a nice weekend in Wichita doing things. Don and Lady Kroft went to Kansas City and had a good weekend they went to a drag show and to a dungeon. This leads into this weeks topic. They watched a scene go bad and when it did you can tell no one was prepared for that and what to do at that point. They talk about always have an exit plan for...
2022-08-1258 minKinky Frame of MindEpisode 122 - The scheduling game!!Episode 122 - The scheduling game!! - In this episode Don and Syn talk about their weekends. Don talks about his night out with Lady Kroft and his crazy one liner's all night. Don and Syn talk about their anniversary. Then they dive into this week's topic. They discuss how scheduling in their lives works. How scheduling changes with partners lives and things. All our links My Lifestyle US | LinktreeCheck out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind Get all your merchandise at Shop...
2022-07-2249 minKinky Frame of MindEpisode 119 - Why you like so much stuffEpisode 119 - Why you like so much stuff - In this episode Don and Syn talk about their weekend, they got to see their friend Rob Little at a couple of his shows, after the Friday night show Don went to an after party with them and Wonder Woman. This week they have a question and a topic from a Facebook post. The first question is about getting invites to go camping or boating with people and if that a good first meet or date thing. The second is a comment about someone saying they don't like guys liking...
2022-06-2446 minKinky Frame of MindEpisode #117 - People be talking!Episode #117 - People be talking! In this Episode Don and Syn give us a couple weeks of recaps and talk about not having an episode last week. They did a vanilla weekend in OKC. They dig into this weeks topic, they have a message about someone that keeps stirring the rumor mill. Don and syn talk about reason people do this and ways to kind of point it out. They then both discuss how they handle this stuff personally! All our links My Lifestyle US | LinktreeCheck out Kinky Fram...
2022-06-1054 minKinky Frame of MindEpisode 116 - Separation among us? Why?Episode 116 - Separation among us? Why? - In this episode Don talks about getting to go to the PGA Championship with his boys and Dad, then they discuss their weekend. In this week's questions they have someone ask about site and what is good and bad. Don and Syn discuss their views on what works on sites and what hinders sites. In the other question of the week someone ask why is there so much separation between types of groups like swingers, kink or polyam. They discuss how they see it and how we can improve it and cut...
2022-05-2756 minKinky Frame of MindEpisode # 115 Its not a gender thingEpisode # 115 Its not a gender thing - In this Episode Don and Syn discuss their weekend. They had Wonder Woman/s graduation party and had Dinner with their youngest and his girlfriend. Then this week's question is about do you have same rules for a single female as a single male. Thet discuss how they handle it and their views. Then Don talk about a discussion he had about vetting single males different, and he talks about how he does not agreeAll our links My Lifestyle US | LinktreeCheck out Ki...
2022-05-2059 minKinky Frame of MindEpisode 114: Are you willing to open Pandoras Box?Episode 114: Are you willing to open Pandoras Box? - In this Episode Don and Syn talk about their week, Don had a Zoo date and then they had a double date at the Melodrama. This week's questions are kind of interconnected. Question one was about would you play with your neighbor and question two is about see a parents at a party! The question Don and Syn ask about both are you willing to deal with the outcome or the knowledge of acting or asking questions. Once it happens can't go back All our links My...
2022-05-131h 13Kinky Frame of MindEpisode 113 - Rule breaker and Anxiety update!Episode 113 - Rule breaker and Anxiety update! - In this Episode Don and Syn discuss their weeks, Don had a Meet and Greet in OKC and had a great time, Syn talks about the tornado that happened. Then they discuss going to Club Eden. They answer a listener question about how to handle someone that breaks small rules often. They talk about how people need to get better at reporting issues. Then Don gives us an update on how his anxiety was with seeing his ex in OKC! All our links My Lifestyle US | Linktree...
2022-05-0654 minKinky Frame of MindEpisode 112 - Anxiety is a BI!!chEpisode 112 - Anxiety is a BI!!ch - In this Episode Don and Syn discuss their weeks. Syn talks about watching show with Lady Kroft and Don talks about a date night with Wonder Woman. They discus about a new product on Full Swap Shop the Night Cap, they talk about what a great item this is to have and just the safety you get from them. The first topic is a question about how long do you talk to someone before you give up. They talk about how people get busy and life happens and things don't always...
2022-04-2959 minKinky Frame of MindEpisode 111 - 420 recording and getting back on the horseEpisode 111 - 420 recording and getting back on the horse - In this episode Don and Syn discuss their weekend, Don realizes how hard it is to record high and concentrate. They talk about their recent Meet and Greet, Dine with Kole and Amanda from Krazy. Kole and Don came up with a new gang hand sign for the lifestyle. Then they went to the planet swirl take over at the club OKC. It was a great event. Then they answer a listener question about a girlfriend having a pushy guy at a club and now is feeling iffy about...
2022-04-2231 minKinky Frame of MindEpisode 110 - Loving the newbie and helping their walkEpisode 110 - Loving the newbie and helping their walk In this episode Don and Syn talk about their weekends, Syn had a date weekend, they went to adult skate and a hotel with a jacuzzi tub. Don went to Denver for the weekend, they went to Meow Wolf, shopping, tiki bar and dispensary. This weeks topics is about how we want the lifestyle to grow but we always get frustrated with new people. So they look at a few areas we get frustrated with new people in and discuss how we can help newbies grow in these are...
2022-04-1555 minKinky Frame of MindEpisode 109 - Interview with Jeff from Promescent.Episode 109 - Interview with Jeff from Promescent. - In this Episode Don and Syn discuss their week, it was Don's Birthday night out. They discuss dinner, then the bar. As Don says no Birthday Bash is complete without a bar fight and unexpended boobs. His Birthday has both. Oh and the lap dance tune in to hear about it. Then Don and syn are excited to have Jeff from Promescent on. They are a prize supporter for The Club OKC Pool Party this year, They discuss how Promescent was started, about their products, how they are different from other...
2022-04-081h 03Kinky Frame of MindEpisode 108 - Rejection sucksEpisode 108 - Rejection sucks- In this Episode Don and Syn talk about there last week, Don had a Kink night at Club Eden OKC. Then they got to spend some time with family. In this week's question the discuss dealing with rejection. A listener asks Don how he deals with it being a bigger guy. The discuss how hard it is at time and how to remember there are other people out there. They talk about ways not to take it personal and how with time it gets easier All our links My Lifestyle US | Linktree
2022-04-0155 minKinky Frame of MindEpisode 107 - You say she is just a friend, OH BABY YOU...!Episode 107 - You say she is just a friend, OH BABY YOU...! In this episode Don and Syn talk about their week, they had ne meet and greet Friday and date night on Saturday! They discuss a topic on a Facebook group about what to do with a play partner disrespects your spouse or your relationship. They talk about having a planned way to bring stuff on this up. Then Don discusses a little on his views of people who have been in the lifestyle awhile need to be good teachers to newbies All our links ...
2022-03-2556 minKinky Frame of MindEpisode 106- It is a squirter convention!!Episode 106 - It is a squirter convention!! In this episode Don and Syn talk about their recent busy travel weekend, Starting with Don doing Eden Kink night, things are growing every week with this new event it's been good. Then Friday they headed to Lincoln Nebraska for KASBH's 6th Birthday Party. Went to a house preparty before and had a great time. They had a great experience at the main event, turn around and come home to host a cosmic bowling event. Trying new things in the local area to get people out. Their youngest was in town for...
2022-03-1857 minKinky Frame of MindEpisode 105 - Batman , Kumquat, oh what was the safe word!Episode 105 - Batman , Kumquat, oh what was the safe word! - In this episode Don and Syn discus their weekend, seeing Batman, lady Kroft's grandpas funeral, Syn and BT's date in OKC, Don and Lady Kroft's date night at home. Then they discuss a Facebook question about who sets up a safe word, don/sub vs top/bottom discussion, the importance of negotiating a safe word!All our links My Lifestyle US | LinktreeCheck out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind Get all your merc...
2022-03-111h 04Kinky Frame of MindEpisode 102 - Would you go back and hit it again?Episode 102 - Would you go back and hit it again? - In this episode Don and Syn talk about their week, the Seductions Party in OKC, Don going to Adult Prom with Wonder Woman. Then they get into an email from a listener about would you go back to an ex, Don and Syn discuss past things in their lives with this topic. All our links https://linktr.ee/MyLifestyleUSCheck out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind Get all your merchendise at Sho...
2022-02-181h 00Kinky Frame of MindEpisode 100 - You need to be more transparentEpisode 100 - You need to be more transparent - WOW! Episode 100!!!!!!! We can't believe we did it!! In this episode we discuss our fun weekend. Talk about dates and fun. Don gets asked if he teaches what he does at a bar! Then we talk about being transparent with you potential partners. We discuss how hard it can be, we never want rejected but we have to be honest. We talk about things we don't always think needs to be disclosed. Then we discuss a little about talking about your potential risk profile and knowing what risk you are...
2022-02-0458 minKinky Frame of MindEpisode 99 - Going to the PartyEpisode 99 - Going to the Party - In this Episode Don and Syn discuss a email about approaching people at events and how to move to sex. Makin contact before the event and closing the deal. Don talks about he is not good at closing the deal at events. Then we move into discussing respect at events and everything that goes into a putting on events. Check out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind Get all your merchendise at Shop Alternative Lifestyle Podcasters - FullSwapShop.com
2022-01-281h 06Kinky Frame of MindEpisode 95 -2021 in a nutshellEpisode 95 -2021 in a nutshell - In this episode we talk about some of the highlights and low lights of the year, We got to hangout with a lot of fellow podcasters in Miami, Don's b-day party with Ron Little, the club OKC pool party and stuff we have not talked about during that weekend, then Podbash at Secrets Hideaway, Lady Kroft having COVID, Don's mom passing and then seeing Rob again. It was a great year and so many things cause of the podcast Check out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mi...
2022-01-0747 minKinky Frame of MindEpisode 92 - There she blowsEpisode 92 - There she blows - In this Episode don and Syn talk about their week and how Don is excited to get back into doing photography. Then they talk about the conversion in their house to build a studio finally. Then they get to a listener question about the change in the lifestyle to where squirting is expected and what to do if you dont squirt. Then they talk about why they think guys get to focused on it. Check out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind Get...
2021-12-031h 01Kinky Frame of Mindepisode 91 - What if things don't go as expected and do we have to do that every timeepisode 91 - What if things don't go as expected and do we have to do that every time - In this episode we look at a listener question that is two part, the first is about been chatting with someone and how do we not let mental expectations effect our date and play and how to let go mentally. Then they ask if your kinky does that play get involved every time? Check out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind Get all your merchendise at Shop Alte...
2021-11-191h 04Kinky Frame of MindEpisode 89 - Profile don'tsEpisode 89 - Profile don'ts - In this episode the duo looks at things they dont like to see on profiles and why, Don discuses things like discrete, drama free, and his big one HWP. Syn chimes in on her views of these things also. They talk about your profile is your selling card and you get just a few seconds to win a new visit. Check out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind Get all your merchendise at Shop Alternative Lifestyle Podcasters - FullSwapShop.com
2021-11-051h 11Kinky Frame of MindEpisode 86 - Why are you not more Romantic?Episode 86 - Why are you not more Romantic? - In this Episode Don and Syn talk about why people are romantic and not romantic. We discuss why we think men and women are different a lot of times in their views of Romance. Syn talk about how she is a Romantic person and Don is not as much. Don discuss how he thinks how he sees things effects that. Check out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind AltPlayGroundIts our site of choice join our...
2021-10-151h 13Kinky Frame of MindEpisode 84 - Cheating and other stuffEpisode 84 - Cheating and other stuff - This week Don and Syn recap their week. Stories lead to others stories and they keep telling more and more. They discus cheating in the lifestyle and what they consider cheating and why they think some of it happens! That goes to Don discussing about some self reflection and growth ! Check out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind AltPlayGroundIts our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your me...
2021-10-011h 15Kinky Frame of MindEpisode 82: Couple Polyamorous QuestionsEpisode 82: Couple Polyamorous Questions In this episode Don and Syn look at a couple listeners question about polyamory. The fist is how to encourage your partners to keep active when they don’t have a polyam dynamic. The second is about a fb post that was asking if people are really looking for relationships and if Polyam relationships workCheck out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind AltPlayGroundIts our site of choice join our Community on there
2021-09-1757 minKinky Frame of MindEpisode 80 - Picture this!Episode 80 - Picture this! -In this episode Don talks about going to Club Eden with his new girlfriend and her first experience. He chats about how sexy it was to watch her open up and experiment then own her sexy attitude. Then Don and Syn talk about picture taking in the lifestyle, They discuss the difference in asking for consent to use a pic and the legal part of who owns the pic and copyright.Check out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind AltPlayGroundIts our si...
2021-09-0451 minKinky Frame of MindEpisode 78 - The Label GameEpisode 78 - The Label Game - In this episode we have a special guest host with Don as Syn is recovering from surgery still. The special guest is Lady Kroft from Synful ladies. Her and Don chat about the ladies podcast and a little about her lifestyle. They also discuss labels in the lifestyle and how so many times we miss out on things cause we put people in these boxes with labels on them instead of letting them just be people Check out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind
2021-08-201h 01Kinky Frame of MindEpisode - 77 Don't shameEpisode - 77 Don't shame - In this episode we look at a couple listeners questions the first is on FOMO and budgeting for events. We chat about how Don had a little FOMO type thing last weekend missing the Eden Pool Party, then we go over some budget ideas. The second question has to do with kink and swing shaming. We discuss why we feel this happens and how to help people when it happensCheck out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind AltPlayGroundIts our si...
2021-08-131h 00Kinky Frame of MindEpisode 73 - Get to know Don and SynEpisode 73 - Get to know Don and Syn - In this episode we do some fun questions so you can get to know us a little better. Check out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind AltPlayGroundIts our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at Shop Alternative Lifestyle Podcasters - FullSwapShop.com Then Check us out at Instagram @kinkyframeofmind • Instagram photos and vid...
2021-07-1655 minKinky Frame of MindEpisode 65 - Do's and Don'ts at eventsEpisode 65 - Do's and Don'ts at events. In this episode we go over a list of do's and don't at events since we are all getting back in the swing of events Check out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind AltPlayGroundIts our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at Shop Alternative Lifestyle Podcasters - FullSwapShop.com Then Check us out at Instagram @kinkyfra...
2021-05-211h 08Kinky Frame of MindEpisode 59 - Don't be a Debbie DownerEpisode 59 - Don't be a Debbie Downer. In this episode we talk about not being a Debbie Downer. We all know one and know what its like when we see them. We talk about the different types of Debbie Downers. From the woe is me, to the over serious, the negative Nellie and so on. Then we talk a little why sometimes people act like this. Check out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind AltPlayGroundIts our site of choice join our Community on ther...
2021-04-0950 minKinky Frame of MindEpisode 47 - Damn that is to BIGEpisode 47 - Damn that is to BIG. In this Episode we have a listener question about how to tell someone their penis is to BIG. Then we have a discussion about its a new year and a good time to review rules and goals. Check out altplayground.netIts our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at WWW.fullswapshop.com Then Check us out at Instagram https://www.instagr...
2021-01-0855 minKinky Frame of MindEpisode 46- end of yearEpisode 46 - end of year in this episode we look back at the last year and talk about the good and bad. then we also talk about how we are all part of the same group no matter where we fall in our play Check out altplayground.netIts our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at WWW.fullswapshop.com Then Check us out at Instagram https://www.instagr...
2021-01-0139 minKinky Frame of MindEpisode 45 - Fair rulesEpisode 45 - Fair rules. In this episode we look at being fair on rules and keeping a balance. Also we discuss a question that came up on out Facebook group about numbers of partners. Check out altplayground.netIts our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at WWW.fullswapshop.com Then Check us out at Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kinkyframeofmind/ Twitter https://twi...
2020-12-251h 05Kinky Frame of Mindepisode 44- Let's educate new peopleEpisode 44 - Let's educate new people, in this episode Don goes on a rant about a post he saw on a site about someone getting mad when a new person questioned their dynamic. We talk about how to handle this type of interaction and how we need to help educate new people Check out altplayground.netIts our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at WWW.fullswapshop.com Then Check us out at
2020-12-1855 minKinky Frame of MindEpisode 43 : Just not feeling itEpisode 43 : Just not feeling it - In this episode we talk about a message we got about what to do when you are just not feeling it or feeling sexy. Then we have a question about what to do when the person just wants to talk sex all the time Check out altplayground.netIts our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at WWW.fullswapshop.com Then Check us out at Insta...
2020-12-1152 minKinky Frame of MindEpisode 42: how to get some interestEpisode 42: how to get some interest - in this episode we talk about a question on how can i get people interested in me and we take a look at getting started in your rope journey Check out altplayground.netIts our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at WWW.fullswapshop.com Then Check us out at Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kinkyframeofmind/ Twitter
2020-12-0454 minKinky Frame of MindEpisode 41 - Don't JudgeEpisode 41 - Don't Judge In this episode we talk about judging and assuming people on personality Check out altplayground.netIts our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at WWW.fullswapshop.com Then Check us out at Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kinkyframeofmind/ Twitter https://twitter.com/kinkyfom Email kinkyfom@gmail.com Facebook
2020-11-2646 minKinky Frame of MindEpisode 40 - That's a deal breaker dude!!Episode 40 - That's a deal breaker Dude! in this episode we look at what is a deal breaker for you and what you can deal we, we both discuss our deal breakers and then we discuss a few answers we go on our Facebook group. Check out altplayground.netIts our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at WWW.fullswapshop.com Then Check us out at Instagram https://www...
2020-11-191h 01Kinky Frame of MindEpisode 39 - The hard QuestionEpisode 39 - The hard Question - In this episode we look at a couple questions. The first is about what is ok messaging and how to ask what is ok. The second Question is probably one of the hardest to bring up when was you last STI test and do you have anything Check out altplayground.netIts our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at WWW.fullswapshop.com Then Check...
2020-11-1154 minKinky Frame of MindEpisode 38: What Party do I go toEpisode 38 - What Party do I go to? in this episode we talk about we are in the busy time of swinger parties Halloween to Mardi Gras is a busy time so many parties and options. We give you a few things to thing about when choosing what event to attend. What will increase your personal chances and enjoyment Check out altplayground.netIts our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at WWW.fullswaps...
2020-11-0551 minKinky Frame of MindEpisode 37: LittlesIn this episode we take a look at age play, we look at different aspects of the kink Check out altplayground.netIts our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at WWW.fullswapshop.com Then Check us out at Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kinkyframeofmind/ Twitter https://twitter.com/kinkyfom Email kinkyfom@gmail.com Facebo...
2020-10-2850 minKinky Frame of MindEpisode 36 - quench that thirstEpisode 36 -Quench that thirst. In this episode we discuss some do's and don'ts of meet and greets. We share incidents that happened at a recent meet and greet with us. Then we also take a look at what thirsty behavior is. What makes you appear to be thirsty Check out altplayground.netIts our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at WWW.fullswapshop.com Then Check us out at Instagram...
2020-10-2053 minKinky Frame of Mindepisode 35: breaking inEpisode 35: Breaking in. In this episode we look at an email question that ask about how to break into the scene and how to get invited to events. The the question also deals a little with body type issues so we jump into body shaming a little Check out altplayground.netIts our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at WWW.fullswapshop.com Then Check us out at Instagram https...
2020-10-081h 03Kinky Frame of MindEpisode 34: what on your fuck it listEpisode 34: What's on your fuck it list In this episode we talk about stuff that makes up or give idea on what's on different peoples fuck it list. We also go into detail about some of our top items on our list Check out altplayground.netIts our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at WWW.fullswapshop.com Then Check us out at Instagram https://www.instagra...
2020-10-0153 minKinky Frame of MindEpisode 33 Hymn 103 ComprehensionEpisode 33 Hymn 103 ComprehensionIn this Episode discuss the importance of communication in our relationships, but not just how to communicate bit making sure our partner comprehends what we are saying that is the important part. We also discuss communication keyword or secrets words on dates. So we can know how the other is feeling during an outing Check out altplayground.netIts our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchandise at WWW.fullswapshop.com Then Ch...
2020-09-2355 minKinky Frame of MindEpisode 32 - Come Prepared and ReadyIn this Episode discuss a couple topics, the first is coming to a party prepared and ready. We discuss pointer on coming to a BDSM party prepared and ready for a scene. In the second half we discuss how hard bottoms can be on themselves when a scene gets cut short or does not go good. altplayground.netIts our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at WWW.fullswapshop.com Then Check us out at Ins...
2020-09-1553 minKinky Frame of MindEpisode 31: What's your favorite PositionIn this episode we discuss our favorite position and why we like them. We chat about asking this question on some Facebook groups and the odd answers we got. This the brings up the discussion of being an active and attentive partner Check out altplayground.netIts our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at WWW.fullswapshop.com Then Check us out at Instagram https://www.instagra...
2020-09-1000 minKinky Frame of MindEpisode 30 - This break brought to you byEpisode 30 - This break brought to you by, we take a look at causes of lifestyle burnout and why taking a break is ok and important. we discuss some of the top reason we have seen burn out. The we look at how to fix burnout and what we need to do to prevent it and have a great lifestyle experience Check out altplayground.netIts our site of choice join our Community on there check out our merchandise at https://www.fullswapshop.com/
2020-09-011h 00Kinky Frame of MindEpisode 29 -The MAN ShowEpisode 29 The MAN Show. In this episode we take a peek into Men issues. We look at men's health and performance. We also give lots of male tips in the lifestyle. Don share about many of his health issues and how finding them has helped his overall performance and life. Its some real time with him Check out altplayground.netIts our site of choice join our Community on there Then Check us out at Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kinkyframeofmind/
2020-08-271h 06Kinky Frame of MindEpisode 28 Manners, I know your momma taught you betterEpisode 28 Manners, I know your momma taught you better In this episode we look at manners and how to talk to and treat potential playmates. So many times we get carried away when we are talking to a potential playmate and we can ruin our chances off the start. We also talk about not judging people on who they play with Check out altplayground.netIts our site of choice join our Community on there Then Check us out at Instagram http...
2020-08-1956 minKinky Frame of MindEpisode 27 - Be a MF'ing Rockstar at being youIn this episode we talk about how the lifestyle becomes a family and how family helps its members. We also talk about finding your place and what you are in the community and doing it the best you can. Check out altplayground.netIts our site of choice join our Community on there Then Check us out at Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kinkyframeofmind/ Twitter https://twitter.com/kinkyfom Email kinkyfom@g...
2020-08-1236 minKinky Frame of MindEpisode 26 - I'd squirt in your FACE!!Episode 26 - In this episode we discuss a couple funny stories this week about squirting and then we take a look at how we talk about our other halves on social media. Check out altplayground.netIts our site of choice join our Community on there Then Check us out at Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kinkyframeofmind/ Twitter https://twitter.com/kinkyfom Email kinkyfom@gmail.com Facebook
2020-08-0643 minKinky Frame of MindEpisode 25: questions to ask potential playmatesEpisode 25: In this episode we take a look at some questions to start conversations with potential playmates to get the best results Check out altplayground.netIts our site of choice join our Community on there Then Check us out at Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kinkyframeofmind/ Twitter https://twitter.com/kinkyfom Email kinkyfom@gmail.com Facebook Don Kinkyfom
2020-07-2949 minKinky Frame of MindEpisode 24 - FWB what's this all aboutIn this episode we take a look at what FWB really is and then have a little fun with some would you rather questions Check out altplayground.netIts our site of choice join our Community on there Then Check us out at Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kinkyframeofmind/ Twitter https://twitter.com/kinkyfom Email kinkyfom@gmail.com Facebook Don Kinkyfom
2020-07-2355 minKinky Frame of Mindepisode 23 - Misconceptions of the lifestyleIn this episode we look at some major misconceptions of the lifestyle and also we discuss first meets one on one Check out altplayground.netIts our site of choice join our Community on there Then Check us out at Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kinkyframeofmind/ Twitter https://twitter.com/kinkyfom Email kinkyfom@gmail.com Facebook Don Kinkyfom
2020-07-1550 min
Kinky Frame of MindEpisode 22 - Are you PRICK?Episode 22 - Are you PRICK? in this episode we look at the 3 basic Safety Mindsets in the BDSM community. Are you SSC, RACK or PRICK. We take a look at each of these are discus what they mean and what the differences are. We hope to help you play safe and paly hard and have fun Check out altplayground.netIts our site of choice join our Community on there Then Check us out at Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kinkyframeofmind/
2020-07-0748 min
Kinky Frame of MindEpisode 21: The FrenzyIn this episode we take a look at newbie FRENZY. What is frenzy and different things that can cause and lead to Frenzy. How to handle it if we see we are doing it. Also reasons why its not good for us. Check out altplayground.netIts our site of choice Then Check us out at Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kinkyframeofmind/ Twitter https://twitter.com/kinkyfom Email kinkyfom@gmail.com
2020-06-3056 min
Kinky Frame of MindEpisode 20 - Whats does your profile say about you?Episode 20 - What does your profile say about you? In this episode we take a look at what our online profile says about us and how we can improve it. We look at how to improve our written profile, our pictures, how to reach out to people and start a convo and how to respond to someone Check out altplayground.netIts our site of choice Then Check us out at Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kinkyframeofmind/ Twitter https...
2020-06-2354 min
Kinky Frame of MindEpisode 19 - Control your damn selfIn this Episode we talk about discretion and sexpectations. Its a wild ride for sure as we share some outing and lack of discretion that has happened to us in the last week. Check out altplayground.netIts our site of choice Then Check us out at Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kinkyframeofmind/ Twitter https://twitter.com/kinkyfom Email kinkyfom@gmail.com Facebook Don Kinkyfom
2020-06-1656 minKinky Frame of MindEpisode 18 - All about that Flirt, that flirtIn this episode we take a look at the art of Flirting, something we all have to do at some points and can be hard for some of us. We look at a few do's and do not's in the flirt game. Check out altplayground.netIts our site of choice Then Check us out at Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kinkyframeofmind/ Twitter https://twitter.com/kinkyfom Email kinkyfom@gmail.com
2020-06-091h 00Kinky Frame of MindEpisode 17 - Munch Munch MunchIn this episode we discuss what a munch is and some do's and don'ts to a munch. Then we discuss how to get your partner interested in things Check out our Kasidie Communtiy www. Kasidie.com promo code kinkyframeofmind Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kinkyframeofmind/ Twitter https://twitter.com/kinkyfom Email kinkyfom@gmail.com Facebook Don Kinkyfom
2020-06-031h 00Kinky Frame of Mindepisode 16 - the countdown!!In this episode we discuss being respectful of others rules and limits and then we dive into a 100 signs your in the lifestyle list. How many fit your kinky ass? let us know how you add up Check out our Kasidie Communtiy www. Kasidie.com promo code kinkyframeofmind Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kinkyframeofmind/ Twitter https://twitter.com/kinkyfom Email kinkyfom@gmail.com Facebook Don Kinkyfom
2020-05-281h 00Kinky Frame of MindEpisode 15 -The first rule of FUCK club!In this episode we discuss well we might not discuss much cause first rule is we don't talk lol but really we talk out coming out to friends and family, we talk about not outing someone. Then we discuss a little about what to expect and etiquette at different types of events Check out our Kasidie Communtiy www. Kasidie.com promo code kinkyframeofmind Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kinkyframeofmind/ Twitter https://twitter.com/kinkyfom Email
2020-05-191h 05Kinky Frame of Mindepisode 11 - Top 10 reason to be in the lifesyleIn this Episode we look at a top 10 list of why the lifestyle is good. We discus if we agree or disagree with the countdown. We have a fun time discussing these. Check out our Kasidie Communtiy www. Kasidie.com promo code kinkyframeofmind Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kinkyframeofmind/ Twitter https://twitter.com/kinkyfom Email kinkyfom@gmail.com snapchat kinkyfom
2020-04-201h 02Kinky Frame of MindE10 - Q&A Get to know youIn this episode we just sit around and answer questions about what we are attracted to and what turns us on. We spend some time asking each other questions about what we like and don't like heck out our Kasidie Communtiy www. Kasidie.com promo code kinkyframeofmind Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kinkyframeofmind/ Twitter https://twitter.com/kinkyfom Email kinkyfom@gmail.com Snapchat Kinkyfom
2020-04-1359 min