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Starter MarriageI'm Jealous Of Your SuccessAllison coins a new phrase that will hit the zeitgeist by storm. The duo then dive into jealousy toward each other. Allison feels threatened by John's writing now that he has a Substack and is envious that he doesn't also live with OCD. And John reveals he hasn't always dealt with his jealousy in the healthiest of ways.
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2025-11-241h 03Starter MarriageOur Grounds For DivorceThis week, Allison and John dive into John's least favorite topic: divorce. They each share their deal breakers and have a detailed debate over how much privacy is appropriate in a marriage. Allison then shares some divorce statistics that blow John's mind.
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2025-11-1758 minStarter MarriageDealing with In-LawsAllison and John unpack meeting their in-laws and what it was like for John to enter the very specific culture of Allison’s family. John shares his last conversation with Allison’s mom before she passed. And Allison admits the awkwardness of being with John’s family and the quiet grief of losing her relationship with her exes’ parents. In Marriage Moments, John has Allison crying with laughter over a strip-mall overreaction.
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2025-10-201h 07Starter MarriageAllison’s “First Husband” Sits Down with her SecondAllison’s long-time creative partner Gabe Dunn joins the show to dissect their decade-long collaborations and share candid observations about Allison’s past romantic relationships. Gabe and Allison explore how their creative partnership was an actual "starter marriage” given how entwined they were personally and professionally. John reveals that while he isn't jealous of any of Allison's actual exes, he is jealous of Gabe.
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2025-10-131h 07Starter MarriageOur Biggest DisagreementAllison and John discuss compatibility and how to tell if there is too much friction to make a relationship work. The conversation gets heated when Allison shares she only wants to have one kid and John isn’t so sure. During Stay or Leave, the pair decide whether they could get through an organic chemistry course
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2025-10-061h 05Starter MarriageHow (The Hell) Do You Make Friends As An Adult?Wouldn’t life be easier if you could live on a commune with your favorite people? This week John and Allison bring their next door neighbor on the show, Celia Kettering, to talk about found family, making new friendships as adults, and the loss of community. Plus, John recounts Allison’s high-stakes wager over whether they’d eat “slop” for dinner.
John has a new substack! : https://wrongmanforthejob.substack.com
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2025-09-151h 05Starter MarriageI Love You, But You Are So AnnoyingIs it normal to piss each other off? Allison and John come prepared this week with a long list of the many ways they annoy each other--from John leaving all of his stuff out around the house to Allison’s penchant for diminishing her accomplishments. And during Marriage Moments, Allison dumps cold water on John's dreams of becoming a "nectarine guy."
John has a new substack! : https://wrongmanforthejob.substack.com
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2025-09-0851 minStarter MarriageYou're A Burden To Me And I'm A Burden To YouAfter a harrowing week without hot water, John emerges as an expert on tankless water heaters, while Allison shares her battle with pregnancy exhaustion. She also takes aim at the corruption behind John’s new cutthroat competition: “Sweetie of the Week.” Writer and disability rights activist Emily Ladau then joins the chat to discuss how the disabled community has been denied marriage equality and how adopting a “curb cut” philosophy could benefit us all. The conversation leads Allison to reveal one of her main reasons for only wanting one child.
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2025-09-011h 09Starter MarriageI’m Scared You Won’t Find Me Attractive AnymoreMost couples assume attraction fades over time, but does it have to? In this episode, Allison shares a fear that’s been on her mind during pregnancy: what if her body changes and John stops desiring her? The two talk about how attraction isn’t automatic. It’s something both partners have to nurture. John also reveals his harrowing appendicitis story. And Allison admits there’s one thing she always finds herself drawn to, no matter the circumstance: corn.
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2025-08-111h 03Starter MarriageThe Dark History of MarriageJohn and Allison are thrilled to welcome author and historian Stephanie Coontz to the podcast for a deep dive into the complicated history of marriage. How did what started as a strategic partnership between families evolve into the over-idealized 1950s model of gender roles? Allison also unveils her nighttime alter-ego, “the Ali-Baba." John chooses a marriage moment that, curiously, doesn’t involve Allison at all; and Stephanie tells us what happened when she forced herself to read 50 Shades of Grey.
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2025-08-041h 10Starter MarriageWe Had A Fight About Navigating ConflictConflict in relationships is inevitable, especially when you're making a podcast about your marriage. Allison and John dive into how they navigate conflicts in their relationship, including the surprising disagreement that arose while prepping for this very episode. John shares the exact moment he realized he wasn't afraid to have a child with Allison, and during "Stay or Leave," Allison presents John with the most triggering scenario imaginable.
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2025-07-281h 05Starter MarriageMarried & Non-MonogamousThis week’s episode is about sex, jealousy, and whether embellishing a story counts as a lie. Writer and content creator Hayley Folk joins Allison and John to talk about her experience with ethical non-monogamy and what it taught her about herself. Allison imagines what it would be like to have a guilt-free make out, and John wonders what it would be like to go on a sexy date… to the orchestra?
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Just Between UsRomantasy Books with Brigid Kemmerer, When Your Mom Dies, and Working With Your SpouseGabe has no idea how to decorate his home because he thinks he has bad taste. Allison is going to be second fiddle on her own new podcast with her husband John. A listener writes in to ask advice on how to continue on with life after her mother died. Allison can relate to handling grief. Then, romance author Brigid Kemmerer joins the show to talk about her experiences and inspirations writing in the romantasy genres, navigating the tropes that readers love (and hate), and the art of telling the same stories with new and exciting details. Why do f...
2025-07-1631 minStarter MarriageI’m Worthless And Don’t Contribute To The HouseholdJohn and Allison dive into one of the most contentious topics for any couple: money. Joined by Megan Ford from the Love and Money Center, they explore how couples can navigate tough financial conversations without getting stuck in conflict. It's a challenging discussion for John, who wrestles with deeply rooted expectations about being a provider, and unexpectedly emotional for Allison, who comes to realize how her own approach to their finances has impacted John in ways she never anticipated.
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2025-07-141h 17Starter MarriageI'm Worried The Baby Will Ruin What We HaveJohn is concerned that having a baby will totally disrupt their marriage. Thank goodness the co-authors of Baby Bomb: A Relationship Survival Guide For New Parents were available to help Allison and John navigate this new chapter. Therapists Kara Hoppe, MFT and Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT, discuss how Allison and John can continue to take good care of each other despite the major changes babies bring. Also, were the Ratliffs happily married before Timothy lost all their money on The White Lotus? A debate ensues.
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2025-06-301h 11Starter MarriageOur Imperfect Love StorySo many couples focus on the story of how they got together as a testament to whether their marriage was "meant to be." In this episode, Allison and John describe all the ways their early relationship broke the mold of what to look for--from John being worried that Allison was unstable to Allison not wanting to have to get to know someone new after her broken engagement. But despite not having a traditionally romantic journey to the altar, they still found their way there thanks to not having unrealistic expectations of each other, themselves or wedding planning.
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2025-06-231h 00Starter MarriageA Reformed Jew And A Lapsed Catholic Get MarriedAllison is culturally Jewish while John is a lapsed Catholic. What does this mean for the religious future of their child? Couples therapist, Genesis Games joins the show to help the couple navigate having an interfaith marriage. Is it possible to find a middle ground to raise a curious child rather than a religious one? Also, Allison confesses to being weary of Catholicism while John reveals he thinks consciousness is a construct, an idea that infuriates his wife.
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2025-06-161h 16Starter MarriageYou’re Difficult To Be AroundHow do you navigate your partner’s mental health without losing yourself in the process? In this episode, Allison and John interview Sheva Rajaee, founder and director of The Center for Anxiety and OCD in Southern California. Sheva offers expert guidance on how couples can strike a balance between helping their partners and maintaining healthy boundaries. Allison talks candidly about her OCD’s impact on their marriage, and John opens up about finally trying antidepressants after being resistant to the idea. (Spoiler: it was a great decision.)
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2025-06-091h 00Starter MarriageA Newlywed NightmareRain on your wedding day is supposed to mean good luck, but for Allison and John, it meant they were about to have the worst year of their lives. From John experiencing a life-changing set-back in his career, to Allison losing her beloved mother to a rare neurological disease, their time as newlyweds was anything but peaceful. But in the inaugural episode of the podcast, John and Allison dissect how this rough patch ultimately strengthened their commitment to an institution that many feel is no longer necessary.
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2025-06-021h 01Just Between UsTLDRI: I Really Thought Birthday Bee Was Going To Take OffAllison dives deep into the hit film The BeeKeeper. r/murderbywords asks some tough questions about humanity. r/fauxmoi exposes a celebrity for being serious. r/thingsmykidssaid features a hilarious misunderstanding of recent history. r/amitheasshole exposes some problematic grandparents. r/relationshipadvice features more horrible in-laws. And finally, Gabe is furious that Allison doesn't know more about Gambit??? Check out all of our content on Patreon, Ad Free! Watch the full episodes of TLDRI, listen to the full episodes of The Variety Show, watch the International Question and Topix videos, join us for a monthl...
2025-01-0841 minJust Between UsREPLAY: Moving In, Allison’s Mom and Weddings w/ Ruth RaskinOriginal Air Date: July 24, 2019Trigger Warning: Suicide Allison and Gabe help a listener figure out when it’s kosher to move in with a new partner. They’re then joined by Allison’s mom, Ruth Raskin (ruthraskinphoto), who discusses the challenges of raising a child with mental illness and the importance of facing it head on. Later they give all their thoughts and feelings about weddings. SPOILER: Do not have it outside. FOLLOW JUST BETWEEN US:https://www.instagram.com/jbupodcastOur Sponsors:* Check ou...
2024-12-251h 16Just Between UsEMDR Therapy with Dr. Nicole Cain, Estranged From A Brother, and LiarsAllison doesn't want to predict the future and Gabe's facial hair is itching. First, a listener writes in asking for advice on a potential estrangement from a brother and Gabe shares his personal experience. Then, Dr. Nicole Cain joins the show for a gorgeous, gentle and soothing talk about Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), and the options for treating trauma somatically. Were Allison and Gabe... "child stars?" And finally, Allison doesn't like Ryan Reynolds. Check out all of our content on Patreon, Ad Free! Watch the full episodes of TLDRI, listen to the fu...
2024-12-1829 minJust Between UsThe Troubled Teen Industry with Meg Appelgate, Therapy-Resistant Siblings and Losing A ParentAllison looks like a grown-up girl now. A listener wonders how to help her brother who won't go to therapy despite showing signs of mania again. Next, Meg Appelgate joins the conversation to talk about how the troubled teen industry takes advantage of parents' fears and traumatized kids, including her younger self. And finally, Allison shares what it was like to lose her mom. Check out all of our content on Patreon, Ad Free! Watch the full episodes of TLDRI, listen to the full episodes of The Variety Show, watch the International Question and To...
2024-12-0427 minJust Between UsParenting while Disabled with Jessica Slice, Should Everyone Be In Therapy, and Our Favorite SongsAllison's having a lot of water problems. A listener writes in asking if everyone needs to be in therapy even though they've had a hard time with past therapists. Author Jessica Slice then joins the show to talk about disability and dating, and her new book on disabled people being deemed "unfit parents." In Hypotheticals, what is Flurfle? Who is Janet Cilantro? And finally, our favorite songs. Melisa has a list. Gabe has facts about Jason Mraz. Allison only likes lyrics and has a great movie idea that we CAN NOT steal.Check out...
2024-10-2332 minJust Between UsCompersion with Dr. Marie Thouin, Saving A Friendship, and Allison's New BookGabe's tracking his hairline and getting shots in the butt. A listener writes in asking if and how they can save a friendship where the other person doesn't seem interested in being friends. Then, Dr. Marie Thouin joins the show to talk about the history of compersion and how it can be used outside of a polyamorous context. And finally, Allison’s book all about Modern Marriage is about to come out! You can preorder it by clicking here!Check out all of our content on Patreon, Ad Free! Watch the full episodes of TL...
2024-10-0925 minJust Between UsTalking To Kids About Sexism with Jo-Ann Finkelstein, Dating Someone Closeted, and SwimmingIf Sugar the dog wanted to? She would. A lesbian listener writes in upset that she has to miss out on events with her closeted girlfriend's religious family. Author of Sexism & Sensibility Jo-Ann Finkelstein joins the pod to discuss how to speak to your children about sexism. Allison then gives Gabe and Jo-Ann one of Gabe's favorite hypotheticals ever. And finally, Allison finally has a hobby! It's swimming!Check out all of our content on Patreon, Ad Free! Watch the full episodes of TLDRI, listen to the full episodes of The Variety Show, watch t...
2024-09-1125 minJust Between UsToo Long Did Read [It]: My Roommate Has Been Swallowing Toothpaste For 18 YearsAllison is on a permanent Grecian vacation of the mind, while Gabe almost ruins it with gender dysphoria for cis people. Gabe presents Allison and Melisa with a conundrum from a sex and love addicts subreddit. A delusional driver with road rage doesn't understand car insurance. An OP in r/dreams asks for dream help because they spent 30 years inside a dream. What is the funniest or weirdest thing a doctor has ever said to you? People in r/AskReddit share what clued them into their partner being "a fucking idiot."Check out all...
2024-09-0438 minJust Between UsREPLAY: Olympic Superstar Simone Biles, Toxic Beauty Standards with Jackie Johnson and When We Feel BeautifulOriginal Air Date: March 25, 2020In celebration of Simone Biles' epic Paris Olympic performance, we're revisiting our incredible episode with her!Get ready for a special episode featuring Simone Biles and SK-II! Gabe and Allison answer a listener’s question about whether she actually enjoys her feminine presentation or if she’s a victim of societal beauty pressures. They then interview the greatest gymnast of our time, Simone Biles, about SK-II’s Beauty is #NOCOMPETITION campaign, toxic beauty standards and her involvement in SK-II Studios’ six-part animated series “VS.” They’re also joined by beauty exper...
2024-08-0552 minJust Between UsToo Long Did Read [It]: If I Have A Kid Then I'll Have Stuff To DoAllison hates art. Gabe hates dating. r/datingoverthirty brings us confusion over the meaning of "exclusive" vs. "in a relationship". r/cemetaryporn has some fun tombstones and absolutely no kink! r/adulting is a window into Allison's ennui. And finally, r/jung explains pop culture figures and shadow selves including Gabe's favorite Eminem*.*Gabe accidentally says The Marshall Mathers LP was Eminem's first album, but it was his third. He regrets his mistake. He is not the real Slim Shady.This has been a Gallison ProductionProduced by Melisa D. Monts...
2024-07-1040 minJust Between UsToo Long Did Read [It]: My Nipples Are Precariously Attached To My BodyHorror movies, faking cancer, and a lazy man's mother tells his ambitious girlfriend to leave him. Why are parents so sneaky? A post about how to look photogenic leads to us to Allison's color analysis. Why would anyone use the subreddit r/roastme? Allison seems to be in love with actress Margaret Qualley and Gabe tells an intense story about how they almost choked to death (for real). Check out all of our content on Patreon, Ad Free! Watch the full episodes of TLDRI, listen to the full episodes of The Variety Show, watch t...
2024-05-2933 minJust Between UsToo Long, Did Read [It]: Detective Woof Woof and Sergeant Bow WowGabe shares his secret Halloween costume. Allison shares a story about a woman's husband's friend who keeps bringing up her husband's ex randomly. Is it weird for a husband to have female friends? A bouncer cuts a person's license in half even though it wasn't actually a fake. Dating advice for women vs. dating advice for men. Allison worries she will never have a hobby, which leads to a confusing book name. r/Unexplained gives a "talking dog." And finally, a snail's birthday party. Check out all of our content on Patreon, Ad Free! Wa...
2024-04-1735 minJust Between UsPredicting Trends with Lilah Raptopoulos, Loving Yourself While Dating, and Sensory SensitivityAllison loves Olivia Rodrigo more than anyone. Next, Gabe and Allison answer a listener's complicated question about feeling good enough to date after coming from a racist hometown. Then, the Financial Times' Lilah Raptopoulos joins the show to answer the question of what culture is, what trends are coming in 2024, and what we're missing now that culture is so splintered. Finally, sensory sensitivity. What is it and why do we have it?Watch clips and the full TLDRI episodes AND listen to the full Wednesday episodes:https://www.patreon.com/justbetweenus
2024-03-0624 minJust Between UsFeet For Free??? A JBU Talking Episode! [MINISODE]Allison's parents want her to start an OnlyFans. Next, a conversation about how we pick guests and why we canceled one. A listener writes in wondering how she can know if someone she went no contact with has changed or not. Gabe proposes a life of no hope. Hypotheticals causes a big debate over children, smart phones and cousins. And finally, Allison wants to keep talking about broken toe. Watch clips and the full TLDRI episodes AND listen to the full Wednesday episodes:https://www.patreon.com/justbetweenus...
2024-02-2119 minJust Between UsBoarding School with Jen Bashian, Using Your Privilege and Reviews [MINISODE]Gabe is out of town so Allison and Melisa go rogue. A listener writes in because he feels guilty for his success in a non profit. Allison's high school classmate, Jen Bashian, joins the chat to discuss what it was really like to go to boarding school and her thoughts on high school Allison. And finally, reviews. How much do they matter? Watch clips and the full TLDRI episodes AND listen to the full Wednesday episodes:https://www.patreon.com/justbetweenusThis has been a Gallison Production
2024-02-0729 minJust Between UsToo Long, Did Read [It]: After The Last UFO Incident, The Government Reads My MailGabe, Allison and Melisa all have stories about crooked funeral home directors. Allison doesn't understand how anything works. A Redditor rightfully freaks out listening to their fiance cover for her cheating sister. It's really bad! On r/sadcringe, someone quitting their job writes an awkward short story instead of, you know... submitting their regular two weeks notice. Gabe reads UNHINGED letters they sent their friend from summer camp that are SO queer and trans. Was Gabe ever even in the closet?? A wonderful 'maliciously compliant' man shows his true allyship and a Redditor with a crush is confused as...
2024-02-0533 minJust Between UsToo Long, Did Read [It]: Allison's Husband, WHO WE LIKEAllison shows off her hands without anyone asking. r/entitledparents brings a story of a nightmare father-in-law. r/changemyview causes an argument about flaking. r/love proves good partners are possible. And finally, stuff stuck in your teeth. Watch clips and the full TLDRI episodes AND listen to the full Wednesday episodes:https://www.patreon.com/justbetweenusThis has been a Gallison ProductionProduced by Melisa D. Monts and Diamond MPrint ProductionsPost-Production by Coco LlorensProduction Assistance by Melanie D. Wa...
2024-01-2931 minJust Between UsREPLAY: TLDRI: If You Can't Be Around Somebody's That Pregnant, That's Part Of The ProblemOriginal Air Date: May 8, 2023In r/relationship_advice, an UNBEARABLE man's best friend wants him to dump his girlfriend, a single mom who he's already broken up with numerous times. Allison admits she'll be terrible and demanding during pregnancy. Then, a Redditor finds creepy Post-its around his house. Allison loves pranks, Gabe loves revenge. Melisa wants to know if Allison's dad talks about her. In r/ProRevenge, a guy gets one over on a boss who is trying to underpay him. Plus, malicious compliance! And finally, a WEIRD Reddit or Not phrase born from o...
2024-01-0131 minJust Between UsREPLAY: K-pop! with Denise Kim, A Co-Worker's Inappropriate Jokes, and Gabe's Top Surgerytw: surgeryOriginal Air Date: December 14, 2022Gabe and Allison start off with a lively discussion about Raskin pranks and bachelorette party fantasies. The duo then answer a listener's question about how to get over feeling uncomfortable about a co-worker's past inappropriate jokes. When do you need to move on and when do you need to address it? Next, K-pop star and Amateur Hour host, Denise Kim, joins the pod to talk about the cutthroat grind of being a South Korean pop star, the business of turning teenagers into overnight id...
2023-12-271h 27Just Between UsREPLAY: Too Long, Did Read (It): Not My Cup Of Tea, But If My Friend Got It I'd Be Happy For HerORIGINAL AIR DATE: February 13, 2023In a brand new weekly show, Gabe and Melisa attempt to teach Allison the ins and outs of the wonderful chaos that is Reddit. Our first episode includes a subreddit about Allison's engagement ring, incredible duck facts and a post about whether or not married people should have opposite sex best friends. Buckle up! It's time to explore!Listen Ad Free: https://www.patreon.com/justbetweenusThis has been a Gallison ProductionProduced by Melisa D. Monts...
2023-12-2526 minJust Between UsToo Long, Did Read (It): They’re Withholding Words From Me Because I Refuse to Pay?r/badroommates tells a tale of theft, pettiness and kitchen towels. r/riddles prompts Gabe and Allison to share some of their own favorites brain teasers. r/stories is not what you would think! r/dreams causes Allison to question her anger issues. And finally, the (disturbing) history of cereal. Watch clips and the full TLDRI episodes AND listen to the full Wednesday episodes:https://www.patreon.com/justbetweenusThis has been a Gallison ProductionProduced by Melisa D. Monts and Diamond MPrint ProductionsPo...
2023-12-0434 minJust Between UsDeep Sea Mining with James Hita, Does Love Conquer All and Allison's Colonoscopy [TEASER]Watch clips and listen to the full episodes (including International Question and Topix) on Patreon.https://www.patreon.com/justbetweenusAllison and Gabe talk about scabbing during strikes. (We recorded this one a while ago! Eep!) An international listener wonders if love conquers all. Next, GreenPeace Aotearoa's James Hita joins the pod to explain the dangers of deep-sea mining and why we need to fight against it before it's too late. And finally, Allison describes her first colonoscopy experience - the moon landing of butts. This...
2023-11-0838 minJust Between UsReading Our Auras with Steffi Hill, Accepting A New Future, and Rom Com BooksWatch clips and listen to the full episodes (including International Question and Topix) on Patreon.https://www.patreon.com/justbetweenusIs Gabe too dependent on coffee? Probably! A listener writes in wondering what to do now that she knows her mental health will limit her future options. Next, psychic medium Steffi Hill joins the chat to give Allison and Gabe readings and explain what it's like talking to the dead. (Allison is skeptical while Gabe is all in.) And finally, what makes a good rom-com book?
2023-11-0119 minJust Between UsQueer Dating Apps with Michael Kaye, An Unusual Poly Lie and Core Memories [TEASER]Watch clips and listen to the full episodes (including International Question and Topix) on Patreon.https://www.patreon.com/justbetweenusAllison jumps on a trampoline. A listener writes in because her fiance lied about a polyamory situation but not in the way you'd expect. Archer dating app's Michael Kaye talks about the future of dating for queer men, confronting discrimination on the apps, and his own adorable love story. Finally, Allison, Melisa and Gabe share their core memories. What was Gabe's Ring of Keys moment?This has be...
2023-10-1824 minJust Between UsToo Long, Did Read (It): You're Not Allowed To Experience Or Express SadnessAllison gets some test results back live on air. r/CasualConversation bans sadness. Gabe needs everyone to introduce themselves. An agoraphobe gets a win. Melisa witnessed a wild fight in high school. Gabe and Melisa loved Slingo. Allison can't think of anything to think about. Melisa might have synesthesia. Then, there's a threeway Reddit or Not. Hold onto your butts!Watch clips and listen to this podcast ad-freehttps://www.patreon.com/justbetweenusThis has been a Gallison ProductionProduced by Melisa D. Monts and D...
2023-10-0931 minJust Between UsIntersex Advocacy with Alicia Roth Weigel, Going From Friends To Lovers, and Road Rage [TEASER]Allison got two book deals! Congratulate her!! Then, a listener writes in about the struggles of transitioning their relationship with their best friend back into a sexual and romantic one. "Inverse Cowgirl" author and intersex activist Alicia Roth Weigel joins to combat misconceptions about intersex identity, advocacy for trans and intersex children, and dating! In Hypotheticals, pastors, groupies, and "doctors." Finally, road rage. Who has it? Where does it come from? Gabe's sister is a lunatic. Allison is afraid of crossbows. Melisa is an online troll ...for good. Watch clips and listen to this p...
2023-10-0428 minJust Between UsToo Long, Did Read (It): The Mazel Tov SlapAllison is meant to be a female Raffi. A single dad wonders if he was wrong for giving his daughter a menstruation kit in case she gets her first period. Gabe was subjected to a strange Jewish tradition. Someone gets accused of having "ugly privilege." Allison explains what happened in her social skills class. The trio share their thoughts on pleasantries and small talk. Plus, what feels good or bad under your feet?Watch clips and listen to this podcast ad-freehttps://www.patreon.com/justbetweenusTake our survey
2023-09-2529 minJust Between UsToo Long, Did Read (It): I Will Vomit If You Don't Approve ItGabe and Allison continue to gross out Melisa. Then, a Redditor wants to know if anyone has ever been used for revenge? Allison is getting a colonoscopy, which leads to some (also gross) hospital stories. Gabe is losing their tolerance for toxic people (thank goodness). How do you know if a compliment is real? And r/MysteriousFacts brings Allison joy, even if the facts are not true. Join our patreon to listen ad free and/or watch the whole episode as a video!Watch clips and listen to this podcast ad-freehttps://w...
2023-09-1828 minJust Between UsALLISON'S WEDDING! (And A Very Important Announcement!)In this very special episode, the trio share an entire play by play of Allison's wedding weekend! Was it everything Allison wanted?? And were there enough animals? Also, there are some changes coming and we could REALLY use your help!
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2023-09-0659 minJust Between UsToo Long, Did Read (It): I Hope He Enjoyed My Life More Than I DidWhat do you call your parents? And is it Mommy and Daddy? Another Allison writes in to explain the Reddit third party app drama. r/pettyrevenge brings us a beautiful karmic tale. Then, a listener sends in a malicious compliance story about flute lessons that asks are you a terrible parent? Gabe needs r/legaladvice and Allison reads a wild post about an ex making everyone's lives a living hell and then sending... nudes? Plus, how to be sneaky--a lesson by Gabe!
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2023-08-1426 minJust Between UsMoral Panics with Chelsey Weber Smith, Disagreeing With A Friend, and Unionstw: celebrity rape trials, child abuse
Gabe and Allison reminisce about the beginning of their friendship and Allison's acting debut. A listener writes in about a friend whose problematic take ruined their friendship. It raises the question, how much can you disagree with a friend? Then, podcast royalty Chelsey Weber Smith of American Hysteria joins to talk about all things moral panics and why they happen. And finally, union power!
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2023-08-091h 16Just Between UsFantastic Fungi with Louie Schwartzberg, Friendship Closure and UFOsAllison is about to graduate, but might also drop out. The duo then give advice to a listener who wants closure on a friendship that ended without reason. Allison and Gabe share their own stories of ended friendships and their infamous falling out in 2019. Then, Fantastic Fungi filmmaker Louie Schwartzberg joins for a spicy conversation about the importance of mushrooms to the cycle of life, and gets into it with Allison about psychedelics for mental health. And finally, Allison wants to talk about UFOs very, very badly.
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2023-07-261h 10Just Between UsBlack Culture with Sequoia Holmes, Not Loving Your Dad, and Surprises!Allison loves IHOP, but hates when the menu changes. The duo try to help a listener who feels weird telling her emotionally absent dad she loves him when...she doesn't. Then, Sequoia Holmes of the podcast Black People Love Paramore joins to talk about appropriating Black culture, why there are so many underrepresented Black interests, and how Black culture IS culture. Finally, Allison gets a huge surprise but almost blows it by being naked.
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2023-07-121h 01Just Between UsToo Long, Did Read (It): Three Pines Isn't On Any MapsThe trio try to figure out why Reddit went dark. They aren't great at it! Allison worries her memory is making her "lie." r/AskScience wants to know about loose hairs floating on the International Space Station. Good thing Melisa and Gabe actually know a lot about this! r/books roasts people who buy a bunch of books but don't read them. Allison won't stop talking about Louise Penny's Inspector Gamache. And finally, dogs on vacation and cats in Paris.
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2023-07-1031 minJust Between UsNon-binary Sports with Kae Ravichandran, Situationships, and Hypermobility Spectrum DisorderGabe and Allison discuss going grey and Allison hates when men wear cardigans. First, a queer listener writes in asking if it's unhealthy that she is okay with being in back to back situationships. Then, Gabe and Allison are joined by Kae Ravichandran who won the non-binary division of the Boston Marathon to talk about trans people and sports. And finally, Allison is looking into whether she has hypermobility spectrum disorder and what that means for her life.
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2023-07-051h 14Just Between UsToo Long, Did Read (It): Whatever They Are, Here They Come AgainAllison starts off by deeply upsetting Melisa with a rat photo. In r/todayIlearned, the trio speculate on why birth rates have dropped so dramatically in the last few years-- which is pretty easy to do given current society! Then, a man blames his 1 year old grandson for his divorce. r/wheredidthesodago showcases infomercials both good and bad. Gabe shares a horror story about buying a child a gift off an Instagram ad. r/BadTeachers gives us schadenfreude for bad people being fired, and Melisa shares why she held a grudge against an old teacher. (Pro tip: don't piss off...
2023-06-1231 minJust Between UsThe Art Of Giving Advice with Meredith Goldstein, Losing People to QAnon, and Life HacksAllison forces Gabe to share a fun fact that prompts a "deep" discussion about the human experience. The duo then try to help a listener who feels guilty over losing a former boyfriend to right-wing conspiracy theories. Then, Love Letters advice columnist Meredith Goldstein joins the pod to talk about why people don't listen to relationship advice and her own journey with opening herself up to the vulnerability of love. (Allison fangirls!) Finally, in Topixxx, Melisa destroys with a well-timed joke. And the trio share their own life hacks -- legal andddd illegal.
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2023-06-071h 12Just Between UsTLDRI: I Don't Love It When It's Stinky Stinkytw: fatphobia and anti-fat bias
Our trio's deep dive begins with a subreddit for long hair that provides loving support if you want your hair to touch the ground. Allison then reads a r/menwritingwomen post that is so cringey we'd understand if you can't listen or want to rip your ears off. Next, r/HelpMeFind brings us a fun cat toy that Gabe has actually contemplated buying and sparks a conversation about lost things. Finally, wholesome updates on a growing asparagus, Allison is the new cartoonist for Dilbert, Melisa finds a relevant subreddit faster than Gabe or Allison ever c...
2023-05-1532 minJust Between UsTLDRI: If You Can't Be Around Somebody's That Pregnant, That's Part Of The ProblemIn r/relationship_advice, an UNBEARABLE man's best friend wants him to dump his girlfriend, a single mom who he's already broken up with numerous times. Allison admits she'll be terrible and demanding during pregnancy. Then, a Redditor finds creepy Post-its around his house. Allison loves pranks, Gabe loves revenge. Melisa wants to know if Allison's dad talks about her. In r/ProRevenge, a guy gets one over on a boss who is trying to underpay him. Plus, malicious compliance! And finally, a WEIRD Reddit or Not phrase born from our 4/20 high show.
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2023-05-0831 minJust Between UsToo Long Did Read (It): Scared And Confused About My Wife's Belly ButtonAllison starts off by sharing one of Reddit's longest inside jokes that leads to a discussion of what type of jokes are allowed. They then dive into a cheating story that is about...a woman's belly button. Which prompts Allison to share her concerns about her own belly button. Next up, strange laws regarding bagels, air and beards! Then, old people doing weird stuff on Facebook and Melisa's new business idea that stumps Reddit.
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2023-05-0131 minJust Between UsOvercoming Sexual Shame with Zachary Zane, Weed As A Coping Mechanism and Allison’s BacheloretteAllison's dead grandma is emailing her. A listener writes in to ask if they can still use weed for their mental health even though their therapist doesn't approve. Gabe reveals the reasons they got a new therapist who specializes in autism. Then author Zachary Zane joins the pod to talk about his book Boyslut, his life as a bisexual polyamorous man, and his OCD. He is basically Gabe and Allison's son. And finally, all the sexy secrets and friendship fun from Allison's Bachelorette weekend!
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2023-04-261h 27Just Between Us"Revenge Porn" with Leah Juliett, Calling Someone In, and Avoidance Draft Episode for Apr 12, 2023Content warning: rape, sexual abuse, child sexual abuse, non-consent
Allison is wearing makeup and no one cares. Gabe and Allison then answer a listener's question about what to do when their family responds poorly to being called in. Next, survivor advocate and image based sexual abuse activist Leah Juliett joins the podcast for a very important conversation about "revenge porn," how to teach young people about consent, and what to do about the future of our images online. Finally, avoidance! Melisa will not touch the mail. Allison is avoiding writing. And Gabe is still learning how to comfort people.
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2023-04-121h 15Just Between UsSalary Transparency with Maya Lau, Friend Fights, and Memoirstw: mention of sexual assault in Hypotheticals, and mentions of shootings and violence in Topix
Allison hates her insurance and Gabe hates their monotone testosterone voice. After complaining, the duo give advice to a listener who is concerned about a conflict between two friends and is wondering if she should meddle to try to fix things. Next, Maya Lau joins the podcast to explain the importance of salary transparency, the benefits of unionization, and eliminating shame around money. Plus, how do Allison and Gabe relate to each other around finances?Finally, memoirs! Who should write one? What makes a good...
2023-04-051h 22Just Between UsToo Long Did Read (It): Hey Baby, I Just Shit My Pants, Can I Get In Yours?The show gets a boost from some listener submitted subreddits. (Please keep sending!) Including r/rectalstickers which prompts a very relevant story from Allison. Then a deep dive into r/lifeofnorman, a subreddit about the mundane life of a fictional character named Norman, makes Allison, Gabe and Melisa very cozy and inspired. And finally, FauxMoi and DeuxMoi and a ridiculous misunderstanding.
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2023-04-0336 minJust Between UsSuicide Awareness with Allison Herman, Recognizing Love and Vaginal "Health" GummiesThe duo start off with a heartfelt plea for everyone to leave Apple (and Spotify!) reviews. (Please!!) They then try to help a Muslim listener who is't sure how to determine if someone is right for her. Allison Herman, educational director of Hope For The Day, joins the chat to talk about what we get wrong about suicide, ethcial journalism, the importance of peer support and how education makes a big impact. And finally: vaginal health gummies. They shouldn't exist.
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2023-03-291h 12Just Between UsToo Long, Did Read (It): Still Leaning Toward This Not Being AliensTranscription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/17nt0bTnB7n-Ynd8IKd_lfXKlLMmgkMp4mdq3JdFxO94/edit?usp=sharing
The trio start off with a Reddit thread about animals that makes them question reality. Next, the r/regretfulparents subreddit has Gabe riveted. Allison learns what a sapiosexual is and the group is appalled by a post about mind-games in dating. A post leads Allison to wonder about alien conspiracy theories. And finally, disinfectant dicks!
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2023-03-1333 minJust Between UsToo Long, Did Read (It): If They Go Low, I'm Going To The GutterTranscription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1nr3EgMDlGCaFr0ivoMrGZKJkvg1Ug9Iinw52kmM1ekM/edit?usp=sharing
In our brand new weekly show, Melisa and Gabe teach Allison about "Today I Learned" where she finds a wild story about 1700s pirates hijacking the metric system from reaching the United States. Allison also misunderstands how to actually find a subreddit. Meanwhile, Gabe is skeptical of the authenticity of Reddit posts in r/movies and on Reddit in general. And Melisa, because of her commitment to social vengeance, is one of the most famous people in her very niche subreddits. Everyone is h...
2023-02-2026 minJust Between UsToo Long, Did Read (It): Not My Cup Of Tea, But If My Friend Got It I'd Be Happy For HerTranscription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1MyEtnPAge3WCzpYdKjoDm5G77wvyK6rrXxUSWzCYq4E/edit?usp=sharing
In a brand new weekly show, Gabe and Melisa attempt to teach Allison the ins and outs of the wonderful chaos that is Reddit. Our first episode includes a subreddit about Allison's engagement ring, incredible duck facts and a post about whether or not married people should have opposite sex best friends. Buckle up! It's time to explore!
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2023-02-1326 minJust Between UsThe Future of TV with Ashley Ray, Weaponizing Therapy and Where We Grew UpTranscription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1ah8FEYFpKTjQl_0NhbFJCAYRwDZL6Spf1QDMX738qiM/edit?usp=sharing
We're going back in time to another episode without Gabe! (Recorded before their name change.) Allison and Melisa start off with a discussion of Allison's new mortal nemesis. The duo then try to help a listener whose sister is using their therapist's opinion as ammunition to prove she is always right and being mistreated. They're then joined by TV critic, Ashley Ray, who discusses the history of Black TV shows, forcing diverse characters in White stories and the changing landscape of TV in a w...
2023-02-011h 19Just Between UsMidwifery and Conception with Liam Kali, Being There For A Young Relative and Compromisetw: mentions of dying/depression in the intro, ableism in the IQ
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Allison is a winter, Gaby is a summer. And they each have problems with the other season's clothing options. Old Navy, please sponsor us. First, the duo answer a listener's very kind and thoughtful question about how to be there for a younger relative in crisis without overstepping their bounds. Then, midwife and "Queer Conception" author Liam Kali joins the podcast for a life-affirming conversation about the differences between a midwife, an...
2022-12-211h 25Just Between UsK-pop! with Denise Kim, A Co-Worker's Inappropriate Jokes, and Gaby's Top Surgerytw: surgery
Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1hw4xrVQqJPrgNIzLnSG-HqP4JxeycehhwuAayrnlhEQ/edit?usp=sharing
Gaby and Allison start off with a lively discussion about Raskin pranks and bachelorette party fantasies. The duo then answer a listener's question about how to get over feeling uncomfortable about a co-worker's past inappropriate jokes. When do you need to move on and when do you need to address it? Next, K-pop star and Amatuer Hour host, Denise Kim, joins the pod to talk about the cutthroat grind of being a South Korean pop star, the business of turning teenagers into overnight idols and he...
2022-12-141h 28Just Between UsCATS (the animal) with Dr. Kristyn Vitale, Hating Your Mom, and Christmas Contenttw: cats killing mice
Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1NC3GkbSIt6yvRTNLej1RyStkV3099O3cYMJ9s1EFYns/edit?usp=sharing
Gaby and Allison start off by brainstorming about Allison new fake sci-fi novel "Ooh, Spooky!" Next, they address a listener who wants to know how to not find their mom SO annoying. Then, an incredible interview with cat behavior specialist Dr. Kristyn Vitale all about feline-human relationships, wrongheaded myths about indoor and outdoor cats and the mystery of how kitties became domesticated. (Spoiler: it's so cute!) And finally, what's the deal with all the Christmas content? Noted Christian p...
2022-12-071h 10Just Between UsALLISON'S ENGAGEMENT STORY! (And Some Other Stuff Too!)Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1T4Ax6OTg_4z9A9VAjo6jtjrTjFakgfOvSRIoS1W7LNw/edit?usp=sharing
Our guest had a power outage! So you know what that means: A TALKING EPISODE! Allison gets to share her FULL engagement story for the first time! (1000/10 proposal! Very good job, John!) Gaby, Allison and Melisa then address a listener who doesn't know how to handle people not liking them. (Gaby can relate!) We wrap it all up with a rousing game of hypotheticals! Turns out, being a parent is tricky!
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2022-11-231h 03Just Between UsPuppets! with David Bizzaro, Your Partner's Gender Identity, and SuperstitionsTranscription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1WgK685jGTia-74m3ufSWPCHka-6THemrTHwJUZqzryY/edit?usp=sharing
tw: drowning, child abuse
Allison relives medical trauma regarding her knee while Gaby inquires as to what AV and JV means in Allison's relationship with her fiance John. A listener then writes into the show about her AMAB (assigned male at birth) partner wanting to wear women's clothes and how his gender identity is affecting her attraction to him. Next, puppeteer David Bizzaro joins the podcast to talk about the wild world of puppeteering, how to build a grounded and iconic puppet character and why he...
2022-11-161h 19Just Between UsThe Future of Reality Dating Shows with Claire Fallon and Emma Gray, Asexual Coming Out, and Quiet QuittingTranscription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1cCzxuVJKMPJ90oRHcEiwgBOAXlQUqe21ibSaipF51Qs/edit?usp=sharing
Gaby spins a rollercoaster of a tale of how they and their partner found themselves on a stranger's yacht during a funeral that they were assured wasn't a funeral. Then, Allison and Gaby answer a listener's question about if they have to come out as asexual to everyone and why the queer community feels entitled to people's sex life details. Next, Claire and Emma from Love To See It join the duo for a hilarious and intricate conversation about the future of reality dating re: racial, d...
2022-10-191h 28Just Between UsThe Mental Toll of Knee Surgery with Kaegan Hadley , Hating Your Friend's Partner and Celebrity BreakupsTranscription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/12gxaEGmE3DTVLd3g-k10f_qKa5rXuj_peRxLcYKYhE8/edit?usp=sharing
Allison's new hair color sparks a surprising confession from Gaby. They then address a listener who hates their friend's boyfriend and doesn't know if they should say anything. (Relatable!) During this convo, a past incident comes up that DERAILS the podcast and is very much worth listening to even though Allison is mortified. (Gaby's fiance Mal joins the confrontation. Oh boy.) Occupational therapist Kaegan Hadley joins the chat to talk about the psychological toll of knee surgery, the importance of "why" when it c...
2022-09-071h 21Just Between UsBad Sex with Nona Willis Aronowitz, Being Uncomfortable Networking, and Gaby and Mal's Engagement StoryTranscription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1J0GFKGq2wzQFkVse4lawy2kPJjjZ83YWTo44_HGq-xo/edit?usp=sharing
Gaby is engaged!!! Allison and Gaby are sad to not be in person for this monumental moment! But they carry on with gossiping about their families anyway. A listener asks a question about being uncomfortable networking post-college. Allison tells a wild story about working for a man who was in the Swedish mafia. The duo talk about running yourself ragged to meet the right people and how to handle post-college stress when looking for a job in the entertainment industry. Then, BAD SEX...
2022-08-101h 26Just Between UsFinding The Funny In ADHD with Blaire Postman, Friends Who Won't Accept Help and GiftsTranscription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1Pphc_yTebWCUAIiG84lKOeK4lpBq9eKwPU4oaLUQPgA/edit?usp=sharing
The duo is LOOPY in the intro. Allison drinks blood. The anti-depressant pills are too big to swallow. And Mafioso names are discussed. Allison and Gaby eventually get it together to answer a listener's question about how to deal with a friend who won't accept help despite being in a bad situation. ADHD comedian Blaire Postman then joins the pod for a hilarious and insightful conversation about getting an adult ADHD diagnosis, starting to pursue her dreams "later in life," and capitalism's standards for "w...
2022-08-031h 28Just Between UsEmbracing The Bittersweet with Susan Cain, Saying Goodbye, and Liking YourselfTranscription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1cEV15XrqMFVMv-NMGW9xlWlCA2lWzxMP7jS7x0vL0qs/edit?usp=sharing
First, Gaby addresses some dating gossip and DMs that have been hurtful regarding their transition. Then, Allison and Gaby answer a listener's question about how to deal with breaking down every time she has to leave her long distance boyfriend. Next, they interview best-selling author Susan Cain about the unifying force of longing and how to handle grief as well as some beautiful reflections on human complexity, Buddhist philosophy, and new ways to think about healing. During hypotheticals Allison psychically predicts an upco...
2022-06-291h 22Just Between UsGetting A Late Autism Diagnosis with Demi Burnett, Being Wrong For Your Partner, and Feedback on Our GuestsTranscription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1PUb6E381ZkI-yrIpEXC-4NL1JT1y21zj6HQTPULLe1U/edit?usp=sharing
First, an update on Gaby's testosterone journey and the problem of comparing themselves to others on T. Allison and Gaby then give their thoughts on a listener who worries they're not right for their partner and wonders if they should break up before causing any more harm. Next, the duo talk to Bachelor star and DemiGoddess host Demi Burnett about her late in life autism diagnosis, the way her specific autism shows up in the world, and the way reality TV e...
2022-06-221h 23Just Between UsDrag! with Monet X Change, Bipolar Bestie, and Allison's VegetarianismTranscription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1LV1QAy8zAb_-R9h2OyITd_PZ4NCPQcEY39B6vozJyxk/edit?usp=sharing
First, Gaby shares the passing of their neighbor and friend Dita, celebrates her unique and interesting life, and talks about all she brought to them and their partner's lives. Then, Allison and Gaby answer a listener's question about how to handle their bipolar bestie, with examples from Gaby's real diagnosis. Next, they talk to All Stars 7 star and drag queen legend Monet X Change about keeping secrets while on reality TV, exaggerating to her bestie Bob The Drag Queen, the c...
2022-06-151h 09Just Between UsJewish Identity with Ginna Green and Lynn Harris, Navigating Male Coworkers, and First Impressionstw: mention of rape and sexual harassment during IQ, discussion of anti-Semiticism in the interview portion
Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1B6ZV6Y9zxaNtjjcIcoxPYQZZk7A2Qg85-Q9lzaX_R_8/edit?usp=sharing
First, Gaby and Allison try accents. The results are mixed. (But do listen to their new AMP radio shows on Wednesday and Thursday mornings anyway!) The duo then answer a listener's question about the ability to trust male co-workers as mentors and friends after they've been burned before. Next, they're joined by Ginna Green and Lynn Harris to talk about the stereotypes of Jewish mothers...
2022-05-251h 22Just Between UsThe Business of Medicine with Dr. Efrat LaMandre, Going Out Alone, and Villains Draft Episode for May 18, 2022Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1SUZNxjsoeoKNKnvgkNXdhSb3CkkXu24P1aEmPTwU2xo/edit?usp=sharing
First, Gaby and Allison admit that they are overwhelmed and in yucky moods! (It happens!) They then answer a listener's question about how to become more comfortable going out and doing things alone in public. Dr. Efrat LaMandre joins the chat to talk about opening a practice as an autonomous nurse practitioner to fill in a healthcare gap and how to concentrate healthcare and doctors in a way that actually serves the patient. And, following a rousing game of hypotheticals, the duo discuss the concept...
2022-05-181h 25Just Between UsBenevolent Sexism with Celeste Headlee, Trusting Your Decisions, and Student LoansTranscription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1ok-D11D1qqeC9BRRZBR4ukZFtGjq4SD9Ebfe0x1UH3A/edit?usp=sharing
We start off with Gaby freaking Allison out with Conspiracy Corner. They then answer a listener's question regarding going back and forth about breaking up with their boyfriend when their thoughts fluctuate so wildly. Next, the duo talk to Celeste Headlee, author of, "You're Cute When You're Mad," about casual and benevolent sexism, examining our own unconscious/implicit bias, why shame is an ineffective tool, and how and why to step in when you see microaggressions happening. And finally, Gaby...
2022-05-111h 21Just Between UsTHE FIRST OFFICIAL TALKING EPISODE THAT EVERYONE ASKED FORTranscription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1uuyTwcQ3w0xQs3viDXQ9cQG8_mKOPrWbJZetT7_LBq4/edit?usp=sharing
Allison, Gaby and Melisa are bringing you an episode where they're just chatting. We talk dry eyes, Melisa's sexy voice, Gaby's skills as a manager, why viral videos are fake, growing cynicism, Melisa's desire to scam, Hollywood parties, work meetings gone awry, making social justice change in your industry, being an ally to someone not in your marginalized group, Gaby's testosterone journey, and Allison's thoughts on the perceptions of different mental health disorders. Then, they play a rousing game of Hypotheticals involving weed...
2022-05-041h 01Just Between UsDisability Rights with Imani Barbarin, Uneven Sex Drives, and Sharing Your OpinionTranscription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1r1iIX0u1tyhQS6hAhvWU2ryY52o3OvCcJNwp9HsPFAg/edit?usp=sharing
Allison's back on coffee!! Watch out!! First, the duo answer a listener's question about them and their partner's uneven sex life and what to do about it when they move in together for the first time. They then talk to the brilliant and charming Imani Barbarin about disability rights and how COVID will have a long term impact on everyone. And finally, sharing your opinion. When? Why? And how can Gaby stop?
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2022-04-271h 23Just Between UsThe Importance of Reading with Glory Edim of Well-Read Black Girl, Dating Your Friend's Ex and Gaby's Gender JourneyTrigger warning: gender and transphobia
Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1s537-BEofHpl4ow_rPkLMeQHiXWLbCNRob93ZEDfpdA/edit?usp=sharing
Allison is going on a book tour! And Gaby has some great jokes about it! The duo then attempt to answer a listener's question about feeling guilty for dating her friend's ex--even though she has her blessing! Next, Glory Edim of Well Read Black Girl joins the pod to have a very charming conversation about why people love book clubs, making space for Black women and literature, and why storytelling enriches our lives. Finally, Gaby describes their gender journey, insurance p...
2022-04-201h 30Just Between UsSmall Farming with Jake Hunt, Navigating a YouTube Addiction, and Allison's BookTranscription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1uB5iiU69YPxHK9jey2Bhtmn7rc15N7qXsL6xraUnHGI/edit?usp=sharing
First, Allison gives an update on her knee and what it's like learning how to walk again! Wild! Then, a listener writes in wondering what to do about their boyfriend trying to control their intense YouTube consumption. Next, the duo talk to small farmer Jake Hunt about the trials and tribulations of running an independent family farm, how climate change affects his business, and why politicians often pass laws that don't work in the favor of the rural farmer economy. And fi...
2022-04-131h 03Just Between UsSex and Dating Over 50 with Laura Stassi, Having A Transphobic Mentor, and the ZeitgeistTranscription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1sCtMB-qKocctRqAxBMCgwPYiIBvryvxaMgG4wbBp6a0/edit?usp=sharing
Gaby starts off by trying to convince Allison to have a gallery showing of her watercolor paintings at Gaby's house! (But refuses to showcase any of Allison's cartoons. Rude!) The duo then answer a non-binary listener's question about how to handle finding out their mentor is a transphobe on the Internet. Dating While Gray's Laura Stassi joins the chat to talk all about sex and dating over the age of 50. Is it more complicated? Less?? The Same??? And finally, how important is it to keep up with pop...
2022-04-061h 31Just Between UsWhale Conservation with Jared Towers, Lack of Motivation, and Boredom (Part Two)Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1K2fFG_tWgwq3bKzDc0BP6GYjvhhnuYqXx7vd7Ga92gQ/edit?usp=sharing
Gaby is struggling with emotional regulation and Allison is struggling with...her hair color. They then answer a listener's question about determining if you're actually burned out or just unmotivated. Allison shares a similar problem she's had in regards to her graduate degree. Jared Towers then joins the chat to talk about his job as a whale researcher, whale behaviors and why whales are so cute we almost cried. And finally, we get to the root of boredom. Apparently, all you n...
2022-03-231h 24Just Between UsLGBTQ+ Youth with Camp Brave Trails, Anti-Vax Partner, and Boredom Part 1Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1Q8xsdzcqqsocYiJFnJjQrXfGoRh9xqEG_UZ7QKrgYw8/edit?usp=sharing
Is Allison lying about her ant named Martin? Is this like Teresa the Turtle all over again? Who is Bob-Fred? First, a listener writes in and asks for advice about handling her boyfriend, who comes from an adamantly anti-vax family. Then, the duo is joined by Kayla Weissbuch of Camp Brave Trails, an organization with programming for LGBTQ+ youth including a summer camp. They talk about the recent political attacks against queer and trans youth, the need for inclusive and affirming spaces, and advice for p...
2022-03-161h 11Just Between UsBurnout with Dr. Shelly Bhowmik, Your Partner's Financial Literacy and SurgeryTranscription? https://docs.google.com/document/d/1yBjfE21eWi9lZv6fp1-mCz4IrLv65xPE22udHkcbWNU/edit?usp=sharing
Allison had major knee surgery and she is ....not okay. More importantly, she wants to talk about how Gaby and their partner introduced their parents to each other! Love! The duo then answer a listener's question about navigating financial differences with a partner who isn't interested in talking about money. Dr. Shelly Bhowmik then joins the chat to talk all about burnout; what it is, how to notice it and how to try to combat it. And finally, the saga of Allison's...
2022-03-021h 15Just Between UsResolving Twitter Beefs with YA Author Becky Albertalli, Crushing On Your Roommate, and Big Life ChangesTW: Brief mentions of suicide during the interview
Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1X4iamS349L2kjNL8LBCQz56Ffv0gy0OvpaFFF12fKp4/edit?usp=sharing
First up, doggie DNA tests! Are they reliable? And is Sugar even a dog at all? Gaby and Allison then shift gears to give a listener advice on how to approach her romantic feelings for her roommate who has a new boyfriend. They then interview YA superstar Becky Albertalli about book fandom, her own queerness, and the reconciliation of a huge Twitter beef between her and Gaby. (Very juicy, would recommend!) And finally...
2022-01-191h 10
Just Between UsLiving for Content with Connor Franta, Dating After Sexual Trauma, and Sibling DynamicsAllison might go blonde? Gaby is shaving off their hair. HUGE TRIGGER WARNING for sexual assault and "revenge porn:" First, they answer a listener's very delicate question about an ex-partner who betrayed her trust by posting sexual videos of her without her consent. How can she feel safe dating again? (For more on this experience, we recommend videos by YouTuber Chrissy Chambers about her fight against "revenge porn.") Then, they interview internet royalty Connor Franta all about his new book, “House Fires” and what it's meant for him to profit off his life and experiences. And finally, sibling dynamics and how...
2021-10-201h 10
Just Between UsHarm Reduction with Monique Tula, Worrying Your Partner Is A "Bad Person," and NudityFirst, Gaby and Allison get into baby names and weird name stories. Then, the duo disagree on a listener's email about how to express to her boyfriend that she worries he's a bad person. Next, they're joined by The National Harm Reduction Coalition's Executive Director Monique Tula for a fascinating conversation about what harm reduction is, society's warped framing of drugs and sobriety, and how we can change our perception of what drug users need. And lastly, nudity! Melisa and Allison love it. Gaby is... mixed.
The interview contains conversations about drug use and racism. The topix section contains conversations...
2021-08-251h 14
Just Between UsShould Gaby And Allison Get Married, OCD, and Behaviors Vs. BeliefsInsurance forms! Electricity bills! Plants! Are we adults? Should Gaby and Allison just marry each other at this point? We're on the fence. Then, Gaby and Allison give a listener advice about helping a friend who has severe OCD. And finally, beliefs vs. behaviors. What says more about who you are?
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suicide 19:05- 00:19:30
suicide 20:29 - 30:00
repeating thoughts re: pedophilia 21:42 - 22:14
brief mentions of "elder abuse, dependent abuse, child abuse," suicide, homocide 33:42 - 34:00
suicide 35:41-36:25
brief mention of racism 40:03 - 40:15
cheating in a relationship 41:54 - 42:34
Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1EzOJLP38mdj-oICxWkiTn829h-AK-K7R-mtfSQLhfXE/edit?usp=sharing
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2021-04-2150 min
Just Between UsAllison's Big Injury, Problematic Faves, and the Kindness of StrangersStorytime! Allison suffered a massive knee injury in an airport bathroom and learned the extent of her resilience. A listener then asks for advice on whether they can continue watching The Bachelor despite its racism and toxicity. This causes Gaby, Allison and Melisa to go over their own problematic faves and whether or not to keep watching, listening or reading art by problematic people. Finally, the kindness of strangers and the thrilling conclusion of Allison's terrible, horrible, no-good, very bad day. Also, one time Allison and Gaby saved a stranger's life. (No they didn't.)
*Recorded before “The Bachelor” finale.
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2021-03-1746 min
Just Between UsThe History Of Segregation With Richard Rothstein, Letting Down A Date And BillionairesGaby and Allison answer a listener’s difficult question about how to let a date know you’re not interested in seeing them again. They then speak to Richard Rothstein, author of The Color of Law, about the long lasting ramifications of housing segregation by the American government. And finally, they discuss billionaires and boy, do they have a bone to pick! Plus, Allison’s dad, Ken Raskin, joins the podcast for Hypotheticals. Finally! (Content Warning: Discussion of racism)
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2020-09-091h 01
Just Between UsInvestigative Journalism with Natasha Del Toro, Zoom Hangouts with Friends and Our Perfect LifeAllison and Gaby offer advice to a listener who can’t seem to find joy in Zoom Hangouts with her friends. They’re then joined by investigative journalist, Natasha Del Toro, to discuss an investigation that involved 14 women and the many people who didn't believe them. And, finally, Allison and Gaby describe their perfect lives. (It involves animals for Allison and multiple partners for Gaby. Shocking!) Content Warning: Discussion of rape and sexual assault during the interview portion
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2020-04-221h 07
Just Between UsMoving In, Allison’s Mom and Weddings w/ Ruth RaskinTrigger Warning: Suicide Allison and Gaby help a listener figure out when it’s kosher to move in with a new partner. They’re then joined by Allison’s mom, Ruth Raskin (ruthraskinphoto), who discusses the challenges of raising a child with mental illness and the importance of facing it head on. Later they give all their thoughts and feelings about weddings. SPOILER: Do not have it outside.
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2019-07-241h 16
Just Between UsToxic Friends, Home Schooling, and Imposter Syndrome with Joel Kim BoosterComing in hot this week with Allison recovering from getting walked in on the bathroom moments before recording. Allison and Gaby then answer a listener's question about how to dump friends when any other option is "not on the table at all." They’re later joined by actor, comedian, and writer Joel Kim Booster (@ihatejoelkim) who explains the pros and MANY cons of homeschooling. And later, Allison loses her cool, again, while discussing imposter syndrome in Topixxx. (Tough episode for Allison.)
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