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Couples Chronicles with Lloyd & AfiyaWhat should you do if you find out about an indescribable past?In this episode of Couples Chronicles with Lloyd & Afiya, we’re diving into the complexities of influence, trust, and transparency in relationships. How much say should your partner really have in your decision-making? Where’s the line between support and control?We also unpack the impact of the past—how much should it matter, and what happens when you uncover something unsettling after the fact? The recent Cassie and Alex situation gives us a lot to think about.Plus, we’re asking the uncomfortable but necessary question: is it inapprop...2025-06-3047 minCouples Chronicles with Lloyd & AfiyaIs Social Media taking over the #1spot for breakups?In this episode of Couples Chronicles with Lloyd & Afiya, things get real as we unpack some of the most talked-about relationship dynamics. First up: Does consent truly work both ways, and are both partners being equally heard in intimate moments? Then we dive into the emotional terrain of proposals—is it wrong for a woman to return or reject a ring, and how should a man process that rejection? We also explore the impact of digital life on love—is social media becoming the #1 reason for breakups and divorce in today’s world? And you know we couldn’t close ou...2025-06-1040 minCouples Chronicles with Lloyd & AfiyaHas Shannon Sharpe gone too far?In this episode of Couples Chronicles with Lloyd & Afiya, we’re diving headfirst into some sizzling headlines and thought-provoking conversations. First up, we’re unpacking the buzz around Shannon Sharpe and asking the real question: is there an age gap between a man and a woman that crosses the line? We also explore the double standards in society when the roles are reversed—especially in high-profile situations like Draya and Jalen Green, where her son and her partner are the same age. Next, we examine the psychology behind why older men are often drawn to younger women and vice versa—...2025-05-1440 minCouples Chronicles with Lloyd & AfiyaCan two alphas create a sustainable relationship?In this episode of Couples Chronicles with Lloyd & Afiya, we dive deep into modern relationship dynamics by examining a series of provocative questions that challenge traditional norms. We begin by exploring whether two dominant, “alpha” personalities can forge a sustainable, long-term connection, analyzing how their strengths and challenges might either clash or complement each other. Next, we tackle the ongoing debate about whether there’s a universal “break time” one should observe between relationships or if the ideal pause simply depends on an individual’s personal journey and emotional readiness. Finally, we address a culturally nuanced query: is it appropriate—...2025-04-1544 minCouples Chronicles with Lloyd & AfiyaIs Makeup Sex a Positive Outlet? Or Does it Mask the actual problem?In this episode of Couples Chronicles with Lloyd & Afiya, we dive into the complexities of forgiveness in relationships—can you truly forgive and forget, and if so, what does that process look like? We also explore the role of make-up sex: is it a healthy way to reconnect, or just a temporary distraction from deeper issues? Plus, we discuss the societal perceptions of single fathers versus single mothers—are they viewed through the same lens, or do double standards come into play? Tune in as we break down these thought-provoking topics with real talk, personal experiences, and expert insights.2025-04-0140 minCouples Chronicles with Lloyd & AfiyaEthical Non-Monogamy, Parental Choice, and the Need for ClosureIn this episode of Couples Chronicles with Lloyd & Afiya, we dive into some of the most thought-provoking conversations in modern relationships. With Kofi and Omarion recently expressing their views on ethical non-monogamy, we explore what this term really means and whether it can work in today’s dating landscape. We also tackle the controversial question: Should a man have the right to opt out of parenthood the way a woman can? Is true equality possible in this discussion? Lastly, we break down why so many people feel the need for closure after a breakup—does it actually help, or is i...2025-03-1656 minCouples Chronicles with Lloyd & AfiyaAre men struggling to handle powerful women, or are women unwilling to embrace traditional relationship dynamics?In this episode of Couples Chronicles with Lloyd & Afiya, we dive into some of the biggest relationship debates. Should people prioritize their personal goals or relationships first? Is it possible to balance both, or does one always take a backseat? We also tackle the ongoing discussion about strong, independent women and submission, ”are men struggling to handle powerful women, or are women unwilling to embrace traditional relationship dynamics?Next, we explore the controversial topic of first-date finances. Is there a price limit on a first date, and what happens if a woman orders significantly more than expected? Sh...2025-02-171h 00Couples Chronicles with Lloyd & AfiyaAre Dating Apps Desperate or Intentional?In this episode of Couples Chronicles with Lloyd & Afiya, we dive into some of the most debated relationship topics. Is it more of a red flag for someone to be older and never married, or for someone to have been married multiple times? We unpack what each scenario could mean and whether past relationship history should be a dealbreaker. Then, we tackle the age-old question: Why can’t men handle what they put women through? If the tables were turned, would they be able to endure the same emotional struggles they often create? Next, we explore whether a relationship ca...2025-01-2950 min
Brown Mama BearEpisode 155: PsychoHAIRapy with Dr. AfiyaHost Shanera Williamson talks with the founder and CEO of PsychoHairapy, Dr. Afiya Mbilishaka. As a clinical psychologist and natural hairstylist, Dr. Afiya provides mental health support through the art of hairstyling and barbering. Connect with Dr. Afiya and PsychoHairapy: Website, Instagram, LinkedIn Connect with Shanera and Brown Mama Bear: Facebook, Instagram, Website Make sure you share Brown Mama Bear with at least 3 friends so you have someone to talk with about these things. 2025-01-2129 minCouples Chronicles with Lloyd & AfiyaCan someone you have sex with be only a friend?In this episode of Couples Chronicles with Lloyd & Afiya, we tackle some of the most thought-provoking questions about relationships and personal boundaries. Is going back to an ex or a past relationship a chance to make things right or simply a bad idea? We also explore whether someone you’ve been intimate with can truly remain “just a friend.” When it comes to honesty in relationships, we ask the tough question: do people lie because they care, or is it because they don’t care enough? Lastly, we discuss engagement timelines and how long a couple...2025-01-1552 min
The Binti PodcastOur HAIR is our CROWN! w/Dr. Afiya Mbilishaka, Ph.D.In this episode we are joined by therapist, research-scientist, hair historian, and hairstylist Dr. Afiya Mbilishaka to discuss the relationship between hair and puberty. We discuss hair as an important element of rites of passage and an expression of maturation. Dr. Mbilishaka also gives us some tips for using haircare to bring bintis and mamas closer together. Finally, we discuss Dr. Afiya's work as an author, stylist, and specialist for the CROWN ACT.For more information about Dr. Afiya's work. Check out her book: https://www.sankofa.com/blank-2/laid-to-the-side-disrupting-the-silence-of-black-girls-hair-stories-in-schooland her instagram: https://www...2024-12-3117 minCouples Chronicles with Lloyd & AfiyaShould You Return the Ring? When Engagements Don’t End in ‘I Do’In this episode of Couples Chronicles with Lloyd & Afiya, we dive into some of the most debated topics in modern relationships. Should you return an engagement ring if the wedding never happens, or does it depend on the circumstances? We also tackle the question of dating etiquette—when searching for “the one,” is it better to date multiple people at once or focus on one person at a time? The conversation heats up as we discuss how long you should wait before having sex in a new relationship—does timing really matter, or is it all a...2024-12-2257 min
Rajen and Afiya: Our Life, Our LoveChristmas Special || Interracial Couple Ep. 7In this Christmas special episode of Our Life, Our Love podcast, Rajen and Afiya talk about what Christmas means to us and reflect on some of our favorite holiday movies and songs. We also dive into the pressure that can come with celebrating the season, sharing our thoughts on balancing joy and expectations. While it’s a fun and lighthearted conversation filled with holiday cheer, we also touch on some deeper experiences and lows we’ve faced along the way. It’s a mix of joy, reflection, and heartfelt moments. To those celebrating, we wish you a wonderful Christmas, and for...2024-12-2250 min
The Resilient Heart PodcastMotherhood and Entrepreneurship: Afiya Al-Fayiz’s Journey as a Mindset CoachMotherhood and entrepreneurship are two powerful journeys that can intertwine to create a path of empowerment and success for single mothers. The key lies in cultivating a resilient mindset that transforms challenges into opportunities. By embracing their unique strengths – multitasking abilities, creativity, and problem-solving skills – single mothers can leverage these qualities to thrive in the business world. Remember, being a single mom is not a setback but a wellspring of invaluable experiences that can fuel entrepreneurial success. With determination, self-belief, and a positive outlook, single mothers can break barriers, create financial independence, and build a legacy that inspires their chil...2024-12-1235 minCouples Chronicles with Lloyd & AfiyaWhy Do Women like Bad Boys?!In this episode of Couples Chronicles with Lloyd & Afiya, we dive into some of the most intriguing and controversial relationship topics. Why do women often gravitate toward “bad boys”? How can you approach your partner about sexual dissatisfaction without hurting the relationship? We also explore whether dating apps and reality shows actually lead to lasting love and discuss the right time to introduce finances into a relationship. To top it off, the tea is piping hot as we unpack Lisa Raye’s candid remarks about her preference for dating only rich, successful, and powerful men. Join us for thought-provoking insigh...2024-12-0355 min
From Roots To Froots9: Building wealth for retirement: Pensions and Estate Planning with Afiya TitusWelcome to From Roots To Froots, your financial wellness Podcast!In this engaging conversation, Arlyne and Afiya (Co-founder - Coco Financial) explore the often misunderstood world of accounting and personal finance.Afiya shares her journey from a chartered accountant to an entrepreneur, emphasising on the importance of demystifying finance for business owners and individuals alike.They discuss the significance of understanding personal finance, the necessity of pension awareness, and the differences between state and private pensions. Fi provides valuable insights into pension contributions, tax benefits, and the importance of planning for...2024-11-2750 minCouples Chronicles with Lloyd & Afiya“Fear of Marriage or Fear of the Wrong Person?”In this episode of Couples Chronicles with Lloyd & Afiya, the duo dives deep into some of the most thought-provoking questions about love, relationships, and the complexities of dating. What’s more important in a relationship—love or respect? Are men truly afraid of marriage, or is it the fear of marrying the wrong person? They also explore why so many couples spend more time dating than they do married and unravel why dating seems so difficult for many people in today’s world. As always, Lloyd and Afiya bring their unfiltered perspectives, relatable stories, and the perfect blend of humor...2024-11-2551 minCouples Chronicles with Lloyd & AfiyaWho Comes First? Balancing Partners, Kids, and Independence in LoveIn this episode of Couples Chronicles with Lloyd & Afiya, we dive into some of the complex dynamics that shape modern relationships. We start by examining why strong women are often labeled as “too masculine” or “difficult” when they assert their opinions. Why do stereotypes arise when women are unapologetic about their views, and what does that say about society’s perceptions? We then explore the fine line between being polite and being too friendly in relationships, discussing how seemingly small interactions can have a big impact and what respectful boundaries might look like. Next, we tackle a q...2024-11-1150 minCouples Chronicles with Lloyd & AfiyaFrom Breaks to Boundaries: Real Talk on Love, Loyalty, and Life’s Tough ChoicesIn this episode of Couples Chronicles with Lloyd & Afiya, we dive into the complex questions that often arise in modern relationships. First, we discuss whether taking a break in a relationship can truly work and under what circumstances it might help or harm a partnership. We also explore the life-altering question of what happens if an unplanned pregnancy occurs—examining the potential impact on the relationship dynamic and each partner’s individual journey. Next, we talk about the role of friendship in couple dynamics, specifically whether couples who are friends should hold one another acco...2024-10-2952 minCouples Chronicles with Lloyd & Afiya“Should Stepparents Say ‘My Kids’? Plus, DNA Tests and Who Cheats More”In this thought-provoking episode of Couples Chronicles, Lloyd and Afiya dive deep into some of the most sensitive and controversial questions around family dynamics, trust, and fidelity. They explore whether step-parents should refer to their stepchildren as their own, touching on the complexities of blended families and how labels can impact relationships.Next, they discuss the idea of mandatory DNA tests at birth. Should it be standard practice, and how might that affect trust between partners? They also tackle the tricky question of whether it’s okay for a partner to feel uneasy if asked for a DN...2024-10-2247 min
Pandora's Awareness Podcast🌟 The Woman with the Professional Homeless Life | Afiya 🌟Send us a textGet ready for a mind-expanding episode of Pandora's Awareness Podcast featuring the inspiring Afiya Al-Fayiz! 🏠🌍Explore revolutionary insights on:• 🧳 The concept of "professional homeless life"• 🇺🇸 Redefining the American Dream• 🌱 Minimalism and freedom from materialism• 🌎 America's role as the world's "Big Brother"Meet our extraordinary guest:Afiya Al-Fayiz: CEO and Co-founder of Underdog Millionaire, mindset coach, and business consultantDiscover:• 🏝️ Life-changing travel experiences and favorite destinations• 👶 The transformative journey...2024-10-0352 minCouples Chronicles with Lloyd & AfiyaIntroducing Your Children to your Partner, Fertility Dealbreakers, and Pickiness Vs PreferenceIn this episode of Couples Chronicles with Lloyd & Afiya*, we dive into some thought-provoking questions that many face when navigating relationships. First, we explore the timing of introducing your partner to important people in your life, including friends and children—when is the right moment? Next, we tackle the sensitive topic of infertility and whether the inability to have children is considered a dealbreaker in a relationship. We also discuss the impact of age gaps between partners, asking if there's an "appropriate" range that fosters a healthier connection. Lastly, we address the fine line between being too picky versus si...2024-09-3051 minCouples Chronicles with Lloyd & AfiyaThe Big 4: Navigating Sex, Celibacy, Attraction, and Second MarriagesIn this episode of "Couples Chronicles with Lloyd & Afiya," we tackle four of the most challenging questions that many couples face today. First, we explore whether waiting until marriage to have sex is still relevant in modern relationships—should we bring back the old-school approach, or leave it in the past? Next, we discuss the potential impact on a relationship when one partner decides to embrace celibacy—can love survive such a significant shift? We also dive into the sensitive topic of attraction within a relationship, asking whether it’s ever okay to admit to your partner that you’re becom...2024-08-2746 minCouples Chronicles with Lloyd & AfiyaThe Big 4: Navigating Sex, Celibacy, Attraction, and Second Marriages"In this episode of "Couples Chronicles with Lloyd & Afiya," we tackle four of the most challenging questions that many couples face today. First, we explore whether waiting until marriage to have sex is still relevant in modern relationships—should we bring back the old-school approach, or leave it in the past? Next, we discuss the potential impact on a relationship when one partner decides to embrace celibacy—can love survive such a significant shift? We also dive into the sensitive topic of attraction within a relationship, asking whether it’s ever okay to admit to your partner that you’re becom...2024-08-2649 min
De-Influenced with Dani + JordanBONUS EPISODE: Hair Loss & Mental Health with Dr. AfiyaHello De-Influencers!!
Surprise!! We have a BONUS episode for you this week! In this episode we sit down with Clinical Psychologist, Dr. Afiya Mbilishaka.
Dr. Afiya shares her mission to equip barbers and hairdressers with mental health skills to better serve their clients.
As you all know I have my own hair loss story and have experienced firsthand how your hair can negatively impact your mental health.
In this episode I go in-depth about my hair loss story with Dr. Afiya. Through this conversation we talk about the connection between hair an...2024-08-1544 minCouples Chronicles with Lloyd & AfiyaModern Love Dynamics: Power, Financial Expectations, and Social ApprovalIn this episode of Couples Chronicles with Lloyd & Afiya we explore the complexities of modern relationships and the questions that challenge traditional norms. We start by examining whether the person who earns the most money in a relationship expects to have the most power or say, discussing how financial dynamics can impact roles and influence within partnerships. Next, we dive into the expectation that men should pay all the bills in a committed relationship, considering the historical context and how changing societal norms are redefining financial responsibilities for both partners. We also address the question of whether it is...2024-08-1247 minCouples Chronicles with Lloyd & AfiyaWhat’s More Important Great Sex or Great Partnership in a Relationship?In this episode of Couples Chronicles with Lloyd & Afiya we dive deep into the heart of relationship dynamics by answering some of the most compelling and controversial questions. We begin by exploring the age-old debate: what's more important in a relationship, partnership or great sex? We discuss the essential balance between emotional connection and physical intimacy, and how each contributes to a fulfilling partnership. Next, we tackle the contentious issue of whether couples should go through each other's phones. Is digital transparency a sign of trust, or does it infringe on personal privacy? We then move on to the...2024-07-2247 min
International Interludes: Love & Adventure AbroadNavigating DEI and Travel Content Creation with Dr. AfiyaEver wondered what it's like to explore the world through the eyes of a passionate Black traveler? Join us as we reconnect with Dr. Afiya, a brilliant content creator and DEI consultant, and share a heartwarming reunion story from our days in the Nomadness Travel Tribe in Philadelphia. Dr. Afiya opens up about her academic beginnings at Temple University and the profound impact of studying abroad in Ghana, where she felt the empowering experience of being surrounded by people who look like her. You'll also hear about her favorite Ghanaian delicacies and treasured memories from her numerous trips to...2024-06-121h 16
Sunbeam ChatsLoud by Afiya Fashion Label W/ Afiya BishopSend us a textAfiya Bishop is a Fashion Designer & Founder of Loud by Afyia. This Fashion Label with its iconic bold, bright colours and exotic prints is an expression of self-love, self-expression and empowerment.With several collections, under her belt, designer to the stars, productions and presentations at regional and international shows, Afiya is one of the Caribbean’s brightest Fashion entrepreneurs and stars.In this conversation Afiya shares her story. The origins, the evolution of her label and how her business acumen has helped her build one of...2024-06-1249 min