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Dating Kinda SucksDating Kinda SucksThe One About JapanAfter a 16-day trip to Japan, Sarah's got a ton of fascinating information to share, but that's not all we have planned for this chock-full episode. Adam's in his feels and doing all the dating things wrong, so you don't want to miss out on his masochistic idiocy. Plus we talk about Seattle summers, stand-up comedy, and stripper showcases. Tune in for a fascinating hour and a half! As always, we need listeners to call and ask for advice or give their input by calling the DKS Hotline. Let us know you're listening by calling or texting 407-519...2025-06-211h 34Dating Kinda SucksDating Kinda SucksMen Vs. Food - Gastronomy or Misogyny?On this week's episode of The DKS Podcast, we start to embrace our new name with an off-the-cuff examination of what men expect for dinner. Is it generational, situational, or negligible?  Sarah reaches a relationship milestone, Adam has a comedy emergency, and the pair discuss the new direction of the podcast, the new logo (check it out!), and our weirdness as a people about food. We also wait for listeners to call and ask for advice or give their input by pitching the DKS Hotline. Let us know you're listening by calling or texting 407-519-0181 or emailing us...2025-04-041h 12Dating Kinda SucksDating Kinda SucksTen Good Things in 2025And the DKS Podcast is back with the first episode of Season Eight! Adam and Sarah have spent the last few months gobsmacked that things have gotten exactly as bad as they have. We knew it was possible, but the reality is chilling for anyone trying to be creative, hence the use of our word "gobsmacked". But we put on our big girl panties and decided to be a shining example of optimism and hope among a tornado of shit and stupidity.In this episode, we catch up on our lives, Adam overshares, Sarah censors herself for once...2025-03-131h 15Dating Kinda SucksDating Kinda SucksSeason Finale: Adam in Tulsa, Sarah in Taiwan, World in DisarrayIt's our season seven finale, and we have big changes coming in 2025 and beyond! With different types of episodes covering diverse topics that include but go beyond dating and relationships, the DKS Podcast is here to stay! This week, Adam and Sarah answer a listener question - does she actually like her boyfriend? Adam talks about dating in Tulsa and how his lack of permanence affects his ability to make connections, and Sarah gives a fantastic virtual tour of her recent visit to Taiwan. And we want you to help us start off 2025 by calling in and asking a...2024-12-201h 37Dating Kinda SucksDating Kinda SucksThe Perfect WomanAfter a little summer hiatus, Adam and Sarah return to discuss the perfect woman, break down why men seem to have ridiculous standards while women have reasonable preferences, and make fun of incels and other crusty-assed dudes who only want mommies and sex slaves. Also this week, Adam goes on too many dates, Sarah appears on Good Morning America, and your hosts answer a voicemail about love bombing and being a simp. You too can call in and ask your question, suggest topics, or just give feedback by calling our DKS Hotline at 407-519-0181 today!The DKS...2024-07-191h 28Dating Kinda SucksDating Kinda SucksFrom the DKS Vault: The Search For Good PornEnjoy this classic episode from the DKS Vault, originally published in August of 2020. In a quest to discover whether or not she enjoys adult films, Sarah has spent the past two weeks reviewing a veritable motherlode of alone time clips - a pornucopia, if you will - compiled by Adam. Watching everything from gay to fetish, trans to hotwife, Sarah's ready to talk about what she watched and what type of adult material is right for her. Also in this episode, Sarah has important relationship needs, Adam's so lonely he got turned on by a video game, and w...2024-06-071h 45Dating Kinda SucksDating Kinda SucksMen vs BearWho would you rather encounter in the woods, a man or a bear? This question has proven controversial for many men in the world (and rather simple to answer for most women, overwhelmingly choosing the bear). This week, Sarah and Adam talk about how men should react to this question, expand the discussion to add some context for anyone who might be confused, and throw in a few bear puns as well. Also this week, Sarah makes a cake that has explosive properties, Adam makes more friends in Tulsa, and your hosts answer a call from the DKS Hotline! You t...2024-05-031h 01Dating Kinda SucksDating Kinda SucksWomen Don't Need Men Anymore - The 4B MovementIt's official - women don't need men. They can buy homes, get bank accounts, and live happy, fully satisfied lives without men getting in the way, and men don't like it. In this episode, Sarah and Adam talk about the 4B movement, an anti-dating movement from South Korea, and how it's spreading across the US too. Should crusty "alphas" with unwashed asses start to worry? Also this week, Adam and Sarah talk about their lives since February, and they give an update about Passport Bros and their creepy illegal tendencies with a story about Timothy Alan Livingston and h...2024-04-121h 23Dating Kinda SucksDating Kinda SucksIs Dating Expensive? A Look at the Cost of Loving.This week, Adam and Sarah discuss the costs and expenses involved in being single, dating, and being in a relationship. What precisely is the cost of loving?Also this week, Sarah and Adam talk about their birthdays, make fun of that idiot who's suing women and Facebook for being showcased in "Are We Dating The Same Guy?", answer a voicemail about lovebombing, and discuss Cape Town, South Africa as a travel destination. You too can call in and ask your question, suggest topics, or just give feedback by calling our DKS Hotline at 407-519-0181 today!...2024-01-261h 15Dating Kinda SucksDating Kinda SucksThe Mr. Simone Biles Controversy: Impress Your Friends or Support Your Partners?It's Season Seven of the DKS Podcast, and this is the season of the listener! We want your input, your feedback, and your support by sharing, reviewing, and interacting with us as much as possible! Our success comes from the community and we want to foster that community on a whole new level this year. If you haven't given us a 5-star rating and review on iTunes, now's your chance!This week, Adam and Sarah discuss the Simone Biles/Mr. Simone Biles controversy and identify all of the ways that it's not okay for men to...2024-01-121h 12Dating Kinda SucksDating Kinda SucksShould Your Partner Challenge You?We all know that facing challenges in life makes us more resilient, stronger, more capable, and better at handling whatever life throws at us, but where should those challenges be coming from? This week, Sarah and Adam will discuss whether or not your partner should be the one to challenge you, and if so, when those challenges are appropriate. Also this week, we have an email from an Australian listener (and Adam apologizes in advance for his terrible Australian accent), Sarah prepares for a trip to South Africa, and Adam gets ready for a Thanksgiving alone in Tulsa....2023-11-241h 00Dating Kinda SucksDating Kinda SucksIs the 6-6-6 Rule Truth or Fiction?Men love to say that women date by the 6-6-6 rule - they want 6 feet, 6 inches, and 6 figures. But is this true? Is this why men are having difficulty finding dates, or is it their inability to look beyond their type? And is it settling to expand your type? This week, Adam and Sarah will talk about types and why men and women approach them differently. Also in this episode, a call about dating anxiety from a listener, Sarah explores Cape Flattery, and Adam has the most epic Sunday Funday ever, Daytona Beach style.The DKS Podcast...2023-10-131h 20Dating Kinda SucksDating Kinda SucksDo Adults Need Sex Ed??The amount of ignorance that many adult men (and a handful of women) have with regards to sex, sexual intercourse, and women’s bodies shouldn’t surprise us after seeing a bunch of crusty old white dudes legislate women’s bodies. But be prepared to be shocked at the depths this ignorance can reach. After this episode, Sarah and Adam both agree that no adult should be allowed to engage in any physical contact with another consenting adult until they take at least one sex education class. For the sake of humanity.Also this week, a Mormon listener wrestl...2023-09-151h 12Dating Kinda SucksDating Kinda SucksIs Barbie Too Hard On Men?The Barbie movie is a billion dollar behemoth, and so many men are hemotional about it, recording himsterical podcasts, and throwing himsy fits. Is it warranted? Are men justified in crying about kenough being kenough? This week Sarah and Adam examine the pink feminist phenom and what it says about gender roles, the patriarchy, and horses. Also this week, a question from a listener about familial relationships, Sarah survives a trip to a remote cabin in Maine, and Adam takes over What to See with a review of the Origin Westminster and his time in Denver.The DKS...2023-08-111h 24Dating Kinda SucksDating Kinda SucksIs That The Jonah Hill You're Willing To Die On?Boundaries are essential to any healthy relationship. But when does it transform from a healthy boundary to unhealthy abuse? What is the line between controlling someone's behavior and setting behaviors for a respectful relationship? Sarah and Adam discuss the recent Jonah Hill controversy and talk about why his behavior was not boundary setting and that his weaponization of therapy terms to gaslight and manipulate his girlfriend is abusive and toxic. Also this week, Adam has an interesting encounter with a fan, Sarah meets up with her ex's parents, we have a call from our DKS Hotline, and Adam and Sarah...2023-07-141h 10Dating Kinda SucksDating Kinda SucksRespecting Dating App BoundariesDating apps give you the opportunity to set boundaries with regards to your safety, and when people push or violate those boundaries, it's a huge red flag. Adam and Sarah talk about when it is and is not okay to find someone in real life or on social media when you don't match on a dating app. Also this week, an email from a listener, Adam gets cranky about everything, and we get an update from an old date of Adam's and a reminder about why red flags should never be collected!The DKS Podcast is a raw...2023-06-301h 04Dating Kinda SucksDating Kinda SucksPair Bonding and PromiscuityBefore you listen to this episode, call the DKS Hotline at 407-519-0181 and ask us a question! Done? Great. The new trend in toxic man culture and women shaming is a nonsense phrase called "pair bonding" and how it applies to a woman's sex life (never the man's, of course). How much bullshit does this concept contain and how do you counter it when some crusty-assed dude brings it up? Your hosts will explain it in simple language even Andrew Tate could understand in this episode. Also this week, Sarah talks about her fantastic travel experience at the Lodge...2023-03-031h 14The Angel at the Starlite MotelThe Angel at the Starlite Motel0311: Girls in Jail Tell Complicated Elaborate StoriesThe author tells a story of two convicts, one current, one former, and the stories they told him, leading up to a discussion of jailhouse informants and their blatant lack of credibility. Check out some of the actual notes written by inmates snitching on other girls on our Patreon at http://www.patreon.com/angelmurder!The Angel at the Starlite Motel is a podcast centered around an anonymous man and his intimate encounters with ex-sex worker Mandi May Jackson, who was convicted of the 2016 murder of strip club manager James Mulrenin in 2020, as detailed in the anonymous man's...2022-12-0554 minThe Angel at the Starlite MotelThe Angel at the Starlite Motel0310: Representing Car Wax and LawsuitsStarting section four of the book with a chapter dedicated to Casey Anthony's lawyer, Jose Baez, and the author's attempts to hire the notorious sleazeball (in our opinion), we start to learn more about why Mandi's jailhouse informants were less than credible. Don't forget to visit our Patreon at http://www.patreon.com/angelmurder to catch up on the hours of materials, free and otherwise, available to slake your thirst for knowledge!The Angel at the Starlite Motel is a podcast centered around an anonymous man and his intimate encounters with ex-sex worker Mandi May Jackson, who was...2022-11-071h 31Dating Kinda SucksDating Kinda SucksRed Flags in BedThere are red flags to watch out for when you first meet someone, and then there are the red flags that don't show up until you're naked and vulnerable in bed with a new partner. Sarah and Adam identify the pre-, post-, and inter-coital warning signs that you don't want to miss. Also this week, your hosts answer an email question from a listener, Sarah explores Little Rock in her latest What To See With Sarah G. segment, and Adam complains some more about Utah. Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, honest, and hilarious podcast that focuses on...2022-10-211h 17The Angel at the Starlite MotelThe Angel at the Starlite Motel0309: The Ugliest Girl in Science Class Finally Got Her RevengeBreaking News! You're not going to want to miss the second half of this episode, where Adam Avitable and Jessica Jackson share some current information on Mandi's appeal. The direction of the podcast for the future is discussed, and all of the skipped chapters are posted on Patreon at http://www.patreon.com/angelmurder for the missing chapters if you want to read them for free! The Angel at the Starlite Motel is a podcast centered around an anonymous man and his intimate encounters with ex-sex worker Mandi May Jackson, who was convicted of the 2016 murder of strip...2022-10-171h 06Dating Kinda SucksDating Kinda SucksThe Mullet ConundrumWhat is the mullet conundrum? It's the issue you're presented with when the partner you love makes a cosmetic change that you hate. How do you handle it? Sarah and Adam discuss the best actions you can take when faced with . . . the mullet conundrum. Also this week, What To See With Sarah G. looks at Dublin and we take another caller from the DKS Hotline!Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, honest, and hilarious podcast that focuses on all aspects of dating, sex, and relationships, promoting a lifestyle of transparency, openness, and healthy communication as a path to...2022-10-071h 06The Angel at the Starlite MotelThe Angel at the Starlite Motel0308: Mulrenin Overate Sin At His Own BuffetSkipping six chapters to avoid redundancy and repetitive content, we start with chapter 16 and a discussion of the inconsistencies between the 911 call and initial reports vs Detective Sprague's insistence in pursuing a narrative where Mandi is a killer. Check out the Patreon at http://www.patreon.com/angelmurder for the missing chapters if you want to read them for free! The Angel at the Starlite Motel is a podcast centered around an anonymous man and his intimate encounters with ex-sex worker Mandi May Jackson, who was convicted of the 2016 murder of strip club manager James Mulrenin in 2020, as...2022-10-031h 26Dating Kinda SucksDating Kinda SucksThe Stigma of Being SingleCan we stop treating single people, and especially single women, like they’re somehow incomplete? This week, Sarah and Adam talk about stopping the stigma society places on being single. Are you contributing to it? Also this week, Sarah tells us what to see in Nashville, Adam’s about to give up on Utah dating, and we take another call from the DKS Hotline about dating with an age difference!Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, honest, and hilarious podcast that focuses on all aspects of dating, sex, and relationships, promoting a lifestyle of transparency, openness, and healthy comm...2022-09-161h 16The Angel at the Starlite MotelThe Angel at the Starlite Motel0307: A Lot of Coffee or SomethingThis is a quick episode that covers two chapters all recapping the issues with the video evidence - we'll have to make some editorial decisions soon because some of the content is beginning to be redundant, so stay tuned! Also in this episode, an email from someone who knew Scott Love on the inside sheds some light on his relationship with Mandi!The Angel at the Starlite Motel is a podcast centered around an anonymous man and his intimate encounters with ex-sex worker Mandi May Jackson, who was convicted of the 2016 murder of strip club manager Jimmy Mulrenin...2022-09-1249 minDating Kinda SucksDating Kinda SucksTraveling With Your PartnerThey say that one of the best ways to test a relationship is to go on vacation together (that or shop at IKEA). Sarah and Adam give you some great tips for making the most out of traveling, setting expectations for your couple's vacay, and staying together and happy while you travel. Also this week, Sarah's leaving Nashville for good, Adam's giving up on Utah dating, and we have another "What to See with Sarah G" segment!Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, honest, and hilarious podcast that focuses on all aspects of dating, sex, and relationships, promoting...2022-09-021h 22The Angel at the Starlite MotelThe Angel at the Starlite Motel0306: Filled With Cute Lawyer GirlsThe author drops a bombshell about the existence of video that wasn't used at Mandi's trial, showing how Scott Love entered the apartment building. Is there an entire hard drive of video that could exonerate Mandi? Listen to find out and check out the depositions of two of the officers today on Patreon!The Angel at the Starlite Motel is a podcast centered around an anonymous man and his intimate encounters with ex-sex worker Mandi May Jackson, who was convicted of the 2016 murder of strip club manager Jimmy Mulrenin in 2020, as detailed in the anonymous man's book which...2022-08-281h 14Dating Kinda SucksDating Kinda SucksAre You Being Love Bombed? (From the DKS Vault)Originally aired on February 2022. If narcissists and abusers had a rule book, rule number one would be “Love bomb.” The act of love bombing flatters, entices, and manipulates, and most of us have fallen victim to it at least once in our lives. But how do you recognize it and how do you avoid the romantic terrorists in the world who bomb the hell out of you and then leave you lying in a crater of pain and neglect? Sarah G. and Adam Avitable give you all the tools you need to dodge those bombs and survive the dating world. 2022-08-191h 20The Angel at the Starlite MotelThe Angel at the Starlite Motel0305: A Girl Is Born Naked With Everything She NeedsWe skipped chapter four, which is simply the police report, and focused on chapter five of the book this week, detailing the video evidence provided by the police and all of the many flaws with this evidence. No timestamps? No video of Scott Love leaving the building? No real evidence of an actual robbery? Adam and Jessica talk about the faulty evidence, the author's anger towards this podcast, and the relationship between Jessica and her sister Mandi. Don't forget to see the evidence for yourself on Patreon today!The Angel at the Starlite Motel is a podcast centered...2022-08-141h 25Dating Kinda SucksDating Kinda SucksThe Myth of VirginityFor centuries, the concept of virginity has been used to subjugate women and shame men, and it’s time to get rid of these concepts. Adam and Sarah talk about why virginity is a misogynistic, purity culture nonsense concept that only serves to harm others, mislead children, and enable toxic men. Also in this episode, Adam goes on another date in Utah, Sarah almost poops her pants in public, and we have another segment of "What to See with Sarah G." that highlights all of the best places for couples or solo travelers to see and experience in Lisbon, Portugal!2022-08-051h 25The Angel at the Starlite MotelThe Angel at the Starlite Motel0304: The Safest Day in a Lemon's LifeThe author uses this chapter to explain his theories involving Mandi's travels the days before Mulrenin's death using cell tower data provided by T-Mobile, and extrapolates this data to include suppositions about drug running, Mandi's motivations towards her friends, and the nature of Dollhouse staff's knowledge of Mandi and her various strip club activities. Adam and Mandi's sister Jessica dig up some fatal flaws in his logic - listen and see if you agree!The Angel at the Starlite Motel is a podcast centered around an anonymous man and his intimate encounters with ex-sex worker Mandi May Jackson...2022-07-311h 45The Angel at the Starlite MotelThe Angel at the Starlite Motel0303: A Divining Stick For Failures And ScumbagsThis episode, listen to the arrest affidavit filed by Detective Sprague identifying the evidence his investigation uncovered and his conclusion that Mandi May Jackson and Scott Love should be arrested. The author disagrees with many of his assertions, but do we agree with him? Listen and find out! The Angel at the Starlite Motel is a podcast centered around an anonymous man and his intimate encounters with ex-sex worker Mandi May Jackson, who was convicted of the 2016 murder of strip club manager Jimmy Mulrenin in 2020, as detailed in the anonymous man's book which was shared with host Adam...2022-07-102h 00The Angel at the Starlite MotelThe Angel at the Starlite Motel0302: When The Aliens LandA new section of the book continues, summarizing the evidence against Mandi, issues with juror misconduct, and Stephen's thoughts about the presumption of innocence in the American justice system. The commentary, an extra-long look with Mandi's sister Jessica at the accuracy of the reading, is a fascinating glance at what evidence Mandi truly faced during her trial. Check out James Mulrenin's toxicology report and more on Patreon today.The Angel at the Starlite Motel is a podcast centered around an anonymous man and his intimate encounters with ex-sex worker Mandi May Jackson, who was convicted of the 2016 murder...2022-06-261h 34Dating Kinda SucksDating Kinda SucksThe Hunt for Green FlagsWe all know to look out for red flags, but what are some of the positive attributes that might indicate a potential partner is good for you? This week, Sarah and Adam explore the green flags that present themselves with healthy individuals. Also this week, we reveal Master of None's real name, Sarah climbs a volcano, and Adam launches season 3 of his true crime podcast, Angel at the Starlite Motel!Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, honest, and hilarious podcast that focuses on all aspects of dating, sex, and relationships, promoting a lifestyle of transparency, openness, and healthy...2022-06-171h 11The Angel at the Starlite MotelThe Angel at the Starlite Motel0301: Lesser of Two EvilsWelcome to Season Three! This season will take a new path for the podcast, as a SPECIAL NEW CO-HOST joins us for the duration of the show. Don't miss out on what she has to say about the last two seasons and the truth about Mandi going forward! Also this week, learn the true name of the author and hear some details about his interactions with Mandi's family that have never been shared before. Going forward, expect new episodes every two weeks and join our Patreon for extras!The Angel at the Starlite Motel is a podcast centered...2022-06-121h 21Dating Kinda SucksDating Kinda SucksCan Jealousy Be Healthy?That green monster jealousy can seep into any relationship, but is there ever a time when we should welcome it with open arms? Sarah and Adam explore whether or not jealousy can ever be healthy, and the answer might surprise you! Also this week: Adam finds a love for cuddling, Sarah avoids being sold into white girl slavery, and we have a new question from our DKS Helpline.Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, honest, and hilarious podcast that focuses on all aspects of dating, sex, and relationships, promoting a lifestyle of transparency, openness, and healthy communication as...2022-06-101h 06Dating Kinda SucksDating Kinda SucksCoercion and ConsentToo many people enter a relationship thinking that they're entitled to something they're not. Send this episode to those people, as Sarah and Adam explain how subversive coercion can be in violating someone's consent, especially when both parties are married or in a relationship. They explore many of the subtle ways that toxic partners use coercion and give you the tools to recognize it in yourself or  your relationship. Also this week: a new caller to the DKS Hotline, Adam goes on a date in Houston, and Sarah prepares for a dry spell.Dating Kinda Sucks is a r...2022-05-271h 22Dating Kinda SucksDating Kinda SucksRefreshing Your Dating ProfileAre you feeling stagnant on the dating apps? It's probably time to take a break, reassess your situation, and refresh your profile! Sarah and Adam give you some insider tips into why a dating profile revitalization can yield more higher quality matches for you. Also this week - our first caller to the DKS Hotline, Sarah suffers a scare and Adam meets a soulmate from an alternate life.Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, honest, and hilarious podcast that focuses on all aspects of dating, sex, and relationships, promoting a lifestyle of transparency, openness, and healthy communication as...2022-05-201h 21Dating Kinda SucksDating Kinda SucksRoe v. Wade and Bodily AutonomyThe rights of American people with uteruses are at risk of being completely lost thanks to disingenuous groups of insidious people who purport to care about human life but demonstrate the opposite with every fetid breath. This week, Sarah and Adam express their support for every woman, trans man, and non-binary person to choose what's right for their bodies by revisiting an episode they recorded in 2019 after the Alabama Senate passed their hateful anti-choice law. Your hosts recorded some new commentary this week and then invite you to listen to a fruitful and open discussion of the importance of bodily...2022-05-0654 minDating Kinda SucksDating Kinda SucksStupid Dating Rules You Should IgnoreSo many dating coaches, pick-up artists, and article writers come up with dating rules that are at the very best, outdated, and at their worst, reductive nonsense that don't serve to benefit anyone. This week, Sarah and Adam go through some of the worst offenders and explain why setting rules for dating will rarely enhance your romantic prospects. Also this week, Adam's "visit every state" challenge is worse than you can possibly imagine, and Sarah blows up on TikTok! Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, honest, and hilarious podcast that focuses on all aspects of dating, sex, and r...2022-04-221h 22Dating Kinda SucksDating Kinda SucksConversations about Sober Dating and Larry FlyntIn this week’s Conversation About, Sarah and Adam talk to Kelsey Jay, an Executive Assistant in Los Angeles. She is a sober, tattooed human, mild Disney adult and lover of cowboy boots with all outfits, and you can find her on TikTok at http://www.tiktok.com/@mydadisheretopickmeup and Instagram at http://www.instagram.com/mydadisheretopickmeup!One of Kelsey's latest positions was that of the executive assistant to Larry Flynt. For those of you who are unfamiliar with Larry Flynt, he was an American publisher and the president of Larry Flynt Publications (LFP), which mainly produced pornographic ma...2022-04-1555 minDating Kinda SucksDating Kinda SucksLeaving Women TF AloneIn a world of dating apps, socially structured meetups, online communities, and more, it's amazing that many men still feel entitled to interrupt women in public. This week, Adam and Sarah talk about how important it is to leave women alone, why men should stop feeling entitled to a woman's time and space, and how toxic it is to get defensive and demand that being in public means you can do whatever you want. Leaving women alone shows them respect and acknowledges their concerns about a safety, misogyny, and the wounded egos of emotionally immature men who can't handle rejection...2022-04-081h 18Dating Kinda SucksDating Kinda SucksConversations about Hookup Culture with Dr. Aditi PaulIn this week’s Conversation About, Sarah and Adam talk to the delightful Dr. Aditi Paul, a New York-based professor and mixed-methods researcher. She uses her background in technology and relationship science to examine the impact of social media and dating apps on personal relationships.Aditi’s research has been published in top academic journals and has been featured in prominent media outlets such as NBCNews, The Washington Post, Women’s Health, The Telegraph UK, and Business Insider, and she's recently published a new book: "The Current Collegiate Hookup Culture: Dating Apps, Hookup Scripts, and Sexual Outcomes," where she pro...2022-04-0158 minDating Kinda SucksDating Kinda SucksThe Hidden Benefits of Dating AppsPlenty of people deride dating apps, but the fact is that they're just a tool, and using them properly can yield plenty of results for lots of different goals. This week, Sarah and Adam talk about all of the hidden benefits of dating apps that you might never have discovered on your own! Also this week, vagina gel and Adam will break up with your date for you on Cameo - sign up at http://www.Cameo.com/avitable today!Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, honest, and hilarious podcast that focuses on all aspects of dating, sex...2022-03-251h 11Dating Kinda SucksDating Kinda SucksIs Social Media Toxic for Relationships?Is social media bad for relationships, or is it only toxic and insecure people who think so? Sarah and Adam talk about the role social media plays in dating and relationships, the benefits and detriments, and what to do if your relationship is negatively affected by social media. Also this week, Adam goes on an embarrassing date, Sarah almost pukes over the Colombian countryside, and exes get married!Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, honest, and hilarious podcast that focuses on all aspects of dating, sex, and relationships, promoting a lifestyle of transparency, openness, and healthy communication as...2022-02-251h 13Dating Kinda SucksDating Kinda SucksAvoiding the Tinder SwindlerThe new Netflix documentary "The Tinder Swindler" tells a terrifying story about how far one man will go to manipulate women, taking hundreds of thousands of dollars from unsuspecting victims. But was any of this avoidable? Were there any red flags or warning signs? Sarah and Adam discuss the documentary while discussing some invaluable tips and tricks for women on dating apps to employ to help feel safer and significantly reduce the risk of being scammed or catfished by garbage men. Also in this episode: Sarah is in Colombia and Adam fails completely at celebrating his birthday.Dating...2022-02-111h 14The Angel at the Starlite MotelThe Angel at the Starlite Motel0212: The Victim of a Private Room Scam in His Own HouseAfter a lengthy delay, the season 2 finale has arrived. David doesn't wrap up much but introduces more questions into what happened at Dollhouse the night before Mulrenin's murder. Quick note: The commentary was recorded in May 2021, when Adam was still in Orlando. There will be a season three, and more episodes on an ongoing basis, so stay tuned.The Angel at the Starlite Motel is a podcast centered around an anonymous man and his intimate encounters with ex-sex worker Mandi May Jackson, who was convicted of the 2016 murder of strip club manager Jimmy Mulrenin in 2020, as...2022-02-091h 14Dating Kinda SucksDating Kinda SucksHow To Be SingleWelcome to Season Five of Dating Kinda Sucks! When you've been in relationships for most of your adult life, it can be almost impossible to figure out what to do when you're single. This week, Adam and Sarah provide a plethora of tips and tricks for maximizing your single experience, including solo adventures you can go on that you might never have considered. Also in this episode: Sarah's second Christmas with Master of None, and Adam accepts the fact he's a hobo.Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, honest, and hilarious podcast that focuses on all aspects of...2022-01-071h 16Dating Kinda SucksDating Kinda SucksBuilding Self ConfidenceSuccess in dating, relationships, and during intimacy requires multiple factors, but one of the most important elements is self confidence. Learning how to love yourself, see your value, and be confident in your actions and words will pay off in both the short term and long run. Sarah and Adam take this episode to talk about ways to build confidence and boost your self esteem, and these tools will help you in every aspect of your life!Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, honest, and hilarious podcast that focuses on all aspects of dating, sex, and relationships, promoting...2021-11-261h 26Get Naked with Dr. KateGet Naked with Dr. KateThe Myth of the "Nice Guy" - With Adam Avitable, host of the podcast Dating Kinda SucksIn this episode, Dr. Kate Balestrieri and Adam Avitable discuss the trappings of benevolent misogyny, the myth of hate "nice guy" and the experience Adam has had in challenging the laters of misogyny within. Adam Heath Avitable is a comedian, author, and former lawyer who is known for his commitment to being brutally honest, transparent, and vulnerable, all in the name of self-improvement. He is the cohost of the relationship podcast Dating Kinda Sucks where he and his cohost try to make dating, sex, and relationships a little easier for the rest of the world, and his...2021-11-2236 minDating Kinda SucksDating Kinda SucksSituationship ShenanigansSituationships are that weird spot between being friends with benefits and a genuine relationship, and this week your hosts are going to tell you how to turn that situation into something healthy. Sarah and Adam will give you some good tips on communicating your needs and relationship goals clearly and without confusion. Also this week, Sarah rants about foot stuff, Adam gets ghosted, and more!Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, honest, and hilarious podcast that focuses on all aspects of dating, sex, and relationships, promoting a lifestyle of transparency, openness, and healthy communication as a path to...2021-11-121h 04Dating Kinda SucksDating Kinda SucksThe Etiquette of UnmatchingLearning how to use dating apps as the tools they are designed to be can be tricky, and one of the trickier aspects is the unmatch option. In this episode, your hosts talk about when to unmatch, when to stay matched, and why you shouldn't feel guilt or anxiety about it at all. Also in this episode, Adam's Memphis Cup O Shame and Sarah runs into someone from her past.Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, honest, and hilarious podcast that focuses on all aspects of dating, sex, and relationships, promoting a lifestyle of transparency, openness, and healthy...2021-10-291h 16Dating Kinda SucksDating Kinda SucksMaking the Leap: Moving In TogetherWith Sarah moving in with Master of None in the last week, we decided it was a great time to talk about living with your significant other. What should you consider before you move in, what can you expect from living with someone new, and what problems are you going to face? Also in this episode, Sarah's grandparents get it on, and Adam talks about his suicide shack.Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, honest, and hilarious podcast that focuses on all aspects of dating, sex, and relationships, promoting a lifestyle of transparency, openness, and healthy communication as...2021-10-151h 20Stripped by SIAStripped by SIA#88 - When True Crime Meets Stripping: A Story of Obsession, Misogyny, and Murder w/ Adam Heath Avitable of The Angel at the Starlite MotelWe are going a little left field this week as I invite my guest, Adam Heath Avitable of The Angel at the Starlite Motel and Dating Kinda Sucks podcasts onto the show. Even if you haven’t heard or listened to Adam’s podcasts, we dive deep into troubling intersectionalities that need to be discussed in sex work: misogyny, obsession, underage prostitution, stereotypes and stigmatization which all contribute to how sex work is seen in a negative light. Adam’s podcast, Angel at the Starlite Motel, tells the story of a dancer, Mandi May Jackson, and a client who was ob...2021-09-261h 06Dating Kinda SucksDating Kinda SucksMale Privilege: Myth or Reality?What is male privilege? Does it exist at all, or is it a fantasy crafted by women who just want men to show some f**kin' empathy? You can probably guess what direction this episode will take, but you may be surprised! Also in this episode: Sarah plans the next stage of her life, Adam meets up with some exes, and TikTok continues to be a juggernaut of content.Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, honest, and hilarious podcast that focuses on all aspects of dating, sex, and relationships, promoting a lifestyle of transparency, openness, and healthy communication...2021-09-241h 25Dating Kinda SucksDating Kinda SucksEmbracing Sexual MindfulnessPost-pandemic sex has been different, but in what ways? Adam and Sarah talk about sexual mindfulness and how many people are getting pickier when it comes to their sexual partners, focusing more on deep connections and sensual explorations than unfulfilling quickies with men who don't care about your pleasure. Also in this episode: Adam's dating in Memphis, Sarah's moving in with Master of None, and repeat after us: "I want to f**k a sandwich."Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, honest, and hilarious podcast that focuses on all aspects of dating, sex, and relationships, promoting a lifestyle...2021-09-101h 10Dating Kinda SucksDating Kinda SucksSmall Talk in Little Rock Bonus EpisodeIt's a bonus episode! Adam and Sarah meet up on a Friday night in Little Rock and chat about escorts, shoes, and other miscellany. Basically, Adam just roasts Sarah, but she holds her own against the drunk gorilla. This is an episode you'll want to listen to and then go watch again on YouTube! No topics, no takeaways, just a fun chat between two friends.Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, honest, and hilarious podcast that focuses on all aspects of dating, sex, and relationships, promoting a lifestyle of transparency, openness, and healthy communication as a path to...2021-09-0328 minDating Kinda SucksDating Kinda SucksRespecting and Setting BoundariesHealthy boundaries are the cornerstone to a healthy life, and Adam and Sarah spend this episode talking about how to set boundaries and just as importantly, how to respect the boundaries others have set. Also this week, Adam's writing a book, Sarah's signing a lease with her boyfriend, and some poor girl in Rapid City, South Dakota, has been forever mortified. Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, honest, and hilarious podcast that focuses on all aspects of dating, sex, and relationships, promoting a lifestyle of transparency, openness, and healthy communication as a path to happiness. It is created, e...2021-08-261h 27Dating Kinda SucksDating Kinda SucksJust Say No To Dating CoachesThis week, Sarah and Adam tackle the tacky topic of dating coaches and relationship gurus. Don't spend another penny or follow another poorly researched coaching tip until you listen to this episode. Also, Sarah has fun in a bus, Adam closes down a bar with a DKS listener, and more!Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, honest, and hilarious podcast that focuses on all aspects of dating, sex, and relationships, promoting a lifestyle of transparency, openness, and healthy communication as a path to happiness. It is created, edited, and produced by Sarah G. and Adam Heath Avitable.2021-08-061h 18Dating Kinda SucksDating Kinda SucksThe Many Types Of RejectionRejection can take many forms, and it's never easy to deal with. In this episode, Adam and Sarah talk about the best ways to approach being rejected, healthy tools for dealing with it, and why it's never appropriate to get defensive or act like a child when you get rejected. Also in this episode, Adam hates Clarksville, Sarah plans for a trip with her boyfriend's family, and more! Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, honest, and hilarious podcast that focuses on all aspects of dating, sex, and relationships, promoting a lifestyle of transparency, openness, and healthy communication as...2021-07-231h 17Dating Kinda SucksDating Kinda SucksAre You A Cheater?Is “once a cheater, always a cheater” a reality, or can cheaters change? Adam and Sarah talk about the different types of cheating, discuss micro cheating, and analyze when insecurities and jealousy are your enemy. Also in this episode, Adam dives into the deep end of dating and gets wet, and Sarah sets a new goal for fun in aviation!Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, honest, and hilarious podcast that focuses on all aspects of dating, sex, and relationships, promoting a lifestyle of transparency, openness, and healthy communication as a path to happiness. It is created, edited, and...2021-07-081h 23Dating Kinda SucksDating Kinda SucksHow Relationships EvolveRelationships aren't easy, especially as they evolve and grow over time, with partners sometimes growing in different directions. This week, your hosts talk about the evolution of your relationship over the long term. Also this week, Sarah prepares for a visit from her boyfriend, and Adam embraces the life of a hermit.Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, honest, and hilarious podcast that focuses on all aspects of dating, sex, and relationships, promoting a lifestyle of transparency, openness, and healthy communication as a path to happiness. It is created, edited, and produced by Sarah G. and Adam Heath...2021-06-251h 17Dating Kinda SucksDating Kinda SucksThe Friend Zone FallacyThe Friend Zone is not real! In this episode, Adam and Sarah break down the fallacy of the friend zone and explain why the very concept is non-existent and men should stop using it as an excuse to exhibit shitty or "nice guy" behavior. Learn how to break free from this toxic behavior and what true friendships actually are, and why women and men generally view friendships differently. Also in this episode: Sarah and Master of None look at the next step in their relationship, Adam goes on a date in his new temporary home, and your favorite podcast hosts...2021-06-111h 17Dating Kinda SucksDating Kinda SucksJumpstarting Your Sex DriveWhether you're in a relationship or on your own, your sex drive can vary drastically. In this week's episode, Sarah and Adam talk about ways to boost that sex drive into something that works for you and a partner (or you and your right hand). Also this week: Sarah and Master of None have some tension, and Adam talks about boner pills.Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, honest, and hilarious podcast that focuses on all aspects of dating, sex, and relationships, promoting a lifestyle of transparency, openness, and healthy communication as a path to happiness. It is...2021-05-151h 05Dating Kinda SucksDating Kinda SucksThe Importance of CommunicationFor years, Sarah and Adam have discussed the importance of communication without explaining how to communicate! It's about time - this episode they provide a set of tools to effectively and empathetically communicate in any type of interpersonal relationship. Also this week, Sarah celebrates a dating anniversary and Adam's life falls apart.Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, honest, and hilarious podcast that focuses on all aspects of dating, sex, and relationships, promoting a lifestyle of transparency, openness, and healthy communication as a path to happiness. It is created, edited, and produced by Sarah G. and Adam Heath...2021-04-131h 20The Angel at the Starlite MotelThe Angel at the Starlite Motel0211: I Am Neely DockpostIn the penultimate episode for season two, we find out about the seedy world of underage prostitution in Miami, as detailed by David and a young model he befriends. Plus, Shaquille O'Neal gets a random mention!The Angel at the Starlite Motel is a podcast centered around an anonymous man and his intimate encounters with ex-sex worker Mandi May Jackson, who was convicted of the 2016 murder of strip club manager Jimmy Mulrenin in 2020, as detailed in the anonymous man's book which was shared with host Adam Heath Avitable privately shortly after Mandi's sentencing. The author is convinced she was...2021-04-081h 20The Angel at the Starlite MotelThe Angel at the Starlite Motel0210: Teenage Ecstasy SlutIn this double chapter episode, David explains his theory that every stripper has at least one random guy following her around at all times, ready to rescue her from anything. Does his theory hold water? Listen and find out!The Angel at the Starlite Motel is a podcast centered around an anonymous man and his intimate encounters with ex-sex worker Mandi May Jackson, who was convicted of the 2016 murder of strip club manager Jimmy Mulrenin in 2020, as detailed in the anonymous man's book which was shared with host Adam Heath Avitable privately shortly after Mandi's sentencing. The author is...2021-03-251h 12Dating Kinda SucksDating Kinda SucksThe One About OrgasmsCumming to your ear holes this week is a brand new episode all about everyone's favorite type of happy ending - the orgasm! Sarah and Adam ejaculate all of the information you need to know about making your day jizztastic. Also in this episode, Adam rants about the transphobic Super Straight movement and Sarah teaches Adam something he never knew! Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, honest, and hilarious podcast that focuses on all aspects of dating, sex, and relationships, promoting a lifestyle of transparency, openness, and healthy communication as a path to happiness. It is created, edited, a...2021-03-161h 17The Angel at the Starlite MotelThe Angel at the Starlite Motel0209: Why Drug A CEO When You Can F*ck Him?David discovers what he considers the motivation behind Mandi's reputation being trashed by the other Dollhouse dancers after Mulrenin's death. Was it the "Hustlers at Scores" article, or was it something more nefarious? Listen to this relatively brief chapter with more commentary thanks to new co-host Marcela! Want more info? Get behind-the-scenes info on our Patreon at Patreon.com/angelmurder!The Angel at the Starlite Motel is a podcast centered around an anonymous man and his intimate encounters with ex-sex worker Mandi May Jackson, who was convicted of the 2016 murder of strip club manager Jimmy Mulrenin in 2020, as detailed...2021-03-1144 minDating Kinda SucksDating Kinda SucksHow Do You Flirt?By popular demand from our Dating Kinda Sucks Facebook group, Adam and Sarah tackle the tricky topic of flirting. How do you flirt with someone without coming off as a creep? When do you approach someone? What should your end goal be? When do you know it's safe to go say hi? Your hosts give some solid advice on being flirtatious, not dangerous. Also in this episode, Adam's on a dating reality show, Sarah gets farted on, and more love from trolls.Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, honest, and hilarious podcast that focuses on all aspects of...2021-03-051h 05The Angel at the Starlite MotelThe Angel at the Starlite Motel0208: Stop Them Twelve Inches ApartIn this episode, David dives into his history with sex workers to talk about the criminality of sex acts at strip clubs, in an attempt to understand why Mulrenin was so concerned about the law. Want more info? Get behind-the-scenes info on our Patreon at Patreon.com/angelmurder!The Angel at the Starlite Motel is a podcast centered around an anonymous man and his intimate encounters with ex-sex worker Mandi May Jackson, who was convicted of the 2016 murder of strip club manager Jimmy Mulrenin in 2020, as detailed in the anonymous man's book which was shared with host Adam Heath...2021-02-251h 04Dating Kinda SucksDating Kinda SucksAre You Codependent?What better way to follow up an episode about Valentine's Day than to look at codependency? Sarah and Adam talk about all of the ways that being codependent can show up in a relationship, and how best to deal with it. Is any form of codependency unhealthy? Are there good types? Listen and find out! Also in this episode: Adam rants, Sarah overshares, and what else is new?Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, honest, and hilarious podcast that focuses on all aspects of dating, sex, and relationships, promoting a lifestyle of transparency, openness, and healthy communication as...2021-02-161h 12The Angel at the Starlite MotelThe Angel at the Starlite Motel0207: The New Concept of Sexual HarassmentDavid meets James Mulrenin, the murder victim in our case, in a long and sometimes rambling chapter about his various encounters with the "angry, well-dressed doorman." Butting heads with management, being stalked, and getting strippers and bartenders fired left and right, David may have finally met his match. Want more? Get behind-the-scenes info on our Patreon at Patreon.com/angelmurder!To those of you who have been waiting since November for a new episode, I apologize for the delay, but we're back on schedule, and will remain on schedule for the foreseeable future. Thank you for all of...2021-02-112h 02Dating Kinda SucksDating Kinda SucksA COVID-19 Valentine's DayValentine's Day puts enough of a burden on couples even before a pandemic hit - what do you do during COVID-19? Sarah and Adam talk about the reality of Valentine's Day, ways to make the most of a commercial holiday, and how to handle the holiday if you're single. Also in this week's episode: Sarah's birthday disaster, Adam's great first date, and does a butthole look like a heart if you squint?Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, honest, and hilarious podcast that focuses on all aspects of dating, sex, and relationships, promoting a lifestyle of transparency, openness...2021-02-021h 14Dating Kinda SucksDating Kinda SucksCringiest Dating MomentsEveryone has that moment where they said or did something during a date that was cringeworthy and embarrassing. Some people have more than one! Sarah and Adam share some of their cringiest moments in dating, along with moments shared by listeners, and give a few tips on ways to avoid letting those little hiccups ruin your life. Also in this episode, both hosts have birthdays - Sarah's on 1/19 and Adam's on 1/26, so take a minute and wish them happy birthday!Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, honest, and hilarious podcast that focuses on all aspects of dating, sex...2021-01-191h 23Dating Kinda SucksDating Kinda SucksDating Affirmations for 2021Welcome to Season Four of Dating Kinda Sucks! Sarah and Adam talk through some good affirmations (NOT resolutions) that may make dating, sex, and interpersonal relationships easier as we move into 2021. What are your affirmations for this year? Also in this episode, Sarah's a Camry, Adam goes on a crazy date, and both hosts are experiencing some OnlyFans success!Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, honest, and hilarious podcast that focuses on all aspects of dating, sex, and relationships, promoting a lifestyle of transparency, openness, and healthy communication as a path to happiness. It is created, edited, and...2021-01-041h 28Dating Kinda SucksDating Kinda SucksIs It Time For A Dating Detox?For the last episode of the year, Sarah and Adam talk about when it's a good time to give yourself a break from dating and focus on yourself for a bit. There's no timeline and no deadline, but everyone needs a break occasionally, especially during this clusterf*ck of a year! Also in this episode, Sarah survives Thanksgiving dinner, Adam looks forward to getting his ass blasted, and the two talk more about Sarah's newest podcast, Millennial Toes!Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, honest, and hilarious podcast that focuses on all aspects of dating, sex, and relationships...2020-12-071h 08The Angel at the Starlite MotelThe Angel at the Starlite Motel0206: That Shampoo Hair SmellThe origin story of David the author keeps going! We get to hear more about his early pre-Mandi life as he starts to learn about the strip clubs in Orlando and has some good, bad and arguably neutral experiences in various clubs throughout Orlando. David's life is arguably as interesting as Mandi's, even if it has little to do with the murder of James Mulrenin. Want more? Get behind-the-scenes info on our Patreon at Patreon.com/angelmurder!The Angel at the Starlite Motel is a podcast centered around an anonymous man and his intimate encounters with ex-sex worker Mandi...2020-11-1948 minThe Angel at the Starlite MotelThe Angel at the Starlite Motel0205: A Tense Date At Sushi SambaArguably our favorite chapter this season, David gives his origin story. Where did the obsession with strippers and strip clubs come from? Why the distaste for sex workers? Was Mandi May Jackson the first girl he ever had sex with? Was she the prettiest, according to him? A lot of groundwork is laid for us to understand the mentality and sometimes odd perspective of our anonymous author.The Angel at the Starlite Motel is a podcast centered around an anonymous man and his intimate encounters with ex-sex worker Mandi May Jackson, who was convicted of the 2016 murder of strip...2020-11-0550 minThe Angel at the Starlite MotelThe Angel at the Starlite Motel0204: The Human Ken DollThis chapter seems to lay the groundwork for explaining why everyone is so quick to assume that Mandi May Jackson killed James Mulrenin. In a not-so-clear flashback, David recounts a conversation he has with an employee of Thee Dollhouse about Mulrenin's death and how it was treated by the police who visited the club. Was Mulrenin a predator who forced dancers to go home with him? Or was Mandi a willing visitor to his place that fateful night? We'll begin to find out as the book continues.  And don't forget - for more details and behind-the-scenes information on Mandi, David, a...2020-10-2250 minThe Angel at the Starlite MotelThe Angel at the Starlite Motel0203: Run On a Brain-Damaged Young GirlDavid wants you to understand why Mandi didn't see anything wrong with spending money with the deceased Mulrenin's credit cards, and lays out his theories and analysis in great detail in this week's episode. Was Mulrenin a scam artist who trained Mandi too well? Or does she understand the difference between plastic and cash? Listen and decide!  And if you want more details and behind-the-scenes information never before seen, as well as access to episodes before they're available to the general public, become a patron at Patreon.com/angelmurder today!The Angel at the Starlite Motel is a podcast c...2020-10-0857 minThe Angel at the Starlite MotelThe Angel at the Starlite Motel0202: She Was The Fresh StrawberryIn the second episode of season 2, our author starts to piece together why Mandi was arrested, and begins his investigation into the background of murder victim James Mulrenin. Is his theory about Mandi and Mulrenin correct? Is Google a common denominator? Listen and find out! And if you want more details and behind-the-scenes information never before seen, become a patron at Patreon.com/angelmurder today!The Angel at the Starlite Motel is a podcast centered around an anonymous man and his intimate encounters with ex-sex worker Mandi May Jackson, who was convicted of the 2016 murder of strip club manager...2020-09-2446 minThe Angel at the Starlite MotelThe Angel at the Starlite Motel0201: Uniquely Benighted White Trash LowlifesWelcome to the first episode of Season Two of the Angel at the Starlite Motel, which covers the first two chapters of Part 2 of David's book. This part of the book will delve into the circumstances leading up to the murder of Jimmy Mulrenin, and promises to get darker with each episode. Want more after each episode? Become a patron at Patreon.com/angelmurder today!The Angel at the Starlite Motel is a podcast centered around an anonymous man and his intimate encounters with ex-sex worker Mandi May Jackson, who was convicted of the 2016 murder of strip club manager...2020-09-1050 minDating Kinda SucksDating Kinda SucksThe Search for Good Alone Time EntertainmentIn a quest to discover whether or not she enjoys adult films, Sarah has spent the past two weeks reviewing a veritable motherlode of alone time clips - a cornucopia, if you will - compiled by Adam. Watching everything from gay to fetish, trans to hotwife, Sarah's ready to talk about what she watched and what type of adult material is right for her. Want to see the clips she watched? Visit the episode page on DatingKindaSucks.com for the full list! Also in this episode, Sarah has important relationship needs, Adam's so lonely he got turned on by a v...2020-08-131h 44The Angel at the Starlite MotelThe Angel at the Starlite Motel0114 Season One Finale: A Knock At My Door"Fuck, look at me, David. I'm still fucking Mandi's life up five years after she made it clear she doesn't like me. Five years, 200 guys, 100 pounds, and two life sentences."We've reached the Season One finale of the Angel at the Starlite Motel. Season Two will begin in late August/early September, so stay tuned! In the meantime, you can get behind-the-scenes content and bonus episodes by joining the AATSM Patreon at Patreon.com/angelmurder! In this season finale, the author continues to wrestle for control for Mandi, but without even the means to reach her, he's relegated to...2020-07-3037 minThe Angel at the Starlite MotelThe Angel at the Starlite Motel0113: Drunk Middle-Aged Psycho"I sent her a message that I didn't believe her photos and captions were sincere. The look on her face was role-playing, acting. I had seen the same look in the picture she showed me with her pimp."The penultimate episode of Season One finds the author losing touch with Mandi after the restraining order. She goes incognito online, and he's desperately trying to hold onto whatever control he can. His world is crumbling, and his sanity doesn't stand a chance.The Angel at the Starlite Motel is a podcast centered around an anonymous man and his intimate...2020-07-2357 minThe Angel at the Starlite MotelThe Angel at the Starlite Motel0112: The Shattered Pieces Of Her Hope Chest"It just made me so angry. It's like they were gangbanging her over there, and they wouldn't even let her bring a stuffed animal in the house! And she preferred that over me!"As we near the end of Season One of the Angel at the Starlite Motel, Mandi's new relationship begins to chip at the author's sanity. His plans fail and he has no choice but to make desperate moves to regain some semblance of control over Mandi's life. Cracks begin to appear, and the whole thing starts to fall apart.The Angel at the Starlite Motel...2020-07-1650 minThe Angel at the Starlite MotelThe Angel at the Starlite Motel0111: The Way Sex Was Meant To Be"She told me that it is not the real thing unless it burns when you put it on your tongue. So I let her put it on her tongue, and it burned. She was ecstatic. . . "This week we learn a lot about the drug butanediol, although Adam still doesn't quite understand the appeal. Mandi talks about a new sex position, our author David uses her favorite drug as a solvent, and Mandi pukes. Twice. Plus, is this the end to sex between the author and Mandi? We'll see!The Angel at the Starlite Motel is a podcast centered...2020-07-0939 minThe Angel at the Starlite MotelThe Angel at the Starlite Motel0110: Poodle Boy"When I realized she was about to leave, I couldn't resist. 'How much to fuck you?' She said $500. I said, I don't have it how about $400? She said okay. On that day I got to have sex with the cutest prettiest sexiest hottest most beautiful girl ever born."In this episode, our author gets a name! Plus, we have jealousy, parental interference, stalking, streaming, and you'll never look at your Nana the same again. As you'll hear, we had a recording issue about halfway through the commentary, and the second half is garbled, static-filled, and hard to...2020-07-021h 08The Angel at the Starlite MotelThe Angel at the Starlite Motel0109: My Little Drug Kingpin"Every old guy wanted to have sex with her. Most guys didn't want her to have sex with other guys. Nobody else wanted her to have sex with old guys. And everybody wanted everything kept secret. So she told her high-school friends she was selling drugs, which was a socially acceptable explanation of where her money came from."Last week we found out that Mandi got arrested in Georgia. In this episode, we learn what happened, as well as a valuable lesson that you are the company you keep. After the reading, Lisa Crawford and Adam Heath Avitable...2020-06-251h 02The Angel at the Starlite MotelThe Angel at the Starlite Motel0108: Showing Up in Short Shorts"I said, 'Our relationship is weird.' Mandi had a fit, and just about burst into tears. She said, 'It's not weird. I'm your ho.'"Mandi has a secret, and someone is jealous. From strip clubs to servings of cocaine, Mandi's latest adventure causes some havoc with the author. And what a cliffhanger! Your host and narrator Adam Heath Avitable once again breaks down what he just read with some post-reading commentary with Lisa Crawford.The Angel at the Starlite Motel is a podcast centered around an anonymous man and his intimate encounters with ex-sex...2020-06-1851 minThe Angel at the Starlite MotelThe Angel at the Starlite Motel0107: Forty-One Forever"Her tone was not fucking around, like a terminal cancer patient in his last month. You would have thought I left her crippled."In these two chapters, the author finds out a secret that he uses to further isolate and control Mandi. Hatching a crazy plan that couldn't possibly work, he puts his trust in the government that he despises. Does he realize he's the same as the monsters he protects her from? Your host and narrator Adam Heath Avitable once again breaks down two crazy and compelling chapters during some post-reading commentary with Lisa Crawford.The Angel...2020-06-1156 minThe Angel at the Starlite MotelThe Angel at the Starlite Motel0106: Like A Dog That Stares At Its Owner"She was working at Dancers Royale. She said, 'You should come visit me at Dancers. We have girls you would like, really young ones.' Of course, Mandi assumed I was eager to pay for sex with young girls."In the two chapters covered this episode, the author helps Mandi celebrate her birthday, makes a home inspection, and learns something new that changes his relationship with Mandi May Jackson. From complicated sex math to interracial gangbangs, you won't know what to expect, and just wait for some great post-episode commentary with host Adam Heath Avitable and guest Lisa Crawford!2020-06-041h 10The Angel at the Starlite MotelThe Angel at the Starlite Motel0105: Little White Girl on a Leash"So I rented the honeymoon suite and waited. Finally she got there, to talk to me about how she was kidnapped and beaten, and I needed to save her. She looked around the room, and sat on the bed. I said, 'Do you want to talk? Do you want to have sex? Do you want to do one, then the other?'"In a chapter titled "Revenge of the Pimp," the author begins to enact a plan that will alienate all of Mandi May Jackson's present and future clients and make her dependent on him for money and friendship...2020-05-281h 13The Angel at the Starlite MotelThe Angel at the Starlite Motel0104: After Midnight"This presented an opportunity to be in contact and develop rapport without having to stick my dick in her. So I said I will pay for it. And I sent $1300 through Western Union. And just like that, I had her real name . . . Mandi May Jackson. So I looked her up. And I saw she was 19, which was a relief. Then I saw that she lived on the same street as her father, like 500 feet away. That was a problem."Another week, another chapter in the crazily compelling book by an anonymous author detailing all of his most intimate...2020-05-2142 minThe Angel at the Starlite MotelThe Angel at the Starlite Motel0103: Dollhouse of Her Mind"It was an incomprehensible hybrid of a child dressed up in hooker clothes like she was going on 40. She looked like she raided her mother's closet, and dressed up like what she thought a hooker should look like. It had an effect similar to Jodie Foster in "Taxi Driver," but I knew she was too young to have seen that movie."Our anonymous author meets Mandi for the first time in the chapter that explains some questions and leads right into the events of his opening chapter, discussed in our first episode. Post-episode commentary provided once again by Adam...2020-05-1446 minThe Angel at the Starlite MotelThe Angel at the Starlite Motel0102: The Hooker Pages"A moment later, I got a text with her face picture. She was stunning. I was born with a picture of a girl in my head, and that is the picture I had just received in my phone. Assuming it was real. I began to feel bad. Here was a decent and honest person, and I had just tricked her into sending a face picture against her wishes, and under false pretenses, when I had no intention of doing business. Real hooker ads say things like 'No pic collectors. No time wasters. Do not call until you are ready to...2020-05-0755 minThe Angel at the Starlite MotelThe Angel at the Starlite Motel0101: Bag of Tiny Bones"I just walked out of a courtroom where a 24-year-old girl received two life sentences without the possibility of parole. I remember the first night I actually met her. February 7, 2015.I arrived at the Starlite Motel about 30 minutes early. Or at least outside the motel. I didn't know how long it might take to get there on a motorcycle. What I had come to see was hard to believe, and was just as likely to be an underage sex sting. I walked up and down the block, to make sure no undercover police were taking up positions. But I...2020-04-3036 minThe Angel at the Starlite MotelThe Angel at the Starlite MotelThe Angel at the Starlite Motel TrailerEscort and stripper Mandi May Jackson is serving two consecutive life sentences for the murder of Orlando strip club manager James Mulrenin. Did she do it or was she framed? There's only way to find out. Subscribe now. New episodes every week. Narrated, edited, and produced by Adam Heath Avitable. Content provided by anonymous. Music by Elyssa Coultas.--- Support this podcast: https://patreon.com/angelmurder2020-04-2301 minSarah Fader The PodcastSarah Fader The PodcastInevitably AvitableAn internationally touring comedian who became a viral sensation across the globe, Adam Heath Avitable demonstrates to audiences everywhere why The Chive calls him one of the Top 25 Comics to Watch, and why he was called “Perhaps the Funniest Man in Orlando” by the Orlando Business Journal. From George Takei to Ashton Kutcher, everyone’s talking about Avitable. The author of the best-selling humor book “Interviews with Dead Celebrities”, he has earned a reputation as a “wickedly sharp writer, dark and funny, twisted in all the right ways.” Follow him on Twitter @Avitable2017-03-1532 min