adviceapproachboundariesbreakingcheatingclubclubsconsensualconsentcouplesdealingdefineddifferentembracingenmestablishingeverythingexperienceexperiencesexploringfailsfeargogoodhotelinsightsjackiejealousyjohnjourneykidsknowlifestylelovemenmodelsmonogamousmonogamymythsnavigatingneedopenpartnerperspectivesplayingrelationshiprelationshipssexsinglesomeoneswingerswingersswingingtalkthreesomestruthuncomfortablevisiting