acceptanceactuallyalliesallyallyshipantibehaviorsbiggestbuildchangechangeschildchurchclosetcomecomingcommoncommunityconflictconversioncreatecriticaldaddaughterdavisdifferentdoneveryonefamilyfightfirstgaygendergoodgriefguestguidehappinesshardhelphomophobiaidentityimportanceimportantintentionsinterviewjonesknowlearnedlgbtqlifelikelivelovelovedmakemeganmelmovingnegativesnobodyopenorientationovercomeparentspeoplepoliticalpositivepowerpridequeerquestionsrerealrejectionrelationshipsrespondrightryasavesseeselfshameshockingshowsightsimplespecialstandstartstopstorysupporttaketelltherapythingsthinktodaytranstransgendertransitiontraumawantwayswifewillworkplacewrong