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Family Matters'What Has Worked for You?' Simon Benn asks for your insights on trauma and healingIn this episode of Family Matters, host Sarah speaks with Simon Benn - adoptee, trainer, and host of the Thriving Adoptees podcast. They explore identity, healing, and how the stories we tell ourselves shape our lives. Simon shares personal insights from his own adoption experience, introduces his new book project for adoptive parents, and invites listeners to contribute their wisdom.Want to take part? Submit your insight (50–250 words) by 31 August 2025: https://forms.gle/93u641bZf2DzXDGs6Learn more about Simon and his podcast by visiting his website thrivingadoptees.com2025-07-241h 00
Once Upon A Time...In Adopteeland204. Bonus: "Adoptees Aren't Their Trauma"Simon Benn is the host of https://www.thrivingadoptees.com/podcastMusic by Corey Quinn2024-11-1316 min
Unraveling AdoptionPersonal Trust Communities in Adoption with Mike Thorne - Ep 163"When I was nine years old,...my parents just looked at each other and looked back at me and said, Michael, we just want to tell you that we love you very much and that you're adopted." -- Mike Thorne =============== 📘Get our new book Adoption and Suicidality: amazon.com/Adoption-Suicidality-Healthcare-Professionals-Unraveling/dp/B0DCBCTSLL 📆 Community Calendar: UnravelingAdoption.com/Calendar ✨Healing the Adoption Constellation database: UnravelingAdoption.com/Healing 💌Sign up for our Unraveling Adoption email list: http://eepurl.com/hVIAVX ============== EPISODE SUMMARY: In this episode of Unraveli...2024-09-1633 min
Pulled By The Root - Amplifying Adoption IssuesEp123: Simon BennSimon Benn was adopted at 5 weeks old, and is the founder of “Thriving Adoptees” podcast that honorably focuses on the issues adopted people face. Simon came out of the fog at 40 years old, and all was going well until he discovered that his teddy bear was a gift from his birth mother. This unleashed an eruption of anger, and feelings of rejection and of being unloved for Simon. This put him on his journey to heal and help others. 15 years later, Simon continues to support adoptees through his podcast, consulting, webinars. https://www.thrivingadoptees.com/ 2024-08-1751 min
Thriving Adoptees - Let's ThriveHealing Evolution With Guest Host Jude HungHow's your healing evolving? Are we ever whole? Listen in as guest host Jude flips the script on me. Her questions on healing were great! They're well worth you asking yourself. Do my answers bring you an insight or two? There's only one way for you to find out...I was adopted at 5 weeks old and told so young I don’t ever remember not knowing. I didn't experience any conscious adoption trauma until 40 when I found out my childhood teddy bear was a gift from my birth mother.This caused an eruption of...2024-08-0857 minOnce Upon A Time...In Adopteeland186. Simon Benn: "Be Inspired and Empowered by Your Lived Experience"Simon Benn is a returning guest.Simon was adopted at 5 weeks old and told so young he doesn’t ever remember not knowing. He didn't experience any conscious adoption trauma until 40 when he found out his childhood teddy bear was a gift from his birth mother. This caused an eruption of anger, feeling rejected and unloved. That kickstarted a healing journey exploring trauma, my roots and who he is. Simon spent 17 years doing this and continues to be fascinated by healing, growing and thriving. He’s interviewed over 400 people about this from the adoption constellation for the Thrivin...2024-07-2331 min
Thriving Adoptees - Let's ThriveGrowth and Transformation for Adoptees Webinar AudioThe need to heal the “Primal Wound” assumes we are wounded. It is important to remember that it's based on the perspective of adoptive mother Nancy Verrier, NOT an adoptee. It can leave us feeling: *stuck with the belief we cannot heal. *unsure of what to do next for the best. *pathologized for an event we had no choice in. *More and more adoptees are questioning the wound narrative and wanting to take back their power. Post Traumatic Growth is an altogether more empowering, hopeful and positive perspective that allows us...2024-07-181h 01
Thriving Adoptees - Let's ThriveFinding Home With Simon Benn and Guest Host Jude HungIn this special episode the interviewer becomes the interviewee! Listen as Simon shares his thoughts and experiences on home, childhood memories and ah-ha moments that have birthed in him a passion to help other adoptees find freedom and peace beyond the "Primal Wound".https://www.facebook.com/simonjbennhttps://www.facebook.com/thrivingadopteeshttps://www.thrivingadoptees.com/https://www.instagram.com/simonjbenn/https://www.linkedin.com/in/simonjbenn/
Guests and the host are not (unless mentioned) licensed pscyho-therapists and speak from their own opinion only. Seek...2024-06-261h 10
Thriving Adoptees - Let's ThriveWilling & Curious With Trish DeutschHow open to change are you? How willing and curious to new ways to heal? Listen in as we go deep on how a method that initially felt a little weird helped Trish to feel better on the inside and enjoying better relationships on the outside. And there's the matter of being adopted back by her birth mother...Trish doesn't do social media, but is open to talking with others email me simon@thrivingadoptees.com and I will put you in touch
Guests and the host are not (unless mentioned) licensed pscyho-therapists a...2024-05-3148 min
Voice of AdopteesThriving Together: Who We AreIn this episode, we meet Simon Benn, a fellow podcaster adopted from England! Simon opens up about his adoption story as well as his journey in the adoption space and the challenges he has observed in the industry. He discusses the lack of focus on post-adoption support and the importance of addressing trauma while maintaining hope. He delves into the concept of thriving adoptees and the significance of connecting with one's true self. The conversation concludes with a discussion on the need to question the narrative of sharing our stories. Simon shares his approach to his podcast and the...2023-11-291h 14
Claiming Your VoiceSimon Benn the Creator of Thriving AdopteesSimon Benn is the creator of the podcast Thriving Adoptees. As an adult Simon confronted the issue of his adoption and went on a search to find happiness. Today he is the host of his own podcast to help other adoptees share their story and as he says, to "help each other home" .
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#adoptees #adopteefog #adoption #simonbenn #awareness2023-11-1433 min
I Found HerS2:E7 | Our conversation with Award Winning Author Laura L. Engel: "You'll Forget This Ever Happened''Today on the podcast we invite an award winning author, Laura L. Engel to discuss her book, "You'll Forget This Ever Happened: Secrets, Shame and Adoption in the 1960's".
It is the story of Laura, an unwed teenager whose life takes a dramatic turn when she gives birth to her first-born son in New Orleans Louisiana in July of 1967 and is forced to relinquish him for adoption. It is an unforgettable story of a mother’s love and the secret she never forgot. It will answer questions in ways that will surprise you while revealing a world no...2023-11-011h 10
Thriving Adoptees - Let's ThriveWhat’s Healing? & What Heals?How do we heal? The million dollar (pound or euro) question. Focusing on healing rather than trauma is a great start. Understanding what healing helps us to. Then we can get into the how to's and actions. I'd love your thoughts on this so email me at simon@thrivingadoptees.com
Guests and the host are not (unless mentioned) licensed pscyho-therapists and speak from their own opinion only. Seek qualified advice if you need help.2023-09-2020 min
The Everyday MysticThe Pathless Path w/ Simon BennMeet Simon Benn, a fellow explorer of the spiritual world and host of the Thriving Adoptees podcast. Simon and I connected when he asked me to come on to his podcast and in the pre-podcast conversation, I discovered his spiritual side. In this episode, you’ll hear how Simon went from successful entrepreneur to even more successful human by realizing he had wounds to heal and consciousness to explore. You’ll hear about the moments that converged in Simon’s life to open him up to this path and how he’s evolved since. No doubt you’...2023-09-1552 min
Thriving Adoptees - Let's ThriveAn Adoptee's Return To Jesus With Jane BlasioIf you're a Christian then you're going to love our very first unashamedly Christian interview. Jane goes deep into healing through Christ and I try to follow her. Do I keep up? Well listen in and make your own mind up. Then let me know! She takes a very intimate look at her off and on relationship with Jesus and what 'whole' means to her. Listen and be prepared to be stretched - in a good way. I know the interview stretched me and really enjoy that. Would you like to stretch me with a new take on thriving...2023-06-3045 min
StoryNoir[Chapter 7]: "Resilience" featuring Rahul GuptaWhat does intersectionality look like to you? For Rahul and Opal, growing up, their childhoods on opposite coasts couldn’t have been more different. However, they have something in common; they’re both adopted.Chapter 7 discusses how they both found the language to solidify their adoptive identities as adults and the ways they want to change the narrative and the ideas surrounding adoption.They hone in on the importance of having said language to describe their childhood experiences as a way to have deep conversations with loved ones who may not understand the effects of adop...2023-06-1256 minOnce Upon A Time...In Adopteeland103. Simon Benn : "Thriving Adoptees: Healing, Inspiration & Empowerment For Adoptees"Simon Benn was adopted at 5 weeks old and told about it so young he doesn't ever remember not knowing. He didn't experience any adoption trauma until he hit 40 when he found out his childhood teddy bear was a gift from his birth mother. This caused an eruption of anger, feeling rejected and unloved. That kickstarted a learning journey that led him to heal and then want to help others. He created the Thriving Adoptees podcast so guests can inspire listeners with their stories and empower them with their learnings. He also speaks at events for adoptees and adoptive parents.2023-01-1752 min
The Defender PodcastThe Healing Power of God and AdoptionIn this episode, Simon Benn joins the podcast and he and Herbie discuss the healing power of God. GUESTSimon Benn is an adult adoptee and adoption advocate in the UK. He runs the Thriving Adoptees website and podcast.https://www.thrivingadoptees.com/HOSTHerbie Newell is the President & Executive Director of Lifeline Children’s Services and its ministry arms.CO-HOSTRick Morton is the Vice President of Engagement at Lifeline Children's Services.RESOURCESYou still have time to celebrate the anticipation of Christmas. We have cr...2022-12-0855 min
Thriving Adoptees - Let's ThriveMaking Your Dream A RealityConnect with me at www.simonbenn.co.uk email simon@thrivingadoptees.com
Guests and the host are not (unless mentioned) licensed pscyho-therapists and speak from their own opinion only. Seek qualified advice if you need help.2022-07-2920 min
Thriving Adoptees - Let's ThriveHealing Adoption Trauma - My Journey So FarI was adopted at 5 weeks old. I'm 54 now. I was lucky - adoption trauma didn't hit me until I was 40. Here's what I've learned so far.It runs counter to pretty much everything every other person in the adoption space says. So I'm not asking you to believe me. Trust only yourself.Make your own mind up.If you want to find out more check out www.thrivingadoptees.com
Guests and the host are not (unless mentioned) licensed pscyho-therapists and speak from their...2021-05-1518 min
Thriving Adoptees - Let's ThriveBeyond RejectionI've been scared of rejection a lot of my life. Sometimes it's held me back. Sometimes it hasn't. But understanding rejection has made my life a lot easier. In this video I share what I've learned about seeing through this to move on. There's a line between understanding trauma and moving past it.Here's my very personal and raw take on what I've been through and how I've come out the other side through exploring what rejection is. There's lot of stories and metaphors to guide you through. It's all about my huge insights. I hope they h...2021-05-1113 min
Thriving Adoptees - Let's ThriveLessons From Jeanine - An Adoptive Mother of Two Grown Up SonsJeanine shares how acknowledging the origins of the adoption whilst embracing the present as it unfolds allows us to thrive. She talks about psychology as a tool rather than the be all and end all of thriving. It's a deep conversation as we go beyond the trauma to the truth of who we are.For more about empowering adoptees to thrive visit:https://www.thrivingadoptees.comhttps://twitter.com/_simonbennhttps://www.facebook.com/simonjbenn
Guests and the host are not (unless mentioned) licensed pscyho-therapists and speak from thei...2021-05-0846 min
Thriving Adoptees - Let's ThriveThe Voice In The Adoptee's HeadYears ago people were locked up for saying they heard voices in their head but I've yet to meet someone who doesn't have one.They may not have realised it's not them. They may not have realised they have one. But they ALL have one. The negative voice in my head, the inner critic, the internal terrorist, the enemy within me started squawking early in my life. It really ramped up after some particularly nasty bullying when I was at scout camp.It grew louder as I grew older. Being adopted gave me a...2021-04-2812 min
Thriving Adoptees - Let's ThrivePrimally Wounded?Nancy Verrier's seminal book the Primal Wound is much read and talked about in the adoption world.It had a profound effect on me. But not for the reason you might expect. This video challenges the theme of the book in a way that runs counter to a lot of thinking. That challenging might just give you a glimpse of hope. If it does that for one person I'll be delighted.More hope, understanding and challenge atwww.thrivingadoptees.comhttps://thriving-adoptees.simplecast.comhttps://www.facebook.com/simonjbenn/2021-04-2709 min
Thriving Adoptees - Let's ThriveTrailerThriving Adoptees is a new podcast to inspire and empower adoptees and adopters. The aim - all adoptees thrive. Each episode explores how to make that happen with stories, interviews and insights from adopters, adoptees and leaders in adoption.So why I'm doing this?I was adopted at 5 weeks old and told about it so young I don't ever remember not knowing. I didn't suffer any adoption trauma until I hit 40 when I found out my childhood teddy bear was a gift from my birth mother.This caused an eruption of an...2021-04-1402 min