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#StopDevaluation PodcastEP130 MY STORY Interview with Fadzi WhandeBack by popular demand: Fadzi Whande, Global Diversity and Inclusion Strategist, shares her story of abuse of power and her process to discover the value she holds. I, Melodye Hilton, first met Fadzi when she was a champion for many in her nation of Perth, Australia. Listen also to her TEDxPerth to hear more of her story: https://www.ted.com/talks/fadzi_whande_how_diversity_heaven_can_be_inclusion_hell Note: She now works for the United Nations in Switzerland.2022-09-0217 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP129 Your Innate Unchanging Nature with Melodye HiltonDo you realize that society needs the treasured contribution you carry? Dr. Melodye Hilton is a Master Trainer/Executive Coach in the Core Value Index. You will hear why this has make a huge impact in her life as well as see a brief overview of the four core values. With her passion to generate value in lives and culture, she has discovered and utilizes the CVI as one of the most value-generating tools as individuals discover how they can generate value in their family and organizations.
The Core Values Index™ (CVI) is the only human assessment using...2022-08-2612 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP127 What I learned from BetrayalMost every person on the planet has experienced rejection, manipulation, and betrayal. Dr. Melodye Hilton, leadership consultant and founder of the #StopDevaluation movement shares ten things she learned from betrayal. These lessons will be a great support to you as you navigate these emotional stormy waters. May you learn and gain encouragement from Melodye's journey.2022-08-1206 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP126 What is the Loudest Voice we Hear? with Dr. Melodye HiltonThe more self-aware we are, the better self-leadership decisions we make. This is a portion of an exhaustive training by Dr. Melodye Hilton in relationship to adaptation and innate; between personality and core values, and how our core self can be freed from the proverbial box.2022-08-0512 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP124 Journey to Leadership CompetencyAs leaders we have the honor to serve others empowering them to achieve their highest and best. Leadership is not position, platform, or title but using these things for the good of others. Leadership is a journey throughout our lifetime as we grow in competencies step-by-step in both skills and character. What does this journey look like?
"In psychology, the four stages of competence, or the "conscious competence" learning model, relates to the psychological states involved in the process of progressing from incompetence to competence in a skill." When we understand the process we will have the courag...2022-07-2213 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP123 Stepping into our Highest and BestAs a certified master trainer of the Core Values Index™ (CVI™) I, Dr. Melodye Hilton, have helped emerging and established leaders through coaching as well as corporate leadership training and consulting. As a leader in your organization you can provide the power of opportunity for your team to discover their highest and best contribution. Want more info? www.DrMelodye.com/cvi2022-07-1503 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP119 Confronting Generational CompetitionHarold Williams asks Dr. Melodye pointed questions about intimidation concerning a younger generation and the fear of them taking leadership roles from the Baby Boomer generation. You must realize that what you carry will never be wasted, you are irreplaceable, and you must never stop contributing.2022-06-1705 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP116 Relabeling Our Story with Jerome JosephMelodye Hilton shares her story of child sexual abuse as she interviews Cognitive Therapist, Jerome Joseph. We often minimize, as Melodye did, or exaggerate our past experiences. The core of anxiety is an overestimation of danger and an underestimation of our ability at the same time; therefore, I cannot cope. Our labels shape our perspective as our behaviors follow. We interpret today's events based upon those labels. We can attach positive labels to people and situations that can shift how we think, believe, and function. Looking at civil rights movements there was a shifting of labels, people realized it was...2022-05-2712 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP113 Response-to-My-AbilityLife would feel like a prison if we could not respond to our ability and develop our potential. Dr. Melodye Hilton shares the power of assuming higher responsibility. The principles shared can shift the way you view yourself, your leadership, and provide the pathway to greater levels of increase-personally and professionally.2022-05-0615 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP110 Emotions: Friend or Foe?What are the factors that determine if our emotions are a friend or a foe? Can feel good emotions ever take us off-course? How do we protect ourselves from being emotionally hijacked? Is it possible to change the way we feel? Dr. Melodye simply and strategically answers these and other questions helping us to chart an emotionally healthy life journey. 2022-04-1512 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP105 To the Person Who Feels Beyond Repair with David BrooksWhen we experience abuse of power we can develop the illusion that we are damaged beyond repair. Melodye Hilton interviews counselor, David Brooks, as he confronts this illusion with truth. We at the #StopDevaluation movement hold your value as a treasure to be protected.2022-03-1105 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP104 Make it Great Without Hate with David BrooksDavid Brooks, founder of the Make it Great Without Hate movement talks to Melodye Hilton, founder of the #StopDevaluation movement and shares the importance of every individual to confront hatred. 2022-03-0403 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP101 The Attributes of Powerful PeopleYou were designed to be powerful! What does that look like? How do our personal choices, internal dialogue, and interpersonal relationships demonstrate how powerful we are? Dr. Melodye Hilton shares aspects of her personal life's journey from powerless to powerful - an ongoing work in progress. 2022-02-1133 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP99 Personal Purpose - Part TwoDr. Melodye shares on the power of identity, the importance and development of your personal purpose. This will empower you to see the value you hold and your ability to make a greater impact in your world. Learn the dynamics of discovering your personal purpose and how you can put language and expression to the distinct uniqueness within you!2022-01-2825 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP98 Personal Purpose - Part OneDr. Melodye shares Part One of a two-part series on personal purpose which is foundational to your vision and your mission. It takes you from a life of success to a life of significance and helps you position yourself to release your greatest self. Learn the dynamics of discovering your personal purpose and how you can put language and expression to the distinct uniqueness within you!2022-01-2116 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP97 - Raising the Leadership BarDr. Melodye Hilton brings a inspiring and passionate message for both emerging and established leaders. You'll learn the three key motivations that launched a global movement, the three things necessary for every person to raise their leadership bar, and the discovery of how justice-power used for good-can shift societal norms. This casual message will stir your heart to impact lives and culture! 2022-01-1417 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP96 - The Wisdom of a 98-Year-OldThe first episode of 2022 Melodye Hilton, founder of the #StopDevaluation movement, shares her pondering and reflections of the past and the present through a poem her 98-year-old mother memorized. 2022-01-0713 min#StopDevaluation PodcastEP94 Melodye's Monologue: Model the WayBecoming an instrument of justice automatically confronts the abuse of power. We can use our leadership influence to model the way and confront the darkness by shining a light.
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#StopDevaluation PodcastEP93 Melodye's Monologue: Negativity SellsNeurologically and physiologically we are predisposed to be attracted to the negative, but how does that influence our decision-making reactions? How is this linked to fear and its ability to control us as we function opposite of who we are? What is the truth concerning the condition of humanity and the future of our nation?2021-12-1705 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP91 The Beauty of Today - Melodye's MonologueToday is our window of opportunity to determine if we will love life or complain over its difficulties. Our mindsets are where the battles are won or lost. In this monologue you will learn three simple keys that will empower you to see the beauty of today for a better tomorrow.2021-12-0305 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP90 What can we do? & Conclusion - Unmasking Prejudice Audio BookThis is number fifteen and last episode in a series that has taken you through the entire Unmasking Prejudice: Silencing the Internal Voice of Bigotry Audio Book by Dr. Melodye Hilton
Prejudice is a word that is often associated solely with race. However, the truth is that we pre-judge all the time based upon countless factors, including gender, age, race, beliefs, politics, or any other infinite number of minute differences; it is a common habit for all of humanity to form an opinion without facts, firsthand experience, and without empathy and value for our fellow man. What...2021-11-2635 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP89 Chapter Thirteen - The Balance: Healthy Boundaries - Unmasking Prejudice Audio BookThis is the fourteenth episode in a series that will take you through the entire Unmasking Prejudice: Silencing the Internal Voice of Bigotry Audio Book by Dr. Melodye Hilton
Prejudice is a word that is often associated solely with race. However, the truth is that we pre-judge all the time based upon countless factors, including gender, age, race, beliefs, politics, or any other infinite number of minute differences; it is a common habit for all of humanity to form an opinion without facts, firsthand experience, and without empathy and value for our fellow man. What if these...2021-11-1912 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP88 Chapter Twelve - Your Voice, Your Responsibility - Unmasking Prejudice Audio BookThis is the thirteenth episode in a series that will take you through the entire Unmasking Prejudice: Silencing the Internal Voice of Bigotry Audio Book by Dr. Melodye Hilton
Prejudice is a word that is often associated solely with race. However, the truth is that we pre-judge all the time based upon countless factors, including gender, age, race, beliefs, politics, or any other infinite number of minute differences; it is a common habit for all of humanity to form an opinion without facts, firsthand experience, and without empathy and value for our fellow man. What if these...2021-11-1224 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP87 - Chapter Eleven - Confronting Past and Present Prejudice as an Instrument of Justice - Unmasking Prejudice Audio BookThis is the twelfth episode in a series that will take you through the entire Unmasking Prejudice: Silencing the Internal Voice of Bigotry Audio Book by Dr. Melodye Hilton
Prejudice is a word that is often associated solely with race. However, the truth is that we pre-judge all the time based upon countless factors, including gender, age, race, beliefs, politics, or any other infinite number of minute differences; it is a common habit for all of humanity to form an opinion without facts, firsthand experience, and without empathy and value for our fellow man. What if these...2021-11-0534 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP86 Chapter Ten - The Counterproductive Prejudice of the Political Divide - Unmasking Prejudice Audio BookThis is the eleventh episode in a series that will take you through the entire Unmasking Prejudice: Silencing the Internal Voice of Bigotry Audio Book by Dr. Melodye Hilton
Prejudice is a word that is often associated solely with race. However, the truth is that we pre-judge all the time based upon countless factors, including gender, age, race, beliefs, politics, or any other infinite number of minute differences; it is a common habit for all of humanity to form an opinion without facts, firsthand experience, and without empathy and value for our fellow man. What if these...2021-10-2911 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP85 Chapter Nine - The Clarion Call - Unmasking Prejudice Audio BookThis is the tenth episode in a series that will take you through the entire Unmasking Prejudice: Silencing the Internal Voice of Bigotry Audio Book by Dr. Melodye Hilton
Prejudice is a word that is often associated solely with race. However, the truth is that we pre-judge all the time based upon countless factors, including gender, age, race, beliefs, politics, or any other infinite number of minute differences; it is a common habit for all of humanity to form an opinion without facts, firsthand experience, and without empathy and value for our fellow man. What if these...2021-10-2214 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP84 Chapter Eight - Rumors, Gossip and Slander - Unmasking Prejudice Audio BookThis is the ninth episode in a series that will take you through the entire Unmasking Prejudice: Silencing the Internal Voice of Bigotry Audio Book by Dr. Melodye Hilton
Prejudice is a word that is often associated solely with race. However, the truth is that we pre-judge all the time based upon countless factors, including gender, age, race, beliefs, politics, or any other infinite number of minute differences; it is a common habit for all of humanity to form an opinion without facts, firsthand experience, and without empathy and value for our fellow man. What if these...2021-10-1531 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP83 Chapter Seven - The Personal and Painful Stories of Prejudice - Unmasking Prejudice Audio BookThe eighth episode in a series that will take you through the entire Unmasking Prejudice: Silencing the Internal Voice of Bigotry Audio Book by Dr. Melodye Hilton
Prejudice is a word that is often associated solely with race. However, the truth is that we pre-judge all the time based upon countless factors, including gender, age, race, beliefs, politics, or any other infinite number of minute differences; it is a common habit for all of humanity to form an opinion without facts, firsthand experience, and without empathy and value for our fellow man. What if these habits changed...2021-10-0852 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP82 Chapter Six - Ignorance, Shame, Fear, Mistrust - Unmasking Prejudice Audio BookThe seventh episode in a series that will take you through the entire Unmasking Prejudice: Silencing the Internal Voice of Bigotry Audio Book by Dr. Melodye Hilton
Prejudice is a word that is often associated solely with race. However, the truth is that we pre-judge all the time based upon countless factors, including gender, age, race, beliefs, politics, or any other infinite number of minute differences; it is a common habit for all of humanity to form an opinion without facts, firsthand experience, and without empathy and value for our fellow man. What if these habits changed...2021-10-0114 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP81 Chapter Five - Prejudice Propagates Injustice - Unmasking Prejudice Audio BookThe sixth episode in a series that will take you through the entire Unmasking Prejudice: Silencing the Internal Voice of Bigotry Audio Book by Dr. Melodye Hilton
Prejudice is a word that is often associated solely with race. However, the truth is that we pre-judge all the time based upon countless factors, including gender, age, race, beliefs, politics, or any other infinite number of minute differences; it is a common habit for all of humanity to form an opinion without facts, firsthand experience, and without empathy and value for our fellow man. What if these habits changed...2021-09-2414 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP80 Chapter Four - Where There is Pride, There is Prejudice - Unmasking Prejudice Audio BookThe fifth episode in a series that will take you through the entire Unmasking Prejudice: Silencing the Internal Voice of Bigotry Audio Book by Dr. Melodye Hilton
Prejudice is a word that is often associated solely with race. However, the truth is that we pre-judge all the time based upon countless factors, including gender, age, race, beliefs, politics, or any other infinite number of minute differences; it is a common habit for all of humanity to form an opinion without facts, firsthand experience, and without empathy and value for our fellow man. What if these habits changed...2021-09-1732 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP79 - Chapter Three - The Interval Voice of Bigotry - Unmasking Prejudice Audio BookFourth in a series that will take you through the entire Unmasking Prejudice: Silencing the Internal Voice of Bigotry Audio Book by Dr. Melodye Hilton
Prejudice is a word that is often associated solely with race. However, the truth is that we pre-judge all the time based upon countless factors, including gender, age, race, beliefs, politics, or any other infinite number of minute differences; it is a common habit for all of humanity to form an opinion without facts, firsthand experience, and without empathy and value for our fellow man. What if these habits changed? What if...2021-09-1018 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP78 Chapter Two - Pre-Judgement and Assumptions - Unmasking Prejudice Audio BookThird in a series that will take you through the entire Unmasking Prejudice: Silencing the Internal Voice of Bigotry Audio Book by Dr. Melodye Hilton
Prejudice is a word that is often associated solely with race. However, the truth is that we pre-judge all the time based upon countless factors, including gender, age, race, beliefs, politics, or any other infinite number of minute differences; it is a common habit for all of humanity to form an opinion without facts, firsthand experience, and without empathy and value for our fellow man. What if these habits changed? What if...2021-09-0318 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP77 Chapter One - The Unmasking - Unmasking Prejudice Audio BookPart Two: Chapter One in a series that will take you through the entire Unmasking Prejudice: Silencing the Internal Voice of Bigotry Audio Book by Dr. Melodye Hilton
Prejudice is a word that is often associated solely with race. However, the truth is that we pre-judge all the time based upon countless factors, including gender, age, race, beliefs, politics, or any other infinite number of minute differences; it is a common habit for all of humanity to form an opinion without facts, firsthand experience, and without empathy and value for our fellow man. What if these habits...2021-08-2718 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP76 Unmasking Prejudice Audio Book Forward and IntroThe first podcast in a series that will take you through the entire Unmasking Prejudice: Silencing the Internal Voice of Bigotry Audio Book by Dr. Melodye Hilton
Prejudice is a word that is often associated solely with race. However, the truth is that we pre-judge all the time based upon countless factors, including gender, age, race, beliefs, politics, or any other infinite number of minute differences; it is a common habit for all of humanity to form an opinion without facts, firsthand experience, and without empathy and value for our fellow man. What if these habits changed...2021-08-2010 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP72 Leaders Ability to Confront PrejudiceWhat are some of the sources that propagate prejudice? In this portion of Chapter Two of Dr. Melodye Hilton's Unmasking Prejudice book discover how society creates hotbeds of prejudice. Learn also how we can arise as courageous leaders and voices of validation to confront this harmful societal epidemic. 2021-07-2316 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP71 Betrayal: What I LearnedMost every person on the planet has experienced rejection, manipulation, and betrayal. Dr. Melodye Hilton, leadership consultant and founder of the #StopDevaluation movement shares ten things she learned from betrayal. These lessons will be a great support to you as you navigate these emotional stormy waters. 2021-07-1606 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP 60 Three Keys to Overcome DisappointmentWe all face disappointment but not everyone has learned how to navigate through through it. Learn about the these three important keys. First, we must recognize that anything valuable is rarely obtained without disappointments. Secondly, recognize the external cannot trump the internal. Lastly, set internal peace as your daily goal. This short monologue by Dr. Melodye Hilton will be an encouragement when facing disappointment. 2021-07-0906 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP68 Courage to Remove Our Masks - Dr. Melodye HiltonWe can wear a mask throughout our entire lifetime trying to please others and cover our inadequacies. We want to appear a specific way so we feel good about ourselves and others will see our value. It takes great courage to remove the masks that we wear, but the rewards are much greater than we could ever imagine. 2021-06-2504 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP67 Pride and Prejudice: Generational Pride and Prejudice and ConclusionPart Three of Pride and Prejudice chapter of Unmasking Prejudice: Silencing the Internal Voice of Bigotry: Generational Pride and Prejudice and conclusion.
Prejudice is a word that is often associated solely with race. However, the truth is that we pre-judge all the time based upon countless factors, including gender, age, race, beliefs, politics, or any other infinite number of minute differences; it is a common habit for all of humanity to form an opinion without facts, firsthand experience, and without empathy and value for our fellow man. What if these habits changed? What if our default response wa...2021-06-1811 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP66 Pride and Prejudice: Political, Ethnic, and GenderPart Two of Pride and Prejudice chapter of Unmasking Prejudice: Silencing the Internal Voice of Bigotry: Political, Ethnic, and Gender Pride and Prejudice
Prejudice is a word that is often associated solely with race. However, the truth is that we pre-judge all the time based upon countless factors, including gender, age, race, beliefs, politics, or any other infinite number of minute differences; it is a common habit for all of humanity to form an opinion without facts, firsthand experience, and without empathy and value for our fellow man. What if these habits changed? What if our default re...2021-06-1114 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP65 Pride and Prejudice: Intro, Religious, and RacialPart One of Pride and Prejudice chapter of Unmasking Prejudice: Silencing the Internal Voice of Bigotry: Introduction along with both Religious and Racial Prejudice.
Prejudice is a word that is often associated solely with race. However, the truth is that we pre-judge all the time based upon countless factors, including gender, age, race, beliefs, politics, or any other infinite number of minute differences; it is a common habit for all of humanity to form an opinion without facts, firsthand experience, and without empathy and value for our fellow man. What if these habits changed? What if our def...2021-06-0410 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP59 Cultural RevolutionThe decade of the sixties and seventies—Melodye Hilton's generation—witnessed a Cultural Revolution that was, in many ways, won at society’s detriment. They were activists with a cause to liberate our and future generations from anything binding us to traditional morals, values, and responsibilities. Our mantra was “if it feels good, do it!” The emerging leaders of today's society are desperate for a cause worthy of their sacrifice. This time, the goal of change will not be revolution for revolution’s sake, but instead will be to improve, advance, and produce positive change. This new Cultural Revolution will confron...2021-04-2306 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP58 Melodye's Monologue: Everyday HeroesI love the simplicity of an information exchange site’s definition of hero [1], “A hero is someone who puts others before himself or herself. A hero has good moral ethics, and is someone who does things for the sake of being good, and not just a means to an end, or a reward for good deeds, but it is someone who does good for the sake of doing good” The Meriam-Webster online dictionary says, “a person admired for achievements and noble qualities, one who shows great courage.”
"Some people want to believe they can be an instant hero in eve...2021-04-1605 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP57 Melodye's Monologue: How do we lead successfully in the middle of cultural chaos?There is great power and responsibility associated with any form of leadership influence. We can no longer passively stick our head in the proverbial sand. NO, Instead, we must become a catalyst for positive change through our personal leadership reformation.
Recommended reading: Higher Living Leadership: Influence Societal Design as an Instrument of Justice by Dr. Melodye Hilton2021-04-0907 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP50 - Full Unmasking Prejudice Audio Book Chapter: Painful Stories of PrejudiceThis entire chapter of real-life stories of prejudice from Dr. Melodye Hilton's audio book, Unmasking Prejudice: Silencing the Internal Voice of Bigotry. First laying a foundation for these powerful and poignant stories. Dr. Melodye bring an introduction sharing that all prejudice is destructive and toxic to our mind-brain. Negative thoughts are more forceful to establish unhealthy memory because they are accompanied by intense emotion, which establishes an automatic fear-based pattern of thought. Maya Angelo said, "If we lose love and self-respect for each other, this is how we finally die." She later said, "History, despite its wrenching pain, cannot be...2021-02-1952 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP46 Confronting Generational Competition with Dr. Melodye Hilton and Harold WilliamsHarold Williams asks Dr. Melodye pointed questions about intimidation concerning a younger generation and the fear of them taking leadership roles from the Baby Boomer generation. You must realize that what you carry will never be wasted, you are irreplaceable, and you must never stop contributing.2021-01-2207 min#StopDevaluation PodcastEP44 Leadership Principles of Justice and Validation with Dr. Melodye Hilton and Justin MurrellA black male millennial, Justin Murrell, interviews Dr. Melodye, a white female baby boomer, about her core leadership principles. It's not hard to enjoy generational, racial, and gender partnership when we focus on an exchange of life.2021-01-0809 min
Sistas & SauvignonExtended Stay BaeSeason 2 and WE ARE BACK, FAMILY!!!We're sitting down with model, stylist, and host of Tuesday Talks with Sis Eastern https://www.instagram.com/frank_e_white/ to discuss CUFFING SEASON (05:45)....It definitely gets real!Sauvignon, anyone...Sistas & Sauvignon: https://msha.ke/sistasandsauvignon/Syneca: https://www.instagram.com/extremelysyn/Melodye: https://www.instagram.com/melodye_/Tiara: https://www.instagram.com/lifeas_tiara/2020-11-031h 07
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP028-A Melodye's Monologue: I Cast My Vote For...Every platform of influence must be used for the good of humankind and our nation. I am compelled to share with you who I am voting for. I cannot remain silent!2020-09-2104 minSistas & SauvignonYa'll Boycotting Magic? R. Kelly Attacked?! Tory, We Already Knew You Did It! It's our Season One Finale!We made it through Season 1, family! Before we go, we want to send love and light to the families of Jacob Blake and Chadwick Boseman (01:16). Shout out to the @8mt92_podcast (03:20). We gotta go in on Tory Lanez one more time (04:23). Celina Powell and friends vs Trey Songz (07:31). Brandy Verzuz Monica (15:15). Garcelle Beauvais and The Real (18:52). Congrats Marques Houston (22:24). Benzino's Only Fans (24:18). Masika and her OnlyFans kidnapping (27:38). Terry Crews told ya'll to boycott Magic City (16:42) and did R. Kelly pay someone to get beat down (11:22)?? Sauvignon, anyone...Sistas & Sauvignon: https://msha.ke...2020-09-0737 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP026 My Story Interview with Ernest CrimIn today’s episode Ernest Crim shares his life experiences growing up on the south side of Chicago and how a hate crime became a defining moment motivating him to lift his voice and bring solutions to a generation. Ernest is a speaker, radio commentator, writer, activist and an award winning high school social science instructor. Ernest hopes to use his life experiences to inspire others to fight injustice, educate and empower themselves, and resolve conflicts appropriately.2020-09-0438 minSistas & SauvignonA Little More Meg vs Tory, Ride or Dies, and Really Trey??? (w/ 8 More Than 92)Hopefully the last time we'll be discussing Meg vs Tory (07:05). Leave Breezy alone (19:22)! Why do black women protect their men so ferociously (24:15)? Are the fellas ride or die (32:11)? How far would you go for a distant relative (36:35)? Trey is out here acting a fool (45:15). Interracial Dating (54:11), and are you #teammelanie or #teamderwin (67:03)? It went down with the fellas of the 8 More Than 92 Podcast https://www.instagram.com/8mt92_podcast/ this week.Sauvignon, anyone...Sistas & Sauvignon: https://msha.ke/sistasandsauvignon/Syneca: https://www.instagram.com/extremelysyn/2020-09-031h 18Sistas & SauvignonDrunken Interracial Relationships ChatWell, we attempted to have an in depth conversation discussing our own personal experiences when it came to interracial relationships. But, with a host coming off of a "no alcohol" cleanse and vodka, you can imaging how this goes. And, meet our first Mr. Sauvignon.Sauvignon, anyone.....Sistas and Sauvignon: https://msha.ke/sistasandsauvignon/Syneca: https://www.instagram.com/extremelysyn/Tiara: https://www.instagram.com/lifeas_tiara/Melodye: https://www.instagram.com/melodye_/2020-09-0330 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP025 My Story Interview with Clyde LewisClyde Lewis' life was riddled with domestic violence, poverty, and fear. When labeled with a learning disability, the false belief of 'not being good enough' was sadly reinforced confirming to him that he would never succeed. Hear how a group of lawyers and Jesuits helped to reshape his life in order to become a value-generator and identity builder. 2020-08-2818 minSistas & SauvignonWAPspiracies, Kamala & Friends, plus a Quarantine WaxA litte WAP is one the menu, Kamala is riding with Biden, and what did you neglect during the quarantine??Sauvignon, anyone...Sistas & Sauvignon : https://msha.ke/sistasandsauvignonSyneca: https://www.instagram.com/extremelysyn/Tiara: https://www.instagram.com/princesstiarap/Melodye: https://www.instagram.com/melodye_/2020-08-2444 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP024 My Story Interview with Caroline JohnstonCaroline Johnston will share life experiences that distorted her perspective and the fears she faced growing up in war-torn Northern Ireland.2020-08-2114 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP023 My Story interview with Niquio Benjo ValcoberoOn Today’s episode Niquio Benjo Valcobero shares his childhood hurts, disappointments, and fears but also the power of the one who saw his worth and his potential. This mentor placed a demand on the amazing gift he held and now Niquio is impacting and mentoring people globally.2020-08-1424 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP022-B Freedom vs TyrannyMelodye's Monologue speaks to the responsibility of every citizen to be a voice of justice. When individual freedoms are limited and voices are silenced, it results in the opposite of freedom. When every citizen is bound to an equal (or the appearance of an equal) outcome controlled by an elite power structure, the people become stripped of their own power and individual value.2020-08-1205 minSistas & SauvignonSoul Ties, Ex's and FriendsThe sistas are weighing in on Breonna Taylor on O, The Stallion and Tory, Beyonce's Black is King, Black Netflix, Loon being released and More...Sauvignon, anyone...Sistas & Sauvignon: https://msha.ke/sistasandsauvignonSyneca: https://www.instagram.com/extremelysyn/Tiara: https://www.instagram.com/princesstiarap/Melodye: https://www.instagram.com/melodye_/2020-08-101h 03
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP022-A Freedom of SpeechMelodye remembers the day of when different views were championed and relationships were never divided because of extreme contrasts. We can bring civility back to independent thought. She brings powerful self-assessment questions to cross the divides through validation.2020-08-1006 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP022: The Culture of Validation with Dr. Jason OttleyToday's episode entitled "From Inequity to Equity" is from the founder of The Bond Educational Group, Dr. Jason Ottley. This amazing pioneer works alongside teachers and administrators who serve all communities, but particularly communities of color. His passion, heart, and strategic solutions will both inspire and empower you. To be a part of the solution we must first become aware, open our hearts to understand, and then be willing to respond appropriately.
2020-08-0729 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP021-B Why Riots and ViolenceIn the middle of the 'why' we must see 'what' and 'who' riots and violence harms. Violence generates fear and its results are counterproductive. Hear Melodye's monologue to hear the importance of justice-power used for good and not for harm.2020-08-0505 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP021-A What Defines You?It's not what happens to us but IN us that directs the trajectory of our lives. Melodye briefly shares how she believed lies about herself and how here identity was redefined.2020-08-0303 minSistas & SauvignonENTANGLEMENT?! Really, Sis?? PT. 2The LAST time we'll mention the "entanglements", we promise! But we had to wrap up the last Sista chat, it was just too GOOD!Sauvignon, anyone...Sistas & Sauvignon: https://msha.ke/sistasandsauvignonSyneca: https://www.instagram.com/extremelysyn/Tiara: https://www.instagram.com/princesstiarap/Melodye: https://www.instagram.com/melodye_/2020-08-0130 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP021: My Story Interview with Jack HokeWho are our role models? Who do we want to emulate? When we search for human connecting and find that acceptance through someone who attitudes and behaviors are destructive, it becomes easy to justify their behaviors by following their example. In this episode we hear the MY STORY of Jack Hoke who gained his sense of worth in all the wrong places. From addictions, criminality, and dealing drugs Jack found a void inside that nothing could fill. His journey led him to AA and a new role model. Today Jack’s goal in life is to be a “hope deal...2020-07-3115 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP020-D Is Power Evil?Power has become a dirty word labeled by many as evil. Melodye speaks into platforms of power and brings a balanced perspective.2020-07-3004 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP020-C The War of Divided HeartsA new series launched on the #StopDevaluation podcast channel entitled: Melodye's Monlogue.
If we disallow diversity of thought and speech we can destroy our nation from within. However, the more self-aware we are the better decisions we make and the healthier our conversations. Melodye provides thought-provoking self-assessment questions to develop the art championing diverse thought.2020-07-2807 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP020-B Emotional Health in Chaotic Times with Rhonda Lynn, TherapistWhat a powerful interview with therapist, Rhonda Lynn. She shares her story and how she found her calling to help both children and adults find healing from trauma. You’ll learn about trans-generational trauma and PTSD and powerful steps of healing that you can apply to your life today, including physiological education, how to handle triggers of trauma, emotional regulations, and cognitive coping. In the middle of the complex challenges our world, there is great hope for healing.2020-07-2739 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP020: My Story Interview with Denise DeCouIn this episode Denise DeCou shares her story of growing up multiracial and multicultural. This presented her with unique challenges, which she calls a “bag of burdens.” She also learned many life lessons positioning her to be a voice championing diversity, equality, and inclusion.2020-07-2422 minSistas & SauvignonENTANGLEMENT?! Really, Sis??We HAD to get in on the tea, honey. This week we're untangling the Jada x August x Will entanglement in our own words. Sauvignon, anyone...Sistas & Sauvignon: https://msha.ke/sistasandsauvignonSyneca: https://www.instagram.com/extremelysyn/Tiara: https://www.instagram.com/princesstiarap/Melodye: https://www.instagram.com/melodye_/2020-07-2225 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP019-B Culture of Validation Interview with Fadzi WhandeThe product of authentic inclusion is belonging! Fadzi Whande, a Global Diversity and Inclusion Specialist shares why race matters and how to bring solutions to the table promoting inclusion, healing, and positive change. If you have a heart to be a difference-maker you will learn how to show up generating value in others. 2020-07-2036 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEPO19: The Culture of Validation with Denise DeCouOn today’s podcast the courageous Denise DeCou has made it her life’s work and her personal practice to generate value and provide resources to bring awareness, understanding, and the practical how tos to kindly address the prejudices and assumptions that arise in everyday encounters. You will hear simple and practical steps to be a part of the solution. This episode is one you do not want to miss.2020-07-1730 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP018-B My Story Interview with Will FordWhat story line are you going to be a part of? Will Ford’s powerful and poignant life story will astound you. Will has traveled the nation for twenty years with a kettle pot owned by his ancestors. This treasure was passed down to him along with the horror stories of slavery and his family’s suffering at the hands of their slave owners. Yet, this amazing man focuses on racial reconciliation and challenges all of humanity to bring healing to the divides for the sake of future generations. Get out the tissues, this is a story you must hear!2020-07-1329 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP018: My Story interview with Josiah CentenoWithout connection we can spend our lives trying to fill the void inside of us, often in harmful ways. On today’s episode Josiah Centeno shares his story, the lies that encompassed his thoughts, the fear that drove him, and the simple exchanges of life that brought healing.2020-07-1022 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP017-B The Culture of Validation Interview with Louis DickensGaining knowledge and the wisdom to apply that knowledge empowers us to compassionately be a voice of validation to those hurting from racial prejudice. If you desire to understand a race or a culture, then it is important to know the historical facts which support a collaborative voice of healing to our world. Louis Dickens reveals the painful black history and solutions for healing. If you are a white person and genuinely care, you must hear this interview. Louis and Dr. Melodye have partnered together and modeled diversity and inclusion on a deep heart level for twenty years.
2020-07-0636 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP017: My Story Interview with Ahelya VargasEmotional manipulation along with verbal and physical abuse has the power to scar the soul and render one powerless. The crippling fear to reach out for help silences the voice as confidence is lost in the sea of shame. Ahelya Vargas' moving story will touch your heart and reveal the power that unconditional love and safety carries to rescue the broken.2020-07-0322 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP016-B My Story Interview with Kevin IkedaKevin Ikeda, a successful and influential businessman, shares his story of failure and devaluation. His transparency and authenticity will touch your heart and his wisdom will bring hope to the vision you hold.2020-06-2912 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEPO16: My Story Interview with Eloise GrobbelaarIn today’s episode we will talk with Eloise Grobbelaar who speaks from her own struggles with self-worth when she says, “When you do not find validation in the right places, you will look for it, in all the wrong places.” Growing up in South Africa in the midst of the apartheid, and later moving to the UK with her husband, she found herself working with special needs children and, in the process, learned powerful principles that apply to every child, teenager, and adult.2020-06-2622 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP015-B My Story Interview with Elizabeth ForbesElizabeth Forbes shares her story of loss, sexual assault, and the lies of self-devaluation. Her life was reshaped as individuals saw and communicated value to her leading her into her present vocation as a guidance counselor in Maryland's public school system. She now offers support and hope for those who have experienced trauma and are suffering with the lies she once believed. 2020-06-2212 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEPO15: My Story Interview with Sheila KatusiimeShiela Katusiime, born and raised in Uganda, shares her open and authentic story of devaluation. It wasn't until she was 32 years old that she was challenged to see her value. She now has found her voice and contribution to the world as she invests in a young generation.2020-06-1922 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP014-B My Story Interview with Brent PedroBrent Pedro (Trinidad and Tobago) shares his story of devaluation through bullying and all the lies that led to suicide attempts, but then the power of validation to shift his perspectives and become a value-generator in the lives of others.2020-06-1519 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP014: The Authors Show InterviewDr. Melodye Hilton, author of Unmasking Prejudice: Silencing the Internal Voice of Bigotry, was interviewed by Linda Thompson of The Author's show. This book was the inspiration to launch the #StopDevaluation movement. 2020-06-1213 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP013-B Relabeling Our Story with Cognitive Therapist Jerome JosephMelodye Hilton shares her story of child sexual abuse as she interviews Cognitive Therapist, Jerome Joseph. We often minimize, as Melodye did, or exaggerate our past experiences. The core of anxiety is an overestimation of danger and an underestimation of our ability at the same time; therefore, I cannot cope. Our labels shape our perspective as our behaviors follow. We interpret today's events based upon those labels. We can attach positive labels to people and situations that can shift how we think, believe, and function. Positive and healthy labeling has to be intentional as we consciously rehearse the new becau...2020-06-0813 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEPO13: My Story with Justin MurrellOur past experiences want to define us screaming lies, "I will never be good enough." Justin shares, "I was in an at-risk structure but connected to some people who invested into me. They helped me change my life and now my journey is to do the same and recreate what has happened in my life through different parts of my city." Justin's story reveals the ability to destroy the box society tried to put him in making a difference to those living in his former reality. 2020-06-0519 min#StopDevaluation PodcastEP012-B Race Consciousness Interview with Dr. Todd MealyEvery leader, influencer, and societal architect that has a heart to see our nations heal should listen and apply this knowledge in their sphere of influence. Dr. Todd Mealy is a history author holding his Ph.D from Penn State University. He is the Director of Equity and Instruction at The Bond Educational Group. Dr. Mealy is taking steps to launch the Equity Institute for Race Conscious Pedagogy, LLC to advance scholarship in race-centered learning while advocating for social justice. He has been an educator since 2001 and is an adjunct professor in the History Department of Dickinson College. You w...2020-06-0326 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEPO12: My Story with Larry PutneyLarry's MY STORY reveals the painful experiences of his parent's divorce, bullying, and depression. Life events formed mindsets of devaluing self-worth and lack of self-confidence in this young man's mind. His story leads to confidence and maturity as a husband, business leader, and community influencer.2020-05-2915 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP11: Validation & the Political Divides, Part Four interview with Peter DemarestScience tells us that if we continue down the path of divisiveness and devaluation of one group or another ultimately it leads to the complete and utter destruction of all of us. The scientific fact reveals when we allow every form of prejudice, hatred and devaluation unchecked, it becomes self-destructive. This episode will discuss the topic of politics through the science of values-generation. Without the ability to intrinsically love there can be no healing. 2020-05-2232 minSistas & SauvignonSistas & Sauvignon TrailerMeet and greet the Sistas in Sauvignon: Syn, T, and MelSauvignon, anyone...Sistas & Sauvignon: https://msha.ke/sistasandsauvignonSyneca: https://www.instagram.com/extremelysyn/Tiara: https://www.instagram.com/princesstiarap/Melodye: https://www.instagram.com/melodye_/2020-05-1709 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP10: Prejudice, Evil, & Unjust Actions, Part Three interview with Peter DemarestIs it possible to see a person’s intrinsic worth when their actions are bad, evil, or unjust. Prejudice and subconscious biases influence our emotions, decisions and behaviors, is there a way for a person to transcend these biases and minimize their effect?2020-05-1520 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEPO9: Don't Let Biases Run the Show, Part Two interview with Peter DemarestDevaluation always has negative impact while validation always brings health . Today’s podcast we will learn about how our biases ‘run the show.’ We’ll learn the antidote to stopping something is to start something. We’ll learn the power of asking the right question, “What choice can I make and action can I take in this moment to create the greatest net value?” 2020-05-0817 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP08: The Science of Value, Part One interview with Peter DemarestToday’s podcast is the first in a four-part series of interviews with Peter Demarest, an expert in the science of Axiogenics, which is the mind-brain science of value generation. He has influenced my life greatly through his book, “Answering the Central Question: How Science reveals the keys to success in life, love, and leadership.”
Stephen R. Covey writes about Peter’s book saying, “…Based on the groundbreaking science of applied neuro-axiology, this book reveals the how-to principles for integrating your heart, mind, and brain to unleash your strengths and create a truly extraordinary life.”
Today’s podcast...2020-05-0117 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP07: My Story with Jason OttleyJason's story reveals the lifelong struggle of not being validated. He says, "It does no good to be represented culturally if your voice has no value, power, or privilege. You are nothing more than a cultural representation." Don't miss this message of advocacy for voices that are not being heard. 2020-04-2421 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEPO6: My Story with Harold WilliamsFrom childhood it seemed that Harold was marked as the one who would never fit in or be accepted. This carried into his twenties where leaders used their position, platform, and authority to control, manipulate, and abuse their power; offering a pseudo success. He shares how he "drank the Kool-Aid" and "sold his soul" to obtain success and connection. This is an amazing story of healing, true success both personally and professionally, and the beautiful opportunities he has to model power used for good.2020-04-1724 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP05: My Story with Rose ThomasRose experienced many instances of trauma, abusive relationships, and rape. She believed herself to be ugly knowing she would never be loved. She hated herself as depression, anxiety, and self-harm were her outlets for her anger. She later learned that it was not what happened to her but her thought patterns that were her greatest enemy. Today, however, we see a "rose" who has bloomed into a beautiful value-generator reaching out to those who face trauma and disaster.2020-04-1018 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP04: My Story with Justin TuckerRarely do you hear a story of drugs, gangs, violence, and fear and find a young man whose life exemplifies hope and purpose. What led Justin Tucker to see his worth, his potential, and soften his heart for those hurting from the pain of their past?2020-04-0315 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP03: My Story with Karley DanielAs Karly shares her story she says, "You have to come to peace with your broken pieces." The majority of Karly's childhood was filled with the broken pieces of abandonment, neglect, and abuse. How could she come to peace in the midst of such suffering? 2020-03-2720 min
#StopDevaluation PodcastEP02: My Story with Annette DickensGrowing up in North Carolina in the 60's and 70's, Annette shares her story of traumatizing racial prejudice. Can you imagine waking up to a burnt KKK cross with cards covering your lawn saying the "'KKK was out to get you?"2020-03-2028 min
Kingdom Driven Entrepreneur Podcast LiveKDE 245: Kingdom Influence Comes From Carrying God's Heart (Conversation with Dr. Melodye Hilton)"I don’t have to beg [God] to anoint me; He’s already anointed me. I don’t have to beg Him to make it successful, because if He opened the door, it already is successful and the Holy Spirit is already there to take whatever I’m bringing to the table in the midst of my imperfections and bring light and revelation to it to touch the depths of a heart." These are the words of today's guest, Dr. Melodye Hilton of Hilton Consulting LLC. For decades, Melodye has worked with industry and governmental leaders around the globe as a leaders...2020-01-0852 min