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Come Talk with AimeeTurned On by the Truth: The Power of Real Erotica with Carly PiferWhat happens when we stop whispering about desire and start telling the truth about it?In this episode of Come Talk with Aimee, I’m joined by Carly Pifer, founder of Read Aurore, a platform dedicated to sharing real, confessional erotica. Not fantasy wrapped in perfection, but honest stories about sex, longing, curiosity, and the messy, beautiful reality of being human in a body.We talk about why storytelling can be such a powerful gateway to understanding our desires, how writing about pleasure can shift shame into self-awareness, and why seeing real experiences reflected back to...
2026-02-1248 min
Come Talk with AimeeStepping Into Your Pleasure Power | Quickie EpisodeWhat does it actually mean to step into your pleasure power?In this quickie episode, I'm getting personal and sharing my own journey from purity culture to tapping into my pleasure power. I’m pulling back the curtain on how I reclaimed my pleasure and share about how I went from thinking "sex isn't fun" to discovering what my body is truly capable of. This is the story of how I went from having painful, controlled sex in my marriage to fully owning my erotic self. It's about the 3 P's...
2026-02-0525 min
Come Talk with AimeeRewriting Your Sex Script: Letting Go of Performance and Reclaiming Pleasure with Ian KernerSo, tell me about the last time you had sex… In this episode, I had the privilege of interviewing New York Times bestselling author and sex therapist Ian Kerner, whose books She Comes First and So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex have deeply influenced how I think about pleasure, intimacy, and sexual connection. Ian joins me for a grounded, refreshing conversation about sex scripts, performance pressure, desire, and why so many people feel disconnected from pleasure even when they’re doing everything “right.”We talk about...
2026-01-2948 min
Come Talk with AimeeBehind the Scenes of a Fun, Safe, and Well-Vetted Play Party with Le OrganizerIf you have ever been curious about play parties but also slightly terrified, confused, or convinced it is just one big chaotic orgy, this episode is for you. Consider this your permission slip to get informed before you go out to play. In this episode, I sit down with Le Organizer, a longtime play party host and event producer, for a no-BS conversation about what actually happens at play parties and how to navigate them safely. We break down the biggest misconceptions, why most play parties are far more social than sexual, and how c...
2026-01-2247 min
Come Talk with AimeeWhy Women Are Obsessed with Heated Rivalry with Rebecca GiguereIf you have not watched Heated Rivalry yet, get off this podcast and start watching. No, seriously this episode will have a lot of spoilers. In this episode, I have my first-ever repeat guest, Rebecca Giguere, intimacy researcher, relationship coach, and the person fully responsible for wrecking my emotional stability by recommending this series to me. We break down why women everywhere are losing their minds over this show, from the slow burn tension and locker room glances to the emotional vulnerability, tenderness, and male softness we rarely get to see on screen. We g...
2026-01-1557 min
Come Talk with AimeeWomen-Led Casual Sex: Getting What You Actually Came For with Jordan D'NellePhysician assistant, intimacy educator, and podcast host Jordan D’Nelle joins me on the show for a bold, honest, no-sugarcoating conversation about casual sex, casual relationships, and how to actually enjoy them without losing yourself. From defining what casual really means to calling out the double standards women still face, we get into the real mechanics of having sex for pleasure without shame, confusion, or emotional burnout. We talk about why intention matters, how assumptions wreck the dynamic, and why self-respect is the sexiest boundary you can have.We talk about:How to...
2026-01-0848 min
Come Talk with AimeeWhen Making People Laugh is Almost as Good as Making Them Come with Rick YoungerStand-up comedian and Broadway star Rick Younger joins me on the podcast for a hilariously real, no-filter conversation about sex, comedy, and the art of being a grown-ass man. From his legendary reputation as "the guy who's not afraid to eat the pussy" to navigating the wild worlds of stand-up, acting, and ethical porn, Rick leaves no stone (or taboo) unturned. We get into the hilarious truths about bedroom awkwardness, why men need to stop treating every pussy like the last one, and how a sense of humor is the ultimate aphrodisiac. We talk a...
2025-12-2544 min
Come Talk with AimeeUnbed Men, Incels, and the Crisis of Male Connection with Robyn SilberWhy are so many men not getting laid, and why does sex feel so out of reach for so many men? In this episode, I sit with former Google engineer and creator Robyn Silber for a direct, honest conversation about unbed men, incels, the manosphere, and what is actually blocking connection for men today. We unpack why this is not just a dating or sex problem, but a deeper issue rooted in loneliness, emotional disconnection, and missing relational skills.We talk about: why being unbed is not the same as being an incel...
2025-12-1837 min
Come Talk with AimeeForbidden Alchemy: Transmuting Taboo Into Erotic MedicineTRIGGER WARNING: SEXUAL ABUSE, INCEST There is no shame in wanting a life that feels more alive, more erotic, and more deeply connected to your body.In this episode, I sit with erotic mystic and author Sharon Marie Scott for a conversation on desire, sovereignty, kink, and the alchemy that happens when you finally let yourself want more. We explore Sharon Marie’s work in forbidden alchemy, including how pleasure becomes a spiritual technology, why shame points us toward our deepest healing, and how kink can be a tool for...
2025-12-1150 min
Come Talk with AimeeThe Secret to Mind-Blowing Pleasure with Pleasure Dom Sir MarvelousThere is no shame in craving deeper pleasure, and there is no shame in wanting sex that feels more intentional and responsive to your body.In this episode, I sit with Pleasure Dom, Sir Marvelous for a conversation on what truly creates mind-blowing pleasure. We explore the foundations of real pleasure through patience, anticipation, presence, and the psychology of arousal. Sir Marvelous breaks down edging, sensual dominance, temperature play, rope, fire, and the illusion of danger, along with why vibrators, clitoral stimulation, and thoughtful touch should be standard in every bedroom. We also talk...
2025-12-0446 min
Come Talk with AimeeGiving, Receiving, and Saying No With Confidence | Quickie EpisodeThere is no shame in wanting what you want, and there is no shame in asking for it out loud.In my very first Quickie episode, I take you inside a moment from my Paint Your Pleasure event, where we guided a room full of people through a consent-based touch practice that cracked everyone open in the softest, sweetest ways. From neon lights to body paint to dry brush strokes on skin, the entire night was designed to invite people out of performance and into their real desires, and the transformation was electric. We...
2025-11-2715 minCome Talk with AimeeLearning The Patterns That Reveal Domestic Abuse with Eunice BrownleeTRIGGER WARNING: Domestic Violence There is a kind of harm that does not leave bruises, yet leaves a mark on your entire life.In this episode, I sit with speaker and advocate Eunice Brownlee for a conversation that brings clarity to the subtle, confusing, and often invisible experience of coercive control. Eunice shares how a situationship that felt casual and harmless slowly shifted into a dynamic filled with manipulation, fear, and emotional exhaustion, long before she had the language to recognise it as abuse.T...
2025-11-2051 min
Come Talk with AimeeShedding Shame And Prioritizing Play And Pleasure with Bre GreenThere is no shame in pleasure, and there is no shame in kink.In this episode, I’m joined by certified sexologist and educator Bre Green for a conversation that’s equal parts healing and hot.Bre shares how she went from growing up in a deeply religious environment to reclaiming her sexuality through exploration, curiosity, and kink. We talk about why kink isn’t just about pain or power, rather it’s about safety, trust, and self-knowledge.From pleasure mapping and sensory play to negotiation, communication, and aftercare, Bre brea...
2025-10-2342 min
Come Talk with AimeeWhat Kink Taught Me About Safety, Power, and Self-Love with Lacey BondWhat if the most sacred thing you could do was not to “preserve your purity” but to reclaim your pleasure?In this episode, I sit down with Lacey Bond, a certified sex, relationship, and intimacy coach whose work focuses on purity culture, kink, and polyamory. Together, we dive into how growing up in religious purity culture can shape your relationship with your body, your boundaries, and your ability to feel safe in intimacy and how kink offers a way home to yourself.If you’ve ever been curious about how power play can be healing, what a...
2025-10-1552 min
Come Talk with AimeeTouchy Feely: A Game for Guiding Good Talk, Good Touch & Good Vibes with Candace JohnsonWhat if intimacy could feel like play? In this conversation, we take touch, connection, and communication out of the serious zone and make it fun again.In this episode, I’m joined by Candace Johnson, the creator of Touchy Feely, a game designed to help people connect more deeply through the power of touch and conversation. We talk about why touch isn’t just physical, how emotional intimacy shapes connection, and the different “levels” of closeness that make this game a total heart-opener.This game (and this conversation) is flirty...
2025-10-0956 minCome Talk with AimeeHow To Leave Without Ghosting Yourself with Naomi HattawayGhosting isn’t just something we do to others. We do it to ourselves when we stay too long, avoid the truth, or ignore what we really want. So how do you leave well, without abandoning yourself in the process?In this episode, I sit down with Naomi Hattaway, author and consultant on the art of Leaving Well. We dive into why endings feel so messy, how to know when it’s time to walk away, and what it really looks like to close a chapter with clarity and dignity.Na...
2025-09-1843 min
Come Talk with AimeeBetter Orgasms Start With Your Pelvic Floor (Featuring Elyse Sparkes)What if the key to hotter, more pleasurable sex was hiding in your pelvic floor? Most of us only hear about it after pregnancy, but pelvic floor health is for everyone. And yes, it can take your orgasms to the next level.In this episode, I sit down with movement coach and pelvic floor expert Elyse Sparkes to break down everything you need to know about your pelvis. We talk about why pelvic floor health matters beyond childbirth, how it impacts pleasure in the bedroom, and the biggest myths that need to be retired once and for...
2025-09-1152 min
Come Talk with AimeeThe Ex Factor: Behind The Blindfold (Feat. Catherine Drysdale and Amanda DamesWhat happens when you date three dominant men — blindfolded — and one of them is your ex? In this episode of Come Talk with Aimee, I sit down with Amanda, The Kink Consultant, and producer/host Catherine Drysdale to go behind the scenes of The Ex Factor, the bold live show where kink, chemistry, and past relationships collided on stage.We get into why Amanda said yes, how Catherine brought it to life, and what it means to center desire and sexual preferences in dating.Raw. Playful. Provocative. This is The Ex Factor, unmasked.
2025-09-041h 08
Come Talk with AimeeRelationship Anarchy: Love Unbound (Featuring Adriana Smith)What if love didn’t come with rules? Relationship anarchy challenges everything you think you know about commitment, desire, and connection—and it’s hotter than you might expect. 🔥In this episode of Come Talk with Aimee, I sit down with the brilliant Adriana Smith to explore how to craft relationships on your own terms—where honesty, autonomy, and radical desire lead the way. We talk about breaking free from labels, rewriting the “relationship escalator,” and embracing love that’s unapologetically yours.Whether you’re curious, adventurous, or ready to ignite your own love revolution, this episode is you...
2025-08-3036 min
Come Talk with AimeeDesire Doesn't Have Flaws - It Has Flavors (Featuring Angie Enger)Hot take: there’s nothing wrong with your desire—it just has a flavor, babe. Join Aimee and Angie Enger as they spill the tea on spontaneous vs. responsive desire, why ‘low libido’ is a total myth, and how to turn frustration into exploration. It’s time to stop feeling broken and start owning your unique, sexy blueprint.Connect with Angie Engerhttps://www.angieenger.com/https://www.angieenger.com/consultation-request-formhttps://www.angieenger.com/resources https://www.instagram.com/angieengercoachhttps://www.tiktok.com/@angie...
2025-08-2154 min
Come Talk with Aimee40 Ways To Come (Featuring Amari Leigh)Ready to blow the lid off your pleasure potential?In this juicy convo, Aimee and certified sex coach Amari Leigh dive deep into the world of orgasms, sexual wellness, and self-empowerment. From the orgasm gap in heterosexual dynamics to the power of self-exploration and communication, they unpack why so many of us are disconnected from pleasure — and how to reclaim it.You’ll learn:The difference between 40 types of orgasms (yes, really)Why the orgasm gap still exists — and how to challenge itHow to communicate your desires with more confide...
2025-08-0848 min
Come Talk with AimeeWhy We Should Be Talking Butt Stuff At Brunch (Ft. Whitaker Cohen)We’re kicking off Anal August with a bold convo on anal sex, female pleasure, and why butt stuff should absolutely be on the brunch menu. 🍑✨Aimee is joined by Whitaker Cohen, founder of AmorSui, to talk anatomy, aftercare, and how to center your pleasure — with zero shame. Whether you’re new to backdoor play or already a baddie, this one’s for you.We get into:Why anal play is about more than penetrationHow to center female pleasure in anal sexTalking about butt stuff with yo...
2025-08-0151 min
Come Talk with AimeeRegulation: The Real ForeplayBefore the heat, there has to be safety—and sometimes, pleasure is the pathway.In this episode, somatic sex coach Meryl Victoria joins Aimee to explore the powerful link between the nervous system and intimacy. From polyvagal theory to embodied arousal, we’re flipping the script on what turns you on.We dive into:How nervous system regulation sets the stage for deeper connectionWhy some bodies shut down—and how to invite them back onlineUsing sex as a tool for nervous system regulat...
2025-07-2445 min
Come Talk with AimeePleasure In The Pause with Brenda Braxton🔥 Pleasure in the Pause with Tony-Nominated Broadway Legend Brenda BraxtonWhat if menopause wasn’t the end of pleasure—but a powerful new beginning?This week, Aimee is joined by the fierce and fabulous Brenda Braxton—Tony-nominated actress, Broadway royalty, and founder of Pause by BBraxton. They get real about sex after 50, the myths that keep us silent, and how to keep the fire burning even as hormones shift.From hot flashes to hot nights, Brenda brings humor, heart, and unfiltered truth about embracing your body...
2025-06-1951 min
Come Talk with AimeeBoundaries Are Hot. Confusion Is Not - with Dakota RamppenIntentional intimacy doesn't leave you guessing - it comes with clarity, care, and damn good boundaries. In this episode, Aimee and Dakota unpack what it means to stop settling for crumbs and start owning your yes, your no, and your worth. If someone can't hold your "no," they don't deserve your "yes." Part of being healthy? Don't be a d*ck. Connect with Dakota Ramppenhttps://www.getrealwithdakota.com/https://www.instagram.com/getrealwithdakota/https://www.tiktok.com...
2025-06-1233 min
Come Talk with AimeeLove Without the LadderWhy does romance always get the spotlight—and everyone else becomes the understudy?In this spicy episode, I sit down with the brilliant Adam Fitzgerald to take a sledgehammer to relationship hierarchy—that cultural obsession with putting your romantic partner above all else. We unpack how this model often leads to co-dependency, unrealistic expectations, and emotional burnout.But here’s the truth: healthy relationships don’t happen in isolation. They need community—the friendships, chosen family, and support systems that queer folks have long known are essential to thriving love and i...
2025-06-0653 min
Come Talk with AimeeBanned, Blocked, But Not BrokenApparently, saying "clit" is more dangerous than spreading hate online - because when it comes to sex, the internet loses its damn mind. In this episode, I'm joined by Mandy Salley, COO of the Woodhull Freedom Foundation, to call out the hypocrisy, the censorship, and the very real fight for our right to talk about sex without getting digitally gagged. We're breaking down shadowbans, community guidelines that aren't so "community-friendly," and why sexual freedom is free speech. This convo? It's bold, unflitered, and absolutely necessary. Grab your headphones, your...
2025-05-3047 min
Come Talk with AimeeLube Your LifeIs your sex life feeling a little… dry? You’re not alone—and it’s time to change that. In this candid and unapologetically real episode, intimacy coach Aimee sits down with Orla Maguire, founder of Lubify, to talk about why personal lubricant is a game-changer for everyone.From increasing pleasure and reducing discomfort to enhancing intimacy and self-connection, we cover it all: how to choose the right lube for sex, why lube isn’t just for “older people” or “issues,” and how adding a little (or a lot) of slip can completely transform your solo or partn...
2025-05-2240 min
Come Talk with AimeeMaking an ImpactWhat does it mean to make an impact - on bodies systems, and culture? In this episode, Aimee is joined by the brilliant and bold Steph Zapata, a sexual health educator, anti-colonial organizer, and the visionary behind SLAM, a groundbreaking conference centering sex, liberation, and movement work. We dive into the layered world of impact play - from the physical sensations to the emotional and political power of consensual exchange. Steph shared how her work in sexuality and social justice intertwines, how pleasure can be radical, and why healing doesn't have to...
2025-05-1547 min
Come Talk with AimeeShining a Light on ShameSexual shame loves to lurk in the dark - but we're turning on the lights. In this honest and heart-opening conversation, I'm joined by the brilliant Rebecca Giguere to talk about why shame around sex runs so deep, how it shapes our lives, and what it really takes to break free. Expect real talk, a few laughs, and a whole lot of empowerment as we tackle the myths and messages that no longer serve us. It's time to rewrite the story -and it starts here. 💥💥💥💥Connect with Rebecca 💗https://www.instagram.com/u...
2025-05-0848 min