actuallyanxietyanxiousapartaskattachmentattractionavoidavoidantbackbecomebehindbiggestboundariesbreakbreakingbringbrinkcallchangechaserchasingcheatchemistrychildhoodchoosecoachingcommitcommunicatorconnectionconversationscreatecycledarkdatingdaydeservedestroysdremotionallyendexexpertfallingfindflagsgogreengrovesgrowgrowthhardhealhealthyheartbreakheartbrokenhowesignoreinfidelityjolknowlesslessonsletlewislifelivelookmakemarkmarriagemastermothermovemustmythnarcissistneedsneverobsessingovercomepartnerpatternpatternspeoplepersonpowerquestionsraiserereasonsredrelationshiprelationshipsrightrunnersavesecureselfsexsignssinglesomeonesoulspecialstandstaystepsstillstopstorysurvivesurvivingtalktheorythingstoleratingtoxictransformtraumatruthunavailableunhealthyvalentinewillwithoutworthwrong