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Thirsty: the Podcast92. Coming Out Late(r) in Life, with Kelsey Banyan and Hollie ConroyIn the season four finale of Thirsty, we're talking to special guests Kelsey Banyan and Hollie Conroy about their experiences coming out late(r) in life. They're talking about their journey to self realization, including the changes they experienced in their lives, their marriages, and of course, dating and relationships. Becoming who you are is the privilege of a lifetime, and these stories show the beauty that can happen when we break free. If there's one thing we know for sure, life is best lived in full color.
ABOUT KELSEY AND HOLLIE
Kelsey is a...2024-02-1247 minThirsty: the Podcast91. Single by Choice, with Sarah RSociety tries to tell us that life is better when you're partnered up. Maybe that's true for some people, but not everyone. What if life is pretty great on your own, and you have no plans to change that fact? Meet Sarah R, who got a divorce, created a life as a single mom, and couldn't be happier. When it comes down to it, we all get to carve out the life of our dreams, and that looks like different things to different people. She's sharing the up's, the down's (and everything inbetween) about being single by choice.
2024-02-0531 minThirsty: the Podcast90. Reclaiming Your Sexuality after Divorce, with Vanessa and Xander MarinDivorce pushes us to rethink everything we thought we knew about ourselves, including our sexuality. In this transformative conversation, Vanessa and Xander Marin share a deeper look at the decisions we make about sex; and, you may be surprised at the results. Whether you're in a longterm relationship, or fresh out on the dating scene, there's something here for everyone.
Discussed in this episode:
Walking away from the "f*cking fairy tale".
The one sentence that will change your entire sex life.
How to talk about sex with a partner.
The science behind libido, and what...2024-01-2948 minThirsty: the Podcast89. Is Your Self Care Routine a Joke?These days, self care has become synonymous with candles, bubble baths, and glasses of wine. What if it's about something deeper? Firstly, do you know where the term "self care" originated? Spoiler alert: it's not what you may think. Today, Heather and Laura are proposing a reframe on self care, and sharing lessons learned along the way. They're talking about habit stacking, nurturing self esteem, and what taking care of yourself can look like in real life.
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The Loveland Foundation is an organization committed to showing up for communities of color...2023-11-2746 minThirsty: the Podcast88. Moms on Mushrooms, with Tracey TeeToday, Tracey Tee, founder of Moms on Mushrooms, is dropping by the Thirsty recording studio to chat all things microdosing, and, it's not what you may think. Tracey experienced her own spiritual awakening through microdosing, and she's here to share her journey, as well as the many lessons she learned along the way. The first thing to know? Tracey says it's all about waking up, not numbing out, and she's passionate about helping other moms create their happiest, healthiest selves.
ABOUT TRACEY TEE
Tracey is the creator and steward of Moms on Mushrooms, a community...2023-11-2138 minThirsty: the Podcast87. How to be a better communicatorToday, Heather and Laura are going solo, and they're talking about a subject that's near and dear to their hearts: communication. You may think you're a great communicator, but turns out that being a quick texter doesn't mean a thing. They're covering strategies for partnership, authenticity, and how to stop the passive aggressive cycle. They're also hitting what it means to grow up in fundamentalist evangelical culture, why "Cornhole" is the worst name for "Bags", and the hidden surprises that Omaha served up to Laura this summer.2023-11-1342 minThirsty: the Podcast86. Is Codependency Ruining Your Relationship?, with Carla Romo and Sherry Gaba of The Love FixToday, Thirsty is hosting Carla Romo and Sherry Gaba from The Love Fix to talk all things codependency. Firstly, what is codependency? Why does it matter? And how can we make better dating and relationship choices?
This team is covering anxious attachment, self esteem, and what you can do to make your love life better starting right this second. They're also talking about how you may be a master manipulator (and not even realize it), the difference between interdependence and codependence, as well as why being a "fixer" may be your very own version of a red...2023-11-0625 minThirsty: the Podcast85. The Secrets of a Matchmaker, with Daphney PoyserSometimes we need to hear from the experts, and who knows more about finding a good match than a professional matchmaker? Daphney Poyser is here to share what she knows about matching, dating, and finding the love that is right for you. She founded Fern Connections, a matchmaking agency that centers LGBTQIA+ clients. Daphney is talking about dating after divorce, healing, choosing your priorities, and being open to the possibilities.
Then, stick around for a Date Report with Thirsty field correspondent Kit Ratliff, who's talking about their experience navigating dating apps while being a young divorcee, lover...2023-10-3044 minThirsty: the Podcast83. Are You Using Dating Apps All Wrong?, with Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of DateableABOUT THIS EPISODE:
They're the essential tool we love to hate: dating apps. But, what if the apps aren't the problem... you're just using them wrong. Dating experts Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu are here to talk to us about how we can leverage dating apps to their highest power and (perhaps) find the love of a lifetime. From how to write a profile to how to screen for your best match, they're showing us what we can do to make great connections that may actually go somewhere. They're also covering how better dates may actually result...2023-10-2858 minThirsty: the Podcast84. Moving on from Monogamy, with Dedeker WinstonWhen it comes to relationships, there's this pervasive idea that monogamy is the gold standard. However, most of us don't fit into that [very small] box. Divorced? That's not monogamy. Dated multiple people? That's not monogamy. Serial monogamist? That's not monogamy either.
So, let's throw out the fantasy and get real instead. Over *one in five Americans have practiced some form of ethical nonmonogamy at some point in their lifetime, so this is not a niche practice. If you've ever found yourself wanting to know more about nonmonogamy, polyamory (and any other kinds of amory!) today's episode...2023-10-2347 minThirsty: the PodcastBONUS. Tea Time: In Which Laura Pays Good Money to Suffer for 26.2 MilesLaura's fresh off the Chicago Marathon finish line and lived to tell the tale. In today's tea time, Laura recounts the journey to her first marathon, and it was a world majors race, to boot. On the same day that Kelvin Kiptum smashed the world record with a 2:00:35 finish, Laura was busting through her own limits by running her way through 29 different Chicagoland neighborhoods. There were over a million spectators. There were elite runners. There were pretzels. However, what's the answer to the question we all want to know... was it worth it?2023-10-1237 minThirsty: the Podcast82. Addiction in Dating and Relationships, with Dr. Shamin LadhaniABOUT THE EPISODE:
Today's episode of Thirsty is for anyone who is (or loves) someone who is managing an addiction. "Addiction" is a word that gets thrown around out of context quit often, when the reality is that clinical addiction is a disease that needs to be managed, and most of the time, things like a sugar or shopping addiction just don't compare. Dr. Shamin Ladhani is a clinical psychologist specializing in addiction, and she's visiting Thirsty to talk about how to approach relationships when clinical addiction is in the mix. Dr. Shamin is covering how to...2023-10-0935 minThirsty: the Podcast81. Healing from Cheating, and Second Marriages, with Gabrielle Stone of FML TalkABOUT THE EPISODE:
It's the day of the Season 4 premiere, y'all! Thirsty's back, with special guest Gabrielle Stone of FML Talk. She's an author, actress, and podcaster who's seen it all (and lived to tell the tale), with more than a few laughs along the way. Today, Gabrielle's stopping by the Thirsty recording studio to talk about life after divorce, healing from a partner's infidelity, and why she decided to walk down the aisle for the second time. Gabrielle, Heather, and Laura are also covering about how to spot a love bomber, when cheating might not be the end...2023-10-0243 minThirsty: the PodcastSeason 4 Trailer: Fresh EyesWe’re all a little bit know-it-all. Egotistical. Self-centered. But — what if we challenged ourselves, looked deeper, searched wider?
Thirsty: the Podcast is a show about dating, relationships, and life after divorce. Season four premieres October 2, and, we’re going big this time, with amazing guests who bring heavy-hitting expertise to the table:
Dedeker Winston (The Multiamory Podcast) is an author, speaker, and relationship expert ready to share more about moving on from monogamy.
She’s a sex therapist. He’s just a regular guy. Together they are New York Times bestselling authors who are going to talk to u...2023-09-0501 minThirsty: the PodcastSecond Chance Summer: The six kinds of men you meet on TinderSecond Chance Summer is a limited series where Heather and Laura revisit dates of Dark Days past with the benefit of hindsight. "The Six Kinds of Men You Meet on Tinder" was the episode that started it all back on August 16, 2021. Things have changed a lot in two years (and that's an understatement). Take a listen to this original episode from the vault, then stay tuned afterwards for a brand new discussion.
Then, Heather and Laura share a sneak peek into Season 4 of Thirsty, premiering October 2nd. With new conversations on microdosing, polyamory, second marriages, and more...2023-09-0450 minThirsty: the PodcastSecond Chance Summer: Shawn the SmokeshowSecond Chance Summer is a limited series where Heather and Laura revisit the dates of Dark Days past with the benefit of hindsight. Take a listen to this story from the vault, then stick around for a brand new discussion. Shawn was a whirlwind romance from Heather's history that Thirsty originally aired February 21, 2022. He was a kind, fun, empathetic match who wasn't meant to last (but made quite the impression regardless). He marked a true turning point in Heather's dating journey, and everyone needs a lightning rod connection every now and then.2023-08-211h 10Thirsty: the PodcastSecond Chance Summer: David the DisasterDavid the Disaster was one of Laura's very first Thirsty stories, published August 23, 2021. David was a tough experience for Laura (and all her girlfriends) because this match was toxic right from the start. Many painful lessons were learned, but now Laura can look back and see the role he played in her healing journey. From "lingering" to "baggage" and beyond, this story reminds us that we all gotta start somewhere.2023-08-0748 min
Growing Up FundieWomen Atheists Unload (from Skeptic Haven): What if God Were A Woman? (Feat. Heather McGinley)Send us a texthttps://iamdyingoutloud.org/This livestream originally occurred on Saturday, May 13th at 3:30pm CST.In this episode, I debut as a new member of the rotating hosts for Skeptic Haven's "Women Atheist Unload."I am joined by my cohost Rion, as well as episode guest Heather McGinley. Heather is a writer, comic, and the host of "Thirsty the Podcast" (available on all platforms). She was also the very first guest I ever had on Growing Up Fundie!Find more about Heather...2023-08-071h 02Thirsty: the PodcastSecond Chance Summer: Left Turn LarryThirsty listeners first met Larry on March 21, 2022. Larry and Heather had matched, met, and were building a real friendship (or so Heather thought). Heather and Larry had already decided it wasn't a love match, so quelle surprise when their relationship took a hard left into romantic territory. This is a story about perception, communication, and learning to stick to your boundaries.2023-07-241h 06Thirsty: the PodcastSecond Chance Summer: Nate the GreatNate the Great was a Dark Days date who met Laura right after a traumatizing encounter with David the Disaster. But, was Nate really all that great? With "Second Chance Summer", Laura is seeing Nate's impact through fresh eyes and the benefit of hindsight, and she's seeing things a little bit differently now. Today we're asking, why do we put certain connections up on a pedestal, and do they really deserve to be there? Nate may have been the right date, at the right time, but the breakup was just as timely. Laura found that sometimes a positive connection...2023-07-1051 minThirsty: the PodcastSecond Chance Summer: Harry the Hiring ManagerThis summer, Thirsty is revisiting the Dark Days of dating with a fresh take in a seasonal series called "Second Chance Summer". Harry was a date who decided Heather was "It", capitalized despite the fact that he barely knew her. Apparently when you're dating with a checklist, checking the boxes is all that matters, so much so that he pitched a trip to Hawaii on the second date. Listen to this oldie but a goodie, then stay tuned for a new discussion at the end of this episode, reflecting on why love never needed a checklist.2023-06-2639 minThirsty: the PodcastSecond Chance Summer: Lenny the Liar"Second Chance Summer" is a limited seasonal series where Heather and Laura are revisiting the most popular past Thirsty episodes with the benefit of hindsight. Each episode includes a fresh intro and a new conversation at the end, where they uncover new lessons and laugh at themselves (a lot). Today, they're looking back at "Lenny the Liar", which originally aired September 20, 2021. Lenny was Heather and Laura's one crossover (dating) episode, and neither could give him positive reviews. Turns out the best way to prove you're divorced is to actually *be* divorced. This look back into the past asks why...2023-06-1256 minThirsty: the PodcastSecond Chance Summer: Self-Absorbed Sam"Second Chance Summer" is a limited seasonal series where Heather and Laura are revisiting the most popular past Thirsty episodes with the benefit of hindsight. Each episode includes a fresh intro and a new conversation at the end, where they look back, uncover new lessons, and laugh at themselves (a lot).
Today, they're looking back at "Self-absorbed Sam", which originally aired February 12, 2022. Sam was a relationship that Laura probably should have never agreed to in the first place, but Dark Days dating knows no standards. In this trip down memory lane, Laura reflects on home improvement, warm hugs, and asking...2023-05-291h 07Thirsty: the Podcast76. Thank you for being a friendThirsty is celebrating the power of female friendship in this season 3 finale, alongside Tina and Amy, Oprah and Gayle, and the Spice Girls (of course!) Did you know the average female friendship lasts 16 years? That doesn't mean it's always smooth sailing though. Heather and Laura are talking about how to up your (platonic) relationship skills and create deep friendships that can go the distance. They're covering friendship's up's, down's, and everything inbetween, with a side of fun, tears, and brunch.
Worried you'll lose your Thirsty fix? Never fear, because Second Chance Summer is on the way, as...2023-05-2253 minThirsty: the Podcast74. How to introduce a significant other to your kidsIf you are divorced with kids, you will likely find yourself contemplating introducing your kids to a romantic partner. Today, Thirsty is covering it all, from how to make the decision to how to make it happen. When evolving your relationship to this level, there's so much to consider, and we all want to handle it well. Heather and Laura are sharing lessons from their personal experience, as well as talking about advice from the experts. If you're getting ready to take this important step, this episode will help you make sure you've covered all your bases.2023-05-0848 minThirsty: the Podcast72. Walking through infertility, with Lindsay Flader and Jamie MartinIn part 2 of this panel discussion about infertility, Thirsty is talking to Lindsay Flader and Jamie Martin about acceptance, giving up control, and why partners need support too. Lindsay's also sharing the moment she went public with her struggles, and why she was surprised by the results. They're also talking about how to deal when your personal life becomes visible at work (and why that might not be a bad thing) and how to access your inner strength.2023-04-2632 minThirsty: the Podcast71. Walking through infertility, with Lindsay Flader and Jamie MartinThirsty is taking a break from divorce and dating to talk about a subject that leaves one in eight couples wanting more: infertility. Today, Lindsay Flader and Jamie Martin are joining the pod to share where they've been, what they've learned, and how they're moving forward. They covering what infertility treatment requires, how they've managed their mental health, and (for allies) how to help support people you love who are dealing with infertility right now. 2023-04-2431 minThirsty: the Podcast70. Healing from abuse and becoming a single mom by choice, with Emily HugheyThis week, Thirsty welcomes writer Emily Hughey to the group chat. Emily was in the midst of rebuilding her life post-divorce when she was "stealthed" by a man with whom she was in a new relationship. (Stealthing is when a sexual partner removes the condom without consent.) A few weeks later, despite having taken Plan B, she was shocked to find she was pregnant. She knew she had some choices to make about her future. In the months that followed, Emily was challenged with domestic abuse, an unplanned pregnancy, and a life that looked much different from what she'd...2023-04-1750 minThirsty: the Podcast68. Flying solo, with Breaunna LakeSolo travel. Maybe you've thought about it? Maybe the idea makes you nervous? Or, maybe you've tried solo travel and discovered you love it. With today's special guest Breaunna Lake, Thirsty is covering planes, trains, and automobiles (and how they can get you on the trip of a lifetime.) Breaunna took her divorce as an opportunity to rediscover who she was, and travel was a big part of that journey. Her first solo trip was a bit of a bust, but she took stock of what she'd learned and tried again, to great results. Heather also weighs in with her...2023-04-0345 minThirsty: the Podcast67. Design a dating strategy with Maggie DegandPresented by Custom Core Fit
There's a time and a place for dating willy nilly (like during the "dark days" of divorce!) but once you're ready to date in a healthy way, a dating strategy can help. Today special guest Maggie Degand is talking to us about how putting a little thought into your dating approach can lead to better outcomes. She's talking about building a dating profile that reveals your true self, the "three C's" that she lives by, what it means to date intentionally, and a special tool she calls "The Mantrix." Heather is sharing...2023-03-271h 05Thirsty: the Podcast65. What adoption is like for adoptees, with Amanda Vaughn and Holly CatesThirsty is a pod where — most of the time — we talk about dating, relationships, and life after divorce. However, our tagline “because sometimes life leaves you wanting more” is bigger than just divorce. Divorce may be an opportunity to think differently about life, but there are many other life experiences that create that same potential to learn more about ourselves and others, challenging our preconceived notions. And, understanding each other’s biggest life experiences - whether it’s divorce or something else - is one way to do that. To that end, today, we’re taking a break from dating to talk...2023-03-2042 minThirsty: the Podcast64. Are dating apps ruining dating?It's the tech we love to hate: dating apps. While dating apps are necessary for anyone wanting to meet a new match, sometimes they create more roadblocks than they remove. Today, Thirsty is talking about why dating actually might not be a numbers game after all, and why the phrase "putting all your eggs in one basket" may be a misnomer. Heather and Laura are discussing about how to make better (and quicker) decisions about your love life, the "swipe right" mentality, and why looking for the "best one" means you may never find it. They're also covering why...2023-03-1356 minThirsty: the Podcast62. Managing life as a divorced or single parentRebuilding life as a divorced or single parent takes creativity, ingenuity, and grit. You're doing things you never thought you would have to do — and many times you might feel totally alone. The good news is that there are ways to make life run a little bit more smoothly, and Thirsty is here to talk about it all today. From buying a car to managing a home to moving your body (and more), there are many things you can do to get things under control, even if you don't have a local support system. Laura is talking about the re...2023-03-0642 minThirsty: the Podcast61. Too Touchy TravisMeet Too Touchy Travis, the date who was charming, fun, but didn't keep his hands to himself. Heather's experience on this date had her wondering how to navigate the physical factor when you're just getting to know someone for the first time. How should we handle the situation when ew feel uncomfortable on a date? Is the answer different if you're attracted to them? Is there a right or wrong answer when we're talking about small physical interactions? Today, Thirsty is covering it all, including the difference between "dark days" dating and dating while (mostly) healed, making intentional choices...2023-02-271h 02Thirsty: the Podcast59. Do nice guys finish last?Today, Thirsty wants to know, do nice guys really finish last? And, what makes someone a "nice guy" or a "bad boy" in the first place? Heather and Laura are talking about the difference between truly nice men, and the ones who are just pretending. This episode proves that appearances aren't always what they seem, and sometimes what looks good on the surface hides deeper issues of entitlement, insecurity, and a disconnect from reality. They're also talking about "bad boys" that aren't so bad, why we choose the dates that we do, and why Laura's got a lisp that'll...2023-02-2039 minThirsty: the Podcast58. Is true love real?For this year's Valentine's Day, Thirsty wants to know, is true love real? Heather and Laura dove deep on this topic, wondering what it takes to find real love, and, what makes love last? They're covering the three types of love, why attachment styles matter, and what they look for in a love match. Is love truly a verb, what does the science say, and more than anything, does everyone gets the opportunity to experience a great love story?2023-02-1348 minThirsty: the Podcast56. When love, long distance relationships, and corn combineWhat do love, long distance, and corn have in common? In the words of The Corn Kid, we've never seen a more beautiful thing. Modern dating is hard enough without throwing hundreds of miles into the mix. Or, is it? Maybe with a dose of thoughtfulness, a side of clear communication, and two open hearts, love really can go the distance after all. Today, Thirsty is covering how to make long distance work, and why it may actually be easier than dating local for divorced parents. Heather and Laura are talking about how to keep your relationship from becoming...2023-02-0655 minThirsty: the Podcast55. What's a fantasy bond?Today, Thirsty is unpacking fantasy bonds (and they're not what you think.) People can pretend to be in a great relationship, yet things aren't always what they seem. They post the cute Instagram pics, tell themselves all is well, meanwhile the spark, intimacy, and connection are long gone. Heather and Laura are covering why some choose to stay, when to leave, and why our closest relationships can be the most inauthentic. There's a big difference between boundaries and being controlling, many romantic relationships can resemble a parent/child dynamic, and sometimes the work to sustain a relationship can become...2023-01-3050 minThirsty: the Podcast53. Why can't I get over my ex?Getting over an ex can be tough. Whether the relationship ended after three months or three years, certain people leave a lasting mark on our hearts. Today, Heather and Laura are covering it all: why we tend to romanticize (or villainize) our exes, what gets us stuck, and why when someone walks away, it's a gift. They're also talking about when we give ourselves breadcrumbs, discerning whether your relationship was about attention or the person, and why Heather doesn't believe in closure. They believe you should say what you need to say after a breakup, being grateful that your...2023-01-231h 06Thirsty: the Podcast52. What does it mean to date casually?It's the phrase we see all day, every day on dating apps: "Only looking to date casually." We roll our eyes, sigh deeply in response, but what if casual dating is just... dating? And, what if it's actually possible date casually in a fun, healthy way? Thirsty is doing a deep dive on all things casual. We're talking about how men define it, why women do it, and how to stay true to yourself no matter what. Heather and Laura are also talking why Heather hates labels, how not everyone's looking to get married or cohabitate, and when casual...2023-01-1647 minThirsty: the Podcast50. Assemble the group chat!Today is Thirsty's 50th episode, and we can’t think of a better way to celebrate than by finally introducing the third member of Heather and Laura's group chat! Up until now, Kristen's been known as "the friend who isn't allowed on the podcast because she's in love with her lobster." We're hearing more about Kristen's love story with her high school sweetheart, and why sometimes the third time's the charm. She's the only person on earth who's never used a dating app — not even once — and we are here for it. We're talking about how to love someone for who th...2023-01-0954 minThirsty: the Podcast49. Taking Chances TylerLaura has been known to "sleep-swipe" a time or two on dating apps. For the uninitiated, sleep-swiping is when Laura dozes off and her fingers do the swiping for her. This summer, she sleep-swiped right on Taking Chances Tyler, a man who was only visiting Chicago for a few days. He lived a full plane ride and several states away, so Laura was surprised when she discovered that their connection was more than text deep. A series of romantic weekends and big feelings followed, until one day, Tyler pulled the rug out without warning. However, after a little crying...2023-01-0244 minThirsty: the Podcast46. How to design a self-growth strategy that worksToday, Heather and Laura are debriefing this past year, then talking about real strategies for self-growth in 2023 — with a sense of humor, as always. They're covering the rollercoaster that was 2022, including international adventures, reflections on connection, and why Laura is determined to carry assorted enormous furniture by herself. Thirsty is also sharing why New Year's resolutions fail where intention wins, exploring why we have so much trouble asking others for help, and proposing that accountability should make you feel supported rather than scolded. New revelations include the fact that while Laura is ready to share a big love update, sh...2022-12-2654 minThirsty: the Podcast45. Is it possible to change your attachment style?Attachment Theory is a field of study coined in the 1950s by psychoanalyst John Bowlby. This phrase describes how the behaviors we learn as a child make a big impact on our romantic relationships as adults. We call them “attachment styles,” and there are four: secure, anxious, avoidant, and fearful-avoidant. Laura and Heather wonder whether your attachment style can change over time? Is your style a permanent label, or something you can shift? Are they doomed to be anxious attachers for life? Today, Thirsty is talking about how identifying your style can help you understand yourself better, the big less...2022-12-1950 min
Thirsty: the Podcast42. Making holidays magical (whether you’re divorced or not)Holidays give us the opportunity to put work away and reconnect with our loved ones. However, this time can also bring a unique sense of melancholy and stress, whether you’re divorced, partnered, married or single. Today, Heather and Laura are talking about how to make each holiday the day that YOU want it to be, from Christmas to birthdays, Mother’s Day and beyond. They’re covering the year they ran away to a spa for Thanksgiving, why Heather quit holiday cooking for good, and why they take a mini-vacation every Father’s Day weekend. There was that time Heather...2022-12-1248 min
Thirsty: the Podcast41. How important is physical attraction in dating and relationships?Recent studies have indicated that people are de-prioritizing physical attraction in favor of more meaningful character traits. This makes Heather and Laura wonder whether Love is Blind is more than just a popular reality show. Turns out emotional maturity, relationship skills, and an ability to commit are winning the day. The data says daters who work on personal growth are more attractive, so what does that really mean? Today, Thirsty is covering what makes daters swipe right, the rules of attraction, great conversation starters, and why every man Heather dates looks the same. Heather and Laura are also talking about...2022-12-0553 min
Thirsty: the Podcast39. Should you be outsourcing your dating choices to a Facebook group?These days, the dating pool can feel like a tricky, scary minefield. It’s become common practice to Google, and even background check, any and all potential dates. If you’re savvy, you’ll also find many Facebook groups designed specifically for today’s modern dater, offering community, support, and advice. In addition, Heather and Laura are asking if there’s such a thing as too much information, how your gut instinct might be the best tool in your dating toolbox, and why we’re always going to be Team Woman. Finally, Thirsty is announcing the birth of their newest babies: the...2022-11-281h 00
Thirsty: the PodcastAnnouncing our new subscriber series and the Thirsty Shop!Thirsty is so excited to announce two big developments in our evolution as a podcast! We are launching both a subscriber series and a capsule collection of Thirsty merchandise. Firstly, subscribe to The Thirst Trap to get two bonus episodes per month, created exclusively for Apple Podcast subscribers. The subscribers-only Thirst Trap episodes will be more personal, more candid, more of what our community loves about Thirsty in the first place. Subscribers will also have access to a 10% discount on all our new shop merchandise. Check out the Shop on ThirstyThePodcast.com to see mugs, stickers, hats, sweatshirts, tops and...2022-11-2303 min
Thirsty: the Podcast38. What does it mean to be truly emotionally available?Emotional availability is a bit of a buzzphrase in today’s modern dating landscape, but what does it really mean? Vulnerability, bravery, and authenticity are the ingredients to creating a fulfilling and meaningful relationship with romantic partners, friends, family, and even yourself. Heather and Laura are talking about self compassion, learning from past mistakes, and creating a support system that really works. They’re covering why real relationships mean talking about the tough stuff, being yourself at all times, and why telling yourself the truth can sometimes be the most challenging task of all.2022-11-2144 min
Thirsty: the Podcast37. How to handle a breakup you weren’t expectingRelationships usually end, whether it’s been a few months, a few years, or a few decades. We’ve all been there. However, sometimes a breakup seems to come out of left field, and you just weren’t ready for it. Heather and Laura are talking about how to stop romanticizing (or villainizing) your ex, how to say the things you need to say, and how to move on. They’ll also help you decide whether to stay connected with your ex, why a rebound relationship might be your best bet, and why Dua Lipa has the best breakup advice we’ve he...2022-11-1450 min
Thirsty: the Podcast36. Carson the Conundrum: Putting yourself firstCarson was a former flame who felt like The One, until he disappeared. One year later, who should appear in Heather’s Bumble queue? None other than Carson the Conundrum. Today we’re talking about the difference between The Who and The How in dating, men who think you have amnesia, and how when we’re struggling, maybe it’s time to talk about it. We all know it can be hard to find someone who really fits, but a whirlwind romance is never a bad thing, even if it ends earlier than expected.2022-11-0736 min
Thirsty: the Podcast35. Spooky storytime: How to exorcise toxic relationships from your lifeOn this week's Halloween special, Laura and Heather are tackling one of dating's spookiest challenges: quitting the toxic relationship cycle. If you find yourself in unhealthy relationships over and over, wondering how you got here (again!), this episode is for you. Thirsty’s doling out tough talk about how to start thinking critically about your relationships, stop confusing addiction for connection, and break your unhealthy patterns. Also in this episode: how to know if your relationship is troubled vs. toxic, flipping the script from victimhood to empowerment, and when to walk away. The curse of toxicity is tough to beat, bu...2022-10-3150 min
Thirsty: the Podcast34. Can you put yourself out there on a dating app and still feel safe?Women who date men unfortunately always have to have a safety plan alongside their getting ready checklist when they’re going on a date. This is a frustrating reality of living on our planet. However, Laura recently realized that even if you have a safety plan, even if you are your most nice and polite self, it only takes one wildcard date to knock you off kilter. This week, Thirsty is hitting pause on the jokes to talk about a deadly serious topic: safety on dates. They’re talking about helpful safety tools, how allies can support women better, why some...2022-10-241h 10
Thirsty: the Podcast33. Are there really more lonely, single men these days?Psychology Today recently published an article titled “The rise of lonely, single men”, and a deluge of TikToks were published in response. Laura and Heather are talking about why men don’t match as often, why women’s relationship standards are going up, and whether a relationship is essential in this day and age. They’ll go through what the article got right, what felt like a miss, and how to get more positive outcomes from your dating life.2022-10-1734 min
Thirsty: the Podcast32. How to thrive in your career as a divorced or single parentTrying to manage a career is tough, and if you’re a divorced or single parent, juggling all the pieces can get especially challenging. In this episode, Laura and Heather offer practical advice to make the hard days run more smoothly. They’re talking about how to set priorities, when to say “no”, confidence, authenticity everywhere, and why divorced and single parents are actually primed to succeed at work and at home.2022-10-1054 min
Thirsty: the Podcast31. Paradigm-shifting Preston: opening yourself to real connectionsOn the surface, this is the story of how Laura found herself flying first class to Vegas for a second date. However, if we look a little deeper, we find that Preston was Laura’s reminder of why she’s dating in the first place. In this episode, we’re talking about how to develop real connections, why taking a chance is sometimes the right thing to do, and proof that Heather is the ultimate matchmaker.2022-10-0337 min
Thirsty: the Podcast30. Why “He’s just not that into you” is all wrongWe’ve all heard the phrase “he’s just not into you” or, “if he wanted to, he would.” Today, Heather and Laura are talking about why those phrases are not only out-of-date, but out-of-touch. Let’s talk about how to put your focus in the right place, empower yourself, and stop settling, because in the end, we’re into you (and you should be too.)2022-09-2628 min
Thirsty: the Podcast29. How to stop trying to control other people’s actionsWe’ve all heard this advice, but it’s so hard to follow: stop worrying about other people’s actions. Someone left you? Let them. Someone ghosted you? Let them. We daters waste so much time trying to get others to act a certain way, live up to our standards, jump through specific hoops, or color within the imaginary lines we draw for ourselves. Today we’re covering how to recover from a breakup, move on from a toxic situation, and choose the very best version of life for ourselves. It’s time we listen to the advice of the great Aria...2022-09-1939 min
Thirsty: the Podcast28. How to stop dumpster fire dating like a proIn this season 3 premiere episode, Laura and Heather are sharing updates and a brand new podcast format. They've got fewer dating shenanigans and more life lessons (but don't worry, the laughs are here to stay.) So much has happened since Thirsty went on hiatus, including a whirlwind cross-country connection, a German solo adventure, and a dating harassment situation that galvanized a whole group of Chicago women, and beyond.2022-09-1226 min
Thirsty: the Podcast27. The Download on Sex, Dating, and SoulmatesThirsty wraps up season 2 by diving into a conversation about sex, dating, and the idea of the ever-elusive soulmate. No matter whether you are partnered, dating, or single, we all look for meaningful relationships that make our lives better. Laura and Heather download how real connections are the secret to unlocking… everything we ever wanted.2022-05-161h 02
Thirsty: the Podcast26. Ghosted GaryIn dating, sometimes there just isn’t anything left to say. Ghosting is a common dating phenomenon, and even Laura can admit that she’s gone silent on a match from time to time. However, what if that match pops up six months later? A year later? When is it time to take the plunge, and when do you need to walk away? We’re talking about it all in this week’s episode.2022-05-0945 min
Thirsty: the Podcast25. Forgetful FitzWhile dating is usually a good time, sometimes it can feel like you’ve entered your very own Twilight Zone. Initially, Forgetful Fitz came across as thoughtful, kind, and empathetic. Heather had high hopes for this particular match, but — after a series of unfortunate events — she revoked her own license to date. Fitz reminded Heather that in online dating, things are not always as they seem, but sometimes having a little fun can lead to a lot of healing.2022-04-2546 min
Know Them, Be Them, Raise ThemPost-Divorce Wisdom: What Not to Say & What We'll Teach our Daughters // with Heather McGinley and Laura KooEvery failure presents opportunities for learning, and a failed marriage is no different.In Ep. 33, Part 2 of a conversation that began in Ep. 32, Heather McGinley and Laura Koo chat with host Carmelita Tiu about the ups and downs of life post-divorce, and what they’ve learned.To learn more about Heather, Laura, and Thirsty: the Podcast, check out:www.thirstythepodcast.comInstagram: @thirstythepodcastKnow Them, Be Them, Raise ThemSubscribe here: Apple, Spotify, Google. New episodes drop every Tuesday (and sometimes in bet...2022-04-1925 min
Thirsty: the Podcast24. Text Buddy BenLately, Laura’s been working on expanding her dating parameters beyond a 30-minute driving radius. However, she may have overshot her goal when she matched with a man who lives an entire plane ride away! While it soon became clear that a love story wasn’t in the cards, Text Buddy Ben was right on point as a true friend. In other news, we’re shaking down Bumble business tactics, pondering medicinal clip art, and wondering just how people caught catfish before Facetime.2022-04-1841 minKnow Them, Be Them, Raise ThemPost-Divorce Wisdom: Lessons All Moms Can Learn // with Heather McGinley and Laura KooEvery failure presents opportunities for learning, and a failed marriage is no different.In Ep. 32, Heather McGinley and Laura Koo chat with host Carmelita Tiu about the ups and downs of life post-divorce, and what they’ve learned.Some key takeaways:It’s helpful for kids to have a sense for the work that parents put into giving them the life that they have. Tough moments can create opportunities for them to step up and be helpful.Sometimes divorce allows someone to be a better parent. It may seem counterintuitive, but a toxic relationship can su...2022-04-1228 min
Thirsty: the Podcast23. Body TalkWhy does the relationship we have with our own bodies feel so complicated? After all, they stick with us our entire lives. How do we become our very own Hype Girls? Today, we’re talking about how we see ourselves, why getting strong smashes the scale, and when a little Botox goes a very long way (margaritas may have been involved.) Pull up a chair — it’s time to have a body talk.2022-04-1145 min
Thirsty: the Podcast22. Invisible IanIn every way, Ian was a dream date: so sweet, so kind, and so thoughtful. So, how could he be utterly invisible? This is the story of the match everyone forgets Heather dated (including Heather.) Despite a kind heart, an award-winning first kiss, and the cutest canine in the land—this love affair wasn’t meant to be. Though he may not have left a lingering impression, Ian did teach Heather one big lesson: life doesn’t have to leave you jaded.2022-04-0442 min
Thirsty: the Podcast21. Surface Level LiamOnce in awhile, we find ourselves won over by kind words, simple flattery, and more than a little banter. However, beneath all this well-meaning attention, is anything really… real? Laura found herself in just such a conundrum when she met Surface Level Liam. He was the match who arrived in a perfectly wrapped package, yet left Laura pondering who this man really was and, what he wanted from her. This week’s dating story dives deeper into one major human truth: attention is a hell of a drug.2022-03-2830 min
Thirsty: the Podcast20. Left Turn LarryThis is the story of Left Turn Larry, the match who changed direction with dizzying speed, and Heather couldn’t keep up. The texts were spicy, the boundaries blurry, and nobody knew what twists and turns might lie ahead. Heather’s gonna need a map to untangle this mixmaster of a tale. Today we’re talking about speaking up, setting limits, and trying to navigate dating when the path ahead isn’t clear.2022-03-2149 min
Thirsty: the Podcast19. What I Wish I Knew ThenThis episode closes out Thirsty’s 3-part conversation with Carmelita Tiu, host and producer of Know Them, Be Them, Raise Them, a podcast about how to raise and be strong women. We’re finishing up by covering the lessons we’ve learned the hard way, and how we can impart that knowledge to our children.2022-03-1437 min
Thirsty: the Podcast18. The Gift of DivorceIn part 2 of Thirsty’s conversation with Carmelita Tiu, podcast host and producer of Know Them, Be Them, Raise Them, we’re doing something radical: we’re calling divorce a “gift.” Yes, a gift. While divorce often represents a hard left turn, it also brings us the ability to explore and rediscover who we are, what we want, and how we can evolve. Whether we’re talking about disaster dating, pink hair dye, or the adventure of a lifetime, it’s all an opportunity to build a fantastic second chapter.2022-03-1440 min
Thirsty: the Podcast17. Mothers and DaughtersThis week, Thirsty welcomes Carmelita Tiu, podcast host and producer of Know Them, Be Them, Raise Them: helping moms be and raise strong women. We’ve got a three-pack of episodes designed to supercharge your day, and first up? Mothers and daughters. How do we help our girls fly in a world designed to clip their wings? How do we support their cheetah girl spirit, but also make sure we are raising kind humans? And most importantly, when is Carmelita going to dye her hair electric blue? All this in Part 1 of our inspiring conversation.2022-03-1424 min
Thirsty: the Podcast16. Making It… MentallyThese days, COVID-19 isn’t the only pandemic in town — people everywhere are suffering from critical mental health issues too. Heather shares her journey in confronting her own mental health challenges, and if there’s one thing she’s learned, it’s that the battle is well worth it.2022-03-0731 min
Thirsty: the Podcast15. Casting a Wider NetYou may think you know what you want from your dating life, but – as Laura recently discovered – turns out love doesn’t follow a checklist. This is a story about what’s possible when you abandon superficial requirements and follow your heart instead.*
*PSA: Following your heart may require you to drive more than 30 minutes.2022-02-281h 01
Thirsty: the Podcast14. Shawn the SmokeshowEveryone needs a dose of whirlwind romance once in awhile. And for Heather, Shawn the Smokeshow was just what the doctor ordered. With marathon dates, an open heart, and just a touch of wild - this match reminded Heather what it means to really want and be wanted by someone else. And, they had a whole lot of fun along the way. This week, we’re thirsty for open hearts, genuine connection, and what it means to put emotional skin in the game.2022-02-2153 min
Thirsty: the Podcast13. Self-Absorbed SamWhat do you get when you combine warm hugs, dogs of Instagram, and the worst vacation ever? Self-Absorbed Sam. Laura shares this story about a relationship that started off so strong, yet fell so far. So many times, we want things to be perfect, but at a certain point, we have to admit that a relationship needs more than fun dates and late nights out. In this Season 2 opener, Laura and Heather talk about empathy, connection, and knowing when to walk away.2022-02-1454 min
Thirsty: the Podcast12. Floundering FelixWhen you’re hot off a divorce, you have a lot to learn about dating and relationships, as Laura soon found out. Felix was so nice, so sweet, but was also holding on to a few things he wasn’t ready to share. In this season 1 finale, Laura and Heather reflect on confronting your sh*t, choosing to be brave, and who “your person” really is.2021-11-0133 min
Thirsty: the Podcast11. Ted the Tennis PlayerOne in awhile, the right person comes along at the right time. At rock bottom, Heather met someone that wasn’t at all what she expected, but turned out to be exactly what she needed. Despite a long distance, two very different lives, and inopportune timing - Ted became an example of what can happen when you throw out the checklists, and let the universe take control.2021-10-2527 min
Thirsty: the Podcast10. Paul the PeachOnce in awhile, you meet someone who reminds you who you are and what you really want out of your romantic relationships. And as Heather learned, some people are only in your life for a short time, yet they leave a lasting impact. Meet Paul the Peach, who only went out with Heather twice, yet changed Heather’s dating life for the better - in a very real way.2021-10-1818 min
Thirsty: the Podcast9. Working It (on the Apps)So you’ve downloaded a dating app. Now what? Laura and Heather share what they’ve learned, mistakes they’ve made, and best practices to not only match-but match well. And-you definitely won’t need a fish photo, partner in crime, or #grateful in your profile. IYKYK!2021-10-1144 min
Thirsty: the Podcast8. Rowdy RyanHave you ever met someone where there was a strong connection, but you just couldn’t get in sync? One day things seem great, but the next might be a rocky road. And, you never know where you stand. Rowdy Ryan was that person for Heather. In this relationship, hijinks, friendship, and chemistry were no match for what became known as “The Coconut Tree Incident.”2021-10-0435 min
Thirsty: the Podcast7. Nate the GreatHave you ever met someone who made time stand still? Maybe you even swooned
a bit? Meet Nate, the date who changed everything. You might think dating
apps are the last place to find a meaningful connection, but apparently it
can happen - Nate and Laura are the proof. See? it’s not all dumpster fire
dating. The Real Thing is still out there.2021-09-2731 min
Thirsty: the Podcast6. Lenny the LiarIn Thirsty’s first ever “crossover” episode, we meet Lenny, the liar with a really big secret. Heather and Laura both went out with him, but it turned out Lenny bore little resemblance to who he said he was - and it went beyond skin deep. 2021-09-2040 min
Thirsty: the Podcast5. You’ve Got a FriendDivorce is the earthquake that changes everything, including our friendships. Rediscovering yourself during a new chapter isn’t only about a new definition of romantic love - the platonic pals shift in new and different ways too. This week, Laura and Heather talk about what they learned, what they lost, and the big surprise that rocked Laura’s world.2021-09-1334 min
Thirsty: the Podcast4. Grant the Gamer with No GameRe-entering the dating pool after a long term relationship can be overwhelming. Got kids? Well, that’s a whole new ballgame, and some of us handle it a little better than others. How do epi pens, alley makeouts, and a Nintendo Switch add up to first date swagger? Grant (the gamer with no game) is here to show us the way.2021-09-0629 min
Thirsty: the Podcast3. Harry the Hiring ManagerWe’re all a little bit damaged, but sometimes you meet someone who wants to be in a relationship-any relationship-and it’s hard to know if they’re actually into you. It’s the job you didn’t know you were interviewing for (and weren’t sure you wanted.) One thing’s for certain: you won’t run across this particular job posting on LinkedIn.2021-08-3125 min
Thirsty: the Podcast2. David the DisasterWhat do you get when you mix epic red flags, hardcore baggage, and braids? Meet David the Disaster, the person who somehow managed to take Laura on the worst date of her life. We've all met a "David" or two in our dating journey. Who's yours?2021-08-2333 min
Thirsty: the Podcast1. The 6 Kinds of Men You Meet on TinderDating after divorce is a whole new chapter, and navigating love in the digital age just adds to the hilarity. In this premiere episode, Laura and Heather talk about the 6 types of men they meet on Tinder. Which one are you?2021-08-1724 min