adviceattachmentattractavoidbombingboundariescherishedconfidentlydatedatingdecenterdonemotionalemotionallyenergyfaithfemininefindingfinishfivefixinggetgirlhealinghighkeepingknewlastlessonslifelovemakemarriedmenmindsetneedowepartnerpeopleproblemrerealityreasonsrelationshiprelationshipsrightsecretshiftssignssinglestandardsstopthingstimetrulytruthunavailableusingvaluewastingwishwomanwomenwrongyes