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Getting Past the PremiumGetting Past the PremiumS5E10 | How to Fix Your Message So the Right Clients (and Referrals) Find You - feat. Abby ArcishewskyMost insurance producers think they need more leads.What they actually need is more clarity.Clarity on:→ Who they serve→ Why they’re different→ How they want to grow→ And who should be referring them businessIn this episode of Getting Past the Premium, Elliot Bassett sits down with Abby Arcishewsky, founder of Archway Strategy, to break down how producers can build intentional, strategic, revenue-driving sales systems — starting with their value proposition and referral process.If you’re relying on COIs, but don’t have a plan…If your value prop...2025-07-0239 minThat\'s LifeThat's LifeRyan is back for Christmas!!Merry Christmas Eve from one happy couple to YOU! Join Abby and Ryan as they discuss Ryan's health concerns and Abby's emotional crisis of the week. In this episode, they play Christmas "This or That," Would you Rather, and an original Christmas game that Abby came up with! They also touch on deciding which family to spend Christmas with, and the struggle of finding a job in your early 20s! Instagram: thatslifepoddyTikTok: thatslifepoddyYouTube: Abby and RyanStream That's Life on all streaming services Join the...2024-12-2452 minThat\'s LifeThat's LifeAbby is an emotional wreck.In this week's episode, join Abby and Ryan as they talk through a mental block of emotions that Abby is working through on the spot. They talk about eating habits, sadness, feelings of guilt, and seeking perfection. Also discussed id feelings of unworthiness, comparison, and pride. Instagram: thatslifepoddy TIK TOK: thatslifepoddy YouTube: Abby and Ryan LTK: thatslifepoddy Stream That's Life on all streaming services Join the RUN CLUB: “Jesus Runners” on STRAVA2024-10-221h 03The Manufacturers\' NetworkThe Manufacturers' NetworkFrom Idea to Action: Creating the Young Manufacturers Network with Abby Wurzbach and Andrew LaneIn this episode, Lisa Ryan is joined by Andrew Lane and Abby Wurzbach to discuss the creation and mission of the Young Manufacturers Network. Abby shares how the network was established and its goals in providing a space for young professionals to connect, develop skills, and adapt to new technologies in the manufacturing industry. Andrew emphasizes the importance of encouraging collaboration and preparing young manufacturers for future challenges.- Abby's career transition from education to business and her impactful experience at ManTec led to the founding of the Young Manufacturers Network. The network seeks to help small...2024-05-1334 minThe Ope PodcastThe Ope Podcast39. The Ezekiel Ryan, TikTok Personality Part 1This is part 1 of Abby’s interview with The Ezekiel Ryan, TikTok personality. Ezekiel gives the listeners an overview of his thoughts on fitness influencers, his goals for YouTube, his journey to 90k TikTok followers, and the overall hustle it takes. Ezekiel and Abby discuss Snapchat and how it can be a huge red flag. Ezekiel opens up about losing friends once they get married. Abby admits she has researched vasectomies, and Ezekiel tells the listeners his thoughts on it. Abby makes an embarrassing confession about a comment she posted on his TikTok. Ezekiel describes the type of woman he se...2023-01-301h 37The Ope PodcastThe Ope Podcast30. Did You Marry a Narcissist? Part 2 feat Ryan (hatfish)This is part 2 of Abby’s conversation with Ryan. He admits one thing he loved about being married and one thing he’ll miss about being single. Ryan opens up about what question he’d ask his ex. Hear the hilarious story which includes an online narcissist test. Find out if Abby and Ryan still love their exes and if Abby would get back with hers. Find out if men wash their booty. Ryan’s Ope Story includes a stalker and a police chase.2022-12-0540 minThe Ope PodcastThe Ope Podcast29. Till Death Do Us Part feat. Ryan Hatfish (part 1)This is part 1 of Abby’s interview with Ryan aka hatfish. He tells Abby how he felt when he realized Abby told the story of their first date on the podcast (Ep. Tinder is Walmart. Bumble is Target). Ryan planned the perfect first date, but it allegedly wasn’t an original idea. He opens up about his marriage and how he feels about it now that it’s ended. Abby confesses an insecurity she had when they were discussing love languages. Ryan tries to convince Abby to change her mind about weddings. Find out why Ryan is a secret feminist.2022-11-2850 minTrue North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanA Wild Life Episode 2Stever Harper and Indigo Coaching's Abby Cameron continue the conversation on gratitude.   How do you go through challenging times and still feel grateful?  They share personal examples.   Indigo Coaching websiteSchedule a free consultation2022-10-1428 minTrue North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanA Wild Life episode 1Steve Harper and Indigo Coaching's Abby Cameron engage in a conversation about what a RAW life is all about.  Plus they jump into the power of gratitude.  Indigo Coaching  websiteSchedule a free coaching consultation2022-10-1424 minThe Pursuit of HappinessThe Pursuit of Happiness(Ep. 75) The Power of VO2 Max and How to Become the Best Athlete You Can Be with Abby DouekI welcome physical therapist and owner of Run Raleigh PT, Abby Douek on this episode to discuss VO2 max and how it can unlock the information to help us become the best athletes we can be. Abby describes the data from testing VO2 max as pure gold for athletes, as she's worked with players from the NFL, NHL, olympians and even military. With this data, not only can she tell what your fitness level currently is, but what potential you've been leaving on the table and how to tap into it. I can not wait to work with Abby...2022-04-2830 minTrue North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanEpisode 0***We are aware the audio quality of this episode is terrible. It is what it is.***This is the episode that started it all. We met up for coffee for one of our usual amazing conversations, and decided to put my phone on the table to record the whole thing, to see if we could pull off something podcast-like.Production-wise? Hard no.Content-wise? Hell yeah.If you're able to churn through this one, head to S1E1 and listen to us debrief this very recording, sometimes even playing back parts of...2022-03-101h 56True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanThe Great ConjunctionAbby & Ryan debrief the entire 83-episode run of the True North Podcast, and then send each other off with gratitude, love, and a splash of nostalgic sadness.  Seriously. Thank you all. Thank you for being on this journey with us, for watching us grow, and growing alongside us. We added the "with Abby & Ryan" to the title so that you could find our podcast amidst all the other "True North" podcasts out there, but really, it's always been with Abby, Ryan, and YOU. So thank ya for bein' there, thank ya for lovin' us.  With Grat...2022-03-021h 15True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanWe Interview Ryan's Brother!Ryan is a second-born middle child. Anyone who puts stock in birth order dynamics just learned a lot about Ryan from those two pieces of information.In this episode, we interview his older brother Brandon, who has lived in Japan for the past several years. We start by discussing the differences between American and Japanese culture, and what it was like to pack up their entire lives into 16 bags and move across the ocean."I am a specific person. I have specific gifts and abilities that are unique to me, and I also have limitations...2022-02-121h 29True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanAbby & Ryan Are Woo Woo AF**SORRY FOR RYAN'S WEIRD SOUND QUALITY**Ryan is hung-up on people perceiving him as credible, and is therefore hesitant to openly admit to how woo-woo he is. His concern is that there are people out there who blindly trust in things with no solid reason, and so when he opens up about trusting them as well, he'll be lumped in with the non-critical thinking masses who will believe unfounded things with very little scrutiny or need for compelling evidence.He does energy healing but is skeptical of Reiki practitionersHe uses crystals but distances himself...2022-02-051h 10True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanTrust and Soap BoxesWhat is trust, really? In the first 20 minutes, we settle on this loose definition:Trust is about safety. You know what needs to be put in place for you to feel safe.If you feel the need to put them in place yourself (because if you don't, you won't be safe), that's the antithesis of you trusting someone.If you believe the other person will/has put those things in place on their own (such that you don't feel the need to do it yourself), that equals you trusting them. Where do you place y...2022-01-311h 18True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanIs Accidental Growth A Thing?Do you ever notice that you seem to have done personal growth that you have no recollection of actually doing on purpose? Abby says no. Hah. It's more probable your values shifted and you just care less now about things you cared a lot about before.Then we talk about a bunch of other stuff. Just listen to the episode and you'll get it all. Why do you even read these??TIME CODES:3:13 - Accidental Growth?14:48 - Awareness20:28 - Solitude39:35 - Updating our Paradigms49:00 - Love yourself the way you...2022-01-221h 09True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanSelf Awareness, Self Understanding, Self Acceptance.Reference points! We all have a core set of experiences that we use to contextualize all of our new and incoming experiences. In this episode we unpack why this happens and what we can do about it.  “The best predictor of a child's security of attachment is not what happened to his parents as children, but rather how his parents made sense of those childhood experiences.”  ― Daniel J. Siegel, Mindsight: The New Science of Personal TransformationAwareness. Learn what your reference points are, and recognize they're not set in stone.Und...2022-01-151h 07True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanAbby & Ryan Aren't HeteroLast week Ryan said in passing that he's bi. This week, we unpack that.When Ryan says he's bi, what he's saying is that someone's gender neither helps nor hinders his ability to be physically attracted to them. It's not that he discovered a new part of himself, but rather that he released the compulsory heterosexuality he was taught to internalize.If gender is nonbinary, then what's the difference between bisexual and pansexual?How does a married person explore their newfound sexual orientation?In an androgynous world where masculine/feminine expression was decoupled from...2022-01-071h 08True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanAbby & Ryan Talk About GodBefore people can talk about God, they need to define what they mean by the word "God."According to the Tao Te Ching, as soon as you define God, you're no longer defining all of what God is.So, all we can do is question and riff. That's what we do in this episode.Key topics:Can we know what God is?Can we separate God from religion?What is God without religion?What is religion without God? Experiencing God vs. Believing in GodMore topics:The tolerance paradox (r...2022-01-021h 14True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanDifficult Emotions, Soul vs. Personality, Generational TraumaWe live in a culture of "positive" and "negative" emotions, which really comes down to emotions that we're uncomfortable feeling/seeing, and ones we're comfortable with. In this episode, we unpack this framework.There are certain situations where certain emotions are deemed appropriate or inappropriate. But why? People's comfort. Why are they uncomfortable with some emotions? Because they weren't taught to deal with those emotions themselves.Parenting - when it's hard for us to deal with our kids' expression of "difficult" emotions, we do well to check our "why's." Do we want to shut down their...2021-12-171h 06True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanAbby & Ryan Get True NorthyAbby brings the questions and we ruminate on True Northy stuff."Forgive and forget" needs to be replaced by "Forgive and set boundaries." It's less catchy but man does it work better."An eye for an eye" (e.g. death penalty for murderers) is a terrible way to handle wrongdoing."My job in the life of those I love is to make it safe for them to find their own way, without any undue pressure from anyone - including me."  -Ryan's Uncle"Insist on yourself." -Ralph Waldo Emerson"All y...2021-11-051h 07True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanAbby & Ryan Advise Their Past SelvesThe game is simple. Ryan rolls 5 dice, and both of them reveal what they would say if they could talk to the people they were at the age shown on the dice.Also Ryan can't #math.AGES:2:48 - Age 1713:00 - Age 2324:29 - Age 1242:22 - Age 15Fun twist ending: Look yourself in the mirror and tell your present self all the things you told these past versions of yourself.GRATITUDES:Abby is grateful that she went through darkness by which she can understand the light.Ryan is...2021-10-291h 02True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanCan People Change? There's no such thing as "Capital-T Trauma." Emotional trauma is simply any experience that drives us to deny parts of ourselves for the sake of staying safe.Alexithymia (not feeling our feelings) can be attributed to trauma: we have experiences that drive us to close and lock doors in our "mansions of self," but in doing so, we lock away our access to the emotions attached to those experiences. Can we change??Conditioning/programming? Ryan says no, Abby says yes. Ryan eventually says maybe.Actions/behaviors? Abby & Ryan agree that we can ab...2021-10-151h 13True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanAbby Refines Her True North**ANNOUNCEMENT: We are doing a virtual event!!**  "The Art of Dropping Your Defenses: Reframing Your Relationship With Your Armor"  Saturday, October 2, from 1:11 to 4pm CST  $35. Register at truenorth11.com/the-art-of-dropping-your-defenses  ----------------** 'NOTHER ANNOUNCEMENT: Abby is leaving the True North Tribe** ---------------- Following your True North means frequently realigning to make sure you're still headed toward your True North. This can mean letting go of things that served you when you started them, but which don't serve you now.   When reevaluating your commitments/agreements, ask yourself WHY you made...2021-10-011h 04True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanBoundaries vs. Censorship**ANNOUNCEMENT: We are doing a virtual event!!** "The Art of Dropping Your Defenses: Reframing Your Relationship With Your Armor" Saturday, October 2, from 1:11 to 4pm CST $35. Register at truenorth11.com/the-art-of-dropping-your-defenses  ----------------'Nother announcement: Ryan's audio is still bad. Boo.----------------Question from a Tribe member: "Perhaps censorship is when you feel forced to censor you speech/actions from an external source (like someone else is shutting you down) and a boundary is when you choose for yourself not to engage?"  Censorship is controlling what others are allowe...2021-09-251h 10True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanSelf Acceptance, Systemic Misogyny, Sharing Our Stories**ANNOUNCEMENT: We are doing a virtual event!!**"The Art of Dropping Your Defenses: Reframing Your Relationship With Your Armor"Saturday, October 2, from 1:11 to 4pm CST$35. Register at truenorth11.com/the-art-of-dropping-your-defenses----------------Also, Ryan's audio is bad cause computers and software are rude.QUESTION: a) What's a part of yourself you have difficulty accepting? b) What part of yourself do you have no problem accepting?RYAN: a) The parts of me that demonstrate I still have growing to do (TikTok example: https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMRCw1...2021-09-171h 06More Than Tracy TurnbladMore Than Tracy TurnbladNerd Representation Is the Next Frontier with Ryan DonovanThis week, Abby goes on a passionate rant about fat representation (or lack thereof) in books. Then she is joined by theatre scholar Ryan Donovan, whose work focuses on the role body politics play in the casting process. Abby and Ryan discuss body standards for short men, Annie, competitive suffering, historical attitudes toward fatness onstage, thin women who have played Effie in Dreamgirls, Ryan's work regarding disability and LGBTQ+ bodies onstage, and more.Ryan's web site: https://www.ryan-donovan.com/ Ryan's Twitter: https://twitter.com/ryan__donovan?lang=enRyan's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com...2021-09-1356 minTrue North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanGUILT (and a little bit of Patriarchy)**ANNOUNCEMENT: We are doing a virtual event!!**"The Art of Dropping Your Defenses: Reframing Your Relationship With Your Armor"Saturday, October 2, from 1:11 to 4pm CST$35. Register at truenorth11.com/the-art-of-dropping-your-defenses----------------In this episode, we talk about GUILT.“Guilt is anger directed at ourselves — at what we did or did not do.” — Peter McWilliams"Guilt is something abusers use to control you." — a True North Tribe memberDefining our terms:Regret: "I dislike that the past is what it is."Remorse: "I dislike that I contribute...2021-09-101h 03True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanEmotional Maturity**MOST IMPORTANT ANNOUNCEMENT: Abby is on TikTok @indigoabby****SECOND MOST IMPORTANT ANNOUNCEMENT: We are doing a virtual event!!**"The Art of Dropping Your Defenses: Reframing Your Relationship With Your Armor"Saturday, October 2, from 1:11 to 4pm CST$35. Register at truenorth11.com/the-art-of-dropping-your-defenses----------------In this episode, we dig into what emotional maturity means, and venture into discussing emotional regulation and relationship dynamics.Do you come from a place of victimhood or empowerment?Do you own your own shit?Do you own other people's shit?Are you in the...2021-09-031h 13True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanVictim Consciousness, Locating Yourself, HRVQUESTION: Can you operate in victim consciousness AND be in your True North simultaneously?Drama Triangle —> Empowerment TriangleVictim / Persecutor / Rescuer —> Creator / Challenger / CoachYour "True North Self" is not some unassailably healthy version of yourself; it's the version of yourself that:Notices when you're operating in victim consciousnessCompassionately meets yourself where you areRegularly reorients yourself toward your True NorthHow do you move from victimhood into health?Ryan - Realize that it's a better situation for you and everyone around you when you're in health, just as it's...2021-08-271h 08True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanAbby & Ryan Return!! Rest, Growth, AuthenticityWe're switching it up to 10-episode seasons with 2-week breaks between, for the foreseeable future.QUESTION: How are you a different person now than you were at the end of last season?Abby - Learned the importance of restRyan - Accidentally became an influencerCan we make progress without setting goals? Yes. Set intentions instead, and stay in the present, meeting yourself with acceptance and compassion.As we grow and change, it's helpful to assess our goals, values, and definitions, to make sure they grow up with us. If they served us...2021-08-201h 07Frontier FaithFrontier FaithThe Well: Pastor Abby - Part IIWe conclude our conversation with Pastor Abby as she explores what it is like being a pastor today. As Ryan and Nate have explored, it can be challenging. However, it is also full of joy and personal and spiritual growth. Pastor Abby shares her experiences of that joy even as those stories urge us to grow deeper in love. - Join us on our Discord @ https://discord.gg/7n89Nzyv - Share your frontier experience with us on Facebook @frontierfaithpodcast. - Or email us at frontierfaithpodcast@gmail.com. Art: https://www...2021-08-161h 03The Resilient LifeThe Resilient LifeAbby Gustaitis: From Cut to Captain + The Makings of a U.S. OlympianServing as Captain of Women’s USA Rugby Sevens five years after being cut from the squad. Choosing between medical school and being an elite athlete. Standing by her fiance during two rounds of cancer treatment.U.S. Olympian Abby Gustaitis shares her unlikely path to Tokyo and why finding something you’re passionate about always makes the obstacles worth it. CONNECT with The Resilient Life Podcast:Instagram SUBSCRIBE Get the latest video podcast on YouTubeGet the latest audio podcastCONNECT with Ryan Manion on Social Media:Facebook - Twitter...2021-08-0349 minThe Laughing CoupleThe Laughing CoupleS2 E59- Sorry doesn't lead to BJ's w Abby MedcalfJoin us as we sit down for an earth shattering episode with our guest Abby Medcalf, PhD. We promise you this episode will change the way you see your partner.Abby Medcalf is a Relationship Maven, psychologist, author, podcast host and Tedx speaker who has helped thousands of people create happy, connected relationships. Topics: Do you and your partner "Keep Score"  Are you a "fixer" and why? Managing your emotions Don't get mad over something you can pay for Why "Sorry" never works and more....  Connect with Abby:2021-06-0147 minTrue North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanAbby Interprets Ryan's DreamDream analysis is a powerful tool to investigate your interiors. And the best part is, your beliefs about the nature of dreams (random meaningless neuron firings, astral projection, everything in between) have no bearing on how useful this practice can be. It's less about what a dream is and what's "really" happening when we dream, and more about what we do with our dreams in our waking hours. Here's the tool:Narrate your dream in as much detail as possible.Identify symbols (you decide what they are).Become each symbol long enough to answer these two...2021-05-141h 10True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanVisiting the Past & Future, Single-Tasking, and Why Moving Backwards Isn't a ThingVisiting the past and future in healthy ways:Visit, but don't live thereBe mindful of what you bring back to the presentWhat to bring back from the Past: Gratitude.What NOT to bring back from the Past: Remorse, Regret, Self-Judgment, Rumination.What to bring back from the Future: Open-Minded Anticipation.What NOT to bring back from the Future: Fear, Controlling Motivations, Baseless Projection.Regret: "I'm suffering the consequences of what I did."Remorse: "You're suffering the consequences of what I did."If you're habitually in the...2021-05-091h 01True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanNavigating Rough Patches in RelationshipsRyan has recently gotten feedback in two of his close relationships, and we debrief how he's responded, both internally and externally.RSP (Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria) can come into play whenever we receive negative feedback. Perhaps you feel rejected by the other person, but it's also possible you reject yourself, and then react to that self-rejection. It's usually both.A process we settled on:When receiving the feedback, notice how you feel.Feeling defensive or hurt? Acknowledge the feedback, express gratitude for it, and step back to sort out your interiors.Ask yourself what you're...2021-05-071h 01True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanAbby & Ryan Resist Change“Change happens when the pain of staying the same is greater than the pain of change.”- Tony Robbins (probably)WHY DO WE RESIST CHANGE??LOSS. There's a loss, which means pain. Even if there's a gain, it's unknown; the loss is always known. Known is more comfortable than unknown.ANTICIPATION & PREDICTABILITY. A 2016 study showed that "knowing that there is a small chance of getting a painful electric shock can lead to significantly more stress than knowing that you will definitely be shocked." (https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2016/03/160329101037.htm)CONTROL. Intentionally maintaining a painful circumstance give...2021-04-231h 11True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanEmotions, Stories, & Tools to Become More PresentDo your emotions have to attach to stories? Everything but the emotion is in your head."I'm afraid OF ______""I'm happy ABOUT ______""I'm angry AT  ______"IMPORTANT POINTS ABOUT THAT: "Story" doesn't refer to the facts; it refers to what you make those facts mean for you."In your head" and "imaginary" don't mean "not valid" or "not real.""Between stimulus and response, there is a space. In that space is or power to choose our response" -Viktor FranklTurn your Inner Critic into an Inner Advisor:Us...2021-04-161h 02True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & Ryan4 Reasons to Keep Doing Your Thing (And 3 Reasons Not To)Reasons to do your thing:It brings you life.To elicit reactions, positive and negative - NOT to help you hone your content based on the feedback. - BUT to help you decide how much weight feedback should have. (Marcus Aurelius)You have to get through the shit to get to the gold. (quantity over quality)You’ll discover yourself in ways you couldn’t without it.Reasons to stop:When the work is complete (this also applies to relationships).When it FEELS like work (burnout). - NOT “if something feels like work, stop."2021-04-0259 minTrue North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanNot the Humbility EpisodeAbby and Ryan left off last podcast teeing up a follow-up episode about humility. We thought this would be that episode. The Universe had other plans. We sure did try, though. That's a lie. We really didn't. But we think we landed in an okay place.How Abby Manages a Full Plate:Bag it. Ask yourself if it really needs to be done (no. It doesn't)Barter it. Ask yourself if someone else can do it (then ask them to do it)Better it. Ask yourself if it can be done more efficiently (smarter, not harder)2021-03-261h 08True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanConfidence Is...We talk about confidence, what it is, and what it's not. And surprise surprise, we don't exactly see eye to eye on the specifics. And that's part of what makes this thing magical.Definitions!Ryan: Confidence is owning what you are, and not needing to be what you aren't.Abby: Confidence has both positive and negative expressions: negative confidence is a mask you wear to cover up a lack of self worth; positive confidence comes from true self worth, wherein you wholeheartedly love and trust yourself and how you show up.2021-03-191h 10True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanGrowth, Surrender, ConfidenceGrowth.Sometimes, growth is less about discarding old versions of yourself, and more about integrating them.Sometimes, growth is like outgrowing your sweater. If you keep it on after you've outgrown it, it'll suffocate you.Sometimes, growth means forgiving your old selves instead of judging them.Sometimes, growth means learning to validate and value yourself according to your own Inner Pilot Light (thank you, Lissa Rankin), rather than the commentary, reactions, and feedback of others."Forgiveness is giving up all hope for a better past."- Corinne Edwards (paraphrasing Gerald Jampolsky), Love Waits On Welcome2021-03-121h 13True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanThe Four Types of CopingAbby unpacks four types of coping! Ryan takes notes. And has bad audio for some reason.The INEFFECTIVE ways to cope (they lead to burnout, keep you in fight-or-flight, and often exacerbate the problem):Over-Control. Ruminating on the past and potential futures, spinning in your thoughts about a situation or other person.Passive Coping. Complaining, numbing out, checking out, engaging in mindless activities a lot. Avoidance, habitual escapism.The EFFECTIVE ways to cope (they refresh your interior landscape, put you in rest-and-digest, and often help you resolve the problem):Surrender (antidote to over-control...2021-03-061h 07True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanCrying, Forgiveness, Life is Practice**ANNOUNCEMENT**Our interviewee from Episode 31, TONY ISLAS,  is joining our weekly member call on March 16, at 7pm CST just to shoot the shit with our Tribe members! EEK! Sign up between now and then if you wanna hang with him over Zoom for an hour. Doooo it.--------Abby shares that she hasn't been crying lately (and that's not normal for her), and Ryan shares a story that led him to correlate emotional blockage/flow with creative blockage/flow - maybe there's a connection there. We think there most likely is.2021-02-261h 03True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanAbby & Ryan Use Their Voices - Part 4Ryan goes through a list of things over the past three episodes he wanted to say but didn't (ironically). And we discuss the things.The main theme undergirding this conversation is, know what you CAN control, know what you CAN'T, own what you CAN control, and don't own what you CAN'T control. Speaking up because of what might happen if you DON'T is just as bad as NOT speaking up because of what might happen if you DO. Also, fear of what might happen is not a reason not to do something. Also also, i...2021-02-191h 11True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanWe Take a Break, But Invite You to ReflectEpisode 52 - Abby and Ryan take a break this week.  However, we extend an invitation to you to use the time you would have given to listen to this episode to sit in quiet reflection.  In this short episode, Abby briefly talks about what reflection is and what it is not, and offers some helpful guidance on how to use reflection as a tool for understanding, compassion and growth.  Take this opportunity to choose you!  We'll be back next week! GRATITUDES:We are grateful for YOU and where you are on your...2021-02-1204 minTrue North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanAbby & Ryan Use Their Voices - Part 3We close some loops and get all* the words out that we've spent the past two episodes wrestling with for various reasons. Not sure if I need to say this, but you'll need to listen to parts 1 and 2 for any of this to make sense.GRATITUDES:Ryan is grateful for his #bidet .Abby is grateful for her brother-in-law.TIME CODES:1:54 - Abby & Ryan share their experiences of last episode17:47 - Ryan, on monitoring his words more closely30:57 - Abby's biggest growth opportunity this series has shown her: trust yourself2021-02-051h 13True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanAbby & Ryan Use Their Voices - Part 2If you're using your voice, but not grounded in the essence of your true self, then you're not speaking your truth; you're merely speaking your mind. #RTAYou are not responsible for what people do with your words. But YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR WORDS.FISH TANK ANALOGY:You are the water, and your words are the fish.If the water is mucky, the fish will get sick. If you want to maintain their health, you have to tend to each fish, individually, and persistently.If you focus on giving them good clean...2021-01-291h 05True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanAbby & Ryan Use Their Voices - Part 1"Raise your words, not voice. It is rain that grows flowers, not thunder." - RumiStart by knowing where you are:Notice when you want to say something but don't. Why didn't you?Notice when you speak up - standing up for yourself or others, naming your desires, asserting your opinions. Why did you?Notice when you fill silence with unnecessary words. Why did you?Ready to start using your voice confidently? Start where it's safest and slowly expand:Unapologetically use your voice with your most trusted...2021-01-221h 17Finding Your FeetFinding Your FeetEP #40 - Rebuilding From Rockbottom, Cold Water Therapy & Psychedelics with Mindset Coach, Ryan StephensIn this episode we are joined by mindset coach Ryan Stephens who tells his very unique and inspiring life story. Ryan shares how his fear of failure in business drove him to take measures that landed him in prison and why he wouldn't change how it happened for the world. We discuss rebuilding your life from rock bottom and not judging a book by its cover.  We also delve into his passion for cold water therapy, what the benefits are and why he swims in the sea every single day. Finally we cover off his experience with psychedelic drugs t...2021-01-201h 20True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanInner Motivators, Being Our Own People, and Other Lessons From GramsBe present with yourself. You can fuss over the task of living your life, or you can just live it.Do you really want to do the thing?You say you want to do the thing.You consistently don't, and there's always an excuse.Do you really want to do the thing?Reeeaaaally?Check in with your body. See if it wants to do the thing.If so, cut the crap and do the thing. No excuses.If not, take it off your plate and stop saying you want to do it....2021-01-151h 14The Content Experiment PodcastThe Content Experiment Podcast088: Creating Your Own IKEA Funnel with Ryan TurnerFunnels are a huge part of business today. They’re seen as a necessity for running an online business because we all want to automate everything. So, we set up a funnel, turn it on, then sit back to watch the sales roll in. Right? That’s not the way it works. Yes, funnels are great and they’re an incredibly easy way to guide audience members through a path from just getting to know your brand to buying from you and beyond. But funnels aren’t what will save your business. On today’s episode, R...2021-01-1443 minTrue North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanAbby & Ryan Talk About Talking About PoliticsLet's Get P'litical! That pun was so bad.Step 1: Look in the MirrorConsider your audience. Who are you talking to when you say political things? Are you saying it in a way that maximizes the odds that it will be heard?Cognitive Bias is a bitch. Become aware of it, notice when you're doing it, and fucking stop it.Blindly aligning to one side and vilifying the other is a problem, regardless of which side you're on.Your position/opinion is based on the information/beliefs/values you hold, which are based on YOUR experiences...2021-01-081h 12True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanChoose to LiveJust a quick note to say thanks, and that we'll be back.Also, a special note from Abby.Also also, we love you all.Abby & Ryan2021-01-0103 minTrue North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanCentering, Regret, PresenceWhen you say "feelings," you're either talking about emotions or physical sensations. So use those words instead.Feeling agitated/triggered? Focus more on why you're feeling that way and less on the thing that caused those emotions.Regret:Unhealthy - "If I had done X differently, Y would have gone more favorably, and I'm disappointed that it didn't go that way."Healthy - "How could I have been better then, and how can I use that to be better now?"Being present: "What's happening is happening, and it is what it is."2020-12-251h 13True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanHomemaking, Polarization, and a Triggering Facebook PostWe discuss what (you think) the state of your house says about you to visitors,  we debrief Abby's process of working through being triggered by a Facebook post (https://www.facebook.com/photo?fbid=10221270460445886 by Jessica Manuszak, founder of I Love You The Monsters), and riff on how to build bridges with people whose opinions are polar opposites from yours, without compromising your ideals or condoning their behaviors (spoiler alert: it's digging deep enough to see yourself in them, and extending an olive branch to form a meaningful human connection, if one can be made with healthy boundaries and m...2020-12-181h 09True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanRob Bell - Owning Your Story, Doing Your Thing, and Seeing Yourself In OthersOnce upon a time, Ryan did something crazy and asked Rob Bell to be on his podcast. Then, Rob did something even crazier and said yes. In this episode, we discuss finding and following your True North, seeing yourself in others as an antidote to polarization, and why Abby might just be the more religious than she thinks.TIME CODES:6:19 - Seeing ourselves in others17:16 - Finding/following your True North (spoiler: it's Presence)29:00 - "You will have everything you need when you need it"30:28 - Brains trying to solve heart problems31:33...2020-12-111h 00True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanAbby & Ryan Vs. the PatriarchyCORRECTION: Ryan referred to Alison Bechdel as a "he" because he didn't do his homework on who actually created the Bechdel test 🤦‍♂️________________We live in a man-centric world, and there are things men can do with little to no systemic consequence that female, gender fluid, and nonbinary people can't. We dive into gender roles, systemic misogyny, toxic masculinity, and most importantly, what we can do about it."Your genuine action will explain itself, and will explain your other genuine actions. Your conformity explains nothing” - Ralph Waldo EmersonActionable steps to dismantle y...2020-12-041h 16True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanHappy Thanksgiving!!! (or Happy Thursday if you're Ryan)Ryan plunges a normal Thanksgiving conversation right into social justice and racial equality. Don't worry, we recover (at 23:26), but not before addressing the origins of Thanksgiving, and how it might feel to indigenous people that we still celebrate it.Abby has questions!What are you grateful for?How did you come up with your kid's name?What's your favorite way to give back and help others?Who was your favorite teacher?GRATITUDES:Ryan is grateful for the True North TribeAbby is grateful for her BFF BeckyTIME CODES:1:22 - Reconciling...2020-11-271h 07True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanMore ADHD, Naming Our Interiors, Reference PointsAbby & Ryan revisit the topic of ADHD, and dig deeper into how it's a gift. There may be a scientific name for your neurological wiring, but that label doesn't define you. It will present challenges that neurotypical people don't face, but it also presents advantages neurotypical people don't get. You get to choose whether you see it as a blessing or a curse.Diversity is beauty. #rtaName your interiors. Admit what you want, even if it's irrational, unfair, immature, or unreasonable. ESPECIALLY if it's those things. As soon as you say it out loud...2020-11-201h 13True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanAbby & Ryan's One-Year Podcastiversary AMAAbby & Ryan ask and answer audience-submitted questions for a blind AMA!Q'S FOR RYAN:03:11 - What is one thing that might make people think Ryan is crazy?04:32 - Has Ryan found his True North? What is it?09:57 - What would Ryan do with a glue stick, a paper clip, and a rubber band?11:42 - If Ryan could design a super hero that represents him, who would it be?17:49 - What's a song or artist Ryan wouldn't admit that he secretly loves?21:01 - What is the one thing Ryan wants his kid...2020-11-131h 03True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanNeurodiversity, Mindful Muckiness, Burning It All DownRyan has ADHD and Abby is an HSP. We discuss what it's like to live with those traits, and how we feel about how our society views them.Also Ryan is all mucky and weaponizing his gratitude practice to combat the muck. This is not ideal. Abby helps him see that. Here are her five tools for when you're in the dumps and can't get out:Move your bodySocialize (however you can)Practice gratitudeFeel your feelingsEat good shit and don't eat bad shitWe also commiserate on how hard it is to...2020-11-061h 05True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanYou are exactly where you're supposed to be.November is Gratitude Month! Abby themed this year's Gratitude Month around Self Love and Connection. Learn more about the Gratitude Tree Project at indigocoaching.net/gratitude-tree. Make your own - it's literally beneficial to your physical wellbeing, because science.Gratitude offsets negativity bias, boosts feelings of connection and pleasure, and also doesn't happen on its own.Ryan is sharing his self-coaching document, "For When You're Feeling Defensive" at tinyurl.com/FWYFD. Use it when you feel defensive. Save it to your phone. Change it as needed, to meet your own defensiveness situation.Defending...2020-10-301h 06True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanJohn Amaral, DC - Flow, Emotional Release, and the Paradox of Change***IMPORTANT NOTE: ABBY PICKED UP HER SON***Dr. John Amaral DC is an energy practitioner, author, and educator who has worked for more than twenty years helping A-List celebrities, entrepreneurs, athletes, influencers, and thought-leaders elevate their energy so that they feel and perform their best. John has worked hands-on with thousands of people from over 70 countries, utilizing his Energetic Flow approach.John is featured in the GOOP Lab Netflix series with Gwyneth Paltrow and has appeared on numerous podcasts.  He is the founder of the Energy Flow Formula and the Body Centered Leadership programs, which c...2020-10-231h 08True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanAbby & Ryan Coach Each OtherAbby opens up about how lapses in her ritual self-care practices can throw her life into disarray (read: a total #shitshow) and make her more easily triggered by small stuff.Ryan opens up about the arbitrary benchmarks he uses to measure his worth, and the ridiculous metrics he uses to make said measurements.Ryan channeled his dad through his guitar, and the message was "let yourself be what you are."The Four Stages of Competence (2.5 is the sweet spot - the Beginner's Mind):Unconscious incompetenceConscious incompetenceConscious competenceUnconscious competenceTOOLS:...2020-10-161h 09True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanHow To Tell If You're In Your True North: Chocolate Chip Cookie EditionWhat was a good solution for you in the past may be a problem for you in the present. As beings of change and growth, we are moving targets; self love may look different day-to-day. Being present and being an observer are great ways to prevent getting stuck in a way of being that no longer works for you - even if it worked really well for you up until now.All the good shit exists on a higher frequency. Raise your frequency by any means, and all the good shit will be...2020-10-091h 16True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanMarie Manuchehri, RN - Joy, REAL Emotions, Presence"Joy is a high frequency. Your life path is in a high frequency. Your best partner exists in a high frequency. Financial freedom is in a high frequency. Health is a high frequency."^^ You have to train yourself to operate in Joy (see "Layering" below).Words that are active in the physical realm, but have no meaning in the Multi-sensory (spiritual) world: How, What, When, Where, Why. If your question uses one of these words, rephrase it until it doesn't.TECHNIQUES:...2020-10-021h 04True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanARC Healing, Synesthesia, and Prosperity Rituals00:00 - Ryan talks about the ARC healing he did earlier that day.Here are the cards he uses: https://www.highdesertyogi.com/products/build-a-practice-yoga-cardsRyan realizes his synesthesia is a part of his healing modality.Abby adds the missing component to what Ryan brought to his healing client.24:04 - Prosperity Rituals!You are the ritual. You doing the ritual doesn't do anything - the magic is what the ritual does to you.View photos of our prosperity rituals at https://www.truenorth11.com/arc-healing-synesthesia-and-prosperity-ritualsGRATITUDERyan is grateful for his most...2020-09-251h 07True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanTony Islas - Archangels, Super Powers, and the Power of Laughter1:56 - Kambo 101: Frog Medicine3:00 - Tony 101: His back story and abilities#RTA:"Everything is based through emotional connection. The logic comes later.""The dark spaces are opportunities to bring your light."36:36 - Meditation vs. Journeying38:05 - Laughter 101: What it really is and why you should do it.43:28 - Archangels 101: Holy Ninja TurtlesGabriel - Fun & Self-LoveUriel - Wisdom & AdviceRaphael - Healing & ActionMichael - Protection & Guidance51:57 - Tony's Self-Care RitualGround as soon as you wake up.Put up an energetic bubble...2020-09-181h 02True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanAbby & Ryan Have Soul(s)00:00 - Abby & Ryan discuss their feelings on the recent explosive expansion of the True North brand.18:09 - Abby & Ryan go back and forth on the nature of souls.32:40 - We get interrupted by a ghost. Probably. 👻38:38 - Reality is a function of consensus. Yes it is.51:57 - Abby & Ryan sneak in a last-minute convo about chromatherapy! 🌈GRATITUDE: Abby & Ryan are both grateful that they got to hang out that morning.MORE DEETS:Join our tribe at patreon.com/truenorth11Get coaching from Abby at https://www.indigo...2020-09-111h 07True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanFull Moon Rituals, Energetic Release, AlchemyAbby & Ryan discuss their full moon rituals.The Alchemist is the Alchemy - Don't focus on fixing the problem; focus on fixing yourself.Want to be a great [fill in the blank]? Focus on developing as a spiritual being.The more aligned you are with your True North, the more ease you'll experience in working towards it.Emotional Release as a form of Healing:Events create experiences.Experiences create stories.Stories create emotions.If emotions aren't released, the body stores them as energy.Pent-up energy causes disease, disorder, and...2020-09-041h 08True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanAbby & Ryan Still Don't Know What They're DoingAbby & Ryan debrief their thoughts and feelings on how the last few episodes have gone - and why they feel that way.Abby and Ryan are both insecure about being/appearing smart!Abby's response is to say very little.Ryan's response is to overcompensate.There's a difference between critiquing the things you do, and critiquing the person doing them.Limiting beliefs can contain hidden gifts:Abby speaks impeccably and accessibly because of how much time she's spent caring about how well spoken she is.Ryan's actually pretty smart because...2020-08-281h 11True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanDoing You + Considering Others, and How to Love Yourself When Others Won'tOn moving to the next chapter in life:Chances are, if you're still here, there's still something left to learn before you're ready to turn the page.If it's time, you'll know - the Universe will tell you. You just have to know the language and be listening for the message.You're co-creating your life in conjunction with Spirit. It's your discernment PLUS their guidance.On being righteously selfish:Are you moving in your True North? Prioritize yourself. You're already operating in Love & Light and motivated to achieve the highest good of everyone.Are you...2020-08-211h 08True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanIs it Selfish to Disappoint Others for the Sake of Not Disappointing Yourself?One of our patrons started a conversation in our Tribe group about choosing to disappoint others before disappointing ourselves, and whether or not that's selfish.In this episode, we unpack this concept, and throw around our thoughts on various relational arenas it touches:Being willing to shed relationships with people who don't hold space for you to be a whole person.Being detached, yet invested: it's like playing video games.You're not trying to change the other; you're inviting them to partner with you in changing your shared environment.If you think of someone...2020-08-141h 03True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanBeing Safe in Abusive Relationships, and Being in Other People's Business. Again.Abby & Ryan explore the nuances of being a safe place in relationship:What if your partner is abusive?What if you're abusive?What if both people are?Is there ever a time to be in other people's business?When you're watching someone hurt someone else?When it's an act of love for someone else?Abby & Ryan refine their terms. "Being in your business" equals:Do own your shit.Don't avoid owning your shit.Don't own other people's shit.Do avoid owning other people's shit.2020-08-071h 10True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanAbby & Ryan Redefine their Terms - Digging, Presence, Assholery1:17 - Digging vs. Fighting23:36 - Rephrasing Good/Evil, Light/Dark, etc. (spoiler: Presence/Absence)30:20 - The Parable of the Two Warring Wolves (Soul vs. Ego)#RTA: "Under the assumption that your soul comes into this life with a very specific prescription of lessons it wants to learn here, your Ego is a collection of those lessons, expressed through what they would look like if unlearned."42:47 - Abby & Ryan rehash the time he pissed her off 😮🤭😬54:36 - What to do when you feel like an asshole1:00:33 - The Four Leve...2020-07-311h 13True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanSlowing Down, Connecting with our Bodies, Being Present, Turtle Steps.1:14 - How can anyone even begin being able to live in their True North??14:57 - Turtle steps22:15 - Burn it all down28:00 - PresenceI am here.I am here.I am here.37:48 - Disconnection from our bodies = disconnection from our emotions & souls.49:12 - Side note: it's easier to love your body when you quit spending so much time hating it.GRATITUDES:Abby is grateful for the front desk person at her chiropractor's office who met her where she...2020-07-171h 03True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanModeling, Slowing Down, and the Stories We Tell OurselvesWhat story are you telling yourself?"Bad stuff is because of me; good stuff is because of everyone else"Are you the victim the hero?Your suffering isn't caused by what happens; it's caused by how you interpret what happens, and how you feel about that interpretation.7:24 - The widow experience12:02 - ModelingToddler tantrum? Self regulate.Bruce Lee's "the art of fighting without fighting"Let your kids see you express your emotions.18:52 - Slow DownRyan rambles a lot.Ryan also writes...2020-07-101h 12True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanAbby Makes Ryan Cry! Also, More Relationship Stuff - Part 22:30 - Abby believes some people are reincarnated as animals and come back to us as pets.4:50 - Speaking your truth. Abby doesn't do it enough; Ryan does it too much.30:11 - "You are precisely as small as what you allow to annoy you."40:39 - What if your #1 priority in relationship was to be a safe place for the other person?GRATITUDEAbby is grateful for having had space lately to tend to her own soul.Ryan is grateful for his therapist.MORE DEETS:Email us at truenorthpodcast11...2020-07-0358 minTrue North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanAbby Makes Ryan Cry! Also, More Relationship Stuff - Part 11:45 - Ryan's a healer who's not healing anyone. Why??17:38 - Ryan opens up about perpetually feeling inadequate.36:10 - Abby posits that Ryan's life as a healer starts with him healing two very specific past versions of himself.45:00 - Ryan struggles to trust himself to be truly authentic. Abby pushes back.GRATITUDES:Ryan has ugly-cry gratitude for the people in his life who see him for who he truly is - apart from what he does or how he acts - and love what they see.Abby is grateful that, when...2020-06-261h 02True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanAbby & Ryan Re-record a Super Mucky Episode. Pppbpbpbpttttt.1:44 - Telling other people's stories"I experience you as" instead of "you are""What I'm hearing is" instead of "you're saying"9:22 - F-bomb10:20 - Ryan's dead grandfather visited, he has a film shoot coming up, and he's getting sick. Correlation?22:14 - How to be an empath: stand up to your ankles in a trough of dirt.32:07 - F-bomb33:21 - F-bomb33:08 - Abby is avoiding life-giving forces in response to 2020 being an asshole. Ryan invites her to ditch her all-or-nothing mindset and pick up her spiritual practices a little...2020-06-2159 minTrue North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanAbby & Ryan Define their Terms: Vibration, Empathy, Apologies, Love - Part 21:00 - Apologies22:34 - Taking responsibility for pain we cause27:53 - What does it mean to love someone?GRATITUDE:Abby is grateful for the people in her life who show up and meet her exactly where she is.Ryan is grateful that being an Ally is a thing.MORE DEETS:Email us at truenorthpodcast11@gmail.comJoin our tribe at patreon.com/truenorth112020-06-201h 04True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanAbby & Ryan Define their Terms: Vibration, Empathy, Apologies, Love - Part 13:04 - Abby & Ryan incriminatingly reminisce about working at the YMCA.14:40 - Ryan seeks clarity on Abby's use of "vibrational frequency" lingo.25:20 - COVID-19: mask or no mask?42:23 - How to have empathy without being in other people's business56:40 - GRATITUDEAbby's grateful that the pandemic brought her an amazing nanny!Ryan's grateful for two people.Abby's grateful for Ryan's mom: "I'm grateful for, I'm grateful because"2020-05-291h 01True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanThe Enneagram, Gardening, and also Abby's GAY - Part 22:45 - Ryan channeled his second Guide"When a plant is a seedling it is not yet time for it to be an oak. And when it is an oak, it is no longer time for it to be a seedling. But it is never wrong for the seedling not to be an oak. When it is a seedling, that’s all it’s supposed to be, and it is a whole seedling. Nothing is lacking, nothing is incomplete, it has everything it needs. It does not have all the parts of the oak yet. Yet, it has all the...2020-05-221h 00True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanThe Enneagram, Gardening, and also Abby's GAY - Part 13:56 - Why the number 7 is significant to Ryan7:55 - Ryan's rant about the Enneagram41:43 - Abby's aversion to being "put in a box"56:25 - GRATITUDE!!!Abby's grateful that the energy workers are coming out of the energy woodworks.Ryan's grateful that his toddler is sleeping through the night again.RESOURCES:The Road Back To You by Ian Morgan Cron - https://amzn.to/2T9dax3The Goop Lab: https://goop.com/the-goop-lab-netflix/MORE DEETS:Email us at truenorthpodcast11@gmail.comJoin our tribe at patreon.com/truenorth112020-05-151h 01True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanSpirit Guides, Soul Healing, and Talking to Cats - Part 24:44 - Ryan connects some dots from the previous episode.9:08 - Credentials12:00 - Non-modal energy healing15:25 - Soul lessons and bodily problems18:44 - Abby & Ryan are working to make a new healing modality.28:36 - Abby talks about Ryan behind his back! Ah!36:06 - Sarah shows up!Light therapyLanguage carries energyRyan has FOUR spirit guides!54:41 - Gratitudes!Abby is grateful for Ryan.Ryan is grateful that the Universe is talking.Email us at truenorthpodcast11@gmail.comJoin our Tribe at patreon.com...2020-05-0859 minTrue North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanSpirit Guides, Soul Healing, and Talking to Cats - Part 10:57 - YMCA camp names6:13 - The name Sarah/Sara9:26 - Abby's spirit guides22:20 - Interacting with Spirit using non-linguistic communication (Abby stumbled upon this concept by talking to her cat)32:54 - Listening to your body as though it's a spirit guide. Your body is the house of your soul, and your soul is the voice in your head that invites you into your highest good.36:07 - Abby's message to RyanThe body/mind connectionEgo mind vs. Soul mind43:19 - Ryan checks in with his body. Something...2020-05-011h 00True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanAbby & Ryan get Scrappy, Sidetracked, and Sponsored - Part 21:13 - Abby & Ryan debrief a chunk of the Lost Pilot where they talked about "muck people."22:57 - The Number 1127:26 - Ryan's Spirit Guide / Blue Rhino backstory37:09 - Stillness Practice and being Present46:07 - Meditation and the Body/Mind Relationship56:31 - HousekeepingGet 11% off smartphone lenses from www.shopmoment.com/lenses with discount code ABBYANDRYAN until April 30!!Check out our Patreon if you want more True North shit: www.patreon.com/truenorth11.Email us at truenorthpodcast11@gmail.com to subscribe to our newsletter.2020-04-241h 02True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanAbby & Ryan get Scrappy, Sidetracked, and Sponsored - Part 14:11 - The actual show finally starts.5:14 - Ryan talks about his need to feel wanted.8:55 - Desired outcomes vs. actual outcomes.10:45 - Handling the realization that you're not in control of anything13:16 - GOALS24:46 - Ryan's insecurities around his brother31:00 - There's a way to rewire your brain, but Abby doesn't tell us what it is 😭😭😭31:49 - Abby gets super vulnerable talking about why she's angry right now.Medical emergencies during quarantineFreedom, loss, grief, anger40:06 - Abby gets Ryan's feedback on her aversion to technology as a means o...2020-04-171h 04Access Top-Rated Free Audiobooks in Biography & Memoir, MemoirsAccess Top-Rated Free Audiobooks in Biography & Memoir, MemoirsBecoming Eve: My Journey from Ultra-Orthodox Rabbi to Transgender Woman by Abby SteinPlease visit https://thebookvoice.com/podcasts/1/audiobook/414829 to listen full audiobooks. Title: Becoming Eve: My Journey from Ultra-Orthodox Rabbi to Transgender Woman Author: Abby Stein Narrator: Abby Stein Format: Unabridged Audiobook Length: 7 hours 54 minutes Release date: April 14, 2020 Ratings: Ratings of Book: 5 of Total 2 Ratings of Narrator: 5 of Total 2 Genres: Memoirs Publisher's Summary: The powerful coming-of-age story of an ultra-Orthodox child who was born to become a rabbinic leader and instead became a woman Abby Stein was raised in a Hasidic Jewish community in Brooklyn, isolated in a culture that lives according to the laws and practices of eighteenth-century Eastern Europe...2020-04-1403 minTrue North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanFear, Fatherhood, and the Body Compass Meter - Part 20:54 - STATS! We talk about the podcast's numbers so far.11:30 - Ryan reconciles how he has nothing but reverence and respect for his father in spite of how abusive he was.13:57 - The backstory27:49 - Legacy48:17 - Change is always possible49:41 - Living resurrection56:22 - GIVE US FEEDBACK at TrueNorthPodcast11@gmail.com58:53 - Closing GratitudesAbby is grateful for Sarah the Thoughtful Creamer Thief.Ryan is grateful that his friend is starting a blog.2020-03-161h 05True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanFear, Fatherhood, and the Body Compass Meter - Part 15:55 - Abby talks about FEAR.15:00 - Abby reads a quote from "A Return to Love: Reflections on the Principles of 'A Course in Miracles'" by Marianne Williamson:“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, 'Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?' Actually, who are we not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about sh...2020-03-1650 minTrue North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanAbby Convinces Ryan to Stop Job Hunting - Part 25:43 - Ryan's peeing-in-the-car story10:35 - Ryan talks about his Spirit-guided trip down memory lane24:34 - More about Rayron. Ryan repeats a story he already told in the last episode 🤦‍♂️, and I just realized I can use emojis in these! 😬😳😆🤯🤩🥰🥳31:49 - Living in the past, present, and/or future40:20 - Abby tells Ryan why his Guide actually took him down memory lane.46:04 - Ryan formally resigns from job-hunting.Also, 🐼🥔🍟🚽🐨☎️🐢🖼🍩🚘🐃🧜‍♀️🐉🥧That's a pie.It's late and I'm delirious. Shhh.2020-03-1649 minTrue North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanAbby Convinces Ryan to Stop Job Hunting - Part 18:03 - What's new with Abby? Riding a high from a healthy dose of purpose-filled experiences and interactions. Yay Abby!12:38 - The actual quote is, "If you want to bring happiness to the world, help someone else. If you want to bring happiness to yourself, help someone else." And it wasn't the Dalai Lama.13:16 - Simplicity in a Complex World: Charley Johnson @ TEDxSMU: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rugSZIFY7mc14:40 - Why don't people make lifestyle changes they believe would improve their lives?18:52 - What's new with Ryan? Unemployment: get a job, spread your...2020-02-2452 minTrue North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanRyan's Pain, Abby's Anger, and Staying In Your Business - Part 21:38 - Abby talks about why she's angry at herself, and what self-compassion might look like.9:26 - Figment (Abby's challenging inner self) is male. Ryan inquires as to why.17:10 - Pathways to CompassionAbby: HysterectomyRyan: Disconnection38:33 - We judge people when they reflect parts of us we despise.45:47 - We don't react to people as they are; we react to the parts of us we see in them.50:18 - Ryan's 2020 Truths to Live By:Own Your Choices.You Always Have a Choice.Core Takeaways:Be...2020-02-2155 minTrue North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanRyan's Pain, Abby's Anger, and Staying In Your Business - Part 10:00 - Abby & Ryan revise their cover art using a rubber stamp.5:16 - Ryan's revelation about his sciatic pain: crying, exercise, energy healing.33:49 - Abby & Ryan continue debriefing the Pilot.40:42 - Abby's reflections on how she shows up in relationships, and why.Core takeaways:Give your emotions expressionGet curious about them - why they're coming up now, and where they come fromAsk yourself if you really need to be in control of the things you're trying to controlMove your body!2020-02-201h 02True North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanAbby & Ryan Don't Know What They're Doing - Part 2Skip the Recap: 1:373:36 - Exercise as a means to process emotions.3:52 - Backstory on Ryan's Spirit Guide9:58 - Ryan's Guide wants him to exercise.11:23 - Abby tells Ryan why. #SpiritGuideInterpreter16:19 - Ryan is barricading himself against his emotions Hodor-style.17:06 - RYAN BLOWS ABBY'S MIND21:18 - Focus on making progress, not the amount of progress you've made.23:32 - Abby & Ryan pick apart Ryan's bullshit.24:24 - Living as your Essential Self.25:29 - The issues with following your True North while still functioning in society30:23 - Ryan loses his SHIT.30:54 - Backstory on...2019-12-2249 minTrue North with Abby & RyanTrue North with Abby & RyanAbby & Ryan Don't Know What They're Doing - Part 13:04 - Introductions! Abby & Ryan discover neither of them knows what they do, and talk about what this show is. Sort of.7:38 - The actual beginning of the episode15:09 - Abby & Ryan discuss Ryan's issues around wanting to use recordings of his dead dad's voice to create new content.20:35 - It was actually episode 382 of 99% Invisible, not RadioLab.26:00 - The "shout whisper"28:22 - ABBY BLOWS RYAN'S FREAKING MIND28:31 - Ryan talks about the Lion King. His son's name is Brix.32:31 - Abby encourages Ryan to fake courage until he makes courage.32:52 - "...2019-11-1659 minTwin TalkTwin TalkDrama (with Abby Bizzozero) | Ep. 4Abby Bizzozero joins us as we discuss high school drama (theatre drama, not relationship drama), what our experiences have been, and how impactful it is for high schoolers and even college students. Abby is currently a junior at Pembroke High School. If you enjoyed this episode and want to hear more, follow us on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, or wherever you're listening to this. Follow Abby Bizzozero on the following social media platforms: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOxIbKzKLP2eMJUOX_B5ZHA Snapchat: https://www.snapchat.com/add/abbybizz1224 Instagram: https://instagram.com/abbybizz12?utm_source=ig_profile...2018-12-141h 25