abbeyadoptionadoptiveanyoneaskingbackbigbookbreakingcelebratingcheckchildrenchoosingdaughterdayelsefamilyfindfriendgoinggoodgravesguesthappyhatsholidayinterviewlearnedlearninglessonletletslifelindseylittlelookingmarriagemomnavigatingoldestpeoplereallyrightrindeseasonselfsmallsometimesspecialspousestruggletelltripunfairwantwantingwayworkyearyearsyesyounger