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Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendNew Music, Tomboys & The Industry: Malika (Hamzaa)In this episode, we’re joined by singer and songwriter Malika (Hamza) for a raw, funny and deeply honest conversation about music, mental health, identity and becoming who you really are.Malika opens up about growing up with depression, ADHD and anxiety, and how songwriting became the only way she could truly express what was going on in her mind. We talk about dropping out of school, going viral online, getting signed to a major label, and the reality of being pushed to become someone you’re not. From navigating record deals and creative control to ch...
2026-01-131h 03
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendColonialism, Queer South Asians & Hierarchies: Dr Rohit K DasguptaIn this episode, we’re joined by Dr Rohit Dasgupta, associate professor at the London School of Economics, queer activist and local councillor, for a vital conversation about caste, class, colonialism and queerness.Rohit reflects on growing up gay in India, navigating caste, colourism and class hierarchies, and how these systems didn’t disappear online, they were replicated through dating apps, digital spaces and diaspora life.We explore how British colonial laws criminalised queerness across South Asian countries, why homophobia is often framed as “traditional” when it isn’t, and how white queer spaces can reproduce...
2026-01-0644 min
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendPalestine, Arab Stereotypes & Masculinity: Elias JahshanIn this episode, we’re joined by Elias Jahshan, a Palestinian-Lebanese journalist, editor and writer, for a powerful conversation about identity, belonging and reclaiming narrative.Elias opens up about growing up Arab, queer and deaf, navigating racism, homophobia and disability and the deep tension many queer Arabs face when asked to separate parts of who they are in order to be accepted.We explore his work editing This Arab Is Queer and Queer Arab Families, the weaponisation of queerness in political discourse, fetishisation in dating culture, trauma led storytelling in the media and wh...
2025-12-151h 01
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendGay Relationship, Engagement & Social Media: Jake & MaxIn this episode, we sit down with Jake & Max, a couple whose love story has captured hearts across the internet. What started with a cautious first date and clashing attachment styles evolved into a partnership defined by growth, healing and genuine joy.From childhood wounds and emotional shutdowns to lockdown intensity, travel adventures and building an online presence rooted in authenticity, this is a conversation about what it really takes to create a healthy relationship.Together, they unpack navigating arguments, validation, intimacy, jealousy, social media pressure and the slow, beautiful work of choosing each other...
2025-12-0854 min
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendBrixton, HIV & Queer History: Marc ThompsonIn this AIDS Awareness Day special, we sit down with Marc Thompson HIV activist, community leader and one of the most vital voices in Black queer British history. Born and raised in Brixton, Marc has spent four decades reshaping the landscape of HIV awareness, queer visibility, and racial justice in the UK. His story is one of survival, disruption, joy, and relentless advocacy.From coming out at 16 in the mid-80s to being diagnosed with HIV at just 17, at the height of the epidemic, Marc brings raw honesty about stigma, family, survival and the realities of living...
2025-12-0155 min
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendMAFS, Relationships & Chameleons: Keye LukeIn this episode, we sit down with Keye, the breakout star of Married at First Sight UK whose humour, honesty, and emotional depth have made him one of the show’s most unforgettable personalities. From navigating a painful divorce in his early twenties to rebuilding his identity after a mental health crisis, Keye opens up with disarming wit about relationships, people pleasing, sexuality, trauma, and the pressure of performing a version of yourself for others.We dive deep into what it means to finally date as your real self, the messy reality of breakdowns and breakthroughs, and wh...
2025-11-2353 min
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendImprov, Modern Gay Life & Hey Big Guy: Jake CornellIn this episode, we sit down with comedian and writer Jake Cornell, the quick-witted mind behind Hey Big Guy and one of the most refreshing queer voices in comedy today. From coming out at 16 to finding his community later in life, Jake opens up about identity, shame, body image, dating, and the hilarious chaos of gay adulthood.We dive deep into what it truly means to find your voice, the pressure of building a career in stand-up, and why coming out made his life only easier. Jake reflects on growing up surrounded by straight culture, discovering gay...
2025-11-1740 min
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendFemininity, Grief & Re-Defining Sexuality: Alexis & LiamIn this episode, we sit down with married couple Alexis & Liam, whose relationship has existed across identities, labels and multiple “coming outs.”Alexis shares her true timeline: first identifying as straight, then gay, then trans, then returning to gay, then finally stepping into womanhood again, this time for herself, not to make the world more comfortable. Liam opens up about how his own sexuality sits outside the binaries people want to force him into, and why he still identifies as a gay man, even though the world reads them as a straight couple.Together, they disc...
2025-11-101h 04
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendFaith, Drag & Religious Books | Jeza BelleIn this episode, we sit down with Jeza Belle: drag queen, author, comedian and the first drag queen in history to publish a Christian devotional, for one of the most surprising, thoughtful and moving conversations.✨ We talk queer spirituality, reconciling religion and sexuality, grace, and why faith doesn’t belong to bigots. Jeza opens up about growing up Jewish-Christian, evangelical culture shock, coming out later in life, and why drag became both ministry and rebellion. We also dive into her award-winning queer historical fiction and the controversy surrounding her interracial slave-era romance novel, exploring power, race, desire and...
2025-11-031h 00
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendI Kissed a Girl, Owning “Lesbian” & Toxic Labels: Georgia RobertIn this episode, we sit down with Georgia Robert, a standout from I Kissed a Girl Season 1 and semi-pro footballer for a raw, funny and unexpectedly emotional conversation about identity, labels, sport and self-acceptance.🌈 We get into why the word lesbian felt impossible to say, how school culture shaped shame, and why doing the show flipped everything. Georgia also opens up about how women’s football still carries its own hierarchies, why femininity and masculinity are policed even inside queer spaces, and how representation on-screen changed how she saw herself.📱 Follow usTikTok & Instagram: @AMAABF
2025-10-2747 min
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendConversion Therapy, Dating & Iron Fists: Eman AkwafoIn this episode, we sit down with actor, writer and producer Eman, whose work and lived experience confronts the intersections of queerness, faith and Black masculinity.From award-nominated stage work (For Black Boys…) to creating his upcoming play Limp Wrist & The Iron Fist, Eman shares the real story behind his art: including assault, silence, conversion therapy, estrangement and rebuilding family relationships.The conversation moves from survival to self-definition: growing up between Ghana and the UK, being plus size and black in a dating landscape shaped by Grindr profiles displaying “no fats, no Blacks, no fems,” naviga...
2025-10-2046 min
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendBeing invisible, Ghana & Boycotting: Two TwosIn this episode, we sit down with award-winning podcasters and community icons Nana and Ro, the duo behind Two Twos Podcast, a space that redefined what it means to be Black, British, and queer.🌈 From humble YouTube beginnings to shaping conversations around identity, masculinity, and representation, the pair open up about five years of laughter, love, and legacy.We unpack their journey from creating spaces where none existed, to hosting landmark queer events that celebrate Ghanaian pride, culture, and joy. The conversation dives deep into coming out stories, faith and family, toxic masculinity within the les...
2025-10-1351 min
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendCulture, Top Surgery & Egypt: NxdiaIn this episode, we sit down with artist Nxdia, who opens up about growing up between Cairo and Manchester, navigating identity, and creating music that captures the complexity of queerness, culture, and self-expression.From journaling teenage crushes that inspired viral tracks to processing faith, gender, and belonging, Nxdia shares the stories behind Nxdia’s most personal lyrics: including “She Likes a Boy” and how an Egyptian upbringing and spirituality shaped them.We also dive into top surgery journey, the realities of being an independent artist, and carving space for queer representation in music. This one’s raw, fu...
2025-10-061h 10
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendAutism, Masculinity & Soulla: Alex TheoIn this episode, Alex opens up about his journey growing up as a Greek Cypriot lad from North London, navigating queerness, comedy, drag, and autism.He shares how his alter-ego “Soulla” was inspired by his mum and supported by his grandma, the struggles and acceptance he’s faced within his Cypriot community, and the powerful messages audiences have taken away from his shows.Alex also reflects on harassment and online hate, what it means to come out later in life, and how his family eventually showed their support through theatre and comedy.The conver...
2025-09-2953 min
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendAttitude Magazine, Real Bodies & Asylum SeekersIn this solo episode, after being featured in Attitude Magazine, we talk about body image, insecurities, race, hair, weight, and what it’s taken for us to finally love ourselves in a queer community that doesn’t always make that easy.We share the behind-the-scenes of our photoshoot with Gomez, the nerves of stripping down, and the hilarious (and awkward) moments that came with it. We also get dive deep about family pressures, culture, chosen community, and what it’s been like building this podcast from scratch over the last two years.Follow Us on Social...
2025-09-2233 min
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendGay Culture, Stepbrother Fantasies & Comedy Gold: Jake JonezIn this episode, we’re joined by Jake Jonez: the unapologetic artist, comedian, and rising pop provocateur shaking up queer culture. From small-town Georgia to viral TikTok skits and bold music videos, Jake’s story is one of defiance, humour and hard-earned self-expression.We dive into growing up gay in the South, channeling anger into art, and why sometimes the funniest characters come from the darkest places. Jake opens up about family addiction, finding comedy in pain, and creating music that flips the script on hetero clichés.From tossing salads to TikTok fame, from mean...
2025-09-151h 01
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendCelebrity Hairstyling, The Met Gala & Latino Representation: Cesar Delon RamirezIn this episode, Cesar DeLeon Ramirez shares his journey from growing up in a Puerto Rican household and spending his weekends in a hair salon, to becoming one of the most in-demand celebrity hairstylists in the world.He reflects on the fearless ambition that led him from assisting in New York salons to his first big break with Cassie, preparing for tours with nothing but a Barnes & Noble crash course in makeup. From the Met Gala, where he once cut a wig with eyebrow scissors, to long-term creative partnerships with Ciara, Beyonce, Jenna Ortega & Karol G, Cesar...
2025-09-0849 min
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendGay Dating, Misogyny & The Mykonos Policeman: Rossi LewisIn this episode, we sit down with Rossi Lewis: storyteller, content creator, and accidental “dating diarist” whose TikTok journey began with a chance meeting at the gym and spiraled into documenting the chaos, comedy, and heartbreak of gay dating.Rossi opens up about his early years in Cardiff, navigating anger, therapy, and the challenges of growing up queer in a world that didn’t always feel safe. He shares raw stories of coming out, flying across the world to meet a stranger, and finding himself unexpectedly in a messy love triangle on day one.From whirlwin...
2025-09-0154 min
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendInterracial Relationships, Travel & Redefining Masculinity: Chris & JacobIn this episode, Chris and Jacob open up about how they met, fell in love, and built a relationship that thrives on both romance and friendship.They share the story of meeting through the theatre world, touring together, and the unforgettable moment in Bali when one asked the other to be his boyfriend under a waterfall. From navigating life on the road to blending their different cultures, they reflect on the joys and challenges of being visible as an interracial couple in the LGBTQ+ community.Chris and Jacob also dive into ideas of masculinity, relationship...
2025-08-2559 min
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendDiverse Photography, Mental Health & Ageing in the Community: Fran Gomez De VillaboaIn this episode, Fran Gomez, Spanish-born fashion and portrait photographer, opens up about growing up queer in Andalusia, navigating repression in a Catholic family, and building a creative career after moving to London.Fran shares how working in an iconic gay bar became the unexpected stepping stone to shooting for major fashion brands and creating powerful portraits that uplift underrepresented communities. We talk about mental health, capitalism’s impact on creativity, and the pressures of youth and beauty within the LGBTQ+ community.Fran reflects on photographing tender moments, including an emotional portrait of his mother du...
2025-08-1847 min
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendTransfem, being Mixed Race & Acting: Alex Thomas-SmithIn this episode, Alex Thomas-Smith, actor, performer and proud trans-fem non-binary creative shares their journey from growing up in Leeds to making it on the West End and breaking into TV. Alex opens up about falling in love during Covid, spontaneous moves to Berlin, and how communication became the cornerstone of a five-year relationship.They speak candidly about gender identity, attachment styles, and the interracial dynamics of their partnership. Alex reflects on growing up mixed race in the north of England, discovering community later in life, and learning to stand proudly in both their Blackness and q...
2025-08-1159 min
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendBehind the Podcast: Get to know us…🎉 1 Year of Avoiding My Anxiously Attached Boyfriend! | Mr & Mr Game, Bedroom Icks & Drag NamesWe’re celebrating ONE YEAR of Avoiding My Anxiously Attached Boyfriend in pure chaos, hosted by Jamie from Podcast Rooms! 💖 Expect a “Mr & Mr” challenge full of bedroom icks, drag queen alter egos, and the real story of how Faris & Josh went from friends to boyfriends.It’s unfiltered, hilarious, and a little too honest…Subscribe for new LGBTQ+ episodes every Monday! 📱 Follow us on Instagram & TikTok: @amaabf
2025-08-0431 min
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendTikTok Fame, Comedy & Siblings: Chris HallIn this episode, comedian and content creator Chris Hall joins us to talk about viral fame, sibling bonds, and the unexpected power of background vocals. From brushing Barbie’s hair as a kid to becoming one of TikTok’s funniest queer voices, Chris opens up about growing up gay in a religious family, discovering community at musical theatre college, and finding his creative voice online.We explore how a spontaneous dance video with his sister turned into a career changing moment, what it’s really like working with stars like Cynthia Erivo and the Jonas Brothers, and how st...
2025-07-2847 min
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendHammams, Crossing Borders & Becoming an Author: Khaled AlesmaelIn this episode, Khaled Alesmael shares his remarkable story of life as a gay Syrian writer, journalist and refugee: from cruising in secret hammams under an oppressive regime to crossing borders on foot and building a new life in Europe.Khaled talks candidly about growing up queer in Syria, the hidden LGBTQ+ community and the power of desire as resistance. He opens up about his journey through Egypt, Turkey and finally Sweden, where his writing became his sanctuary and where he learned to tell stories about survival, love and identity when freedom was denied.He...
2025-07-1451 min
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendOpen relationships, Reality TV & DJ Supper Club: Joel MignottIn this episode, we’re joined by model, DJ, Chef & reality TV trailblazer Joel Mignott.From open relationships and reality TV edits to childhood trauma, healing through therapy, and navigating gay love without a blueprint. This conversation is raw, hilarious and full of depth.Joel opens up about what it means to grow up mixed-race and queer in the UK, how it felt to go through relationship growing pains while being filmed, and why he’s had to rebuild his idea of safety, trust and love from the ground up.From publ...
2025-07-0755 min
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendIdentity, Seeking Refuge & Changing UK Law: Saif AhmedIn this episode, Saif Ahmed shares his story of growing up as a gay, Arab, Muslim man — and how he went from fleeing Iraq as a child to helping shape the UK’s Equality Act.Saif talks honestly about leaving Iraq during the war, spending his childhood in Dubai, coming to the UK as a teenager, and trying to work out who he was in a culture that didn’t always accept him. He opens up about what it was like to come out to his family, survive homophobia and violence at school, and why language matters when w...
2025-06-3053 min
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendIVF, Meet Cute & Resolving Arguments: Taylor & JeffIn this episode, we’re joined by Taylor and Jeff—the charismatic couple behind one of the internet’s most loved LGBTQ+ love stories. From DM slides and Halloween run-ins to IVF, visibility and making a home in NYC, this conversation is full of warmth, honesty and hard-earned wisdom.We dive into coming out in small-town America, redefining masculinity, and the reality behind curating a “perfect” relationship online. Taylor opens up about his upbringing and finding stability. Jeff reflects on rewriting the gay love story he never thought he'd live.From hot dogs and heartbreaks to house p...
2025-06-231h 06
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendBeing Mixed Race, Unpacking Identity & Queerness: BBC’s I Kissed a BoyIn this vibrant and deeply personal episode, we’re joined by stars from I Kissed a Boy—Callum, Jack S, and Ruben—for a raw, hilarious, and heartfelt conversation about life before, during, and after the show.From Black barbers and messy sleepovers to discovering queer brotherhood and confronting racism growing up, nothing is off limits. We dive into the importance of representation, coming out stories, identity crises, and the real friendships that formed on and off screen.This episode isn’t just about reality TV—it’s about reality. And the joy of finally being seen.
2025-06-0950 min
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendAsexuality, Domestic Trauma & Palestine: AryamIn this powerful episode, we sit down with Aryam Marafi, a survivor, storyteller, and Kuwaiti refugee who opens up Asexuality, domestic violence, and sexual trauma. From seeking refuge and safety abroad, their journey is one of resilience, pain, and reclaiming identity.We talk about the impact of abuse within family systems, escaping a violent home, healing from sexual trauma, and the layered complexities of being stateless, Arab, and queer in exile.This conversation holds space for truth-telling, cultural critique, and finding power after silence.*TRIGGER WARNING* - This video contains references to domestic...
2025-06-0254 min
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendFlamboyance, Gender Fluidity & Fetishisation: TyreeceIn this episode, we sit down with performer, creator and unapologetic queer icon Tyreece. From go-go dancing in Heaven at 18 to navigating identity as a gender fluid, mixed-race powerhouse—this conversation is loud, proud and unfiltered.We talk about being “too gay” for straight people, growing up between cultures, coming out journey, and finding the freedom to be yourself!🎭 The queer nightlife roots that shaped Tyreece—and why they ditched dance school to own their own stage.💬 The power of confidence, community and saying “I love myself” out loud.🧠 Therapy, attachment styles & how being se...
2025-05-2658 min
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendTrans, Muslim, Pakistani & PROUD!In this episode, we sit down with Britain’s first out Muslim drag queen and transgender activist Asifa Lahore. From transitioning on the NHS to navigating faith, family, identity and the queer scene as a South Asian woman—this conversation is raw, eye-opening and deeply human.We talk about losing male privilege, finding gender euphoria on a motorbike in Pakistan, the power of being visible, and why Asifa has finally stopped chasing love to focus on self-worth. It’s not about fitting in—it’s about standing firm in who you are.🎥 The realities of transitioning...
2025-05-1949 min
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendMade in Chelsea, Sobriety & Coming out: Kabir Khurana🌟 Kabir on Made in Chelsea, Queer Identity & Life Beyond the Screen 🎬✨In this episode, we sit down with Made in Chelsea’s Kabir to talk about everything from reality TV and representation to sobriety, dating as a queer person of colour, and finding purpose after pain. It’s raw, it’s real—and it’s seriously empowering.🎥 How Kabir Got on Made in Chelsea – The unexpected DM that led to his TV debut and what it’s really like behind the scenes.🌈 Queer, Brown & On-Screen – Kabir opens up about navigating race, gender and sexuality in an overwhelmingly...
2025-05-1248 min
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendBody Hair, IBS Journey & A little Moan...🧔🏽♂️ Body Hair, Bias & Bloating – Let’s Talk About It!In this episode, we go there — from body hair politics to bloated tummies and invasive procedures. What does it mean to be hairy and brown in a world that prefers smooth and white? While we also dive into Faris's IBS journey!👀 Hair & Race – Why being hairy hits different when you’re South Asian, Arab, or Brown — and how it’s all wrapped in coded racism.🪒 The Pressure to Laser – Why so many people of colour feel pushed to remove every follicle?🔥 Embracing the Fuzz – From shame to self-love: h...
2025-05-0522 min
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendColonialism, Queer Travel & Allyship Fails: Aisha Shaibu Lenoir🌍 Aisha on Queer Travel, Colonialism & Building Safe Spaces 🏳️🌈In this episode, we’re joined by Aisha to unpack identity, activism, and what it really means to move through the world as a Black queer woman. From reclaiming queer history to building inclusive spaces like The Common Press, this conversation is honest, powerful — and full of heart.✈️ Travelling While Black & Queer – How Aisha navigates the world, challenges stereotypes, and finds queer joy everywhere.🛡️ Safe Spaces Beyond the Club – Why LGBTQ+ community spaces need to be more than just nightlife — and how The Common Press became a sanctuary.🧠 C...
2025-04-2858 min
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendThe Queer Arab Debate, Cultural Imperialism & Boycotting: DEAD SEA SPECIAL!🌊 Gay in Jordan: Culture, Boycotts & The Truth About Queer Life in the Middle East 🧳In this on-location episode, we're coming to you live(ish) from the Dead Sea in Jordan, with coffee, shisha, and some serious conversation. We’re diving deep into what it’s really like to be gay in the Middle East—and why Western perspectives don’t always get it right.🌍 Is It Safe to Be Queer in Jordan? – We talk life, love, and legality in a country where it’s not illegal to be gay—but acceptance still has a long way to go.🚫 T...
2025-04-2131 min
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendHIV, PrEP & Chemsex: Dan Harry🌈 Dan Harry on Chemsex, HIV Stigma & The Truth About ‘I Kissed a Boy’ 💋In this episode, we’re joined by Dan Harry from I Kissed a Boy to dive into some of the biggest (and most taboo) conversations in the LGBTQ+ community. From his BBC documentary PreP, HIV & Me to the realities of chemsex, we break it all down—while still finding time for laughs and a little bit of gossip.💊 Chemsex: The Intersection of Drugs & Sex – Why is chemsex so common in queer spaces, and what are the risks no one talks about?📺 Was ‘I Kissed...
2025-03-311h 01
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendAtlantis, LGBT In the Middle East & ‘fake’ Dubai🌍 Exploring Dubai: Stereotypes, LGBTQ+ Life & The New Middle East Culture 🇦🇪In this episode, we’re recording straight from Atlantis, Dubai—because why not? We dive into the stereotypes surrounding Dubai, its real culture beyond the glitz, and what it’s really like being LGBTQ+ in the Middle East.🏙️ Is Dubai Fake? – People love to call Dubai artificial, but is that just a coded way of rejecting modern Arab culture? We discuss whether there’s a deeper bias behind this view.🏳️🌈 Being LGBTQ+ in Dubai – What’s it actually like? From misconceptions to the reality on the ground, we break down t...
2025-03-2426 min
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendTraitors, Gay Adoption & Cowboy Carter: Miles AsteriIn this episode, we’re joined by the incredible Miles Asteri for an open and heartfelt conversation about reality TV, navigating identity, and the emotional weight of adoption and fatherhood.🎭 TRAITORS – Miles opens up about his time on The Traitors, the challenges of playing the game, and the pressure of public perception.👨👦 Adoption & Fatherhood – From his personal experience with adoption to becoming a parent himself, Miles shares the deeply personal journey of building a family.🏳️🌈 LGBTQ+ Parenting & Representation – The importance of visibility, breaking stereotypes, and raising children in a loving, non-traditional household.💔 Love, Relationships & G...
2025-03-031h 05
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendComing out, Stereotypes & Becoming besties: LordinIn this episode, we're joined by the incredibly talented Lordin for an open and inspiring conversation about breaking stereotypes in the music industry, being an independent queer artist, and navigating identity through music.🎶 Breaking into the Music Industry – Lordin shares the realities of working without industry support, building a career from scratch, and staying true to his vision.🏳️🌈 Queer Identity & Music Labels – How does being openly queer impact an artist’s career? Lordin discusses the struggle of being put in a box and fighting industry stereotypes.📝 Songwriting & Personal Growth – From personal struggles to triumphs, Lordin explain...
2025-02-241h 09
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendWhat it's ACTUALLY like being on BIG BROTHER: Dean QuintonIn this episode, we’re joined by the charismatic and unfiltered Dean Quinton for a raw and revealing conversation about reality TV, media narratives, and life inside the Big Brother house. From the brutal audition process to how the show twists reality, Dean gives us the inside scoop with humor and honesty.🏠 The Big Brother ExperienceDean breaks down what it’s really like—from five days of isolation before entering the house to the sleep deprivation, strategic editing, and behind-the-scenes mind games.📺 The Power of...
2025-02-1759 min
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendThe White Default, Bonnie Blue & Gays Dating ThemselvesIs Whiteness the Default? We dive deep into the unspoken biases that shape our perceptions of beauty, desirability, and relationships. From dating preferences to Hollywood’s beauty standards, we unpack how whiteness continues to be seen as the "default" and why that needs to change.🔥 Topics We Cover:💡 Why Whiteness is Still the Standard – How media and society reinforce Eurocentric beauty ideals.💬 Dating While Brown – The challenges of navigating attraction and "preferences" in a world that favours lighter skin.🏳️🌈 Colourism in the LGBTQ+ Community – How internalised biases show up on dating apps and in social circles.📖 Ch...
2025-02-1030 min
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendQueering The System... Taking The SHAME Out Of SEX: Anouszka TateIn this episode, we dive into a thought-provoking conversation about challenging societal norms and embracing personal agency. Our guest shares their journey of questioning expectations around relationships, marriage, and identity, revealing how they moved from simply following the "default" life path to making choices that truly align with their desires.🧠 Rewriting the RulesHow societal norms dictate our choices—and why questioning them can lead to a more fulfilling life.💬 Should vs. WantUnpacking the difference between what we’re told we should do and what we actually want to do.🏳️🌈 Sex, Gender & Expres...
2025-02-031h 08
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendDiscovering hidden LGBTQ+ histories: Dr. Justin BengryIn this episode, we dive deep into the fascinating world of queer history with Dr. Justin Bengry, a leading historian and pioneer behind the world's first MA in Queer History. From exploring historical gaps to addressing modern queer representation, Justin offers thought-provoking insights, blending academic expertise with personal stories.🎓 Queer Academia & ResearchJustin talks about launching the MA in Queer History, its significance, and the ongoing challenges of preserving queer narratives.📜 Defining Queerness Through HistoryWhat does "queer" mean across time and space? Justin shares the complexities of applying modern labels to historical contex...
2025-01-2742 min
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendKATSEYE, Dark Forest Theory & Bridget JonesThis week, we’re diving headfirst into the world of K-pop, exploring wild alien theories, and reflecting on the randomness of life. It’s fun, it’s deep, and just a bit chaotic—just the way we like it.🎶 K-pop Craze: We break down the hype around K-pop and the intense training that shapes these global stars. Is the West ready for K-pop-style pop groups?📚 Bridget Jones Revisited: A nostalgic yet critical dive into Bridget Jones, examining how its themes have aged and what’s still relevant (or not) today.👽 Alien Theories: From the dark forest the...
2025-01-2032 min
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendThe Year of not giving a F*CK!In this episode, we’re back after a little break, and things get hilariously messy as we dive into what’s been happening in our lives. From attachment styles to a dramatic take on decorating our apartment, nothing’s off the table.🏡 Decorating Chaos: We’ve been sprucing up the apartment, and let’s just say Faris doesn’t love my (Josh’s) taste. We spill all the tea about our “discussions” (read: arguments) over colours and furniture. Are you Team Blue or Team Orange?🧠 Attachment Styles IRL: We break down how his anxious attachment and my avoidant tendenci...
2025-01-1338 min
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendHow Open Mic Nights Sparked a Comedy Career: Morgan ReesIn this episode, we’re joined by the hilarious and insightful Morgan Rees for an honest and entertaining conversation about comedy, identity, and queer joy. From chasing the comedy dream to embracing body positivity, Morgan takes us through his journey with humor and heart.🎭 Chasing the Comedy DragonMorgan shares the highs and lows of being a comedian, from his first open mic to learning the science behind making people laugh.🏳️🌈 Queer Community & IdentityHow moving to London shaped Morgan’s connection with queer spaces, his thoughts on labels, and the joy of finding community...
2025-01-0654 min
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendChristmas Chats & Cultural Clashes 🎄In this episode of Avoiding My Anxiously Attached Boyfriend, we continue our Christmas special with family members Sam and Sass. From hilarious science "facts" to cultural debates and growing up in two worlds, this episode has it all — heartfelt moments, sibling banter, and festive cheer.🎄 Christmas in Jordan vs. England: The group dives into their experiences navigating traditions and family dynamics across cultures during the holidays.🎁 “Science with Sass”: Get ready to laugh as Sass attempts to explain everything from how planes fly to why we can't travel at the speed of light.🌍 Life Between Tw...
2024-12-2336 min
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendOur Chaotic Family Christmas Special 🎄 Part 1In this episode of Avoiding My Anxiously Attached Boyfriend, Faris and Josh are joined by family members Sam and Sassy for a hilarious Christmas special. From chaotic gift exchanges to childhood stories of sneaking out and sneaking back in, this episode is full of laughs, awkward moments, and festive fails.🎄 Sibling Chaos: What happens when siblings can't wait to open Christmas presents? Faris shares a childhood memory that will make you laugh (or cringe).🎁 Worst Christmas Gifts: From unwanted love lamps to confusing puppets, the group recounts their most bizarre Christmas gifts and family reactions.
2024-12-1640 min
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendFrom GRNDHOUSE to GAYNS: Connor MinneyIn this episode, we're joined by the brilliant Connor Minney for a candid and thought-provoking conversation about LGBTQ+ community dynamics, fitness culture, and personal growth.🏋️♂️ Gym Culture & Gay Spaces: Why do gay and queer communities have such a conflicted relationship with gym culture? Connor dives into the legacy and evolution of these spaces.👀 Validation & Body Image: A deep dive into the quest for physical perfection, the double standards of fitness ideals, and how this affects self-worth and community interactions.🏳️🌈 Creating Inclusive Spaces with "Gayns": From founding "Gayns" to discussing the need for queer-friendly spaces outside of nightl...
2024-12-091h 14
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendKardashians, Hollywood and the Toxic Beauty RevolutionThis week, we’re diving deep into the cultural shifts that have shaped the world around us:💄 Kardashians & Beauty StandardsHow did one family redefine beauty—and at what cost? We break down the ripple effects of their influence on today’s society and self-image.🇺🇸 The Fall of the American DreamAs kids, it was the ultimate goal, but Hollywood scandals and societal shifts have made us question everything. Is the American Dream still alive, or has it crumbled?🪄 Our Harry Potter Reboot WishlistImagine a series that takes us back in time to ex...
2024-12-0236 min
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendYou Don’t Have To Be Queer To Fight For Queer Rights: David Allwood🎙️ A Conversation with Mr. Gay World, David AllwoodIn this heartfelt and dynamic episode, we’re joined by the incredible David Allwood, Mr. Gay GB, for a deep dive into his life, work, and passions.🌈 Homoparody:David shares the inspiration behind his company, which brings the LGBTQ+ community together through fabulous events and dance classes designed to foster joy and connection.🏆 Life as Mr. Gay GB:From the glitz and glamour to the challenges, David opens up about his experience competing and what it means to represent the global gay community.💔 Lo...
2024-11-251h 19
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendJust A Chat...This week, we’re leaning into the chaos with a messy, hilarious chat about relationships, reality TV, and everything in between. No structure, just vibes.🫂 Attachment Styles: Josh opens up about his attachment type and why affection is strictly on his terms. Let’s just say, it’s a journey.👰 Love Is Blind, Habibi: Our unfiltered thoughts on the latest reality TV drama—because what’s better than strangers trying (and failing) to fall in love on camera?🎙️ Just Messy Chats: From random tangents to hilarious takes, this episode is peak “pull up a chair and gossip” ene...
2024-11-1827 min
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendToxic Masculinity Can Be Exhibited By Any GENDER!This week, we’re diving headfirst into the intersection of feminism, the environment, and some good old-fashioned spooky chaos. It’s thoughtful, it’s funny, and it’s a little unhinged—just how we like it.🌱 Ecofeminism: Diving deep into what Faris was researching during his PHD , exploring how feminism and environmentalism connect. Turns out, saving the planet might just be feminist work.✊ The Waves of Feminism: From the suffragettes to TikTok activism, we break down the history of feminism and how the fourth wave became a social media movement.👀 Smile 2: Our take on the horror sequ...
2024-11-1135 min
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendAre You RACIST for having a preference? Jordan HailwoodIn this episode, we’re joined by the insightful Jordan Hailwood for an open and honest discussion about some of the complex dynamics within the LGBTQ+ community.👀 Experiences of Being Fetishised: We share personal stories about encounters with fetishisation, unpack its emotional impact, and explore how it shapes relationships and self-perception.💞 Dating Outside Your Race: A conversation about the beauty of interracial relationships and why breaking down our own biases can lead to more meaningful connections.💪 Men & Femininity: Why does femininity in men still scare some people? We discuss...
2024-11-0436 min
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendNavigating INTRUSIVE thoughts and Anxiety!🧠 Navigating Anxiety & Intrusive Thoughts – This week, we're opening up about the struggles of anxiety and those intrusive thoughts that seem to come out of nowhere. From practical tips to personal stories, we share what’s helped us cope and remind everyone that they’re not alone in these battles.🌈 Heartstopper & Self-Acceptance – The hit show Heartstopper captures so many moments we wish we had growing up, and it’s been a game-changer for LGBTQ+ representation. We dive into how shows like these can have a huge impact on mental health, self-acceptance, and even help us find peace with the parts of our...
2024-10-2846 min
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendSpooky SZN, Beauty standards & Psoriasis…🎃 This week, we're diving into a mix of personal experiences, societal standards, and some spooky vibes! 🍂💆♂️ Dealing with Psoriasis: Scaling skin, broken finger nails, and chanting, no we are not talking about the witches of Salem. We are talking Faris' psoriasis situation. 💄 Beauty Standards in the Gay Community: Are we too ugly to be gay? We unpack the often-unrealistic beauty expectations in the gay community, how they affect self-worth, and the importance of embracing individuality. Shouldn't we be all loving and inclusive?🏳️🌈 Is the LGBTQ+ Community Really That Inclusive?: While the LGBTQ+ community is built on acceptance, there...
2024-10-2134 min
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendWhere To Travel Safely As LGBTQ: Stefan Arestis🌍 Exploring the World with Nomadic Boys’ Stefan: Gay Travel, Safety, and More!This week, we’re thrilled to have Stefan, one half of the Nomadic Boys, joining us for a special episode! Stefan and his partner travel the world, offering invaluable insights on where gay travellers can feel safe and welcome. We’ll be diving into:✈️ Travel Misconceptions: Ever crossed a destination off your list because you thought it wasn’t safe for LGBTQ+ travellers? Stefan busts myths and shares surprising places that are safer than you think.📚 Out in the World: Stefan introduces us to h...
2024-10-1453 min
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendDissecting the era of SHOWING OFF on social media…💄 In this episode, we're unpacking GRWM culture and the way people flaunt what they own—what does it say about consumerism today?👜 Dior’s Scandal: We discuss the recent controversy surrounding migrant workers being paid just $57 to make luxury bags under poor conditions, while the price tag tells a very different story.👗 Fashion Powerhouses: A look at the history of some of the biggest names in fashion—how Louis Vuitton’s trunks and Chanel’s trousers changed the industry and influenced modern style.🔥 Hot or Famous? We’re having fun with this one! We debate whether certai...
2024-10-0736 min
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendAgatha Harkness: The Queer Coding Behind MARVELS Dark Witch!This week, we’re back with a spicy mix of pop culture, music, and laughs! Here’s what we’re unpacking:🎃 Agatha All Along and the Queer Legacy: We dive into the queer-coded characters that WandaVision has brought to life and why Agatha, in particular, resonates with the LGBTQ+ community.🚂 Tyla and the VMAs Drama: We break down the Tyla Hate Train after the awkward moment where she asked Lil Nas X to hold her award—why all the shade? We’ve got thoughts!🎶 The Weeknd’s New Music & Sam Levinson’s Messy Shows: From Euphoria’s...
2024-09-3031 min
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendWhat it's REALLY like being BLACK in the MEDIA Industry: Lee GrayThis week, we’re unpacking the complexities of navigating the media industry with our special guest, Lee. Join us as we dive into:⚔️ The Double-Edged Sword of Being Black in the Industry: Lee shares his experiences of how his identity can work for or against him in the competitive landscape of media.💖 Sex and the City Deep Dive: We explore the iconic characters and their dynamics, reflecting on how they resonate with today’s culture.📸 Behind the Scenes at Vogue and Harper’s Bazaar: Lee gives us an insider’s look at the fashion world and...
2024-09-2352 min
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendPALESTINE: Why are people FORGETTING?!Hey hey Anxious Bunnies✨This week, we’re tackling some fiery topics that will definitely get you thinking! In this episode, we explore:🔥 EDL and the Riots: What’s fueling the rise of far-right groups like the EDL, and how are they connected to recent unrest?🇬🇧 Brexit - Why It’s Not Working: We dive into the aftermath of Brexit and why things haven't gone as planned for the UK.💔 Love Island - Why No One Goes to Find Love: Is it all just for fame and Instagram deals? We break down the truth behin...
2024-09-1634 min
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendGAYS & DADDIES: The Fascination NO ONE Talks About!Hey hey hey anxious bunnies! 🐰✨This week we have so many spicy topics which will PEAK your interest, in this episode we explore:👨🦳 Why Are Gays Obsessed with Daddies?: Let’s talk about the "daddy" obsession in gay culture—what’s behind this trend, and why does it resonate so deeply?💥 Austin Wolf Scandal: We break down the drama surrounding the Austin Wolf and share our thoughts on the fallout and what it says about the industry and gay culture.🏳️🌈 Straight Spaces for Gay People: We explore the awkwardness and discomfort of being gay in predominantly st...
2024-09-0929 min
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendWhy MEN NEVER Leave Without a BACKUP Plan!This week on Avoiding My Anxiously Attached Boyfriend, we're dishing out the tea and spilling the secrets! 🌈 Ever wondered what it's like being gay in Jordan? We’ve got the inside scoop on navigating love and identity in a society that's not always on the same page. We also dive into why we think every man cheats (yep, we said it!) and why they stay in unhappy marriages—spoiler: they’re waiting for a ‘better’ option, not because they’re committed. Oh, and those guys who can’t stop hating on gays? They might just be projecting their own hidden desires. G...
2024-09-0234 min
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached Boyfriend'We're going to CUT OFF your d**ks!' - Bradley SaluHey hey hey anxious bunnies! Welcome back to another guest ep! In this week’s episode, we have the fabulous Bradley Salu joining us for an unforgettable chat! 🕺✨ We dive into all things fashion, music, and surviving hard times with some awesome stories and tips on how music helps us through. As well as his view on revenge, and why it no longer serves him🎶❤️We also get real and touch on some important topics like intersections of race in the gay community and Brad’s inspiring coming out journey. 🌈✊ And you get to stare at his beautiful face!
2024-08-2649 min
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendCan your PARTNER look through your PHONE? Yes or No?Hey hey hey anxious bunnies! In this episode, we dive into some hot topics and personal updates:🌴 We went to BALI: We catch you all up on our trip to Indonesia and all events that happened on our trip!📱Is it okay for your partner to go through your phone? We dive deep into the pros and cons when in a relationship with someone. Are you hiding something or is it controlling? 💑 Resolving arguments: What's the best way to resolve conflict in a relationship? Here we break down what works for us and could be u...
2024-08-1934 min
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendBlake Lively's SCANDAL & Molly Mae's BREAKUP: What YOU Need to Know! BONUS EPISODEHey hey hey anxious bunnies! In this episode, we dive into some hot topics and personal updates:✨ Blake Lively’s Scandal: We dive into the controversy surrounding Blake Lively and her role in the 'It Ends With Us' adaptation. What’s the real story behind the backlash?💔 Molly Mae & Tommy Fury’s Breakup: We dissect the shocking split between Molly Mae and Tommy Fury, exploring the rumours and reasons behind their breakup. What led to the end of this high-profile relationship?🎧 Listen In: Don’t miss out on our deep dive into these dramatic events...
2024-08-1913 min
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendMy future HUSBAND will be so much HOTTER than you!!!Hey hey hey anxious bunnies! In this episode, we dive into some hot topics and personal updates:✨ Embracing True Selves: We discuss the misconception that people "change" when they come out. Spoiler: They're just becoming more comfortable with who they truly are!💔 The Gay Best Friend Dilemma: Let's talk about the frustrating trend of girl mates sometimes treating their gay best friends like placeholders until they get into a relationship. Not cool!💍 Wedding Planning Drama: Hear all about our wedding plans and what we’ll do if anyone dares to rain on our parade. Hi...
2024-08-1255 min
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendKAMALA HARRIS: BEYONCÉ’s ‘FREEDOM' Makes History!Hey hey hey anxious bunnies! In this week's episode, we discuss Kamala Harris's and the impact it has made by using Beyoncé ICONIC song FREEDOM. We also delve into the 2024 Olympics with Beyoncé opening for TEAM USA. We explore the hidden homophobia used against James from the Shxts n Gigs podcast and how straight people have to act in a particular way, otherwise they are face with homophobic slurs. Marketing used in 2024 has completely changed with the industry using new and creative ways to promote movies (Deadpool & Wolverine). We also share personal stories about the complexities of being mixed-race an...
2024-08-0536 min
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendGender EXPRESSION and SEXUALITY are different: Luke SeraphinIn Episode 4 of "Avoiding My Anxiously Attached Boyfriend," we're joined by Luke Seraphin, Head of Inclusion at Sky. Luke shares their personal journey with autism, experiences as non-binary, and insights into fostering inclusivity amidst the challenges of cancel culture. Josh and Faris engage in an open and enlightening discussion, asking probing questions to deepen their understanding of LGBTQ+ issues. Tune in for an educational and empathetic exploration of identity, inclusion, and navigating cultural shifts in today's world.
2024-07-291h 01
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached Boyfriend“If that didn't happen, HE wouldn't be GAY!"Join us for Episode 3 of "Avoiding My Anxiously Attached Boyfriend" as we spill the beans on our entire relationship journey. From how we first met to travel misadventures, including the eye-opening truth about New Zealand (spoiler: it's not all as friendly as it seems), and Faris' colourful thoughts on people 'finding themselves' in Australia. Brace yourself for dog-biting and rabies shots that turned our trip upside down. Get ready for laughs, insights, and a candid look into our anxiously avoidant lives!
2024-07-221h 05
Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendDid the HARROD'S guy just call me FAT?!Join us, Faris and Josh, as we dive into our London escapades in second episode of "Avoiding My Anxiously Attached Boyfriend". Get ready for Harrods sales associated calling out Faris’ ‘round face’, Ivy Asia almost showing us the door before we got in, and encountering some seriously quirky road men. Oh, and did we almost buy a £200 cup? Stay until the end to see our fun game for this episode. Watch or listen now as we take you on a wild journey!
2024-07-151h 02Avoiding My Anxiously Attached BoyfriendHe PRAYED after S*X: Introduction to our NEW podcast!Welcome to the hilariously chaotic pilot of "Avoiding My Anxiously Attached Boyfriend"! A BRAND NEW LGTBQ+ podcast. The first visual and audio LGBTQ+ podcast hosted by a mixed heritage couple! Get to know Faris (anxiously attached), who's always seeking reassurance, and Josh (Avoidant attached), who self-sabotaged every relationship, until this one! No matter how hard he tried. We'll share our messiest and funniest dating stories, from graveyard dates to post-sex prayers. It's a wild ride, and too good to cancel. So, make sure you tune in for laughs, love, and a whole lot of awkwardness.
2024-07-0845 min