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Dating Kinda SucksThe One About JapanAfter a 16-day trip to Japan, Sarah's got a ton of fascinating information to share, but that's not all we have planned for this chock-full episode. Adam's in his feels and doing all the dating things wrong, so you don't want to miss out on his masochistic idiocy. Plus we talk about Seattle summers, stand-up comedy, and stripper showcases. Tune in for a fascinating hour and a half! As always, we need listeners to call and ask for advice or give their input by calling the DKS Hotline. Let us know you're listening by calling or texting 407-519...
2025-06-211h 34Dating Kinda SucksMen Vs. Food - Gastronomy or Misogyny?On this week's episode of The DKS Podcast, we start to embrace our new name with an off-the-cuff examination of what men expect for dinner. Is it generational, situational, or negligible? Sarah reaches a relationship milestone, Adam has a comedy emergency, and the pair discuss the new direction of the podcast, the new logo (check it out!), and our weirdness as a people about food. We also wait for listeners to call and ask for advice or give their input by pitching the DKS Hotline. Let us know you're listening by calling or texting 407-519-0181 or emailing us...
2025-04-041h 12Dating Kinda SucksTen Good Things in 2025And the DKS Podcast is back with the first episode of Season Eight! Adam and Sarah have spent the last few months gobsmacked that things have gotten exactly as bad as they have. We knew it was possible, but the reality is chilling for anyone trying to be creative, hence the use of our word "gobsmacked". But we put on our big girl panties and decided to be a shining example of optimism and hope among a tornado of shit and stupidity.In this episode, we catch up on our lives, Adam overshares, Sarah censors herself for once...
2025-03-131h 15Dating Kinda SucksSeason Finale: Adam in Tulsa, Sarah in Taiwan, World in DisarrayIt's our season seven finale, and we have big changes coming in 2025 and beyond! With different types of episodes covering diverse topics that include but go beyond dating and relationships, the DKS Podcast is here to stay! This week, Adam and Sarah answer a listener question - does she actually like her boyfriend? Adam talks about dating in Tulsa and how his lack of permanence affects his ability to make connections, and Sarah gives a fantastic virtual tour of her recent visit to Taiwan. And we want you to help us start off 2025 by calling in and asking a...
2024-12-201h 37Dating Kinda SucksThe Perfect WomanAfter a little summer hiatus, Adam and Sarah return to discuss the perfect woman, break down why men seem to have ridiculous standards while women have reasonable preferences, and make fun of incels and other crusty-assed dudes who only want mommies and sex slaves. Also this week, Adam goes on too many dates, Sarah appears on Good Morning America, and your hosts answer a voicemail about love bombing and being a simp. You too can call in and ask your question, suggest topics, or just give feedback by calling our DKS Hotline at 407-519-0181 today!The DKS...
2024-07-191h 28Dating Kinda SucksFrom the DKS Vault: The Search For Good PornEnjoy this classic episode from the DKS Vault, originally published in August of 2020. In a quest to discover whether or not she enjoys adult films, Sarah has spent the past two weeks reviewing a veritable motherlode of alone time clips - a pornucopia, if you will - compiled by Adam. Watching everything from gay to fetish, trans to hotwife, Sarah's ready to talk about what she watched and what type of adult material is right for her. Also in this episode, Sarah has important relationship needs, Adam's so lonely he got turned on by a video game, and w...
2024-06-071h 45Dating Kinda SucksMen vs BearWho would you rather encounter in the woods, a man or a bear? This question has proven controversial for many men in the world (and rather simple to answer for most women, overwhelmingly choosing the bear). This week, Sarah and Adam talk about how men should react to this question, expand the discussion to add some context for anyone who might be confused, and throw in a few bear puns as well. Also this week, Sarah makes a cake that has explosive properties, Adam makes more friends in Tulsa, and your hosts answer a call from the DKS Hotline! You t...
2024-05-031h 01Dating Kinda SucksWomen Don't Need Men Anymore - The 4B MovementIt's official - women don't need men. They can buy homes, get bank accounts, and live happy, fully satisfied lives without men getting in the way, and men don't like it. In this episode, Sarah and Adam talk about the 4B movement, an anti-dating movement from South Korea, and how it's spreading across the US too. Should crusty "alphas" with unwashed asses start to worry? Also this week, Adam and Sarah talk about their lives since February, and they give an update about Passport Bros and their creepy illegal tendencies with a story about Timothy Alan Livingston and h...
2024-04-121h 23Dating Kinda SucksIs Dating Expensive? A Look at the Cost of Loving.This week, Adam and Sarah discuss the costs and expenses involved in being single, dating, and being in a relationship. What precisely is the cost of loving?Also this week, Sarah and Adam talk about their birthdays, make fun of that idiot who's suing women and Facebook for being showcased in "Are We Dating The Same Guy?", answer a voicemail about lovebombing, and discuss Cape Town, South Africa as a travel destination. You too can call in and ask your question, suggest topics, or just give feedback by calling our DKS Hotline at 407-519-0181 today!...
2024-01-261h 15Dating Kinda SucksThe Mr. Simone Biles Controversy: Impress Your Friends or Support Your Partners?It's Season Seven of the DKS Podcast, and this is the season of the listener! We want your input, your feedback, and your support by sharing, reviewing, and interacting with us as much as possible! Our success comes from the community and we want to foster that community on a whole new level this year. If you haven't given us a 5-star rating and review on iTunes, now's your chance!This week, Adam and Sarah discuss the Simone Biles/Mr. Simone Biles controversy and identify all of the ways that it's not okay for men to...
2024-01-121h 12Dating Kinda SucksShould Your Partner Challenge You?We all know that facing challenges in life makes us more resilient, stronger, more capable, and better at handling whatever life throws at us, but where should those challenges be coming from? This week, Sarah and Adam will discuss whether or not your partner should be the one to challenge you, and if so, when those challenges are appropriate. Also this week, we have an email from an Australian listener (and Adam apologizes in advance for his terrible Australian accent), Sarah prepares for a trip to South Africa, and Adam gets ready for a Thanksgiving alone in Tulsa....
2023-11-241h 00Dating Kinda SucksIs the 6-6-6 Rule Truth or Fiction?Men love to say that women date by the 6-6-6 rule - they want 6 feet, 6 inches, and 6 figures. But is this true? Is this why men are having difficulty finding dates, or is it their inability to look beyond their type? And is it settling to expand your type? This week, Adam and Sarah will talk about types and why men and women approach them differently. Also in this episode, a call about dating anxiety from a listener, Sarah explores Cape Flattery, and Adam has the most epic Sunday Funday ever, Daytona Beach style.The DKS Podcast...
2023-10-131h 20Dating Kinda SucksDo Adults Need Sex Ed??The amount of ignorance that many adult men (and a handful of women) have with regards to sex, sexual intercourse, and women’s bodies shouldn’t surprise us after seeing a bunch of crusty old white dudes legislate women’s bodies. But be prepared to be shocked at the depths this ignorance can reach. After this episode, Sarah and Adam both agree that no adult should be allowed to engage in any physical contact with another consenting adult until they take at least one sex education class. For the sake of humanity.Also this week, a Mormon listener wrestl...
2023-09-151h 12Dating Kinda SucksIs Barbie Too Hard On Men?The Barbie movie is a billion dollar behemoth, and so many men are hemotional about it, recording himsterical podcasts, and throwing himsy fits. Is it warranted? Are men justified in crying about kenough being kenough? This week Sarah and Adam examine the pink feminist phenom and what it says about gender roles, the patriarchy, and horses. Also this week, a question from a listener about familial relationships, Sarah survives a trip to a remote cabin in Maine, and Adam takes over What to See with a review of the Origin Westminster and his time in Denver.The DKS...
2023-08-111h 24Dating Kinda SucksIs That The Jonah Hill You're Willing To Die On?Boundaries are essential to any healthy relationship. But when does it transform from a healthy boundary to unhealthy abuse? What is the line between controlling someone's behavior and setting behaviors for a respectful relationship? Sarah and Adam discuss the recent Jonah Hill controversy and talk about why his behavior was not boundary setting and that his weaponization of therapy terms to gaslight and manipulate his girlfriend is abusive and toxic. Also this week, Adam has an interesting encounter with a fan, Sarah meets up with her ex's parents, we have a call from our DKS Hotline, and Adam and Sarah...
2023-07-141h 10Dating Kinda SucksRespecting Dating App BoundariesDating apps give you the opportunity to set boundaries with regards to your safety, and when people push or violate those boundaries, it's a huge red flag. Adam and Sarah talk about when it is and is not okay to find someone in real life or on social media when you don't match on a dating app. Also this week, an email from a listener, Adam gets cranky about everything, and we get an update from an old date of Adam's and a reminder about why red flags should never be collected!The DKS Podcast is a raw...
2023-06-301h 04Dating Kinda SucksPair Bonding and PromiscuityBefore you listen to this episode, call the DKS Hotline at 407-519-0181 and ask us a question! Done? Great. The new trend in toxic man culture and women shaming is a nonsense phrase called "pair bonding" and how it applies to a woman's sex life (never the man's, of course). How much bullshit does this concept contain and how do you counter it when some crusty-assed dude brings it up? Your hosts will explain it in simple language even Andrew Tate could understand in this episode. Also this week, Sarah talks about her fantastic travel experience at the Lodge...
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The Angel at the Starlite Motel0311: Girls in Jail Tell Complicated Elaborate StoriesThe author tells a story of two convicts, one current, one former, and the stories they told him, leading up to a discussion of jailhouse informants and their blatant lack of credibility. Check out some of the actual notes written by inmates snitching on other girls on our Patreon at http://www.patreon.com/angelmurder!The Angel at the Starlite Motel is a podcast centered around an anonymous man and his intimate encounters with ex-sex worker Mandi May Jackson, who was convicted of the 2016 murder of strip club manager James Mulrenin in 2020, as detailed in the anonymous man's...
2022-12-0554 minThe Angel at the Starlite Motel0310: Representing Car Wax and LawsuitsStarting section four of the book with a chapter dedicated to Casey Anthony's lawyer, Jose Baez, and the author's attempts to hire the notorious sleazeball (in our opinion), we start to learn more about why Mandi's jailhouse informants were less than credible. Don't forget to visit our Patreon at http://www.patreon.com/angelmurder to catch up on the hours of materials, free and otherwise, available to slake your thirst for knowledge!The Angel at the Starlite Motel is a podcast centered around an anonymous man and his intimate encounters with ex-sex worker Mandi May Jackson, who was...
2022-11-071h 31Dating Kinda SucksRed Flags in BedThere are red flags to watch out for when you first meet someone, and then there are the red flags that don't show up until you're naked and vulnerable in bed with a new partner. Sarah and Adam identify the pre-, post-, and inter-coital warning signs that you don't want to miss. Also this week, your hosts answer an email question from a listener, Sarah explores Little Rock in her latest What To See With Sarah G. segment, and Adam complains some more about Utah. Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, honest, and hilarious podcast that focuses on...
2022-10-211h 17The Angel at the Starlite Motel0309: The Ugliest Girl in Science Class Finally Got Her RevengeBreaking News! You're not going to want to miss the second half of this episode, where Adam Avitable and Jessica Jackson share some current information on Mandi's appeal. The direction of the podcast for the future is discussed, and all of the skipped chapters are posted on Patreon at http://www.patreon.com/angelmurder for the missing chapters if you want to read them for free! The Angel at the Starlite Motel is a podcast centered around an anonymous man and his intimate encounters with ex-sex worker Mandi May Jackson, who was convicted of the 2016 murder of strip...
2022-10-171h 06Dating Kinda SucksThe Mullet ConundrumWhat is the mullet conundrum? It's the issue you're presented with when the partner you love makes a cosmetic change that you hate. How do you handle it? Sarah and Adam discuss the best actions you can take when faced with . . . the mullet conundrum. Also this week, What To See With Sarah G. looks at Dublin and we take another caller from the DKS Hotline!Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, honest, and hilarious podcast that focuses on all aspects of dating, sex, and relationships, promoting a lifestyle of transparency, openness, and healthy communication as a path to...
2022-10-071h 06The Angel at the Starlite Motel0308: Mulrenin Overate Sin At His Own BuffetSkipping six chapters to avoid redundancy and repetitive content, we start with chapter 16 and a discussion of the inconsistencies between the 911 call and initial reports vs Detective Sprague's insistence in pursuing a narrative where Mandi is a killer. Check out the Patreon at http://www.patreon.com/angelmurder for the missing chapters if you want to read them for free! The Angel at the Starlite Motel is a podcast centered around an anonymous man and his intimate encounters with ex-sex worker Mandi May Jackson, who was convicted of the 2016 murder of strip club manager James Mulrenin in 2020, as...
2022-10-031h 26Dating Kinda SucksThe Stigma of Being SingleCan we stop treating single people, and especially single women, like they’re somehow incomplete? This week, Sarah and Adam talk about stopping the stigma society places on being single. Are you contributing to it? Also this week, Sarah tells us what to see in Nashville, Adam’s about to give up on Utah dating, and we take another call from the DKS Hotline about dating with an age difference!Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, honest, and hilarious podcast that focuses on all aspects of dating, sex, and relationships, promoting a lifestyle of transparency, openness, and healthy comm...
2022-09-161h 16The Angel at the Starlite Motel0307: A Lot of Coffee or SomethingThis is a quick episode that covers two chapters all recapping the issues with the video evidence - we'll have to make some editorial decisions soon because some of the content is beginning to be redundant, so stay tuned! Also in this episode, an email from someone who knew Scott Love on the inside sheds some light on his relationship with Mandi!The Angel at the Starlite Motel is a podcast centered around an anonymous man and his intimate encounters with ex-sex worker Mandi May Jackson, who was convicted of the 2016 murder of strip club manager Jimmy Mulrenin...
2022-09-1249 minDating Kinda SucksTraveling With Your PartnerThey say that one of the best ways to test a relationship is to go on vacation together (that or shop at IKEA). Sarah and Adam give you some great tips for making the most out of traveling, setting expectations for your couple's vacay, and staying together and happy while you travel. Also this week, Sarah's leaving Nashville for good, Adam's giving up on Utah dating, and we have another "What to See with Sarah G" segment!Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, honest, and hilarious podcast that focuses on all aspects of dating, sex, and relationships, promoting...
2022-09-021h 22The Angel at the Starlite Motel0306: Filled With Cute Lawyer GirlsThe author drops a bombshell about the existence of video that wasn't used at Mandi's trial, showing how Scott Love entered the apartment building. Is there an entire hard drive of video that could exonerate Mandi? Listen to find out and check out the depositions of two of the officers today on Patreon!The Angel at the Starlite Motel is a podcast centered around an anonymous man and his intimate encounters with ex-sex worker Mandi May Jackson, who was convicted of the 2016 murder of strip club manager Jimmy Mulrenin in 2020, as detailed in the anonymous man's book which...
2022-08-281h 14Dating Kinda SucksAre You Being Love Bombed? (From the DKS Vault)Originally aired on February 2022. If narcissists and abusers had a rule book, rule number one would be “Love bomb.” The act of love bombing flatters, entices, and manipulates, and most of us have fallen victim to it at least once in our lives. But how do you recognize it and how do you avoid the romantic terrorists in the world who bomb the hell out of you and then leave you lying in a crater of pain and neglect? Sarah G. and Adam Avitable give you all the tools you need to dodge those bombs and survive the dating world.
2022-08-191h 20The Angel at the Starlite Motel0305: A Girl Is Born Naked With Everything She NeedsWe skipped chapter four, which is simply the police report, and focused on chapter five of the book this week, detailing the video evidence provided by the police and all of the many flaws with this evidence. No timestamps? No video of Scott Love leaving the building? No real evidence of an actual robbery? Adam and Jessica talk about the faulty evidence, the author's anger towards this podcast, and the relationship between Jessica and her sister Mandi. Don't forget to see the evidence for yourself on Patreon today!The Angel at the Starlite Motel is a podcast centered...
2022-08-141h 25Dating Kinda SucksThe Myth of VirginityFor centuries, the concept of virginity has been used to subjugate women and shame men, and it’s time to get rid of these concepts. Adam and Sarah talk about why virginity is a misogynistic, purity culture nonsense concept that only serves to harm others, mislead children, and enable toxic men. Also in this episode, Adam goes on another date in Utah, Sarah almost poops her pants in public, and we have another segment of "What to See with Sarah G." that highlights all of the best places for couples or solo travelers to see and experience in Lisbon, Portugal!
2022-08-051h 25The Angel at the Starlite Motel0304: The Safest Day in a Lemon's LifeThe author uses this chapter to explain his theories involving Mandi's travels the days before Mulrenin's death using cell tower data provided by T-Mobile, and extrapolates this data to include suppositions about drug running, Mandi's motivations towards her friends, and the nature of Dollhouse staff's knowledge of Mandi and her various strip club activities. Adam and Mandi's sister Jessica dig up some fatal flaws in his logic - listen and see if you agree!The Angel at the Starlite Motel is a podcast centered around an anonymous man and his intimate encounters with ex-sex worker Mandi May Jackson...
2022-07-311h 45The Angel at the Starlite Motel0303: A Divining Stick For Failures And ScumbagsThis episode, listen to the arrest affidavit filed by Detective Sprague identifying the evidence his investigation uncovered and his conclusion that Mandi May Jackson and Scott Love should be arrested. The author disagrees with many of his assertions, but do we agree with him? Listen and find out! The Angel at the Starlite Motel is a podcast centered around an anonymous man and his intimate encounters with ex-sex worker Mandi May Jackson, who was convicted of the 2016 murder of strip club manager Jimmy Mulrenin in 2020, as detailed in the anonymous man's book which was shared with host Adam...
2022-07-102h 00The Angel at the Starlite Motel0302: When The Aliens LandA new section of the book continues, summarizing the evidence against Mandi, issues with juror misconduct, and Stephen's thoughts about the presumption of innocence in the American justice system. The commentary, an extra-long look with Mandi's sister Jessica at the accuracy of the reading, is a fascinating glance at what evidence Mandi truly faced during her trial. Check out James Mulrenin's toxicology report and more on Patreon today.The Angel at the Starlite Motel is a podcast centered around an anonymous man and his intimate encounters with ex-sex worker Mandi May Jackson, who was convicted of the 2016 murder...
2022-06-261h 34Dating Kinda SucksThe Hunt for Green FlagsWe all know to look out for red flags, but what are some of the positive attributes that might indicate a potential partner is good for you? This week, Sarah and Adam explore the green flags that present themselves with healthy individuals. Also this week, we reveal Master of None's real name, Sarah climbs a volcano, and Adam launches season 3 of his true crime podcast, Angel at the Starlite Motel!Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, honest, and hilarious podcast that focuses on all aspects of dating, sex, and relationships, promoting a lifestyle of transparency, openness, and healthy...
2022-06-171h 11The Angel at the Starlite Motel0301: Lesser of Two EvilsWelcome to Season Three! This season will take a new path for the podcast, as a SPECIAL NEW CO-HOST joins us for the duration of the show. Don't miss out on what she has to say about the last two seasons and the truth about Mandi going forward! Also this week, learn the true name of the author and hear some details about his interactions with Mandi's family that have never been shared before. Going forward, expect new episodes every two weeks and join our Patreon for extras!The Angel at the Starlite Motel is a podcast centered...
2022-06-121h 21Dating Kinda SucksCan Jealousy Be Healthy?That green monster jealousy can seep into any relationship, but is there ever a time when we should welcome it with open arms? Sarah and Adam explore whether or not jealousy can ever be healthy, and the answer might surprise you! Also this week: Adam finds a love for cuddling, Sarah avoids being sold into white girl slavery, and we have a new question from our DKS Helpline.Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, honest, and hilarious podcast that focuses on all aspects of dating, sex, and relationships, promoting a lifestyle of transparency, openness, and healthy communication as...
2022-06-101h 06Dating Kinda SucksCoercion and ConsentToo many people enter a relationship thinking that they're entitled to something they're not. Send this episode to those people, as Sarah and Adam explain how subversive coercion can be in violating someone's consent, especially when both parties are married or in a relationship. They explore many of the subtle ways that toxic partners use coercion and give you the tools to recognize it in yourself or your relationship. Also this week: a new caller to the DKS Hotline, Adam goes on a date in Houston, and Sarah prepares for a dry spell.Dating Kinda Sucks is a r...
2022-05-271h 22Dating Kinda SucksRefreshing Your Dating ProfileAre you feeling stagnant on the dating apps? It's probably time to take a break, reassess your situation, and refresh your profile! Sarah and Adam give you some insider tips into why a dating profile revitalization can yield more higher quality matches for you. Also this week - our first caller to the DKS Hotline, Sarah suffers a scare and Adam meets a soulmate from an alternate life.Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, honest, and hilarious podcast that focuses on all aspects of dating, sex, and relationships, promoting a lifestyle of transparency, openness, and healthy communication as...
2022-05-201h 21Dating Kinda SucksRoe v. Wade and Bodily AutonomyThe rights of American people with uteruses are at risk of being completely lost thanks to disingenuous groups of insidious people who purport to care about human life but demonstrate the opposite with every fetid breath. This week, Sarah and Adam express their support for every woman, trans man, and non-binary person to choose what's right for their bodies by revisiting an episode they recorded in 2019 after the Alabama Senate passed their hateful anti-choice law. Your hosts recorded some new commentary this week and then invite you to listen to a fruitful and open discussion of the importance of bodily...
2022-05-0654 minDating Kinda SucksStupid Dating Rules You Should IgnoreSo many dating coaches, pick-up artists, and article writers come up with dating rules that are at the very best, outdated, and at their worst, reductive nonsense that don't serve to benefit anyone. This week, Sarah and Adam go through some of the worst offenders and explain why setting rules for dating will rarely enhance your romantic prospects. Also this week, Adam's "visit every state" challenge is worse than you can possibly imagine, and Sarah blows up on TikTok! Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, honest, and hilarious podcast that focuses on all aspects of dating, sex, and r...
2022-04-221h 22Dating Kinda SucksConversations about Sober Dating and Larry FlyntIn this week’s Conversation About, Sarah and Adam talk to Kelsey Jay, an Executive Assistant in Los Angeles. She is a sober, tattooed human, mild Disney adult and lover of cowboy boots with all outfits, and you can find her on TikTok at http://www.tiktok.com/@mydadisheretopickmeup and Instagram at http://www.instagram.com/mydadisheretopickmeup!One of Kelsey's latest positions was that of the executive assistant to Larry Flynt. For those of you who are unfamiliar with Larry Flynt, he was an American publisher and the president of Larry Flynt Publications (LFP), which mainly produced pornographic ma...
2022-04-1555 minDating Kinda SucksLeaving Women TF AloneIn a world of dating apps, socially structured meetups, online communities, and more, it's amazing that many men still feel entitled to interrupt women in public. This week, Adam and Sarah talk about how important it is to leave women alone, why men should stop feeling entitled to a woman's time and space, and how toxic it is to get defensive and demand that being in public means you can do whatever you want. Leaving women alone shows them respect and acknowledges their concerns about a safety, misogyny, and the wounded egos of emotionally immature men who can't handle rejection...
2022-04-081h 18Dating Kinda SucksConversations about Hookup Culture with Dr. Aditi PaulIn this week’s Conversation About, Sarah and Adam talk to the delightful Dr. Aditi Paul, a New York-based professor and mixed-methods researcher. She uses her background in technology and relationship science to examine the impact of social media and dating apps on personal relationships.Aditi’s research has been published in top academic journals and has been featured in prominent media outlets such as NBCNews, The Washington Post, Women’s Health, The Telegraph UK, and Business Insider, and she's recently published a new book: "The Current Collegiate Hookup Culture: Dating Apps, Hookup Scripts, and Sexual Outcomes," where she pro...
2022-04-0158 minDating Kinda SucksThe Hidden Benefits of Dating AppsPlenty of people deride dating apps, but the fact is that they're just a tool, and using them properly can yield plenty of results for lots of different goals. This week, Sarah and Adam talk about all of the hidden benefits of dating apps that you might never have discovered on your own! Also this week, vagina gel and Adam will break up with your date for you on Cameo - sign up at http://www.Cameo.com/avitable today!Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, honest, and hilarious podcast that focuses on all aspects of dating, sex...
2022-03-251h 11Dating Kinda SucksIs Social Media Toxic for Relationships?Is social media bad for relationships, or is it only toxic and insecure people who think so? Sarah and Adam talk about the role social media plays in dating and relationships, the benefits and detriments, and what to do if your relationship is negatively affected by social media. Also this week, Adam goes on an embarrassing date, Sarah almost pukes over the Colombian countryside, and exes get married!Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, honest, and hilarious podcast that focuses on all aspects of dating, sex, and relationships, promoting a lifestyle of transparency, openness, and healthy communication as...
2022-02-251h 13Dating Kinda SucksAvoiding the Tinder SwindlerThe new Netflix documentary "The Tinder Swindler" tells a terrifying story about how far one man will go to manipulate women, taking hundreds of thousands of dollars from unsuspecting victims. But was any of this avoidable? Were there any red flags or warning signs? Sarah and Adam discuss the documentary while discussing some invaluable tips and tricks for women on dating apps to employ to help feel safer and significantly reduce the risk of being scammed or catfished by garbage men. Also in this episode: Sarah is in Colombia and Adam fails completely at celebrating his birthday.Dating...
2022-02-111h 14The Angel at the Starlite Motel0212: The Victim of a Private Room Scam in His Own HouseAfter a lengthy delay, the season 2 finale has arrived. David doesn't wrap up much but introduces more questions into what happened at Dollhouse the night before Mulrenin's murder. Quick note: The commentary was recorded in May 2021, when Adam was still in Orlando. There will be a season three, and more episodes on an ongoing basis, so stay tuned.The Angel at the Starlite Motel is a podcast centered around an anonymous man and his intimate encounters with ex-sex worker Mandi May Jackson, who was convicted of the 2016 murder of strip club manager Jimmy Mulrenin in 2020, as...
2022-02-091h 14Dating Kinda SucksHow To Be SingleWelcome to Season Five of Dating Kinda Sucks! When you've been in relationships for most of your adult life, it can be almost impossible to figure out what to do when you're single. This week, Adam and Sarah provide a plethora of tips and tricks for maximizing your single experience, including solo adventures you can go on that you might never have considered. Also in this episode: Sarah's second Christmas with Master of None, and Adam accepts the fact he's a hobo.Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, honest, and hilarious podcast that focuses on all aspects of...
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Get Naked with Dr. KateThe Myth of the "Nice Guy" - With Adam Avitable, host of the podcast Dating Kinda SucksIn this episode, Dr. Kate Balestrieri and Adam Avitable discuss the trappings of benevolent misogyny, the myth of hate "nice guy" and the experience Adam has had in challenging the laters of misogyny within. Adam Heath Avitable is a comedian, author, and former lawyer who is known for his commitment to being brutally honest, transparent, and vulnerable, all in the name of self-improvement. He is the cohost of the relationship podcast Dating Kinda Sucks where he and his cohost try to make dating, sex, and relationships a little easier for the rest of the world, and his...
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Dating Kinda SucksSituationship ShenanigansSituationships are that weird spot between being friends with benefits and a genuine relationship, and this week your hosts are going to tell you how to turn that situation into something healthy. Sarah and Adam will give you some good tips on communicating your needs and relationship goals clearly and without confusion. Also this week, Sarah rants about foot stuff, Adam gets ghosted, and more!Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, honest, and hilarious podcast that focuses on all aspects of dating, sex, and relationships, promoting a lifestyle of transparency, openness, and healthy communication as a path to...
2021-11-121h 04Dating Kinda SucksMaking the Leap: Moving In TogetherWith Sarah moving in with Master of None in the last week, we decided it was a great time to talk about living with your significant other. What should you consider before you move in, what can you expect from living with someone new, and what problems are you going to face? Also in this episode, Sarah's grandparents get it on, and Adam talks about his suicide shack.Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, honest, and hilarious podcast that focuses on all aspects of dating, sex, and relationships, promoting a lifestyle of transparency, openness, and healthy communication as...
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Stripped by SIA#88 - When True Crime Meets Stripping: A Story of Obsession, Misogyny, and Murder w/ Adam Heath Avitable of The Angel at the Starlite MotelWe are going a little left field this week as I invite my guest, Adam Heath Avitable of The Angel at the Starlite Motel and Dating Kinda Sucks podcasts onto the show. Even if you haven’t heard or listened to Adam’s podcasts, we dive deep into troubling intersectionalities that need to be discussed in sex work: misogyny, obsession, underage prostitution, stereotypes and stigmatization which all contribute to how sex work is seen in a negative light. Adam’s podcast, Angel at the Starlite Motel, tells the story of a dancer, Mandi May Jackson, and a client who was ob...
2021-09-261h 06Dating Kinda SucksMale Privilege: Myth or Reality?What is male privilege? Does it exist at all, or is it a fantasy crafted by women who just want men to show some f**kin' empathy? You can probably guess what direction this episode will take, but you may be surprised! Also in this episode: Sarah plans the next stage of her life, Adam meets up with some exes, and TikTok continues to be a juggernaut of content.Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, honest, and hilarious podcast that focuses on all aspects of dating, sex, and relationships, promoting a lifestyle of transparency, openness, and healthy communication...
2021-09-241h 25Dating Kinda SucksEmbracing Sexual MindfulnessPost-pandemic sex has been different, but in what ways? Adam and Sarah talk about sexual mindfulness and how many people are getting pickier when it comes to their sexual partners, focusing more on deep connections and sensual explorations than unfulfilling quickies with men who don't care about your pleasure. Also in this episode: Adam's dating in Memphis, Sarah's moving in with Master of None, and repeat after us: "I want to f**k a sandwich."Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, honest, and hilarious podcast that focuses on all aspects of dating, sex, and relationships, promoting a lifestyle...
2021-09-101h 10Dating Kinda SucksSmall Talk in Little Rock Bonus EpisodeIt's a bonus episode! Adam and Sarah meet up on a Friday night in Little Rock and chat about escorts, shoes, and other miscellany. Basically, Adam just roasts Sarah, but she holds her own against the drunk gorilla. This is an episode you'll want to listen to and then go watch again on YouTube! No topics, no takeaways, just a fun chat between two friends.Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, honest, and hilarious podcast that focuses on all aspects of dating, sex, and relationships, promoting a lifestyle of transparency, openness, and healthy communication as a path to...
2021-09-0328 minDating Kinda SucksRespecting and Setting BoundariesHealthy boundaries are the cornerstone to a healthy life, and Adam and Sarah spend this episode talking about how to set boundaries and just as importantly, how to respect the boundaries others have set. Also this week, Adam's writing a book, Sarah's signing a lease with her boyfriend, and some poor girl in Rapid City, South Dakota, has been forever mortified. Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, honest, and hilarious podcast that focuses on all aspects of dating, sex, and relationships, promoting a lifestyle of transparency, openness, and healthy communication as a path to happiness. It is created, e...
2021-08-261h 27Dating Kinda SucksJust Say No To Dating CoachesThis week, Sarah and Adam tackle the tacky topic of dating coaches and relationship gurus. Don't spend another penny or follow another poorly researched coaching tip until you listen to this episode. Also, Sarah has fun in a bus, Adam closes down a bar with a DKS listener, and more!Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, honest, and hilarious podcast that focuses on all aspects of dating, sex, and relationships, promoting a lifestyle of transparency, openness, and healthy communication as a path to happiness. It is created, edited, and produced by Sarah G. and Adam Heath Avitable.
2021-08-061h 18Dating Kinda SucksThe Many Types Of RejectionRejection can take many forms, and it's never easy to deal with. In this episode, Adam and Sarah talk about the best ways to approach being rejected, healthy tools for dealing with it, and why it's never appropriate to get defensive or act like a child when you get rejected. Also in this episode, Adam hates Clarksville, Sarah plans for a trip with her boyfriend's family, and more! Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, honest, and hilarious podcast that focuses on all aspects of dating, sex, and relationships, promoting a lifestyle of transparency, openness, and healthy communication as...
2021-07-231h 17Dating Kinda SucksAre You A Cheater?Is “once a cheater, always a cheater” a reality, or can cheaters change? Adam and Sarah talk about the different types of cheating, discuss micro cheating, and analyze when insecurities and jealousy are your enemy. Also in this episode, Adam dives into the deep end of dating and gets wet, and Sarah sets a new goal for fun in aviation!Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, honest, and hilarious podcast that focuses on all aspects of dating, sex, and relationships, promoting a lifestyle of transparency, openness, and healthy communication as a path to happiness. It is created, edited, and...
2021-07-081h 23Dating Kinda SucksHow Relationships EvolveRelationships aren't easy, especially as they evolve and grow over time, with partners sometimes growing in different directions. This week, your hosts talk about the evolution of your relationship over the long term. Also this week, Sarah prepares for a visit from her boyfriend, and Adam embraces the life of a hermit.Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, honest, and hilarious podcast that focuses on all aspects of dating, sex, and relationships, promoting a lifestyle of transparency, openness, and healthy communication as a path to happiness. It is created, edited, and produced by Sarah G. and Adam Heath...
2021-06-251h 17Dating Kinda SucksThe Friend Zone FallacyThe Friend Zone is not real! In this episode, Adam and Sarah break down the fallacy of the friend zone and explain why the very concept is non-existent and men should stop using it as an excuse to exhibit shitty or "nice guy" behavior. Learn how to break free from this toxic behavior and what true friendships actually are, and why women and men generally view friendships differently. Also in this episode: Sarah and Master of None look at the next step in their relationship, Adam goes on a date in his new temporary home, and your favorite podcast hosts...
2021-06-111h 17Dating Kinda SucksJumpstarting Your Sex DriveWhether you're in a relationship or on your own, your sex drive can vary drastically. In this week's episode, Sarah and Adam talk about ways to boost that sex drive into something that works for you and a partner (or you and your right hand). Also this week: Sarah and Master of None have some tension, and Adam talks about boner pills.Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, honest, and hilarious podcast that focuses on all aspects of dating, sex, and relationships, promoting a lifestyle of transparency, openness, and healthy communication as a path to happiness. It is...
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