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Imperfectly Fertile
Imperfectly FertileLetting Go of The Fairytale - Navigating Solo- Parenthood and with Mel JohnsonAre you considering a solo parent journey or already walking that path? In this episode, Emily sits down with Mel Johnson, The Solo Parenthood Coach. Mel talks about her own journey to solo parenthood and going from navigating the grief around not being able to become a parent in the way she’d imagined to thriving as a solo mum to her daughter Daisy.2:00 - Mel’s story and journey to solo parenthood4:41 - Creating Mel’s business, ‘The Stalk and I’ 7:20 - Navigating the decision to become a solo parent - letting go of the fa...
2026-01-1243 minMakes Milk with Emma Pickett: breastfeeding from the beginning to the end
Makes Milk with Emma Pickett: breastfeeding from the beginning to the endJenny and Kat's stories - solo motherhood and breastfeedingI have a bumper edition of Makes Milk for you today, with not one, not two, but three stories of solo motherhood. In this episode, I’m speaking to Jenny and Kat, and in the next, I’ll be speaking to Becky. We’re focusing on the concept of 'solo motherhood' by choice, through the personal experiences of Kat and Jenny, who both conceived with donor sperm and faced various challenges along the way. They discuss their decision-making processes, the hurdles they overcame, including medical and financial challenges, and the support networks they relied upon. As usual, we’ll a...
2025-09-091h 13The Stork and I
The Stork and IS7: E4 Solo Parent of Twins in the public eyeIn this episode I speak to children's entertainer and Red Wiggle, Caterina Meta about her journey to become a solo parent of twins.  *trigger warning we do discuss miscarriage in this episode For over three decades, The Wiggles, the world’s most popular children’s entertainment group have educated, entertained, and enriched the lives of millions of pre-schoolers (and their parents) all over the globe. Today, generations of fans that grew up watching The Wiggles are sharing their love of them with their own children. Having sold over 30 million albums and DVDs and 8 million books globa...
2024-06-1833 minThe Fertility Conversations Podcast
The Fertility Conversations PodcastEmpowering Solo Motherhood: Navigating IVF and Donor ConceptionWelcome to another episode of the Fertility Conversations Podcast. This is Episode 12 of Season 5.   Join us for an enlightening conversation as we delve into the world of solo motherhood by choice through IVF treatment with donor sperm.    In this candid discussion, we address common concerns such as genetic connection, disclosure to future children, family structure, support systems, social stigma, emotional impact, and financial stability.    Our special guest, Mel Johnson, The Solo Parenthood Coach and a solo mum to her 6-year-old daughter conceived via IVF and donor conception, share...
2024-04-2645 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and IS7: E3 Solo Parenting with HollyIn this episode I speak to solo parent Holly.    We cover:  - Choosing a sperm donor - Finding donor siblings - Deciding whether to try for a sibling - The experience of being a solo parent and sharing some of the trickiest parts - Experiencing post natal anxiety - Our desire for constant cleaning to feel more in control - The mental load of a solo parent - Feeling lonely in the early days of solo parenting - A...
2024-03-2559 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and IS7: E2 Solo Parenting with Sarah @singlemammybychoiceIn todays episode I speak to solo parent Sarah   In the episode we cover:  - The difference between using the term single parent or solo parent - Making the decision to become a solo parent - Having IUI or IVF - Having a really tough time postpartum and getting through it - The benefits of parenting solo - The unrealistic expectations we think we'd have of a partner!  - Advice for those considering solo parenthood and much more.....  ...
2024-02-0945 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and IS7: E1 Cultural considerations with JayneelIn todays episode we meet with Jayneel Patel about her journey to solo parenthood.   In the episode we discussed: Coming from an Indian family and the impact that has on the decision to become a solo parent Going through an arranged marriage and the learnings from that Considering adoption Having the support of the important people in our lives Being embraced by the extended family Choosing a sperm donor and considerations around ethnicity Getting things done as a solo parent Juggling career and parenthood And much more!   If you wa...
2024-01-3056 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and IS6: E10 Inconceivable - the Solo Parent MemoirIn the last episode of Series 6 of the Stork and I Podcast I chat to solo parent Alexandra.  Alexandra is a solo parent and an award winning Melbourne writer who has written for theatre, screen and print. Her memoir Inconceivable was recently published by Hachette. In the episode we discuss:  - Her memoir Inconceivable - Splitting up with a partner because they don't want children and you do - 'Settling' for someone as an alternative to pursuing solo parenthood - The challenges of dating when wanting children
2023-11-0840 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and IS6: E9 Solo parenting abroad with JessTodays episode is with Solo parent Jess, who lives with her baby daughter in Thailand.  In the episode we cover:  - The considerations of solo parenthood when you live abroad - Using a known donor - Support network when you live away from family and how friends can really step up - Childcare options when abroad - Deciding whether to try for a 2nd baby - Navigating being a solo parent and having a new relationship and much more You can fo...
2023-10-1354 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and IS6: E8 Solo parenting with TaliaTodays episode is with solo parent Talia.   In the episode we cover:  - Why things are not always easier with a partner - Keeping a positive attitude - Embracing non traditional living arrangements and making them work for us - Pregnancy after loss - Enabling our kids to engage with other donor conceived people and the importance of that for them You can follow Talia on Instagram at @taliamck   Thank you for listening to The Stork and I Podcast! I w...
2023-09-261h 03The Stork and I
The Stork and IS6: E7 All things Solo Parenting with @Claire_Needs_CoffeeTodays episode is with Claire Holland AKA @Claire_needs_coffee. Claire is a solo mum to her 4 year old Theo and chats with me all about her decision to become a solo parent, the journey to get there and the realities of parenting with no partner.    In the episode we discuss:  - Choosing IUI vs IVF - Having a more challenging fertility journey than expected - Getting time to yourself in the evening - Balancing career and parenthood - Finding your tribe and muc...
2023-08-1058 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and IS6: E6 Deciding on the ethnicity of your sperm donorIn todays episode I chat to Alpa, solo mum to 5 year old Mia. We discuss:  - Deciding to become a solo parent - Managing pregnancy solo - Moving to be closer to parents - Choosing a sperm donor - A challenging birth and post natal experience - Changing careers - The realities of parenting solo and much much more.    Thank you for listening to The Stork and I Podcast! I would love for you to share thi...
2023-07-1148 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and IS6: E5 Solo Parenting Twins When One Has a Complex Heart ConditionIn todays episode I chat to solo parent to twins, Julia Shields. Julia has 4 year old twins. Her son was born with a complex heart condition that shapes a lot of how they live their lives.    In this episode we discuss: - Julias decision to become a solo parent - The living arrangements Julia has put in place - How blended family living can work - Parenting during covid - The impact of her son having a complex heart condition from new born to today...
2023-06-0738 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and IS6: E4 Making the decision to use double donation and to have 2 children soloIn todays episode I chat to solo parent Kirsten.  Kirsten is solo mum to 2 children by double donation.    In todays episode we discuss:  - Fertility tests an understanding your fertility - Deciding to use donor eggs as well as donor sperm - Making the decision to try for a sibling - The experience of parenting two children solo   Thanks so much to Kirsten for taking the time to share her story with us.    Thank you for listening to The...
2023-05-091h 00The Stork and I
The Stork and IS6: E3 When the hardest part of the journey isn’t the decision to startIn episode 3 of series 6 of the Stork and I Podcast, I chat to Claire Davies about her roller coaster journey to solo parenthood so far.   We discuss:  - Deciding between IUI and IVF - Getting treatment on the NHS - Experiencing chemical pregnancy - Dealing with miscarriage and recurrent loss - Not realising how tough the journey can be after you've spent a long time considering whether it's the right path - The importance of having amazing people around you ...and mu...
2023-04-1143 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and IS6: E2 Solo Parent and Doula, Amelie Todays episode is with 38 year old solo parent Amelie Patrux Eddy.  She is based in the French countryside on the outskirts of Paris but by the time this episode has aired with have moved to the Brittany region.   Amelie grew up in France, was raised by an (almost solo) South African mom and has lived many years in Australia before landing again recently in the suburbs of Paris (in the midst of a global pandemic you might have heard of!)   This melting pot of cultures gave her a profound love and curiosity for the diversity in people’s ideas, cultures, lives...
2023-03-1449 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and IS6:E1 No Need For Prince CharmingIn the first episode of Series 6 I chat to Alisha Burns AKA @Noneedforprincecharming Alisha is the host of the No Need For Prince Charming Podcast where she interviews Australian Solo Mums about their journey to parenthood.  For a change, she was the one being interviewed and I found out all about her own story, when she started thinking about solo parenthood, her journey to get there as well as her experiences as a parent.  We also discussed the children's book she has written. My Perfect Family. She very generously sent me a copy an...
2023-02-1447 minThrive Solo
Thrive SoloThe One Where I Talk To Solo Motherhood Coach, Mel JohnsonSend us a textOn this week's episode of Spinsterhood Reimagined, I talk to The Solo Motherhood Coach, Mel Johnson. Mel is a solo mum to her 4 year old daughter, Daisy, who was conceived using IVF and donor conception. Following her own journey into solo motherhood, and passionate about empowering women to fully understand their options on the path to parenthood, Mel created The Stork & I. Through The Stork & I, Mel provides a platform and community for women embarking on this path to parenthood. As a qualified coach, with over 10 years coaching experience, Mel supports...
2022-07-0558 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and IS5; E10 Chatting to donor conceived Skyler who was raised by a solo mumIn todays episode, the last in series 10, I speak to 21 year old Skyler.  Skyler and her twin brother were conceived using egg and sperm donation and raised by their mum in a solo parent family.  Skyler shares her experiences and thoughts about being donor conceived    In todays episode we cover:  - The things we do when we want to fit in as a child - Growing up being the only solo parent family in the area - When something happens to your only parent that preve...
2022-04-2032 minTotally Fine with Tiffany Philippou
Totally Fine with Tiffany PhilippouNicola Slawson on being single but wanting childrenNicola is a journalist, writer and public speaker. She’s worked in news at the Guardian and at Huffpost. While at HuffPost, Nicola wrote a personal essay about being the only single one in her friendship group and it went viral. Nicola then went on to create of my favourite newsletters, The Single Supplement, which is about the highs and lows of single life. In this episode, Nicola shares her experience of being single and wanting to be a mother. Nicola's newsletter, The Single Supplement: https://thesinglesupplement.substack.com/Nicola's Instagram: htt...
2022-04-1257 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and IS5: E9 Being connected to donor siblings families as a babyIn todays episode I speak to Emma. Emma is solo mum to a 9 month old daughter using sperm donation and she talks to me about her wonderful experience of being connected by her Sperm Bank to the other recipient parents who have all used the same donor.    In todays episode we cover:  - Being a solo mum with a very limited support system - Being connected to donor sibling families when the donor siblings are still all babies - The language we use and whether we should use the ter...
2022-04-0654 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and IS5: E8 Hearing from donor conceived Natasha who was raised by a solo mumIn todays episode I speak to Natasha Fox. Natasha is 29 and was raised by her mum in London and then later Scotland. Natasha's mum was the first single woman in Scotland to use donor conception to conceive. Natasha has always known she was donor conceived and openly shares her experiences in this episode.    In todays episode we cover:  - Using a homemade book to talk to our children about their conception - The importance of being honest and open about our childrens conception - The influence we have over how...
2022-03-3049 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and IS5: E7 Being donor conceived and using donor conception to conceiveIn todays episode I chat to Freya.  Freya is donor conceived and was raised by 2 mums. Then, her and her wife used donor sperm to conceive a daughter, so she has perspectives of both being donor conceived and also being a recipient parent.  **Warning: we discuss some characteristics of the sperm donor Freya used in the episode**   In this episode we cover:  - Feelings about being donor conceived - A good age to meet donor siblings - Finding your donor through DNA testing - Ho...
2022-03-1636 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and IS5: E6 Julianne Boutaleb, Perinatal PsychologistIn todays episode I speak to Julianne Boutaleb.  Julianne is the Clinical Director and Founder of the Parenthood In Mind practice. She is a passionate and highly experienced perinatal psychologist who has worked for over 20 years in the NHS and private practice with parents and parents-to-be and their babies (and bumps) who have needed support with a wide variety of issues.    In todays episode we cover:  - Our reproductive stories and coming to terms with the fact that they might be different to how we originally thought they would be ...
2022-03-0948 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and IS5: E5 Finding out you’re donor conceived in your teensIn todays episode I speak to Emily.  Emily was conceived using a sperm donor and raised by a solo parent. Because it was pretty common to be a solo parent family where Emily grew up, she didn't ask many questions about her father until her mum showed her a documentary about donor conception when she was in her teens, and she realised that she was conceived with a donor.  We explore the impact of not having those in depth conversations at an earlier age.    In todays episode we cover:  - Fin...
2022-03-0231 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and IS5: E4 Hearing from the US Donor Conceived CouncilIn todays episode I speak to Melissa from the United States Donor Conceived Council.  Melissa was conceived using anonymous egg donation and her parents told her and her brother when she was 21. Melissa is part of the US Donor Conceived Council, which is a nonprofit organization run by and for Donor Conceived People. They connect with other DCP, recipient parents, donors, industry professionals, and the general public to increase awareness of issues that impact DCP and promote change that advances their health, welfare, and human rights."   In this episode we cover:  ...
2022-02-2337 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and IS5: E3 Chatting to donor conceived Nikita who was raised by a solo mumIn todays episode I chat to 24 year old Nikita. Nikita was donor conceived through sperm donation and raised by a solo mum in Birmingham.  Being donor conceived inspired her to work in fertility which has allowed her to better understand the process from the parent perspective. She believe's it is important to hear the views of both parents and donor conceived people for future generations to have a more positive experience. She started looking for her donor and siblings aged 16 and feels very lucky to have a supportive family.    In todays episode we cover:  ...
2022-02-1638 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and IS5: E2 Jana Rupnow, Family Building TherapistIn todays episode I chat to licensed professional counselor and international consultant specializing in fertility and family building, Jana Rupnow.  Jana M. Rupnow, MA, LPC, is best-selling author of the book, Three Makes Baby-How to Parent Your Donor-Conceived Child. She introduced the field to the “five common fears” that parents face as they contemplate having a non-biological child. Thousands of readers around the world have trusted the wisdom and guidance because she knows firsthand what it’s like to be in a non-biological family, as an adoptee and adoptive mom.   Jana also faced infertility and has helped...
2022-02-0936 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and IS5: E1 Conversations with Kiara who is donor conceived with a solo motherIn episode one of series 5 of The Stork and I Podcast I chat to Kiara. Kiara is a 24 year-old donor conceived person who was raised by her solo mom, Nicki. She lives in Chicago and is writing a book about being donor conceived and her story of navigating life and finding her donor related family. She is trying to redefine society's notion of a "traditional family". You can check her out on instagram @kiararaeschuh and get a free preview of her book at kiararaeschuh.com.   In todays episode we cover:  - Th...
2022-02-0228 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and ISeries 5 TrailerThe wait is finally over! The Stork and I Podcast for solo parents and those considering solo parenthood is back! Series 5 of the podcast is launching on 2nd February 2022 and is focusing on all things donor conception.  Subscribe now so you don't miss out!
2022-01-1400 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and IS4: E10 The one for friends and familyTodays episode is a bit different from usual.  I'm not talking to a guest. Instead I have dedicated this episode to provide guidance for friends and family members of solo mums.  I've tried to incorporate my own experience as well as everything that has been shared with me by my fellow solo mum community.  I've covered all the things we wish our friends and family knew about how to best support us and what not to say. I cover:  - Re-establishing a different relationship with your friend - Ho...
2021-11-0336 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and IS4: E9 Fertility Yoga with Helen Davenport-PeaceTodays guest is Helen Davenport-Peace from @at_the_fold  Helen is a yoga teacher that has been immersed in the path of yoga, embodiment and teaching for 25 years. She is the owner of a small yoga studio in Greater Manchester, The Fold - a hub for anyone trying to conceive. Her aim is to provide a sanctuary of rest and community amidst the landscapes of creating a family.    Helen supports people in the midst of a trying to conceive story through Fertility Yoga sessions and co-created 1:1 conception doula bespoke support packages for assisted conception and early pregnancy. Support is c...
2021-10-2741 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and IS4: E8 Emotional Freedom Technique with Sarah HollandTodays guest is Sarah Holland, the Fertile Mindset® Coach and has a unique, effective and empowering approach to fertility support. Working in the world of fertility since 2001, and having experienced fertility challenges herself, she pioneered the use of EFT Tapping specifically for fertility support. With the Fertile Mindset® approach to coaching, support and emotional healing she has helped thousands of people negotiate the emotional rollercoaster of fertility issues. Sarah believes it is possible for anyone’s fertility journey to become a much more positive and fulfilling experience, and that by recognising and supporting the emotional aspe...
2021-10-2037 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and IS4: E7 A Single Revolution with Shani SilverIn todays episode, I chat to Shani Silver.  Shani is a writer and the host of A Single Serving Podcast. Her work focuses on changing the negative narratives around being single in an effort to improve the way single life is experienced. Shani's work helps singles reframe the limiting, shame-filled societal messages around singlehood and reframe them to hold more truth and authenticity. On October 26th, 2021 Shani is releasing her first book, A Single Revolution: Don't look for a match. Light one.   In todays chat we cover:  - The narrative around sin...
2021-10-1357 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and IS4:E6 Getting fertility treatment abroadIn todays episode I chat to Emma Haslam from @yourIVFabroad Emma is an expert in fertility treatment abroad and after her own journey with treatment abroad she set up Your IVF abroad, to help others by making fertility treatment more affordable, accessible and supported and to give people who she was missing. Emma helps people to find a clinic that matches their needs and wants and supports them through treatment, she also offers donor conception information sessions so you can make informed decisions.   Aiming to change the narrative Emma has become an advocate, speaker, campaigner and writer for th...
2021-10-0645 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and IS4: E5 Single Parent RightsIn todays episode I speak to Ruth, a single mum who works in the charity sector. She has two young boys who she has raised solo since her eldest was six months old. Her first was conceived through marriage, and the second via donor conception. Ruth has been writing about single parenting for over six years on her blog Ellamental Mama, trying to raise understanding of the realities faced by single parents - the good, bad and the ugly. Her writing has been featured in The Guardian, The I Paper and The Metro, amongst others.
2021-09-2943 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and IS4: E4 Using an Au Pair as part of your support networkIn todays episode I chat to Sophy.  Sophy is 36 and lives in South Oxfordshire with her 3 year old twins. She started the journey to solo motherhood at 31 after receiving the results of a fertility test she took.  Sophy got 2 eggs from her treatment, transferred them both and now has twin girls.    In this episode we cover:  - The decision to transfer 2 embryos - Solo parenting twins - Using an au pair to form part of your support network - Freelancing as a solo paren...
2021-09-2251 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and IS4: E3 Thoughts on being donor conceivedIn today's episode I speak to Emma, 25, from Denmark who is donor conceived.  Emma was born using an anonymous donor. She has a mum and a dad and 2 sisters.  She started a blog 3 years ago where she shares her thoughts and experiences on being donor conceived.   In this episode we cover:   - The importance of how our children's conception story is shared with them - Why Emma decided to start @donorchild Instagram account - Why it can be helpful for our children to hear their conception story from birth - How being donor conceived can make you feel  - Having sibling...
2021-09-1535 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and IS4: E2 Managing your finances as a solo parentIn today's episode of the podcast I chat to George Agan. George is a Chartered Financial Planner. He runs Principles Personal Finance which is a financial education site. He also has his own YouTube channel.    I often get questions about finances from people who contact me and I didn't used to feel properly equipped to answer in depth enough, and this episode helps to provide some further clarity.     In todays episode we covered:    - The cost estimate of having children - How to bring clarity to your own financial situation - Adopting a renting methodology to save money (and the environm...
2021-09-0851 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and IS4: E1 Talking to our children about their conception with Sarah SprouleWelcome to episode 1 of the 4th series of The Stork and I Podcast In this episode I chat to Occupational Therapist and Sex Educator, Sarah Sproule. When Sarah was 11 she was afraid she was only growing one breast and didn’t know who to turn to for help.    Now as mother of three teens, with two decades experience as a therapist and a masters in sexuality studies, Sarah uses her skills as an occupational therapist and sex educator to ensure every parent and caring adult knows how to build deeper connection with their growing kid(s).    Becaus...
2021-09-0140 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and ISeries 4 TrailerThe wait is finally over. The Stork and I Podcast for those considering solo parenthood is back! Series 4 of the podcast is launching on 1st September 2021.  Subscribe now so you don't miss out!
2021-08-2600 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and IS3: 10 Using a known donor to become a solo mumIn todays episode I chat to Joscelyn Webb, solo mum to a nearly 4 year old son. Joscelyn lives in Hong Kong and travelled to the UK for treatment using a known donor.   In this episode we cover:  - Making the decision to start trying to conceive following fertility test results - Deciding on using a known donor - Contacting potential known donors to ask if they would be interested in being a donor - Grieving for the path to parenthood we presumed we would follow ...
2021-07-0744 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and IS3: 9 Being a freelance solo mumIn todays podcast I chat to solo mum, freelancer and author Kate Sawyer.  Kate has an 18 month old daughter and has just had her first book, The Stranding, published. We discuss how Kate has made freelancing work for her, as a solo mum.    In todays episode we cover:    - Making sacrifices in order to save money for becoming a solo mum - Writing a book during pregnancy - Being creative with finances to save as much money as possible - Moving out of London to be closer to family - The importance of having a good support system in place - Gett...
2021-06-3053 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and IS3: 8 Travelling as a solo mumIn todays episode I chat to Natalie.  Natalie is an avid traveller and a solo mum to 2.5 year old Tiger. She chats to me about using her maternity leave to spend time travelling with her daughter. In this episode we discuss:  - Meeting someone in our lives who inspires us to travel - Becoming a solo mother when you have a boyfriend - Egg freezing and being an egg donor - Getting treatment abroad - Experiencing numerous treatment cycles - Navigating solo motherhood with a partner - Preparation and logistics for travel during maternity an...
2021-06-2452 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and IS3: 7 Solo Mothers By Choice Support GroupsIn todays episode I speak to Jenny Nash, solo mum to Dottie and the Founder of Solo Mothers By Choice UK Facebook Group.    In this episode we cover:    - Telling our grandparents about our decision - Fertility education at school - The advantages of freezing eggs in your 20s - The importance of getting good sleep and what help is available - The experiences of having 3 generations in one house - The importance of having a solo mum support network - Finding donor siblings - The experience of deciding to try for a sibling - Advice for people at the beginn...
2021-06-161h 03The Stork and I
The Stork and IS3: 6 The journey to solo fatherhoodIn todays episode I chat to David Watkins AKA @the_dadness. David is a solo dad by choice to his son Miles who he conceived using an egg donor and a surrogate. I was really excited to chat to him to hear his perspective of embarking on the journey to solo parenthood as a single man.     In this episode we cover:    - The experience of seeing other people with their children and the feelings that brings about - Exploring adoption as a single man - Considering co-parenting with a friend and the complications surrounding that decision - What wanting to be a d...
2021-06-091h 06The Stork and I
The Stork and IS3: 5: Writing a book about solo motherhoodIn this episode I chat to Louisa Pateman, author of Single Again and Again and Again, this month's very first Stork and I Book Club book.    Louisa is a solo mum to a 10 year old and has documented her story in this amazing book which I couldn't put down and highly recommend.     In this episode we cover:     - How we keep adjusting our plans from how we originally thought our life would play out - The baby calculator  - Why we can't use the same approach in our lives to dating as we do with every other aspect of our lives - O...
2021-06-0250 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and IS3: 4: Managing a career whilst solo parenting 2 children In today's episode I chat to Sarah Camlett, solo mum to 2 children. A 2 year old son and a 6 year old daughter. Sarah has a successful career in film and TV that has taken her all around the world and I was really interested to chat to her about how she manages to balance family life and career.    In today's episode we cover:    - Doing the maths on whether there is really time to meet someone to have a baby with - Preferences when choosing a sperm donor - Watching the IUI procedure happening on the screen and the amazingness of scien...
2021-05-261h 02The Stork and I
The Stork and IS3: 3 Solo parenting with twinsIn todays episode, I chat to Harriet, a solo mum to twin boys. Harriet conceived whilst living in New York, but when she found out she was having twins decided to move back to the UK, to get the support of her family.  In this episode we cover: - The impact of living abroad on meeting a partner - The considerations when deciding to transfer 2 embryos - The benefits of living with parents - The realities of being a solo mum to twins - The experience o...
2021-05-2040 minFriends With Fertility
Friends With FertilitySolo Motherhood with Mel JohnsonIn today’s Pretty Little Tribe Podcast episode, we speak with Mel Johnson, the owner of the Stork and I and the Host of the Stork and I podcast. Mel was 36 years old when she realized that if she didn’t find a partner, the dream of her being a mother might not happen. Instead of waiting around for this magical partner, Mel took things into her own hands and started her journey into solo motherhood with IVF and donor sperm.    Join us as we discuss Mel’s story and talk about the common misconceptions surround...
2021-05-1328 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and IS3:2 Solo Parenting with a Chronic IllnessIn todays episode I chat to Julie Seal @the_chronicoptimist, solo mum to her daughter Betsy.    Julie contracted Lyme disease following a mosquito bite whilst in Greece and we discuss the impact of that, on her solo motherhood journey.    In this episode we cover:   - Dating when wanting a baby - Wanting to transfer 2 embryos, but being told no - Managing the two week wait - Having your mum as your birth partner - How covid has helped with flexibility of where to live and enabled us to move closer to family - How our egos sometimes stand in our way - A...
2021-05-051h 03The Stork and I
The Stork and IS3:1 Egg Freezing with Amy HartThe first episode of series 3 is all about Egg Freezing as a way of Fertility Preservation. In this episode I chat to Amy Hart, best known for Love Island and Celebs Go Dating and as she says in our interview, who is famously single.  Amy has shared openly her desire to start a family in the future and her decision to freeze her eggs to give her time to meet someone, or to embark on solo motherhood if that doesn't happen for her.  In this episode we discussed:  - Why it's frustrating when peo...
2021-04-2847 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and ISeries 3 TrailerThe trailer for series 3 of the Stork and I Podcast.  This series is a collection of stories covering a variety of different paths to parenthood and solo motherhood stories. 
2021-04-2600 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and IS2: Dating mindset with dating coach Hayley QuinnIn the last episode of Series 2 I chat to Dating Coach Hayley Quinn.    Hayley is an internationally recognised dating coach and founder of the UK’s largest dating coaching company. She has over 2 Million views on her TED talk and over 100,000 YouTube subscribers.   She is the spokesperson for Match, the biggest online dating platform in the world. She has been featured on BBC1, Sky and Channel 4 and is a regular columnist for Cosmopolitan.   Her goal is to bridge the gap with modern dating and help inspire people to learn to love dating.   In this episode we discuss:    - Why it is...
2021-03-1039 minLove Machine with James Preece
Love Machine with James PreeceA Chat with the Solo Motherhood CoachAre you looking to start a family on your own? In the latest episode of the Love Machine relationship podcast, James is joined by Mel Johnson who is known as the Solo Motherhood Coach. She set up her company called "The Stork and I" in order to help reach women who aren't sure which direction to take. You'll find out all about her journey and why she decided to have a baby on her own after some unsuccessful dating experiences. You'll hear some great tips about whether or not you should...
2021-03-0835 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and IS2: What the Research Says with Professor Susan GolombokIn this episode of the podcast I speak to Professor Susan Golombok.    Susan Golombok is Professor of Family Research, Director of the Centre for Family Research at the University of Cambridge.    Her research examines the impact of new family forms on parenting and child development, specifically lesbian mother families, gay father families, single mothers by choice and families created by assisted reproductive technologies including in vitro fertilisation (IVF), donor insemination, egg donation and surrogacy.    Her research has not only challenged commonly held assumptions about these families but also has contested widely held theories of child development by demonstrating that structural aspect...
2021-03-0354 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and IS2: Doula support with Lorraine from Mama2MamaIn this weeks episode I chat to Lorraine who is a doula otherwise known as Mama2Mama.    Lorraine offers faces to face support in and around Leeds and Manchester and remote support across the UK. After training with Nurturing Birth, Lorraine has cared for a diverse number of clients with compassion and a tenacity to improve the birthing experience for all. She has experience supporting solo mums at all stages of their journey.    In this episode we talk about:    - What a doula is - How a doula could support you across your entire solo motherhood journey - What you should l...
2021-02-2442 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and IS2: Managing your Mindset with Alice RoseThis weeks episode is with Alice Rose, The Fertility Mindset Mentor.    Alice went through 11 rounds of fertility treatment before conceiving her daughter and as a result of her own personal journey, decided to start supporting others going through similar experiences.    In this episode we discuss:    - Alice's personal journey and what led her to set up the support she now offers  - How all consuming a fertility journey can be - Dealing with overwhelm  - Tips for coping with the journey - Why it is important to have trusted sources of information  - The difference between informed thoughts and opinions - How medit...
2021-02-1742 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and IS2: Donor Eggs with Becky from Defining MumIn todays episode I chat to Becky Kearns AKA @definingmum   Becky has 3 gorgeous girls with her husband, who she conceived using donor eggs in the Czech Republic.    In this episode we discuss:    - Feelings of loneliness when on the donor conception journey - Why Becky started her blog Defining Mum - Societal expectations of parenthood - What shapes a person over and above genetics - The pros and cons of having a partner when you're going through this process - Connecting with others in the same situation - Our fears about this route to parenthood and the importance of sharing them i...
2021-02-1045 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and IS2: Donor Sperm with Annemette Arndal-Lauritzen from European Sperm BankIn this episode, I talk to Annemette Arndal-Lauritzen, the CEO of the European Sperm Bank. Annemette has been in the company since 2013. She has a background in the healthcare sector and her main interests revolve around how women and sperm donors experience their contact with the sperm bank, and how to continuously improve this relationship. We had a really interesting discussion about the process for both the donor and the recipient, as well as the values of the Sperm Bank and their ideas about how they see their responsibility in this process, which was really reassuring to hea...
2021-02-0346 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and IS2: Fertility Options with Dr Matt PriorIn this episode I talk to Dr Matt Prior. Matt is an NHS consultant doctor working at Newcastle Fertility Centre and also Medical Director at Dr Fertility.     Dr Prior specialises in reproductive medicine and surgery. He helps people with fertility problems using a holistic approach.    In this episode we discuss:    - How to better understand your fertility - When to go to your GP and how they can help you - An explanation of AMH  - Considerations when choosing a fertility clinic - The difference between IUI and IVF - The rough cost of fertility treatment  - Where to go for independ...
2021-01-2742 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and IS2: Creating a support network with Zoe Desmond from FroloMy guest today is Zoe Desmond, the founder of the single parent networking app, Frolo.    Zoe became a single parent a few years ago when her son Billy was one. She wanted to connect with other single parents, but didn't know how to find them so she decided to start Frolo to connect single parents to one another and create a supportive community.    Frolo is the first community app of its kind for single parents, regardless of how they came to be parenting solo. The emphasis is on finding human connections. Using the app makes it easy to discover and connect wi...
2021-01-2033 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and IS2: Fertility Nutrition with Rosie TadmanEpisode 2 is with Rosie Tadman (DipCNM, BANT and CNHC Reg) a Fertility Nutritional Therapist who studied at the prestigious College of Natural Medicine in London.   Rosie specialises in Fertility, Female Hormones, Pregnancy and Postpartum Support.   Rosie uses Modern Science and Traditional Wisdom to get women in hormonal flow and support conception. She supports underlying causes, rather than just suppressing symptoms.   Rosie works with women who; are thinking about getting pregnant and want to ensure they are as healthy as possible are actively trying to get pregnant, through both natural and assisted routes (IVF...
2021-01-1335 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and IS2: James Preece; The Dating GuruIn episode 1 of The Stork and I Podcast, I chat to The Dating Guru James Preece.    James has been working in the dating industry for over a decade and is responsible for thousands of single people finding love.  He coaches both men and women, so can share both the male and female perspective. He is a well connected dating influencer who has worked with many dating apps and online dating sites to help their members have a better user experience. James hosts his own podcast called The Love Machine. Each week he explores fun ways to bring love into your life. ...
2021-01-0639 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and IThe Stork and I Series 2 TrailerSeries 2 of The Stork and I Podcast is finally here.  This series is about the process to become a solo mum.  1st episode of the 2nd series launches on 5th January. 
2020-12-3100 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and IA grandparents view on solo motherhood with Granny BevThis is the final episode of series 1 of the podcast. And I've saved a great episode for last! Basically I managed to persuade Granny Bev to record with me. She was not in her comfort zone at all. But she agreed to do it anyway!    In this episode we discuss:  - Whether living abroad has hindered my efforts to meet someone - The fear of never becoming a grandparent - The fact that my mum was worried about whether I would be able to cope! - O...
2020-09-0224 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and ICouple goals with Raelene RorkeIn this episode I chat to Raelene Rorke. Entrepreneur, founder of Indica, mother of 3 girls and married to my friend Nate. Nate and Rae are my real life relationship goals couple.    In this episode we talk about:    - The key to making a relationship work and overcoming struggles - Making family life work and how to find the right flow and rhythm  - Exploring some of the challenges of parenting in a partnership - How marriage does not automatically equal fairytale, but rather how we each create our own fairytale - How having a variety of male role models in our c...
2020-08-2641 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and IReimagining black British solo motherhood with EmmieIn episode 8 I chat to pregnant solo mum to be Emmie, an educator and business woman, seeking to reimagine Black British solo motherhood.    Emmie kindly helped me out when I was doing some work to ensure that my coaching was inclusive for black solo mums and after chatting to her, I asked if she'd be a guest on the podcast to share her story and I was delighted when she agreed!    In this episode we cover:    - The support you can get from solo mum groups and being a 'lurker' in the group! - Realising that IVF is not a guaran...
2020-08-1944 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and ISpermcast with Molly HawkeyIn episode 7 of the podcast I meet Molly Hawkey.    Molly is an American actress and comedian. She is also the creator of the podcast Spermcast, documenting her search for a sperm donor in order to have a baby solo.    In this episode we discuss:  - An overview of Mollys own fertility journey to date  - Why Molly started her podcast and how it has helped her - The difficulties of dating when you want a baby - The benefits of talking about your situation with friends and family (or in Mollys case an entire podcast population!) - How our reality is not...
2020-08-1232 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and IFertility Education with Professor Joyce HarperIn this episode I chat to Professor Joyce Harper, Professor of Reproductive Science at the Institute for Women’s Health, University College London. She is also Director of Education at the IfWH, Director of the Centre for Human Reproduction, co-founder of the UK Fertility Education Initiative and Founder of the International Fertility Education Initiative.    I met Joyce at the Fertility Fest last year and have been a fan of her work ever since. She has worked in the fields of fertility, genetics, reproductive health and women’s health for over 30 years and shares so many interesting facts in this episode.    In this ep...
2020-08-0539 minWorkLife Stories
WorkLife StoriesSolo MotherhoodIn the latest episode of Cityparents Talk, we talk to Mel Johnson from www.thestorkandI.com (Insta: @the_stork_and_i) about her decision to become a solo mother, the highs and lows of her journey to motherhood and how she balances solo parenting with her corporate career. 
2020-08-0120 minThe Ribbon Box Podcast
The Ribbon Box PodcastSolo Motherhood - the Decision, the Fertility Treatment Process, the Pros and Cons of Being a Single Mother by ChoiceMotherhood and parenthood is daunting at the best of times, but what if you haven’t met the person you want to be have a family with and you hear that biological clock ticking louder than ever?Listen as we speak to the lovely Mel Johnson, AKA The Stork & I. Mel decided enough was enough - one day she realised that even if she met Mr Right that night AND got pregnant, time was still against her. With that worry in the forefront of her mind, Mel knew it was time for her to start the process of...
2020-07-2945 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and IChanging the narrative around single women with Nicola SlawsonIn this episode I speak to Nicola Slawson. A freelance journalist who writes a newsletter, The Single Supplement, changing the narrative around being single.  Nicola is 35 and happily single. She is considering solo motherhood as a possible option for the future.    In this episode we talk about:   - Why the pandemic made some of us feel more single than ever - How Nicola set up her newsletter The Single Supplement to change the narrative around single people - The advantages of pausing dating to focus on self work - Realising we might be commitment phobes! - Juggling work and dating - The...
2020-07-2938 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and IDeciding on solo motherhood with ClaireIn episode 4 I meet Claire. Solo mum of gorgeous 1 year old Ruby.  Claire and I met at a solo mum meet up and became friends. We spent last Valentines Day together with our kids and some other solo mum friends (in the same pub Max George from The Wanted but that's another story!) We spent most Wednesday evenings together via Zoom during lock down on The Stork and I Solo Mum Calls. I love Claires banter so I knew she'd be a great guest on the podcast. She loves to tell it as it is!    ...
2020-07-2243 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and INatazsas solo motherhood journeyIn Episode 3 I speak to Natasza AKA @me_becomes_we. Natasza is a solo mum by choice to a toddler and is currently trying for baby number 2.    Natasza had a 5 year fertility journey where she experienced recurrent loss. In this episode we do not cover the details of that element of her experiences as we focus on the subject of making the initial decision to start the journey.    In this episode we cover:  - The power of the Solo Mum Community - We talk about Natasza's journey which involves recurrent loss and how she dealt with that with the support of he...
2020-07-1530 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and IGoing Solo with Genevieve RobertsIn Episode 2, I meet Genevieve Roberts, solo mum of 2 and author of 'Going Solo: My Choice to Become a Single Mother Using a Donor'   I met Genevieve at The Fertility Show in 2019 where I heard her read an extract from her book and it gave me goosebumps as I heard her speak. So much of what she said resonated with me and my own experiences.    Gen regularly shares her experiences and views on solo motherhood through her work as a journalist, writing for a variety of publications.   In this episode we cover:    - Fertility tests as a trigger to make the deci...
2020-07-0836 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and IMothering solo with Jocelyn @motheringsoloWelcome to The Stork and I Podcast. This is a podcast aimed at single women considering solo motherhood.  In this first episode I meet the lovely Jocelyn AKA @motheringsolo We chat donor conception with double donation, dating when you want a baby, fertility MOTs and making the decision to start the journey to solo motherhood.  You can follow Jocelyn's story on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/motheringsolo/ If you like this episode, please rate and review keep your eyes peeled for the next one, out every Wednesday.     
2020-07-0133 minThe Stork and I
The Stork and IThe Stork and I Podcast, for single women considering solo motherhoodThe trailer for The Stork and I Podcast for single women considering solo motherhood
2020-06-1701 minBreaking Mum & Dad: The Podcast
Breaking Mum & Dad: The PodcastMel Johnson on Having a Baby SoloThis week it's the turn of the lovely Mel Johnson, a fellow life-coach, and a lady who always wanted to start a family, and eventually she did - solo.Mel tells Anna the story of how she came to have her daughter Daisy, her IVF journey, how she picked a sperm donor, pregnancy, birth a lovely receptionist and a big decision.Listen by clicking ‘Play’, subscribe on iTunes and please do rate and review to help spread the word.Look out for new episodes every Tuesday and Friday and keep the conv...
2018-11-0652 min