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Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
Unfiltered but Not Unkind: Hard Truths About Swinger Etiquette & Communication
Unfiltered but Not Unkind is one of those episodes that needed to happen. In this raw, funny, and deeply honest conversation, Adam & Pris pull back the curtain on the lifestyle behaviors we all quietly side-eye… but rarely say out loud. This isn't a call-out episode. There's no rage, no dunking, and definitely no drama farming. Instead, it's thoughtful honesty, humor, and real talk about swinger etiquette, communication breakdowns, confidence versus self-awareness, and why "just communicate more" is terrible advice when no one explains how. We talk openly about: The difference between confidence and lack of...
2026-02-01
53 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
One-Sided Rules in the Swinger Lifestyle: Insecurity, Control & Communication
What happens when the swinger lifestyle starts to feel less like freedom and more like permission? In this raw and honest Beyond Monogamy Quickie, Adam and Pris unpack a listener confession that hits closer to home than most people want to admit: one-sided rules in the lifestyle. The listener describes a dynamic where her husband controls who she can play with, forbids single men, and ultimately restricts her from being with men at all—while she places no rules on him and genuinely wants him to have the best experiences possible. She agrees to the re...
2026-01-28
29 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
Non-Monogamy, Attachment & Communication — ft. Sex Therapist Martha Kauppi
This episode is a deep, grounded, and powerful conversation. In this episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we sit down with relationship and sexuality professional Martha Kauppi, an AASECT-certified sex therapist, author, educator, and founder of the Institute for Relational Intimacy. Martha works at the intersection of intimacy, attachment, nervous system regulation, and relationship patterns — helping people understand not just what's happening in their relationships, but why it's happening in their bodies, emotions, and connection styles. Together, we unpack some of the most important (and misunderstood) parts of ethical non-monogamy and long-term re...
2026-01-25
57 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
How to Set Up a Gang Bang (Planning, Consent & Fantasy Reality)
This Wednesday Quickie goes places. In this episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we dive headfirst into a real, unfiltered conversation about how to set up a gang bang — not the porn version, but the actual real-life logistics, planning, communication, and consent that go into making a fantasy like this happen. Pris opens up about a long-standing bucket-list fantasy and makes one thing crystal clear: this experience is about her pleasure, her comfort, and her rules. From hand-selecting participants to making sure everyone understands expectations, boundaries, and consent, this episode breaks down why fantasies ta...
2026-01-21
27 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
Luxury Lifestyle Cruises Explained: Inside LLV Club's Adults-Only Travel Experiences
If you've ever seen photos of adults-only lifestyle cruises or hotel takeovers and thought, "That looks incredible… but also a little intimidating," this episode is for you. Adam & Pris sit down with Claudia and Pepe Aguirre of LLV Club (Luxury Lifestyle Vacations) to pull back the curtain on what luxury lifestyle travel actually looks like — from cruises and hotel takeovers to immersive, adults-only experiences around the world. LLV Club is known for blending upscale travel, ethical non-monogamy, education, and real community. You're not just booking a vacation — you're stepping into an experience designed around comfort, consen...
2026-01-18
46 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
Swinger 101: Rules, Boundaries, Jealousy & How to Start Safely
Welcome to Swinger 101 — the episode we wish every curious couple listened to before jumping into the lifestyle. In this Wednesday Quickie, Adam & Pris break down the real basics of swinging in a way only Beyond Monogamy can: honest, funny, raw, and actually helpful. If you're brand new, lifestyle-curious, or still Googling questions at 2am, this episode is for you. We cover what swinging really is (and what it absolutely is not), how it differs from open relationships and polyamory, and why swinging is primarily a sexually-focused branch of ethical non-monogamy. From there, we ge...
2026-01-14
40 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
Non-Monogamy on Your Own Terms: Growth, Jealousy & Freedom with Evita "Lavitaloca" Sawyers
What happens when non-monogamy stops being about labels and starts being about lived experience? In this powerful and deeply honest episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we're joined by speaker, author, and relationship coach Evita "Lavitaloca" Sawyers for a conversation that goes far beyond surface-level polyamory talk. This episode is all about learning how to live non-monogamy on your own terms — not the internet's, not your partner's, and definitely not some outdated rulebook you never agreed to in the first place. Evita shares her personal journey from swinging to polyamory, the emotional ch...
2026-01-11
53 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
Instant Gratification in Sex: Why Finishing Fast Isn't a Failure
Is lasting longer in bed really the goal—or have we been getting it wrong this whole time? In this Wednesday Quickie episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we dive headfirst into a topic that gets whispered about but rarely discussed honestly: instant gratification in sex. After a real-life conversation at the club sparked a bigger realization, Adam and Pris unpack why so many people—especially women—actually prefer when sex doesn't drag on forever. From cultural myths about "five-minute men" to the surprising confidence boost that comes from making someone finish fast, this episod...
2026-01-07
30 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
Polyamory, Jealousy, and Boundaries: Making Non-Monogamy Make Sense with Polyphilia
Polyamory doesn't have to be confusing, chaotic, or emotionally overwhelming. In this episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we sit down with award-winning sex and relationships educator Leanne Yau—the brilliant mind behind Poly Philia Blog—to unpack jealousy, boundaries, emotional security, and why non-monogamy isn't a "phase" or a lack of commitment. Leanne shares how she discovered non-monogamy at a young age, how being cheated on shaped her views of honesty and trust, and why jealousy isn't the villain people make it out to be. We also dive into boundaries, attachment styles, generational shif...
2026-01-04
51 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
Compersion Isn't Automatic: Jealousy, Growth & Real Non-Monogamy
Compersion Isn't Automatic — And That's Completely Normal Compersion gets talked about a lot in ethical non-monogamy — sometimes like it's a requirement, sometimes like it's a badge of honor. But what happens when it just… doesn't come naturally? In this Wednesday Quickie episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we get real about jealousy, emotional processing, missed conversations, and the pressure people feel to "do non-monogamy right." This is a raw, honest conversation pulled straight from real life — no scripts, no coaching language, and no pretending it's always easy. Pris opens up about why compersi...
2025-12-31
36 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
Bi Men in Swinging: Breaking Stigma with United Bi Swinging (Ashley & Rob)
Episode Summary: In this powerful and overdue conversation, Adam & Pris are joined by Ashley and Rob from the United Bi Swinging Podcast to talk openly about bisexual men in the swinging lifestyle, the stigma that still exists even in sex-positive spaces, and why honest communication matters more than labels. Ashley shares how Rob came out early in their relationship and why that honesty laid the foundation for trust instead of fear. Rob opens up about navigating bisexuality as a man in the lifestyle, why bi men often stay invisible, and how judgment — not desire — keeps people sile...
2025-12-28
59 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
Busy Isn't Ghosting: Entitlement, Boundaries & Lifestyle Etiquette
In this Wednesday QUICKIE episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we're calling out one of the biggest turn-offs in the lifestyle: entitlement disguised as "being ghosted." Just because someone doesn't reply immediately doesn't mean they disappeared — it usually means they're busy living a real life. This episode was sparked by a real interaction on Reddit where a lack of instant replies turned into accusations, guilt-tripping, and a crash course in what not to do when talking to people in the lifestyle. We break down: The difference between being busy and actual gh...
2025-12-24
27 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
Sex Work, Swinging, & Gooning: Rae's Real Talk On The Lifestyle
Episode Summary In this spicy, hilarious, and brutally honest episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we sit down with lifestyle newcomer and content creator Rae Crush for a conversation that covers everything from cosplaying as anime cats to navigating entitlement, sex work stigma, hypersexuality, and what it's really like being a single bisexual woman (aka a unicorn) in the lifestyle. Rae shares how she stumbled into the lifestyle, why she immediately felt at home, and how her journey as a content creator naturally overlaps with ethical non-monogamy. We dig into monetization in the lifestyle...
2025-12-21
36 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
Beyond Monogamy Meet & Greet: Club Eden, Content Creators & One Wild Night
In this Wednesday QUICKIE episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we're recapping one of our wildest, sexiest, and most unforgettable nights yet — our official Beyond Monogamy Meet & Greet at Club Eden San Antonio. From arriving early to record a live podcast with content creator Rae, to dancing, pizza breaks, lingerie changes, and multiple unexpected play sessions, this night turned into the ultimate reminder of why we love this lifestyle. We talk about: Hosting our first Beyond Monogamy meet & greet at a lifestyle club Recording a podcast inside Club Eden before doors opened Being li...
2025-12-17
35 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
The Original Swingers: Sam L. Feldman on Hookups, Hiccups & Freedom
SUMMARY Ever wonder what the original sexual revolution really looked like? Before there were swinger apps, lifestyle websites, or even the term "ethical non-monogamy," there were people just living it — raw, real, and unapologetic. In this week's episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we sit down with Sam L. Feldman — author of Hookups, Hiccups, and Happenstances — to talk about what life and love looked like in the 60s and 70s when freedom was brand new, communication was everything, and consent was just starting to evolve. From key clubs and the dawn of "no-fau...
2025-12-14
42 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
QUICKIE Confessionals: Swinger Secrets, Rejections & Real Talk
This Week's QUICKIE: Confessionals This week's QUICKIE goes deep into the Beyond Monogamy Confessional — the anonymous submission box where listeners spill their wildest lifestyle stories. Adam & Pris read through real confessions about losing interest in the lifestyle, navigating rejection, and the never-ending battle with "horny brain." From saying no gracefully to balancing trust in BDSM play, it's equal parts sexy, funny, and real-life relatable. They also shout out The Happy Swinger for the handmade gifts (yes, including a penis whistle), talk about their live hotel-takeover show that almost survived the tech gods, and sh...
2025-12-10
34 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
Ms. Nookie on Making Consent Sexy & Dating Without Losing Your Damn Mind
🎧 This Week on Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris This week we sit down with the one and only Ms. Nookie — certified love coach, founder of The Love Mastery Institute, and creator of the oh-so-clever Nookie Notes. She's teaching us how to date smarter, flirt with intention, and communicate like grown-ass adults — without killing the vibe. From turning consent into foreplay to surviving the modern dating apps (spoiler: it's a shark tank out there), Ms. Nookie keeps it real, funny, and refreshingly human. Whether you're a swinger, poly, ENM, or just relationship-curious, this episode is packed with tr...
2025-12-07
1h 02
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
QUICKIE: Holiday Stress, Libido Slumps & Lifestyle Survival
QUICKIE: Holiday Stress, Libido Slumps & Lifestyle Survival Hosts: Adam & Pris Series: Beyond Monogamy — Wednesday QUICKIE Episode Summary (SEO-Optimized) Holiday stress hits hard — and yes, it can put your libido on ice. In this candid QUICKIE, Adam & Pris get real (and hilarious) about December's money crunch, mental overload, and what to do when "just not in the mood" becomes the default setting. They unpack how finances and old triggers collide with lifestyle plans, why connection matters more than performance, and how to reset as a couple when the season gets heavy. Ex...
2025-12-03
35 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
From Temptation to Transformation: How Tropical Unicorn Travels Redefines Lifestyle Vacations
Episode Summary Adam & Pris sit down with Jhannyphil Contreras of Tropical Unicorn Travels to unpack the real world of lifestyle-friendly travel—from Temptation Resort vibes to practical safety tips, payment-plan budgeting, and how to pick the right adults-only resort for your energy. We get candid about community, confidence, and body acceptance, and how a thoughtful, drama-free plan can turn any couples' getaway into something unforgettable. If you've been curious about Temptation Cancun, Hedonism in Jamaica, group trips, or simply want a romantic, private escape that fits your budget and boundaries, this episode gives you a step-by-step feel fo...
2025-11-30
43 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
1 Year of Beyond Monogamy: How We Grew, Loved, and Laughed Through Non-Monogamy
🎙️ 1 Year of Beyond Monogamy: How We Grew, Loved, and Laughed Through Non-Monogamy Summary & Show Notes: Adam & Pris celebrate a wild 365 days of Beyond Monogamy — from nervous first recordings to international guests and unfiltered confessions. In this honest, hilarious, and heartfelt anniversary episode, they reveal how the podcast changed their marriage, deepened their communication, and strengthened their connection inside and outside the lifestyle. They share favorite moments, biggest lessons, raw behind-the-scenes stories, and the truth about juggling love, libido, and life on air. Whether you're a new listener or a long-time fan, this episode proves that honesty, humor...
2025-11-26
1h 23
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
Inside Pineapple House TX: The Houston Couple Redefining Lifestyle House Parties
What happens when a couple turns their home into one of Houston's most talked-about lifestyle destinations? Adam and Pris sit down with Nicole and Isaac, founders of Pineapple House TX, for an open, hilarious, and eye-opening conversation about what it takes to build a judgment-free space for connection, curiosity, and seriously sexy fun. They talk about how it all started, the challenges of throwing house parties in the lifestyle, and what separates Pineapple House TX from anything else in the Houston scene. From custom-built themed rooms and a fully functional (and classy) glory wall, to screening guests...
2025-11-23
47 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
QUICKIE: Mental Health & The Lifestyle
Mental Health & The Lifestyle: Depression, Anxiety, Jealousy & the Parts Nobody Talks About In this week's Beyond Monogamy Wednesday QUICKIE, Adam & Pris crack open a conversation most lifestyle folks avoid: mental health. From depression that hides behind humor, to feeling unwanted in LS spaces, to the pressure of always "being on" because of content creation, this episode gets raw, honest, and deeply needed. Adam opens up about a form of depression that doesn't look like the stereotypical "can't get out of bed" kind — it looks more like working nonstop, smiling through the storm, and masking with jokes. Pris sh...
2025-11-19
36 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
The Lifestyle Is for Everyone: Inclusivity & Texas Desires Hotel Takeover
The Lifestyle Is for Everyone: Inclusivity & Texas Desires Hotel Takeover Episode Summary This episode opens with a listener voicemail from a lesbian couple asking how they fit into the lifestyle—so we break down inclusive, real-world guidance for same-sex couples navigating LS spaces, boundaries, and community. Then we sit down with Texas Desires to preview their Naughty & Nice Hotel Takeover in San Antonio, Dec 5–6, where we'll be recording a live Beyond Monogamy podcast. Expect a true full-property buyout (not just a "top-floor party"), flat $500 room rate (king for 2 or double-queen for up to 4), BYOB, and upgraded breakfast incl...
2025-11-16
54 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
Inside the Mind of Adam: Love, Chaos & Building a Beyond-Monogamy Marriage
Inside the Mind of Adam: Love, Chaos & Building a Beyond-Monogamy Marriage Episode Type: QUICKIE Show: Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris What keeps a man grounded when life, love, and the lifestyle all collide? In this fun, raw, and real QUICKIE, Pris flips the mic on her husband and co-host, Adam, to dig deep into how he balances it all: a fiery wife, a busy podcast, family life, and the ups and downs of non-monogamy. From jealousy and communication struggles to menopause, ADHD, finances, and the messy moments in marriage, Adam gets vulnerable about what it...
2025-11-12
37 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
Inside Austin's Oldest Adult Store: Exploring Sex Toys, Local Pleasure Brands & Flirting in the Lifestyle
🎧 Inside Austin's Oldest Adult Store: Exploring Sex Toys, Local Pleasure Brands & Flirting in the Lifestyle Step inside Austin's legendary adult boutique, Forbidden Fruit, with Adam & Pris for a wild and hilarious live recording of Beyond Monogamy. In this special episode, the duo explores the shelves of Texas' oldest adult store — surrounded by locally made toys, leather gear, art, and laughter — while diving into the unspoken rules of flirting in the lifestyle. From favorite toy confessions and lube mishaps to open talk about pleasure, body confidence, and communication, this episode blends real education with the humor and hon...
2025-11-09
45 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
Lifestyle Events 101: How to Survive (and Thrive) at Your First Swinger Party
Quickie Episode • Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris Lifecycle Events 101: How to Survive (and Thrive) at Your First Swinger Party First link (all details & tickets): See Our Events Calendar Episode Summary Nervous about your first lifestyle event? We've got you. In this Quickie, Adam & Pris get real about first-timer anxiety, how to find the right events, what to expect once you're there, and simple ways to meet people without feeling overwhelmed. We also share details for two big meetups: our November 8th Meet & Greet at Forbidden Fruit (Austin) and the December 5–7 Naughty & Nice Hotel Takeover in San...
2025-11-05
39 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
Jealousy, Labels & Latino Love: Psychologist Jaime Gama on Ethical Non-Monogamy, Swinging vs. Poly, & Building Community
In this powerful and refreshingly funny conversation, Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris sits down with psychologist, Gestalt therapist, creator of Gotitas de Poliamor, and author Jaime Gama to unpack what it really takes to thrive in ethical non-monogamy. We dive into jealousy vs. compersion, swinging vs. polyamory, boundaries, Latin culture, and unlearning shame—mixing research-backed wisdom with real-life stories. 💧 Jaime's work: www.gotitasdepoliamor.com 🌐 Our site: www.beyond-monogamy.com 📻 Listen on FullSwapRadio (Thursdays 1 PM & 6 PM CST): FullSwapRadio.com ❤️ Support us on Patreon: @beyondmonogamywithadampris CTA: If you enjoyed this episode, please like, subscribe, share, and leave a review on whatever pla...
2025-11-02
1h 05
Parlons audio-vidéo avec José Adam
La transition de Maison Adam avec Guillaume Thivierge et Tristan Bobée
Dans cet épisode plus particulier, José laisse de côté l'audio-vidéo un instant pour s'entretenir avec les nouveaux copropriétaires de Maison Adam qui ont pris la relève depuis octobre 2024. José discute avec Guillaume et Tristan du déroulement de cette transition, de leurs défis et réussites, ainsi que de leurs projets pour l'avenir avec l'équipe de Maison Adam. En tant que fondateur de cette belle entreprise familiale, José partage également son expérience de la transition ainsi que quelques témoignages des employés. Une discussion sincère et forte intéressante pour tout entrepreneur a...
2025-10-29
55 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
QUICKIE: Spotted! When Your Vanilla Life Crashes the Lifestyle
Spotted! When Your Vanilla Life Crashes the Lifestyle Podcast: Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris Sometimes you're vibing at a lifestyle club—lights low, bodies moving, drinks flowing—and boom… someone from your vanilla life walks in. Your coworker. A family friend. Someone from the PTA. 😳 Now what? In today's Wednesday QUICKIE, Adam & Pris break down exactly what happens when you get SPOTTED in the wild… and how to turn that panic moment into a confident lifestyle win. From awkward introductions to "keep your eyes up" territory, this episode shares a real-life run-in that ended up be...
2025-10-29
36 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
Transforming Love: Jessica Fern & David Cooley on Shame, Attachment & Polywise Relationships
Jessica Fern & David Cooley on Attachment, Resentment & Rewriting the Rules of Non-Monogamy Guests: Jessica Fern (author of Polysecure, Polywise, and Transforming the Shame Triangle) and David Cooley (restorative-justice facilitator, creator of Restorative Relationship Conversations). Episode Summary In this heart-to-heart, Adam & Pris sit down with Jessica Fern and David Cooley to go deeper than "What is polyamory?" They unpack attachment styles, why resentment is jealousy's sneaky cousin, and how the Shame Triangle (inner persecutor, inner victim, inner rescuer) quietly shapes conflict—and how to transform it with practical tools rooted in IFS and restorative practices. The co...
2025-10-26
59 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
QUICKIE: The Great Expectations
The Great Expectations Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris Episode Summary In The Great Expectations, Adam & Pris get real about one of the trickiest parts of ethical non-monogamy: managing what you think is going to happen versus what actually happens. From club nights that don't go as planned to the pressure of "performing" in lifestyle settings, they unpack how expectations—ours, our partners', and everyone else's—shape attraction, confidence, and connection. This candid, funny, and raw conversation explores emotional intelligence, insecurity, chemistry, and the myth of having "no expectations." Spoiler: everyone has them, and that...
2025-10-22
38 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
This Kind of Girl: UK Writer Rosie Kay on Non-Monogamy, Bisexuality & Breaking Lifestyle Stereotypes
This Kind of Girl: UK Writer Rosie Kay on Non-Monogamy, Bisexuality & Breaking Lifestyle Stereotypes Ethical Non-Monogamy Bisexuality Confidence & Consent Lifestyle Culture Episode Summary In this bold and beautifully honest episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we head across the pond to chat with UK writer, educator, and ethical non-monogamy coach Rosie Kay, the voice behind thiskindagirl.co.uk. Rosie pulls back the curtain on what it really means to live ethically non-monogamous in today's world—far beyond the clichés of "swingers in suburbia." From discovering her bisexuality in her teens to fin...
2025-10-19
52 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
Forbidden Fruit: How Austin's Oldest Adult Store Kept Sex Positive Since the '80s
Beyond Monogamy • Austin, Texas Forbidden Fruit: Keeping Austin Sexy Since the '80s An exclusive conversation with owner Lynn Raridon about education, community, and an Austin icon. Listen to the Episode | Spotify | Apple Podcasts | YouTube | FullSwapRadio (Thu 1 & 6 PM CST) The Story of an Austin Icon We sit down with Lynn Raridon, owner of Forbidden Fruit, Austin's beloved sex-positive boutique and education hub. From the early 1980s to today, Forbidden Fruit has blended sexual empowerment, community connection, and hands-on education—long before "sex positivity" was a hashtag. From Punk Rock to Pleasure Revolutio...
2025-10-15
48 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
Latino Heat In The Lifestyle: Dulce & Angel's Journey from Event Planners to Swing Club Owners
In this electrifying episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we head west to Los Angeles to meet Dulce and Angel, the powerhouse couple behind Tentaciones Club — one of the hottest new lifestyle destinations in Southern California. Tentaciones isn't just a swingers' club; it's a movement. Built with passion, culture, and a whole lot of reggaetón energy, this Latino-owned lifestyle club blends music, sensuality, and community into one unforgettable experience. Angel and Dulce share how they transformed their 20-year relationship, event-planning expertise, and deep ties to LA's Latino community into a sex-positive safe space whe...
2025-10-12
53 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
QUICKIE: Sexual Assault in the Lifestyle: Why Consent Still Matters in Swinging and Non-Monogamy Spaces"
In this powerful and necessary Beyond Monogamy Quickie, Adam and Pris set aside the usual flirty fun to tackle one of the most difficult but crucial conversations in the non-monogamous community — sexual assault in the lifestyle. It's uncomfortable. It's raw. But it's happening more often than people want to admit. Adam and Pris share personal experiences, listener stories, and hard truths about how boundaries get crossed, why consent isn't a one-time agreement, and how alcohol, pressure, and silence enable abuse inside supposedly "safe" spaces. From club scenes and takeovers to one-on-one dates, the duo breaks do...
2025-10-08
31 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
Beyond Monogamy Meets The Swing Nation: Origin Story, Clout, and Community
Adam & Pris sit down with Dan & Lacy—aka The Swing Nation—for a candid, funny, and surprisingly tender conversation about what it really takes to build a lifestyle brand while staying real as a couple. They share how an overseas deployment, COVID, and a spicy OnlyFans idea snowballed into viral TikToks, a top-rated podcast, and a nationwide community. We get into boundaries, why "no sex required" is a perfectly valid club night, how to spot clout chasing, and the weirdness of being both hosts and humans at their own events. They open up about social anxiety, shadowbans, sponsors, and what...
2025-10-05
57 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
QUICKIE: One Bad Swinging Experience: How to Bounce Back in the Lifestyle
In this Beyond Monogamy Quickie, Adam & Pris get real about the impact of bad swinging experiences and why one flop doesn't have to end your lifestyle journey. From erectile dysfunction struggles to mismatched vibes and awkward first encounters, they break down the most common reasons people walk away after a negative night — and how to process, communicate, and bounce back stronger. Adam shares why he believes in second chances and growth, while Pris explains why her instinct is to shut it down after one bad vibe. Together, they show how balancing those approaches can save your confidence, protect your re...
2025-10-01
29 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
Non-Monogamy & The Law: Jonathan Lane on Custody, Contracts & Protecting Non-Traditional Families
Family law gets real when you're living outside the box of traditional monogamy. In this episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we sit down with Maryland/DC attorney Jonathan Lane, a polyamorous lawyer who specializes in ethical non-monogamy, custody battles, divorce, inheritance, and family protections. Jonathan breaks down everything ENM and polyamorous families need to know about child custody risks, de facto parent status, divorce disputes, property ownership, wills, medical directives, employment discrimination, and how judges actually view non-traditional families in court. Whether you're a swinger, poly, or exploring ENM, this is one of...
2025-09-28
48 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
When They Want My Spouse but Not Me: Handling Rejection in Ethical Non-Monogamy
Hey y'all — before we get into today's QUICKIE, we need your help. If you love hanging out with us every week, please take a minute to leave us a review, hit that subscribe button, and share the show with your friends. It may not seem like much, but reviews are the lifeblood that keep Beyond Monogamy growing. It only takes a few seconds, and it helps us reach more open-minded, curious, and lifestyle-friendly listeners just like you. 💬 About This Episode In today's QUICKIE, Adam & Pris dive into one of those ouch moments almost every couple in the lifes...
2025-09-24
38 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
Savage Swingers Unleashed: TikTok Fame, Lifestyle Myths & Honest Conversations
👉 Show us some love! Leave a review & help Beyond Monogamy grow: Review on our website Review us on Apple Podcasts Review us on Spotify 👉 Join our communities & connect with us off the mic: Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy Discord: Join here 👉 Get spicy perks: Sign up for SDC with promo code 38236 🎧 Episode Summary What happens when TikTok meets the swinger lifestyle? In this episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we sit down with Amber & Jeff—better known as the Savage Swingers. With their bold, funny, a...
2025-09-14
42 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
QUICKIE: Lifestyle 101 Series - Having The "Lifestyle" Talk With Your Partner
Review, Connect & Join Our Community 👉 Leave us a review on our website 👉 Review us on Apple Podcasts 👉 Review us on Spotify 👉 Join our Reddit community 👉 Join our Discord community 👉 Sign up for SDC.com with our link (Promo code: 38236) Episode Summary – QUICKIE: Having The Talk Starting the journey into ethical non-monogamy isn't about parties or dating apps—it begins with a single conversation: how do you even bring this up with your partner? In this Lifestyle 101 Wednesday QUICKIE, Adam & Pris get raw, funny, and brutally honest about what that first talk looked like for them (spoiler: it wasn't perfect) and wh...
2025-09-10
32 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
Beyond Fantasy: Francesca Gentille on Kink, Jealousy & Keeping Passion Alive
In this powerful and deeply intimate conversation, Adam & Pris sit down with Francesca Gentille — internationally recognized teacher, coach, and author — to explore the intersections of trauma healing, sacred kink, non-monogamy, and empowered aging. Francesca opens up about her own journey: from childhood as a natural counselor, to studying psychology, tantra, BDSM, and shamanic practices that connect fantasy with healing. She breaks down the roots of modern kink, leather culture, and polyamory, while challenging myths that label kink as "just trauma" or non-monogamy as "abnormal." Together, we dive into: How fantasies are shaped by trau...
2025-09-07
1h 16
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
Quickie Confessions: Our First Time, Fumbles, and Lessons Learned
✨ Beyond Monogamy — Episode Summary & Show Notes 👉 Show us some love! Review us on Spotify: Click here Review us on Apple Podcasts: Click here 💬 Join our Discord community: https://discord.gg/SY8K3n78 🎙️ Episode Summary In this week's episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we dive deep into the world of ethical non-monogamy, swinging, polyamory, and everything in between. We talk real stories, messy moments, and the kind of raw honesty you won't find anywhere else. If you've ever wondered what it's actually like to navigate relationships beyond traditional monogamy, this episode is...
2025-09-03
36 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
Hook, Line, and Lie: When Catfish Swim into the Lifestyle
👉 First things first—review us now and help our community grow! Click here: https://www.beyond-monogamy.com/reviews/new/ Your reviews aren't just kind words—they're fuel. They help us climb the podcast charts, bring in more incredible guests, and keep the conversation about ethical non-monogamy real, raw, and unfiltered. So hit that link, drop a few stars (we love the shiny 5's ✨), and let us know how we're doing. 💻 Episode Summary This week on Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we're diving into a topic that every swinger, poly couple, and ethically non-monogamous adventurer should have on thei...
2025-08-31
59 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
QUICKIE: Cum Talk – Love It, Hate It, or Wipe It Off?
In this spicy QUICKIE, Adam and Pris dive into one of the stickiest topics in sex and the lifestyle: cum. From facials to cream pies, swallowing to spitting, they explore what men and women really feel about it — the turn-ons, the turn-offs, and the unspoken rules around consent. They share their own stories, laugh at awkward encounters, and break down why porn sets up unrealistic expectations. They also touch on lifestyle etiquette, the psychology of cum play, and how diet and habits affect taste. As always, it's raw, unfiltered, and hilariously real. ✍️ Show Notes (SEO-Heavy) Title: QUICKIE: Cum Ta...
2025-08-27
46 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
Love, Lust, and Lifestyle: Paul Keable Joins Beyond Monogamy
In this week's episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we sit down with Paul Keable, Chief Strategy Officer at Ashley Madison, the world's #1 married dating app with over 85 million members worldwide. Far from being just a platform for secret liaisons, Ashley Madison has become a fascinating case study in how technology, desire, and changing social norms are reshaping conversations around non-monogamy, intimacy, and discretion. Paul shares insider insights on why people seek out alternative relationship styles, what their massive trove of real-world data reveals about the future of monogamy, and how 20% of members now identify as "...
2025-08-24
1h 04
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
QUICKIE: Lifestyle Stereotypes — Truth or Total BS?
In this week's Beyond Monogamy QUICKIE, Adam & Pris break down the most popular swinger stereotypes — testing each one to see if it's truth… or total BS. From pineapples and hot tubs to midlife crises and "porno-sized Johnsons," nothing was off-limits in this hilarious 30-minute myth-busting ride. 🕒 Episode Timeline Highlights [00:02] – The "All Swingers Are Hot" Myth Adam & Pris admit they once thought swingers were all gym-bodied models. Reality check? Swingers come in all shapes, sizes, and vibes. Ads and social media only show the "highlight reel." Real life = regular people who just happen to be into consensual non-monogamy. [0...
2025-08-20
33 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
When the Big "O" Doesn't Happen: How It Feels on Both Sides
What happens when the orgasm just… doesn't show up? In this week's episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we dive deep into the world of orgasms (and the lack thereof). From the awkwardness of faking it, to the insecurities people face when their partner can't "finish," to the myths surrounding male and female orgasms — nothing is off limits. Adam and Pris get personal, funny, and brutally honest about their own experiences in the swinging lifestyle and ethical non-monogamy. They share stories of performance anxiety, distractions, delayed ejaculation, women who take a long time (or never) to orga...
2025-08-17
1h 01
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
QUICKIE: Too Much Sex? Or Not Enough?
In this steamy QUICKIE episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, your favorite lifestyle couple takes a cheeky, unfiltered dive into the question: How much sex is too much… and how little is too little? Adam and Pris pull back the sheets (literally) to share their own hyper-sexual reality — averaging multiple sessions a day — and compare it to national averages showing most couples only get intimate once or twice a week. This fun, candid conversation covers mismatched libidos, how to keep sex exciting after years together, the realities of high sex drive relationships, and how lifestyle couples often...
2025-08-13
32 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
Examining The Lull: When the Lifestyle Goes from Hot to...Not
In this candid and unfiltered episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, your favorite tattooed duo takes on a topic every swinger, poly, and ethically non-monogamous couple hits sooner or later—the dreaded Lifestyle Lull. From burnout after back-to-back events, to the toll of repetitive routines, Adam & Pris share their own "meh" moments, why they happen, and the real-life ways they've reignited their spark without breaking boundaries. You'll hear the behind-the-scenes truth about juggling a packed LS schedule, family life, work, and the mental/emotional load that comes with always being "on" socially and sexually. They get in...
2025-08-10
1h 00
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
Adam's Birthday Weekend Recap: A Celebration To Remember
his is the one you've been waiting for... 😈 We're recapping EVERYTHING from Adam's big birthday weekend — the swinger club, the Airbnb takeover, the sexy chaos, the unexpected drama, and yes… the lap dances, public play, and post-party recovery. 🎂🔥 From nervous planning to wild partying, Adam & Pris take you behind the scenes of their epic 60+ person hybrid house party in Bulverde, Texas — featuring sex-positive vibes, a projector playing porn over a mattress (yes, really), poolside fun, and a few communication hiccups along the way. This is the real, raw (and sometimes messy) look at what it's like...
2025-08-07
43 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
Pre-Birthday Party: The Calm Before The Storm
🎙️ Episode Summary: In this fun, flirty, and candid episode, Adam and Pris take you behind the scenes of their wildest birthday celebration yet! Recorded from their luxe Airbnb in Bulverde, Texas, this episode is a warm-up to Adam's 43rd birthday bash—complete with poolside vibes, swinger shenanigans, sexy basketball-themed outfits, and over 60 guests expected. They reflect on what it means to truly celebrate within the lifestyle, from their early days of not getting invited to house parties to now throwing their own hybrid event—a party that blends socializing and sexy play. They share personal stories about their Fri...
2025-08-05
1h 03
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
QUICKIE: Hole Pass: The Anal Episode Revisited
🔥 Episode Summary: In this no-holds-barred Wednesday QUICKIE, Adam and Pris dive back into the world of booty business in the most Beyond Monogamy way possible. From their own hilarious and personal experiences to prepping disasters, myths, curiosity, and boundaries, this episode is full of laughs, real talk, and some serious honesty about all things backdoor. Whether you're a curious first-timer or a seasoned seat captain, you're gonna want to hear this. Oh — and yes, we're still locking the back door… for now. 📝 Show Notes: Topics Covered: Boozy backdoor requests (yes, drunk Pris is bold!) Anal pr...
2025-07-30
30 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
Inside the Mind of a Unicorn: Jessica Tells All
This week on Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we're diving horn-first into the mysterious world of unicorns—those rare, magical, and often misunderstood single bisexual women in the lifestyle. Our guest Jessica, a self-proclaimed unicorn and seasoned swinger, opens up about discovering her sexuality, navigating the lifestyle solo, dealing with unicorn hunters, and knowing her worth in a world that sometimes forgets to ask. From her upbringing in a swinger household (yes, really!) to the lessons learned through poly pitfalls and fantasy fulfillment, Jessica doesn't hold back. We talk red flags, relationship dynamics, and the art of em...
2025-07-27
1h 01
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
Let's Talk Aftercare: Cuddles, Communication, and That Reclaim Magic
Aftercare isn't just for kink! In this intimate and hilarious QUICKIE, Adam & Pris share their personal journey navigating aftercare in the swinger lifestyle—from disconnection and insecurity to reclaiming, cuddling, and late-night drive-thru confessions. They get real about how aftercare plays out after playdates, poly dynamics, and even sexy video calls. Whether you're a seasoned swinger or just exploring, this episode offers insight, laughs, and maybe a few "oh shit, that's us" moments. 📋 Show Notes: In This Episode: What aftercare really means in swinging—not just kink. Pris's early disconnects and emotion...
2025-07-23
39 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
When You're Up & They're Down: Loving Through The Lows
What happens when one half of the couple is ready to party and the other just wants to crawl under a blanket and hide? In this raw, real, and brutally honest episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, your favorite lifestyle couple opens up about the emotional hangover that came with a steamy swinger beach takeover that didn't quite go as planned. With Pris battling sinus hell and Adam riding a tidal wave of sexual energy, tensions rose, communication faltered, and an epic (but educational) clash ensued. From missed signals and mixed emotions to makeup conversations and...
2025-07-20
55 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
QUICKIE: Animal Cockblocks & Bedroom Interruptions: A Pet Peeve QUICKIE
n this laugh-out-loud QUICKIE episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we're talking about the real MVPs of lifestyle interruptions: our pets. Ever tried to get down and dirty only to be stared down by your dog? Or have a cat walk across your back mid-thrust? You're not alone. From sex-curious Labradors to judgmental chihuahuas, this episode dives into the hilariously awkward reality of being a swinger with fur babies in the house. We're sharing our own stories (yes, Pris once had to bribe a cat with ham) and reading hilarious listener tales of animal...
2025-07-10
32 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
QUICKIE: Animal Cockblocks & Bedroom Interruptions: A Pet Peeve QUICKIE
In this laugh-out-loud QUICKIE episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we’re talking about the real MVPs of lifestyle interruptions: our pets.Ever tried to get down and dirty only to be stared down by your dog? Or have a cat walk across your back mid-thrust? You're not alone. From sex-curious Labradors to judgmental chihuahuas, this episode dives into the hilariously awkward reality of being a swinger with fur babies in the house.We’re sharing our own stories (yes, Pris once had to bribe a cat with ham) and reading hilarious listener tales of a...
2025-07-09
32 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
Queer, Curious & Candid: Catching Up with Jeremy
In this special guest episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, the duo reunites with Jeremy, Adam's high school friend, for a raw and heartfelt conversation about sexuality, identity, and acceptance. Jeremy, who is openly gay and outside the lifestyle, shares his unique perspective on queer experiences, chosen family, and how judgment plays out both inside and outside the lifestyle community. The trio dives into meaningful discussions about dating apps, dealing with shame, and the power of having spaces where people feel safe being their authentic selves. It's part reunion, part revelation—full of laughs, reflection, and insight into ho...
2025-07-06
1h 18
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
The High Costs of Swinging: An Honest Look
In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, hosts Adam and Pris dive into the financial realities of swinging. They discuss the various costs involved in the lifestyle, from babysitting fees to subscription-based websites, and how it can quickly add up. Adam and Pris share their personal experiences of navigating these expenses with limited budgets in the beginning. They touch on essential costs like grooming and gym memberships, and discuss strategies for managing these expenses. This episode provides a candid look at the financial commitments involved in the swinging lifestyle, offering practical advice for those willing to explore this lifestyle on...
2025-06-29
1h 03
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
Polite Turn Downs in Intimate Circles
In this episode, Adam and Pris discuss the complexities of navigating attraction within the swinging lifestyle. They explore scenarios where one might encounter others who are friendly and engaging but whom they are not sexually attracted to. The podcast offers candid discussions on how to handle such situations gracefully without hurting feelings. Adam and Pris share personal anecdotes on politely declining advances and maintaining friendships despite a lack of physical attraction. They also touch on hygiene as a crucial factor in attraction, emphasizing its importance in intimate encounters.
2025-06-25
58 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
QUICKIE: Podcast Therapy: Unpacking Hidden Desires and Missteps
This podcast episode provides a deep dive into the swinging lifestyle and its personal impact on two hosts, Adam and Pris. Adam introduces the podcast by describing the concept of swinging, recounting how he stumbled upon adult magazines and discovered his father's hidden interest in the lifestyle. Pris shares her early encounters with open relationships and her initial exploration of swinging, which was fraught with regret due to a judgmental partner. Through candid storytelling, both hosts reveal their complex emotions, experiences, and insights about entering the swinging world, emphasizing the importance of choosing the right partners in such endeavors.
2025-06-18
33 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
The Intersection of Swinging and Sex Work: A Candid Discussion
In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, hosts Adam and Pris tackle the sensitive topic of sex work within the swinging community, focusing on the rise of OnlyFans among swingers. They explore the contrasting views on monetizing content within the community, with one side arguing that financial gain contradicts the essence of swinging, while the other supports sex work as an inclusive and legitimate expression of lifestyle choices. Pris shares her journey through various forms of sex work, highlighting the empowerment and confidence it has brought her, ultimately emphasizing the need for mutual support within the community.
2025-06-15
59 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
QUICKIE: Unveiling the Art of Dirty Talk: A Hilarious Journey
Join Adam and Pris as they recount their journey from bumbling beginnings to seasoned experts in the art of dirty talk. In a playful episode filled with laughter and insight, they share personal stories about discovering what works and what doesn't when it comes to bedroom banter. Initially, Pris's attempts were marked by a noticeable accent that added humor, while Adam relished in detailing scenarios. The couple discusses how they've learned to balance humor, imagination, and descriptive storytelling to enhance their intimate experiences, underscoring the role of communication in strengthening their 14-year relationship and keeping things exciting.
2025-06-11
36 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
Navigating Friendship Boundaries in the Lifestyle
In this podcast episode, hosts Adam and Pris discuss the complexities of managing boundaries within friendships, especially in social and lifestyle settings. They explore scenarios where friends cross personal boundaries, whether due to drunken behavior or misunderstanding social cues, and how challenging it can be to address such situations without causing embarrassment. The conversation delves into the difficulties of saying no to friends versus strangers, the importance of empowerment, and the difference in handling male vs female transgressions. Adam and Pris reflect on past experiences and emphasize the necessity to speak up to prevent further boundary violations.
2025-06-08
53 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
Navigating the Pressures of Play
In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, Adam and Pris explore the nuanced social, internal, and external pressures that individuals might face in swinger and polyamory lifestyles. Adam shares his experiences of feeling uncomfortable yet pressured to engage in activities, highlighting the importance of communication and consent. They discuss how saying 'no' can be challenging but essential for maintaining autonomy and comfort. Pris talks about their journey in finding the confidence to set boundaries, which wasn't always easy. The duo also considers the different types of pressures, such as peer and social dynamics, and how these can influence behavior within the...
2025-06-01
1h 00
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
Midlife Mischief: Confidence and Sexuality Unleashed
In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, hosts Adam and Pris dive into the complexities and joys of maintaining a passionate and evolving intimate life after 40. They discuss how aging impacts sex drive and sexual confidence, sharing personal anecdotes and insights into how their relationship has transformed over the years. From dealing with menopause and antidepressants to discovering a newfound physical vitality, Adam and Pris explore the balance of sensuality, intimacy, and evolving desires, offering candid and relatable experiences to listeners navigating similar stages of life.
2025-05-25
1h 02
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
QUICKIE: When One Partner Wants Poly and the Other Doesn't
In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, hosts Adam and Pris delve into a listener's letter that explores the complex territory of polyamory and non-monogamous relationships. The listener shares their journey as one partner becomes drawn to polyamory, eager to build deeper individual connections outside their primary relationship. Meanwhile, the other partner grapples with feelings of anxiety and discomfort as they struggle to adjust to this new dynamic. Adam and Pris, through candid conversation, share their personal experiences in navigating similar situations, discussing how crucial transparent communication and prioritizing the relationship are when facing differing desires in a non-monogamous setup.
2025-05-21
33 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
The Double Life: Swing, Kids, and Finding Balance
In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, hosts Adam and Pris delve into the complexities of maintaining an active swinging lifestyle while raising a family. With five children, including four teenagers, they provide insights into the balance between personal desires and parenting responsibilities. They emphasize the importance of prioritizing family and communication, reflecting on their own experiences of navigating babysitters and family commitments. Despite the challenges, Adam and Pris advocate for finding harmony, whether through shared experiences or alternating solo outings, all while keeping the lines of communication open and prioritizing family first.
2025-05-11
1h 00
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
Navigating Emotional Connections in the Lifestyle
In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, hosts Adam and Pris explore the nuances of emotional connections within the swinging lifestyle. They discuss their personal journey from polyamory to a more friendship-focused approach, emphasizing the importance of setting clear boundaries. The podcast delves into the difference between romantic and non-romantic connections, highlighting the significance of consent and open communication when exploring sexual relationships. Adam and Pris reflect on their experiences and share insights into balancing emotional ties with platonic friendships, inviting listeners to consider their own preferences and boundaries within non-traditional relationship structures.
2025-05-04
1h 15
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
QUICKIE: An Unforgettable Boogie Night
Join Adam and Pris as they revisit a lively Boogie Nights-themed meet and greet that was filled with laughter, new friendships, and unforgettable costumes. Pris dazzled in her 70s jumpsuit, while Adam sported a retro tennis ensemble, sparking conversations and camaraderie. It wasn't just the costumes that left an impact—valuable experiences with meet and greet dynamics are shared, along with useful tips for newcomers. Explore their adventurous weekend, all while meeting new people and fostering connections. The duo also teases an upcoming beach takeover, promising more excitement and live podcasting under the sun.
2025-04-30
27 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
Empowerment or Objectification: The Hot Wife Culture Debate
In this engaging episode, Adam and Pris delve into the intricacies of hot wife culture, exploring its duality as both potentially empowering and objectifying. They candidly share their personal experiences, discussing how initial participation in this lifestyle was driven by Adam's kink, while Pris initially felt objectified. Over time, she gained empowerment by making decisions about her own desires and boundaries. They explore the dynamic of mutual respect and the journey from objectification to empowerment, highlighting the importance of communication and reassurance in their relationship. This discussion sheds light on the complexities and evolving nature of open relationships.
2025-04-27
56 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
QUICKIE: Selective, Not Picky: The Art of Attraction
Adam and Pris explore the theme of selectiveness in attraction on today's Beyond Monogamy episode, contrasting their personal journeys and preferences. Pris reflects on her evolving taste, starting from a preference for a specific cultural background to a more inclusive view. Adam shares how his experiences of being judged shaped his preference for personalities over looks. They both discuss how these preferences play a role in their lifestyle choices, from purely physical engagements to deeper friendships. The conversation also touches on topics to avoid during interactions for a seamless experience.
2025-04-23
38 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
S1 E22 Discovering Deeper Connections: Beyond Casual Encounters
Pris and Adam's conversation unveils their ongoing journey in non monogamy, focusing on newfound connections and personal growth. Pris describes her recent date as transformative, embracing attraction and connection with others outside her marriage. Adam discusses his journey to understanding the necessity of emotional bonds for fulfilling sexual experiences. Their narrative addresses past struggles with intimacy and the restrictions they unknowingly imposed on each other. Emphasizing openness and respect, they are eager to forge paths that foster genuine relationships and explore shared interests. This evolving dynamic is a testament to their commitment to a fulfilling, supportive romantic life together.
2025-04-20
1h 06
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
QUICKIE: Invitations, Expectations, and the Fear of Missing Out
On the Beyond Monogamy podcast, Pris and Adam delve into the social dynamics of lifestyle events, sharing their journey from feeling excluded to embracing community bonds. They discuss overcoming initial insecurities, like being left out of private gatherings, and the efforts required to host their own events. With candid reflections, they underline the importance of remaining open and welcoming to foster inclusivity. While expressing the desire for more male-centric meet-ups, Adam humorously acknowledges the logistical nightmares of event planning, revealing a preference for attending over hosting due to the stress involved in orchestrating such social gatherings.
2025-04-16
35 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
Slutting it Out: Exploring New Horizons in Relationships
The latest episode of 'Beyond Monogamy' delves into the nuances of non-monogamous relationships. Hosts Adam and Pris openly discuss their experiences with new relationship dynamics, including Pris's exhilaration about an upcoming solo date with a couple. They also touch on the crucial role of inclusive exchanges and the importance of communication, especially in a context where boundaries are being redefined. Adam shares his appreciation for how these experiences enrich their relationship. Themes of trust, transparency, and mutual respect are interwoven throughout their discussion, shedding light on handling personal emotions while pursuing open relationship endeavors.
2025-04-13
52 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
QUICKIE: Imagined Escapades
Adam and Pris embark on a candid discussion about their favorite sexual fantasies on this week's Wednesday Quickie. They talk openly about the logistical challenges and appeal of various scenarios, such as surprise encounters and gang bangs. Adam describes his admiration for watching Pris with other partners, referencing amateur video inspirations, while also considering a shared experience with friends. Addressing everything from personal insecurities to humorous moments, the hosts invite listeners into their intimate conversations about love, lust, and imagination—setting the stage for potential future adventures.
2025-04-09
29 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
Overcoming The Negatives: Lessons from Beyond Monogamy
Adam and Pris, hosts of 'Beyond Monogamy,' tackle the topic of jealousy in non-monogamous relationships. Pris recounts her early struggles with insecurity and fear of losing Adam to others, while Adam mentions the naturalness of such emotions. They discuss the evolution of their communication and how transparency helped Pris realize her own worth, reducing her jealousy. The episode underscores the significance of self-awareness and partnership dynamics in navigating the complex emotional landscape of open relationships, offering a relatable perspective for anyone interested in or affected by polyamory.
2025-04-06
1h 06
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
Inside or Outside: Navigating Connections in the Lifestyle
In this episode, Adam and Pris explore the dynamics of making connections within and outside the lifestyle. Pris shares her experiences with people from the vanilla world, highlighting the challenges and misunderstandings that can arise when explaining ethical non-monogamy. Meanwhile, Adam discusses his comfort with forming connections in both worlds, emphasizing the importance of over-communication to avoid misinterpretations. Both hosts agree on the importance of establishing clear boundaries and maintaining honesty, whether dealing with lifestyle insiders or vanilla outsiders. The conversation underscores the different approaches they take towards engaging with others while maintaining their relationship rules.
2025-03-30
1h 10
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
QUICKIE: The Adam Theory: Understanding Happy Vibes in the Lifestyle
In this episode of 'Beyond Monogamy,' hosts Adam and Pris delve into the concept of compersion, which is often regarded as the opposite of jealousy. As a term primarily used within polyamorous communities, compersion describes the happiness one feels when their partner finds joy and fulfillment with others. Adam and Pris discuss personal experiences navigating compersion, emphasizing its potential to strengthen relationships through empathy and understanding. They share candid insights into overcoming jealousy, managing territorial feelings, and celebrating each other's wins. Their conversation sheds light on how compersion fosters deeper connections and personal growth within open and trust-based relationships.
2025-03-26
32 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
Swinger Lingo 101: Understanding the Basics
Hosts Adam and Pris of Beyond Monogamy provide listeners with a comprehensive guide to swinger terminology. Through candid discussions, they explain the meanings behind terms like soft swap and full swap, highlighting the importance of understanding these concepts within the lifestyle. The episode also touches on the cultural phenomenon of pineapples as a swinger symbol, exploring its mysterious origins. With an emphasis on community and connection, Adam and Pris describe their experiences in meet and greets, offering practical advice for newcomers. This episode aims to demystify the lifestyle, blending informational content with personal anecdotes.
2025-03-23
1h 02
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
QUICKIE: Conversations on Clits and Balls: Unpacking Desires
In this episode of 'Beyond Monogamy', hosts Pris and Adam engage in a candid conversation about oral sex, discussing personal preferences, taboos, and their individual experiences. Pris reveals her preference for focusing on the shaft over the balls, citing concerns about cleanliness, while Adam shares his enthusiasm for going down on women, describing his intricate approach to oral pleasure. They also touch on their likes and dislikes regarding physical attributes, seeking to normalize diverse tastes and experiences. The hosts offer insights laced with humor and honesty, keeping the dialogue open and playful.
2025-03-19
29 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
Facing Rejection: The Inevitable R-Word
In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, hosts Adam and Pris candidly discuss their personal experiences with rejection, both within friendships and intimate relationships. Rejection is framed as an inevitable part of life, particularly for those exploring non-traditional relationship dynamics. The episode delves into how rejection can manifest, such as through ghosting or explicit disinterest, and explores the psychological impacts. While Adam admits to struggling with feelings of self-doubt, Pris emphasizes her resilience and ability to move on quickly, highlighting the significance of self-confidence and perspective in overcoming rejection.
2025-03-16
1h 05
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
Infidelity in the Lifestyle: A Paradox
In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, hosts Adam and Pris delve into the perplexing issue of infidelity within open relationships, specifically within the lifestyle community. Despite the inherent freedom offered by these relationships, some individuals still resort to cheating, leading to heartbreaking consequences like divorce. Adam and Pris discuss personal experiences with infidelity and emphasize the importance of communication in preventing such issues. The hosts highlight that while lifestyle agreements provide room for exploration, breaching trust by hiding relationships or emotional connections outside the agreed boundaries jeopardizes not only personal relationships but also the trust within the broader community.
2025-03-09
53 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
QUICKIE: Trust, Transparency, and Intimacy
In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, Adam and Pris delve into the complex world of open relationships, discussing their personal experiences and boundaries within the swinging lifestyle. They navigate the intricate balance of transparency and trust, emphasizing the importance of mutual understanding and communication. Pris shares her concerns about emotional attachments and the potential complications of polyamory, while Adam expresses his comfort with forming connections. Together, they explore the idea of a three-way relationship as an alternative to traditional dating dynamics, revealing insights into the evolving nature of their relationship and the ongoing negotiation of rules and boundaries.
2025-03-05
32 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
Communicating Through Complexity
In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, hosts Adam and Pris dive deep into the nuances of communication within intimate relationships. They stress the importance of open and honest dialogue, sharing their personal experiences of overcoming communication hurdles. Through anecdotes, such as a transformative moment at a Hooters, they illustrate how candid conversations can enhance a relationship. Whether dealing with issues from family influence or learning to express feelings tactfully, Adam and Pris demonstrate that effective communication is vital for a thriving partnership. Listeners are encouraged to embrace honesty and vulnerability to foster healthier, more fulfilling relationships.
2025-03-02
1h 00
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
QUICKIE: Sensual vs Non Sensual
In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, Adam and Pris discuss old and new sexual wants. Pris drops the big reveal about her changing wants from everyday regular sex to a more sensual type of experience. The hosts banter back and forth about their feelings from past experiences and how exactly their journey has taken them to the point they are currently at. This honest and vulnerable look at the lives of Pris and Adam is not only telling but wholly entertaining...
2025-02-26
34 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
QUICKIE: Flirting Fumbles: A Guide to Connection
In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, Adam and Pris discuss the intricacies of flirting, especially across genders. Adam admits to struggling with flirting with women, elaborating on how natural it feels for him with men. They delve into the importance of eye contact and genuine connection, suggesting that successful flirting requires more than mere compliments. Touching on their personal experiences, the hosts emphasize the value of honesty and the need for unique approaches to capturing someone's interest. This discussion serves as a humorous yet insightful guide for anyone looking to improve their flirting skills.
2025-02-19
30 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
QUICKIE: Adam's Ultimate Blowjob Fantasy
Adam and Pris discuss the intricacies of blowjobs with a playful and informative tone in this episode of Beyond Monogamy. They explore different preferences and practices, highlighting the importance of comfort and sensuality. Adam shares insights into his preferences, including the importance of visual stimulation and the right balance of techniques. Pris recounts her journey from not knowing to love giving blowjobs, finding the act rewarding when incorporating diverse methods. Their open dialogue demystifies oral pleasure, offering listeners a glimpse into their intimate dynamics and enlightening those keen to enhance their experiences.
2025-02-12
32 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
When Respect Meets Desire: Navigating Public Affection
Adam and Pris of Beyond Monogamy explore the complexities surrounding public displays of affection among swingers. Through a candid chat, they reveal their personal experiences and boundaries regarding PDA in different venues, like bars or meet and greets. Pris shares her enthusiasm for PDA, noting it's important to be responsive to social cues and respectful to all parties involved. The hosts also recount scenarios where they had to navigate awkward situations due to unclear signals. This podcast episode offers listeners insight into maintaining mutual respect and communication while enjoying the thrill of public affection in non-traditional relationships. Sometimes it...
2025-02-09
1h 16
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
QUICKIE: From No to Maybe: A Journey in Anal Play
In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, hosts Pris and Adam delve into the topic of anal play, a subject they've previously steered away from. They candidly discuss past experiences, hesitations, and the cultural stigma associated with this form of intimacy. The conversation explores their personal attitudes towards anal play, with Pris explaining her mixed feelings due to past experiences and underlying discomfort. Despite initial reluctance, both hosts consider giving it another try, highlighting the importance of open communication and willingness to explore as key factors in intimate partnerships.
2025-02-05
30 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
Exploring Separate Play: Finding Freedom in Fidelity
In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, hosts Adam and Pris delve into the concept of separate play within their relationship. Initially wary of being apart during play, they share their journey from discomfort to embracing separate play as a means to experience personal pleasure while maintaining their connection. They discuss why establishing boundaries and understanding personal kinks, like Pris's enjoyment in orchestrating play dates, are crucial for this arrangement. Through their candid discussion, they highlight the importance of trust and communication in ensuring separate play enhances rather than hinders their relationship satisfaction.
2025-02-02
1h 07
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
Unveiling Our Five-year Polyamory Journey
The podcast 'Beyond Monogamy' reveals a discussion about a couple's venture into polyamory. Adam expresses enthusiasm at the idea of multiple romantic relationships, while Pris was resistant due to discomfort around time sharing. Circumstances became more challenging due to Pris' menopause and depression, and a temporary separation for work reasons. Ultimately, polyamory wasn't for them and they ended their journey after five years.
2025-01-25
1h 06
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
Bisexuality in the Lifestyle: An Insightful Exchange
In this episode of 'Beyond Monogamy', Adam and Pris discuss bisexuality within 'the lifestyle' and beyond. It focuses extensively on Pris's personal journey as a bisexual woman who didn't come out publicly until 2017 due to her conservative upbringing. She voices the difficulty in managing relationships with both genders, and the insecurities and jealousy that arose from friends when she came out.
2025-01-20
59 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
Exploring the Intricacies of Friendships in a Non-Monogamous Lifestyle
Adam and Pris touch upon an intriguing subject - friendships in non-monogamous relationships. They provide an insightful commentary on the challenges and merits of maintaining friendships within such a setup. The ensuing discussion weaves in their personal anecdotes and highlights the importance of pure, genuine connections and the positive impacts it creates around them. The debate leads Pris to shed light on the struggle she'd faced when it came to accepting Adam's friendships with other women.
2024-12-23
59 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
QUICKIE: Discovering the Beauty of Threesomes
The conversation takes a deeply introspective turn as Adam and Pris discuss preference between male, female, male and female, male, female threesomes. Adam interestingly demonstrates a sense of competition and desire to outdo any other male partner, leading to his preference for MFM relations. The hosts continue to boldly tackle personal insecurities and notions of pleasure in non-monogamous relationships.
2024-12-18
33 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
QUICKIE: Navigating Fantasies in Relationships: Beyond Monogamy
In this open discussion between Adam and Pris, the duo explores their personal fantasies and how they navigate their sexual lives with honesty and open communication. Pris shares her newfound desires, including her inclination towards experimenting with couples, shedding light on the introspective journey of discovering her intimate desires.
2024-12-05
28 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
Diving into the Boundaries and Rules of the Lifestyle
In this podcast episode of Beyond Monogamy, hosts Adam and Pris delve into the intricate topics of rules and boundaries in an intimate relationship. They explore their views and experiences on these subjects in the context of monogamy and the swinging lifestyle. The podcast emphasizes the importance of these elements in establishing and maintaining a respectful, fulfilling and stable relationship.
2024-12-02
52 min
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
The Journey Begins: Our 14-Year Swing & Poly Story
n this inaugural crossover episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, the hosts introduce their story—14 years together, 13 in the lifestyle, including a polyamory experiment. They share how it all started, early challenges, personal growth, and why they're excited to launch this show. Whether you're curious, newcomer, or seasoned, get ready for a heartfelt, candid dive into how open relationships reshaped their marriage. 📝 Show Notes 🎧 What to Expect (Hooks) The origin story: Pris's early experiences and Adam's initiation First swings: Revisiting that nervous yet thrilling moment Polyamory experiment: Why it began, why it ended—and what the...
2024-11-24
1h 04
Hallo, mann!
Tannlegerelasjoner, cancel culture og nervøse peniser
Enda en ny uke der gutta oppdaterer hverandre på livet! Thomas skal til tannlegen og er nervøs; ikke av frykt for sin generelle tannhelse, men på grunn av relasjonen til tannlegen. Adam etterlyser regelboka for cancel culture, og det deles åpenhjertig fra merkelige legebesøk. Hint: Det er ikke bare kaldt vann som kan få penis til å krympe! ---Om du liker "Hallo, hallo" setter vi stor pris på om du hjelper oss å nå nye lyttere. Del gjerne podcasten i sosiale medier, snakk varmt om den i sosiale sammenkomster - hvor som helst egentlig! Vi setter p...
2023-09-22
43 min