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By the Way, with Rokcie & GolderSeason III: More lessons from the workplaceWe examine lessons we have learnt from the workplace over the past 2/3 years.
Work is a huge part of our lives, we make money from it, spend most of our time there and even attach our self-esteem and future to it. In this episode we try to share what we have learnt from our work experiences as 9/5vers.
Our previous episode on lessons from the workplace: Season Episode 9
https://anchor.fm/dashboard/episode/ef513u
Intro music: Welcome, Traveler - Artificial.Music
https://www...2020-09-2255 minBy the Way, with Rokcie & GolderSeason III: What we now know about mental healthMental health can a conundrum, especially in our African communities. Mental health is not taken as seriously as physical health is but it is just as important and has an impact in our lives and livelihoods. In this episode we talk about what we have learnt in recent years about mental health.
Some links for counselling in Tanzania:
https://www.safespacetz.com/
https://www.mmatters.org/
Intro music: Good evening by Amine Maxwell video link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2BEJUXf_U38
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Twit...2020-08-3150 minBy the Way, with Rokcie & GolderSeason III: Beauty standards?Episode title: Beauty standards?
Description:
Being beautiful - society’s standard of beautiful, that is - can be a full time job. In this episode we talk about what things we refuse to do now, beauty routines we think are worth it and recall different things we did in the past that make no sense now. We also drop a bit of knowledge at the end so stick around for that.
Intro music:
Song: Skiletron - Enyer Gonzalez
Video Link: https://youtu.be/0KmcMwQoU4g
Find us on...2020-08-1349 minBy the Way, with Rokcie & GolderSeason III: Money talksEpisode title: Money talks
Description:
Money! We love it but it’s never enough. In this episode, we talk about how our money goals have changed over the years, lessons learned in the past few years and hopefully, drop some knowledge. Also; the “By the way” section returns -- hope you missed it as much as we did.
Intro music:
Song: Rose by ImJohne
Video Link: https://youtu.be/jpIxLF-N5KU
Download Link: https://soundcloud.com/user-430114297/rose
Find us on...2020-07-1446 minBy the Way, with Rokcie & GolderSeason III: We're BackWe catch up on what we’ve been up to in the last 3 years, and 3 lessons we’ve learned along the way. We also discuss the future of the podcast, what we’ve been up to during the pandemic and are we trendsetters?
Find us on the internet:
Twitter: [at]TheBTWPodcast (https://twitter.com/TheBTWPodcast)
Facebook: By the Way, with Rokcie & Golder (https://www.facebook.com/bythewaypodcast)
Email: btwpodcast@outlook.com
Golder’s Twitter: [at]stormish___ (https://twitter.com/stormish___)
Rokcie’s Twitter: [at]iheartrokcie (https://twitter.com/iheartrokcie)2020-06-2337 min
By the Way, with Rokcie & GolderSeason II Episode 12: Pet PeevesEpisode title: Pet Peeves
Description:
We catch up on the latest news: Milan Christopher’s penis, nude pregnancy shoots, Jay Z’s latest album and a mini review of Transformers: The Last Knight. We then spend the rest of the time discussing our pet peeves which range from bad table manners, bad customer service, not paying the bill at bars, “sexual” burping and many more :)
Links:
Milan Christopher’s Paper Mag article > http://bit.ly/2rUnBEj
Music:
Song: Egzod - Paper Crowns (feat. Leo The Kind) [NCS Release]
Music provided by NoCopyrightSounds.
Download/Stream: http://ncs.io/PaperCrownsCr
Find us on the int...2017-07-031h 11
By the Way, with Rokcie & GolderSeason II Episode 11: Book recommendationsEpisode title: Book recommendations
Description: We catch up on the latest news: Amber’s bush, some new songs (let Asahd take his naps!) and a semi movie review for the Mummy. We then spend the rest of the time discussing our favorite books, books that changed our lives and much more. Oh, and we may have spent 10 minutes ranting about Fifty Shades of Grey.
Links: Saida Karoli - Orugambo >> https://youtu.be/jwAxSZblzvQ
Goodreads >> http://goodreads.com/
Some of the authors and books...2017-06-191h 16
By the Way, with Rokcie & GolderSeason II Episode 10: (Female) Agents of MisogynyEpisode title: (Female) Agents of Misogyny
Description:
This is a rant-y episode. Ladies, we need to do better. But before getting to discussing some ways women are not helping the fights against inequality, we provide a mini-review of the Wonder Woman movie and discuss Laci Green’s YouTube drama, internet feminism and more. Disclaimer: As we mentioned in the episode, at one point in our lives we may have believed in some of the perceptions we condemn in this episode but after some self-reflection and research, we now see the error of our ways. Let’s strive to continue growing and...2017-06-121h 11
By the Way, with Rokcie & GolderSeason II Episode 9: Lessons from the workplaceEpisode title: Lessons from the workplace
Description:
Buckle up - this is a long episode because we had a lot to say. We catch up on a little of bit of news which includes Instagram-famous girls and their brands, then dive right into what we have learned about the corporate life in the past 4 years. We touch on mental health, organization tips, work friendships and many other topics.
Links:
Gigy Money’s interview on Bongo 5 >> https://youtu.be/VIUjz0QnfzA
Shonda Rhimes’ Year of Yes >> https://www.amazon.com/Year-Yes-Dance-Stand-Person/dp/1476777128
Carl Newport’s So Good They Can’t Ignore You >> h...2017-06-051h 30
By the Way, with Rokcie & GolderSeason II Episode 8: Birth controlEpisode title: Birth control
Description:
We speed through the new and noteworthy section (it’s been a busy week), and jumped into an hour long discussion on birth control. We go through a list of popular birth control options and offer our personal (not professional) opinion. We also touch on our views on using the rejection of birth control by the Catholic church and the history and public perception of birth control over the years.
DISCLAIMER:
We’re not medical professionals. Information provided in this episode should not be treated as advice. If you have any specific questions about any medi...2017-05-291h 15
By the Way, with Rokcie & GolderSeason II Episode 7: Michango ya harusiEpisode title: Michango ya harusi
Description:
We catch up your comments (thanks for the feedback!) and Ciara/Future/Russell drama. Also, Golder recaps the Bollywood movie Half-Girlfriend, and urges you to go see her bae Charlie Hunnam in King Arthur. We then sink into the topic of wedding contributions, the bane of our existence. We rant about some of our frustrations around this subject, our ideal weddings and why we think Instagram has ruined weddings.
SPOILER ALERT:
Skip to 20:55 in order to avoid Half-Girlfriend spoilers.
Links:
My Family’s Slave by Alex Tizon > https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2017/06/lolas-story/524490/
Mu...2017-05-221h 12
By the Way, with Rokcie & GolderSeason II Episode 6: Body image and body positivityEpisode title: Body image and body positivity
Description:
This was a very personal episode for us to record. In the New & Noteworthy section, we discuss Tyga, celebrity babies and violence against women (#RIPKarabo). We then delve deep into our issues with body image and the body positivity movement.
Love yourself!
Links:
Tess Holliday Instagram >> https://www.instagram.com/tessholliday/
Ashley Graham Instagram >> https://www.instagram.com/theashleygraham/
Georgina Horne (not FitBottomedGirl) Instagram >> https://www.instagram.com/fullerfigurefullerbust/
More information on Lolo Ferrari, once “the woman with the largest breasts” >> https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lolo_Ferrari
Intro music:
Song: Egzod - Pa...2017-05-151h 17
By the Way, with Rokcie & GolderSeason II Episode 5: Unpopular OpinionsEpisode title: Unpopular Opinions
Description:
This a rant-filled episode about our unpopular opinions: beards. basic dessert(s), Aaliyah is overrated, Brad Pitt and many more.
Intro music:
Song: Egzod - Paper Crowns (feat. Leo The Kind) [NCS Release]
Music provided by NoCopyrightSounds.
Download/Stream: http://ncs.io/PaperCrownsCr
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Twitter: [at]TheBTWPodcast (https://twitter.com/TheBTWPodcast)
Facebook: By the Way, with Rokcie & Golder (https://www.facebook.com/bythewaypodcast)
Email: btwpodcast@outlook.com2017-05-081h 10
By the Way, with Rokcie & GolderSeason II Episode 4: Should cheating be forgiven?Description:
In this episode: we take a moment to discuss Ciara, the Kardashians and our attraction to tattooed white boys. And then all hell breaks loose and it’s an hour plus of us deep-diving into cheating, why men do it, if we would ever tolerate it, polyamory, kinky sex, communicating your needs in your relationships etc. It’s a doozy of personal opinions and mini-rants on this touchy subject. Let us know what you think via our socials and/or leave comments!
Intro music:
Misael Gauna and Evence - Only You (Provided by Free Background Music)
Link: https://soundcloud.com...2017-05-011h 15
By the Way, with Rokcie & GolderSeason II Episode 3 : From Bajajis to tiny, tiny carsEpisode title: From bajajis to tiny, tiny cars.
Description:
In this episode: We catch up with listener feedback, Golder has opinions on Fast 8 and DAMN and Rokcie has notes on Nicki’s No Frauds video. We also discuss how life has changed now that we’re rolling in cars and not bajajis anymore, our beef with bullies on the road and how we’ve dealt with traffic police. It’s a massive episode (sorry not sorry) with a lot of opinions.
Skip to 17:19 if you don’t want Fast 8 spoilers!
Cracked’s People Watching Series:
First episode, Why Speed Dating is Terrible...2017-04-241h 13
By the Way, with Rokcie & GolderSeason II, Episode 2: Are we obsessed with love?Description:
In this episode: listener feedback on our last episode (finally!), celebrity break-ups, yet another discussion about our changing perspectives on love and relationships, whether having physical preferences is wrong and in our Geek Out section, Golder is excited about her new purchase and Rokcie finally moved!
Intro music:
Song: Egzod - Paper Crowns (feat. Leo The Kind) [NCS Release]
Music provided by NoCopyrightSounds.
Download/Stream: http://ncs.io/PaperCrownsCr2017-04-171h 05
By the Way, with Rokcie & GolderSeason II, Episode ISeason II, Episode I
Description:
We are revamping the podcast by taking a leaf from the TV shows, we will now be doing a season with a number of episodes before taking a (long?) break.
In this episode, we try to put our 2 cents on the discussion of whether #MenAreTrash. We also discuss Shether and conspiracy theories: is Drake a talent vampire? We want to know.
Golder is geeking out over free time and Rokcie complains about something or other.
Some of the things mentioned in this episode:
Video mentioned with Gigi Money in it: https://www.youtube.com/watch...2017-04-101h 10
By the Way, with Rokcie & GolderBack. Like a Heart Attack.In this episode, we catch up on what’s been going on in our lives. We reflect on growing older and changing perspectives, share some horrific partying tales, lament on our weight loss struggles and ask ourselves, would we date men in their 40s?
We also have a lengthy Geek Out session about Doctor Strange, 2 Dope Queens, libraries and much more.
Some of the things mentioned in this episode:
2 Dope Queens: http://www.wnyc.org/shows/dopequeens
Phoebe Robinson’s book: https://www.amazon.com/You-Cant-Touch-My-Hair/dp/0143129201
Shotgun by Gallant (from “Ology”): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8U64rB7dIJI
Mus...2016-11-3052 min
By the Way, with Rokcie & GolderMe, myself and my hair; By The Way episode 6I am not my hair, said India Arie but the trith is hair is a big part of our lives.
Welcome to a discussion on hair, surviving Dar as a naturalista.2016-02-1844 min
By the Way, with Rokcie & GolderMo money Mo problemsSo if you have ever been broke you know that you never wanna be broke again. If you have never been broke then you are either lying, a freeloader, dependent on parents or may be a combination of all. Join us as we talk about and how to survive Dar with it.
Give us more tips you guys, we would like to here your versions.
xo2016-01-2753 min
By the Way, with Rokcie & GolderLove and the city: Dating in DarHey guys, so here it is episode 4, the D word, no not what you think (although close cousins). Dating, join us in the last episode of 2015. Let's close the year!!2016-01-1145 min
By the Way, with Rokcie & GolderThe Girl with the Hazzard Tattoo: Surviving Dar as a WomanThis week we discuss trailers, ratchet messes and how to survive as a woman in Dar. Fellas, buckle up. Ladies, raise a glass and join us in recapping our experiences on partying, snatching wigs and dealing with...ahem, interesting exes.2015-12-2147 min
By the Way, with Rokcie & GolderMission impossible: Dar es Salaam trafficApologies about the pilot, we umh, ok we don't have a good excuse. We have it we might release it.
This week we speak of boda bodas, bajaji's and why we are never on time in this 'bandari ya salama'. So yeah join us as we speak about the slow and frustrating transportation in Dar. Speak of going no where slowly *sigh*2015-12-0139 min