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Modern Anarchy160. Updating Freud On The Whole Penis Envy Thing with Em HillOn today’s episode, we have queer sex educator and podcaster Em Hill (She/Her) join us for a conversation about healing from sexual trauma to embodying empowerment. Together we talk about the mindfuck of doming cis-men, the subversion of role play, and the life-long exploration of our erotic narratives.
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SexistentialistS4Ep8: Fatness & SexualityThis week, Em speaks with Noelle Benach, LCPC, CST, an AASECT Certified sex therapist, educator, and speaker. In this episode, the two identify and unpack myths and misconceptions associated with fatness / being larger-bodied, particularly as it pertains to sexuality. If you don't listen -- this is your reminder that all bodies are deserving of and capable of whatever pleasure they aspire to!
Learn this and more throughout the discussion.
Noelle's work is fat, queer, kink, and ENM friendly! She works with individuals, couples, businesses and more. Learn more and book her via her w...2024-04-131h 10SexistentialistS4Ep7: Turning. Yourself. On.In this week's episode, Em speaks with sex and intimacy coach Lauren of Oh Yeah Coaching. Together, the two touch on (pun intended) all things 1) turning ourselves on, 2) aligning our pursuit of pleasure with our values, and 3) learning to be comfy with the uncomfy.
Looking for an ~intimacy audit~ with an expert? Lauren has you covered. Book a free session here.
For upcoming events and more, follow Oh Yeah Coaching on Instagram or visit Lauren's website.
Looking for updates on our latest episodes and sex education? Follow us on Inst...2024-03-3050 minSexistentialistS4Ep6: Neurodiversity & SexualityWhere neurospicy meets bedroom spicy!! In this week's episode, Em discusses neurodiversity and sexuality including kink/BDSM and nonmonogamy with board-certified sexologist Lilith Foxx.
Lilith is an educator, a marketer, a consultant, and more. Learn from and work with her here!!
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2024-03-161h 01SexistentialistS4Ep5: Swinging, Sex Work, and Safety!In this episode, Em and Azalea talk entering the swinging scene and lifestyle, navigating relationships, body image, and separating pleasure from business!
To learn more about ethical non-monogamy, swinging, kink, and more, follow @azalea_bbw on Instagram.
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2024-03-0259 minSexistentialistS4Ep4: Infertility and Rediscovering IntimacyIn this episode, Em speaks with Tiffany Taylor -- a sex therapist, intimacy coach, and more. Tiffany not only has 15+ years in the mental health industry working with individuals and couples alike, but has lived experience navigating infertility rediscovering one's self and sexuality after.
Learn more about working with Tiffany via her website.
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2024-02-171h 09SexistentialistS4Ep3: A Real Hot Girl Movement w/ Dr. Clarissa FrancisIn this episode, Em speaks with Dr. Clarissa Francis, a scholar-activist and consultant who specializes in the Hot Girl Movement, exploring its connection to Pleasure Activism and Megan Thee Stallion's Hot Girl Summer as pivotal aspects of Black women's journey toward sexual liberation.
Visit Dr. Francis's website for more information on the A Real Hot Girl Movement and her work
Follow her on Instagram and Facebook for educational content and latest events.
Dr. Francis also published her memoir "Phreak Like Me: Becoming The Real Hot Girl Doc" in 2022 which encourages Black wom...2024-02-0355 minSexistentialistS4Ep2: Healing & Exploration Through Psychedelics, Kink, and MoreIn this week's episode, Em connects with Nicole, host of the Modern Anarchy podcast and Psychologist in Training. Together, the two discuss psychedelic-assisted psychotherapy, the healing nature of k*nk, deeper embodiment, nonmonogamy, relationship anarchy, and more.
Learn more about Modern Anarchy via Nicole's website or Instagram.
Listen to Modern Anarchy anywhere you can listen to podcasts!
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2024-01-201h 06SexistentialistS4Ep1: Legal Companionship with Alice LittleIn this episode, Em chats with Alice Little. Alice is best known as America's most successful legal s*x worker, and currently works at the Chicken Ranch Brothel in Las Vegas Nevada. Her services are vast and varied, and her story demonstrates that s*x work is so much more than "in out, in out, bye!" Alice is also an advocate for s*x workers rights, often speaking with politicians and legislators to increase their understanding about the industry.
Their discussion branches from Alice's experiences and unique expertise, a day in the life of a brothel s...2024-01-061h 12SexistentialistBonus Episode: How We Learn About Sex Growing UpSeason 4 is on the horizon but, in the meantime, let's get a lil taste.
In this episode, Em is joined by the wonderful Dr. Meghanne Bartlett-Chase, a former sex educator and sexual violence crisis counselor who recently received her PhD in education policy with a research focus on sex education policy, practice, and controversy. Together, the two talk all things sex education policy and accessibility, how we all learn about sex growing up, and a bit of Twilight.
Meg is writing an anthology all about the ways we learn about sex! She is loo...2023-10-211h 00SexistentialistLife Updates & Season 4It's official!! Season 4 will be live in 2024. In the meantime, Em checks in and shares excitement for upcoming seasons.
If you haven't already, please rate and review Sexistentialist anywhere you listen, and be sure to follow the podcast and Instagram @sexistentialistpod for all show updates.
Stay tuned for more.
2023-09-2603 minSexistentialistS3Ep9: Let’s Play A Love Game w/ SexEdWithTimThe shenanigans are back, and gayer than ever in honor of PRIDE MONTH! Em chats with her podcast bestie Tim of SexEdWithTim to play games. Literally -- not in the toxic way! Tune in for laughter and, as usual, graphic imagery.
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2023-06-101h 20SexistentialistS3Ep8: Ethical Nonmonogamy w/ ZachWhat is the difference between polyamory and swinging and open relationships? Have you ever pondered the terms "kitchen table polyamory" or "garden party polyamory?" What is the point in having multiple partners? LET'S GET INTO IT!
In this episode, Em chats with friend Zach -- a close friend, member of the queer community, and happily hierarchically open. They chat through Zach's nonmonogamy journey, and how best to go about exploring what that may look like for you.
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2023-05-131h 14SexistentialistKinkCast #7: DDLGTHIS IS AN EPISODE ABOUT PEDRO PASCAL. Just kidding :) Ever wanted to call a partner Daddy? Ever actually done it? In this KinkCast, Em breaks down DDLG (Daddy Dom / Little Girl) dynamics. Let's get into it, Daddy.
Clarification: DDLG dynamics are consensual and do not involve children or minors
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2023-04-2915 minSexistentialistS3Ep7: Accessible Consent Education w/ Jenae of BirdsandBeesAsk.MeThis week, Em and Jenae of Instagram account birdsandbeesask.me discuss consent education, sexuality education and language in academia, and dispelling myths about sexual violence.
CW: Though this episode is not graphic, we discuss topics of abuse and violence from an objective and research-oriented perspective.
Be sure to follow Jenae for accessible and relatable consent and sexual health education! Visit Jenae's Linktree for resources.
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SexistentialistKinkCast #6: WetlookTune in for Sploshing's cousin! What's a wetlook fetish? Why is it so hard to find things about it on mainstream internet? Idk guess you should listen :)
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2023-03-1813 minSexistentialistS3Ep5: Everyone’s Got a Kink! w/ Javay of Millennial SexpertThis week, Em is joined by Javay da BAE, sex educator, content creator, writer, erotic model, and activist. In this episode, Em and Javay talk about exploring kink(s) for the first time, as well as introducing a kink or fetish to a partner. Truly just two nerd kinksters having a good time and answering meaningful, deep questions about gettin' down and dirty.
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A bunch of...2023-03-041h 09SexistentialistS3Ep4: Sex Lives of Sex Podcasters w/ Jenay of My Naked MindsetEm is joined by fellow sex podcaster and pal Jenay of My Naked Mindset, a podcast that seeks to normalize taboo topics while having fun doing it! In this episode, Em and Jenay basically just hang out! They talk about starting their podcasts, how being in the sex ed / sex coaching world informs their individual sex lives, sex bucket lists, and more!
Find all My Naked Mindset info here.
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Follow My Naked Mindset on...2023-02-1856 minSexistentialistS3Ep3: Pulling Out w/ NeoHe's back, back, back again! Em is joined by pal Neo (see S2Ep14) to discuss the ~art~ of pulling out or the "withdrawal method." They also go on a few tangents along the way. Tune in for a statistic and anecdotally driven conversation about WHERE you should splooj!
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2023-02-041h 02SexistentialistS3Ep2: Communication is Lubrication w/ Nadège of Pleasure Science
This week, Em discusses all things communication and boundary setting with Nadège! Nadège is a sex scholar who graduated from UC Berkeley as well as a professional Astrologer. In 2019, she founded Pleasure Science, an erotic wellness brand that helps you feel healthier and empowered in your sexuality. She writes articles, hosts events, and works one-on-one with clients who want to empower their erotic life. Nadège’s work has been featured in Cosmopolitan, Bustle Magazine, Kink.com, and the History Channel. Check out her new book Sextrology: the Astrology of your Sexual Subconscious, Secret Erogenous Zones, & Lust Compatibility, availa...2023-01-211h 16
Sex Ed with TimS3: E1 - Hole Lang Syne with SexistentialistIt's 2023 and me, and my unofficial cohost Em. And a whole lot of chaos. As predicted 2022 was a shit show and 2023 is not going to be any different. History repeats itself as we look back on the mishaps and in-memoriams from ghosts of sexual past and see if we can survive apocalypse v3.0Follow the Sexistentialist podcast!Listen to the show hereInstagram: @sexistentialistpod______________________________________________________________________________How to support this show and help keep the show free!Use code SEX ED WITH TIM (no spaces) at any of...2023-01-121h 28SexistentialistS3Ep1: D*ck Riding with Glamazon Tyomi MorganYEEHAW! Starting 2023 off right with Tyomi Morgan, a sexologist, intimacy coordinator, sex writer and blogger, creator of The Cowgirl Workout ™, and more! In our Season 3 premiere, Tyomi joins Em to discuss all things riding and -- trust us -- she knows her stuff!
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Lear...2023-01-071h 18SexistentialistBonus Episode: A Hammered Holiday with Tim LagmanComing to you LIVE! Em is joined once again by podcasting bestie Tim of @SexEdwithTim. Em and Tim record together in person from Em's home to discuss f*cking your way around the country, navigating casual sex, and, frankly, how many margaritas they had beforehand.
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2022-12-3139 minSexistentialistKinkCast #5: VampiresIt's Halloween Special time!! From Lestat to Edward Cullen to my bedroom??? We're talking fangs and nibbles and sweet sweet power play. Buckle up.
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2022-10-2212 minSexistentialistS2Ep14: Sexting Expertise with Aficionado NeoWhat REALLY are the sexting best practices? Em sits down with longtime pal Neo and they have one main thing in common: the both love to sext (just not with each other). Tune in for raunchy anecdotes, the genuine do's and don'ts of sexting, how to do it tastefully and artfully, fantasy exploration and more.
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2022-08-0648 minSexistentialistKinkCast #4: LeatherLeather belongs at Pride!
For this especially LGBTQ+ flavored KinkCast, Em gives a brief history of the leather community and it's relationship to gay and lesbian history, activism, and more.
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2022-07-0209 minSexistentialistS2Ep10: Pornhub Insights 2021Cum one cum all!! It's the last weekend of Masturbation May and, in this week's episode, Em and her partner review the 2021 Pornhub Insights. Yes-- they plan to do it every May. Yes-- they know it's 5 months late. Enjoy!
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View Pornhub 2021 Insights for Infographics and details discussed in this week's episode.
2022-05-281h 06SexistentialistS2Ep9: A Quickie Take on Spicing up Solo PlayIt's Masturbation May, and your podcast pal Em just popped by to talk about fapping. That's all really :)
Some exciting podcast news mentioned at the end of the episode! Stay tuned for more information.
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2022-05-1409 minSexistentialistS2Ep8: Shedding STIgma pt. 2: What’s really the deal with HPV?This week, Em is joined by her day 1 (more like ep 1) pal Claire to talk about HPV!
When Claire received her HPV diagnosis, it was scary as f*ck. What she'd really needed at the time, was someone who could talk with her about it like a big sister, rather than as a medical professional.
To wrap up STI Awareness Month, we demystify HPV in hopes of bringing comfort and support to anyone currently anxious about it, or who might be in the future.
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2022-04-3048 minSexistentialistKinkCast #3: Exhibitionism and VoyeurismDo you like n00dz? Sending or receiving? Have you ever fantasized about getting caught? Or catching someone else?
In this KinkCast, Em reviews exhibitionism and voyeurism, and chats through a few easy ways to explore either and incorporate aspects of each into your routine seggs play.
For more, be sure to follow and subscribe! Also, check out our Instagram @SexistentialistPod
2022-03-0511 minSexistentialistS2Ep4: Arousal, Self Love, & Allowing Grace in BetweenJordan D'Nelle is a physician assistant by trade, and women's health educator by night. Host of the Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators podcast, she is a guru on all things health and wellness, as well as working towards self empowerment and better sex.
In this week's episode, Em and Jordan dive into the difference between arousal and the physical response cycle for vulva-owners, self-discovery and exploration, and sh*tting bubbles.
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Ch...2022-02-1936 minSexistentialistBonus Episode: Playing Love Games on Valentine’s DayEm and her partner use "naughty" couples conversation starters to spark conversations about love languages, turn ons, and the negative impact aging has on sex position selection.
Be sure to follow us on Instagram @sexistentialistpod if you don't already :) See you next week.
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Sex Ed with TimS2: Ep 1 - Fappy New Year: 2021‘s Year in Review of Bad Sex with SexistentialistThis is 2021's year in review of all things bad sex. I think the feeling is unanimous when I say that we've had enough of the pandemic, shitty politics, poor media consumption, and horrible sex. You're not alone. Ring in the New Year and sit down with me and Em from The Sexistentialist Podcast as we recap some of the wildest sex things last year had to offer and have ourselves a little sexistentialist crisis. Crazy sex stories, sex in the news and media, and reflecting on our sex lives from the past. What are we going to do...2022-01-131h 29SexistentialistS2Ep1: Getting Back on the HorseWe are BACK for season 2 BABIES!
CW: Sexual assault / abusive relationships
Enrique has returned to talk about sex and dating after a break up, loss, or heart ache. Join Em as the two of them discuss what not to do after a break up, how to avoid the unhealthy, and how to strive towards loving you for you! P.S. Take a shot every time Em uses the term "rail."
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The Curious Girl DiariesThe SexistentialistToday's guest is sex educator and fellow podcaster. Em and I talk about sexual self discovery, kink, sex education for women, our shared love of porn and of course anal. Both the products of sex positive moms, we go deep into our sexual journey as women.Guest Links:@SexistentialistPod on Instagramhttps://podcasts.apple.com/ie/podcast/sexistentialist/id1560271755 https://open.spotify.com/show/4B5VgQzIieEOKsR6Y25Aaw?si=db83f38c6d6b46e3Thank you for supporting my affiliates who help keep this show FREE:...2021-12-1145 min
CrushgasmEp. 31: Sexistentialist's Star Wars Crush - Luke Skywalker | Crushgasm PodcastThe Sexistentialist is here to talk not only about her podcast by the same name, but also her crush on a character from a galaxy far, far away. That’s right, we’re going in on Luke Skywalker.
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Twitter: https://twitter.com/Crushg...2021-11-0347 minSexistentialistKinkCast #2: SploshingIn this fun lil KinkCast, Em talks about the wet and messy fetish, also known as "sploshing." Tune in to see if this wets your whistle!!
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SexistentialistKinkCast #1: CuckoldingEver thought about what sharing your partner could be like? In the first ever KinkCast, Em talks about cuckolding! What is it? Why do people enjoy it? What's a hotwife? Sexistentialist breaks it down. If you're a member of this or any kink community and would like to be on the show, DM us @sexistentialistpod on Instagram or email us at sexistentialistpod@gmail.com.
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