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The Kings of Khaos PodcastEpidode 13 | Why Non-Committal Men Should be Committed (or Not)The Kings of Khaos, Adam and Al, end their first full season of podcast episodes with a live taping confronting the topic of Commitment-Phobes, asking if non-committal men are really just afraid of commitment or if there are some more practical reasons behind their inability to settle down. Subject: #Relationships, #Dating, #Intimacy, #Fearofcommitment See: Male stereotypes, defense mechanisms, secure vs. insecure men, avoidant tendencies Disclaimer: This podcast is for basic research purposes and entertainment only. We are NOT experts and these are merely our opinions, thoughts, and musings based on the topic of discussion.2025-02-061h 02
The Kings of Khaos PodcastEpisode 12 | The Harsh Reality of Modern Dating | Modern Dating Culture for MenAdam and Al express their concern for a modern dating culture that leave the average male in the dust. With average women clamoring for their chance at the top 1% of men, does the average dude even have a chance? Why is Modern Dating such a dud for these dudes? Subject: Relationships, Dating, Intimacy Topic of Discussion: Are More and More Modern Men Giving Up on Dating? Quote: “Don't talk of love, well I've heard the word before, It's sleeping in my memory. I won't disturb the slumber of feelings that have died, If I never lo...2025-01-2355 min
The Kings of Khaos PodcastEpisode. 11 | Spot the Signals | Why Men Suck at Reading Women | Science of Attraction Science shows that women are better than men at reading and sending body language clues. In today’s episode Al and Adam dive into the subtlety of dating and signs that a woman may be interested, as well as why men misread signals when a woman is uninterested. Subject: Relationships, Dating, Understanding Women Topic of Discussion: Why do guys have difficulty reading female body language? Lyric: “Signs, signs, everywhere a sign? - Five Man Electrical Band, Signs, 1971 Quote: “All I know is I know nothing” Socrates, 4th Century BCE Disclaimer: This podcast...2025-01-0944 min
The Kings of Khaos PodcastEpisode 10 | Love, Lust, or Limerence | What Kind of Love Have You Got? Al and Adam get to the heart of the law of attraction and the concept of love.Why do we attract who we attract in love and friendships?Is it love or limerence?Is it lust or longing; childhood Trauma, or something else?Subject: Attraction, Love, Dating, Relationships Topic of Discussion: What is the definition of love? What are the stages of true love? What is healthy love versus unhealthy infatuation? How do you know when it’s love, lust, or limerence?Quote: “Well, I do my best to unde...2024-12-1952 min
The Kings of Khaos PodcastEpisode 9 | Are Men Still Going to Strip Clubs? | Modern Men | RelationshipsAdam and Al delve into the once seedy world of strip clubs and ask: Are men still going to strip clubs? If a man can see and endless array of naked women whenever he wants, without leaving the comfort of his couch (Internet Porn Sites, OnlyFans Pages, Requested Nudes on a Myriad of Dating Apps), why would he pay to see naked women up on the stage? Subject: Sexuality, Modern Men, Cheating, Pornography Topic of Discussion: What is it that Still attracted men of all ages to strip clubs? Disclaimer: This...2024-12-0549 min
The Kings of Khaos PodcastEpisode 8: Awful Dating AdviceAdam, Al, and Certified Relationship and Attachment Practitioner, Bev Mitelman (Founder of Securely Loved), break down some of their worst bad dating advice stories and discuss why unsolicited relationship input from your so-called “friends” says more about their dating lives that your own.Subject: Dating, Relationships Topic of Discussion: What is good vs. bad dating advice? Who gives good advice and who doesn’t?Quote: “Keep smiling, keep shining, knowing you can always count on me, for sure, that's what friends are for, For good times and bad times I'll be on your side forever more, th...2024-11-0759 min
The Kings of Khaos PodcastEpisode 7: Unconditional Love: Does it Exist in Romantic Relationships? | Love and Romance Issues | True LoveAl and Adam explore the concept of unconditional love and if it truly exists in romantic relationships or if it’s just a myth we are fed by the media, and our parents. Subject: Love, Relationships Topic of Discussion: Is it possible to love someone unconditionally? If so what does that entail? Quote: “And when it comes to all-night living, I know what I'm giving, I've got it all down to a tee, and it's free.” The Who, You Better You Bet, 1981 Disclaimer: This podcast is for basic research purposes and entertainment only. We are...2024-10-2454 min
The Kings of Khaos PodcastEpisode 6: Sitting in your Loneliness: A How to Guide | The Art of SolitudeAdam, Al, and special guest, Marie-Judith (MJ) Jean-Louis, explore the unsettling journey of sitting in your loneliness during your darkest hours when no one really stops to explain it to you. Topic: Self Love, Growth, Change, Strength in Solitude Quote: “Everybody needs a place to rest, everybody wants to have a home, don’t make no difference what nobody says, ain’t nobody likes to be alone” Hungry Heart, Bruce Springsteen and the E Street Band, 1980 Disclaimer: This podcast is for basic research purposes and entertainment only. We are NOT experts and these are mere...2024-10-1051 min
The Kings of Khaos PodcastEpisode 5: Who Killed Chivalry? | Modern Dating | FeminismAl and Adam battle into the contentious arena of modern relationships to judge if the age-old art of chivalry is still alive, or if it’s just holding on via life support.Quote: “To fight for the right without question or pause To be willing to march, march into Hell for that Heavenly cause” The Impossible Dream, Man of La Mancha (Film), 1972Disclaimer: This podcast is for basic research purposes and entertainment only. We are NOT experts and these are merely our opinions, thoughts, and musings based on the topic of discussion.References: h...2024-09-2656 min
The Kings of Khaos PodcastEpisode 4: Impact of Divorce on Children | Adult Children of Divorce | Childhood neglect, Complex Trauma, Abandonment Anxiety and Inner-Child HealingAl and Adam argue why children of divorced parent may need to grow up a bit faster and how that makes them more resilient but at a disadvantage to their peers.Topic of Discussion: # The Trauma of Abandonment.Quote: “They cry in the dark, so you can't see their tears, They hide in the light, so you can't see their fears; Forgive and forget, all the while, Love and pain become one and the same in the eyes of a wounded child” - Hell is for Children, Pat Benatar, 1980Stats: https://www.verywellfamily.com...2024-09-1252 min
The Kings of Khaos PodcastEpisode 3: Epic Fails in Modern Dating |Men| Women Al and Adam examine common mistakes guys make on first dates as well as the ridiculous rules they follow. Quote: “Take on me (Take on me), Take me on (Take on me), I'll be gone, In a day (date?) or two” Take On Me, A-Ha, 1985 Disclaimer: This podcast is for basic research purposes and entertainment only. We are NOT experts and these are merely our opinions, thoughts, and musings based on the topic of discussion.2024-08-2950 min
The Kings of Khaos PodcastEpisode 2: Forget the Ex: Go "No Contact" For GoodAdam and Al diss all the tricky “get -your -ex -back” channels, taking them to task on their flagrant attachment theory misuses and abuses and the true path to redemption for sufferers of pathological loneliness and those misguided “love addicts.” Topic of Discussion: Break-ups and Make ups - How Not to Attract Your Ex Back “I'm addicted to you, babe You're a hard habit to break” Hard Habit to Break, Chicago, 1984 Disclaimer: This podcast is for basic research purposes and entertainment only. We are NOT experts and these are merely our opinions, thoughts, and musings based on the topic of...2024-08-1251 min
The Kings of Khaos PodcastEpisode 1: Khaos Theory: War Time Heroes, Peace time F ck ups?Al and Adam jump right in and explain the name, why chaos is their superpower and how they are going to harness that to change people’s lives. Topic of Discussion: What is an addiction to Chaos and why is it a Superpower not a weakness. “Just once in his life a man has his time Well, my time is now – I’m coming alive.” St. Elmo’s Fire Theme, 19852024-08-0247 min