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No Ginger (しょうがない）She Speaks for Him?! Dating in Japan with a Too-Helpful PartnerIn this episode, Samar and Ash read an email from a foreign man dating a Japanese woman — and he’s spiraling. She’s ordering for him. Speaking for him. Stepping in before he even gets to say “kore kudasai.”
He’s worried he’s becoming that foreign guy in Japan — you know the one. Been here for years. Can’t speak a full sentence. Just vibes and shrugs his way through life. We unpack what it means to be in a relationship in Japan when your partner is a little too helpful. How do you stay independent when you can speak...2025-07-2548 min
No Ginger (しょうがない）Why Japan’s Summer Heat Will Break You (Deodorant can save us all!)Listen. It’s hot. Unreasonably hot. Hell’s sauna on discount. And the deodorant? A lie. On this week's episode of No Ginger (しょうがない), Ash and Samar heroically risk heatstroke and social cancellation to investigate why Japan’s summer turns us all into sweaty swamp goblins. Samar gets electrocuted for science (and dry feet). Ash yells about parasols and smells to save her eyeballs and nose. The internet's advice is Taisho era old, and why are people wearing 3 jacekts when it's 35 degrees? We're tackling some seriously critical questions like: Is ¥6000 deodorant a scam or salvation? Why aren't pharmacies doing us all a solid with th...2025-07-1544 min
No Ginger (しょうがない）Cheap Housing Scams, Ghosts, and Petty Neighbor Revenge in JapanOn this week’s No Ginger （しょうがない）, Samar and Ash break ground on old houses and old revenge plots. They dig into the too-good-to-be-true world of cheap abandoned akiya in Japan—complete with earthquake risks, ghostly yokai, and remote living challenges no influencer reel ever shows you. Then it’s on to the real drama: neighborhood justice, bike tire-slashing, and Samar’s increasingly creative (and mildly incriminating) plans to deal with her own noisy neighbor. It’s the real cost of life in Japan—with plenty of laughter, side-eye, and just enough true crime energy to make you reconsider buying that ¥3,000 fixer-upper....2025-06-3047 min
No Ginger (しょうがない）Can You Really Move to Japan with a $1,000?Can you really move to Japan with just a thousand bucks? (Spoiler: kinda... but also, absolutely not.)
This week on No Ginger (しょうがない), Samar and Ash break down the real costs of starting life in Japan—from dodgy sharehouses and prepaid rent to commuter pass drama and the painful truth about when your first paycheck actually arrives. Along the way: nicotine-flavored café confusion, budgeting fails, and the joys of carrying trash across Tokyo.
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No Ginger (しょうがない）Finding Friends in a City that won't Text Back: A Crash Course in Emotional EnduranceIs Tokyo really that lonely? Or are we just bad at making friends? In this episode of No Ginger (しょうがない), Samar and Ash get real about what it’s like trying to build genuine connections in Japan’s infamously reserved capital. From scheduling culture shock to introvert survival tactics, we unpack why friendship feels like dating… but without the drinks. Whether you’re new in town, stuck in the group chat with no replies, or wondering why everyone disappears after one hangout—this is your crash course in emotional endurance and how to not lose your mind in the process.
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No Ginger (しょうがない）Kiss your Homies, Not Your Wives: LGBTQ Dating Culture and Perceptions of Cheating in JapanThis week on No Ginger (しょうがない), we read a listener email that left us speechless:
He went on dates with two different men in Japan… both of them turned out to be married, with wives, and no remorse.
We’re joined by our first-ever guest: Soichi from @So_English_Gay and That's So Carrot podcast! He is an openly Japanese gay man who’s here to break it all down. Why are queer relationships still stuck in secrecy? What is the difference between the idea of open relationships in the West and Japan? And how does one navigate the LGBTQ+...2025-05-3059 minNo Ginger (しょうがない）Trains or Trauma? Getting Lost in Japan’s StationsA listener missed their train because there were literally no signs. We rant about the confusing reality of Japan’s train stations (we’re looking at you, Shibuya), whether locals even understand the signs, and how these platforms feel more like a boss level than public transport.
PLUS — Game Master Toffee is back with a brand new round of the No Jouzu quiz. Will we finally be jouzu at something? (Doubtful.)
We need stories! Become a part of the No Ginger community by emailing us your “shouganai” story at: nogingerpodcast@gmail.com
Or if you pre...2025-05-1451 minNo Ginger (しょうがない）ASMR or Assault? Our Verdict on Loud Eating in JapanOn this week's episode, a Japanese listener messaged us because she's working with foreigners who chew with their mouths open, and she’s losing her mind. She wants to know if it’s okay to say something, or if she just has to accept it. We discuss the bigger question: when you’re sharing a space with people from different cultures, how much should you adapt, and how much should you speak up?
Do you have a story that is burning a hole in your heart? Send it to us at nogingerpodcast@gmail.com so we can “しょうがない” together.
If y...2025-05-0232 minNo Ginger (しょうがない）Izakayas Are Closing, Resignation Agencies Are Booming, and Japan’s Last Again…This week on No Ginger, you are invited to tea.
Samar covers The Guardian’s story on Japan’s dying drinking culture. Ash takes us through the Mainichi 2024 year-end roundup until she gets stuck on the resignation agency boom. Join us as we rack our brains on:
Why are izakayas shutting down all over Japan? Why are resignation agencies (What's that? 👀) getting more popular? And why does Japan keep coming in last on every world survey? 😭
Do you have a story that is burning a hole in your heart? Send it to us at nogingerp...2025-04-1742 minNo Ginger (しょうがない）You Can Leave Japan, But Can Your Money?Can you really take your yen with you when you leave Japan? Or does the country keep a little piece of your paycheck forever?
This week, Samar kicks things off with a shouganai about a friend who got mad that people weren’t liking our reel... even though she watched it, enjoyed it, and didn’t like it either. Make it make sense. Then Ash tells the story of landing in Korea with no cash and getting her debit card hacked immediately. Perfect timing.
Then we get into a DM from someone who tried to leav...2025-04-0132 minNo Ginger (しょうがない）Izakaya Horror Story: Left to Rot in the Yokohama BathroomIn this episode, Ash and Samar's friendship is tested. They’re joined by their friend and game master, Tof, as they dive into a wild listener story that’ll make you rethink who you trust.
A first-year university student went out for a fun night at a cozy Japanese izakaya in Yokohama. Everything was great—until she got locked in the bathroom… and her friend didn't notice for TWO hours. Would YOUR friends come to the rescue, or would they just assume you died and move on?
🔻 In this episode, we get into:
🚩 How long is TOO LON...2025-03-0644 min
No Ginger (しょうがない）Intercultural Dating in Japan: The Rule-Following Girlfriend vs. The Rule-Bending BoyfriendIn this episode of No Ginger, we dive into the hilarious, frustrating, and eye-opening realities of intercultural dating in Japan. A listener writes in to share her struggles with a central European boyfriend who sees Japanese rules as "creative suggestions" rather than strict guidelines—leading to lifeguard confrontations and plenty of tears.
We explore the cultural differences in how rules are perceived, why some foreigners seem allergic to following them, and how both written and unwritten social expectations seem to never be understood the same way. We break down the logic gaps, emotional clashes, and funny misunderstandings th...2025-01-1132 min
No Ginger (しょうがない）Shame Kink Activated: The Only Way to Learn JapaneseThis week, it’s a whirlwind of shouganai moments and language learning chaos. Samar kicks things off with a hilariously frustrating tale of being trapped in a parking lot (with no way out but acceptance). Ash follows up with her Shanghai saga of getting scammed and surviving to still be frustrated by it.
Then we dive into a listener DM that hits close to home: how to regain motivation for learning Japanese. Is shame the ultimate motivator? Or is it love? Or is it all just a long road to karaoke fluency? Tune in as we share ou...2024-12-2436 minNo Ginger (しょうがない）Proposal to Remove Women's Uteruses, Men Blaming Men for the Population Decline and the Sato TakeoverSamar and Ash share a cup of a Japanese favorite: TEA! Served piping hot, Samar and Ash share questionable political rhetoric, the one family that keeps getting married, and their usual shouganai moments. No uteruses were hurt in the making of this episode.
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Email us: nogingerpodcast@gmail.co...2024-12-0436 minNo Ginger (しょうがない）Salaryman Kicks Foreigner on a Tokyo Train, Gets Destroyed By Japanese WifeIn this wild episode of No Ginger, we dive into an unbelievable listener story straight from Tokyo's Chuo Line. A British man's crossed leg sparks the fury of a Japanese salaryman, leading to a physical altercation and a tense showdown. Luckily, his fiery Japanese wife steps in to defend him in full-on "demon mode." Join us as we decide whether there was ginger or not and what we would do in this situation.
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We are waiting for your No Gingers either th...2024-11-2242 minNo Ginger (しょうがない）Get off the skreetz! How to avoid falling prey to Sa, Shi, Su, Se, So (Japanese Rizz)In this week's episode, our emailer shares his concerns over potentially being single forever (a dog in the streets). Ash and Samar are joined by a special guest, Tof, to dissect the cheating and dating culture of Japan. Tof then brings the heat with a real test of Japan-based knowledge in our new segment "Are you Jouzu?"
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Or DM your No Gingers to us on instagram or tiktok: https://w...2024-11-1345 minNo Ginger (しょうがない）Japan's Bicyclists Run These Streets! New bike laws incomingIn this week's episode, a British gentleman emails us, utterly baffled by the mystery that is bicyclists in Japan. Are there actually rules for bicyclists, or is it just a case of しょうがない and hoping for the best? Buckle up (grab your helmet)—it's going to be a wild ride!
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https://www.tiktok.com/@nogingerpodcast2024-11-0433 minNo Ginger (しょうがない）Is there a doctor in the house? Navigating the healthcare system in JapanIn this week's episode, we hear from an emailer who broke their foot on their BIRTHDAY and the doctors who dropped the ball. Samar and Ash dive into whether this is an unusual occurrence or is it truly No Ginger (しょうがない)?
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